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I Am Not a Mind Reader

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    Since I'm Not...

    People have to tell me what they want.  Nothing ****** me off more than people assuming that I know what they like and then getting mad when do something that they don't like.SPEAK UP MAN, I'M NOT A MIND READER!!
    ItsLikeThatMan ItsLikeThatMan 31-35, M Sep 10, 2011

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    Being On Here Almost 2 Years And Many Expect Me To Read Into It All

    I have made similar Groups here. People use short hand writing and not very descriptive paragraphs. And I am "What?" I leave many Stories confused. I am not able to understand things said so general. I do not know how to interpret ambiguous sayings.And it appears that our...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP 56-60, M Dec 6, 2011

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    Stop acting so weird?

    What's wrong with you?
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F Nov 22, 2014

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    Wish I Were

    This is one thing many times I wish I were able to do. I think of the many ways being able to read someone's mind would help in understanding them. It would also help in knowing early if they were lying. Yet, I also know and have learned there are many times it is good that you...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    Although...

    It would be pretty cool if I was...
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    Don't Keep Me Guessing, Kay!?

    I find it annoying whenever people assume I already know what's up when I don't. Knock if off!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Sep 8, 2011

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    My "ESPN" Isn't Working...

    I can't read minds... I mean not from lack of trying... I try... I concentrate really hard... look deeply into their eyes... but all I get is a blank... which to me has to mean either most people are blank idiots... or I can't read minds... so just say what you have to say... don...
    phidget phidget 31-35, F Jun 30, 2008

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    So Don,t Treat Me Like 1!

    My ex husband was the worse 1 for this he hardly talked and when he did he thought I knew HIS thoughts .I told him I struggle with understanding my own thoughts without mithering with his!!!! bugs me it really does    
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 12, 2008

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    'Fraid Not

    I'm sure everything is better off that way. Plus, I'd rather not know what people are thinking. It'd be rather creepy, and I suppose I'm better off believing that they are thinking nice things. Happy things. Smiley things. Humourous things. And so forth. Makes me happy jsut...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Jun 13, 2008

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    That Would Be a No

    I have pretty good intuition But i cannot read minds This means if your having a bad day SAY SO If you want me to shut up SAY SO If you need something SAY SO When i ask how you are don't stick with the tired line of I'm fine if your not Don't ask me how i am and expect a...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 1, 2008

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    Not About To Try.

    I'm not a mind reader and I'm not about to even try. If my friends are having a problem all they have to do is say something. I'll help if I can or if they need space I'll give them some space and so forth. If someone doesn't like me, oh well! I'm not going to bother to find out...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 3, 2012

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    Mind Reader

    Mind reader,No, Sorry, Not I,If you want something,You’re gonna ‘ave to say,If you don’t,I can’t help,I’m not a mind reader.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Oct 14, 2011

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    MEN!

    Why is it MEN have to always be told that we can't read there minds! We had a disagreement about counting coins. Can you believe this. And he told me that I acted like a N******** who can't count! So I walked out of the house, went to the store with him, got cigs, did a lot of...
    Tigger1 Tigger1 51-55, F 12 Responses Apr 14, 2008

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    Mind Reader

    Mind reader,Not I,Don't do that,If you want me to know,You'll have to tell me,What's on your mind?
    mrraincoat mrraincoat 46-50 Jun 21, 2012

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    I am sarcastic almost all of the time and I don't think everyone would be able to handle it and what if I spoke my mind in front of my mother like the other night my elbow cracked...
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    an open mind is a free mind.... why should I limit what my mind thinks and what's to do.... I do whatever I want to do in a way that keeps me happy and doesn't hurt other people...
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    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    Gyr8er Gyr8er 46-50 1 Response Jul 19

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    Religious people are so close-minded. They always tell you what to do its so annoying. Sheesh they're so obcessed with morals and other useless stuff. They don't know what freedom...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 18

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    Lol before I type this I want to say I can't stand the spelling error of this experience group :P Moving on If i'm talking to you I want you to tell me whats on your mind. I don't...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Jul 17

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    jewwlie jewwlie 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    http://magazine.good.is/articles/tea-never-looked-so-good i may want tea now but when you bring me tea i may change my mind and that is alright. there is no contract and i can...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    sirnatural sirnatural 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Falling asleep smiling!Nothing beats falling asleep with a smile painted all over my face. Peace at heart and joy in mind. You do that to me. You never fail. Even though we live...
    IBelongToAlison IBelongToAlison 41-45, F 14 Responses Jul 14

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    I never know what to write here in the open-minded group. I guess I'll just have to keep an open mind till I come up with something.
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    This is why Dad has to be the mediator because I don't mind saying what's on my mind and sometimes our minds are not so diplomatic XD
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12

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    I had a surprising afternoon! I have always thought of myself as open minded. But I have to say that a friend of mine’s mother really surprised me earlier this week. I always...
    NudiSuzie2 NudiSuzie2 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 11

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    Die. Die. Die! You self-deprecrating feeble minded fool! Do you honestly believe those good things you told to yourself? Yes, I did, but not anymore... Which means I shouldn't...
    SelfUnaware SelfUnaware 18-21 Jul 10

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    This is a big question. Why do people ask questions to others and pre guess a answer? You're only doing 2 things. 1 You aren't being real because everyone should not think the...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    This mental tedium is spreading everywhere within my mind. The erosion of my mind is draining. Soon enough my mind will be a desolate land in which only I can disdain. There won't...
    SelfUnaware SelfUnaware 18-21 Jul 8

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    Realistically, being "open minded" is an impossible task. If you say your are open minded, then essentially you are able to accept everything put before you. All is allowable and...
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    I just don't understand why my mind wants the unacceptable
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