I Am Newly Single

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 222 People


    Is your relationship on the rocks, and you have to make a decision whether or not to try and make it work or break it off? Is it stagnant and you need help fixing it to make it work, or else you will have to make a clean break? Have you been keeping something from your partner...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews
    22-25, F
    Jan 15, 2014

    My Story

    Hey. I am just out of a 22 year relationship, my one and only in my life, I met my husband when I was 20, and he left me after he had an affair. I have never lived alone until 6 months ago. The hardest party is the loneliness. There has been days when I haven't spoken to...
    bigessexgirl bigessexgirl
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2013

    We Became A Statistic.

    My boyfriend and I started dating in December of 2010. I was a senior in high school. We both planned to go to college the following year. I went to a school in Massachusetts and he went to school in Vermont. We told ourselves that we could last through college, and we would...
    813emg93 813emg93
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2012

    And I'm kind of fine with it.

    ..? Of course I still love him, but he just refused to fix the poisonous aspects of his personality.. Oh well..
    LanniLette LanniLette
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

    The Right Decision

    I have been with my husband since I was 16yrs old, I am now 42. We were married when I was 18 he was my first. We have always has sexual tension...he wants it, I don't... But I always made the adjustments to keep us together. Well fast forward to a year and a half ago, I told my...
    Lovleyinpink Lovleyinpink
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2013

    Hope Your Happy

    You will never ever find another woman like me and you lost me. I was the best thing that came into your life and you blew it with bullshit. So good luck to you and the person that can deal with you like I did
    unforgettable77 unforgettable77
    41-45, F
    Jan 25, 2013

    I have recently broke up with someone of 6

    years. I was 17 when we started to date,it was a clean break up since he's much older he understands why i needed space, we been dating for so long i start losing track of who i really am as an individual.i want to take this time to learn more about my self without always having...
    BeYou1234 BeYou1234
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    My Heart Is Broken Again

    Originality i dated a woman 6 years older then me it lasted for 3 years until one day she came home and said she thinks i am not mature enough. That could have been ok but i found out she was sleeping with the guy who drove me to work. So in one fell swoop i lost my job (not...
    sock747 sock747
    22-25, M
    Apr 26, 2012

    She Just Walked Away

    A t first we would text almost all day, and at night, we would talk for five or six hours about anything that crossed our minds. I think I miss that the most. It didn't last very long, but I grew so close to her. After a few weeks it felt like I knew her for years. Then we met...
    AlwynMordoux AlwynMordoux
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2013


    Being newly single -- oh, who am I kidding, it ended about eight months ago and I kept a death grip on it til I moved to a different city -- seems to be an ongoing process. I find myself constantly sorting things out, wondering what was real and imaginary, if it was even love at...
    lolasinn7 lolasinn7
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2013

    Off The Market For 12 Years, Back On For 6 Months

    Hello! Just got out of a 12 year marriage with my unfaithful, abusive Marine. I started profiles on dating websites and have yet to meet any one that really interests me. Well, I did, but he turned out to be still married! :-( I cancelled all my dating website memberships...
    the16thdae the16thdae
    31-35, F
    Apr 25, 2013

    Just got out of a terrible 5 month relationship

    but I'm happy that I did it now it's time to be happy and move on!
    deleted deleted
    Jun 23, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Oct 8, 2013

    Up until last month my partner

    and I had been together for four and a half years. It's really hard to adjust back to a life caring for only yourself after so many years of having someone by your side every day. I cry a lot now.
    byroniouscat byroniouscat
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2014

    I dated a crazy *****

    for four years and have recently broken up with her. I am now single and ready to take on the world again. I live in Australia and am interested in women only. If you would like to chat message me and we can see where things go.
    Jakey6621 Jakey6621
    22-25, M
    Oct 24, 2014

    I Want To Sow My Wild Oats!

    I just agreed with my boyfriend (I guess he's still technically my boyfriend?) to take break for the next three months. But I don't think I need that much time to realize I don't want to get back together. At 27, I'm realizing I missed out on a lot of the fun that comes with...
    OmBeauty OmBeauty
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 6, 2013

    I was in a relationship with an amazing guy

    for 3 years...I made a surprise visit to him 2 months ago to find him and my cousin having sex in his bed...I left his place instantly and I have not talked to him or my cousin since...it hurts...I loved him and he just threw my heart in the ground and stomped on it
    JazzyBaby321 JazzyBaby321
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago.

    He said numerous times that he felt trapped. I have to realize that he was unemotionally unavailable with limited capacity for commitment and I just ignored the red flags. I thought that because he said he loved me so much, he would be different with me. But you can’t have a...
    andreab91 andreab91
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2015

    I am usually a very strong man inside

    and out but as i sit here writing this i am a broken man, crying every day, heart broken, i cant see me being happy ever again and i am lost. my partner of 20 years has walked out on me and my kids my son 16 my daughter 10. i am 45 so no spring chicken, i feel sick, can not eat...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 25, 2016

    I new my ex for 4 years im best friends with

    both of his sisters and the we started dating about 10 months ago, and he's a marine and he was about to go on deployment. I stuck with him while he went to another country and he's the best sex of my life and he told me we were going to get married and move in together. And...
    jessicamariah7 jessicamariah7
    22-25, F
    Mar 2, 2015

    Love Being Si

    Recently divorced and love being single. Searching for someone to have fun with. Good ole country girl
    Iowagirl67 Iowagirl67
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

    Just out of a relationship.

