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I Am Not a Cheater

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    I dont date cheat....

    when it comes to homework and test well everyone has cheated at that ????
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 20

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29, 2014

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    Although I've been accused enough,

    not sure why he would ever think I would do that... I could never be responsible for another mans wife and children's sadness and betrayal
    HisBeautifulDisaster HisBeautifulDisaster 36-40, F Aug 22

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2, 2012

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    Funny asoldiersgirl2012 is pissed at her man

    because he might be up to no good yet she is the cartoon mascot of I am the other woman and very supportive too of them ( I Don't judge them by the way each case is subjective)this is between me and her as she personally attacked me I wonder whether she would be supportive of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 18-21 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    If your planning to cheat to your partner

    or other half? You'd better fix your problem Or move out, because there's still a tendency that you're going to do it again,if your not being caught.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 5 Responses May 21

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    it seems like every single friend of mine

    cheats at tests or homework....I have never cheated, not even once lol
    yairdjudas999 yairdjudas999 18-21, M May 21

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    I never really had a honest relationship, wow! that is hard to swallow....
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    This goes out to all the jilted sista's... My eye's are like a telescope!
    GypsyMiss GypsyMiss 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Once a cheater, right? This is a long story. I met this person, Idk let's call him John, two years ago at a bar, back when we were both basically drunks. We got to talking and I...
    XlizrocksY XlizrocksY 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I'm not and plan to never be one! It's about respecting someone! I gotten heart broken so many times I couldn't do that to someone...
    lisetterod18 lisetterod18 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I'm done being the OW. It had become too much - the rollercoaster of emotions, the constant internal battle between my desires and my common sense, trying to convince myself that...
    ashadams244 ashadams244 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    My boyfriend wrote in one of his letters while at basic training , "the girls in my platoon tell me that all the girls in my company refer to me as the hot soldier and talk about...
    kat115nk kat115nk 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    -If silence could kill- Laying in bed looking up in the dark You hear judgmental words Calling you names Saying no one loves you Explaining everything you've done wrong Making...
    allstarbabe12 allstarbabe12 13-15, F Aug 13

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    i did... until i found out it was all a lie for him and he was a cheater and a liar and dammit, i really thought it was real. i still think it could work for other people, though...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I wondered how "sentimental" faithful people are, not about your husbands or current partner but about past relationships? Alot of the other women say they like to keep old...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    1. I'm 17 years old 2. I'm Christian 3. I have 4 siblings and I'm the youngest 3. I love animals, especially dogs and gorillas lol 4. I'm addicted to music 5. I have black eyes 6...
    evewalter evewalter 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for five years now, but for the first 6 months, I was technically the other woman. We just picked out and engagement ring and are getting...
    callmebecky callmebecky 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I'm sorry if I don't spell everything like I suppose. I'm Mexican and moved to the US 3 years ago. I married a American man I thought it was amazing everything about him would make...
    Carol224 Carol224 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    life is like playing cards. if you win all the time, you're definitely a cheater. if you loose all the time, it means someone is taking advantage of you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 5

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    1. Smoking, 2. Bad hygiene, 3. Text speak, 4. Using the silent treatment/not talking to me when you're annoyed/mad, 5. People who want to go out and party all the time, 6. Selfish...
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F Aug 5

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