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I Am Nonjudgmental About the Journey of Others

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    We're Each The Author Of Our Own Story

    I would be a liar if I said I did not have an opinion in the back of my mind when it comes to people and their life choices....but that is all I have... an opinion.  If I am asked for it....I will give it....but I realize that when I am not....it is my duty to shut the Hell up...
    evolving2010 evolving2010 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    I Will Never

    Im not judgmental to others because its not right to judge people if u don’t know him or her cause for one its not right to judge someone that u don’t now I mean get to now someone before u judge someone I mean being judgemental toward some one is not fare toward them or u...
    tiara1992 tiara1992 18-21, F Sep 10, 2011

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    A Reminder To All..

    A lot of times on EP I notice responses to questions or confessions that are very negative and judgemental. We are all on here to express how we feel, that is what EP is about! :) I think we should all go by the old rule of "if you do not have anything nice to say then do not say...
    lovelightlove lovelightlove 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    I HAVEN'T WALKED IN YOUR SHOES!

    Me going through a hard life and suffering a lot of things have shaped my perception to life of other people! I completely understand what life is like and how hard it can be! Also I got no right to look down at someone and judge their life because I'm not exactly perfect and...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Open The Book And Let The Story Be Told

    If there is one thing that I have learned in this lifetime, it’s that you should never judge someone. No matter how beautiful they are, or how much they smile, or even how weird they act, there's always a story behind the face, a tale behind the mask. Never judge a book by...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 20 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Lesson of Life

    After years and years of being critisized and hurt by other people, ...I finally realized that no one can understand your pain unless they have experienced themselves...I have been judged all my life and i have become upset because nobody knew who I really was...There are people...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2009

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    Every Path And Experience Is Real And Valid.

    This is a no-brainer. Everybody's path and experiences are real and valid. It's only arrogant and egotistical to pretend that yours is better, or even worse, the ONLY real path.
    HereticBlood HereticBlood 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    We All Have Our Own Journey

    i have a great cd that says we are all on our individual path that leads to the same high mountain,and really that describes it perfectly.and i think that we all came here with a path to follow and even if along the way we stray from that path we will ultimately be guided back...
    annaleestarr annaleestarr 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2010

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    Fantasy Land

    Much of the sensation here on EP about sexual fantasies, friendship, and adventure, we sometimes tend to forget who we are. We so complicate ourselves with so much. We hurt and become hurt. I can see that there's no barrier. Everything is with freedom to express. To succumb...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Really Am...

    I firmly believe that a person has the right to live their life the way they want.  To each his own.  I don't judge them on what they like or don't like and I definitely don't shove my ideas or beliefs down anyone's throat.  I try to remain open-minded to all who...
    purpleriz purpleriz 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2009

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    Many Paths....

    When I think about myself several years ago when I first went back to school and was going for my degree I wanted to change everyone, I wanted to tell them nooo you are doing it wrong! wow have I learned. I've learned much, and changed in many ways and see so much clearer now...
    polkio polkio 26-30, F Jul 14, 2012

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    cherryjar cherryjar 26-30, F Sep 20

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    Everyone Walks Their Own Path

    I was judged recently for choosing to drop out of college when I was nineteen. They said I was a disappointment. This came from a total stranger. I was offended at first, but now I just feel pity for them. Some people don't understand that in life there are many different paths...
    MamaMoopsie MamaMoopsie 22-25, F 2 Responses May 27, 2008

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    I Can't Judge

    Who am i to judge the life journey of others?  We, each of us, has reasons, consciously and subconsciously, that influence and guide us, whether into or away from certain choices....My choices would not be your choices and vice versa; life happens but its how we deal with it...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2011

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    Welcome Bod - To The World Of Being Nonjudgemental, Feel Free To Read...

    My older story.  Here is your chance to share your views. and to continue our lovely horrid conversation.  Kim ABOVE IS THE OPENING STATEMENT  FOR THIS 38 INTERESTING COMMENTS UNTIL BEGINNING AGAIN WITH 39+, WATCH A LARGE SKIP IN THE DATES, THE STORY STARTS DEC.26TH, I PICK IT...
    krazeeKimberly krazeeKimberly 46-50, F 37 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    Different Paths

    I may not agree with your choices.  I may not understand them, and the unknown is always scary.  But I will listen, and suspend my judgement.  I will hear what you say, and what you do not say.  Your road may be very different from mine, and that's okay. ...
    MossAgate MossAgate 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2010

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    Life Is Learning

    What is the point of being judgemental? We are all human, we have all made mistakes. We have different views arising from different conditioning, parenting, cultures, traditions. Your choices will be different to mine and rightly so - what a boring place this world would be if...
    glenara glenara 66-70, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2010

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    Every Individual Walk

    Everybody has their own walk and if we take the time to listen to anothers story we learn something new about ourselves and our own walk. The key I believe is to hear and appreciate all walks of life and admire any talent great or small. warm regards to all Nadie.
    Nadie2012 Nadie2012 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2012

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    Most of the Time At Least

    I try and see things from the other person's point of view unless what I see is an attitude of entitlement.  The state owes me this and that.  You know, that kind of thing.  I've had some problems in my growing up so I think I can empathize with others but...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 6 Responses May 26, 2008

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    Nonjudgmental

    Nonjudmental,That's me,I don't judge,What path you take,That's up to you,I'm not your judge.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 16, 2011

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    Yes, I'm Very Nonjudgme...

