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I Am Not a Jealous Person

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    When I confirmed my now ex-wife had been

    cheating on me (with multiple men) I wasn't angry or jealous about that. I was angry about all the other betrayals she committed and lies she told trying to cover it up. I'm still trying to grasp what this means for me. I know I get feel emotion for people I have sex with...
    ausofbounds ausofbounds 41-45, M Aug 21, 2014

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    My girlfriend saids she wants me to act jealous.

    I laughed at her then told her why should I act jealous if another guy find you attractive. I trust you that you will always respect our relationship so there is no need for me to act jealous.
    Deuz Deuz 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    Never Have Been

    <img src='http://www.brainbasedbusiness.com/uploads/jealousy-thumb.jpg' width='250' height='179' /> Life's difficult enough without constantly fretting over whether someone's getting something you're not. It's worth remembering that there'll always be others who are better off...
    mistygrey mistygrey 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2012

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    What Purpose Does It Serve ?

    I think that most women expect you to be jealous, so do alot of men, why ?  People use it as a weapon against the person they say they love. Some use it to get what they want from another. It can get a person hurt or even killed. So why would you want it in a relationship...
    Robert1256 Robert1256 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 7, 2010

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    Not Jealous!!

    i mean, dont get me wrong, there have been a few occasions here and there, where i have been a little jealous, but in general, im not a jealous person!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Really, I'm Not

    I'm very laid-back and accepting of rejection. lolThe way I see it is if my partner wants someone else, there really isn't much I can do to change that. If she/he wants to be with someone else, so be it.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    truly am. but on denial. if the person I'm talking to doesn't respond bck right away and I see his status as online.. I loose it right away. my mood just change immediately and my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29

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    I absolutely hate how I am always in denial of what is going on in my life. As I know I always lock myself away from what I think is going on between him and her..and then there's...
    Galatziaa Galatziaa 18-21, F May 3

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    I'm not a jealous person, But with you I only see green Because you, You don't see How ******* great you are You, you're like The calm in the middle of a storm Rainbows...
    breannajust breannajust 18-21, F May 2

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    So my name is Jazmin and i have four other personalities. it took me awhile to figure out why i had this Disorder, or what it was. Firstly Multiple personality disorder is a mental...
    ScarletandRose ScarletandRose 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    so there's that girl that I know since secondary school she was always the pretty talented popular smart girl I used to envy her wished to be like her I felt really jealous of her...
    AThousandSun AThousandSun 18-21, F May 13

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    I'm too afraid to date or get physical with another person, but I get jealous of other people who do. I don't know why, I shouldn't be jealous. Maybe I'm jealous that they don't...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    I'm so annoyed with my neighbor. We'll call her Jane. Jane is over 50, married with no kids and lives in our condo complex. We have a little group of neighbors who like to get...
    ninaspeed ninaspeed 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Ugh, jealous is a green eyed monster! That's what they all say, and I believe it's true. It can distort our being, play with our emotions and cause us to think too much. Well...
    WaveRunner101 WaveRunner101 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I have jealousy issues and I can't make sense of where the roots are I believe that if you know where a problem comes from then that's one major step to change and I want to change...
    theincarnated1 theincarnated1 26-30 13 hrs ago

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    I swear sometimes I just don't understand how things in life work this woman has cheated on her husband numerious times, has had a abortion, did drugs and was kicked ut f the army...
    lonelymom1982 lonelymom1982 31-35, F a week ago

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    I just hate the thought that I am feeling so jealous. I know that I got no right for that, but the thought of him with someone, even talking and trying to know that someone, gives...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F Apr 26

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    idk if this is jealousy or whatever but me and my ex boyfriend broke up obviously lol but we were talking for a while and I decided to stop talking to him and then I saw him with a...
    LuisB3344 LuisB3344 18-21, M 1 Response May 2

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F May 2

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F May 2

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F 4 Responses May 2

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    It's exam season and everyone I know (more or less) have holidays planned for summer and I get really jealous as I'm not going anywhere and feel like I am missing out. I was...
    Usmaniani Usmaniani 18-21, M 2 Responses May 8

