I Am No Good With Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Oh Yes

    Men are just confusing. Men and women will never understand each other. Seriously tho...I mean we will NEVER understahd each other. And then when you think you do... You are wrong.
    musared musared
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2009

    Never Fails

    They just don't want to stick around. I bend over backwards to make them happy, but it's never good enough. I dated only girls for 7 years, and though that turned out a little better, it still ended in failure. What's wrong with me?
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

    Literally ...

    Yes, this is true. In a literal sense I am no good with men at all.  In fact given the opportunity (and the right man of course) I am totally bad.  Which is a good thing as far as I'm concerned. :D
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

    I Hate Them.

    Really, I do. I could go on and on about it...  I always swore I'd never get married or have kids. IRONY! Now I am married and have two boys. It's not easy. I pretty much have to dissociate to handle life now. Poor family has to put up with me... I'd rather give them a life...
    Starlatheimmortal Starlatheimmortal
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2010

    I'm Pretty Sure Anyway.......

    ~ Although I've had friends here tell me that I haven't actually been with a 'real man'. Heehee!! I don't know, that might be true but what I do know is that the 2 I have been with......... Well, they definitely didn't give me rave reviews. : ( So I'm a little nervous about...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 25, 2009

    Haha Naw, I'm No Good

    I get nervous and feel all ugly. It's hard for me to come onto a guy, hence why I never have.If I like someone I try to make it clear. But I never think they get the memo. Perhaps I am too prude? Or maybe it's the fact I am ugly -_-
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    5 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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