    Yes, I'm very nonjudgmental about others, whether they are on a "journey"  or just circling the bowl waiting for the suction to take them down.  I don't even judge murderers.  I know they are some people that NEED kill'in.
    AyeAye AyeAye 46-50, F 2 Responses May 26, 2008

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    Small Town Country Girl

    The words began to come back to me all the time around every path I walk a person stands in my way saying. " how could you that" or " omg that isn't right I'm sorry" and the best of them all "your to young to do anything yet and know much". Let me open your eyes,ears and put...
    Elizabeth1993 Elizabeth1993 18-21, F Mar 11, 2013

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    The Journey !

    That's what it is ! The journey . Regards .
    Auror Auror 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2013

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    I Am A Liberal, Drug Addicted, Lesbian,unwed,pregnant Latina, Welfare Recipient!

    Ok, I may have taken a few literary freedoms in my title and told several mistruths, but I wanted to get your attention. For the record, I am half Latina...lol.. Those who know me well, know how strongly I feel about respecting other peoples choices, even when you may not agree...
    OnlyOneChiquita OnlyOneChiquita 41-45, F 23 Responses Jun 28, 2010

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    To Each, His Own

     I don't care so much what people choose to do with their lives. I think in every person you know what you are doing. It may not look like it at times but you know. For example, my closest friend constantly wants to get into relationships. I think its bad for her and I tell...
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Walk a Mile In My Shoes

    Everyone has different points of view, different experiences in life. Each decision that a person makes takes them down a road on their on very personal journey. I know that many people are so quick to judge, and strongly believe that no matter what - the 'said person' is...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2009

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    Walking The Path

    I don't believe in coincidences,,, I believe we are all on our own journey though life. As we walk the path we are often alone and lonely but sometimes we meet people that seem to be going in the same direction. While you share the path you may blend and have a pleasant...
    LbQueen961 LbQueen961 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    I Am Nonjudgemental About The Journey Of Others Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . i am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 28, 2013

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    I Have Only Recently Realized How Damaging It Can Be To Your Self View

    I no longer associate with family or friends that try to conquor me with their truths.  I am now in touch with my views of who I am, and realized how mych crap I had adopted from others, who you would think were authorities.  I no longer will conform to any assessment...
    krazeeKimberly krazeeKimberly 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    Many Roads

    One way or another, we are all on this planed to accomplish something.  And while the ultimate goal is different for each, we all have one goal in common:  we come here to learn.  So how do I, as much a traveler as anyone, have any right to condemn the path another...
    Geode Geode 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    I like to think that I'm nonjudgmental.

    ..but every now & then I find myself judging others. I don't like being judged myself, so I back up & just let people be who they are. It's not for me to say that their journey here is good or bad, right or wrong, moral or immoral....we all have our own journeys to go on. We...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F Sep 19

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    Specific

    Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life; everyone must carry out a concrete assignment that demands fulfillment. Therein he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be repeated, thus, everyone's task is unique as his specific opportunity to implement it. Viktor E...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    Life Paths

    For each person around me who is going through a difficult time, I view them as challenges in their life in which they must learn those lessons in their life cycle.  This doesn’t not mean per say that others are not allowed to interfere by providing comfort, advice, or...
    Azoru Azoru 26-30 1 Response Jun 3, 2010

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    Your Own Journey

    If there is one motto I live by that is ..Do not judge others until you have walked the same path.Everyone is on their own journey, making their own choices, some of these choices you may agree with and some you may not but it's not our place to say what is right or wrong for...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2011

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    I Wander...

    I have come across so many different types of people the last several years since I have become aware of my awakening process. The people that choose to come in contact with me are usually heavily burdened, sad, depressed, given up on life. I being an empath feel and share...
    MoonFlower11 MoonFlower11 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    Just Too Many Different Experiences

        We all have different things going on, different pasts, all that. Who is anyone to say anything negative to another? Life is hard enough already!!! on that note, good luck and mad love and respect to each and every one of you!!
    AmberRenee AmberRenee 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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    I Try

    I haven't always been this way. As I get older and have more of my own experiences, both good and bad, I am far less judgemental. Some things are just plain"wrong," and most of us agree. You can't rape, murder, or abuse other people. Most other things that people have...
    autimom autimom 31-35, F 13 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    I Learned

    that being judgmental only caused me to judge myself more.  It was a completely destructive exercise.  So I learned to stop.  I'm supportive of everyone - and I try to be encouraging.  By being accepting and non-judgmental - it opens up a world of...
    yukonpete yukonpete 36-40 3 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    Everyone Has Their Own Reason For Being ...

    It seems the time to write this experience, since I was just misjudged myself recently ...  by someone who's faults I've looked past and their rude behavior tolerated ...  From a young age I've been able to see why people are the way they are ...  That eyes-open...
    gottaBhappy gottaBhappy 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Never.

    Everyone has there own path ahead of them. They make their own mistakes, choices and judgments. As do I. I know about choosing the wrong path and having to find my way back.I know about having to do whats right for you, no matter what anyone else thinks. I know about being...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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