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I Am Not a Nice Person

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    I'm self centered, judgmental,

    blunt, guarded and impatient. Do I care to change? No.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I'M Never Nice I My Mind If You Get On My Bad Side

    If you get on my bad side and live to see the light of day your very very very lucky ^-^ >:)
    KILLsisters101 KILLsisters101 16-17, F Nov 19, 2013

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    I Am (not) A Nice Person

    The internet, as amazing and beautiful as it is, always tends to bring out the worst in me, as in, I probably bully people too much just because I'm bored. Either that, or I'm always incredibly insensitive and it fails to occur to me when I'm in the physical world. Probably a lot...
    EvieBlack EvieBlack 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    Low Tolerance For Idiocy

    I have an extremely low tolerance for asinine nonsensical bullshit. I can only stomach or tolerate most people's company for about....5 minutes, tops. Some people are just overbearingly moronic. And when you present me with bullshit I will chastise you and slander it and replace...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2013

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    Nice Is Overrated

    It's more important to be real than to be nice at all times. I say I'm not a nice person because there are times when people are friendly and nice to me but because I don't like or respect those people I feel no need to be nice in return. I just ignore them. Not nice!
    Lazyhorse Lazyhorse 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    Impatient, Judgmental, And Just Plain Mean

    I have a tendency to be just as the title states, impatient, judgmental, and mean. But only to the people that I love. I am often mean and snappy with my husband and always seem to have a problem with something, even though he is the most supportive, wonderful husband I could...
    waterwheels waterwheels 26-30, F Aug 30, 2012

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    Why is it I'm seen as nice?

    A lot of people I've had the pleasure of speaking with have always said I'm a kind young man, or I am sweet boy, or a nice kid. One or the other or some different words to describe me as nice. I find this very odd for I am not nice at all. I'm actually a huge ******* in truth. I...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I have friends because at times I can actually

    be kinda okay. Whenever someone nicer goes up to them and starts talking, literally about the even the most stupidest ideas.... and i will start being rude and sassy.. on top of that I'll hate myself for not being nice like them and wish to die...sooooo
    captainteeemo captainteeemo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2014

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    I got a notice that one of the people

    who constantly gives me headaches at work is resigning....a group of us just high fived each other silently ...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 1 Response May 4

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    I Need Help

    I am shallow, materialistic, conceded and I use ppl. These things have just really come to my attention by my children with there innocent comments. One of my children asked if i rembered b4 i met my current fiance and I used all those other guys to buy us things wasn't that fun...
    sjsjames sjsjames 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    They Think I'm Nice But They Are Wrong

    Almost everybody seems to think I'm really nice and a good person. Family, friends, colleagues, all. And I suppose I can see why they think that. On the outside I am nice in a lot of ways. I'll help anybody who needs help and have given a LOT of help to some I know that really...
    Badboy9 Badboy9 41-45, M Jun 22, 2011

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    Be Warned

    Be warned,Double-cross me,You'll find out,I have another side!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    Coming To Grips With Jerkhood

    I am in my late 20's and recently coming to grips with the fact that I hurt people's feelings without intending to. Some people come to me and we work it out, but others seem to try to be the eternal victim and never let anything go. Even though I say things that sound mean, I do...
    gre738 gre738 26-30 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Have u seen my picture?

    my point. LOL
    PlayboyBPAC PlayboyBPAC 26-30, M May 4

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    Not Really, No

    I tried pretending to be nice for a while, but it got to be too stressful, and I don't think anyone noticed anyway.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I'm Not A Nice Person

    I hate myself for not being nice. Sometimes, I feel that I have to undergo therapy just to control my temper. Frankly speaking, I hate humanity and everything about this world. I want to dissociate myself from this world and wish that I'd just disappear or die or go somewhere...
    ldybug ldybug 22-25 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Causing Conflict

    I know its not a nice thing to do but causing conflict between people amuses me, I mean i don't really have any close friends so i'm not getting hurt by it and it's great when someone tells you something little that they don't think is that bad about someone else but you pass it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    I Try To Be Nice.

