I Am Not a Mean Person

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    Im actually a nice girl

    and a loving person, but people don't understand clearly that im actually nice in the inside. On the outside, im really mean, aggressive, and lazy and I don't really know why im like this. Maybe because I have a really aggressive family and I hate my life but Im really a nice...
    VitaniTheLioness VitaniTheLioness
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014

    I Don't Understand..

    People mistake me for a mean person, often. I don't know why, I've never done anything intentional to hurt them or make them feel bad. I think people mistake me for being mean when I'm just being real. I'm a very upfront and honest person and some people just don't like that...
    HappyZappyZaperson HappyZappyZaperson
    26-30, T
    1 Response Jan 21, 2013

    I try not to be. I've put a lot of effort into

    the reputation I've tried to uphold and I don't want to loose it. Fear, judgment and guilt is always stuck close behind me. The fear and judgment go together actually. Being raised religious has made me quite convinced that we really are judged for our deeds when we die. I've...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise
    22-25, F
    Jun 17, 2015

    I'm Stubborn & Blunt

    But, I'm not mean! At least, I don't think I am! :-D I could see why people would think so, though. Because I am a little harsh with the truth, though I try not to be. I'm a lot blunt with my words, but learning to soften them a bit! I grew up only hearing the straight truth...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 8, 2008

    Im Just Honest

    I just say exactly whats on my mind.  Whether folks can handle that, i could care less.  Honesty has always been the best policy.  I like to know where i stand with others at all time, and i expect most folks require the same. 
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2010

    Though I'm Often Mistaken For One

    because I have no social skills and apparently look pissed off whenever I'm not smiling.  I wish people didn't think that about me.
    feralkitten feralkitten
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Sep 14, 2007

    Not At All....

    Although I sometimes think meaner people get on better in life. They surely can't hurt as much through being hurt and let down by others and they seem to be seen as strong people who you don't mess with. I'm not saying I want to be a mean person but at this point in my life I...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 12, 2011

    I'm Not Mean

     I'm not mean,Like to share,Participate,Whetever,Me,I'm polite.
    storywriter2 storywriter2
    Sep 24, 2012

    When I was in 7th grade,

    I joined a club full of nerdy kids. I absolutely loved it, I knew that was where I belonged. Only a few girls were among us who I became good friends with, but the boys were the majority and they were very, very cliquey. I was stunned that geeks could be so closed off...
    lizzieb1234 lizzieb1234
    18-21, F
    Feb 9, 2014

    You said you were done with me

    so why are you messing with me . It's not like we were ever a thing or you had any other intentions past using me so why should I be forced to talk to you or try and spend time with you . I would say you could lick my left butt cheek but you'd probably like that .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Apr 1, 2015
    GemmaL GemmaL
    18-21, F
    Mar 31, 2016
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    26-30, F
    Jan 20, 2015

    Oh who am I bullshitting,

    I am actually a very very mean person. And I just enjoy hating you so much :)
    kiki2016 kiki2016
    26-30, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    I Am Very Nice

    I am always very nice to people, so they will be nice to me.Well....at least until they **** me off, then things are a little different......
    blackcat blackcat
    22-25, F
    Sep 6, 2007

    I just can't do it, and I don't wanna be

    that kind of person. I hate the thought of hurting someone, it breaks my heart. Being nice just feels good, and I hope I don't change. They say nice guys finish last, well I challenge that ;)
    ACyanideSurprise ACyanideSurprise
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    Too Nice

    i have been told plenty of times im too nice to people. i just dont see a need to be mean. i always look at the good in every situation. but if i have to mean i can! im just not very good at it!! lol
    taraxlovesxevan taraxlovesxevan
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2008

    I refuse to be mean/rude.

    I love being a nice person. I'm very proud of it. I believe we should loving and polite to everyone. I don't like to argue. I have a lot of patience with people, and that helps. I also am shy in real life, and may not initiate a greeting or conversation, and I'm afraid of...
    MDenise MDenise
    31-35, F
    Feb 11, 2014

    My Cross Dressind Experience

    Hi this is pratap i am from andhra i am 22 years old  Hear is my story                          One day no one in home My mom nd father went to hyd me and my cousin sis in hom my cousin went out with his frnds suudenly they was rainig. I go out...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 17, 2011

    I'm not really but sometimes,

    making someone feel absolutely horrible is so satisfying. :) It's been a perfect day!
    GeorgiaAllender13 GeorgiaAllender13
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2016

    Not Always.

    I'm not mean unless i'm given a reason to be . But for the most part I try to get along with everyone. The only thing that really can **** me off is telling me that im too young to do something, or talking negatively about my kids. Everyone has days where they're in a bad mood...
    babylove13 babylove13
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 31, 2012

    I Can See How You Think I Might Be Though.

    I'm a pretty honest person and I don't try to come off as mean but I guess some (insecure) people could perceive me as such. I just try to tell people how it is and I'd like the same to be given in return. Also when I first meet someone I tend to size them up before opening up...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos
    18-21, F
    May 6, 2011

    Do not mistake my strength

    for cruelty, as one might mistake kindness for weakness. 
    adianoeta adianoeta
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

    People think I'm mean

    but I'm just real. I mean don't come to the kitchen if you can't handle the heat. I'm actually nice but I will point out things that irritate me about you no, not your flaws just your annoying habits.
    HypnoticAqua HypnoticAqua
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    Or I Try

    I try not to be a mean person. There are some times where I'm mean. Not aloud but in my head. If someone tries to talk to me, like someone who is mentally handicapped, I try my hardest to be nice to them but it doesn't always work. I have this problem with people who are mentally...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180
    18-21, F
    Dec 5, 2011

    Mean People Suck

    As it happens, I am Evil.  "...oh sure," you say. "How can you be evil and not mean?""It's easier to be evil if you can lull them into a false sense of security and make them like you, or make them think you are a harmless crazy. Certainly you've heard the expression...
    VaritySinning VaritySinning
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2010
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