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I Am Not a Cheater

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    it seems like every single friend of mine

    cheats at tests or homework....I have never cheated, not even once lol
    yairdjudas999 yairdjudas999 18-21, M May 21, 2015

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    Although I've been accused enough,

    not sure why he would ever think I would do that... I could never be responsible for another mans wife and children's sadness and betrayal
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 22, 2015

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2, 2012

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29, 2014

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    I dont date cheat....

    when it comes to homework and test well everyone has cheated at that ????
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 20, 2015

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 18-21 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 26-30 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Funny asoldiersgirl2012 is pissed at her man

    because he might be up to no good yet she is the cartoon mascot of I am the other woman and very supportive too of them ( I Don't judge them by the way each case is subjective)this is between me and her as she personally attacked me I wonder whether she would be supportive of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    If your planning to cheat to your partner

    or other half? You'd better fix your problem Or move out, because there's still a tendency that you're going to do it again,if your not being caught.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 5 Responses May 21, 2015

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Everytime I'm on facebook and I see a "joint couples" fcbk account, I always wonder to myself, ok which one is the cheater and which one is the raving lunatic in that...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 1 hr ago

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    Jacob was a cheater, Peter had a temper, David had an affair, Noah got drunk, Jonah ran from God, Paul was a murderer, Gideon was insecure, Miriam was a gossiper, Martha was a...
    jburns1947 jburns1947 61-65, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Jacob was a cheater, Peter had a temper, David had an affair, Noah got drunk, Jonah ran from God, Paul was a murderer, Gideon was insecure, Miriam was a gossiper, Martha was a...
    jburns1947 jburns1947 61-65, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    It's been my experience that cheaters are often successful in making others fool while sincere people are left alone at the end with empty hand. Nobody believe them.
    danishkhanm danishkhanm 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was coming home to be with you even before I was supposed to leave this lonely country but I never knew until 2 days ago that for 6 months now you've been cheating on me and...
    LeeLooLeeLoo LeeLooLeeLoo 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    this women tried to flag my post which was just a poem about people that cheat. she most be a cheater herself to feel so offended
    luv2pee23 luv2pee23 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    This is a true story of what happened to Greg Zaffuto. I have just experienced much the same and do not want this to happen to you, so I am sharing the following. I apologize for...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 4 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really do not understand cheating either as I have been happy with the same beautiful lady for the past 21 years. I have not had any urges to find another or have more than one...
    cpguy cpguy 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    think my bf is cheating. talking and commerical comes on for the new James bond movie and he says good movie even though we missed the beginning. because I was 45 minutes late not...
    DeShawn20 DeShawn20 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't understand why feminists would have any problems with cheating. 1. Marriage is a commercial agreement. 2. Terminate agreement in advance (cheating), charge a certain amount...
    cracklecradle cracklecradle 22-25, M 10 Responses Feb 2

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    Yeah I ******* hate them 😑. In my previous relationship, the guy lied and cheated with me. I don't understand why??? If you are losing interest in someone then tell them up...
    NatureLover16 NatureLover16 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    23 years and lived like I was single the last eight... I didn't want to admit defeat, but it does take two to want it to work, what I didn't know and wasn't looking foe was that...
    manofintegrity manofintegrity 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    23 years and lived like I was single the last eight... I didn't want to admit defeat, but it does take two to want it to work, what I didn't know and wasn't looking foe was that...
    manofintegrity manofintegrity 56-60, M Feb 1

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    I am single I hate it I need a bf someone who is not a jerk and a cheater or liar and someone who is not an hour a way cause that didn't work and no fem like guys srry only...
    demonicnm17 demonicnm17 16-17, M Jan 31

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