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I Am No Longer Friends With My Best Friend

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    Why?

    2 years. We were best friends for 2 years. We helped each other through alot. She shared soo many secrets and so did I. But all I had to do, was just make 1 slip up, by saying I love her, to cause her to split from me. And say we cant be friends anymore. I tried explaining it...
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Why Did I ?

    I had the friend anyone would have wanted and that was a very close friend and I one day few of my friends said ask her out and yet to this day I regret it. We were best friends for 9 Years straight from 2000 to 2009. I could see it in 2009 I blew it. The Going out was slowing...
    Speed61 Speed61 26-30, M Jan 7, 2013

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    "When You're Gone" - My best friend

    and I went to different high schools after something tragical happened, I went into shock and sunk into depression. I stopped talking to her and we haven't spoken to each other for 5 long years (although she lives right next door). I've thought so many times of trying to...
    jadetheloner jadetheloner 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Things Changed.

    We've been friends in high school and got to know each other. We had a lot in common and we had fun being together. Then when we got to college, we became inseparable, friends even pointed out that we're 'two peas in a pod' or we're each other partner-in-crime. Everyday after...
    deebsakjle deebsakjle 22-25 Jun 4, 2012

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    Well... I don't want to not be best friends.

    He, is mean but I still love him and care for him. But I'm tired if hearing all this s**t he is depressed about. He has nothing to be sad about. He just brings me down. But I don't want to let him down. Idk..
    Everystormends Everystormends 13-15, F Jun 22

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    Firstly I don't really believe in 'best

    friends'. To me that term applies to the school yard. I have friends and close friends, however I wouldn't say I have a best friend. Anyway this one friend of mine I have known for about 16 years. We had some good times in the past going out together, I would go over his place...
    laughman laughman 31-35, M 2 Responses May 14

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    All My Friends Turn Agianst Me

    Basically i had a best friend lets call her "Kate" another good friend "Tina" and 2 other friends Jen who basically became best friends with my best friend Kate and there's Abby who is more friends with Kate than me. I have a boyfriend that none of them like especially Kate they...
    justme91 justme91 18-21, F Apr 29, 2011

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    Work Collegues

    And each day I have to set my face, close my heart, and work opposite you.....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M Oct 20, 2010

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    Dickles.

    The first time I ever saw you, you were sitting at church with your dad. Your hair was down past your ears and you refused to wear a tie. You were 15, I was 12. You didn't really talk to anyone over the years. You started texting me when I was 15, after I lost Danny to Manny...
    WhoAmI613 WhoAmI613 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    Hurt By a Friend

    so this girl and i used to be "Bffs" all through HS. We were both cheerleaders. We could talk about anything and tell each other our deepest secrets. we were unseperable. then, i graduated and went to college. she was a senior and still in HS. even though...
    JACK7600 JACK7600 18-21 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    What Happened??

    My friend *Amy* and I have been friends for almost 8 years. Since Kindergarten, we're now in 8th. One day she was acting strange. I asked her was she wrong with me and she smiled and said no. But knowing her, that smile was a fake one. A day later, I tried talking to her and she...
    GirlyGirl240 GirlyGirl240 13-15 Oct 14, 2012

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    Changed

    I've never been on here and I only just found this on google as I was looking for a way to ease the pain of losing my best friend. It hurts a lot when someone you trust most ends...everything. Me and my best friend had known each other since we were 8 and we had both moved to...
    hungup hungup 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    I have a girl best friend

    and we've known each other since we were literally babies! And we both just finished high school and she just got a boyfriend. (I'm a guy btw). Recently, we started to drift apart. And I never get to hang with her. We occasionally talk on Facebook. And I asked her if she wanted...
    diantajangbato diantajangbato 16-17, M Jan 28

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    Fake Bestie

    So, i had this friends her name was "Cc" (thats her nickname i gave her) We were friends for 8 years. (Kindergarden to 8th grade) It all started in 4th grade. I was becoming best friends with another girl and she went behind my back and said to the girl that "i hated her and i...
    Babypink21 Babypink21 13-15 Mar 24, 2013

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    It Hurts

     The  blame is mine. I went and fell in love with him for reasons unknown. Sure my best friend was attractive and the nicest sweetest guy that I have ever known. But for some odd reason i just can't get him out of my mind. When I saw the friendship dwindling, I wanted...
    3pointshooter23 3pointshooter23 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    My best friend meant the world to me.

    We did everything together. She was my best friend for over 3 years. I didn't have a girlfriend at the time, so I treated her like mine. I never looked at her in that way, or had any feelings for her. I just really liked her. We would talk for hours and eat all the time. We were...
    raulhuman raulhuman 16-17, M 3 Responses May 4

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    My Ex Best Friend

    My ex best friend tatyana used to be my friend since kindegarden. Kindegarden through 4th grade we didnt fight at all. We always hung out. But in 5th grade we barely talked. Thats when she started to change and hang out with the mean 'popular' girls. In 6th grade we started...
    kassieisme kassieisme 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2013

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    My best friend and I were friends

    for 3 long years. Sadly our friendship is over, but I don't want to dwell on that. She's changed. She's not that girl that I knew anymore. But I still have all the amazing memories we have together. I really want to share some of my favorite memories with her, so here it goes...
    sarah81199 sarah81199 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Update On My "Bestfriend"

    So my "bestfriend" stopped telling me stuff as often as she used to. She found a new best friend. And decides to post pictures of themselves all over instagram. It hurts to see that. That my "bestfriend" now doesn't need me anymore and now has a new best friend. I'm in no way...
    secretbestfriend secretbestfriend 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2013

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    You meet someone. You two get close.

