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I Am Not a Cheater

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 547 People

    If your planning to cheat to your partner

    or other half? You'd better fix your problem Or move out, because there's still a tendency that you're going to do it again,if your not being caught.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29, 2014

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 18-21 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    it seems like every single friend of mine

    cheats at tests or homework....I have never cheated, not even once lol
    yairdjudas999 yairdjudas999 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    I dont date cheat....

    when it comes to homework and test well everyone has cheated at that ????
    melissa1019 melissa1019 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    and I am very firm on

    that boundary for myself. I am open to close, solid, true friendships.....but I'm not a cheater and never will be.
    chrissy1961 chrissy1961 51-55, F Mar 11

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Funny asoldiersgirl2012 is pissed at her man

    because he might be up to no good yet she is the cartoon mascot of I am the other woman and very supportive too of them ( I Don't judge them by the way each case is subjective)this is between me and her as she personally attacked me I wonder whether she would be supportive of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    Once a cheater always a cheater.
    Ridemywavvvve Ridemywavvvve 31-35, F May 3

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    I hate cheaters and *liars :P
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 6

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    I was unhappy but there was something that I wanted to hold on to. I did not know how to communicate my unhappiness. In some cases I tried to communicate and failed. But you can...
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl 26-30, F May 7

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    As if prior posts werent proof. Lol.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 28

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    Tonight I confronted my ex-husband. I still have his information from Facebook and I've read up on his current sexual exploits recently. He is 25 and has a pregnant 18 year old...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F May 9

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    Today makes the second time I cheated on my husband in less than a month, but this time I do feel guilty and I don't know why I feel so much worse this time than I did the last...
    EmoCinderella94 EmoCinderella94 18-21, F 5 Responses May 13

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    What the **** did I do to deserve such pain. you did it to get to my best friend. who's doesn't even like you. now she prefers you. she said she hardly likes me anymore and refers...
    XxautychanxX XxautychanxX 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I want to share my thoughts about this whole cheating thing or having been cheated on thing that has torn the spirit of those affected by cheating. The problem is the person that...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Let's look at your last question first. Do cheaters always cheat? The problem with staying with a cheater is that cheating destroys trust. We have a built-in cheater alarm...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F May 12

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    I know im not supposed to take it seriously. Me and him met from online. We are from different country. But if i fall for someone, i fall hard. And i fall for him. He told me that...
    ochamr ochamr 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    married from 4 yrs n caught him cheating frm first day. he made promise he won't do it again but once a cheater is always a cheater. he uses me n my money. He's selfish. he won't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2

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    I hate cheaters... Like if you're not happy in your current relationship don't just ******* go out and **** with someone else. Like no, break it off with them if you're not happy...
    HazeyHaley HazeyHaley 13-15, F 1 Response May 4

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    Tonight I'm feeling like writing about what's in my heart. It makes me sad when I think about the mess I've got myself into.... I've been married 25 years to a great guy. I've...
    Janna78 Janna78 46-50, F 5 Responses May 11

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    Yup this happened to me! Once a cheater always a cheater.... Working on healing my heart!
    Oliviaa92 Oliviaa92 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just feel its wrong. You offer your heart to someone and then take it back when they are not looking. Cheaters should be taken out to the desert and maimed!! JK bout the...
    MilaBilagrl MilaBilagrl 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 23

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    Honestly, I don't care that I'm single But what does bug me is that a lot of bad people aren't single. For example : one of my close friends is extremely disrespectful about his...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 23

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