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I Am Not a Nice Person

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    There Is That Side...

    I have/had (been humbled a bit) times (too many) where I could say and or do anything to anyone. Confession: I have been an ******* to everyone I care for at some point. I mean the harsh stuff, not just forgetting to return a shirt.  You name an awful thing to say and I have...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    I Am (not) A Nice Person

    The internet, as amazing and beautiful as it is, always tends to bring out the worst in me, as in, I probably bully people too much just because I'm bored. Either that, or I'm always incredibly insensitive and it fails to occur to me when I'm in the physical world. Probably a lot...
    EvieBlack EvieBlack 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    Be Warned

    Be warned,Double-cross me,You'll find out,I have another side!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    I Need Help

    I am shallow, materialistic, conceded and I use ppl. These things have just really come to my attention by my children with there innocent comments. One of my children asked if i rembered b4 i met my current fiance and I used all those other guys to buy us things wasn't that fun...
    sjsjames sjsjames 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    I have friends because at times I can actually

    be kinda okay. Whenever someone nicer goes up to them and starts talking, literally about the even the most stupidest ideas.... and i will start being rude and sassy.. on top of that I'll hate myself for not being nice like them and wish to die...sooooo
    captainteeemo captainteeemo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2014

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    I'M Never Nice I My Mind If You Get On My Bad Side

    If you get on my bad side and live to see the light of day your very very very lucky ^-^ >:)
    KILLsisters101 KILLsisters101 13-15, F Nov 19, 2013

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    They Say There Are Two Kinds Of Walkers....

    those who meander about, walk side by side in dense foot traffic (causing all kinds of strife), pay no mind or attention to anything that is going on. These people walk on the wrong side (e.g., walk to the left in the States when it is customary to keep to your right). Generally...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    I'm self centered, judgmental,

    blunt, guarded and impatient. Do I care to change? No.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I Try To Be Nice.

    I try to be a nice person, but it doesn't always come off that way. I have such a difficult time with people. I see how others interact so easily with others, but I can't do it so I don't even bother trying to talk to people most of the time. I usually come off as standoffish...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Nov 13, 2011

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    They Think I'm Nice But They Are Wrong

    Almost everybody seems to think I'm really nice and a good person. Family, friends, colleagues, all. And I suppose I can see why they think that. On the outside I am nice in a lot of ways. I'll help anybody who needs help and have given a LOT of help to some I know that really...
    Badboy9 Badboy9 41-45, M Jun 22, 2011

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Why is it I'm seen as nice?

    A lot of people I've had the pleasure of speaking with have always said I'm a kind young man, or I am sweet boy, or a nice kid. One or the other or some different words to describe me as nice. I find this very odd for I am not nice at all. I'm actually a huge ******* in truth. I...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I'm blunt, manipulative,

    impatient, and self-centered. If I like someone, I'll flirt with them whether they're taken or not. I play with people like puppets and I get them to trust me with all their secrets. I will throw your stupidity back in your face.
    xdestinyrosex xdestinyrosex 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Faking It

    Most the time I am bitchy, irritable and most people annoy me. I view most things as a hassle and if I go out in public everyone else is just in my way. I am not a nice person at all, but I pretend to be.
    AscendedOne AscendedOne 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    Low Tolerance For Idiocy

    I have an extremely low tolerance for asinine nonsensical bullshit. I can only stomach or tolerate most people's company for about....5 minutes, tops. Some people are just overbearingly moronic. And when you present me with bullshit I will chastise you and slander it and replace...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2013

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    Causing Conflict

    I know its not a nice thing to do but causing conflict between people amuses me, I mean i don't really have any close friends so i'm not getting hurt by it and it's great when someone tells you something little that they don't think is that bad about someone else but you pass it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    Not Really, No

    I tried pretending to be nice for a while, but it got to be too stressful, and I don't think anyone noticed anyway.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I Don't Think So..

