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I Am Not a Roses and Diamonds Type of Girl

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    How about pizza and we can cuddle

    and watch a movie? Roses are best in nature for everyone to see. diamonds? I'm good without wasting money on something I don't need.
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I'd prefer something like a iris

    but only if they are hand picked all I ask for is hand picked flowers don't get them for me if you don't hand pick them...and a diamond ring I will take but I just don't know I was never that big on jewelry
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 13

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    Instead... Buy me pizza

    and some hot wings so I know it's real. πŸ˜‹πŸ˜πŸ˜˜
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I hate when a boyfriend/guy tries to buy

    something for me. I think I end up being a little rude about it which makes me feel bad. I appreciate it but I can pay for my own things and don't expect anyone to do that for me even if it is a nice gesture. :)
    MollieLynn MollieLynn 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I honestly think that roses are a waste

    because they are going to die anyway so why not do something else for me like tell me you love or do the dishes!!
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Exactly what it says,

    in fact roses are my least favorite flower. I don't care for diamonds either :)
    hitthelightsnow hitthelightsnow 22-25, F Jun 9

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    I'm the girl who prefers one rose instead of a

    dozen. I'm the girl who would rather stay in on a Friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. I'm the girl who wouldn't make you wait on her hand and foot, but would do anything to make you happy. I'm the girl who would enjoy having a movie night rather than...
    chloejune chloejune 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'll be happy with a ring from the 25cent

    machines, or surprise me by putting blankets in the back of your truck /car we don't even have to go anywhere
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm not a materialistic type of girl,

    I prefer sweet words, big hugs and passionate kisses. A cuddle counts to me more than a necklace, a kiss on my neck stands stronger than a diamond ring, true love is always better than money and the things you can buy with it.
    NoxiousUnicorn NoxiousUnicorn 13-15, F Sep 9

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    I want a guy to talk to!

    Lol feeling lonely I want a boyfriend and I'm single
    butterflypink butterflypink 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Oh god yes! Im not into this girly thingy

    and all this fancy stuff. If im mad at you, just give me card & ice cream or any types of food. If i want to go somewhere, bring me at somewhere calm, not shopping complex. Girls are not that hard u see
    flamedoll flamedoll 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    Nope. I hate flowers

    and chocolates actually cuz all I want is for you to hold me tight and don't ever let me go.
    XxBellabixtch49xX XxBellabixtch49xX 13-15, F 1 Response May 20

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    iKitKat iKitKat 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I am a mixtape and letters type of girl.

    I want to know i inspire you. I want to know what songs make you think of me. I keep all of the little notes, texts, letters, and drawings written or made for me. I dont really do gifts. Anyone can buy me something. I want to know that the things given to me are actually...
    xxmisslynnxx xxmisslynnxx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    watch Harry potter all day with me

    and snuggle.. then go mudding? so much better than diamonds and roses. hell yeah
    briannarenee briannarenee 18-21, F Aug 6

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    Definitely not into cliches.

    Give me something unique like a cactus and my favorite food.( chocolate muffins)
    Ellerina Ellerina 22-25, F Aug 27

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    Though i admit I'd love you forever

    if you bought me a stuffed animal! No but seriously, materials don't make intimacy and compliments shouldn't define how you see yourself. Real intimacy is created from sharing your unique perception of the world with someone and finding out that they agree with what you see. And...
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I'd much rather have something

    that took thought. Something that tells me you listen wen I talk. I don't wear jewelry and I'm not a fan of roses, take me to see a band or give me something nerdy and it's much more touching for me.
    Devinamaria Devinamaria 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Give me chocolate and

    that is all I need.
    dogssing dogssing 18-21, F 3 Responses May 29

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    Eh, fancy stuff just sort of bores me.

    I don't wear jewelry often, unless it's a friendship bracelet or something handmade. I like flowers, but daisies are much cooler than roses, and I could do without anyway. A great gift would be a book or even just having a movie night together.
    ungracefullythalia ungracefullythalia 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    This would be an appropriate time to quote The

    Beatles."Money can't buy me love" haha I'd rather have a guy take me out on an inexpensive and memorable date rather than splurge on such painfully materialistic and orthodox tokens of love.
    sinnysinsins sinnysinsins 16-17, F Sep 21

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    I'm a cheesy pickup line,

    handwritten letters, jokes and book kind of girl. Smart, sweet guys are nonexistent where I live. If a guy buys me a book (or hell, even TALKS to me about one) we are getting married post-haste.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Give me a Xbox, anime

    and lifelong supply of ice cream And I'm all good :) Who needs roses and diamonds anyway? I mean seriously... You can't eat diamonds and you certainly can't play roses!? 😩
    farahway farahway 16-17, F 13 Responses Aug 3

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    No need of a bouquet of red roses.

