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I Am Not a Nice Person

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    I'm Not A Nice Person

    I hate myself for not being nice. Sometimes, I feel that I have to undergo therapy just to control my temper. Frankly speaking, I hate humanity and everything about this world. I want to dissociate myself from this world and wish that I'd just disappear or die or go somewhere...
    ldybug ldybug 22-25 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    They Say There Are Two Kinds Of Walkers....

    those who meander about, walk side by side in dense foot traffic (causing all kinds of strife), pay no mind or attention to anything that is going on. These people walk on the wrong side (e.g., walk to the left in the States when it is customary to keep to your right). Generally...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    Low Tolerance For Idiocy

    I have an extremely low tolerance for asinine nonsensical bullshit. I can only stomach or tolerate most people's company for about....5 minutes, tops. Some people are just overbearingly moronic. And when you present me with bullshit I will chastise you and slander it and replace...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2013

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    Coming To Grips With Jerkhood

    I am in my late 20's and recently coming to grips with the fact that I hurt people's feelings without intending to. Some people come to me and we work it out, but others seem to try to be the eternal victim and never let anything go. Even though I say things that sound mean, I do...
    gre738 gre738 26-30 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    I have friends because at times I can actually

    be kinda okay. Whenever someone nicer goes up to them and starts talking, literally about the even the most stupidest ideas.... and i will start being rude and sassy.. on top of that I'll hate myself for not being nice like them and wish to die...sooooo
    captainteeemo captainteeemo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2014

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    There Is That Side...

    I have/had (been humbled a bit) times (too many) where I could say and or do anything to anyone. Confession: I have been an ******* to everyone I care for at some point. I mean the harsh stuff, not just forgetting to return a shirt.  You name an awful thing to say and I have...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    I Need Help

    I am shallow, materialistic, conceded and I use ppl. These things have just really come to my attention by my children with there innocent comments. One of my children asked if i rembered b4 i met my current fiance and I used all those other guys to buy us things wasn't that fun...
    sjsjames sjsjames 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    Be Warned

    Be warned,Double-cross me,You'll find out,I have another side!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I Am (not) A Nice Person

    The internet, as amazing and beautiful as it is, always tends to bring out the worst in me, as in, I probably bully people too much just because I'm bored. Either that, or I'm always incredibly insensitive and it fails to occur to me when I'm in the physical world. Probably a lot...
    EvieBlack EvieBlack 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I Can Be

    I can be polite, forgiving, and even understanding at times. Overall, however, being nice or kind, etc isn't my normal state. I'm not an especially nasty or cruel person, but I can be extremely selfish and self-centered at times. Likely, those times outweigh the nicer times. Then...
    MyNamesNotFrench MyNamesNotFrench 31-35 Jul 18, 2012

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    I'm blunt, manipulative,

    impatient, and self-centered. If I like someone, I'll flirt with them whether they're taken or not. I play with people like puppets and I get them to trust me with all their secrets. I will throw your stupidity back in your face.
    xdestinyrosex xdestinyrosex 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I'M Never Nice I My Mind If You Get On My Bad Side

    If you get on my bad side and live to see the light of day your very very very lucky ^-^ >:)
    KILLsisters101 KILLsisters101 13-15, F Nov 19, 2013

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    Impatient, Judgmental, And Just Plain Mean

    I have a tendency to be just as the title states, impatient, judgmental, and mean. But only to the people that I love. I am often mean and snappy with my husband and always seem to have a problem with something, even though he is the most supportive, wonderful husband I could...
    waterwheels waterwheels 26-30, F Aug 30, 2012

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    I Try To Be Nice.

    I try to be a nice person, but it doesn't always come off that way. I have such a difficult time with people. I see how others interact so easily with others, but I can't do it so I don't even bother trying to talk to people most of the time. I usually come off as standoffish...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Nov 13, 2011

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    I'm self centered, judgmental,

    blunt, guarded and impatient. Do I care to change? No.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    They Think I'm Nice But They Are Wrong

    Almost everybody seems to think I'm really nice and a good person. Family, friends, colleagues, all. And I suppose I can see why they think that. On the outside I am nice in a lot of ways. I'll help anybody who needs help and have given a LOT of help to some I know that really...
    Badboy9 Badboy9 41-45, M Jun 22, 2011

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    Why is it I'm seen as nice?

