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I Am Not a Cheater

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 641 People

    elizabethfitzgerald elizabethfitzgerald 56-60, F May 29, 2014

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    Don't Believe In It and Don't Understand It...

    I don't believe in cheating in any part of my life....especially relationships.   Too bad that some of the men I've been involved with didn't share this belief.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2007

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    If your planning to cheat to your partner

    or other half? You'd better fix your problem Or move out, because there's still a tendency that you're going to do it again,if your not being caught.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 5 Responses May 21

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    Why Hurt People

    You fall in love and it's great I mean nothing can beat that feeling but sometimes in life especially if you have been with someone for a long time things can change you maybe drift apart and sometimes it's just natural you meet someone else.But my argument is if that happens...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2, 2012

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    This Is What I Think

    YES I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I CANT STAND CHEATING LYING SCANDALUS MEN. AND THATS WHAT MY BOYFRIEND IS. ALL MEN THAT CHEAT SHOULD BE HUNG BY THERE CAJONES THEM PUNK *** LIARS. HEY NO OFFENSE GUYS WOMEN CAN BE STRAIGHT UP LYING *** CHEATER ****** TOO.
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Life Or Love

    I don't cheat on anything in life and when it comes to relationships, I am definitely a one woman man who won't tolerate it for any reason. It's not negotiable, if she cheats on me, we are finished right then.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 16, 2011

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    Never In My Life

    would I ever cheat on my girlfriend, I'm glad she returns my feelings. She's been such a good influence on me there is no way I could ever even think of cheating on her.
    Kagemase Kagemase 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Never Have

    I have never nor will I ever cheat on my boyfriend. If a person is even thinking about cheating. They should end their relationship. Because they are obviously not happy with who they are with!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 13, 2008

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    Im Certainly Not

    the other day me and my friend were playing some game on her i pod were we came to the conclusion that i would totally scam the IRS but would never cheat on a test lol
    ppwlover ppwlover 18-21, F Oct 29, 2011

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    I Cheated Once, Never Again

    When I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend. I will never forget the look on his face. Since then I have always been faithful, I am the one who usually gets hurt now.
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F Feb 27, 2013

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    No, No I Am Not.

    I firmly believe that if there is a problem then fix it, if you can not fix it then leave but don't cheat, there is no reason, none. Because I believe the above I am not a cheater by any means, not emotionally, not physically. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 19 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    so my bf heard some rumors

    that while i was dating his that i slept with someone else. but i didn't. so he talks to me about it and he said its 4 to 1 I'm done. I'm so ******* done. now i don't know what I'm supposed to do. he won't message me back and he doesnt believe me. you know when you get that...
    angoscia angoscia 18-21 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    I dont date cheat....

    when it comes to homework and test well everyone has cheated at that ????
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 20

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    Never Have Never Will

    After everything that has happened to me I would never do that to anyone. Been cheated on twice by two women that I was with for a long time and whom I trusted and loved. Cheating basically shows that you can't be trusted and you don't love the other person.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Cheaters to me are some of the lowest of low.

    If you think about cheating on your significant other, just end it beforehand. Eventually everything will come to the surface and your cheating will catch up to you. -J
    JandAlove JandAlove 22-25 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Funny asoldiersgirl2012 is pissed at her man

    because he might be up to no good yet she is the cartoon mascot of I am the other woman and very supportive too of them ( I Don't judge them by the way each case is subjective)this is between me and her as she personally attacked me I wonder whether she would be supportive of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    it seems like every single friend of mine

    cheats at tests or homework....I have never cheated, not even once lol
    yairdjudas999 yairdjudas999 18-21, M May 21

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    Never Have?

    I have thought about it but I would force myself to get a divorce first.     If at first you don't succeed, destroy any evidence that you ever tried.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    That Is Right

    If I'm lucky enough to find a man who I love dearly. I will be the devoted girlfriend. I will not cheat on him. I expect that he won't either. If he does. Bye bye...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2011

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    Its Just Wrong

    i have thought a lot about this, and i still feel that no matter the scenario, cheating is still wrong and not understandable. no matter how abusive the relationship; no matter how lonely you may be, cheating just isnt the answer. nor is it a good decision at the time, regardless...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2007

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    NOPE

    I'm not a cheater when it comes to relationships. It's the worst thing that you can do anyone. It's a betrayal that is terrible to do in a relationship blah just talking about it upsets me.
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2008

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    The Cheaters Bleat...