    ..just toss me a dandelion on a quiet walk...I will seriously melt...I think so...hmm
    waterflame waterflame 16-17, F Sep 2

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    Just avoid all the romantic stuff,

    I'm not interested in it.
    EvilMango EvilMango 22-25, F Sep 9

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    But you can find me cruising on my pitbull with

    my 357 at my side. So yes, I love my motorcycle and I don't miss what I aim at. Just a little county girl
    brandoncasandra brandoncasandra 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I don't like flowers

    and I don't care about diamonds. I just want someone who's there for me, no matter what.
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F Jun 20

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    Just imagining myself with my future boyfriend

    while I'm singing: Some people need three dozen roses And that's the only way to prove you love them Hand me the world on a silver platter And what good would it be With no one to share With no one who truly cares for me ... Some people want it all But I don't want nothing at...
    JustOrdinaryGirl JustOrdinaryGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    More like hydrangeas

    and pearls haha
    AsuraIV AsuraIV 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    If you have the money,

    though, and you want to make a difference and turn my head, I can change!Honestly, it won't be a burden!
    Catram21 Catram21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Not at all. Bring me food

    and a video game and I am happy
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    As long as my dude plays video games

    and trolls online with me he doesn't have to buy me a thing lol
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F Jul 10

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    Stephtantan Stephtantan 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Just give me your heart,

    your trust, your faith, and your love. That'll do for me.
    YesIAmACat YesIAmACat 16-17 1 Response Aug 27

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    Honestly, I never do ask people to buy me stuff.

    And I don't get why girls would ever drag along their boyfriends to the shopping mall. It's only fun if both parties enjoy their time. All I really need is a person to care for me and can hold really, really long conversations with me.
    unicornbombz unicornbombz 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Gimme an adorable stuffed animal,

    or take me outside at night with a big, comfy blanket to look at the stars...I'm yours.
    Smoray100 Smoray100 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I'm more of a daisies

    and bookstores kind of girl
    Clover95 Clover95 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I've always joked about saying I'm not a hearts

    and flowers girl, I'm more of a Jack Daniels and xbox kinda girl! Sadly, the way I am and the way I act (far from girly girl!) means I tend to become one of the lads! Don't get me wrong, I love hanging around with my guy friends, but it seems that they sometimes forget I'm a...
    HaightStreet HaightStreet 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    sweetmelissa77 sweetmelissa77 36-40, F Aug 1

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    I'm really not. I'd rather you give me a rock

    or a black, silver ring than roses and diamonds. Give me something that I can save: something that can't die or be broken. Something that I can put in a box and return to it when I'm older.
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F Aug 26

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    I'm the type of girl

    who doesn't want a big giant deal for Valentine's Day or for my birthday. I'm the kinda girl who would be happy as hell if you brought me a mcdonalds value meal for Valentine's Day instead of roses & a steak dinner at the most high class restaurant in town. I'm not high...
    kaitybobaityxo kaitybobaityxo 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I suppose you could sell the diamond

    and get something better but it doesn't show much thought or imagination and I'll never understand how giving someone a dead plant is supposed to be romantic.
    Dontcare8 Dontcare8 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    FΓΉck roses. Give me a ps3 gift card

    and I will love you forever lol.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F Sep 21

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    I may look like a princess

    but I'd much rather be listening to country music, drinking a beer and hangin out in the sticks
    missaly missaly 22-25, F May 22

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    Me I want time A bit of culture,

    stamina, respect Deep loyalty and passion money is nice but behavior and actions say everything I wanna feel how much you want me...
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77 36-40, F Oct 6

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    I feel different that way.

    Well, while everyone enjoys getting roses, jewelery, chocolate and all that stuff...I don't need them. If someone does something nice for me, then I'll be happy for the rest of the day. No one really needs me anyway, to be honest. I'm weird and different from everyone else.
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 16

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    Really? I hate that stuff.

    At the end of the day roses die and diamonds are just rocks. I want something I could remember forever please, It doesn't have to be fancy and expensive.
    PaleUglyStar PaleUglyStar 13-15, F Aug 22

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    But if you'd like to buy me a vintage car,

    I'm happy to take it.. ;)
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I enjoy deep intelligent conversation

    but for the longest I was so naive. Some men will buy you flowers and diamonds while others will blow you hot air with their words. I am older and wiser now. Fooled me once boys, don't be mad when our conversation ends as just that, conversation.
    MeChee MeChee 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Nah, hate those kinds of gifts.

    .. Well if a guy buys me video games (Dynasty Warriors, Warriors Orochi, GTA, WoW, LoL, The Elder Scrolls and etc.) I'd love him till the end. Plus I hate those matching t-shirts (ex. This guy loves πŸ‘‰ and this girl loves πŸ‘ˆ) If we'd have matching band shirts (Evanescence...
    DarkAngel483 DarkAngel483 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I'm more of a tailgate sunset

    or campfire kinda gal. It's beautiful.
    DayDreamingDragon DayDreamingDragon 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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