    A lot of people I've had the pleasure of speaking with have always said I'm a kind young man, or I am sweet boy, or a nice kid. One or the other or some different words to describe me as nice. I find this very odd for I am not nice at all. I'm actually a huge ******* in truth. I...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Nice Is Overrated

    It's more important to be real than to be nice at all times. I say I'm not a nice person because there are times when people are friendly and nice to me but because I don't like or respect those people I feel no need to be nice in return. I just ignore them. Not nice!
    Lazyhorse Lazyhorse 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    Faking It

    Most the time I am bitchy, irritable and most people annoy me. I view most things as a hassle and if I go out in public everyone else is just in my way. I am not a nice person at all, but I pretend to be.
    AscendedOne AscendedOne 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    Causing Conflict

    I know its not a nice thing to do but causing conflict between people amuses me, I mean i don't really have any close friends so i'm not getting hurt by it and it's great when someone tells you something little that they don't think is that bad about someone else but you pass it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    Not Really, No

    I tried pretending to be nice for a while, but it got to be too stressful, and I don't think anyone noticed anyway.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I am a very nice person but if you mess with my friends then you ****** up ,you can tell me anything but if you **** with one of my friends then I will be the meanest person ever
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    I'm a nice person,because i dont fight with anyone,i care for each and everyone i love to give advice.for now i dont have a girlfriend but the day i propose she will automatically...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    A Lot of people tell me to stop being so nice. Im not saying this to be like "look at me im nice look everybody praise me" , no. So basically i got bullied for 3 years. Im 13. I...
    alliixxxx alliixxxx 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    If I were to see you in person or talk I am a nice guy and i am caring....the only time I will bet mad is of you mess with my friends then we got a problem
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M Jan 15

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    I am not the perfect friend, depending on your personality I can make you angry or hurt your feelings severely. So, don't assume well get along perfectly with each other due to...
    YourFavoriteAssshole YourFavoriteAssshole 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I give out compliments not to just make people's day but in hopes that one day, I save a life by doing just one simple thing noticing them
    mr8bitmonster mr8bitmonster 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 9

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    No, I'm a mean person thanks to EP. When I started this account, I was the nicest person you'd ever talk to. I'd have correct spelling and capitalization in all of my messages, and...
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    You all know...Well most of you in my circle/friends that I can be seen as a nice person, good, naive, innocent, pure, etc person...But when I see blood I kind of snap. Not in the...
    MysticIllusions MysticIllusions 18-21, F Jan 18

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    Hi.... I m very stariaght person and believes in healthy relationship i love to have frd and i fell very amazed when there around me
    kunalkandola kunalkandola 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    Honestly this year I have never been so ashamed of myself...I like this guy and I thought if I put a lot of effort in I could get him... But no he made me feel like the worst...
    fragmentsoftheheart fragmentsoftheheart 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Well hello dear readers.. I wanted to share my stories and experience because I think that every experience is worth sharing.. It all started in August when I was hooking up with...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 16-17, F Jan 11

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    I try to be nice to people that I meet. I never want to hurt anyone's feelings. Always put mine on the back burner. Never worry when mine get hurt as long as the other person doesn...
    crafty36 crafty36 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Being a good person in this selfish harsh reality world is one of life's hardest tasks! You either got it or you haven't... I believe and think I was born good so therefore its...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I have been told more often than not, my whole life, I'm nice and kind and understanding. Anyone who has said I'm a bad person has usually turned around and confessed, to me or...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was working in a company were the tea boy is from other country that is economically weaker and backward but i treated him with respect but in return he spoke well did well and I...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a great person to talk to if you like funny goofy people. also i tend to make people happy when they talk to me so look out for that lol :). i will always listen to any story...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Shoot me because I truly care. I give and I give and I give.I don't to it because I'm weak,I do it because I love.The giving isn't always about gifts or money,it's about being...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 18

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    I'm a terrible person, but wanna know what sets me apart from other terrible people? I have self control as to when to be terrible. What makes me cringe the most are retards who...
    Ayelmaobby Ayelmaobby 13-15, M 12 hrs ago

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    I'm only like that when I get my beauty sleep but wake me in the morning and I will be a very very moody person that shouldn't have been woken up _._zzZ
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I think for me going deeper then the surface appearance is more substantial then what a person looks like on the outside. goodlooks and nice clothes are wonderful yes and i do...
    BreakingdawnOne BreakingdawnOne 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    it's really hard to be nice to everybody, everyone just backstabs you in the end. I just to be the best person i can
    Freakazurg Freakazurg 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    It feels so special when the person you like the most says you have such a nice voice :-)
    Gursagoo Gursagoo 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    To the person who made this experience: It's 'I'll Be Nicer When You're Smarter'.
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I know I'm only 15, but I feel like I understand things better than some older people lol. When someone says "someone's getting raped" as a joke when someone yells in the hallway...
    Cheergirl780 Cheergirl780 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    Just been for a nude early morning walk along the beach near where I am staying in Spain. It was a little chilly but wonderful to be naked out in the fresh air. I was seen by one...
    Roman60uk Roman60uk 56-60, M 6 Responses Jan 9

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