I Am Non Judgemental

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    Sometimes Maybe!

    i am not judgemental most of the time but i do find faults in me mother. she is such a sweet and lovely and naive that i just have this urge to protect her all the time. i feel guilty afterwords. no, i don't judge people, and , i don't like to be judged myself.
    sunlight26 sunlight26
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2009

    Right Or Wrong

    Why do some people always insist that they are unquestionably undisputedly totally and completely right?  Why do they have to be right all the time?  We all experience things differently, even though we might be in the same place at the same time.  One...
    SSCheerMO SSCheerMO
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2007

    Sorry but this group is ridiculous.

    We are all judgemental to an extent, even if we don't want to be. I can honestly say I try not to judge others, but sometimes I do. It's sometimes so quick and fast you barely realize you've done it. For example, say you saw someone with baggy pants and tattoos all over their...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    Thigh gaps are cute No thigh gaps are cute.

    Short hair is cute Long hair is cute. Flat tummy is cute No flat tummy is cute. But you know what isn't cute? Making someone feel terrible about their appearance simply because you don't like it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    Who Am I

    I strongly belive that no one should judge someone else. I don't like someone judging me !
    RayofSunShine55 RayofSunShine55
    56-60, T
    1 Response Oct 19, 2009

    Im not judgmental because i am learning to

    empathize. Everyone has a reason for doing what they do, even if they dot know the reason themselves. I try to see that reason and understand how it must feel. Whether you are suicidal, a psycho killer, a total crybaby, a peacemaker, or violent, i will empathize with you. I...
    BrinkOfPeace BrinkOfPeace
    16-17, M
    Jun 19, 2015

    I hope! I try to remain open mi des about

    people. Sometimes, it's difficult not to puck up on the category they tend to think they are.
    Bonhommeg Bonhommeg
    22-25, F
    Oct 3, 2015

    I Find Being Compassionate Is Better Than Being Judgemental

    I don't have it in me to say what someone else is doing is wrong and cast judgement. It really isn't any of my business and I have enough problems of my own to take the time to become someone's judge. I'd rather offer a listening ear and an open heart.
    Abriee Abriee
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2008

    I Hate Judging...

    I haven't really spoken up about this, but I really think that judging others needs to stop. Who gave you the right to judge anyone? Especially if that person isn't judging you.. I do not like to judge anyone because I have been judged my whole life and a lot of what people...
    purplebutterfly14 purplebutterfly14
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 1, 2011

    I Don't Judge People Becau...

    I don't judge people because I don't like being juded myself.
    PurpleUmbrella PurpleUmbrella
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 28, 2007
    anachick anachick
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    Judge People's Actions, Not People.

    I try very hard to not judge people. I have made the mistake of being too judgemental, and then I made the mistake of being too understanding of people. The first mistake made me a bitter, angry person, while the second mistake turned me into a doormat who got used. I have found...
    Sunburst Sunburst
    22-25
    Jun 9, 2010
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 29, 2015

    I Hate People Who Are Judgemental!

    I am definitely not a judgmental person. I just hate people who judge other people on something small, like looks or driving habits. I find it very rude!
    eastsidechick eastsidechick
    26-30, F
    Sep 2, 2007

    I Am Myself

    I joined EP to freely express MY-self. I support the right of every EP member to express THEM-selves. This includes the right of certain judgmental people to continue to write their misjudgments of other EPeeps. Let judgmental people reveal their true selves. I will not...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Sep 16, 2013

    Judge Not Less Ye Be Judged!

    That is what I always say. I have witnessed some of the most critical people in my life, mostly my family. My mother and my brother both are the most critical people I may ever know, and I think their critical nature has really taught me more then anything how NOT to be!! They...
    Mystic44 Mystic44
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2008

    Not My Place...

    I have found that alot of people make the mistake to think that just because they are ... rich... a certain color... live in a certain city... or part of that city... drive a certain type of car... wear something with a particular tag... carry a certain type of purse... can look...
    dctalk4him dctalk4him
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2008

    COLOR of Love

    I am a white woman that is married to a black man. This is not the first interracial relationship I have been involved in. I have never had an intimate relationship with a white man. When I was growing up I had to deal with my family and friends not understanding my choice for...
    vanilla vanilla
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2007

    Who Are We to Judge?

    I wrote this short poem years ago, after being judged harshly by someone who (I thought) loved me.  Rather than react in anger, I responded with this: Who are we to be the judge And jury, all the same? Who are we to toss aside Our misdeeds, with the blame? Who are we...
    azpoet5 azpoet5
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Sep 15, 2008

    Hey, Everyone: Would You Help With My Research Real Quick???

    Hey, All ~ I am a graduate student presently piloting the next study for my dissertation. I am in need of data from all kinds of people in all walks of life, but for this particular study, I need an unusually large pilot sample (details available upon request). I really...
    kelsonlab kelsonlab
    31-35
    May 17, 2012

    Learn to Be Non-judgemental

    It is hard to live a life without judging anybody including myself. At some point I want to give up. But this is a free world. I can't control how others think. Need to try harder to live and let live.
    winniebree winniebree
    26-30, F
    Dec 1, 2008

    I Dislike Judgmental People Like Seriously I

    Don't Understand These People Who Come Around And Just Judge People based On Nothing! Like based On Theirselves? Ya Like They're Perfect! No It Is Wrong..... I Believe No Matter What No Body Have Any Right To Judge Anybody based On Anything, At All. Period
    zee20 zee20
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    Never Judge a Book By Its Cover

    Thats probably one thing that has always been said to me throughout my life and I think its so true. I am glad I was brought up not judging people. I don't get why so many people make assumptions as soon as the see how a person looks. Those kind of people are missing out big time...
    NiRiada NiRiada
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2008

    Hey, Everyone: Would You Help With My Research Real Quick???

