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I Am Not a Nice Person

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    I'm blunt, manipulative,

    impatient, and self-centered. If I like someone, I'll flirt with them whether they're taken or not. I play with people like puppets and I get them to trust me with all their secrets. I will throw your stupidity back in your face.
    xdestinyrosex xdestinyrosex 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Faking It

    Most the time I am bitchy, irritable and most people annoy me. I view most things as a hassle and if I go out in public everyone else is just in my way. I am not a nice person at all, but I pretend to be.
    AscendedOne AscendedOne 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I'M Never Nice I My Mind If You Get On My Bad Side

    If you get on my bad side and live to see the light of day your very very very lucky ^-^ >:)
    KILLsisters101 KILLsisters101 13-15, F Nov 19, 2013

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    I have friends because at times I can actually

    be kinda okay. Whenever someone nicer goes up to them and starts talking, literally about the even the most stupidest ideas.... and i will start being rude and sassy.. on top of that I'll hate myself for not being nice like them and wish to die...sooooo
    captainteeemo captainteeemo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2014

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    I Can Be

    I can be polite, forgiving, and even understanding at times. Overall, however, being nice or kind, etc isn't my normal state. I'm not an especially nasty or cruel person, but I can be extremely selfish and self-centered at times. Likely, those times outweigh the nicer times. Then...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Jul 18, 2012

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    I'm Not A Nice Person

    I hate myself for not being nice. Sometimes, I feel that I have to undergo therapy just to control my temper. Frankly speaking, I hate humanity and everything about this world. I want to dissociate myself from this world and wish that I'd just disappear or die or go somewhere...
    ldybug ldybug 22-25 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    I Am (not) A Nice Person

    The internet, as amazing and beautiful as it is, always tends to bring out the worst in me, as in, I probably bully people too much just because I'm bored. Either that, or I'm always incredibly insensitive and it fails to occur to me when I'm in the physical world. Probably a lot...
    EvieBlack EvieBlack 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I'm self centered, judgmental,

    blunt, guarded and impatient. Do I care to change? No.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I Try To Be Nice.

    I try to be a nice person, but it doesn't always come off that way. I have such a difficult time with people. I see how others interact so easily with others, but I can't do it so I don't even bother trying to talk to people most of the time. I usually come off as standoffish...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Nov 13, 2011

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    They Say There Are Two Kinds Of Walkers....

    those who meander about, walk side by side in dense foot traffic (causing all kinds of strife), pay no mind or attention to anything that is going on. These people walk on the wrong side (e.g., walk to the left in the States when it is customary to keep to your right). Generally...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    I Need Help

    I am shallow, materialistic, conceded and I use ppl. These things have just really come to my attention by my children with there innocent comments. One of my children asked if i rembered b4 i met my current fiance and I used all those other guys to buy us things wasn't that fun...
    sjsjames sjsjames 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    Why is it I'm seen as nice?

    A lot of people I've had the pleasure of speaking with have always said I'm a kind young man, or I am sweet boy, or a nice kid. One or the other or some different words to describe me as nice. I find this very odd for I am not nice at all. I'm actually a huge ******* in truth. I...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    There Is That Side...

    I have/had (been humbled a bit) times (too many) where I could say and or do anything to anyone. Confession: I have been an ******* to everyone I care for at some point. I mean the harsh stuff, not just forgetting to return a shirt.  You name an awful thing to say and I have...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    Causing Conflict

    I know its not a nice thing to do but causing conflict between people amuses me, I mean i don't really have any close friends so i'm not getting hurt by it and it's great when someone tells you something little that they don't think is that bad about someone else but you pass it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    Coming To Grips With Jerkhood

    I am in my late 20's and recently coming to grips with the fact that I hurt people's feelings without intending to. Some people come to me and we work it out, but others seem to try to be the eternal victim and never let anything go. Even though I say things that sound mean, I do...
    gre738 gre738 26-30 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    They Think I'm Nice But They Are Wrong

    Almost everybody seems to think I'm really nice and a good person. Family, friends, colleagues, all. And I suppose I can see why they think that. On the outside I am nice in a lot of ways. I'll help anybody who needs help and have given a LOT of help to some I know that really...
    Badboy9 Badboy9 41-45, M Jun 22, 2011

