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I Am Non Judgemental

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    I do what I do because I choose to, and assume others do what they do because they choose to - i respect peoples choices in life because i don`t question their choices, i`m sure they have their reasoning - but its up to them, not me, it`s their life, not mine...
    diztrbd diztrbd 18-21, F Oct 13, 2007

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    I Try Not to Judge.

    I try not to judge. It's not alsways easy but I try not to judge. People think, feel and see things differently and each persons opinions should be respected. It's not my place to judge what is right and wrong. I do however tend to make judgemnt when someone deliberately sets...
    titfortattoo titfortattoo 36-40, F Nov 13, 2007

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    COLOR of Love

    I am a white woman that is married to a black man. This is not the first interracial relationship I have been involved in. I have never had an intimate relationship with a white man. When I was growing up I had to deal with my family and friends not understanding my choice for...
    vanilla vanilla 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2007

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    Should I Move In With My Boyfriend I Need Help Asap

    I don't know whether or not to move in with my boyfriend. We first met in NY for a project. He is from Arizona and I am originally from NY. Our relationship hasn't been perfect just like any relationship we have had our ups and downs. After the project was over I had been unable...
    Jan 24, 2013

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    Not My Place...

    I have found that alot of people make the mistake to think that just because they are ... rich... a certain color... live in a certain city... or part of that city... drive a certain type of car... wear something with a particular tag... carry a certain type of purse... can look...
    dctalk4him dctalk4him 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2008

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    I Am Myself

    I joined EP to freely express MY-self. I support the right of every EP member to express THEM-selves. This includes the right of certain judgmental people to continue to write their misjudgments of other EPeeps. Let judgmental people reveal their true selves. I will not...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 9 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Hey, Everyone: Would You Help With My Research Real Quick???

    Hey, All ~ I am a graduate student presently piloting the next study for my dissertation. I am in need of data from all kinds of people in all walks of life, but for this particular study, I need an unusually large pilot sample (details available upon request). I really...
    kelsonlab kelsonlab 31-35 May 17, 2012

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    Good Reasoning

    I'm not a person to judge without good reasoning.  I tend to try and understand how the human mind works, and to work with the differences and flaws of the person.      We are human, humans are entitled to make their mistakes, and NONE are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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    I Hate Judging...

    I haven't really spoken up about this, but I really think that judging others needs to stop. Who gave you the right to judge anyone? Especially if that person isn't judging you.. I do not like to judge anyone because I have been judged my whole life and a lot of what people...
    purplebutterfly14 purplebutterfly14 18-21, F 5 Responses May 1, 2011

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    I Don't Judge People Becau...

    I don't judge people because I don't like being juded myself.
    PurpleUmbrella PurpleUmbrella 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2007

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    JUDGE Me Not !!

    I dont believe anyone has the right to judge another person, we all have different feelings/opinions and deal with things in different ways, the way one person deals with something is often very different to how someone else deals with it.....what we do and how we react...
    TIPSY TIPSY 36-40, F Feb 4, 2008

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    Who Are We to Judge?

    I wrote this short poem years ago, after being judged harshly by someone who (I thought) loved me.  Rather than react in anger, I responded with this: Who are we to be the judge And jury, all the same? Who are we to toss aside Our misdeeds, with the blame? Who are we...
    azpoet5 azpoet5 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    Hey, Everyone: Would You Help With My Research Real Quick???

    Hey, All ~ I am a graduate student presently piloting the next study for my dissertation. I am in need of data from all kinds of people in all walks of life, but for this particular study, I need an unusually large pilot sample (details available upon request). I really...
    kelsonlab kelsonlab 31-35 May 17, 2012

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    I Dislike Judgmental People Like Seriously I

    Don't Understand These People Who Come Around And Just Judge People based On Nothing! Like based On Theirselves? Ya Like They're Perfect! No It Is Wrong..... I Believe No Matter What No Body Have Any Right To Judge Anybody based On Anything, At All. Period
    zee20 zee20 18-21, F Jan 22

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    Learn to Be Non-judgemental

    It is hard to live a life without judging anybody including myself. At some point I want to give up. But this is a free world. I can't control how others think. Need to try harder to live and let live.
    winniebree winniebree 26-30, F Dec 1, 2008

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    Right Or Wrong

    Why do some people always insist that they are unquestionably undisputedly totally and completely right?  Why do they have to be right all the time?  We all experience things differently, even though we might be in the same place at the same time.  One...
    SSCheerMO SSCheerMO 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2007

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    I Consider Myself to Be Pretty...

