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I Am Not a Cheater

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 466 People

    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29, 2014

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    and I am very firm on

    that boundary for myself. I am open to close, solid, true friendships.....but I'm not a cheater and never will be.
    chrissy1961 chrissy1961 51-55, F Mar 11

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    Funny asoldiersgirl2012 is pissed at her man

    because he might be up to no good yet she is the cartoon mascot of I am the other woman and very supportive too of them ( I Don't judge them by the way each case is subjective)this is between me and her as she personally attacked me I wonder whether she would be supportive of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 16-17 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    From relationship cheaters to game cheaters, I get pissed. I have never been cheated on, and I don't know that feeling, but I can imagine the heart crushing, bone pounding, heart...
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    I have been with my wife over 10 years, I had a cyber relationship. The issue is it has only been a month and I have strong feelings for her... Long distance relationship, plus...
    heartstealing heartstealing 26-30 Mar 4

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    I mean, I do sort of. But everywhere I look it's "I cheated on my partner" or "my partner cheated on me" or "I'm in love with someone married". Dude, am I a dying breed? Am I...
    woodwd40 woodwd40 36-40, M Mar 6

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    I know this is a hate page for "mistresses" but I dated a guy that was in a relationship and I like him a lot we would Skype every night and everything so we could talk like a...
    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My Father above has turned Murderers, liars, Cheaters, Idolaters, Rich, Poor, teachers, students, leaders, servants, Kings, Queens, Limp, blind, mute, deaf, dysfunctional, happy...
    HandyMannyWanny HandyMannyWanny 16-17, M 7 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I love my parents very much, but their are aspects of them I just don't wanna become. My father was a drug addict, an alcoholic, cheater, and just very unstable in general. He...
    DevinaLockwood DevinaLockwood 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    Dear Experience Project readers, I am madly, truly, passionately, genuinely just deeply in love with my best friend G and have been for the past 2 years. We just recently admitted...
    Sunnysan22 Sunnysan22 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once they realize how easy it is, they keep doing it. It's like some sort of drug. They always want more.
    hannahlulz hannahlulz 18-21, F Mar 5

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    stats say 80% of men play mind games and love games online and play with girls emotions similarly 20% women play with men in the name of love leave the fb and twitter things take...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm in a emotional manipulation abusive relationship. I love this man more then anything in this world. But I'm so unhappy he is a liar and a cheater and when he cheats it's...
    doucet927 doucet927 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Sweat rolled down Clark's forehead, the temperature in the room was chilly. Clark remembered learning in school that males did better in school in cold rooms. Clark felt like his...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I literally spend 95%, or more, of my time alone in my room. I honestly prefer solitude over the general public for more reasons than I even care to count. At least when I talk to...
    PsychedelicPsycho PsychedelicPsycho 36-40, F Mar 7

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    Or maybe not, you see I've been asking myself all day, "Am I a Bad Person?" or, "Am I selfish?" I think you guys might want a little knowledge about me. I'm eighteen years old, and...
    funnella funnella 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I was cheated on, and it hurts. It happened once and I believe not again. But he lied to me for a year and a half and denied my intuition in repeated confrontations (I knew...
    tactactac tactactac 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    (Hnmmmm) Ok so I Just saw some posts here saying people are looking for gay boyfriends, It seem little strange but you never know for sure sometime love can be found in the dark...
    Gastos Gastos 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    I thought I'd try to write my thoughts today. I don't know if I will be able to express my intentions but I'll try. We all comment on how hard these relationships can be, the ups...
    iunderstand1234 iunderstand1234 51-55, F 9 Responses Mar 11

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    As an engineer my life is driven by logic and statistics, as I ponder on events the last few months I realize people have no logic at all , barely any reasoning , most people don...
    jocu123 jocu123 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 15

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