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I Am Not a Nice Person

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    They Say There Are Two Kinds Of Walkers....

    those who meander about, walk side by side in dense foot traffic (causing all kinds of strife), pay no mind or attention to anything that is going on. These people walk on the wrong side (e.g., walk to the left in the States when it is customary to keep to your right). Generally...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    I'M Never Nice I My Mind If You Get On My Bad Side

    If you get on my bad side and live to see the light of day your very very very lucky ^-^ >:)
    KILLsisters101 KILLsisters101 13-15, F Nov 19, 2013

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    I'm blunt, manipulative,

    impatient, and self-centered. If I like someone, I'll flirt with them whether they're taken or not. I play with people like puppets and I get them to trust me with all their secrets. I will throw your stupidity back in your face.
    xdestinyrosex xdestinyrosex 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I'm self centered, judgmental,

    blunt, guarded and impatient. Do I care to change? No.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I'm Not A Nice Person

    I hate myself for not being nice. Sometimes, I feel that I have to undergo therapy just to control my temper. Frankly speaking, I hate humanity and everything about this world. I want to dissociate myself from this world and wish that I'd just disappear or die or go somewhere...
    ldybug ldybug 22-25 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Faking It

    Most the time I am bitchy, irritable and most people annoy me. I view most things as a hassle and if I go out in public everyone else is just in my way. I am not a nice person at all, but I pretend to be.
    AscendedOne AscendedOne 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    Not Really, No

    I tried pretending to be nice for a while, but it got to be too stressful, and I don't think anyone noticed anyway.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Coming To Grips With Jerkhood

    I am in my late 20's and recently coming to grips with the fact that I hurt people's feelings without intending to. Some people come to me and we work it out, but others seem to try to be the eternal victim and never let anything go. Even though I say things that sound mean, I do...
    gre738 gre738 26-30 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    They Think I'm Nice But They Are Wrong

    Almost everybody seems to think I'm really nice and a good person. Family, friends, colleagues, all. And I suppose I can see why they think that. On the outside I am nice in a lot of ways. I'll help anybody who needs help and have given a LOT of help to some I know that really...
    Badboy9 Badboy9 41-45, M Jun 22, 2011

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    Be Warned

    Be warned,Double-cross me,You'll find out,I have another side!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    Impatient, Judgmental, And Just Plain Mean

    I have a tendency to be just as the title states, impatient, judgmental, and mean. But only to the people that I love. I am often mean and snappy with my husband and always seem to have a problem with something, even though he is the most supportive, wonderful husband I could...
    waterwheels waterwheels 26-30, F Aug 30, 2012

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I Can Be

    I can be polite, forgiving, and even understanding at times. Overall, however, being nice or kind, etc isn't my normal state. I'm not an especially nasty or cruel person, but I can be extremely selfish and self-centered at times. Likely, those times outweigh the nicer times. Then...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Jul 18, 2012

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    I Am (not) A Nice Person

    The internet, as amazing and beautiful as it is, always tends to bring out the worst in me, as in, I probably bully people too much just because I'm bored. Either that, or I'm always incredibly insensitive and it fails to occur to me when I'm in the physical world. Probably a lot...
    EvieBlack EvieBlack 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I Try To Be Nice.

    I try to be a nice person, but it doesn't always come off that way. I have such a difficult time with people. I see how others interact so easily with others, but I can't do it so I don't even bother trying to talk to people most of the time. I usually come off as standoffish...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Nov 13, 2011

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    I have friends because at times I can actually

    be kinda okay. Whenever someone nicer goes up to them and starts talking, literally about the even the most stupidest ideas.... and i will start being rude and sassy.. on top of that I'll hate myself for not being nice like them and wish to die...sooooo
    captainteeemo captainteeemo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Nice Is Overrated

    It's more important to be real than to be nice at all times. I say I'm not a nice person because there are times when people are friendly and nice to me but because I don't like or respect those people I feel no need to be nice in return. I just ignore them. Not nice!
    Lazyhorse Lazyhorse 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    Causing Conflict

    I know its not a nice thing to do but causing conflict between people amuses me, I mean i don't really have any close friends so i'm not getting hurt by it and it's great when someone tells you something little that they don't think is that bad about someone else but you pass it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    Low Tolerance For Idiocy

    I have an extremely low tolerance for asinine nonsensical bullshit. I can only stomach or tolerate most people's company for about....5 minutes, tops. Some people are just overbearingly moronic. And when you present me with bullshit I will chastise you and slander it and replace...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2013

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    I Need Help

    I am shallow, materialistic, conceded and I use ppl. These things have just really come to my attention by my children with there innocent comments. One of my children asked if i rembered b4 i met my current fiance and I used all those other guys to buy us things wasn't that fun...
    sjsjames sjsjames 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    There Is That Side...