    It's all great for awhile. Then someone stop trying. Talk less. Awkward conversations. The drifting. No communication whatsoever. Memories start to fade. Then that person you know becomes that person you KNEW. That's how it usually goes, right? Sad isn't it.
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    My Bestfriend Turn To Stranger

    Me and my bestfriend had known each other since we started working together. The day I started making friend with her, is when I was at her house celebrating our friend birthday. Even if we were age different and I am older then her, that doesn't mean we can't be friends. We were...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F Jan 8, 2013

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    She's been my best friend

    since 9th grade. I am now 28 and realize we've grown a part. We have different priorities and I wish she would just do better.
    dianaboz dianaboz 26-30, F 1 Response May 22

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    Best Friends Can Become Strangers

    I had known my former best friend since we were in diapers. Our moms met in the doctors office when we were about a year old- two baby girls born days apart and with the same name. We stuck by each other through thick and thin. When I lost my house, she was there for me. When her...
    jess29 jess29 18-21, F Jun 24, 2012

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    Lost Friendship From Cheating Husband!

    i have lost a friend from a cheating husband... and i cant even describe the pain and utter furiation that i have been in. the husband is suicidal and I  had no choice to keep the problem to myself( and some close friends/that were also close friends of her as well...
    Lolacola1984 Lolacola1984 22-25, F Nov 16, 2008

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    Ages ago, at old primary school,

    there was a girl who was new to the school and I wanted to take care of her and I wanted to be her friend so I asked my teacher if I could take care of her and she said yes, the teacher introduced me to the new girl and her name was Anushey, she was so nice and I got to know her...
    janoskianator786 janoskianator786 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Friendships Drifting Apart

    Do you no longer talk to someone who you once called your best friend? Do you no longer talk to someone who you once called and texted every single day? Have you ever had a really close friend turn into a stranger? Have any of your friendships ever ended just because you guys...
    zantraxer zantraxer 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    My Young Wife Was My Best Friend

    but she was killed at age 19
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 5, 2011

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    Throughout high school I had a group of 5

    bestfriends. Near the end of highschool ended I started dating someone who I'm still with currently. It's been two years now. But in those two years. I've only hung out with three of those friends. One time each. And it was MY idea. They never want to hangout with me. One of...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F May 20

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    Nicole

    It just frazzled out. Everything was boring and all we seemed to do was meet up with our boyfriends and talk about them. I didn't say anything, i just complained to my boyfriend and left it at that, but she said ti to my face - basically called me boring and self centred. I took...
    amyloubelle amyloubelle 16-17 Sep 27, 2012

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    Wont Talk To Me Anymore

    A friend of mine for 3 years, I wont say her name..is taking a mistake that happened months ago, and I lied about what happened when she wanted me to come completely clean. She kept asking when I have a girlfriend if I'd date her. I wouldn't date her when I was with someone else...
    shawnsullivan shawnsullivan 26-30 Oct 5, 2012

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    Okay.

    My old best friends name was sabrina. She was stolen away from me. We used to be inseperable. We had the best times together. About two months ago, her parents had to go away for the weekend so they told sabrina to go to her cousin samantha's, house. Samantha was...
    screwedwithme screwedwithme 16-17 1 Response Mar 9, 2010

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    I Love Her, But She Loves Someone Else.

    I have feelings for my straight best female friend of five years. I started loving her like a friend and then my feelings grew. We almost had sex but I just wouldn't allow it, and we never touched on the subject again. In March she had "met" the love of her life. (I say "met...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Mar 3, 2013

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    My Fault Or Hers?

    I've been best friends with "A" for about 2 years now. She lost her mom soon after we became friends. From the beginning we called each other sisters. She's 2 years younger than me and goes to public school, while I'm homeschooled. Things were going great up until 4 months ago...
    secretbestfriend secretbestfriend 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    Avoid My Ex- Best Grined Like the Plague

    After I got married my best friend and I started to drift apart. Then she moved to Europe which completely destroyed the friendship all together. Now when I see her I want to reach out and talk to her but I don't know how so I do my best to avoid her. We used to be so close...
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2008

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    I Used to Have Friends

    Even a best friend, but we just kind of drifted away from each other. It was like I related to him less and less. I still don't understand what happened. All I know is that I used to have a friend and now I don't.
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 2 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    I Still Don'T Even Know Why It Happened.

    We were best friends for 3 years. I'd recently moved to a new town and met her husband first, through a hobby. He introduced us and she invited me over for dinner. We all hit it off and she was definitely the driving force in the friendship. I am quite a shy person by nature...
    Feb 7, 2013

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    It Hurts

    It hurts so much that even the memories turn ugly. Losing that one person who said they'd be your bestfriend forever. Knowing you were once their first choice and now your probably the last. I never want to let myself hurt like that again, it's mental suicide and I won't put...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 13, 2012

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    Man that girl was the funniest thing ever.

    I wasn't afraid to be weird or retarded around her and since she was respected by everybody,people respected me to. But once she started making other friends, she wouldn't wait for me to go to lunch with her, and she started looking at me like I was stupid. So now I'm in the...
    xXBlueMonkeyXx xXBlueMonkeyXx 13-15, F Mar 13

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    I Don't Miss You. . . I Miss The Person I Thought You Were.

    We had been friends (or so I thought) pretty much since the beginning, we were friends through most of primary school, before I moved, we still kept in contact though and his gran would invite me round to his house every so often. Then when I went into secondary school...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F Oct 2, 2011

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    Me and Jocelynn have been best friends since 7th grade. We did everything together. We became basically one person, we got older and nothing changed. As most teenagers do me and...
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    Ok so I'm not gonna sit here and brag about how awesome my friends are for the most part, but I just want to say for those of you who feel alone...there is someone out there who...