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I Am Not a Cheater

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29, 2014

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 16-17 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    and I am very firm on

    that boundary for myself. I am open to close, solid, true friendships.....but I'm not a cheater and never will be.
    chrissy1961 chrissy1961 51-55, F Mar 11

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    Funny asoldiersgirl2012 is pissed at her man

    because he might be up to no good yet she is the cartoon mascot of I am the other woman and very supportive too of them ( I Don't judge them by the way each case is subjective)this is between me and her as she personally attacked me I wonder whether she would be supportive of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    I can't believe there are people

    who actually enjoy cheating on their spouse. I can't deny I have wondered what it would be like, but I have never been serious about wanting to. I would be absolutely devastated if my man cheated on me. I wish I could understand why people are okay with cheating and if I could...
    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    I believe that cheaters choose to cheat. Many people who cheat like to say, "I couldn't help myself" or sometimes they even blame their partners, like, "You weren't giving me the...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Cheaters and liars make me want to kill myself. Why God why? How could someone be so f'in evil?
    funluvz funluvz 26-30, F Apr 6

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    IF IM WITH U, IM WITH U! IM NOT RUNNING AROUND WITH SOME OTHER GIRL BEHIND UR BACK!...IM NOT THT GUY, I DONT DO THT TO PPL...i also dont like being called a cheater
    DaveEatsToast DaveEatsToast 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    But do Love when the cheater Literary when he or she caught with there pants down. There excuse but it was a "mistake"
    Raina79 Raina79 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Well, I was is Prague, Paris, and London last week and somehow managed to have sex with three different girls in each city. 2015 is turning into a very busy year.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I have had some real bad times like so many other women out there. My first husband turned out to be a psychotic, seriously, in the MH all the time. Divorced him. Waited over a...
    Jakkik Jakkik 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Dear Experience Project readers, I am madly, truly, passionately, genuinely just deeply in love with my best friend G and have been for the past 2 years. We just recently admitted...
    Sunnysan22 Sunnysan22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    On ep. Five posts. Left sexless marriage. Want married man. Hate cheaters. Am the other woman. Hate cheaters. Lol. Lmao. Part of it was an ep repeat loop...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Once a cheater, always a cheater ... So nope nope nope
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Something I'm not proud of? I tried to stay with my husband after he cheated on me. Not only that but after I discovered an affair he was having with my friend, I gave him another...
    SilentRider SilentRider 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I am new to this and would like to share my story. 2 months ago i ended my 11 month relationship with my first love, a girl who i considered my world, treasured and adored. i am...
    Amnesiac93 Amnesiac93 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I was in LDR for a year so it was easy for bf to hide and lie about things.I snooped through his emails and caught him flirting with girls onlinechat/gamings/imvu etc.You name it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Apr 15

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    My SO keeps begging me not to cheat on him out of nowhere lately. Like we wouldn't even be on the topic and I'll get a text like "don't cheat on me I love you bye" wait..what?!? He...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    1. Judgmental 2. Outgoing 3. Racist 4. Let people put me in a box 5. Heterosexual or Bisexual 6. Tall 7. Perfect 8. A Drama Queen 9. Going to find proper fitting bras...
    syreatadiva syreatadiva 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I wanted to write this story from the perspective of a Married person(MM or MW) having an affair. This was triggered by a question someone posted yesterday, asking Why MM needs the...
    Jazz045 Jazz045 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 25

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    I've... Broken... And I realize it... I don't see value in other people anymore. I legitimately want to be rude, mean and overbearing just to cause others pain which I've begun to...
    WytW0lf WytW0lf 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Why do people pick and choose who they can "judge"? I really can't stand some people that think that it's okay to judge a rapist, a theif etc but when it comes to other issues like...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 28

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    My Father above has turned Murderers, liars, Cheaters, Idolaters, Rich, Poor, teachers, students, leaders, servants, Kings, Queens, Limp, blind, mute, deaf, dysfunctional, happy...