    I consider myself to be pretty non-judgmental,at least outwardly. What i mean is that though I might THINK that something you do or believe  is pretty ridiculous, I am willing to keep my mouth shut and let you figure it out for yourself.
    timmerb timmerb 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 28, 2007

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    Yes, I Do Enjoy Making Jokes A...

    Yes, I do enjoy making jokes and sometimes innocent people are subjects to them.  However they are never intended to be cruel or to be heard by the person.  I will be the first person to poke fun at stereotypes of people just to show how untrue they really are.  I...
    itmaybeourlast itmaybeourlast 19-21, F Sep 28, 2007

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    I Do My Best to Be Reasonable

    I'm not very old, but I have learned a few things over the years. One is that you never know what's really going on in someone's head. Doesn't matter if it's your best friend, spouse, or mom. We can never know what it's like to be in someone else's place. That's a good reason not...
    PewterFantasy PewterFantasy 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2008

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    I Try As Hard As I Can Not to ...

    I try as hard as I can not to judge people. I seem to do it though and not even realize what I am doing.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Feb 26, 2008

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    Let The Holy Spirit Judge Not You!

    As a Christian alot of persecution is handed down from those who are not, However I think non- belivers are equally misjudged by belivers.  So I let the Spirit judge.  For only God knows what is Right and not only he knows  good from evil.  "Becareful if you belive you stand...
    Yahlives Yahlives 26-30 2 Responses Mar 4, 2011

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    Experiences

    Life experiences made me less judgemental. I used to judje people - if they got bad grades I just assumed they were stupid. If they didn't work they were of course lazy, and nothing else. Now, when I have more experiences I understand people better. I've been there now. It has...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    To a Fault

    I always give people the benefit of the doubt. And  a lot of times they don't deserve half of the chance i give them.
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F Mar 5, 2008

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    I Try Not To Be

    Since I don't want to be judged I try not to judge others.  Plus we often never know what is behind the scenes and if we did we might be more understanding anyway.
    IamGone IamGone 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2010

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    Never Judge a Book By Its Cover

    Thats probably one thing that has always been said to me throughout my life and I think its so true. I am glad I was brought up not judging people. I don't get why so many people make assumptions as soon as the see how a person looks. Those kind of people are missing out big time...
    NiRiada NiRiada 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2008

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    It's Hard to Come By...

    people that aren't judgemental, especially in today's world. and if you do come by people that are non judgemental, you can trust them..Im not judgemental.at all
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2007

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    Judge Not Less Ye Be Judged!

    That is what I always say. I have witnessed some of the most critical people in my life, mostly my family. My mother and my brother both are the most critical people I may ever know, and I think their critical nature has really taught me more then anything how NOT to be!! They...
    Mystic44 Mystic44 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    I Didn't

    I tend to understand being human, which is weak, full of emotions, tied down to this hell on earth.  I am not the Creator, so who am I to judge? Judging others is unfair, look at yourself.  Do you have the right? We are created all the same.
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 22, 2008

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    Holding Judgement?

    I try not to make any assumptions on anyone. People do things for various reasons. Without the knowledge of these reasons I feel I have no right to judge the action.
    Xeno Xeno 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 2, 2007

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    Not My Area

    What right have I to judge you?  I'm not inside your head.  I don't know any of your backstory or motivations.  Even if I walk a mile in your shoes, I still see the world through the filter of my own experience.  Even those choices you make that seem...
    MossAgate MossAgate 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Sometimes Maybe!

    i am not judgemental most of the time but i do find faults in me mother. she is such a sweet and lovely and naive that i just have this urge to protect her all the time. i feel guilty afterwords. no, i don't judge people, and , i don't like to be judged myself.
    sunlight26 sunlight26 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2009

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    Who Am I to Judge?

