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I Am Not a Cheater

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    Not Any Longer

     Since the Bobbit case I've tried to keep myself buttoned up except at home.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M Jan 24, 2009

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 12 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    I am now on a life long mission to destroy the personal lives of cheaters who continue on their life of self lustification and self gratification. This being a long weekend coming...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have news for you... cheaters cheat because they're unhappy. There's two sides to every story.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    This may be long and scrambled a bit but I will try my best. This is my first post. I have been with the same man for a little over 4 years and he is a cheater, among other things...
    straightjacketdolly straightjacketdolly 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I am so angry. I give everything. All I get in return is to be cheated on. **** him who does he think he is. All those stupid *****.. I will never ever trust another man again. I...
    frances91 frances91 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I'm in a long relationship with someone who is one of the best men in the world. But our relationship is not going anywhere with no future promises. . I love him & he loves me but...
    TurningPage2013 TurningPage2013 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    He cheated 3 months into us dating with an ex who he wasn't over. I didn't find out until our 4th month of dating, after we said we loved each other. I literally found out he...
    berrybumble berrybumble 18-21, F Mar 20

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    Keri Anne Kiss Stephens of Palm Desert sleeps with married men. She's a liar and a thief. She is not to be trusted around your husband or family members or anything of value...
    threesacharm threesacharm 51-55, F Mar 21

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    I just don't understand. My friend and I both had our husbands cheat on us. I left based on my no tolerance policy and several months of therapy to enforce it. She stays because...
    2smart4him 2smart4him 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    We were married almost nine years, I was pregnant with our third child and he cheated. Everything was a lie! Here we are two years later and the scars are still so very real and...
    undecided423 undecided423 31-35, F Mar 29

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    It's so annoying when you think that there faithful but then have his best friend tell you he's cheating on you AGAIN!!! 😡
    smilezlove143 smilezlove143 13-15, F Mar 30

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    It's simply disgusting when people cheat on their spouses and I will have no sympathy for these people. If lying alone is disgusting enough because you can't be trusted, now the...
    Close2You Close2You 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I love my girlfriend, but i have connected with another woman over email twice, and each time been caught. I was involved with the other woman online before, and i fear that i...
    Ghost1400 Ghost1400 22-25, M Apr 7

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    Below will be my understanding of the word LOVE between a man and a women. Too often, the misconception of this word can be conflicting, deceived, mistrusted, thrown around and...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    It just sucks. Everybody my age is getting married and having kids. I know I'm young, I'm only 20, I have my whole life but meeting somebody great would be amazing. All my exs...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 27

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    I don't believe that once someone has cheated, they are always a cheater. I think it depends very much on the scenario, and what the 'cheater' gained from the infidelity. If it's...
    typhoonfighter typhoonfighter 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Yes, I'm the paranoid type, I'll admit that. I've checked his phone for texts and there's usually nothing. But I've seen the setting is set to delete any read text messages. So...
    smilesofazombie smilesofazombie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Did most of you start a relationship with your man only to later find out he was married? Or did you start the relationship despite him being married? Do you feel guilt? Do you...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 12 Responses Apr 10

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    Recently I've gained feelings for an ex again. I was dating this guy for about 7 months and the relationship was good but he lied about little things, seemed to have trust issues...
    kayceebby kayceebby 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hate is a strong word, but an appropriate one. I hate to love him most of the time. Most amazing yet worst relationship I've ever been in. He cheated, multiple times. I was that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So i dont get people who want to beg those who have cheated to come back into their life. Serioisly WTF they are a ****** person with obviously no sense of loyalty or maturity to...
    KMBJuneBaby14 KMBJuneBaby14 22-25, F Mar 19

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    5 things I hate are, 5.Lies. white lies,sugar coated lies they're all lies so a big NO NO.. 4.head games. I hate them! who wouldn't anyways? head games are played by stupid...
    akirayuuki akirayuuki 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Hey there, I'm Laila :). So I've never posted a story and am trying something new. Here goes something: Top 10 Things About Me 1. My username is actually from a song, though it...
    ourdirtylittlesecret ourdirtylittlesecret 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I have wrote story ,, I was the other women,,,, Wow they got it deleted,,, what happen did i hit nail on the head you out cheating your spouse was out having fun to,,,the cheater...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F Mar 21

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    I blocked my ex husband of 4 years for 2 months because he is a liar and a cheater. I am proud that I stayed strong and stopped trying with him. I am proud of myself that I quit...
    melabanks melabanks 31-35, F Mar 21

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    Does true love exist or does a soulmate exist. There are way to many variables to know the right answer lots of people say if it's meant to be it will be b/c of faith and all this...
    AspireEmotions AspireEmotions 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I believe I'll find Mr. Right someday. He doesn't have to be perfect. Just be loving and not a cheater.
    courtneyblue courtneyblue 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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    Recently have seen this subject come up again with the men and women that are married, having affairs and stating that they intend to leave at some point. So I say to just be...
    Judy54 Judy54 51-55 3 Responses Mar 27

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    My boyfriend now of 4 months always accuses me of being a cheater, when me and him first met it was all fine and dandy, but as time progressed he would get mad over something that...
    hopelessromanticxo hopelessromanticxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Hello everyone... Seriously.. How do u move on after being cheated on.. It has been 2 freaking years. I am still with my boyfriend (the cheater) but we keep on fighting and...
    Confusedgirlforever Confusedgirlforever 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    5 things i like 1. My Crush 2. Blue 3. Kpop/Korea in general 4. Music/Trumpet 5. Food 5 things i dont like 1. ******** who lie 2. People who can keep their promise...
    Ali7890 Ali7890 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Distress call part 2 Zane and Cynthia where still running though the caves tunnels. It felt like they weren't making much progress. But the two soon found their selfs at a dead...