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I Am No Longer Friends With My Best Friend

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    Fake Bestie

    So, i had this friends her name was "Cc" (thats her nickname i gave her) We were friends for 8 years. (Kindergarden to 8th grade) It all started in 4th grade. I was becoming best friends with another girl and she went behind my back and said to the girl that "i hated her and i...
    Babypink21 Babypink21 16-17 Mar 24, 2013

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    Friendships Drifting Apart

    Do you no longer talk to someone who you once called your best friend? Do you no longer talk to someone who you once called and texted every single day? Have you ever had a really close friend turn into a stranger? Have any of your friendships ever ended just because you guys...
    zantraxer zantraxer 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    My best friend meant the world to me.

    We did everything together. She was my best friend for over 3 years. I didn't have a girlfriend at the time, so I treated her like mine. I never looked at her in that way, or had any feelings for her. I just really liked her. We would talk for hours and eat all the time. We were...
    raulhuman raulhuman 16-17, M 3 Responses May 4

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    I Used to Have Friends

    Even a best friend, but we just kind of drifted away from each other. It was like I related to him less and less. I still don't understand what happened. All I know is that I used to have a friend and now I don't.
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 2 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    It Hurts

     The  blame is mine. I went and fell in love with him for reasons unknown. Sure my best friend was attractive and the nicest sweetest guy that I have ever known. But for some odd reason i just can't get him out of my mind. When I saw the friendship dwindling, I wanted...
    3pointshooter23 3pointshooter23 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Why Did I ?

    I had the friend anyone would have wanted and that was a very close friend and I one day few of my friends said ask her out and yet to this day I regret it. We were best friends for 9 Years straight from 2000 to 2009. I could see it in 2009 I blew it. The Going out was slowing...
    Speed61 Speed61 26-30, M Jan 7, 2013

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    My Ex Best Friend

    My ex best friend tatyana used to be my friend since kindegarden. Kindegarden through 4th grade we didnt fight at all. We always hung out. But in 5th grade we barely talked. Thats when she started to change and hang out with the mean 'popular' girls. In 6th grade we started...
    kassieisme kassieisme 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2013

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    Why?

    2 years. We were best friends for 2 years. We helped each other through alot. She shared soo many secrets and so did I. But all I had to do, was just make 1 slip up, by saying I love her, to cause her to split from me. And say we cant be friends anymore. I tried explaining it...
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Update On My "Bestfriend"

    So my "bestfriend" stopped telling me stuff as often as she used to. She found a new best friend. And decides to post pictures of themselves all over instagram. It hurts to see that. That my "bestfriend" now doesn't need me anymore and now has a new best friend. I'm in no way...
    secretbestfriend secretbestfriend 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2013

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    I have a girl best friend

    and we've known each other since we were literally babies! And we both just finished high school and she just got a boyfriend. (I'm a guy btw). Recently, we started to drift apart. And I never get to hang with her. We occasionally talk on Facebook. And I asked her if she wanted...
    diantajangbato diantajangbato 18-21, M Jan 28

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    My Bestfriend Turn To Stranger

    Me and my bestfriend had known each other since we started working together. The day I started making friend with her, is when I was at her house celebrating our friend birthday. Even if we were age different and I am older then her, that doesn't mean we can't be friends. We were...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F Jan 8, 2013

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    Dickles.

    The first time I ever saw you, you were sitting at church with your dad. Your hair was down past your ears and you refused to wear a tie. You were 15, I was 12. You didn't really talk to anyone over the years. You started texting me when I was 15, after I lost Danny to Manny...
    WhoAmI613 WhoAmI613 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    What Happened??