     I am in actual fact not a very nice person. Or at least i'm either a nice person with a real mean son of ***** bad side or i'm a horrible person who can actually be the most loveliest person you've ever met. I sometimes think i have split personality and this may all seem...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I Can Be

    I can be polite, forgiving, and even understanding at times. Overall, however, being nice or kind, etc isn't my normal state. I'm not an especially nasty or cruel person, but I can be extremely selfish and self-centered at times. Likely, those times outweigh the nicer times. Then...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Jul 18, 2012

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    Coming To Grips With Jerkhood

    I am in my late 20's and recently coming to grips with the fact that I hurt people's feelings without intending to. Some people come to me and we work it out, but others seem to try to be the eternal victim and never let anything go. Even though I say things that sound mean, I do...
    gre738 gre738 26-30 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Impatient, Judgmental, And Just Plain Mean

    I have a tendency to be just as the title states, impatient, judgmental, and mean. But only to the people that I love. I am often mean and snappy with my husband and always seem to have a problem with something, even though he is the most supportive, wonderful husband I could...
    waterwheels waterwheels 26-30, F Aug 30, 2012

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    Nice Is Overrated

    It's more important to be real than to be nice at all times. I say I'm not a nice person because there are times when people are friendly and nice to me but because I don't like or respect those people I feel no need to be nice in return. I just ignore them. Not nice!
    Lazyhorse Lazyhorse 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    I'm Not A Nice Person

    I hate myself for not being nice. Sometimes, I feel that I have to undergo therapy just to control my temper. Frankly speaking, I hate humanity and everything about this world. I want to dissociate myself from this world and wish that I'd just disappear or die or go somewhere...
    ldybug ldybug 22-25 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Whenever I'm in a good mood I am a really fun and nice person...but if you get on my bad side I will punch you until you beg for mercy...then rip your throat out
    shadow696 shadow696 13-15 1 Response Apr 23

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    I know some of my beliefs and viewpoints rub certain people the wrong way. it's not a big deal as these type of people I don't mind avoiding. but i am still a nice person, and i...
    trashspice trashspice 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    Being a nice person doesn't always turns out good. People take you as a fool. Then they blame you. You have to care for so many things but nobody appreciates what you give...
    Bernsch Bernsch 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I give everyone everything I have and they fling it straight back in my face
    clueless291 clueless291 13-15, T 2 days ago

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    i am not a nice person. most would say otherwise because i try to be nice, but im just not. i always have a plan in my head for how to hurt you as much as possible as quickly as...
    lilhunters lilhunters 18-21, M Apr 25

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    I'd like to think I am a very kind and nice person.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Apr 13

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    Why is it about how bigg your butt is our thighs. What has the world come to. "You have to have a big butt to be with me." "Her butt is heaven" like really. Okay yeah it looks nice...
    nicoleahana nicoleahana 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Im a pretty friendly person for the most part and I always make sure I greet people. With my friends I slang talk really loud and have a bunch of inappropriate nicknames or crazy...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I think it’s time to be very honest with myself because I think I haven’t been lately. I’ve been involved in a ton of drama lately and I’m not entirely guilt-free. I...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    And I think thats a problem! As I'm sure people take it for granted, use you, take advantage, walk all over you and you just get hurt... Anyhow im not gonna let the world change...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    What's the point of loving someone if you love them for how they look instead of how they act? You don't love them for them in that case. Looks are temporary. You never loved them...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Overall, I consider myself a generally happy person! I prefer to look at life, and everything life throws at me, in a "glass half full" kind of perspective. Honestly, it takes a...
    JustAva JustAva 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm not good enough so often. Not good enough for what? I don't exactly know. I feel insane because of my rape fantasies, and oftentimes feel like I am truly just an...
    grace1896 grace1896 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    it feels good to be reflective about my progress as a person. I know my kitchen still messy but for the most part my dishes and remain done. I know the my living room so messy but...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    The tiniest little comment can send me spiralling off into a deep pit of despair. I can't handle criticism at all and insults dig right under my skin. Of course, I don't let that...
    thinisgoals thinisgoals 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I absolutely hate how I am always in denial of what is going on in my life. As I know I always lock myself away from what I think is going on between him and her..and then there's...
    Galatziaa Galatziaa 18-21, F 41 mins ago

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    After four years of dating, and 3 months of marriage, I think your stories have helped me identify why I have never felt connected to my husband, always found him superficial...
    PAWnomore PAWnomore 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    I can't say anything to my friend. She is very nice to me. I am a good person so why will i say anything to her. I am feeling very bad because i tried to say something to her. But...
    noblerain noblerain 31-35 Apr 21

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    You know what the most hurtful thing is? Is that I really wanted him to love me. Love me deeply and mean it. I wanted him to tell me that I meant something to him. But I suppose I...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F Apr 15

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    You know what the most hurtful thing is? Is that I really wanted him to love me. Love me deeply and mean it. I wanted him to tell me that I meant something to him. But I suppose I...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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