I Am Not a Jealous Person

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    When I confirmed my now ex-wife had been

    cheating on me (with multiple men) I wasn't angry or jealous about that. I was angry about all the other betrayals she committed and lies she told trying to cover it up. I'm still trying to grasp what this means for me. I know I get feel emotion for people I have sex with...
    ausofbounds ausofbounds
    46-50, M
    Aug 21, 2014

    What Purpose Does It Serve ?

    I think that most women expect you to be jealous, so do alot of men, why ?  People use it as a weapon against the person they say they love. Some use it to get what they want from another. It can get a person hurt or even killed. So why would you want it in a relationship...
    Robert1256 Robert1256
    51-55, M
    Jun 7, 2010

    Really, I'm Not

    I'm very laid-back and accepting of rejection. lolThe way I see it is if my partner wants someone else, there really isn't much I can do to change that. If she/he wants to be with someone else, so be it.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 25, 2011

    Not Jealous!!

    i mean, dont get me wrong, there have been a few occasions here and there, where i have been a little jealous, but in general, im not a jealous person!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

    Never Have Been

    <img src='http://www.brainbasedbusiness.com/uploads/jealousy-thumb.jpg' width='250' height='179' /> Life's difficult enough without constantly fretting over whether someone's getting something you're not. It's worth remembering that there'll always be others who are better off...
    mistygrey mistygrey
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2012

    My girlfriend saids she wants me to act jealous.

    I laughed at her then told her why should I act jealous if another guy find you attractive. I trust you that you will always respect our relationship so there is no need for me to act jealous.
    Deuz Deuz
    22-25, M
    Dec 4, 2014
    lookinginsidemymind lookinginsidemymind
    18-21, F
    Nov 26, 2015
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