    My friend *Amy* and I have been friends for almost 8 years. Since Kindergarten, we're now in 8th. One day she was acting strange. I asked her was she wrong with me and she smiled and said no. But knowing her, that smile was a fake one. A day later, I tried talking to her and she...
    GirlyGirl240 GirlyGirl240 13-15 Oct 14, 2012

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    All My Friends Turn Agianst Me

    Basically i had a best friend lets call her "Kate" another good friend "Tina" and 2 other friends Jen who basically became best friends with my best friend Kate and there's Abby who is more friends with Kate than me. I have a boyfriend that none of them like especially Kate they...
    justme91 justme91 18-21, F Apr 29, 2011

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    "When You're Gone" - My best friend

    and I went to different high schools after something tragical happened, I went into shock and sunk into depression. I stopped talking to her and we haven't spoken to each other for 5 long years (although she lives right next door). I've thought so many times of trying to...
    jadetheloner jadetheloner 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Ages ago, at old primary school,

    there was a girl who was new to the school and I wanted to take care of her and I wanted to be her friend so I asked my teacher if I could take care of her and she said yes, the teacher introduced me to the new girl and her name was Anushey, she was so nice and I got to know her...
    janoskianator786 janoskianator786 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    My old bestfriend and i clicked ever

    since we met. She is so much like me. Well both of my old bestfriends. In 8th grade year i found out i was moving and moved half of that year. We still talked until 9th grade year we stopped bieng friends like we dont talk anymore at all. I message them but they just ignore me...
    A0927T A0927T 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Okay.

    My old best friends name was sabrina. She was stolen away from me. We used to be inseperable. We had the best times together. About two months ago, her parents had to go away for the weekend so they told sabrina to go to her cousin samantha's, house. Samantha was...
    screwedwithme screwedwithme 16-17 1 Response Mar 9, 2010

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    Work Collegues

    And each day I have to set my face, close my heart, and work opposite you.....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M Oct 20, 2010

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    She's been my best friend

    since 9th grade. I am now 28 and realize we've grown a part. We have different priorities and I wish she would just do better.
    dianaboz dianaboz 26-30, F 1 Response May 22

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    I Love Her, But She Loves Someone Else.

    I have feelings for my straight best female friend of five years. I started loving her like a friend and then my feelings grew. We almost had sex but I just wouldn't allow it, and we never touched on the subject again. In March she had "met" the love of her life. (I say "met...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Mar 3, 2013

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    Things Changed.

    We've been friends in high school and got to know each other. We had a lot in common and we had fun being together. Then when we got to college, we became inseparable, friends even pointed out that we're 'two peas in a pod' or we're each other partner-in-crime. Everyday after...
    deebsakjle deebsakjle 22-25 Jun 4, 2012

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    My Fault Or Hers?

    I've been best friends with "A" for about 2 years now. She lost her mom soon after we became friends. From the beginning we called each other sisters. She's 2 years younger than me and goes to public school, while I'm homeschooled. Things were going great up until 4 months ago...
    secretbestfriend secretbestfriend 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    Throughout high school I had a group of 5

    bestfriends. Near the end of highschool ended I started dating someone who I'm still with currently. It's been two years now. But in those two years. I've only hung out with three of those friends. One time each. And it was MY idea. They never want to hangout with me. One of...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F May 20

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    I feel like this post is out of place,

    but the reason that we're no longer best friends is because we just so happen to be dating now.
    throughthedoorway throughthedoorway 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    Firstly I don't really believe in 'best

    friends'. To me that term applies to the school yard. I have friends and close friends, however I wouldn't say I have a best friend. Anyway this one friend of mine I have known for about 16 years. We had some good times in the past going out together, I would go over his place...
    laughman laughman 31-35, M 2 Responses May 14

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    It Hurts

    It hurts so much that even the memories turn ugly. Losing that one person who said they'd be your bestfriend forever. Knowing you were once their first choice and now your probably the last. I never want to let myself hurt like that again, it's mental suicide and I won't put...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 13, 2012

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    Well... I don't want to not be best friends.

    He, is mean but I still love him and care for him. But I'm tired if hearing all this s**t he is depressed about. He has nothing to be sad about. He just brings me down. But I don't want to let him down. Idk..
    Everystormends Everystormends 13-15, F Jun 22

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    Changed

    I've never been on here and I only just found this on google as I was looking for a way to ease the pain of losing my best friend. It hurts a lot when someone you trust most ends...everything. Me and my best friend had known each other since we were 8 and we had both moved to...
    hungup hungup 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    You meet someone. You two get close.

