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I Am Not a Cheater

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Not Any Longer

     Since the Bobbit case I've tried to keep myself buttoned up except at home.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M Jan 24, 2009

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 12 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 16-17 1 Response Jun 1

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Once a cheater always a cheater :'( 😞💔
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F Aug 1

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    Once I am in a committed relationship, I absolutely refuse to cheat! I have been cheated on... it sucks! I have helped someone cheat on their spouse... it sucks! I hate myself for...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I want to believe that men can/will be faithful but it's challenging when I'm surrounded by cheaters. I keep losing hope & I know it'll take a toll on my relationship (when I get...
    2EZy 2EZy 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I never intended to cheat but I did twice. Once while married. Once with another man's wife. Loneliness connected me to both women. I lost both relationships. Three in all. It...
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    If you feel the need to cheat then leave the person its that freaking easy because if ypu are so in love then you will not cheat! I had thoughts of stepping out on my ex because...
    bootsie85 bootsie85 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F Aug 21

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    This is a triple threat basically it's heart ache waiting to happen. People are so heartless
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F a week ago

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    Being broken almost allows me to justify my actions. My fear is also my protector. Because I don't trust men, I made a pre-emptive strike. I joined Ashley Madison, where cheaters...
    geminigirlnextdoor geminigirlnextdoor 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    A cheater will always be a cheater!
    lifeisfun01 lifeisfun01 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    It's so hard to find your true soul mate in this world, and those who do are truly lucky. I was in a four year relationship with the most amazing man on earth. He was truly my soul...
    adantist adantist 22-25, F Aug 7

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    Ex called this weekend kids wouldn't even talk to her own the phone. Before you cheaters start I never said anything bad in front of the kids about her. I just don't push the...
    pleasestoplying pleasestoplying 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I want to tell her. Even though it's over with us. I want to pick up the phone and let her know what sort of man she is married to. Once a cheater always a cheater. And she...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 14 Responses Aug 12

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    Well, he's much younger than me and moved to my place since he lives in the countryside and dropped school really early. He works, but for sure I pay all the bills and etc. We've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I can tell you a lot about long distance relationships. They ARE hard. They CAN work, but MOST of the time, they don't. There is a big difference between being in a long distance...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    >It's really annoying because I dreamt about having another lover. This man is a better lover than my husband. I don't know why I dreamt about that having an another affair. It's...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F Aug 3

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    Some say you should forgive and move on. Now i am not sitting all day and moping around. I am living my life. There are no intense negative feelings attached... No memories...
    Ambiguoustruth Ambiguoustruth 22-25 2 Responses Aug 4

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    5 reasons Why I don't play online very much. #5 cheaters- People always hack just to win a game. that's just stupid #4 Whining and annoying kids- Every time I play online...
    favi4et favi4et 18-21, M 7 Responses Aug 4

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    Hey I'm Nate I'm single Wht I'm looking for No ficking cheaters I hte tht even if ur bi If u hve a gf and u want a bf get out cause I don't like tht And I want a bf who's...
    Natemdemon06 Natemdemon06 13-15, M Aug 4

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