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I Am Not a Party Person

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    Never Been - I can't think of worst waste of time than parties. That's why avoid them as much as I can, no matter what kind of party it is. Lately I've been quite successful...
    Fennella Fennella 31-35, F 3 Responses May 15, 2009

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    Akward Much? - I don't drink, and I'm not a drug user. Okay so I've smoked pot, but that's not a big deal, it was medical. I don't like crowds, nor do I like loud music, so I...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    And I Thought I'd Like It More Than I Did. - I went to my first party Friday night. Granted, I had no idea it was going to be a party at the time I was invited. My friend and her...
    HopeInConstruction HopeInConstruction 18-21, F Jan 29, 2012

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    Was Never Into Partying!! -  again cos im a loner, it just never appealed to me to go partying every weekend and so on!! i did try it, but the whole party scene just wasnt for...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 31, 2010

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    I Was Never A Party Person - I was never a party person goes to parties with allot of drinking. I'm not into drinking at all. I know allot of people into drinking, and it their...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    Party P. - I am not a party person, I am a party pooper.  :)
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Feb 9, 2011

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    You Know.. - I just feel so out of my comfort zone, you know?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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    No Big - I don't party, I don't go out. I can though. I'm not just a sit at home person, day in day out. Sometimes when my friends invite me, I go to hang out at someone's...
    misasja misasja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2008

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    Nope - Never really been into celebrating birthdays. Maybe its just coz i don't think life is all that great and worth celebrating and maybe its also coz i don't like being the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 19, 2010

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    My Office Party Sucks! - I don’t like my office parties. I like it when someone sits with me and talk to me for the whole party but it’s not possible in our parties. We keep...
    lekha99 lekha99 41-45, F Jul 15, 2012

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    It's A Bit Silly. - I'm not a good party goer. Unless it's a small group of my friends... which is RARE in itself, and even then - if the group gets too big it makes me uneasy. I...
    AkaiKarasu AkaiKarasu 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    I Can Be A New Me - I've felt socially awkward my whole life, but as I've grown up and experimented with alcohol I feel less and less socially retarded. It's more of an anxiety or...
    FearsAndLoathings FearsAndLoathings 22-25, M Apr 30, 2013

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    Afraid To Go To A Party! - Isn't it pathetic? I'm afraid to go to the party ... I've always been a bit anti-social and socially anxious. I'm quite tired of always being in the...
    BlindFate BlindFate 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    Just Dont Care For Parties - When i was a teen i love big parties ,but when i met my boyfriend of 4 year, I and he just lost interest in dealing with most people our age,or parties...
    kdavis88 kdavis88 22-25, F Feb 9, 2011

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    Do Not - I don't do crowds, noise, drugs or alcohol. So, I don't do parties either.
    Jebb Jebb 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    Every Now And Then - I do want to get out and cut loose. I just don't want to very often.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    Let Me Outta Here -  Credits: Helen Reddy - Angie Baby (melody), Larry Holmes Orchestra - Topkapi (beat loop), Gary Numan - Films (beat loop), Mark-Almond - The City (piano loop...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 Nov 24, 2011

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    Prefrences: - I do like parties once in a while but I prefer warm evening conversations with close group of friends. Usually, we meet up at one friends place, go out for a walk or...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Don't Get It - The only party I would go to would be a small get together at a friends house, where the focus is the people who are there. Big parties are too loud, too obnoxious...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    Or a Party People Eater - I don't really do too well in social situations. I get claustrophobic when there are too many people around. And at parties there is usually loud music...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Party Pooper - I hate parties. People get drunk, high, and have sex. Also weirdos go and spike girls' drinks and rape them. Also people get crazy and the cops come and some...
    Maggotgirl Maggotgirl 16-17, F Mar 16, 2013

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    Me Either - I'm not one. I've just always preferred women to go commando. Just my preference though. Update: Geez! Sorry. Could have sworn that "r" was an "n".
    iRant iRant 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Let's Make a Deal - I will be the mastermind. I’ll plan and set up your glamorous party, make sure everything in check, but when the party time comes, you go downstair, get drunk...
    Awanputih Awanputih 18-21 May 30, 2013

