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I Am Not A Social Being

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 209 People

    Anti Social Girl Who Looks Sociable

    I love drinks, having small talks, innocent flirts, talk to strangers, dance, fashion, make-up, being healthy that the 'sociable me'. Let's say that her name is Maria (i sort of gave them names cause they're like my alters). They think that She is pretty cute, sexy, nice body...
    Zivana Zivana 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Un-Social

    I am not a social being. I am a very un-social being. I don't like groups, or parties, or crowds, or gatherings, or "chit-chatting" to others, or small talk, or anything similar. I like being alone. It's the only time I feel comfortable. But I am not ANTI-social. I am UN-social...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    KoolKatKenzi KoolKatKenzi 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm not a social being but,

    I'm more social than I was before. All through my childhood I was the shyest little girl you wouldn't even notice. At school I had a few friends and I was terrified of people. Soooo when I got my depression my interactions with people just stopped. But, I actually talk now and I...
    foreverisabella foreverisabella 13-15, F Sep 6

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    I Dont Get Out Much

    ive been on break from college for 10 days and ive spent the entire time in my apartment watching netflix and reading my calculus book. I went to the public library last week and rented some movies, but i kept my headphones in on the drive there and on the drive back. went...
    dxoverdt dxoverdt 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    I Am...

    ...not social. I always hated any kind of party we had at school because I was always the odd one out. Just sitting by myself, looking at others having fun and praying it would be over soon.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Don't Hate Me

    Don't hate me.. I'm not special like you... I'm tired and I'm so low...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    I hate hate hate having to hang out with my

    moms side of the family and I was forced to hang out with them today for Fourth of July and I'm so pissed about it like I can't wait tell I'm 18 ****! Ps.there hillbillys and really annoying and rude IDC if there family they are annoying
    whoooocares whoooocares 18-21, F Jul 5

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    Not Ur Average Butterfly

    i like to have friends...i like to have a good time.  but im not gonna be the one to walk up and "put myself out there" or go to all the "rad" parties or w/e.  i like to be around just a few people..bc at the same time, im scared of being alone.  so just give me my...
    Dani21208James Dani21208James 18-21, F Jan 9, 2010

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    Sorry For Being Late To Set This Up

    I told you I wasn't a social person. Never even figured on the great responses to my nothingness I created. Thanks y'all
    employmentchallenged employmentchallenged 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    i hate being social. i just don't like many

    human beings. that's why i hate school.
    morgancoppage morgancoppage 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I HAD social anxiety. I'm somewhat antisocial (Not in the literal sense. I meant in the very very introverted sense) and I can be somewhat socially awkward. But I no longer feel...
    topsykrit topsykrit 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    How can someone whose brilliant socially be stupid? & this is coming from someone pretty good at school subjects (non-practical & music, which is all I do). Let's say I score an 8...
    fcnantes fcnantes 13-15, M Nov 24

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    Dare to be various and liven up your online identities. Retain tight connections with those you want to and hold in your mind that engineering is barely a Instrument. Social...
    Joseph7146azz3 Joseph7146azz3 31-35, M Nov 26

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    Firstly I would like to say that I arrived at these most important principles after what I could term a whirlwind of experiences, mostly negative, that helped to shape these...
    KingDee2 KingDee2 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    L’obstacle ultime à la communication, c’est la conscience de soixA0;. Le sens de cette conscience de soi, de cette réserve, est lié:65 xA0...
    dorvaltjl dorvaltjl 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I feel like nobody else understands how I feel, my social anxiety has gotten so bad that I can't even be around my family... My mom just calls me disrespectful because I always...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    I bloody hate being socially awkward especially if I want to get a girlfriend :( no wonder why I haven't been on a date I just don't talk to girls it's like they have a brick wall...
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M Dec 2

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    I hate people. its better to be alone. chat online. people expect to much from you. I like it this way. I'm grateful for my social anxiety. people should stop messaging me saying...
    tobethin666 tobethin666 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 3

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    I have social anxiety and I'm going to live on my own for the 1st time.I lived with my mom my whole life and now she's moving with her boyfriend and is telling me that I'm going to...
    isaiahZ isaiahZ 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    "I wish I had a twin!", "If I pinch you will your twin feel it?", and "I like you better than your twin." All of those things have been asked/told to me in the past week alone...
    sarahjohnsony sarahjohnsony 18-21, F Dec 8

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    I believe in social skills. One of the things I have recently learned - when you are first meeting people it is best to be serious. Humor should be reserved for the people who know...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M a week ago

