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I Am No Good With Men

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    I Hate Them.

    Really, I do. I could go on and on about it...  I always swore I'd never get married or have kids. IRONY! Now I am married and have two boys. It's not easy. I pretty much have to dissociate to handle life now. Poor family has to put up with me... I'd rather give them a life...
    Starlatheimmortal Starlatheimmortal 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2010

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    Haha Naw, I'm No Good

    I get nervous and feel all ugly. It's hard for me to come onto a guy, hence why I never have.If I like someone I try to make it clear. But I never think they get the memo. Perhaps I am too prude? Or maybe it's the fact I am ugly -_-
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    I Am Medusa In My Relationships....

      I am the creature roaming the streets of life, cute and lonely. At first I heard their praises and comments as the winds played with my gorgeous locks for I was a queen just as they had called me. Men turn their heads towards me, women despised me and even...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Oh Yes

    Men are just confusing. Men and women will never understand each other. Seriously tho...I mean we will NEVER understahd each other. And then when you think you do... You are wrong.
    musared musared 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Literally ...

    Yes, this is true. In a literal sense I am no good with men at all.  In fact given the opportunity (and the right man of course) I am totally bad.  Which is a good thing as far as I'm concerned. :D
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Never Fails

    They just don't want to stick around. I bend over backwards to make them happy, but it's never good enough. I dated only girls for 7 years, and though that turned out a little better, it still ended in failure. What's wrong with me?
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    I'm Pretty Sure Anyway.......

    ~ Although I've had friends here tell me that I haven't actually been with a 'real man'. Heehee!! I don't know, that might be true but what I do know is that the 2 I have been with......... Well, they definitely didn't give me rave reviews. : ( So I'm a little nervous about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    This itch has been o so successfully scratched and I would now like to be with men more often.
    wanker1953 wanker1953 61-65, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    maybe im just a annoying but I don't know what's wrong with me I always liked dealing with people but now that im older and Im not good with people and I find im a very awkward...
    RaynesWorld RaynesWorld 18-21, F Apr 23

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    Physically, Mentally, Emotionally. I'm distant but I share a lot so that you don't feel like I'm not trying.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I mean Mental Disorders, there is a difference. One is named Jenna, she is practically my sister. She has a rather severe case of bipolar disorder. She and I know each other from...
    AnonWesker AnonWesker 13-15, M 1 Response May 14

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    My mother gets social security for some bullshit emotional disability and now my little brother has been dragged into the system and mislabeled because the mental health system...
    sahmmama sahmmama 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    I have a few good friends but if you asked any of them about my life.. only two would be able to give you a descriptive answer
    Caty747 Caty747 18-21, F May 5

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    Apparently I can't get close to anyone without doing something that makes me hate myself even more than usual, which doesn't seem possible every time until it happens... and i've...
    SketchOfInsanity SketchOfInsanity 16-17, M May 3

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    I feel that if I let someone get close to me, they'll hurt me too much. Isn't it better to not get hurt and be alone than to be with people and suffer? After all, you can provide...
    Lunasnight Lunasnight 16-17, F 2 Responses May 3

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    You can't get to me through gifts. you can't get to me through time either. it's either a right away thing, or it's a not at all thing. All you guys who think "oh, I'll do...
    mystiere13 mystiere13 16-17, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I haven't taken my meds in weeks because I keep forgetting. Now I'm always seeing **** moving or stuff that's not there. And it feels like bugs are crawling on me. I'm just really...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F May 7

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    iphone apps that calm me down/cheer me up..... pacifica: addresses anxiety specifically, free to sign up aquarium live hd, aquarium hd, and pocket penguins: watch fish or...
    kinkystapler kinkystapler 18-21, F May 13

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    They irritate me for the most part . I think it's because I'm intelligent . They say smart people can be mean . I'm actually really nice though . I don't know .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Apr 24

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    I have a few close friends. i don't trust people, I've been hurt badly.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 2 Responses May 4

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    That's me, way far away from anything else, in the dark
    Gwall1234 Gwall1234 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I think I may have Menieres Disease by the symptoms I've had for over a year. Loss of hearing, ringing high pitch sound, slight dizziness when standing. And now after researching...
    SoScaredLifeIsOver SoScaredLifeIsOver 41-45, M May 14

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    I have been to different sites, chat rooms, and even groups on facebook that are meant to help those with mental health issues such as Depression, anxiety, PTSD etc... Many of...
    Sickoffakes Sickoffakes 36-40, M May 7

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    Today was a good day. I ate healthy today. I smiled more. I didn't take life too seriously. I tried to relax more at work. Sunday's are usually good days at work. There...
    authenticbeauty authenticbeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I've grown past and through my trust issues with men. It took a huge loss for me to realize that not every boy that approaches me wants to use me, and that I am likeable and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 13

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    If you don’t live with mental illness, don’t make assumptions about what is and isn’t a symptom. Depression isn’t always sitting in a dark room, crying. It’s forgetting...
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    To be fair, even people living with mental illness don't understand mental illness. and that's what makes it so hard to pin down and both treat, and understand. there's so much...
    room10101 room10101 26-30, M 3 Responses May 8

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    I am honestly experiencing a heart break.I have never been in love before, I've never been in a relationship before either. I don't even want to be in love with her, I don't want...
    Someonequiet17 Someonequiet17 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    I'm having these love handles and my men boobs that I hate and j font feel good with myself whenever I go to the beach I don't like take take off my shirt I just feel weird seeing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I can no longer accept relationships into my life that aren't built on compatability and intellectual conversation. I called my ex last night and he held me and said all the right...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 11 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Not anymore! I'm sick of it. So sick of players, and liars.. I waste so much time and energy waiting for them to 'get back' to me. It is exhausting and irritating. I'm done with...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses May 3

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    Well, I am gay, however I have had experiences in locker rooms and korean spas (communal, nudity required spas separated by sex), where I had sexual encounters with men I presume...
    NudistAl NudistAl 22-25, M 4 Responses May 6

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    I've been attracted to men since I was a boy, but that simply wasn't something accepted when I was young. I decided I was bisexual until about ten years ago when I realized I was...
    subrosa6 subrosa6 61-65, M 1 Response May 6

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    When others judge someone because of their mental illness and call them names, they don't understand that it hurts really badly for that person. In our generation, we have a...
    arcticxcx arcticxcx 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    I think a girl and guy can be just friendsI don't have many guy friends though and find it difficult to make friendship with men as I am not sure how to behave I get accused of...
    aleema77 aleema77 31-35, F 3 Responses May 1

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    Kind of a long story but I think I may have feelings for a close friend who is also female. We met a few years ago when we were both in relationships with men. Now we are both...
    alexmac1986 alexmac1986 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    it all started when I was 4 years old when I began watching the ren and stimpy show. now everything about this show is great the best show created even better than spongebob . The...
    sarahhoek sarahhoek 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I've always either "clicked" with a person immediately or never at all. Never had anyone grow on me, and I'm not good with trusting people after a time; it's always just been...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 31-35 2 Responses Apr 24

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    I just have problem with commitments. I don't want to be committed to one religion and do something bad. I believe that I can do something good with or without religion. I do...
    ariettaxsydney ariettaxsydney 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    What's more attractive than a man who is good with kids? The answer is nothing
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I got out. Best decision of my life. Every situation is different, and ending a marriage (particularly when there are children involved, which there are for me) is a serious...
    ericseviltwin ericseviltwin 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    You have two more years, I have three. Over the summers, we will get as many jobs as we can, gather as much money as we can, spend as least as we can. We can do this. Me and you...
    ShiningSkies ShiningSkies 13-15 May 5

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