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I Am No Good With Men

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    I'm Pretty Sure Anyway.......

    ~ Although I've had friends here tell me that I haven't actually been with a 'real man'. Heehee!! I don't know, that might be true but what I do know is that the 2 I have been with......... Well, they definitely didn't give me rave reviews. : ( So I'm a little nervous about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    I Hate Them.

    Really, I do. I could go on and on about it...  I always swore I'd never get married or have kids. IRONY! Now I am married and have two boys. It's not easy. I pretty much have to dissociate to handle life now. Poor family has to put up with me... I'd rather give them a life...
    Starlatheimmortal Starlatheimmortal 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2010

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    Literally ...

    Yes, this is true. In a literal sense I am no good with men at all.  In fact given the opportunity (and the right man of course) I am totally bad.  Which is a good thing as far as I'm concerned. :D
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 13 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Never Fails

    They just don't want to stick around. I bend over backwards to make them happy, but it's never good enough. I dated only girls for 7 years, and though that turned out a little better, it still ended in failure. What's wrong with me?
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    I Am Medusa In My Relationships....

      I am the creature roaming the streets of life, cute and lonely. At first I heard their praises and comments as the winds played with my gorgeous locks for I was a queen just as they had called me. Men turn their heads towards me, women despised me and even...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Haha Naw, I'm No Good

    I get nervous and feel all ugly. It's hard for me to come onto a guy, hence why I never have.If I like someone I try to make it clear. But I never think they get the memo. Perhaps I am too prude? Or maybe it's the fact I am ugly -_-
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    Oh Yes

    Men are just confusing. Men and women will never understand each other. Seriously tho...I mean we will NEVER understahd each other. And then when you think you do... You are wrong.
    musared musared 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 18

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    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    SafetyNotGuaranteed SafetyNotGuaranteed 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    Had a woman from a call up "help line" laugh at me TWICE and insult me over the phone. This was two separate occasions, but I think it was EXACTLY the same woman. What I talked...
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    psychedelicblues psychedelicblues 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    Well today I saw my friend who has terminal cancer and I'm now ever more confused about my feelings for her. While we talked about my episodes last week she sat holding my hand...
    celticsage celticsage 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    So now being forced to see a social worker next week. Not happy. I don't want to tell a whole new person my problems. But I have no choice. It's a woman and women hate me. No...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses Nov 18

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    So another woman I had to see. The $5 dinner woman. Who I could swear was not 100% upstairs and drove terribly. She was creepy and I think she was swindling money from her work...
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    Oooh and the woman that tried to "avoid" me by sneaking around. Hahaha XD
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    I have eating disorders if somebody want to talk, i will listen 'cause i know how ir feels
    Loveskinny123 Loveskinny123 16-17 Nov 19

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    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    It sucks and its all about money
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 25

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    If anyone wants to ask me anything about my experiences. Just ask. I've been in and out of services for 13 years.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 25

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    Sometimes giving pills to someone and tossing counselling at them is NOT an 'instant fix' I'm so sick of it. If I wanted to go off my tablets, I couldn't. Been on tablets since I...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 25

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    So I just took a test and I probably totally failed but I got my essay back and I got an A. I also now get to go home because I only had one class which technically ends in 20...
    TurtlesAndLlamas TurtlesAndLlamas 18-21, F Nov 24

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    It like, Homework: 100, Classwork: 90, Projects: 100, Assignment: 80, Quiz: 80, but a Test: 0
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F Nov 25

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    i m always attracted to those who seems distance, mysterious, hard to understand super good looking men. time to stop all that if i want my life to work for me. No matter how much...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I am a man myself, and my opinion is that women are just as good as men. I am not saying this to get on the girls side, just an opinion.
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F Nov 27

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