    .. been 3 weeks now... Feeling better :D Yay !
    santees santees
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 20, 2014

    So me and my girlfriend decided on our 3 year

    anniversary that we were done . My decision even tho it was very hard for me. But there is just no trust there . However , I've already met someone . Like he's great 😍 and I am really excite to see where it goes. I don't want to move to fast though. I still care very much for...
    christin13 christin13
    22-25, F
    Jan 2, 2015

    Who wants to be my friend hope

    who ever wants to be it's cute loving and single and fit and ages off 15-16
    tamara33 tamara33
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2014


    My boyfriend well ex boyfriend and I just broke up at the end of december....we had been dating for about 4 years. Our biggest issue was that we were both too jealous. .. well he was jealous I just didnt trust him worth a damn. The trust issues started about a year or so into the...
    uncontrollable uncontrollable
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 31, 2013

    he broke up with me over a text.

    said that he can't trust me because I'm in college. smh.
    briannarenee briannarenee
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    Recently single after 5 years ,

    feels a bit strange when you've been with someone you connect with for so long ...
    MissSubaru MissSubaru
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014

    Pain Transitions To Peace

    It's been a few weeks, but only a few days since the real and ultimately final deal. After 3 years of living together, it happened so fast I became physically dizzy for a while. I have now been through 3 different hotel rooms in the span of that time, this one is just a mirror...
    JoeExperiences JoeExperiences
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2013

    Newly? I guess it hasn't been two months

    yet so yeah. Am I looking for someone? Not sure. Not purposefully. This song has got a single guy thinking. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gr3DfrEbEjY
    deleted deleted
    Jan 29, 2016

    After being married 10 years I'm newly single.

    It's liberating and terrifying at the same time. What if I've forgotten how to just be me and not part of a couple?
    layladonnelly layladonnelly
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    Please Tell Me Being Single Is As Great As I Think!

    I am trying my best to enjoy this new season in my life. I have so many plans, like becoming a certified fitness trainer for example. I loved taking care of my family and my partner but now, It's time to start living my dreams... I don't want a boyfriend, per se, I just want to...
    inmyveryhumbleopinion inmyveryhumbleopinion
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 30, 2012
    Ward314 Ward314
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    But wine and pizza have helped

    so far πŸ˜πŸ‘ I'm sure I will be okay
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2014

    Defining Myself

    I tell you it's over... to accept it. It is what it is and there's no going back. WHY would I go back to that, to you? You tell me it's not over....it'll never be over....you'll love me forever and will never give up hope. Yet my hope is gone. Vanished. My love is numb...
    LG76 LG76
    36-40, F
    21 Responses Oct 8, 2013

    Being Single Is Not All It Cracked Up To Be

    So im newly single after an 8 year abusive and pretty much deranged relationship Where to start? This isnt as freeing as i would of thought.. Everything feels so empty. Feel like im going to die a crazy old lonely lady with a house full of cats (i dont even like cats!) Sigh...
    bleakness bleakness
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

    It happened yesterday.

    And it was mutual. And to be honest, I don't feel bad. For the past month or two, I hadn't felt the same about him, and after this whole long talk, we agreed to end it. He said that I can think things through, and he hopefully he can become my boyfriend, but I'm not sure about...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan
    1 Response Feb 7, 2014
    zedwards79 zedwards79
    22-25, F
    Sep 26, 2015

    The Fun Of Singledom

    I was married for two years. I loved and still love my wife, but the relationship made me miserable, and we ultimately parted ways. I have no interest in marriage again...I can definitely see myself doing an LTR eventually. However, for now, I am enjoying my newfound...
    Hoofdpijn Hoofdpijn
    22-25, M
    Jun 1, 2013

    i am newly single and i don't really know

    why i am on this site. i don't really want to meet anyone new right now but i am also craving attention!
    bonff bonff
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    Been with a girl for 1

    and half years. Then all of a sudden she tells me she's been cheating on me :-/
    superkyle94 superkyle94
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 25, 2014

    I just left a guy that I've been with

    for 8 years because he couldn't be faithful and I'm basically attracted to girls lol
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32
    26-30, F
    Jan 26, 2016

    I had been with my boyfriend

    for three years before I broke up with him. I was angry and didn't really mean it but now he will not take me back. I am very depressed at the moment and do not know what to do. He told me he is never getting back together with me. Someone help me please! I know this whole thing...
    Searchingforhappiness93 Searchingforhappiness93
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 25, 2014

    Now What?

    So I am separated and on good terms with her.  We've been talking about it for a while and now it is done.  We got married when I was 20 and she was 21.  It was rocky from the start.  Now 14 years later I am now separated and will enter the dating...
    CalebnStLouis CalebnStLouis
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2009
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