I Am Not a Man Hater

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 183 People

    I Have Been Told I Am A Man Hater

    but if I am it is due to abuse n rape and sexual assault... and abuse by other women! for mens attentions
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 23, 2011

    Even Though It Could Be So Easy

     I will refuse to even think of being a man hater. Even after what my ex put me through. My family said that if I didn't leave him I would soon turn into a man hater. Well, 23 years after the fact I did leave him. My only regrets is not leaving sooner. But I do not hate men...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Sep 12, 2008


    No, I'm not. Actually, I have no interest in women that hate men. There's seriously something wrong with a woman if she does. My mom has a relative of sorts (not exactly sure how she's related) that hates men. She hangs up the phone if my dad answers when she calls. Then calls...
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    17 Responses Oct 10, 2008

    Im A Man Lover !

    I have no reason to hate men .. why to hate them .. I can understand some ppl who hate men since they got hurted badly in the past .. but everybody is different and he/she deserves a second chance .. love for me has no gender differences .. Its just the feeling .. it doesnt...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    Feb 6, 2010

    HA Ha Ha!

    Me? Hate men? Yeah, right! LOL! XD Not at all. I do think women are very sexy and beautiful. But, I do love my guys! Heehee! They can be annoying sometimes... but a lot of times in a good way! And I seem to be better friends with guys, than with women, most times...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 29, 2009

    I Really Like Them

    I like the way they look. Intelect and witty are good. They sould have some depth to them, not superficial. Pleasing to look at and attentive around his woman. Not to much to ask. Is it? I don't hate men. I rather like them. I want one of my own!
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2008

    Standing Up For The Boys :)

    I have had my share of "boy drama," blah, blah, blah.. BUT the guys aren't all whom should take blame. I am the one who has put myself in such situations! I think men like women have the potential to be good, bad and all the shades in between. They often get the bad rep of...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    1 Response Aug 23, 2010

    On the Contrary

    I adore them!!!! For me, I guess I understand men better than most women do.......after all, boys will be boys. I have always had a sense of myself, in other words I'm whole with or without a man. He does not define who I am, he enhances it. I've had my heart shattered...
    lilyofthenile lilyofthenile
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jun 15, 2008

    I'm An Equal Opportunity Hater

    I am blind when it comes to gender, race, disability, etc... If I hate you, its because of your personality.
    undeadsarcasm undeadsarcasm
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2009

    What is the point in hatred?

    Yes someone said it's the opposite of love....so? Hate is consuming and negative, and it is anti karma. You will pay a price for hating, in your spirit, your psyche. Hatred is such a harsh thing. You should not hate as it involves too much passion. You should keep your passion...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2014


    I was the opposite, in that i was a woman hater Until I came here and met some fellow female fruitloops xx I am very much now a person who has learned in life that a person is an individual and should never be pegholed into stereotypes associated with genders and...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 2, 2009

    Heck No

    I don't Hate Men. There are some amazing Men Out there. I have One Of Them. I know There are More  amazing Men In the world There  not All ****** and *** holes. You just have to Have Faith and Look For One.
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy
    18-21, F
    Jul 31, 2008

    But I Am Always Wary of Them

    I am suspicious of all men I meet. It takes a number of years for me to find out enough about a man to trust him. I have two male friends, irl, and I have none online. I consider myself an Androphobe. I think I will start a group called that. I do have brothers but...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2009

    Are You Kidding???

    I LOVE MEN!!!  I think women are sexy as hell... BUT I love MEN!!!  Especially mine... HAH!
    phidget phidget
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2008

    Live And Let Live

    sometimes we hate people for no reason and tend to hold a grudge, but im not like that. i dont hate men but im straight and like the touch of a woman
    kingjade kingjade
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 12, 2009

    I Love Women But When It Comes to Men...

    I love women........I love having them in my life.......But I will always have men in my life that I love dearly.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    11 Responses Jan 5, 2009

    ...It Should Be Obvious By My Name... ;D

    If I have a dissenting opinion against a male, does that make me a man-hater? No, just a woman with an opinion. Just because I agree with plenty of Feminist attributes, does that instantly make me one? No. Those who think so either have no knowledge of Feminism and/or associate...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2013

    Man Hater...hahahaha

    i guess you would call me the opposite. in a way. i get annoyed by men and they **** me off sometimes and i have suffered alot at the hands of some men, but they seem to be the only humans i get along with, with the exception of a few  fun patient women that can put up with...
    avagwen420 avagwen420
    18-21, F
    Dec 4, 2009

    Most Definitely Not.

    quite the opposite actually. i have a huge appreciation for men. all men. there's so much to love ; ) as much as they upset me from time to time, i'd never ever want to be in a world without them!
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2009

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