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    Nice Is Overrated

    It's more important to be real than to be nice at all times. I say I'm not a nice person because there are times when people are friendly and nice to me but because I don't like or respect those people I feel no need to be nice in return. I just ignore them. Not nice!
    Lazyhorse Lazyhorse 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Not Really, No

    I tried pretending to be nice for a while, but it got to be too stressful, and I don't think anyone noticed anyway.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Be Warned

    Be warned,Double-cross me,You'll find out,I have another side!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    Low Tolerance For Idiocy

    I have an extremely low tolerance for asinine nonsensical bullshit. I can only stomach or tolerate most people's company for about....5 minutes, tops. Some people are just overbearingly moronic. And when you present me with bullshit I will chastise you and slander it and replace...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2013

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    Impatient, Judgmental, And Just Plain Mean

    I have a tendency to be just as the title states, impatient, judgmental, and mean. But only to the people that I love. I am often mean and snappy with my husband and always seem to have a problem with something, even though he is the most supportive, wonderful husband I could...
    waterwheels waterwheels 26-30, F Aug 30, 2012

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    Do you guys believe I'm a genuinely nice person? Or is being nice too much that will hurt me later on. Would you guys hang out with me? Do I seem like a fun person
    JEJ2259 JEJ2259 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    I wanna say I am a nice human being, so come get to know me, please.
    bnaesf bnaesf 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    What the hell? Is this some sort of sick joke
    Woot2u Woot2u 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 8

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    A brother can't even say hi without her thinking I'm tryna holla, like dang I'm just trying to be friendly
    slimvince slimvince 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Hi, my name is Katie. I am 26 years old and I am from California. I am a nice person. Not everyone is a nice person. I guess that I am nice, because I am sort of a "good" person...
    ksmith0315 ksmith0315 26-30 1 Response Feb 23

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    I try to be as nice as I can to every one I meet. When I met my socially awkward bestfriend, I always remind myself to stay cool & be nice to him long as I could. Even though he...
    absinthe79 absinthe79 22-25, M Feb 10

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    I think people think I'm weak because I'm nice?? To a degree I do find it hard to say no to people, not saying no to people is starting to get me in trouble (nothing serious) but...
    Megaguy2010 Megaguy2010 22-25, M Feb 22

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    And I've been fortunate to have met a lot of them in my life. It's pretty easy to start believing they don't exist-particularly if you're down or reading some of the more low level...
    Blondiex15 Blondiex15 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    Lately I feel like I have been acting like my former self, the person I tried so hard to suppress. She was a not-so-nice person who did some things that she later regretted. I...
    lillyforever4 lillyforever4 16-17, F Feb 22

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    I'm not a nice person though. I say what I like, do what I like, and act how I like. I'll politely tell you to go **** yourself if you do not like it. :)
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    I'm a very nice person but because of that I'm more cautious of other peoples feelings than my own and u know its not fair to me and I know they don't really care. But, I just can...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Nice people means attractive, non vulgar, non rude, polite, intelligent and mostly genuine ! No fakes allowed ... empty profiles with no experience, no stories or no picture at all...
    Elviria Elviria 56-60, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm way too nice. Sometimes I think I'm nice to the wrong people.
    Yafavnextdoor Yafavnextdoor 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have just recently found out that I am pregnant. Yes, I am excited. But, I'm also terrified because of the havoc pregnancy is already wreaking on my fragile emotional state...
    whiskeyprincess37 whiskeyprincess37 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    i wont change for no one!! ok, granted that when the going gets tough,i stand firm and stand up for myself, but what i dont get, is why so many nice people,want to become...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    I am too nice, I'm the person that would give my last dime to someone else even if I needed it more. I am the person to offer food before I eat it. I am the person that always...
    kaylakanoelani kaylakanoelani 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am nice to Ppl who r nice to me. for me the first impression is the last. if someone is not nice to me the first day I meet them, thts it..... I will have nothing to do with tht...
    Niddy Niddy 22-25, F Feb 11

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    I'm a pretty shy person. I don't normally introduce myself to people. But once we get to know each other it's hard to shut me up. It's weird though cuz at home I'm super crazy and...
    therealpinkpony therealpinkpony 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Since I have been on EP, I have done a lot of writing. I share my stories, feelings, hopes and dreams with you because it's a good outlet for me. I come here and feel very much at...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    We met in person about a month ago. I wanted to wait until after I had my hair done and could look my prettiest, but he had this amazing coercive ability to get his way. I met him...
    IlovePinkpanties IlovePinkpanties 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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