    It's all great for awhile. Then someone stop trying. Talk less. Awkward conversations. The drifting. No communication whatsoever. Memories start to fade. Then that person you know becomes that person you KNEW. That's how it usually goes, right? Sad isn't it.
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Wont Talk To Me Anymore

    A friend of mine for 3 years, I wont say her name..is taking a mistake that happened months ago, and I lied about what happened when she wanted me to come completely clean. She kept asking when I have a girlfriend if I'd date her. I wouldn't date her when I was with someone else...
    shawnsullivan shawnsullivan 26-30 Oct 5, 2012

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    Nicole

    It just frazzled out. Everything was boring and all we seemed to do was meet up with our boyfriends and talk about them. I didn't say anything, i just complained to my boyfriend and left it at that, but she said ti to my face - basically called me boring and self centred. I took...
    amyloubelle amyloubelle 16-17 Sep 27, 2012

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    Hurt By a Friend

    so this girl and i used to be "Bffs" all through HS. We were both cheerleaders. We could talk about anything and tell each other our deepest secrets. we were unseperable. then, i graduated and went to college. she was a senior and still in HS. even though...
    JACK7600 JACK7600 18-21 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    My best friend and I were friends

    for 3 long years. Sadly our friendship is over, but I don't want to dwell on that. She's changed. She's not that girl that I knew anymore. But I still have all the amazing memories we have together. I really want to share some of my favorite memories with her, so here it goes...
    sarah81199 sarah81199 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    So I just say my best friend whom I got into a

    huge fight with he's not mad at me and he don't hate me but he wouldn't talk to me he kept looking at me but he wouldn't talk to me what does that mean??
    maddog1000 maddog1000 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Lost Friendship From Cheating Husband!

    i have lost a friend from a cheating husband... and i cant even describe the pain and utter furiation that i have been in. the husband is suicidal and I  had no choice to keep the problem to myself( and some close friends/that were also close friends of her as well...
    Lolacola1984 Lolacola1984 22-25, F Nov 16, 2008

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    Avoid My Ex- Best Grined Like the Plague

    After I got married my best friend and I started to drift apart. Then she moved to Europe which completely destroyed the friendship all together. Now when I see her I want to reach out and talk to her but I don't know how so I do my best to avoid her. We used to be so close...
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2008

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    Best Friends Can Become Strangers

    I had known my former best friend since we were in diapers. Our moms met in the doctors office when we were about a year old- two baby girls born days apart and with the same name. We stuck by each other through thick and thin. When I lost my house, she was there for me. When her...
    jess29 jess29 18-21, F Jun 24, 2012

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    So, I call her my "best friend" but I'm not really sure that's what it is. I think we've been friends for so long just because we need each other to communicate on a different...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Slapping your best friend when you get excited about something :D
    secret7148 secret7148 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Im having a Friends marathon XD thought about this when I saw the icon for this experience. But I do love hanging out with my friends
    CrossCountryLife CrossCountryLife 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    We dated for 2 years off and on. I still love him so much but he doesn't wanna settle down or get married. I also have kids now and he do want kids. I need someone who accepts my...
    chococatalatte chococatalatte 18-21, F Dec 14

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    Note that this.... is an entirely different story and not the same or a repeat of the story i wrote about my racist best friend who i lost. She came after the couple of girls i'm...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So far all my so called "best friends" aren't like best friends at all. I remember all of their birthdays every year and get them presents but no one seemed to remember my birthday...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I have a friend who's been my best friend for like 9 years and I know basically everything about her and we've been through soo much. We had huge fights before and there's an...
    Cornelia78 Cornelia78 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I dated this guy that was a little older than me and apparently my 'best friend' liked him before we dated. She never told me that she liked him, ever, and I even asked her for her...
    mouthyrage mouthyrage 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I had a best friend a few years ago, we were inseperateble we were each other's Rock, no matter what happened to us we knew we could count on each other to be there and if any guy...
    LayBishhh LayBishhh 22-25, F Nov 22

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    I wish i was like her! she's outgoing, sociable, bubbly, open and she is never shy. she gets so much guys and she gets asked out a lot, she will literally go up to anyone and say...
    juliac123 juliac123 13-15, F Nov 23