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I Am Not a Jealous Person

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    lookinginsidemymind lookinginsidemymind 16-17, F Nov 26, 2015

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    When I confirmed my now ex-wife had been

    cheating on me (with multiple men) I wasn't angry or jealous about that. I was angry about all the other betrayals she committed and lies she told trying to cover it up. I'm still trying to grasp what this means for me. I know I get feel emotion for people I have sex with...
    ausofbounds ausofbounds 41-45, M Aug 21, 2014

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    What Purpose Does It Serve ?

    I think that most women expect you to be jealous, so do alot of men, why ?  People use it as a weapon against the person they say they love. Some use it to get what they want from another. It can get a person hurt or even killed. So why would you want it in a relationship...
    Robert1256 Robert1256 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 7, 2010

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    Never Have Been

    <img src='http://www.brainbasedbusiness.com/uploads/jealousy-thumb.jpg' width='250' height='179' /> Life's difficult enough without constantly fretting over whether someone's getting something you're not. It's worth remembering that there'll always be others who are better off...
    mistygrey mistygrey 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2012

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    Not Jealous!!

    i mean, dont get me wrong, there have been a few occasions here and there, where i have been a little jealous, but in general, im not a jealous person!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    My girlfriend saids she wants me to act jealous.

    I laughed at her then told her why should I act jealous if another guy find you attractive. I trust you that you will always respect our relationship so there is no need for me to act jealous.
    Deuz Deuz 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    Really, I'm Not

    I'm very laid-back and accepting of rejection. lolThe way I see it is if my partner wants someone else, there really isn't much I can do to change that. If she/he wants to be with someone else, so be it.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    JadeScarlet JadeScarlet 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm getting more comfortable using this and being honest on Ep. I get jealous of other people's connections and relationships because I overthink things and that they have what I...
    Blackcheetah Blackcheetah 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    PrimadonnaKitten PrimadonnaKitten 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    My best friend and I aren't talking all because i had a normal conversation with her crush. Her crush is a huge flirt and i'm NOT a friend who steals my bff's man or anything like...
    JennyLove1701 JennyLove1701 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm insanely jealous of my girlfriend's job. She works at such a kick *** company and gets such great perks and benefits it drives me crazy! Her job is extremely entry level but...
    ash000056 ash000056 22-25 3 days ago

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    so . readin sum stories . n iv had a super jealous wife n stuf n it was bad coz i started living staring at the ground instead . but right now . iv thought u kno whats awsum...
    CalandraBelle CalandraBelle 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    I seriously get so jealous so easy. And it's like 90% of the reason my boyfriend and I fight. He's never really ever don't anything major for me to feel this way, it's more of my...
    haileyx3 haileyx3 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Broken. It's a word I've tossed around numerous times. I can remember all the times I've made a comment to my sister about how I am broken, but it never really bothered me. I've...
    EllieMae523 EllieMae523 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Truth is that I get jealous easily. What is mine is mine, nobody can mess with it.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    I enjoy it when my bf gets jealous ^^ I feel like he really cares about me, like he really doesn't want to lose me. I remember when he would get so over protective back in HS now...
    PoetryApocolypse PoetryApocolypse 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    So I still get jealous when I look back on a memory....when my boyfriend had a crush on some girl when we were dating, it hurts to think back on it, in trying hard to be less...
    PoetryApocolypse PoetryApocolypse 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Okay, so....yikes. I get bitchy when jealous. Like PMS bitchy. So, when the girl I hate for practically no apparent reason starts flirting with MY crush, I got pissed. However, it...
    shawking shawking 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My project manager seemed to me she was placing above me a very young teammate. I asked her if she meant for that young man to supervise me by repeatedly placing his email address...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I really do feel jealous when I see other boys my age whose chests are clearly visible through their shirts, Because when I look down at my own chest, all I see is my shirt loosely...
    2tailkitsune 2tailkitsune 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 27

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    I found this silly personality test on Rutterman's profile and thought it was kind of interesting...and just fun to do, since I found myself answering the questions for myself...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I really hate getting jealous, because I know I should know better. I've been with my fiance for 8 years but sometimes he acts like he'd rAther have someone else. I try really hard...
    AmazingGrace84 AmazingGrace84 31-35 1 Response Jan 26

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    I was from 1991 to 2008. We have 2 kids together. This best sums up the life in hell; what's it like? -Depending on the person, the first few days or years will be intense but...
    Onewithone Onewithone 46-50, M Jan 25

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    I want to control my jealousy but I got cheated on , how can i do trust people after have trusted them with all my heart then they did that to me ? Anyone who could go tru this and...
    sweeter944 sweeter944 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 24

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    I've come to find that I have retroactive jealousy. I get very upset about someone's sexual past and begin to think that what we have is less special. My insecurities show and I...
    MisterMisterInc MisterMisterInc 26-30, M Jan 24

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    The quickest way to get me to lose interest is to get all jealous and/or possessive. Despite what so many people like to think, jealousy and possessiveness are not a sign of...
    bama1212 bama1212 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    I don't understand how a smile helps someone's day. I don't understand how spending millions of dollars from charity to feed everyone in a country for 1 day would be a smart idea...
    NameIsMailbox NameIsMailbox 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I've posted here before about my social anxiety, and it's something I've been working extremely hard to combat. The thing is, forming friendships is difficult for me because I...
    Caridinals21 Caridinals21 22-25, M Jan 23

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    I get so jealous when my boyfriend checks out other girls. I've asked him to stop and he knows that it hurts me. I've almost broken up with him because of this. Am I just being...
    Dtea15 Dtea15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Jealous boyfriends and girlfriends are the absolute worst type. I'm so tired of idiotic jealous boyfriends and girlfriends trying to make me not talk to their girlfriends or...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    Basically I think for a relationship to deepen and last through all the challenges that will eventually face a couple, one must love the personality, character, and heart of a...
    MoonWanderer MoonWanderer 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    I wish jealousy didn't run my life
    User1039 User1039 13-15, F Jan 20

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    This is a relational psychology personality test i took from: http://personalityquiz.net/relational/castle.htm Originally i was taken the test but it then drifted to me writing a...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I do love the your soul. A couple times we had talked a couple months ago we had gone to the soul to soul connection. I have no idea if she felt the same thing or not. It is the...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jan 19

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    This is a question to the group and I know this may seem tabooish, but I believe it may apply to a small percentage of people. Both women and men. Whenever you get jealous do...
    C00LDaddy C00LDaddy 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 18

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    watching the other moms talk and laugh with each other, so warm and friendly, all the inside jokes and knowledge while I remain an outsider fills me with a deep sad longing, it...
    goodwitchofthenorth goodwitchofthenorth 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    Mindstruggle is a girl by the way. She's pretty asf and a voice of nature. Her eyes.. I'm jealous, they're so pretty but she is so shy... No mindstruggle is not a boy.
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 70+, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    your career personality type is INFJThat means that based on the standard measure of personality traits, you have strong communication skills and interact well with people. Your...
    ALIKOKA ALIKOKA 61-65, M Jan 16

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    Well I know I am a good person and people tell me that. What they don't know are the bad things I do. I wish people didn't see me as this perfect person because I **** up and do...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 16-17, F Jan 16