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I Am Not A Social Being

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 210 People

    KoolKatKenzi KoolKatKenzi 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    Un-Social

    I am not a social being. I am a very un-social being. I don't like groups, or parties, or crowds, or gatherings, or "chit-chatting" to others, or small talk, or anything similar. I like being alone. It's the only time I feel comfortable. But I am not ANTI-social. I am UN-social...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    I hate hate hate having to hang out with my

    moms side of the family and I was forced to hang out with them today for Fourth of July and I'm so pissed about it like I can't wait tell I'm 18 ****! Ps.there hillbillys and really annoying and rude IDC if there family they are annoying
    whoooocares whoooocares 18-21, F Jul 5, 2014

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    I Am...

    ...not social. I always hated any kind of party we had at school because I was always the odd one out. Just sitting by myself, looking at others having fun and praying it would be over soon.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Anti Social Girl Who Looks Sociable

    I love drinks, having small talks, innocent flirts, talk to strangers, dance, fashion, make-up, being healthy that the 'sociable me'. Let's say that her name is Maria (i sort of gave them names cause they're like my alters). They think that She is pretty cute, sexy, nice body...
    Zivana Zivana 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Not Ur Average Butterfly

    i like to have friends...i like to have a good time.  but im not gonna be the one to walk up and "put myself out there" or go to all the "rad" parties or w/e.  i like to be around just a few people..bc at the same time, im scared of being alone.  so just give me my...
    Dani21208James Dani21208James 18-21, F Jan 9, 2010

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    Don't Hate Me

    Don't hate me.. I'm not special like you... I'm tired and I'm so low...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    I'm not a social being but,

    I'm more social than I was before. All through my childhood I was the shyest little girl you wouldn't even notice. At school I had a few friends and I was terrified of people. Soooo when I got my depression my interactions with people just stopped. But, I actually talk now and I...
    foreverisabella foreverisabella 13-15, F Sep 6, 2014

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    I Dont Get Out Much

    ive been on break from college for 10 days and ive spent the entire time in my apartment watching netflix and reading my calculus book. I went to the public library last week and rented some movies, but i kept my headphones in on the drive there and on the drive back. went...
    dxoverdt dxoverdt 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Sorry For Being Late To Set This Up

    I told you I wasn't a social person. Never even figured on the great responses to my nothingness I created. Thanks y'all
    employmentchallenged employmentchallenged 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    i hate being social. i just don't like many

    human beings. that's why i hate school.
    morgancoppage morgancoppage 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2014

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    Ah, hell. It would appear I'm on an upswing. This is when I get people's hopes up only to let them plummet, parachute-free. Are they justified? My attempts at being social? Or is...
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    Any one else feel this weird sometimes ? I love love love my close friends . They are like my sisters . I love hanging out with them . But I hate being in large crowds . I was at...
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    reversethetime reversethetime 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Idk what life is anymore, I don't feel the need to be here. The only thing keeping me from killing myself is just fear, I'm a coward. If I wasn't afraid, I'd be dead already...
    kaylynx kaylynx 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really really need to work on overcoming, dealing with, or at least managing it.. And I feel like the more I talk about it, the more likely I am to overcome it. It's really been...
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    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    Hate living in a world where being shy is seen as a bad thing and pointed out to you all the time to make you feel even worse and make you more quiet!
    Eeee15 Eeee15 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I didn't join a site like this to post selfies and what I'm eating for lunch. That's what facebook and plenty of other social media sites are for. I'm here to by myself in a way...
    GirlLearningHowToSmile GirlLearningHowToSmile 26-30, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    How do you make friends? Just wondering because I feel like I'm wasting my life being so alone.
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    I'm growing emotionally weaker and weaker everyday. I'm starting to give up on life and contemplating on suicide right now, I'm on the edge. Through all my years of high school and...
    emlugo1996 emlugo1996 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Just having a nice relaxing night until my husband has to crab about how much he hates my phone and technology. Then he has to go into the whole rant about how he wishes he was...
    BrokenAngel38 BrokenAngel38 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    For example, my boyfriend forced me to meet his mother and brother once. It was probably the most uncomfortable hour of my life. Everyone at the table just ignored me. I couldn't...
    cairah cairah 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I wish I didn't have to be so weird. It's not like I try to be. I've been the "other" one, the "weird one" and the "outcast" in school and groups since I was a kid. Everyone says...
    TheEverythingFanX TheEverythingFanX 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Of course I am, as you can probably tell by my username itself. Hello I am Mamabutterfly, I just came across this experience and didn't even know this experience existed, shows...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I have a very deep seated fear of being socially rejected. I had an abusive father and got bullied as a child. I also got bullied in high school and am now in very bad...
    Justventingg Justventingg 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I have a job interview tomorrow afternoon and I've been freaking out about it for days now. Anyone kind enough to share any tips with me? It's my second job interview I've ever had...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I get so uncomfortable with boys. When they touch me, I cringe and when I assume they like me I can barely take the situation. Which is why I always get so offensive when a boy is...
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    I have had social anxiety since I was seven. I used to "freeze" every time a teacher asked me a question in class or ordering in a restaurant. I wasn't aware of my social anxiety...
    Han123xxx Han123xxx 13-15, F Jul 19

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    A lot of times, when talking to new people, and before they approach, I feel this fear well up inside of me...it makes me blush and falter when speaking and it's impossible to be...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Especially when I don't drink, and some drunken environments equal trouble. I'd rather choose other options, at the end of the day. Socialising is all about love and connection...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M Jul 19

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    I was so upset. It was Freshers week and I'd just stepped off the train all dressed up for a special student night at one of the clubs. I'd just been left in the lurch by the girl...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Every time I go in public I can't look up or else I feel like others will glare at me. It feels like every time I glance at someone for less than a second they assume I'm being...
    Td95 Td95 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 18

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    the thing about me is that i only take things at face value, unless you make it explicitly obvious, i don't pick anything up. if its a coment with a hidden snide and sinister...
    shatteredglass378 shatteredglass378 16-17, M Jul 18

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