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I Am Not a Nice Person

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Coming To Grips With Jerkhood

    I am in my late 20's and recently coming to grips with the fact that I hurt people's feelings without intending to. Some people come to me and we work it out, but others seem to try to be the eternal victim and never let anything go. Even though I say things that sound mean, I do...
    gre738 gre738 26-30 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Causing Conflict

    I know its not a nice thing to do but causing conflict between people amuses me, I mean i don't really have any close friends so i'm not getting hurt by it and it's great when someone tells you something little that they don't think is that bad about someone else but you pass it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    I Try To Be Nice.

    I try to be a nice person, but it doesn't always come off that way. I have such a difficult time with people. I see how others interact so easily with others, but I can't do it so I don't even bother trying to talk to people most of the time. I usually come off as standoffish...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Nov 13, 2011

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    Not Really, No

    I tried pretending to be nice for a while, but it got to be too stressful, and I don't think anyone noticed anyway.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I have friends because at times I can actually

    be kinda okay. Whenever someone nicer goes up to them and starts talking, literally about the even the most stupidest ideas.... and i will start being rude and sassy.. on top of that I'll hate myself for not being nice like them and wish to die...sooooo
    captainteeemo captainteeemo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2014

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    I'm Not A Nice Person

    I hate myself for not being nice. Sometimes, I feel that I have to undergo therapy just to control my temper. Frankly speaking, I hate humanity and everything about this world. I want to dissociate myself from this world and wish that I'd just disappear or die or go somewhere...
    ldybug ldybug 22-25 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    There Is That Side...

    I have/had (been humbled a bit) times (too many) where I could say and or do anything to anyone. Confession: I have been an ******* to everyone I care for at some point. I mean the harsh stuff, not just forgetting to return a shirt.  You name an awful thing to say and I have...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    I'm blunt, manipulative,

    impatient, and self-centered. If I like someone, I'll flirt with them whether they're taken or not. I play with people like puppets and I get them to trust me with all their secrets. I will throw your stupidity back in your face.
    xdestinyrosex xdestinyrosex 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Impatient, Judgmental, And Just Plain Mean

    I have a tendency to be just as the title states, impatient, judgmental, and mean. But only to the people that I love. I am often mean and snappy with my husband and always seem to have a problem with something, even though he is the most supportive, wonderful husband I could...
    waterwheels waterwheels 26-30, F Aug 30, 2012

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I'm self centered, judgmental,

    blunt, guarded and impatient. Do I care to change? No.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    Be Warned

    Be warned,Double-cross me,You'll find out,I have another side!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    Low Tolerance For Idiocy

    I have an extremely low tolerance for asinine nonsensical bullshit. I can only stomach or tolerate most people's company for about....5 minutes, tops. Some people are just overbearingly moronic. And when you present me with bullshit I will chastise you and slander it and replace...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2013

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    I Need Help

    I am shallow, materialistic, conceded and I use ppl. These things have just really come to my attention by my children with there innocent comments. One of my children asked if i rembered b4 i met my current fiance and I used all those other guys to buy us things wasn't that fun...
    sjsjames sjsjames 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    They Think I'm Nice But They Are Wrong

    Almost everybody seems to think I'm really nice and a good person. Family, friends, colleagues, all. And I suppose I can see why they think that. On the outside I am nice in a lot of ways. I'll help anybody who needs help and have given a LOT of help to some I know that really...
    Badboy9 Badboy9 41-45, M Jun 22, 2011

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    Why is it I'm seen as nice?

    A lot of people I've had the pleasure of speaking with have always said I'm a kind young man, or I am sweet boy, or a nice kid. One or the other or some different words to describe me as nice. I find this very odd for I am not nice at all. I'm actually a huge ******* in truth. I...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I Am (not) A Nice Person

    The internet, as amazing and beautiful as it is, always tends to bring out the worst in me, as in, I probably bully people too much just because I'm bored. Either that, or I'm always incredibly insensitive and it fails to occur to me when I'm in the physical world. Probably a lot...
    EvieBlack EvieBlack 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I'M Never Nice I My Mind If You Get On My Bad Side

    If you get on my bad side and live to see the light of day your very very very lucky ^-^ >:)
    KILLsisters101 KILLsisters101 13-15, F Nov 19, 2013

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    They Say There Are Two Kinds Of Walkers....

