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I Am Nice

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    I'm honestly starting to think

    that being nice is getting me absolutely nowhere. Then I always think that being mean won't do much for me either. I guess niceness is something that pays off in the long run? Idk. -Shrugs-
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2014

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    Too nice. Lol I'm such a warm welcoming kind

    soul, that people often confuse it for flirtation and automatically think I'm flirting. That's the thing.. Kindness is so rare people often misread it for flirtation. Yup that's the world we live in
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective 18-21, F Dec 30, 2013

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    I Thought I Am

    I've always thought i am a nice person but this week i found out that i was wrong because i pushed someone here in ep away he is a nice guy his name is francky he told me about his disease and we talked then i went to his profile to put him in my circle then i saw that he doesn't...
    yoyogame yoyogame 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    To Most People

    I try to be nice to almost everyone.  I guess that's just who  I am, but I will admit I am not nice to everyone.   Even I get tired of being walked upon.  Only person on the list now is the STBX.
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Okay, I'm not perfect.

    Not by a long shot. But I do try to be a decent human being. I think that things like being polite, courteous and well-mannered count for something in life. It cost you nothing to smile and say hello to those you pass on the street. Or to be pleasant and courteous to the...
    chllaxdude chllaxdude 51-55, M Jan 20, 2014

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    Mine don't cheat ...

    no demands no whining no clinging I'm a good lady friend because I'm loyal and bang the living daylights of them. .....
    itsjudttrash123 itsjudttrash123 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Being Nice Sometimes Gets You Burned

    I'm a very nice person always have been when im mad im mad so be it but im to people and friends when they need help i try to help them thats just who iam i think sometimes im to nice and to helpfull i've gotten burned by the friends and family i have helped i was nice to them...
    scr3amingInside scr3amingInside 36-40, F Jan 24, 2013

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    And I am not 70+ either- those

    who know me, know me. Life is too short- like/love me or don't.
    Ziptie4777 Ziptie4777 22-25, M Oct 28, 2014

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    I. Nice But I'M Not A Push Over

    I'm nice, I don't like to make people feel awkward or uncomfortable, I don't ask questions they obviously don't want to answer or even need to answer, I don't make others feel like sh*t or treat them bad.I don't do those thing because I know how it feels.
    5leafclover 5leafclover 22-25, F Mar 17, 2013

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    I Believe In Being Friendly...

    I believe in being friendly and loving to the people around me.
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 11, 2007

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    Kindness

    Even though people treat me with little respect I am still nice to them. I was raised to be nice to people and I sometimes have difficulty being nice to those who don't deserve it. But I think that if I be good then good will follow.
    Braindead13 Braindead13 18-21 May 12, 2013

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    laylalb7616 laylalb7616 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2014

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    I Think So, Usually. ...

    I think so, usually. I'm always friendly to people, I try to bring out shy people, and so on. But there's a ***** lurking right underneath sometimes, and usually my poor husband is the only one who gets to see her. She's sarcastic, mean-spirited. I'd like to conquer her...
    palinura palinura 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2007

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    Well, What Can I Say...

    ...I'm a nice, gentle, loving and loveable person. I think more about other people's feelings than my own, and even try to help out people that I am no longer in a relationship with unlike some people I know, who cut off all contact. Don't think I have ever got violent about...
    kbarr82 kbarr82 31-35, M Dec 15, 2010

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    Complicated

    All the girls I have dated have always said I was the nicest person they had ever dated and I always go out of my way to try and help people. I feel obligated to help if I can but then the favor is never returned when I need help with something. But a problem I run into with...
    fordhonda16 fordhonda16 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 7, 2014

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    Honestly. I am the nicest person you will ever

    have the privilege of ever talking to.
    Unknownimus Unknownimus 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    I'd like to imagine I am a nice person.

    .. I always try to help others and care for them, I just wish some of the people were nice to me back.
    Rations Rations 18-21, F Sep 20, 2014

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    Not Perfect, But I Try

    So, I’m the creative, artsy, sensitive type. And, I do a lot of graphic work for various businesses. I admit that I don’t take criticism very well. Oh yes, I’m also pretty ‘type-a’ and assertive. You can see where this might go, and, when I was younger... Actually...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 1 Response May 13, 2012

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    MusicJunkie666 MusicJunkie666 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    I Am No Angel

    Being nice has only caused me heart ache and misery,This world has no place for nice peopleOnly the mean and the bullies survive.But I can't change who I am, I am a nice person,I forgive easily, I believe that a kind word canreally make someone's day, a kind gesturecan change...
    Jay04Sch Jay04Sch 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2013

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    But eat my skittles b*tch I'll kill u !

