I Am Not a Nice Person

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

    closest I could get to saying

    that " I'm not a nice guy". I may not be rude but I'm by no means nice. I will hurt you if you hit me and I will hurt your feelings if you attempt to verbally abuse or insult me. why is it that seen as a pushover for keeping to myself for the most part? it's whatever, I'm just...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 16, 2015

    I'm actually a jerk who occasionally does nice

    things. I mean it's not like I'm a sociopath, it's just that I'm not exactly a nice guy all the time either haha. If you don't like that, it's all good since lol I don't care.
    BruceWained BruceWained
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 25

    Why is it I'm seen as nice?

    A lot of people I've had the pleasure of speaking with have always said I'm a kind young man, or I am sweet boy, or a nice kid. One or the other or some different words to describe me as nice. I find this very odd for I am not nice at all. I'm actually a huge ******* in truth. I...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 21, 2014

    Not Really, No

    I tried pretending to be nice for a while, but it got to be too stressful, and I don't think anyone noticed anyway.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty
    18-21
    3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

    I'M Never Nice I My Mind If You Get On My Bad Side

    If you get on my bad side and live to see the light of day your very very very lucky ^-^ >:)
    KILLsisters101 KILLsisters101
    16-17, F
    Nov 19, 2013

    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

    I Can Be

    I can be polite, forgiving, and even understanding at times. Overall, however, being nice or kind, etc isn't my normal state. I'm not an especially nasty or cruel person, but I can be extremely selfish and self-centered at times. Likely, those times outweigh the nicer times. Then...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory
    31-35
    Jul 18, 2012

    I Need Help

    I am shallow, materialistic, conceded and I use ppl. These things have just really come to my attention by my children with there innocent comments. One of my children asked if i rembered b4 i met my current fiance and I used all those other guys to buy us things wasn't that fun...
    sjsjames sjsjames
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2011

    I got a notice that one of the people

    who constantly gives me headaches at work is resigning....a group of us just high fived each other silently ...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 4, 2015

    Have u seen my picture?

    my point. LOL
    PlayboyBPAC PlayboyBPAC
    26-30, M
    May 4, 2015

    I'm Not A Nice Person

    I hate myself for not being nice. Sometimes, I feel that I have to undergo therapy just to control my temper. Frankly speaking, I hate humanity and everything about this world. I want to dissociate myself from this world and wish that I'd just disappear or die or go somewhere...
    ldybug ldybug
    22-25
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

    Faking It

    Most the time I am bitchy, irritable and most people annoy me. I view most things as a hassle and if I go out in public everyone else is just in my way. I am not a nice person at all, but I pretend to be.
    AscendedOne AscendedOne
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 19, 2009

    I Try To Be Nice.

    I try to be a nice person, but it doesn't always come off that way. I have such a difficult time with people. I see how others interact so easily with others, but I can't do it so I don't even bother trying to talk to people most of the time. I usually come off as standoffish...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet
    31-35, M
    Nov 13, 2011

    Nice Is Overrated

    It's more important to be real than to be nice at all times. I say I'm not a nice person because there are times when people are friendly and nice to me but because I don't like or respect those people I feel no need to be nice in return. I just ignore them. Not nice!
    Lazyhorse Lazyhorse
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2012

    There Is That Side...

    I have/had (been humbled a bit) times (too many) where I could say and or do anything to anyone. Confession: I have been an ******* to everyone I care for at some point. I mean the harsh stuff, not just forgetting to return a shirt.  You name an awful thing to say and I have...
    EricS EricS
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Sep 15, 2008

    I have friends because at times I can actually

    be kinda okay. Whenever someone nicer goes up to them and starts talking, literally about the even the most stupidest ideas.... and i will start being rude and sassy.. on top of that I'll hate myself for not being nice like them and wish to die...sooooo
    captainteeemo captainteeemo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2014

    Impatient, Judgmental, And Just Plain Mean

    I have a tendency to be just as the title states, impatient, judgmental, and mean. But only to the people that I love. I am often mean and snappy with my husband and always seem to have a problem with something, even though he is the most supportive, wonderful husband I could...
    waterwheels waterwheels
    26-30, F
    Aug 30, 2012

    They Think I'm Nice But They Are Wrong

    Almost everybody seems to think I'm really nice and a good person. Family, friends, colleagues, all. And I suppose I can see why they think that. On the outside I am nice in a lot of ways. I'll help anybody who needs help and have given a LOT of help to some I know that really...
    Badboy9 Badboy9
    41-45, M
    Jun 22, 2011

    I'm self centered, judgmental,

    blunt, guarded and impatient. Do I care to change? No.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    Dec 25, 2013

    Low Tolerance For Idiocy

    I have an extremely low tolerance for asinine nonsensical bullshit. I can only stomach or tolerate most people's company for about....5 minutes, tops. Some people are just overbearingly moronic. And when you present me with bullshit I will chastise you and slander it and replace...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 15, 2013

    I Am (not) A Nice Person

    The internet, as amazing and beautiful as it is, always tends to bring out the worst in me, as in, I probably bully people too much just because I'm bored. Either that, or I'm always incredibly insensitive and it fails to occur to me when I'm in the physical world. Probably a lot...
    EvieBlack EvieBlack
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 12, 2013

    Causing Conflict

    I know its not a nice thing to do but causing conflict between people amuses me, I mean i don't really have any close friends so i'm not getting hurt by it and it's great when someone tells you something little that they don't think is that bad about someone else but you pass it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 10, 2011

    Be Warned

    Be warned,Double-cross me,You'll find out,I have another side!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

    Coming To Grips With Jerkhood

    I am in my late 20's and recently coming to grips with the fact that I hurt people's feelings without intending to. Some people come to me and we work it out, but others seem to try to be the eternal victim and never let anything go. Even though I say things that sound mean, I do...
    gre738 gre738
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

    I'm blunt, manipulative,

    impatient, and self-centered. If I like someone, I'll flirt with them whether they're taken or not. I play with people like puppets and I get them to trust me with all their secrets. I will throw your stupidity back in your face.
    xdestinyrosex xdestinyrosex
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    People get offended by just my body language

    and yell at me for it. Like sorry I subconsciously hate you lol I call my older brother gay all the time. When we were younger, I made fun of him for his dyslexia. When I get really pissed at someone, I'll act like I'm listening but secretly fantasizing cutting his/her throat...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    They Say There Are Two Kinds Of Walkers....

    those who meander about, walk side by side in dense foot traffic (causing all kinds of strife), pay no mind or attention to anything that is going on. These people walk on the wrong side (e.g., walk to the left in the States when it is customary to keep to your right). Generally...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

    I like telling people

    who go out of their way to irritate me to **** off or to get ******. They're reaction gives me so much satisfaction. I love getting under people's skin ;)
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce
    18-21, F
    May 4, 2015

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