    those who meander about, walk side by side in dense foot traffic (causing all kinds of strife), pay no mind or attention to anything that is going on. These people walk on the wrong side (e.g., walk to the left in the States when it is customary to keep to your right). Generally...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    I Can Be

    I can be polite, forgiving, and even understanding at times. Overall, however, being nice or kind, etc isn't my normal state. I'm not an especially nasty or cruel person, but I can be extremely selfish and self-centered at times. Likely, those times outweigh the nicer times. Then...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Jul 18, 2012

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    Faking It

    Most the time I am bitchy, irritable and most people annoy me. I view most things as a hassle and if I go out in public everyone else is just in my way. I am not a nice person at all, but I pretend to be.
    AscendedOne AscendedOne 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    Nice Is Overrated

    It's more important to be real than to be nice at all times. I say I'm not a nice person because there are times when people are friendly and nice to me but because I don't like or respect those people I feel no need to be nice in return. I just ignore them. Not nice!
    Lazyhorse Lazyhorse 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    But can get defensive. Was born a male. But strive to be better.
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    I am not a nice person. I know that. I will admit that and I don't give a **** what you think of me. The way I see it, why be nice to people who aren't nice to you. Why should I...
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    I have a nice personality side and a horrible side believe me you just want to see the nice side ;)
    alantheassassin123 alantheassassin123 13-15, M a week ago

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    Be nice with me then I will be. Be rude then you'll see my evil side. I'm just returning the favor. I'm not the nicest person. If I am mean to you it's because you deserve it. No...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    Looks don't last for ever. A nice personality can only improve, especially if someone else appreciates it. The guy I love ain't a good looker by the world's standards. But he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 9

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    People who don't understand my feelings. It's like I'm talking to a brick wall like really. Its already hard for me to make friends in the first place with my depression and...
    Aawesomemizz Aawesomemizz 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 12

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    I thought I was, but am not. It’s just not in my nature to ignore other peoples feeling. I tried to be one and I failed. I did it because I couldn’t see how caring about others...
    huttuh8 huttuh8 70+, M Mar 12

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    A smile can change a person's whole day. A compliment can turn a day around. It doesn't have to be big things, being nice is easy and can have a huge impact on someone.
    musicluva199 musicluva199 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    There is some people in the world that expect perfection but I'm telling you only god has it I'm a really good person but I'm not perfect and I'm not fake don't expect me to be...
    flife flife 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    It is so simple. Just be nice. Look at the person you're interacting with and understand that what you see, what they show you is just the tip of the iceberg. The crabby salesgirl...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 6 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    First of all, I don't believe that. I don't want to be associated with this group. I think there are nice guys but I also think there are guys who don't like themselves and be...
    AltF4 AltF4 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm in a don't play nice kinda mood.. in fact I'm down right ****** right now. Either way, I met something that I can play not nice with and hopefully not kill.. It's only just...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    They definitely do. But the problem with girls like me(extremely extroverted and opinionated,) is that sometimes nice guys can be push overs which doesn't set well with me...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I've met a few ,and i'm usually put off by them at first not because he's nice ,but hes just too much like 'HEY I'M THAT GUY" and that's when i'm like hey buddy what are you...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I never really thought that I went through a lot in my life, until people started asking me how I manage to be such a sweet person when I've never been treated right. Personally I...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have six split personalities. They're voices/images in my head when not dominant over the real me. They will also draw themselves as different from my physical appearance and...
    XPathologyOfInsanityX XPathologyOfInsanityX 13-15, F Mar 6

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    Nice people means attractive, non vulgar, non rude, polite, intelligent and mostly genuine ! No fakes allowed ... empty profiles with no experience, no stories or no picture at all...
    Elviria Elviria 51-55, F 6 Responses Mar 5

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    Two days ago, my ex messaged me in Instagram. I have not talk to him for about three years since our break up. I decided to avoid him because he had cheated on me at the time of...
    87athleteunknown 87athleteunknown 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I am usually a nice and quiet observant person. I enjoy watching, listening and learning what I see. If a person has a question or wants my opinion or advice I don't mind giving it...
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M Mar 12

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    The afternoon sunlight reminds me of the past when I was little and was living in my grandma's house, playing with my grandpa, nothing to worry about and everything was perfect, i...
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M Mar 16

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