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I Am No Longer a Part of My Own Family

This is for all of who are hypothetically orphaned. 30 People

    It's Their Loss

    They miss out on a great person. They love to mess with my mind. They hate me for an unexplained reason they're not willing to share. They expect me to let them walk all over me. They owe me a lot! Yet they act like they do no wrong, but point a finger at me. They tell me...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Oct 31, 2012

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    I Can Empathise With You

    Oh Hi my name is Fiona. Poor you!  I can so empathise with you. Basically you were abused and you didn't deserve what happened to you. I was also but in a different way.  I recently tried to reconcile with my sister who is the only living relative but she didn't want...
    EnglishRose EnglishRose 51-55, F May 16, 2007

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    I Am An Outsider In My Family.

    A dog would get better treatment that I have gotten, My father is an alcoholic and my mother is co-depend ant, talk about dysfunctional. My mother was always more a friend than a parent she use to buy me cigarettes at the age of 12 and I would tell her everything including when i...
    shelly69 shelly69 31-35 4 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    They Have All Left My Life.

    For all my life I have been the black sheep in my family.  I admit I was rebellious, and yes had a wildish nature.  I was brought up in a strict catholic family.  Communicating any type of negative emotion was not allowed.  I was not allowed to...
    PiscesDream PiscesDream 41-45, F 4 Responses May 16, 2007

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    My Sad Family Story!

    Hi, I just recently joined the group and read the stories. It sounds like people have had a really tough time with their families By comparison, I have had it easier. My parents are not abusive, addicts or have kicked me out. But they have hurt me in a number of ways and...
    PapaDulce PapaDulce 26-30 Jan 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I'm 16, I'm the youngest of three siblings, and I'm the only girl. What is wrong with that? Why do I feel like an outcast in my own family? -_-
    QueenReyna QueenReyna 16-17, F Jul 21

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    I don't even know where to start mainly because all my life I've been an outcast. When I was young my real father left me and so my mom worked a lot to keep food on the table and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My dad's side really. I tried to connect with them since I was 11. I'm never included in anything. Any reunions, hanging out with that side, concerts and even holiday's. Partly...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F Jun 30

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    Being the middle child of three girls feels really competitive. Sometimes I try to seek attention, but usually my parents' attention is limited to my sisters. Like my dad would...
    AprilDoe AprilDoe 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    My experience is one that both came as a shock, and in some weird way, a confirmation of the fears I've always had regarding my parents and their conditional love of me. I've...
    Kaleesto Kaleesto 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I really hate my family but spend each day trying to make things better. So long story short but when I was two my mom passed away and my dad played the mom/dad role for many years...
    leek12345 leek12345 22-25, F Jul 9

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    This is my poem and speech I wrote for my parents 25th anniversary! "Who says love has no address? It stays at my mom and dad's place. Who says love doesn't have a look...
    WhatABeautifulMess97 WhatABeautifulMess97 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I love to party with family and friends. However, I party within reason. I refuse to drink and drive. I never do take any illegal or legal drugs in a manner harmful to my body...
    beckyholmes beckyholmes 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm really the black sheep of the family here. I have one sibling, an older brother. It isn't just my immediate family I don't fit in with, its seriously all of it. On my moms side...
    happyinmyskin happyinmyskin 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    A year or two ago, I made an interesting discovery about my linage--it is highly likely that I am a descendant of the old Irish royal family through a sept (noble family) that was...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I had a tough childhood. Abuse from my mothers boyfriend, abuse from my father and his 2nd and 3rd wives, verbal abuse and fluctuating over protective and smothering from my mother...
    hurtinginma hurtinginma 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I was horribly abused as a child, the verbal insults would have been enough. My step father liked to beat me he got a perverse pleasure out of it. When the mood hit I was the...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    The piece You are an element singular You are the forgotten merry Deep inside or the exterior No one cares for the limited Believe that you possess nothing For her sorrow bears...
    ymfas ymfas 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Hi, I'm 33 with two children and have come from a very dysfunctional back ground.. I grew up in children's homes. Because my nan didn't want me and my two brothers we were all...
    anilem anilem 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My wife was humiliated as a child by her family, not your normal run of the mill sibling stuff either but some pretty serious things happened to her and she came to me with a...
    noelfrax noelfrax 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Recently I've been excited about getting a part time job, getting an ID and getting my permit since I am now age appropriate to do so, you'd think with a family being tight with...
    starfr starfr 16-17, F Jun 29

