I Am Not a Flirt

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    I flirt with one person only

    and that is my husband.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    Mar 20, 2016

    Don't take it personal

    if you're flirting with me and I don't flirt back. I just don't flirt. But I'm not good at it anyway, nor do I care for it. So you're better off simply not flirting with me at all.
    CarverReturns CarverReturns
    26-30, F
    Apr 11, 2016


    I used to be an uncontrollable flirt but learned my lesson. Now i see flirting as a form of infidelity as it can often lead to situation that you never wanted to occur. Of course flirting with your loving partner is fabulous.
    gerberg gerberg
    56-60, M
    Oct 13, 2009

    Not a flirt, but occasionally I'll throw in

    some random eyebrow wiggle or some other lame flirt attempt.
    mslainiegrace mslainiegrace
    18-21, F
    Aug 19, 2014

    Not even sure i know how.

    I just act like myself and say what's on my mind
    TheWanderingWarrior TheWanderingWarrior
    26-30, M
    Nov 24, 2014

    But I like flirty guys!

    ! Message me if u want to talk!
    Lilly19946 Lilly19946
    16-17, F
    Mar 23, 2014

    A Little Confused

    Last night was my portfolio show. I am not going to say that I wasn't "flirty" (playful and lighthearted) but I definitely wasn't "flirting" (acting romantic or 'interested') with anyone. Unfortunately, that doesn't matter in some cases. Today, after my potfolio show, I received...
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    1 Response Dec 15, 2011


    I am NOT a flirt.....Unless, it is with my hubby!
    PeedeeDog PeedeeDog
    Nov 9, 2008

    Lol this is me to a T!

    Tee? Tea? Whatever. Let's start with the setting. I don't flirt on social networking sites unless I already know the person. It's just weird for me to hit up some random person like: "hey :) how u doin?" all Joey-from-Friends style. When I hear "flirt" I think "in person...
    MrN1ceGuy MrN1ceGuy
    22-25, M
    Oct 5, 2014

    I love flirting, but I pretty much suck at it.

    I think I scare guys away because I don't flirt with them, so in other words, they stop talking to me. 😂
    desired101 desired101
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 4, 2014

    Hard To Flirt -- Have To Put In Such An Effort To Overcome Shyness

    I don't like to flirt and find that most men do not react to my flirtations when I have so I do not feel comfortable being a flirt as I don't feel I have much to offer a man being over weight and being having been sexually abused its uncomfortable for me to flirt as I don't want...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2011

    Sweet Flirting Only

    I am not flirting a guy just to get his attention. I am not flirting a guy just to have fun. I am not flirting a guy just to hook him. I am not flirting a guy just to make me proud. .... I maybe flirting a guy if he is my boyfriend but with respect and sweet flirting only...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv
    26-30, F
    Oct 18, 2008

    I do not flirt that's

    why men here seem to get bored of me quick . That's me and I was raised to not flirt with men . I admit joining this site has changed me a bit and I'm not proud of that . I just think that flirting online is a big waste of time . It makes me feel cheap and dumb. I want to keep...
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    1 Response Nov 23, 2015

    Not A Flirt

    I am not a flirt.  I don't even know how to flirt anyway.  I only flirt with my hubby as I know him and vice-versa.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 15, 2011

    I Just Don'T Know How

    I don't know how to flirt. I was a shy outcast in high school, so guys pretty much avoided me like the plague, and i never got to learn how. Watching the girls, I didn't see where they really did anything...except be popular and, you know, exist. Granted they seemed remarkably...
    Spanishburgundy Spanishburgundy
    36-40, F
    Aug 9, 2013

    It just doesn't come naturally to me.

    I don't try to be sexy either. It's a waste of time. Just being myself makes me sexy.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn
    18-21, F
    Oct 4, 2014
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