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I Am Not a Cheater

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 16-17 1 Response Jun 1

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 12 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Not Any Longer

     Since the Bobbit case I've tried to keep myself buttoned up except at home.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M Jan 24, 2009

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Once a cheater always a cheater :'( 😞💔
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    James pomar mercado You such a cheater. Now you are having a baby with someone whom you only dated less than 6 months. Wow After me, one phillipina, after her, white military girl...
    JJPJJPJJPcheater JJPJJPJJPcheater 26-30, F Jul 15

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    So I've had a flurry of angry messages about how horrible I am because I don't sext since I feel it's cheating. Some of them are saying how it's judging cheating and cheaters and...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    To the cheater ,, why do you cheat for,, the MM said he love you or it just a little game they play with you,,,,saying the MM love you he will leave his wife for you,,,Now are you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F Jul 3

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    Ever heard of 'War of the Roses'? It's a radio station that catches real life cheaters. It's funny but also sad to listen to.. Funny when the other person isn't actually...
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M Jul 13

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    I'm not actually a cheater. I just want to know why you cheat? Ladies only please.
    Blake00048 Blake00048 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    the girl ive been seen she she said she would never cheat hide or lie she her true colors today just like my ex from last year. thats ****** up ****
    moreno00 moreno00 41-45, M Jul 14

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    I Can't. I've Never Cheated. I Never Will. I Wont Ever Be With A Guy That Has A Girlfriend Or Wife. I Would Feel So Dirty. I Couldn't Walk Around Knowing That I've Done Something...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is pretty self explanatory does anyone else hate people like this who don't care about who they're hurting?
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    3 months ago I met this amazing man. He's absolutely the greatest love of my life. But soon after meeting, he told me he had a "problem" talking to other women bc it makes him feel...
    Dazed0125 Dazed0125 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    Cheating is just disrespectful. I would never do it. It's just wrong!
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I hate the person i have become. A liar, a cheater, an adulterer...i hate this. I dont want my married man anymore, even as i am in love with him, i dont want him anymore. I want...
    Amb505 Amb505 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Hey i would really like advise as i am very confused. I am with my boyfriend of 4 years, we broke up for about 6 months and Have been back together for 4 months. He...
    sim03 sim03 18-21 8 Responses Jul 1

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    My husband and I have been together since 2010 abd married since 2012 every since I've been with him he's know this girl from the us they both liked each other and wanted to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9

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    ForgivenessSo, what could you forgive in your life? How far could someone push you, how deeply could they scar you and you can still let it go. I mean, honestly just let it go...
    MissinMySon MissinMySon 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So once a cheater is always a cheater .. So true
    Phairux Phairux 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I sit at the kitchen island and observe my son and his two friends playing. They're teammates on a little league team and on occasion come over the house. This morning I went to...
    Lovefetishes Lovefetishes 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I got out of a four year relationship last year and ever since it ended I have had absolutely horrible luck with women. I've read every book, I've tried every approach and I'm very...
    leocognecetti leocognecetti 18-21, M Jul 2

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    My name is Ryan, i love in a sexless marrage. If you havent guessed I'm gay and been arried for ruffly 5 months now and I have had sex just a gathering of 5 times since Feb 28th...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I am 17 years old , and I live with my baby's daddy & his parents , our baby is 9 months old , I love him soooo much , I mean come on what mother doesn't love there child , my baby...
    Yuri1713 Yuri1713 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    A distraught young blonde woman suspected her boyfriend of cheating on her. In a fit of anger she drove to a local pawn shop and bought a gun. She showed up at his apartment...
    DanCan1 DanCan1 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I can admit, I don't know how much more I can take. I am tired of crying. Not being about to be where I want to be. Not having something that I have never had. How many people can...
    HollySch13 HollySch13 26-30, F Jul 7

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    I believe in serious interracial relationship.. What's there to be afraid of?? I'm definitely not a cheater so I'm up for any challenge..
    Raisa26 Raisa26 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    (Ex wasn't available... But because this **** used to be my soul mate, lets just go with it.) Ain't you just a Cheater with a capital C? You are a heartless, selfish person. I...
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F Jul 9

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    It was after I made a mistake. I thought I should die.I shouldn't be here.My friends had opportunities to make the same mistake as I but me being the stupid teenage girl. I did it...
    Parbatie Parbatie 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Why do people say they are hopeful and happy and all in love but yet they don't trust their partner? So this woman goes through her man's stuff because he is a compulsive liar and...
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10