    And slit your damn throat. And bathe in your dirty blood 👹. Other then that. I need a new damn phone. I "accidentally". Broke it 😐. Going to need a new one using my PC k Bye~~
    KhalidNeko KhalidNeko 16-17, M 2 Responses May 30, 2014

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    I Try

    to be nice is hard ,, simply why i try to be so.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 16, 2012

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    Kindness

    Even though people treat me with little respect I am still nice to them. I was raised to be nice to people and I sometimes have difficulty being nice to those who don't deserve it. But I think that if I be good then good will follow.
    Braindead13 Braindead13 18-21 May 12, 2013

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    hayhaytaytay hayhaytaytay 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I Am Nice Person But I Was Not Nice With You

    i waana say a story of mine...there was a boy who liked a girl from his first day..that girl was me and boy lets call him mr.S .  that time college holidays were goin on. for utilising time i planned to take english classes and i joind one. i had taken admission in middle of...
    thepath thepath 18-21 2 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    Nice Vs. Selfish

    Sometimes I think I fell at being nice. The only way I know that I still am is when I hear others say so. I'd like to think I'm nice but sometimes I wonder am I really nice or am I selfish...
    kbrownies kbrownies 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    People say I am really nice.

    So nice that they can't see me playing football or wrestling. I am not sure if that is good or bad lol
    None0000 None0000 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29, 2014

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    I Am Nice

    I tend to be patient with people and refuse to get mad or argue or disrespect people.  Especially when they're being nice to me I don't want to get mad.  And I'm very quiet in real life and physically unable to raise my voice. I talk nicely online. I try not to offend.I am...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    Justine, That Is Who I Am.

    My mom is a college professor. One thing that meant growing up is that she had a whole lot of books.  Walls and walls of books.  There was this one wall of books that was "off-limits".  Well tell that to your pre-teen children and see where it gets you.  Of course, when ever...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    Idk what's better that my life is soooo good

    right now or that, that ***** that once tried to put me down is now begging me for help lol guess I'm going to help her 1st cause she haves a baby and by helping her I help the baby and 2nd I'm not a ***** like her that's why my dad thaught me is never good to try and put...
    Hazel216 Hazel216 16-17, F Aug 2, 2014

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    Sometimes

    Being to nice gets you ****** over at the end! Sad story of life
    BabyCakex BabyCakex 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    I Treat People Like I Want to ...

    I treat people like I want to be treated with respect and kindness.
    breezy breezy 21-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2007

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    Im actually a very nice person.

    I helped this random kid because every one was being racist to him and i told them to leave him alone which actually worked and now were good friends. I defended my ex-girl friend ( no duh) because my friend were making fun of her because she has a little bit more hair on her...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Aug 13, 2014

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    I am nice at least I like to think so.

    Sometimes I can be moody its just because I'm unhappy. I wish more people were nice to me then I could become a more social wonderful person to be around. I have allowed people to control my happiness. If they are mean to me I feel bad about myself/ inadequate and isolate myself...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2014

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    It's nice to be important

    but it's more important to be nice:)
    MySecretDesirexxx MySecretDesirexxx 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 20, 2014

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    Yes don't take my kindness

    for weakness or all be viscous
    Kingdarkroom Kingdarkroom 26-30, M Nov 1, 2014

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    I like to consider myself nice.

    I could tear you to pieces if I felt like doing so, but I've worked so hard and haven't done it for so long, I think I can call myself it. I deserve the label. I haven't let myself be cruel for two years now... Don't you think I'm nice?
    kennedy10505 kennedy10505 13-15, F 1 Response May 17, 2014

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    Im Nice Xd

    Im a pretty nice guy to anyone , but for some reason i come off as a mean person, i guess i just look like a mean person xD
    ren0788 ren0788 22-25, M Dec 22, 2012

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    Haha, I Try to Be Nice. ...

    Haha, i try to be nice. I like to think i'm a nice person...but i'm sure my housemates wouldn't agree when i yell at them for talking during Australian Idol.
    ajhowie84 ajhowie84 21-25, F Jan 13, 2007

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    Always Try To Be

    I like to think I am a nice person. I always try to be. I don't judge others for their beliefs or interests, unless it is hurting someone or forcing them to do something against their will. I am a very laid back, open person. I am pretty quiet and don't talk a whole lot, unless I...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 14, 2012

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    I'd like to think so.  I was actually talking with someone the other day about how I believe it is absolutely impossible for me to be purposely manipulative.  I just don't have that capability.  Often times I don't have the ability to be mean, even when...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2007

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    "nice guys finish last" is just the idea that being kind to someone will put you in the friend zone. Being nice is not what keeps one in the "friend zone". What keeps someone in...
    mic112 mic112 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    We all want people to be nice to us . In today's world there are not too many nice people so I try to do my part to be nice to others
    cynthiajo52 cynthiajo52 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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