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I Am Not A Social Being

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    Anti Social Girl Who Looks Sociable

    I love drinks, having small talks, innocent flirts, talk to strangers, dance, fashion, make-up, being healthy that the 'sociable me'. Let's say that her name is Maria (i sort of gave them names cause they're like my alters). They think that She is pretty cute, sexy, nice body...
    Zivana Zivana 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Sorry For Being Late To Set This Up

    I told you I wasn't a social person. Never even figured on the great responses to my nothingness I created. Thanks y'all
    employmentchallenged employmentchallenged 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Don't Hate Me

    Don't hate me.. I'm not special like you... I'm tired and I'm so low...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    I hate hate hate having to hang out with my

    moms side of the family and I was forced to hang out with them today for Fourth of July and I'm so pissed about it like I can't wait tell I'm 18 ****! Ps.there hillbillys and really annoying and rude IDC if there family they are annoying
    whoooocares whoooocares 18-21, F Jul 5

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    i hate being social. i just don't like many

    human beings. that's why i hate school.
    morgancoppage morgancoppage 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Un-Social

    I am not a social being. I am a very un-social being. I don't like groups, or parties, or crowds, or gatherings, or "chit-chatting" to others, or small talk, or anything similar. I like being alone. It's the only time I feel comfortable. But I am not ANTI-social. I am UN-social...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    I Dont Get Out Much

    ive been on break from college for 10 days and ive spent the entire time in my apartment watching netflix and reading my calculus book. I went to the public library last week and rented some movies, but i kept my headphones in on the drive there and on the drive back. went...
    dxoverdt dxoverdt 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Not Ur Average Butterfly

    i like to have friends...i like to have a good time.  but im not gonna be the one to walk up and "put myself out there" or go to all the "rad" parties or w/e.  i like to be around just a few people..bc at the same time, im scared of being alone.  so just give me my...
    Dani21208James Dani21208James 18-21, F Jan 9, 2010

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    I Am...

    ...not social. I always hated any kind of party we had at school because I was always the odd one out. Just sitting by myself, looking at others having fun and praying it would be over soon.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    KoolKatKenzi KoolKatKenzi 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm not a social being but,

    I'm more social than I was before. All through my childhood I was the shyest little girl you wouldn't even notice. At school I had a few friends and I was terrified of people. Soooo when I got my depression my interactions with people just stopped. But, I actually talk now and I...
    foreverisabella foreverisabella 13-15, F Sep 6

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    My family was really anti-social when I was growing up; both to the outside world and between each other. My Dad was always in front of the television and my Mom was cleaning the...
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    I am currently seeking therapy for it. It's strange to say that I have social anxiety because I am a private person, and I enjoy spending time by myself. However, there are times I...
    Close2You Close2You 26-30, M Sep 14

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    I hate this. Make the effort to go out and be social, but fail miserable. Then I get lonely and depressed. Love that I can be social on ep without the awkwardness
    BlueEyedFaye BlueEyedFaye 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I cant be consistent in my social interactions, sometimes i kill it and other times i suck. You can feel top of the world but then come crashing down, is there a way to be...
    PeaceAndCalm PeaceAndCalm 16-17, M Sep 12

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    i'm quick to being comfortable and social.. But sometimes, rarely, there are few who are very difficult for me to break the ice with.. Just when they keep this certain composed and...
    romeo27 romeo27 13-15, M Sep 13

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    (all names have been changed from real names) When I was younger I never had social problems, I loved talking to everyone and being around people, but when I got into school...
    XandraElise XandraElise 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    People tell me...'confidence isn't everything'. That is a lie. It worms its way into every area of my life and makes me realise that being shy is actually a curse. I am currently...
    smits15 smits15 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I am living in Northern England, rapidly approaching the age of 35, depressed that I've never been able to have a real social life. The problem is that I'm still living with my...
    CodemonkeyNE CodemonkeyNE 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I love being on different social networks and getting to know people, but as of late i have been so busy i haven't even taken a chance to look at anything but the time on my phone...
    angie1025 angie1025 22-25, F Sep 22