    I have/had (been humbled a bit) times (too many) where I could say and or do anything to anyone. Confession: I have been an ******* to everyone I care for at some point. I mean the harsh stuff, not just forgetting to return a shirt.  You name an awful thing to say and I have...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Or at least I think I am. Reading my profile here makes me wonder sometimes, given all the depression, narcissism, jealousy and creepy autogenyphilic stuff, but when you get past...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T Nov 10

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    I hate how people take my niceness as a weakness
    Heyababe Heyababe 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Just looking for a connection to share with someone here. I love making new friends. I'm going through some pretty big league stuff so please try to take my mind someplace happier...
    mbellz424 mbellz424 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    But some debate that. Because they hurt me. And me bit back.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 15

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    Are There Any People On Here Who Aren't Rude !? I Try To Be Nice , I'm A Really Nice Person Id Say .. But I Can Be Rude Too!
    Mommieof1 Mommieof1 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    I am a passionate person. I've been told by lovers that I'm a rare find because I truly believe in equality, I'm never sexist and I'm very open minded. I take the time to truly get...
    Noxious123 Noxious123 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 4

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    overall I am a naturally nice person, to talk to and be around, it takes a lot to wind me up and i hardly ever get angry, if not at all.
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 8

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    Sometimes I sit and wonder what will happen when the cystic fibrosis finally becomes to much to fight and I'm no longer here. Will I be remembered? Have I made an impact on anyone...
    Kermit1216 Kermit1216 36-40, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    It should be sine qua non, but apparently it's not; There are ways you treat real people, real adult people, esp. when you are a real adult person yourself. The list of ways is...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 2 Responses Nov 8

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    My story is a little different in some ways but really similar in many other ways. Let's start out with the positive. :) Unlike a lot of other people, I have gotten positive...
    Sweetiel3elle Sweetiel3elle 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Hi there! I've recently come out of an 8 year long relationship where I was constantly criticized, belittled and mocked. I didn't like it at all, his personality wasn't very nice...
    buttonthimbles buttonthimbles 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Ok people at school tell me I'm to nice and being nice is a good thing right so sometimes people will joke around and be mean to me because I'm to nice but if someone mean everyone...
    jaddielove024 jaddielove024 13-15, F Nov 2

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    I’m so sad today because I try and try to be tolerant and nice to people and strive to respect the way they conceive life but it hits me so hard when I meet or talk to someone...
    Frangenia Frangenia 16-17 10 Responses Oct 26

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    Why some shouldn't so call perverts be nice people. Actually I believe that there is no such thing as Perversion. If somebody thinks or is inclined toward a sexual preference...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 10 Responses Nov 11

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    I've been told I have the most recognizable voice because of how unique it sounds. whether it's nice or not varies from person to person but a majority like it since it always...
    pikapup17 pikapup17 18-21 Nov 13

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    It doesn't have to necessarily be a nice smile (In my opinion ever guys smile is nice just saying). Guy's should just a smile often. I'm really not a sexually person but if I had...
    dambookworm14 dambookworm14 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I am nice at least I like to think so. Sometimes I can be moody its just because I'm unhappy. I wish more people were nice to me then I could become a more social wonderful person...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    Well nothing is more attractive then a woman with a good head on her shoulders. If she can make me laugh its a major turn on. If she isnt shallow n easy to talk to turn on. I...
    Time4kush Time4kush 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    $12,000 JLC reverso used watch is my money, passion,&decision. Who are my friends to say what a waste of money. I like the nicer things in life. *** me dead man. I graduated...
    LoveRobbery LoveRobbery 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 27

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    Im sitting here trying to figure out the reason why im feeling moody.. What the source of my problem is.. I cant figure it out.. Im short tempered.. Cranky... Impatient... Not...
    sunpea sunpea 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 30

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    I really try to be nice to everyone I meet or see on a daily basis, but there are days like today when I just can't take people. I yelled at my friend to shut up in class today and...
    tenaciousnotstubborn tenaciousnotstubborn 13-15, F Nov 6

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    I have always been the carefree, happy go lucky guy of all my friends but the truth is I feel the world has passed me by. I was raised to be chivalrous, kind, courteous and always...
    Boz5280 Boz5280 31-35, M a week ago

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    I was working as a counsellor for a professional courses study centre and I had to receive and make calls as well for the same. Now this person called for some course enquiry and...
    swan87 swan87 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I sometimes get ideas into my head about my Condo. I love to find new ways of changing the Furniture around or buying something new for it. I like a warm cozy atmosphere there , I...
    Tanyalife2 Tanyalife2 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    This is like praising your own self... How can anyone call themselves nice ?? Probably it's possible that I feel am being too nice but am I really nice ? I maybe a little nice...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M Nov 7

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