    My nasty husband bent his knee and in his drunken stupor said to me; Oh my sweet, I'd never cheat... for your my hearts delight! You know my sweet, My tasty treat... I am faithful morn and noon and night. For you my love, My tender dove, are all that I desire. Never...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Sep 11, 2008

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    No I Am Not

    I am not a cheater, I have never been a cheater, and I never will be a cheater...I don't believe in cheating. I have never cheated on anyone, but I have been cheated on. broknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2009

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    I Don't Get This...

    First things first. I have never cheated on any person I have committed myself to. Have I been accused, yep. Second I think, no I actually know, that most hurt feelings and accusations can be handled in the beginning of a relationship. Here's how. When you start seeing someone...
    Knighted Knighted 36-40, M Aug 13, 2010

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    Ugh...

    I don't even want to discuss my previous experience with cheaters, but they are a MAJOR part of why I refuse to cheat on ANYONE!
    BabyFirefly BabyFirefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    I Don't Get Cheating

    I would never cheat on the person I was with. To be honest I've never really understood cheating. If you want to fool around with someone else or be with someone else that's fine, it is your choice but end it with who ever you are with first!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Not Me Baby....

    Not my thing... I give it all or nothing but unless we share someone together, I'm not playing.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    3 years ago, I used to not understand why people would betray their loved ones. I didn't understand why someone would cheat on their partner although the person is almost perfect...
    freesoul95 freesoul95 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Once a cheater always a cheater " Lmao- once an alcoholic always an alcoholic.. Hahaha
    GreyCloud13 GreyCloud13 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    But yet accepted the things I can change I had this person to inbox me once a cheater always a cheater which was kinda hateful to me as I read it but it didn't affect me because I...
    robertl30 robertl30 31-35, M Jul 26

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    So I was recently informed by a woman that my long term boyfriend whom I just got a house with has been texting, talking on the phone to, and exchanging pictures with her. I caught...
    ashley2184 ashley2184 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Hi! I am looking for a MALE PENFRIEND FROM IRELAND OR SCOTLAND (ONLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!). He should be at the age 35-45, Roman Catholic. But most of all, he should be an honest and...
    AshleyHa1234 AshleyHa1234 31-35, F Jul 19

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    I've done so much soul seaching these past 5 and a half years. I've people come across my path with puzzle pieces that i've had to fit into place. There was so much bottled up...
    lifealwayschanges lifealwayschanges 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    14 years of my life down the drain ****** me off, the fact that he turned out to be such a liar, cheater, deceiver etc...
    debbiebobbitt debbiebobbitt 51-55 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I miss having a GF when they are there when your upset or depressed. I miss those good times. Sucks how all girls are cheater , lier, back stabbing and very hurt full.
    WildCat64 WildCat64 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    This forum is needed as a safe haven for people who have had awful experiences with cheaters irl. Reading an "ow" post (we mostly all saw it, the celebrating taking time away from...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    (1. I love bacon (2. I love kids (3. I want to travel the world (4. I fell in love with a cheater (5. I like meat (.6 I love action movies (7. I never really fit in as a teenager...
    ItsAMolly ItsAMolly 18-21, F Jul 14

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    How can you be an empathic and be a cheater or cheater. A true empath would have a problem with the pain that causes right?
    LovelyBlkQueen LovelyBlkQueen 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    1. Myself 2. My hair that gets in the way of a normal day. (IT BLOCKS MY VIEW! IT DOESN'T WANT TO BE TIED! MY HAIR WANTS TO BE FREE!) 3. Rude people. (Like bruh, I dunno what...
    IAmJustMyself IAmJustMyself 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    This is very sore subject for me reason being is that I was married for sixteen years to a woman that I loved and cared for very much in my life and the way that it ended in...
    readytofeelwanted readytofeelwanted 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I got myself into the most painful pickle and I need advice! Please read it might get long!! I stupidly thought if I could see his fb page, read and see his pics with her, it...
    elizabethmariejazz elizabethmariejazz 36-40, F 16 Responses Jul 12

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