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I Am No Good With Men

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    Haha Naw, I'm No Good

    I get nervous and feel all ugly. It's hard for me to come onto a guy, hence why I never have.If I like someone I try to make it clear. But I never think they get the memo. Perhaps I am too prude? Or maybe it's the fact I am ugly -_-
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    I'm Pretty Sure Anyway.......

    ~ Although I've had friends here tell me that I haven't actually been with a 'real man'. Heehee!! I don't know, that might be true but what I do know is that the 2 I have been with......... Well, they definitely didn't give me rave reviews. : ( So I'm a little nervous about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    I Hate Them.

    Really, I do. I could go on and on about it...  I always swore I'd never get married or have kids. IRONY! Now I am married and have two boys. It's not easy. I pretty much have to dissociate to handle life now. Poor family has to put up with me... I'd rather give them a life...
    Starlatheimmortal Starlatheimmortal 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2010

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    Oh Yes

    Men are just confusing. Men and women will never understand each other. Seriously tho...I mean we will NEVER understahd each other. And then when you think you do... You are wrong.
    musared musared 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    I Am Medusa In My Relationships....

      I am the creature roaming the streets of life, cute and lonely. At first I heard their praises and comments as the winds played with my gorgeous locks for I was a queen just as they had called me. Men turn their heads towards me, women despised me and even...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Literally ...

    Yes, this is true. In a literal sense I am no good with men at all.  In fact given the opportunity (and the right man of course) I am totally bad.  Which is a good thing as far as I'm concerned. :D
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 13 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Never Fails

    They just don't want to stick around. I bend over backwards to make them happy, but it's never good enough. I dated only girls for 7 years, and though that turned out a little better, it still ended in failure. What's wrong with me?
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    I joined this website about four years ago absolutely angry with men, with real serious issues that have pushed me towards favouring girls. I don't feel the same now, I sometimes...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 20 Responses Oct 31

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    I never realized this until I was doing my rotations in psych. Our healthcare system is *** end back-words when it comes to trying to help those with mental issues. I have...
    Tomorrowsday Tomorrowsday 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 18

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    There was one councellor I had to see. She was so rude and she also hated me intensely. The things she told me and how she treated me...I mean really.... I remember once being...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Back-story: I met this guy (we will call him D) in January of 2013 while I was going through a divorce. D and I were just friends at the time, after my divorce, we became more than...
    ritycan ritycan 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    i have dated about 10 men in my life time and im 22 old and only my first bf seemed to be sane, after that every guy i dated has somekind mental problems with insecurity or...
    BethLeKitteh BethLeKitteh 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    One woman..the last social worker woman I was assigned years ago Goodness sakes she was two faced. Got to share the stories!
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 3

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    So I was forced to see a woman for councelling. She was a hard woman with tattoos and I knew she hated me. I was miserable seeing her. It was a different sort of councelling, as it...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 18

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    I thought this would be people with actual mental illness not this depression hippy bullshit
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 4 Responses Nov 17

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    There was one chick I saw 5-6 years ago. She was about 22-25. She was one of those people they send to your house to teach you to learn to do things...or whatever. All she did was...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Nov 18

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    This was my last social worker. She was in her early 60's. This was the two faced woman I mentioned a few days ago. I thought she was pretty nice...THOUGHT. So this was one of the...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 18

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    If they don't like you, they will take it out on YOU and YOU will get the blame for it. Whether that be mocking your mental illness, thinking what you have is 'nothing', laughing...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 18

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    The most nasty woman I have ever came across in my entire life, was working for the crisis line. I've never met anyone who was so cold and evil. The woman working with her was also...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Nov 18

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    Especially since so many people with even minor mental dis adjustments end up being fed like pigs to the slaughter known as the political prison complex.
    J3didiah J3didiah 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    While I've been studying this, I have came across some very unpleasant things. I am looking forward to not working in mental health facilities my whole career. I do not agree with...
    Izy96 Izy96 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    The mental health service has let me down. I took an overdose and spent 11 days in hospital because I had damaged my liver with the amount of tablets I had taken. The crisis team...
    JadeMarieWhalleySeale JadeMarieWhalleySeale 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    We should be ashamed with the lack of empathy, caring and professional services we provide to mental health consumers. As a society we do a horrendous job of it. It's been said...
    SafetyNotGuaranteed SafetyNotGuaranteed 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    Trust... When someone you trust hurts you they have no idea how you feel. How bad the hurt is by what they have done and how ultimately betrayed you feel. And let me tell you...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    This is an experience that happened to me several years ago and has forever touched my heart. I used to work in a hospital and we had a patient in for weeks. I will call him Jason...
    briebab23 briebab23 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I was raised with a physically abusive alcoholic father and a verbally abusive mother. every relationship I have had over the years has ended up being verbally abusive. how many...
    blueeyeddevil18 blueeyeddevil18 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Because it falls on me. And escaping such weight is rough. With no crane to lift facts from my eyes. Wish america cured. Instead of profiting off of us.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    I recently found a suicide note I had written when I was at my worst with my eating disorder and depression. Although I'm still struggling with both of those things, I can...
    kaylxlynn kaylxlynn 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Had a woman from a call up "help line" laugh at me TWICE and insult me over the phone. This was two separate occasions, but I think it was EXACTLY the same woman. What I talked...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Because. Me met them. And survived.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 6

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    I have social anxiety, My parents tell me to get over it and force me to parties I can't go to. They think it will help, yeah sure just wait one second while I cry on the floor. It...
    XbeyonceX XbeyonceX 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 17

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    Well today I saw my friend who has terminal cancer and I'm now ever more confused about my feelings for her. While we talked about my episodes last week she sat holding my hand...
    celticsage celticsage 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    So now being forced to see a social worker next week. Not happy. I don't want to tell a whole new person my problems. But I have no choice. It's a woman and women hate me. No...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses Nov 18

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    So another woman I had to see. The $5 dinner woman. Who I could swear was not 100% upstairs and drove terribly. She was creepy and I think she was swindling money from her work...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Oooh and the woman that tried to "avoid" me by sneaking around. Hahaha XD
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 18

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    I have eating disorders if somebody want to talk, i will listen 'cause i know how ir feels
    Loveskinny123 Loveskinny123 16-17 Nov 19

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    It definitely needs a lot of improvement. The people I have seen about my anxiety over the years seem to have very little clue and tend to just chuck pills at me/offer me "quick...
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    It sucks and its all about money
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    They basically ask you the same crap questions: "how does that make you feel?" "So what can I do to help you?" "What are you here for?" And all those other "preset" questions...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If anyone wants to ask me anything about my experiences. Just ask. I've been in and out of services for 13 years.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes giving pills to someone and tossing counselling at them is NOT an 'instant fix' I'm so sick of it. If I wanted to go off my tablets, I couldn't. Been on tablets since I...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So I just took a test and I probably totally failed but I got my essay back and I got an A. I also now get to go home because I only had one class which technically ends in 20...
    TurtlesAndLlamas TurtlesAndLlamas 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    It like, Homework: 100, Classwork: 90, Projects: 100, Assignment: 80, Quiz: 80, but a Test: 0
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    i think all people need to feel that way, specially women. But sometimes, as a girl, I feel like boys just "appreciate" big personaliTITS and that's it ! i gotta be honest, those...
    vi491042 vi491042 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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    im in a funny position, i you use to go out with friends and within the last few years i havnt seen them because of my ocd. I moved some years ago and the distance has made it...
    reflectivemind reflectivemind 70+, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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