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I Am Not a Roses and Diamonds Type of Girl

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    Just give me your heart,

    your trust, your faith, and your love. That'll do for me.
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    st3ph3rzz st3ph3rzz 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Baby! Just get me a One Direction album!

    I dont ask too much. Im not a materialistic person :D
    ElleFrancene ElleFrancene 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    Though i admit I'd love you forever

    if you bought me a stuffed animal! No but seriously, materials don't make intimacy and compliments shouldn't define how you see yourself. Real intimacy is created from sharing your unique perception of the world with someone and finding out that they agree with what you see. And...
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    iKitKat iKitKat 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    watch Harry potter all day with me

    and snuggle.. then go mudding? so much better than diamonds and roses. hell yeah
    briannarenee briannarenee 18-21, F Aug 6

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    But you can find me cruising on my pitbull with

    my 357 at my side. So yes, I love my motorcycle and I don't miss what I aim at. Just a little county girl
    brandoncasandra brandoncasandra 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've always joked about saying I'm not a hearts

    and flowers girl, I'm more of a Jack Daniels and xbox kinda girl! Sadly, the way I am and the way I act (far from girly girl!) means I tend to become one of the lads! Don't get me wrong, I love hanging around with my guy friends, but it seems that they sometimes forget I'm a...
    HaightStreet HaightStreet 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    Of all the flowers I've been given.

    ..the time that means the most was when a guy picked wild flowers for me. Sure most of it was weeds, but it still makes me smile today :)
    margai margai 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Give me a Xbox, anime

    and lifelong supply of ice cream And I'm all good :) Who needs roses and diamonds anyway? I mean seriously... You can't eat diamonds and you certainly can't play roses!? 😩
    farahway farahway 16-17, F 13 Responses Aug 3

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    I'm not a materialistic type of girl,

    I prefer sweet words, big hugs and passionate kisses. A cuddle counts to me more than a necklace, a kiss on my neck stands stronger than a diamond ring, true love is always better than money and the things you can buy with it.
    UnicornsBlood UnicornsBlood 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    Exactly what it says,

    in fact roses are my least favorite flower. I don't care for diamonds either :)
    hitthelightsnow hitthelightsnow 22-25, F Jun 9

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    As long as my dude plays video games

    and trolls online with me he doesn't have to buy me a thing lol
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F Jul 10

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    I'm the girl who prefers one rose instead of a

    dozen. I'm the girl who would rather stay in on a Friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. I'm the girl who wouldn't make you wait on her hand and foot, but would do anything to make you happy. I'm the girl who would enjoy having a movie night rather than...
    chloejune chloejune 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Nope. I hate flowers

    and chocolates actually cuz all I want is for you to hold me tight and don't ever let me go.
    XxBellabixtch49xX XxBellabixtch49xX 13-15, F 1 Response May 20

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    I want love, pure true love.

    It's just that simple. I don't want diamonds or gold, I don't want expensive clothing or accessories, I don't want roses every single day, I don't want extravagant dinners. Although these things would be nice, I don't care for them because you could have the most lavish...
    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F Aug 13

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    I want you not the material things,

    I just want you and your love.
    dassays dassays 22-25, F Aug 21

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    I'm a cheesy pickup line,

    handwritten letters, jokes and book kind of girl. Smart, sweet guys are nonexistent where I live. If a guy buys me a book (or hell, even TALKS to me about one) we are getting married post-haste.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Gimme an adorable stuffed animal,

    or take me outside at night with a big, comfy blanket to look at the stars...I'm yours.
    Smoray100 Smoray100 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I'm more of a tailgate sunset

    or campfire kinda gal. It's beautiful.
    DayDreamingDragon DayDreamingDragon 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I may look like a princess

    but I'd much rather be listening to country music, drinking a beer and hangin out in the sticks
    missaly missaly 22-25, F 1 Response May 22

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    I honestly think that roses are a waste

    because they are going to die anyway so why not do something else for me like tell me you love or do the dishes!!
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Just avoid all the romantic stuff,

    I'm not interested in it.
    EvilMango EvilMango 22-25, F Sep 9

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    I want a guy to talk to!

    Lol feeling lonely I want a boyfriend and I'm single
    butterflypink butterflypink 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    More like hydrangeas

    and pearls haha
    FuSoYa FuSoYa 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am a mixtape and letters type of girl.