    I try to be a nice person, but it doesn't always come off that way. I have such a difficult time with people. I see how others interact so easily with others, but I can't do it so I don't even bother trying to talk to people most of the time. I usually come off as standoffish...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Nov 13, 2011

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    Faking It

    Most the time I am bitchy, irritable and most people annoy me. I view most things as a hassle and if I go out in public everyone else is just in my way. I am not a nice person at all, but I pretend to be.
    AscendedOne AscendedOne 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    I'm blunt, manipulative,

    impatient, and self-centered. If I like someone, I'll flirt with them whether they're taken or not. I play with people like puppets and I get them to trust me with all their secrets. I will throw your stupidity back in your face.
    xdestinyrosex xdestinyrosex 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I like telling people

    who go out of their way to irritate me to **** off or to get ******. They're reaction gives me so much satisfaction. I love getting under people's skin ;)
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F May 4

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I Can Be

    I can be polite, forgiving, and even understanding at times. Overall, however, being nice or kind, etc isn't my normal state. I'm not an especially nasty or cruel person, but I can be extremely selfish and self-centered at times. Likely, those times outweigh the nicer times. Then...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Jul 18, 2012

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    They Say There Are Two Kinds Of Walkers....

    those who meander about, walk side by side in dense foot traffic (causing all kinds of strife), pay no mind or attention to anything that is going on. These people walk on the wrong side (e.g., walk to the left in the States when it is customary to keep to your right). Generally...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    closest I could get to saying

    that " I'm not a nice guy". I may not be rude but I'm by no means nice. I will hurt you if you hit me and I will hurt your feelings if you attempt to verbally abuse or insult me. why is it that seen as a pushover for keeping to myself for the most part? it's whatever, I'm just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 16

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    There Is That Side...

    I have/had (been humbled a bit) times (too many) where I could say and or do anything to anyone. Confession: I have been an ******* to everyone I care for at some point. I mean the harsh stuff, not just forgetting to return a shirt.  You name an awful thing to say and I have...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    The feeling dwells on me so much and it makes me wanna slap myself in the mouth to shut myself up...~ I know I'm not a bad person but I always feel like I am for whatever reason...
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    If Mindstruggle tripped and hurt her leg while walking to the lunch table, I would eat her lunch and then assist her because she is just a great person <3
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    Most days it feels like a chore to be nice...but I do it because I don't want to make anyone else feel as crap as I do. It's not fair. I decided to give up being nice to my older...
    nightowl2015 nightowl2015 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm not a very nice person, simple as. I'm rude and I'm easy to tease which people like to exploit. I'm loyal to my friends but I am unsociable and like to be alone. I find that...
    HelpIneedsomeone HelpIneedsomeone 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It doesn't cost a lot and it pays to be nice to everyone...even when you dont want to be. If someone gets on your nerves...Or tries to argue or is just a complete *** then being...
    Abandonedhusband30 Abandonedhusband30 26-30, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am a nice person, right? Or at least I thought I was. Okay, so if I'm such a nice person, WHY THE HELL DOES IT SEEM LIKE I'M ALWAYS THE ONE GETTING SCREWED? And I aint talking...
    HELLSBABY HELLSBABY 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm too nice to people, so occasionally...........I'm mean.
    mlnchla mlnchla 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    life is not always what it seems to be<><> it is nice to be important but it is much more important to be nice to others--we only get one shot at living in this life.....so...
    Nikirika Nikirika 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    the world like to push me around and knock me down but I get up and I always remember there are good people in the world like today I almost was hit by 2 cars because people were...
    me0883 me0883 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Over the years i have seen a dramatic change in my personality, and it is in my opinion kind of good. Let me explain...When i was younger i used to be really impulsive, loud and...
    Acewulf Acewulf 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    People take your kindness for weakness. If you are a happy and nice person, people will treat you like an airhead. Just because I don't walk around with a chip on my shoulder...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 50, Jewish, Male (I say this in case other people share my background it might make then feel better that they are not alone). I am very depressed right now. I have been...
    badman50 badman50 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I have a friend who is a lesbian and lives in Nebraska. She's really nice, and wants to meet other girls who wear diapers. If you're a girl, lesbian, and enjoy diapers DM me and...
    Bedwetter1981 Bedwetter1981 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    knowing you did something genuinely nice for someone is quite possibly the best feeling in the world. i know it's meant to be a selfless act, but the gratification from being nice...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago