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I Am Not A Social Being

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    I Am...

    ...not social. I always hated any kind of party we had at school because I was always the odd one out. Just sitting by myself, looking at others having fun and praying it would be over soon.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Sorry For Being Late To Set This Up

    I told you I wasn't a social person. Never even figured on the great responses to my nothingness I created. Thanks y'all
    employmentchallenged employmentchallenged 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    I Dont Get Out Much

    ive been on break from college for 10 days and ive spent the entire time in my apartment watching netflix and reading my calculus book. I went to the public library last week and rented some movies, but i kept my headphones in on the drive there and on the drive back. went...
    dxoverdt dxoverdt 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    I'm not a social being but,

    I'm more social than I was before. All through my childhood I was the shyest little girl you wouldn't even notice. At school I had a few friends and I was terrified of people. Soooo when I got my depression my interactions with people just stopped. But, I actually talk now and I...
    foreverisabella foreverisabella 13-15, F Sep 6, 2014

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    Not Ur Average Butterfly

    i like to have friends...i like to have a good time.  but im not gonna be the one to walk up and "put myself out there" or go to all the "rad" parties or w/e.  i like to be around just a few people..bc at the same time, im scared of being alone.  so just give me my...
    Dani21208James Dani21208James 18-21, F Jan 9, 2010

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    I hate hate hate having to hang out with my

    moms side of the family and I was forced to hang out with them today for Fourth of July and I'm so pissed about it like I can't wait tell I'm 18 ****! Ps.there hillbillys and really annoying and rude IDC if there family they are annoying
    whoooocares whoooocares 18-21, F Jul 5, 2014

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    Don't Hate Me

    Don't hate me.. I'm not special like you... I'm tired and I'm so low...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    KoolKatKenzi KoolKatKenzi 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    Anti Social Girl Who Looks Sociable

    I love drinks, having small talks, innocent flirts, talk to strangers, dance, fashion, make-up, being healthy that the 'sociable me'. Let's say that her name is Maria (i sort of gave them names cause they're like my alters). They think that She is pretty cute, sexy, nice body...
    Zivana Zivana 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    i hate being social. i just don't like many

    human beings. that's why i hate school.
    morgancoppage morgancoppage 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2014

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    Un-Social

    I am not a social being. I am a very un-social being. I don't like groups, or parties, or crowds, or gatherings, or "chit-chatting" to others, or small talk, or anything similar. I like being alone. It's the only time I feel comfortable. But I am not ANTI-social. I am UN-social...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    First I would like to get something out of the way. Yes, I am a Socialist. I tend to identify with Social Democracy because it is the most easily-reachable and realistic option...
    Jugemu Jugemu 31-35, M Apr 11

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    I'm an introvert. And my mom thinks being like that is anti-social (she is the biggest, extroverted blabbermouth). So she forces me to do social things, A LOT of social things. And...
    reivven reivven 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I used to associate shyness as a bad thing. There was never day month or year that people would point that out about me. I didn't have too many friends when I was little. I shyed...
    Candycane711 Candycane711 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Apparently, my lack of social skills annoys my class teacher more than it exasperates me or anyone of my friends or family! I'm a extraverted introvert though I tend to appear a...
    EvanescentIridescent EvanescentIridescent 16-17, F Mar 31

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    Just a regular high schooleI Virgo girl. A twelveth grader who wants to go to university. Finally, I decided to share my little feelings on here because if I don't, I think I will...
    AliceEdn AliceEdn 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Having social anxiety and being an introvert is tough. Is so hard to talk to people and when I do I can't carry a conversation. It's awkward going into social settings. I rarely...
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Having social anxiety and being an introvert is tough. Is so hard to talk to people and when I do I can't carry a conversation. It's awkward going into social settings. I rarely...
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Because of my abusive father, I grew up to be very shy. This made it easy for other kids to take advantage of me and bully me. I started to hate people. My young innocent mind...
    Alexandur Alexandur 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have been a naturist for several years now and love shedding my clothes under the sun. I go to Studland beach in Dorset regularly and enjoy meeting other people in a social nude...
    lifemodel101 lifemodel101 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    To start off, I've never really been that much of a social person. I've always had more of an introvert-like nature and I'm not fond about it. This nature of mine especially comes...
    Drew0113 Drew0113 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    So here goes! I hope no one judges me by my first experience. I have anxiety so this is quite big for me haha. I think it started when I just became 13, I made a new friend who...
    SecretBlanket SecretBlanket 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I am a very gifted communicator. How ever I have social anxiety. Not as bad as I used to because I have worked on it. But most importantly I have social sham and social grace...
    louisthe17th louisthe17th 46-50, M Apr 4

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    It started like a routine boy-girl thing. He sought me out, started to chat online. I found him interesting so started chatting with him too. We exchanged numbers, started to talk...
    evagould evagould 31-35 4 Responses Apr 13

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    I hate it when people say "why do you never talk" or " why are you shy"... Well the thing is i have social anxiety. I didnt choose to have it, it just happened and i hate it...
    JustineMusey JustineMusey 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    The awkward thing of being socially awkward is when realise that there is no cure or a pill to help you with your awkwardness ...so you're probably always going to be an awkward...
    missnicething missnicething 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I got bullied pretty badly while I was in school. I pin most of the blame on the fact that I was in an all girls school for primary and secondary ( for those of you who are not...
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    When I developed Social Anxiety during middle school I became extremely isolated, socially and physically. I stopped going to school and stopped talking to people, even my family...
    KnightOfJustice KnightOfJustice 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    For some reason i avoid being around groups of people. I can not socialize at all. a few years ago before i got depressed i could.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F Apr 9

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    I used to be called a ditzy blonde when I used to frequent chat rooms in certain sites. I am not educated in romantic or sexual topics and experiences. To this day too. I am...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F Mar 30

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    I cannot stand social media because it confirms my insecurities if people not necessarily giving a damn about whether they like me or not. Yet because they remain undecided and non...
    ParisCat ParisCat 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I am so tired of being victimised for just leaving my house. I'd rather hide every day and I try to but life involves food to live so means leaving the house. It's not a common...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 days ago

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    I wanna share about my experience being an introverts for the past 3 years I've found myself that I'm an introverts and i proud of it i like being alone, spending time alone, i...
    michelle1203 michelle1203 18-21, F Mar 27

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    So a few nights ago (on Monday) I decided to drink. I do have a problem but I was drinking responsibly (School is out this week and I didn't work the next day. It was my weekend...
    FallenAngel1997 FallenAngel1997 16-17 1 Response Apr 9

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    Ok so I do suffer from social anxiety and I had to literally just let some coworkers know that they needed to fall back a bit because I've always been scared to stand up for myself...
    imissdnce imissdnce 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    So till this day I still get really anxious over the simplest things. I always need someone by my side so I can feel okay and safe. Thinking about growing up and becoming an adult...
    charites0 charites0 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I am regressing. I had some people I thought were my friends do some mean things lately. Such as not letting me eat with them, laughing when I sit with them, and even sending a...
    shootdownthestars shootdownthestars 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I prefer under the radar,but the thesaurus has (more disturbing synonyms:secret,unavowed,masquerading..even whatchamacallit!Whatchamacallit???People on this site have even asked if...
    mailcall mailcall 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    My mom thinks that social skills>intelligence. She forced me to go to a social group with the guidance counselor. Worst part, I'm the only girl.
    reivven reivven 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why are people so disgusted by me? Was waiting today and some guys about my age walked past. One sniggered. Looked because I was wondering if it was at me. He quickly averted his...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 days ago

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    Also I feel like this world has gotten so caught up and stuck in the way of thinking they know what's best for everybody when they need really need to be focusing on their own life...
    imissdnce imissdnce 31-35, F Mar 29

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    Every time I go out I get hit on or talked to. I even put earphones in both ears to be left alone. It's not that I'm anti social. I just am not gonna have another guy in my life...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F Apr 2

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