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    Family is really important to me!! Thats also why i got this tattoo. the heart symbolizes the people who are still here and the angle means the one who pasted but they will always...
    sweetheart16 sweetheart16 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    Another reason why I hate my family: I wish my parents could look at parenting websites and understand the true meaning of parenthood, they haven't had any lessons and when I have...
    Leiai Leiai 13-15 Jul 12

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    The Day Our Own Father Tried To Kill Us- My mother,brother,and me watched the black Range Rover coast to a stop. "Bye,babies! Mommmy loves ya'll!" My mother said loudly then...
    LinnatheProphet LinnatheProphet 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My life is like a drama... I can't keep it to myself anymore. . I feel bad withholding everything inside me. So I have choosen here as an outlet. Maybe let me start the story...
    whyheaven whyheaven 31-35, F 23 hrs ago

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    I need that experience before I live with anyone else again. I need to be able to have fully privacy of my own space and just closing that door and running my own personal life...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I'm the oldest child in my family, 32 years old now. As long as I can remember I have always felt abnormal, and could never understand how my friends were able to be sole...
    ladybutterfly82 ladybutterfly82 31-35, F Jun 29

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    I've been going out with the same guy for a year now, but 4 months ago there was a bump in the road of our relationship. Ok so, my boyfriend is 17 and I'm 14 we met on a trip to...
    Julianna2406 Julianna2406 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I absolutely hate my family and it is not because I am a spoiled brat or am ungrateful, it is because they have mistreated me so bad throughout my life that I can no longer put up...
    rosesrthebest rosesrthebest 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I am a teenager in high school, and my parents have been divorced for over two years (but it was a long and messy process, and they have only been living apart for about 6 months...
    trackster54313 trackster54313 16-17, F Jul 13

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    Whatever I do, whatever I try, whatever I say, whatever I buy, I take the responsibility I have for my own actions deadly seriously!I am genuine in what I do, calculating yet...
    Catram21 Catram21 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I am 43 female - I started having mental issues age 7 - molested by an older childhoood girl(friend) I have manic-depressice episodes, ADD, Personality Disorder(s) I barley made...
    eezavel eezavel 41-45 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I can't stand my family.. Since I was young my real dad left when I was young I don't even know who he is and my mother she never gives me the time of day, when my step dad and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F Jul 14

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    I lost most of my immediate family in a 3 year time span before I was 43. Even before this, I was blessed to have people in my life that I consider family, though we have no...
    RaverFan RaverFan 41-45 3 Responses Jul 2

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    The Part of You That No One Sees is Lonely. You are unique, witty, and even a little snobby. You're quite proud of who you are, and nothing is going to change that. You've paved...
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F Jul 2

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    The pics went up on Facebook yesterday..of her and the new boyfriend..30 likes and all the 'you look so happy' its like I've gone back to day 1..im a f*cking mess..I run off to the...
    Greggerz Greggerz 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I would like to live a life estranged from my family. My father was abusive both physically and emotionally. The pain he has caused me throughout my 22 years is at times...
    Liz3125 Liz3125 18-21, F Jul 13

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    Yes I do. I am an adult. I am willing to listen what others have to say, be it good or bad, positive or negative. Responsibility means that I make myself accountable and that I...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    I'm at a loss right now. My husband is at it again with his mom. He claims that she is choosing her brother over him. My stepfather in law owns a roofing business. After an...
    bowerstoy bowerstoy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I just went through a harsh argument with my gf were she kicked me outta the car in pouring rain first let me clue u in on my past I am 31 yrs old m a excon n ex heroin addict I...
    chrise1982 chrise1982 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    It's been made abundantly clear that I am not a part of their family, despite adoption and the emotional connection that happens between children and those around them. No. I am...
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T Jul 9

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    I want to get my own apArtment due to the fact that I won't be going to japan . I feel as tho since I'm a married woman I should have my own place . Simply because I'm tired of...
    keyonna95 keyonna95 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    The benefits of buying off-lease equipment Off-lease equipment is unlike than used equipment, just like a certified formerly owned car is dissimilar than a used car, says AXIS...
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    I thought it was because I was adopted but I'm at least just as different from my biological family and if I'd known that I was I probably would've never wanted to meet them. My...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I am 19 years old and a sophomore in college majoring in nursing. I met the love of my life my first year at college and our relationship has blossomed into something beautiful...
    tphelps tphelps 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    “…the whole strawberry/vanilla/chocolate…” My fathers, father was a Colonel in the army. Dad and Grandpa were both in the army and dad was an army brat that went to...
    dustypork dustypork 26-30, F Jul 5

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    Hello! I have definitely found this out! You know a family is suppose to be a special thing. These are suppose to be people who come on this earth naturally equipped to be...
    glassfire100 glassfire100 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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