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I Am Not a Cheater

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 12 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 16-17 1 Response Jun 1

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    Not Any Longer

     Since the Bobbit case I've tried to keep myself buttoned up except at home.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M Jan 24, 2009

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I want to believe that men can/will be faithful but it's challenging when I'm surrounded by cheaters. I keep losing hope & I know it'll take a toll on my relationship (when I get...
    2EZy 2EZy 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    special place in hell for all you liars and cheaters....
    stacyhereforyou stacyhereforyou 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I was never a cheater, and since being cheated on never will. I just need help understanding how it is possible to do that to your partner, and if they are doing it too why even...
    achantal achantal 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I hate cheaters and liars (That was lie too) Sorry but life is complicated to be honest..
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Sep 2

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    My frnds do have a bf but those bastard boys are bloody cheaters. My best frnds bf is a liar too and so i cant trust anyone and even i cant believe on any guy so i am single and...
    rshh30 rshh30 18-21, F Sep 4

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    I have been with my husband 20 years, married for sixteen with a teenager in the house. Two years ago, his mistress called my home and told me all the details of their sordid four...
    Notstrongenough64 Notstrongenough64 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F Aug 21

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    This is a triple threat basically it's heart ache waiting to happen. People are so heartless
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F Aug 24

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    I hate when guys think because I'm married and have kids so young I must be miserable and want to cheat. My husband and I have a wonderful marriage and we love our kids with...
    thefeels21 thefeels21 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There is no reason (save one that I can think of) that would excuse cheating. Not one. It is very selfish to simply go out, sleep around, then go home and expect your wife/husband...
    VainGoddess VainGoddess 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm an 18 year old kid that had an awesome childhood. My family was always tight knit, the kind that eats together ever night. During the past 4 years or so, my family has just...
    stonesfan367 stonesfan367 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    As long as you don't bring it home. I found out. Twice. He is not a very good liar or cheater so that didn't last
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    How many of you had more than one affair? If yes, do you think you are a serial cheater? I'm having an affair right now, don't ever want to do or experience it again. But I...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 9 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Most times you hear about the guy being the cheater but this time my 5 month girlfriend was the cheater. Well I am not so sure about the severity of what she did but I have not yet...
    LastTime1 LastTime1 13-15, M Sep 1

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    Could the scorned wives and the morality police learn to read before leaving unnecessary comments on my posts? * Why do you assume you OWN your husbands? * Why do you think it...
    RoseColouredGlasses RoseColouredGlasses 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My husband of 9 years (together for 14), has been a random cheater since we were dating in high school. I thought he changed once we were married but I just found out a month ago...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Life isn't a fairy tale. Nobody is perfect. Pain is inevitable. You can change your own fate if you want to. Life gives you cheaters,it also gives you people who restore the faith...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Well I tried to remain in Private and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    My oh my, if only I could hang this young dumb-bunny by his eyelids.. I am told I should be upset with my daughter for putting up with his lying, cheating, scabby, shabby ways...
    lorarena lorarena 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Life has had many cruel twists... I went from an unhappy abusive home to an unhappy and abusive marriage. My ex-husband had a best friend who eventually became the Godfather to...
    skk1966 skk1966 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 17

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