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I Am No Good With Men

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    I Am Medusa In My Relationships....

      I am the creature roaming the streets of life, cute and lonely. At first I heard their praises and comments as the winds played with my gorgeous locks for I was a queen just as they had called me. Men turn their heads towards me, women despised me and even...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 7 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Literally ...

    Yes, this is true. In a literal sense I am no good with men at all.  In fact given the opportunity (and the right man of course) I am totally bad.  Which is a good thing as far as I'm concerned. :D
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 13 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    I Hate Them.

    Really, I do. I could go on and on about it...  I always swore I'd never get married or have kids. IRONY! Now I am married and have two boys. It's not easy. I pretty much have to dissociate to handle life now. Poor family has to put up with me... I'd rather give them a life...
    Starlatheimmortal Starlatheimmortal 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2010

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    Oh Yes

    Men are just confusing. Men and women will never understand each other. Seriously tho...I mean we will NEVER understahd each other. And then when you think you do... You are wrong.
    musared musared 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Haha Naw, I'm No Good

    I get nervous and feel all ugly. It's hard for me to come onto a guy, hence why I never have.If I like someone I try to make it clear. But I never think they get the memo. Perhaps I am too prude? Or maybe it's the fact I am ugly -_-
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    I'm Pretty Sure Anyway.......

    ~ Although I've had friends here tell me that I haven't actually been with a 'real man'. Heehee!! I don't know, that might be true but what I do know is that the 2 I have been with......... Well, they definitely didn't give me rave reviews. : ( So I'm a little nervous about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Never Fails

    They just don't want to stick around. I bend over backwards to make them happy, but it's never good enough. I dated only girls for 7 years, and though that turned out a little better, it still ended in failure. What's wrong with me?
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    I am not any good with patience. its like that's one thing Allah Subhana Wa Ta'llah didn't give me. any ideas on how to work on it?
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    This is a response I wrote to an anorexic woman. I'm bipolar, but I've talked to enough people with other kinds of mental illnesses to see we have a lot in common. I wrote this to...
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    I feel like I have to get this off my chest as it is making me increasingly ill. My life in general is making me increasingly ill. I am 21 year old with Borderline personality...
    Daisypie Daisypie 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    To me, disrespect means thinking I'm some sort of sexual object. I'm a human being. I'm a lady. I don't have any interest in sharing pictures, having sexual conversation, or any of...
    mergern07 mergern07 18-21, F Jul 1

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    They dont stop. You may be next. Or are already. Mental is just a facet of health. Pills damage organs. But are still sold. Lawsuits make lawyers big money...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 1

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    I'm torn. I'm torn about accepting the mental illness labels doctors have diagnosed me with, such as having bipolar and depression, because I don't want the labels to define me...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Tdy I went to another family gathering (cuz we don't make family gathering with my family) so there r those girls which my sis wants me to be friends with and I really don't want...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F Jul 7

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    I don't really know why but kids always seem to find being around me fun :P I've never really felt myself around people my age, but when I'm with a 10 year old or something its...
    michaelnutty25 michaelnutty25 16-17, M Jul 7

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    I need help I think but I'm too scared
    heatherm10 heatherm10 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Anyone in the Long Island area wanna chat?
    schumy schumy 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    i can't do tests, i get all nervous and my brain shuts down, i have a learners licences test in a few hours and i'm afraid i'll let my family down again the disappointment on...
    catsrule5678 catsrule5678 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have a deep down fear, but I think part of it is a mix of respect and not knowing. I'm very good at "reading peoples mind" and knowing what they want, but I never know if I'm a...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 7 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    This message is to all the radical man hating feminists who go on the Internet to trash and mock the male gender. It is obvious from what you're writing to your 100% blind to what...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It seems whenever I tried to open myself up to a man and tell him my life story they leave...Why do men leave me is it, because they are turned off by me. I have come to realize...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Jul 19

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    Beautiful looking in physicality and soul. I'd love to look at good looking men obviously, but it's the men who have a combination of both who are worth bothering with.
    Marysone Marysone 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Last night in a state of hypo mania, I slept with my ex boyfriend who I don't want anything to do with and have no respect for. He is the most loving and validating man I ever...
    Mulhollandrive Mulhollandrive 26-30, F Jul 20

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    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    I would like to talk to single men my age. 26-32 range. I tend to get along better with men than I woman. I'm a little too relaxed for some gals.
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F Jul 7

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    I like being dominated and used by white men. I am in Montana and available for sex with men, women and groups. My favorite meal is creem pi.
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    Don't let them tell you that you cannot do something, do not let anyone tell you that you have to learn to accept and live with mental health issues. I got rid of the ****** mental...
    CEB32 CEB32 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    For some reason I do not get along with men. All my friends have been women.
    i4it4t i4it4t 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Wisdom LUQMAN hakim : Sit in the gatherings of the pious servants of Allah. You will find goodness in their company. At the end of their gatherings Allah mercy descends upon them...
    MySecretDesirexxx MySecretDesirexxx 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want to be a masseuse for a living so I have to be good with my hands lol
    Unsettledteen Unsettledteen 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm not good with talking about my own feelings and thoughts so I turn to listening. I'm always there if someone needs to vent.
    HiImSarah HiImSarah 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Imagine Jack Sparrow for moment. Yes, the fictional pirate! He's just a little bit bad, but mostly good, with a wicked sense of humor. He's drop dead sexy, incredibly witty, and...
    bonnefille bonnefille 31-35, F Jul 20

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    Some look good with it. But I prefer a girl with beautifully long hair. Loose preferably. If not and it's tied up, I prefer that it's actually done with a hint of effort! No loose...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    Okay, so do girls actually look good without makeup? Because I swear I look like a zombie, but everyone else says I look fine without it, I have dark circles, etc, what's your...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I live in America Michigan and I really want a friend who live near me if anyone lives in Michigan please comment the city below I'd prefer to meet boys since I'm not good with...
    MomijiSohma1999 MomijiSohma1999 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I have an ex bf, James, who is my best friend. When we went out it was awk and we knew it couldn't work. I loved him but I had to let him go. I no longer love him like that but...
    BellyBoo5 BellyBoo5 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I knew this girl for a very long time, I don't even remember when we met. Over the years I fell in love with her. I could tell she felt the same way. Once she randomly just hugged...
    Filonix Filonix 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    Why are a lot of white gay men so hot?!?! And they seem a lot more affectionate towards each other.Too bad they don't like vagina. But because their still men, I can't help but...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am honestly terrified of men. I know that not all of them are awful people but they just scare me. Being raped and abused probably has something to do with it but I HATE it. I...
    teenagetragedy teenagetragedy 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Cassandra13Park Cassandra13Park 13-15, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    AbbieNoel AbbieNoel 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Men who think women are inferior are usually insecure themselves. I thank God for a husband who treats me as an equal. Of course, we know one is better at certain things than the...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I started self harming at the age of 13. I'm 16 now. I was depressed and I got made fun of a lot of school. It was only a few cuts on my arms and they weren't very deep. But then I...
    teenagetragedy teenagetragedy 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I know it's stupid of me to use random chatting but I did. I chatted with some people and one of them asked me where I live. I lied and told him Singapore but then he guessed the...
    wherehorizonsmeet wherehorizonsmeet 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My mother has always been verbally (sometimes physically) abusive, manipulate woman. However, I don't blame her for that since she obviously has mental disorders yet she has never...