    Hey, All ~ I am a graduate student presently piloting the next study for my dissertation. I am in need of data from all kinds of people in all walks of life, but for this particular study, I need an unusually large pilot sample (details available upon request). I really...
    kelsonlab kelsonlab
    31-35
    May 17, 2012

    Who Am I to Judge?

    I try very, very hard not to judge people.  We are all human, and I have caught myself doing it on occasion, unintentionally.  We never know what people have experienced to make them the way they are.  Once I met a lady who dressed...provocatively.  She...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 5, 2008

    I Do My Best to Be Reasonable

    I'm not very old, but I have learned a few things over the years. One is that you never know what's really going on in someone's head. Doesn't matter if it's your best friend, spouse, or mom. We can never know what it's like to be in someone else's place. That's a good reason not...
    PewterFantasy PewterFantasy
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2008

    Holding Judgement?

    I try not to make any assumptions on anyone. People do things for various reasons. Without the knowledge of these reasons I feel I have no right to judge the action.
    Xeno Xeno
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 2, 2007

    Good Reasoning

    I'm not a person to judge without good reasoning.  I tend to try and understand how the human mind works, and to work with the differences and flaws of the person.      We are human, humans are entitled to make their mistakes, and NONE are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2008

    I Didn't

    I tend to understand being human, which is weak, full of emotions, tied down to this hell on earth.  I am not the Creator, so who am I to judge? Judging others is unfair, look at yourself.  Do you have the right? We are created all the same.
    Neveah Neveah
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2008

    Experiences

    Life experiences made me less judgemental. I used to judje people - if they got bad grades I just assumed they were stupid. If they didn't work they were of course lazy, and nothing else. Now, when I have more experiences I understand people better. I've been there now. It has...
    Lola91 Lola91
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

    Let The Holy Spirit Judge Not You!

    As a Christian alot of persecution is handed down from those who are not, However I think non- belivers are equally misjudged by belivers.  So I let the Spirit judge.  For only God knows what is Right and not only he knows  good from evil.  "Becareful if you belive you stand...
    Yahlives Yahlives
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2011

    As I got older and hopefully wiser,

    I learnt NOT to judge anyone or anythingWe are only humansWe all have traits and faultsWhat makes us think we have the right to judge others?What makes us bigger and others smaller?What makes us smarter and others dumb?And i hope as time goes bymore and more people embrace...
    TheBlowersDaughter TheBlowersDaughter
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    Yes, I Do Enjoy Making Jokes A...

    Yes, I do enjoy making jokes and sometimes innocent people are subjects to them.  However they are never intended to be cruel or to be heard by the person.  I will be the first person to poke fun at stereotypes of people just to show how untrue they really are.  I...
    itmaybeourlast itmaybeourlast
    18-21, F
    Sep 28, 2007

    I came across an Instagram photo today,

    this girl, probably my age, was wearing shorts, and a crop top. Most of the comments had something to do with her being trashy, and it was quite sad. So.. Just because someone is showing skin, makes them trashy? No. If people would worry about themselves. And let people be...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    I Try Not To Be

    Since I don't want to be judged I try not to judge others.  Plus we often never know what is behind the scenes and if we did we might be more understanding anyway.
    IamGone IamGone
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jul 8, 2010

    I Try to Be. ...

    I try to be. I don't want anyone judging me, what gives me the right to judge anyone else. Every now and then I get thought in my head that are harshly judgmental. Then I remind myself that I am no better or worse than anyone else and I don't have the right. It is Gods place to...
    silvertears silvertears
    31-35, F
    Sep 28, 2007

    Should I Move In With My Boyfriend I Need Help Asap

    I don't know whether or not to move in with my boyfriend. We first met in NY for a project. He is from Arizona and I am originally from NY. Our relationship hasn't been perfect just like any relationship we have had our ups and downs. After the project was over I had been unable...
    Jan 24, 2013

    Not My Area

    What right have I to judge you?  I'm not inside your head.  I don't know any of your backstory or motivations.  Even if I walk a mile in your shoes, I still see the world through the filter of my own experience.  Even those choices you make that seem...
    MossAgate MossAgate
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2010

    I'm not here to judge you guy coz I can be

    friendly. Just be yourself and don't worry.
    anonymousstrangerhere anonymousstrangerhere
    26-30, M
    May 19, 2015

    In my personal life, I am not judgmental at all.

    However, when it comes to my employment, I am very judgmental because I am a military attorney and judge. I must judge the defendant's case accordingly and as to merit of the individual case. If the defendant is found guilty, it is my job to pass judgment on this military...
    momanddaughteratbeach momanddaughteratbeach
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2014

    I Accept People, and I'm Happy About It

    I can't understand why some people can just look at a few things in a person's life and stereotype them. I don't judge people for what color their skin is, how tall they are, what religion they choose, or orientation and stuff like that. All of those issues are petty in...
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2007
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