    I want to know i inspire you. I want to know what songs make you think of me. I keep all of the little notes, texts, letters, and drawings written or made for me. I dont really do gifts. Anyone can buy me something. I want to know that the things given to me are actually...
    xxmisslynnxx xxmisslynnxx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    Definitely not into cliches.

    Give me something unique like a cactus and my favorite food.( chocolate muffins)
    Ellerina Ellerina 22-25, F Aug 27

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    But I've never gotten roses from a guy before

    so it'd be nice to be surprised with them :)
    Xo12345 Xo12345 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I don't like flowers

    and I don't care about diamonds. I just want someone who's there for me, no matter what.
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F Jun 20

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    Babe get me Starbucks

    and a soft pretzel and im yours!!!
    troyler troyler 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I'll be happy with a ring from the 25cent

    machines, or surprise me by putting blankets in the back of your truck /car we don't even have to go anywhere
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'd prefer something like a iris

    but only if they are hand picked all I ask for is hand picked flowers don't get them for me if you don't hand pick them...and a diamond ring I will take but I just don't know I was never that big on jewelry
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Instead... Buy me pizza

    and some hot wings so I know it's real. 😋😍😘
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I suppose you could sell the diamond

    and get something better but it doesn't show much thought or imagination and I'll never understand how giving someone a dead plant is supposed to be romantic.
    Dontcare8 Dontcare8 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate when a boyfriend/guy tries to buy

    something for me. I think I end up being a little rude about it which makes me feel bad. I appreciate it but I can pay for my own things and don't expect anyone to do that for me even if it is a nice gesture. :)
    MollieLynn MollieLynn 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Really? I hate that stuff.

    At the end of the day roses die and diamonds are just rocks. I want something I could remember forever please, It doesn't have to be fancy and expensive.
    PaleUglyStar PaleUglyStar 13-15, F Aug 22

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    If you have the money,

    though, and you want to make a difference and turn my head, I can change!Honestly, it won't be a burden!
    Catram21 Catram21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    roses die. diamonds are rocks.

    nothing very significant about them, but if you get me a book and a hot chocolate, and i will love you forever.
    SilverEyedWolf SilverEyedWolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm more of a daisies

    and bookstores kind of girl
    Clover95 Clover95 18-21, F Aug 11

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    No need of a bouquet of red roses.

    ..just toss me a dandelion on a quiet walk...I will seriously melt...I think so...hmm
    waterflame waterflame 16-17, F Sep 2

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    Not at all. Bring me food

    and a video game and I am happy
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    But if you'd like to buy me a vintage car,

    I'm happy to take it.. ;)
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    No True. Who does not like to get Roses

    and Diamonds? I admire when a man when they give Roses and Diamonds to their woman, if they could effort it.
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Give me chocolate and

    that is all I need.
    dogssing dogssing 18-21, F 3 Responses May 29

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    Oh god yes! Im not into this girly thingy

    and all this fancy stuff. If im mad at you, just give me card & ice cream or any types of food. If i want to go somewhere, bring me at somewhere calm, not shopping complex. Girls are not that hard u see
    saffaismail saffaismail 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I just someone I can just kick it with ya know.

    Watch movies, and crack jokes on each other, play fight..
    germany100 germany100 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Just imagining myself with my future boyfriend

    while I'm singing: Some people need three dozen roses And that's the only way to prove you love them Hand me the world on a silver platter And what good would it be With no one to share With no one who truly cares for me ... Some people want it all But I don't want nothing at...
    JustOrdinaryGirl JustOrdinaryGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Eh, fancy stuff just sort of bores me.

    I don't wear jewelry often, unless it's a friendship bracelet or something handmade. I like flowers, but daisies are much cooler than roses, and I could do without anyway. A great gift would be a book or even just having a movie night together.
    ungracefullythalia ungracefullythalia 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I'm really not. I'd rather you give me a rock

    or a black, silver ring than roses and diamonds. Give me something that I can save: something that can't die or be broken. Something that I can put in a box and return to it when I'm older.
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F Aug 26

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    sweetmelissa77 sweetmelissa77 36-40, F Aug 1

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    I'd much rather have something

    that took thought. Something that tells me you listen wen I talk. I don't wear jewelry and I'm not a fan of roses, take me to see a band or give me something nerdy and it's much more touching for me.
    Devinamaria Devinamaria 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Midnightthetimberwolf Midnightthetimberwolf 13-15, F Aug 21

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