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I Am Not a Cheater

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 453 People

    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 16-17 1 Response Jun 1

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27

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    Not Any Longer

     Since the Bobbit case I've tried to keep myself buttoned up except at home.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M Jan 24, 2009

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Funny asoldiersgirl2012 is pissed at her man

    because he might be up to no good yet she is the cartoon mascot of I am the other woman and very supportive too of them ( I Don't judge them by the way each case is subjective)this is between me and her as she personally attacked me I wonder whether she would be supportive of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    He expects me to take him back lol this is just so funny :/ u cheat on me ur gf leaves u and u come crying to me about it ur seriously pathetic if u think I want u back after what...
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    I cannot believe this has happened to me, it's never happened before. I now understand true heartbreak
    rkr1970 rkr1970 41-45, M Dec 12

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    1. CHEATERS 2. CHEATERS 3. CHEATERS 4. CHEATERS 5. oh by the way did I mention cheaters already?
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17, F Dec 14

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    So I'm having or had or having I don't even no anymore, an affair with who I assume is a serial cheater A serial cheater that supposedly loves and and wants to be with me (with an...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 18

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    I have been friends with a man for four years. We went to graduate school together. We had always been attracted to each other and even talked about being physical. During this...
    CoreyCross CoreyCross 26-30, F Dec 6

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    It all makes sense now! Found out he is/was cheating with at least 4 other women, one of whom is a friend. I guess he was too busy & it was important to keep things in the DL...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 9

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    If you are “the other woman” I have some questions. I have a friend, she is reasonably intelligent and generally sensible but she has recently got involved with a man that is...
    Jacquietg Jacquietg 51-55, T 1 Response Dec 13

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    First, I know it's long, but please I need someone to help me. Any advice. Reading these stories bring tears to my eyes. I have been cheated on 3 times by the same guy. He lied...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 17

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    I find cheating to be the most vile and disgusting thing someone can do to another when it comes to relationships. I have no experience in this field, but I know for one that...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Was chatting to a guy, we got on well but I had problems with my ex and the guys dad died. Anyway we didn't talk for a bit and when I did speak to him again he'd met someone so I...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Despite my letting him know that I miss him, my bf still chooses to go hunting every weekend of hunting season. When hunt season is over, he still goes to scout for places to hunt...
    pineappleparade pineappleparade 31-35, F Nov 29

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    I am a man in his early 40s and some of my friends are or have been single mums. I live in Sydney Australia. Single mums make the best lovers. I'm not a cheater so I wouldn't...
    SydneyMan1971 SydneyMan1971 41-45, M Nov 30

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    My gamer hubby basically cut off all physical contact after a crappy year of therapy and testosterone shots. That was in October 2010. I'm laying in my friends bed, sprawled across...
    babyhands babyhands 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 30

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    I broke up with the cheater boyfriend! I've realized that trust just can't be rebuilt and for my own sanity I need to do what's best for me! I feel good but I know I'll be sad soon...
    jessjess83 jessjess83 31-35, F 22 Responses Nov 30

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    I guess I just attract the wrong women. Sad but true, I have had more than my share of cheaters and liars. Many women complain that they are sick of men cheating on them and lying...
    StraightGuyEnFemme StraightGuyEnFemme 46-50, M Dec 1

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    Serial cheater here. I've been emailing this man for over a month now. We are meeting for lunch tomorrow. I could care less about lunch and want to just go crazy on him. It's been...
    5timecheater 5timecheater 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    i know what one feels being cheated . if you are an Indian you must be knowing about all this . the story of sant rampal which became the center of media and public attraction...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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