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    I dislike them, but I am also becoming a jealous guy of my sister. As she is more popular than me and gets many dates. God forbids she knows this though. I am becoming a bitter...
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M May 14

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    the god of the bible is a jealous god. Love cannot have jealousy at it's core. Therefore The god of the bible is not love. Therefore christians who insist on defending "The...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 5 Responses May 15

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    I'll admit I'm a curious person. Curiosity is how I learn. I'll push a button just to see what it is or does, just because I'm curious ;-) (you can read my story). I'm also a...
    secretdesires78 secretdesires78 36-40, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I won't lie and say that what someone looks like is completely irrelevant I have very particular and uncommon tastes in that regard. But I'm a firm believer that someone's...
    EvieE53 EvieE53 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Looks fade with time. People change with time and the environment around them but with the right combination of personality and values, two people can exist together and last. The...
    starlightwonder starlightwonder 36-40, F 29 mins ago

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    It's so terrible. I'm simply finding my own flaws and comparing them to the strengths of other people without minding about my own strengths or their flaws. I'm a horrible person...
    BloodEpiphone BloodEpiphone 13-15, F Apr 24

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    Yeah, the types of people who keeps blabbering about themselves or if not, keeping in touch with other peoples' lives. It's just tiring to be with these types of people because of...
    arcticxcx arcticxcx 13-15, F 2 Responses May 8

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    The worst for me is when people give up on me quietly. Sometimes I'll even create a drama after they are already gone to feel relevant. The big blowouts are easier to understand...
    borderlinecomic borderlinecomic 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    When I love I love passionately with all my heart. I am not the jealous type but lying breaks my heart. I realize that sometime loving is letting go and I can let go! Does anyone...
    UltraRunnerMom UltraRunnerMom 31-35, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Word of caution: What you are about to read may disturb you.I am a 23 yr old male and I feel as if these past five years have completely and utterly destroyed me. Let me explain...
    lonelyman1113 lonelyman1113 22-25, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    YOUR OUTTA THE GAME ....YOU NEVER REALLY WERE IN MY GAME YOUR JEALOUS RUDE LAZY AND DO NOTHING ALL DAY..... IN 3 YEARS I SAVED ALMOST 1 MILLION DOLLARS.......GET LOST YOUR OF NO...
    yawnbutfun123 yawnbutfun123 51-55, F Apr 27

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    When I was in my early teens I used to be full of jealousy and envy. At some point in high school I decided to rid myself of those traits so I started to compliment people instead...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27

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    I'm extremely jealous and it's crazy. I hate it but Idk what to do to fix it.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    i get super jealous around girls who are prettier than me or when they have nicer things or a bf. i feel like something must be wrong with me that i cant be like them. i try and i...
    avalily avalily 18-21, F Apr 29

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    For some reason, I have been getting very jealous towards anyone who my ex boyfriend gives attention to. It's a very bad thing and I wish it didn't make me as mad as it does but I...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F Apr 30

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    I hate this feeling and I've never had it in life except when it comes to him. I get jealous and it's clearly an insecurity but it's the worst feeling in the world. I know why I...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 4 Responses May 2

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    Is it wrong to be jealous of your best friend(kinda like sister).Shes so pretty and has the life.I gave her everything she ever needed.I made her who she is(in a good way).But now...
    ElenaRose4756 ElenaRose4756 13-15, F 1 Response May 2

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    I really do, and sometimes it makes me sick...and other times, I can't help but giggle. WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU BE JEALOUS OF ANYBODY ON THIS WEBSITE?
    OneClassyLady OneClassyLady 70+, F 10 Responses May 7

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    All of a sudden, I've become a jealous boyfriend. We're transitioning from being open to being more of a closed monogamous relationship because of it. And I just feel like I...
    tempestsarekind tempestsarekind 22-25, M 1 Response May 10

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    I have this very vivid imagination and whenever my girlfriend says something that happened in the past My mind decides to give me a video to play over and over again in my head. It...
    RainbowKitteh RainbowKitteh 13-15, M May 14