    I try very, very hard not to judge people.  We are all human, and I have caught myself doing it on occasion, unintentionally.  We never know what people have experienced to make them the way they are.  Once I met a lady who dressed...provocatively.  She...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    Judge People's Actions, Not People.

    I try very hard to not judge people. I have made the mistake of being too judgemental, and then I made the mistake of being too understanding of people. The first mistake made me a bitter, angry person, while the second mistake turned me into a doormat who got used. I have found...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 Jun 9, 2010

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    I Try to Be. ...

    I try to be. I don't want anyone judging me, what gives me the right to judge anyone else. Every now and then I get thought in my head that are harshly judgmental. Then I remind myself that I am no better or worse than anyone else and I don't have the right. It is Gods place to...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F Sep 28, 2007

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    I Accept People, and I'm Happy About It

    I can't understand why some people can just look at a few things in a person's life and stereotype them. I don't judge people for what color their skin is, how tall they are, what religion they choose, or orientation and stuff like that. All of those issues are petty in...
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2007

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    I Hate People Who Are Judgemental!

    I am definitely not a judgmental person. I just hate people who judge other people on something small, like looks or driving habits. I find it very rude!
    eastsidechick eastsidechick 26-30, F Sep 2, 2007

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    We All Have the Right to Evaluate...

    We all have the right to chose to associate with those who we want. We have the right to evaluate others actions and determine if we agree or not with those choices. However none of us are the defining authority on life or philosophy. People come here to vent and share and...
    doitagain doitagain 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    I Try to Be Openminded, Not Ma...

    I try to be openminded, not many things bother me. The only time I really turn against people, or judge them, are people like emos who want to self harm or suffer from an eating disorder... when people ask for tips, i judge them straight off, and I know I really shouldnt. But...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    I Find Being Compassionate Is Better Than Being Judgemental

    I don't have it in me to say what someone else is doing is wrong and cast judgement. It really isn't any of my business and I have enough problems of my own to take the time to become someone's judge. I'd rather offer a listening ear and an open heart.
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I see so many people saying that they are open minded! Do they even know what it means? I think not, most are under the delusion that it means they accept this or that latest fad...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Easter without all my kids and as unbelievable as this may sound I'm being denied time with them for "non cooperation"
    alexakisfan1997 alexakisfan1997 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My biggest pet peeve is when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F Apr 3

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    in my view nonviolence doesn't limited to physical assault. to hurt anyone with rude or harsh words is also nonviolence because words r more killer than assault, because these not...
    aspirant00 aspirant00 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    It just seems wherever I look, that people just do what everyone else is doing to "fit it" or "not judged". They also accept authority, a lot of times unquestioned. Society needs...
    actionjackson7 actionjackson7 18-21, M Apr 2

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    TREATING EVERYBODY THE SAME! I treat everybody the same so that there's no jealousy or arguments! On EP I don't have a best friend because I treat people the same and that way...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Dollars are non cents! Boom Shaka laka
    Venturawhite Venturawhite 26-30, M Mar 25

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    I don't actually have this as far as I know. But I definitely do have seizures, still trying to get a diagnosis, and I want to watch this group and find out what I can about PNES...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    If you want to be one of the nonconformists, all you have to do is dress just like us and listen to the same music we do.
    undead33 undead33 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23

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    I am not a perfect person. I've made bad choices & displayed poor behavior in my past. I've paid the price for it & I've learned from it. What really gets to me though is, other...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I am a very judgmental person and hold nothing back. I judge based on everything; your looks, your behavior, and your intellect. I am very critical and am not ashamed. I get a lot...
    Mehsy Mehsy 16-17, M Apr 3

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    People are too quick to put someone down or be nasty just because they have different opinions or act differently. What differences does it make to them what that person does. It's...
    AriaSteel AriaSteel 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    But sometimes I wish I'd never started. There are just some subject matters that are better left unknown, some doors never meant to be opened...
    Axelton Axelton 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    As of late, my current "best friend", is a guy, that's facing HUGE pressure from his parents to find a woman, and get married to her. His dilemma is that, he's addicted to d**k...
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 20

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