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    I just looked up today the mental disability "social anxiety," or "social phobia," and after seeing many symptoms that match mine, i went on to take an online test to see how...
    Otokonoko Otokonoko 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    It's my first week of college. I'm starting from ground zero; my high-school friends aren't around to save me anymore. I never realized how hard it is to freaking talk to people...
    ihugcats ihugcats 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    Yup I have social anxiety. I'd shake when I'm out of my element and seem like I'm being judged. I'm a very awkward person and I feel like I'm going to end up doing something...
    Mattsdragons Mattsdragons 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Well, having read some other people's stories, I feel stupid even suggesting that I have social anxiety. I mean, I can leave my house and everything. I manage to go to school. I...
    SuspendYourDisbelief SuspendYourDisbelief 13-15 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I see everything as a social rule, and I get too nervous and I have no clue what to do. Am I supposed to wait for you or is that too clingy? Am I allowed to hang out with other...
    unicornbombz unicornbombz 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have online social anxiety. Honestly, talking is easy for me, I can do it for hours (though some people might get bored and weirded out by me), but when I'm online, my SA makes...
    justicehero justicehero 18-21, M Sep 5

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    Some-days, I feel that I am the loneliest person in the world. Now, that “in the world” feeling may be a bit of hyper-collegiate over-dramatisme, of latent-teenage psychopathy...
    Newydd Newydd 18-21 Sep 11

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    I lose interest in people fast, friendships are pointless especially when they realize they can't get any freebies off you. As I get older, I'm starting to become like my great...
    LadyOutspoken LadyOutspoken 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    And I've been getting more socially awkward every passing day at school. I thought I was finally self confident enough to at least handle social situations with less angst, but I'm...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    (From my other account that's being deleted) The touch of a hand on my shoulder, the contact of a kiss on my head, or the feel of a hug, I cannot bare. Not even a friendly...
    kelseytoby1337 kelseytoby1337 16-17 Sep 2

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    Thinking about life itself as i use to do i realized a magnificent interior revelation. I will try to explain in writing form this feeling that i had. All of us came to existance...
    DiegoSMarinho DiegoSMarinho 16-17, M Sep 4

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    I've always been extremely worried about what others think of me and how I come across, and the more I do so, the more I'll appear socially inept, which in turn drives my anxieties...
    aj1996 aj1996 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    I'm really awkward around new people at social gatherings. I try to be more extroverted (I have practised doing so for years) but I'm still not natural. I feel like I say a lot of...
    averagecomplicatedhuman averagecomplicatedhuman 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    It's been a progressive thing over the last two or three years. I used to be fairly social and enjoyed conversations. But now, it's all changed. Socialising for a couple of hours...
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Ever since I was a child I've been really awkward socially. I think my overly-sheltered upbringing has a lot to do with it as well as my older sister telling me to "shut up" when I...
    nursingstudent4 nursingstudent4 22-25, F Sep 10

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    Hi I think I am socially awkward. I can't beat around the bush at things(if you don't know what that saying means, it means be subtle, Little House on the prairie rocks, lol). Also...
    Cassandrae Cassandrae 16-17, F Sep 16

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    Being outdoors is therapeutic to me. To me, if I am camping, hiking, or hunting, I feel free and thoroughly enjoy the beauty of nature. It always reminds me of the simple things in...
    lttlejoey lttlejoey 31-35, M Sep 4

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    Ok so yesterday I was in Spanish class and the teacher was doing a lesson that you had to say what you liked in Spanish. So I said I like to mod and I said that I put Mr.Toots the...
    adav218 adav218 13-15, M 5 Responses Sep 6

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    It really brings you down, being single. I want someone that I can do stuff for and with, look after, and laugh with. Someone I can take out, and buy things for on occasion...
    7Questions 7Questions 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Ninety-nine percent of EP will only know me as Emerald or Em. My hubby is Red Neck, my daughter is Diva, and my son is The Boy. I live in Missouri.... large enough state to get...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Jewelgzr Jewelgzr 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have always loved being around people and was always really sociable.. like literally the person who laughed the loudest, had the most fun and didn't care what others thought...
    minrevolution minrevolution 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I got stuck and don't know how to overcome it. I am esperiencing this problem since the beginning of highschool. Now it has been 7 years or maybe more and I'm still trying to get...
    Unkyy Unkyy 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I don't like being around people that much so instead of going and hanging out with people, I hooked up the wii and bought a new controller and a hunting game and call of duty...
    fallout07 fallout07 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Especially because I know how it feels to not be invited. The worst part about social media is when you log on and you see pictures from a party no one told you about. You feel...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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