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    Not Really - Whilst I'm a social person, I enjoy meeting new people, spending time with them, and spending time with my established friends and family, but social butterfly I am...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Parties Are Simply Magical. - For one, they have the amazing ability to turn me into a frightened child, standing there awkwardly, silently crying for my mommy as I do my best not...
    InsertCoolUsernameHere InsertCoolUsernameHere 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 16, 2011

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    I've Never Been a Big Party Person - Most of it is because I actually don't like liquor of any kind. The second is that when you're the only one (or feel like the only one) who...
    Sylverwynd Sylverwynd 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2008

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    Last Night - Last night I went out with a couple of friends from high school. It was really great seeing them, I laughed a lot and we had a lot of fun. but damn... I'm just NOT a...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Quiet Nights With Meaningful Conversations ... - Quiet nights with meaningful conversations are what I prefer to engage in. That's not to say that I'm against parties or get...
    TopazSkye TopazSkye 26-30, F 2 Responses May 2, 2009

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    The Definition Of "party" Has Changed In My Aspect... - So, probably the only intense-ish kind of party I've ever been to was a relative's party. I did not like it, they...
    PunizhedZoul PunizhedZoul 22-25, F Jan 14, 2012

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    I've Tried But.. - I've tried but I just can't mingle well. At social parties I don't chat much, I don't know what to talk about. I'm not so active that I have lots of everyday...
    zmajurazanog zmajurazanog 18-21, M Feb 27, 2012

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    No Parties - I have always wanted to go to a party but I don't want to go a party that has drinking, drugs, or sex. Why can't parties be simple anymore? Because all you have around...
    ghost17 ghost17 18-21 2 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    Never Liked Partying. - I've been a loner for most of my life due to numerous reasons. So I'm the most comfortable when I'm by myself or around few others that I know well and...
    Aces84 Aces84 26-30, M Aug 12, 2012

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    Not For Me - I can do the bar thing every once in a while. I like to have a buzz occasionally. But as far as partying, not so much. I don't get the allure of getting all dolled up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 27, 2008

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    All Set. - I used to go to lots of parties. House parties. Raves. Hotel parties...I was there. Always there. It's really not my thing anymore. Actually, now I can't stand it. Lol...
    justagirl1 justagirl1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2008

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    Can Never Find Things To Do - My parents have been really critical with me about my social life. Apparently, going far in life requires the ability to communicate with others. I...
    shooterboss shooterboss 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

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    I Have Always Had Bad Experiences At Parties Since A Child - that is why I gave up going to parties at all now. we never have parties at our place ...we used to with my sisters...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2011

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    Nope - I'm very shy. I prefer intimate, one-on-one conversations to loud frat parties commonly held at college. 
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F Jan 9, 2011

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    No Parties - I am not a party person. I don't care for going out and partying, it just isn't my style. I don't like going where there are tons of people I don't know, and just the...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F 3 Responses May 27, 2008

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    Certain Kinds - We all know too much of anything is not good for you ;-) I have never been a "club" fan though i do like to turn my kitchen into a dance floor at home and listen...
    LadyCheshireCat LadyCheshireCat 22-25, F Jan 12, 2012

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    I'm Another Party-phobe. - When I was two years old, so my mother told me, I was on board ship returning to England from China. A birthday party was organised for me, but I threw...
    clam0391 clam0391 70+, M Mar 21, 2012

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    confession time i love to party lol go figure i am a bad student in school and a party animal lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 8

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    Gonna party tonight. Like actually party, which I haven't done in a long time. I think it will be fun, I'll just have to make the right choices
    lunaloves lunaloves 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    They held high religious values and they some how found out I'm an atheist and yea it didn't turn out to good they made up reasons like a motorcycle is dangerous our she drinks to...
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    Social mugging: Held at eye point in a crowded room having your interests, hobbies, life story and all other precious and valuable social information demanded of you. At every...
    Beth403 Beth403 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I would do anything for someone I truly care about. I have left a party to pick up someone who was abandoned on the side of the road... woke up at 3:30a to pick up a friend at the...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    And i want that at the begining of the funeral someone give each person a bag with glitter so people at the end can throw glitter to the sky and be all shiny and pretty, not a...
    FunnyEnglish FunnyEnglish 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I make the party everywhere i go
    Sexygoddess13 Sexygoddess13 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I was at a party last night
    miaatkinson miaatkinson 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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