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    Being somewhat anti social works well for me .
    Bpack Bpack 31-35 6 days ago

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    I fear I have social anxiety disorder it would explain a lot about my behaviour..I keep myself distanced from friends and they moan at me for not being friends to them and I don't...
    Mustangkid2020 Mustangkid2020 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    It's a struggle Everything seems so impossible.. I've never been close to anyone, and have always had to do things on my own. Even though it's always been scary, it seems so much...
    K93H K93H 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    With my job I am social. With my dysfunctional disagreeable family I am pretty social. But when I get off work, or when I wake up on my day off, I just want someone to spend the...
    Peacepuppy Peacepuppy 22-25, F 13 Responses Nov 22

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    Si l’histoire littéraire a donc volontiers majoré la part des femmes dans la fabrique des romans, elle a peu à peu minoré la participation des...
    llloveu llloveu 22-25, F Nov 29

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    I go out daily just to come back at the end of the day to Google. I cannot tell how many self-help articles I've read. What I can tell is that I can never get it right. I cannot...
    HigherLife HigherLife 18-21, M Dec 4

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    "But the world needs more people like you!" Really? More unassertive, socially anxious, idealistic dreamers? People who don't like to compete because you're too afraid of...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    Being judged right away is all I'm used to. Whether it's because I don't look like the next girl, wear the same clothes, go out with a new boy every five seconds, and even just...
    xxhappilyeverafterxx xxhappilyeverafterxx 13-15, F Dec 5

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    So, I am a 31 year old man, and seem to carry the baggage of a dozen people. Recently, it has become a huge issue and have become so isolated that I have decided that this might be...
    balexan balexan 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I wish I had a social life! I had a great social life when I was in college, but then I moved away and so did my friends. I have since lost touch with them and moved back to my...
    lovingleila329 lovingleila329 22-25, F Nov 22

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    I told my mum about my social anxiety. I'm not going to school, school is a place full of judgemental *** holes and so is this stupid house ._. I hate home more than I hate school...
    0Worthless0 0Worthless0 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Comme le souligne Alban Bensa dans un autre recueil, xA0;traiter les faits sociaux comme des actions permet d’affirmer leur historicité et de ramener l&rsquo...
    llloveu llloveu 22-25, F Dec 11

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    I was like a winter. Some people said I am cold. Cruel. Bad. But when they start to touch the snow. They feel the warmth. The comfort. The joy of shower. I am not really good in...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Im a 19 year old male virgin, and have kissed only a few girls in my life. Im socially secluded now, due to bad experiences in high school. (getting ****** over by so called...
    AussieOwner AussieOwner 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    A guy I used to know left for basic training in Florida. After he left, friends of mine reported that he had molested a girl around my age during a youth event and that everyone in...
    duskyblue402 duskyblue402 18-21, F Dec 2

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    I like my little bubble I made, where all my favorite things are and I like being alone with them for a long time before eventually socializing
    emilylightning16 emilylightning16 22-25, F Dec 8

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    Nutrition is an important part of any person's overall health and wellness. Continue reading for more information!Instead of depriving yourself of your favorite foods, just swap...
    waypuma73 waypuma73 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    Last night I went to dinner with some very good friends who I hadn't seen in a while. Just sitting there waiting to order, my body temperature shot through the roof as I started...
    pnw21 pnw21 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm very comfortable in my life. When it comes to myself and my family. I don't need outside friends. Me and my husband are inseparable. I do have to exist outside of my home...
    angie01993 angie01993 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    If I could change my mind I'd do it in a heartbeat. Locked up in a cage till I come home, my comments never reach the finishing dot. My heads filled with anxiety, all because of...
    RianneK RianneK 16-17, F Nov 22

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    Sometimes I don't want to go outside...I dont even want to talk to my mom nor anyone....Just be all alone. It freacks me out thinking about going outside, buying something at...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    The more I peel back the layers of socialization and habit from over the years, the more peaceful and content I feel identifying deeply as a woman.
    mistypink mistypink 41-45, T 2 Responses Nov 24

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    Funnily enough I once was a school librarian and I didn't feel hardly anything. I was nice to others and felt pretty much in my element. But I know that's not a reality. The people...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 25

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    Talking to people for me is about as fun as chewing uncooked rice. I can't decide if it is a product of being bullied in middle school or dealing with crazy *** customers/consumers...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I received 2 separate txts but about a friend. The texts were name calling. I showed her the texts but to my surprise she has blown it out of proportion and even began pointing...
    kay501 kay501 26-30, M