I Am Not a Tomboy But Not a Girly Girl

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    I saw a pair of ankle length boots

    which were so damn cool.....I insisted on buying them but my dad said they were not fr girls and not ws d cool rugged jeans I had bought....then, afterwards when I told him dat my dream is 2 hav a Harley Davidson, he stared at me n asked me why I am always attracted to boyish...
    itsmecrazyUCme itsmecrazyUCme
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2015

    I'm a girly girl who likes all the girly stuffs

    but grew up with my 2 brothers. I love computer & video games so much. People thought I was weird. Girls doesn't like me, I don't know why. Guys usually turn on when they knew I'm a gamer, tried to flirt with me, it creep me out. Making friends was so much easier when I was...
    yumemi yumemi
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    I'm really more tomboy

    than girly but not really all that tomboy
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    Yeah I always wear boys tops

    and a skirts but I love my dresses
    mirajane123 mirajane123
    13-15, F
    May 11, 2015

    I am the girliest tomboy you will ever meet.

    My favorite color is pink. I LOVE fashion, boy bands, theater, the fantasy of getting married, barbies, etc. I adore chick flicks and Legally Blonde is my favorite. I'm blonde and dress extremely feminine. But don't think I can't kick your butt at a game of basketball. Don't...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter
    22-25, F
    Jun 22, 2015

    I think this describes me pretty well I

    definitely have a lot of male traits just in how casual I dress normally and but I'm also still a girl on the inside and don't forsake it entirely. I don't belong perfectly to either side of the spectrum but that's just fine with me. I think an open mind is better then accepting...
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    Jun 8, 2015
    AshleyMcQueen AshleyMcQueen
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2015

    When I dress, I'm more of a skinny jeans cute

    shirt or sweater with boots or flats or tennis shoes. When I do my makeup and hair I'm very girly.
    ciarabieber ciarabieber
    18-21, F
    Oct 15, 2015
    SentierLumineux SentierLumineux
    26-30, F
    Sep 4, 2015

    I HATE wearing dresses.

    I love baggy sweatpants, boxers, big shirts, and those lovely non-girly things. I prefer pants over skirts. I don't like the color pink, but my mom loves buying me pink stuff. I don't care if I wear a scarf all day on my head. My hair...well don't be surprised if...let's not...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2014

    I wear a ton of makeup

    and am really into fashion but at the same time my version of fun is going hiking or skydiving , basically anything tom boys would do.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333
    18-21, F
    Oct 19, 2014

    I don't wear dresses.

    Skirts annoy me and heels are out of the question. Yet, I'm not active. I'm not athletic or good at sports. I adore wearing sweatpants and tennis shoes. Tee shirts and old jeans are my life. I'm not really in to make up or nail polish and I don't like to shop. I'm like a thin...
    leadmenot leadmenot
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    this is so me, hahaha I am like this

    until now. When I was with my ex husband, I was the masculine one.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    It's more in between

    for me. I hate make up, nail polish and stuff like that. I do however like to wear stupid tshirts with cats or unicorns that look high. It's weird for me •~•
    Bonshaquitalafondria20 Bonshaquitalafondria20
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2015

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    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa
    26-30, F
    Jan 20, 2016

    Depends on my mood. One minute you'll see me

    dolled up next minute I'm in sweats and a hoodie jacket. Love makeup but I'm not going to wear it every day. I'm sure I'm not the only girl who thinks so
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    I'm more of a shirt and jeans lady.

    I wear dresses but ocassionally. But i would rather wear dress than skirt.
    Fristz Fristz
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2015

    I'm who I am and I like it like

    that no matter what
    misswag123 misswag123
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    I've never really thought of myself

    as either... I guess I was more boyish when IO was younger but became more girly as I got older.
    LonelyGirl616 LonelyGirl616
    22-25, F
    Oct 31, 2015

    Yes yes and yes. Its

    so difficult for people to understand because they only see the blue and pink part but they don't see whats in the middle between them ya know?
    sabrinabryn sabrinabryn
    16-17, F
    Jun 22, 2015

    I can climb trees, and I can wear pretty

    dresses. Stiletto heels with jeans, and a mini skirt with trainers. Shorts over a thong, yes, but boyshorts!
    Beannie97 Beannie97
    18-21, F
    Jan 13, 2016

    It's annoying cuz my mom wants me to wear fancy

    clothes like her but I don't want to. I find them uncomfortable but she doesn't get that I don't wanna dress the same way she does
    AngelPets101 AngelPets101
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2015

    I like wearing makeup

    and perfume and I like girly things, but I am usually wearing a sweater and jeans instead of a dress. Though I do like to dress up from time to time. I would rather go out for a few drinks than get my nails done. So I think I have qualities of both a tomboy and a girly girl.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

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    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 7, 2015

    I'll dress up when I see fit

    or want to. I occasionally like shopping ,but I also don't mind being one of the guys sometimes playing video games etc.
    ALostSiren ALostSiren
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    Really. I can't use any make up

    because it's unconfortable and my skin is very sensitive. There will be acnes on my face after that. It's just lipgloss and eyeliner for me
    deanita deanita
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2015
    sludgefeast sludgefeast
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    I am a mixture of both I like wearing make up

    but I like sports and I hate skirts and dresses and other things
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 25, 2016

    I think as a youngster I never really had the

    chance to be a girly girl, or at least a girl. I wasn't allowed to have many desires of clothing, jewellery or even dolls. They were all unnecessary things to my parents. So I grew out of them really quickly. I have experienced sexism ALL my life. That I couldn't do what I...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 29, 2015

    90% of the time you will find me in shorts

    and a t-shirt, but there are those times where I love to dress up and make me feel good about myself! I'll take sweats over a dress any day though
    clearmymind clearmymind
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    "tomboy, Forget About It"

    I remember, a couple years ago, I was talking to a girl about a guy i loved... Her simple answer was "Tomboy, Forget abou it, no one will ever love you until you start showing some stuff, wear the right clothes" I dont like make up, i hate tight clothes, im not into fashion. I...
    MySuperpower MySuperpower
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    Don't do clown make up,

    occasionaly do up my eyes, play football, love sports;wear handbags lol i dunno i guess that title sums me up lol
    Sbabyface Sbabyface
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    My friends describe me

    as tomboyish because I wear a SnapBack and I don't wear makeup but I do wear skintight clothes.
    deleted deleted
    Aug 14, 2015

    I am not a tomboy and not a girly girl

    either I really don't know what I am to be frankly I have the look of a male but personality wise is a tricky thing i think there is a mix personality in there
    jon200547 jon200547
    31-35, M
    Oct 30, 2015

    As you know, I have two side of me.

    Not only that, I have 1000 moods in 1 second as well. Its depend on you whether you want to see the pretty me or the ugly me?
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    I have always been into things guys like,

    video games, motorcycles, cars, comics, and so much more.Don't get me wrong, I liked Barbie too, however, I preferred playing with Ken...because he was hot. lol 
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    I love jewelry, makeup,

    & nice clothes but I also love mud, 4 wheelers, & bonfires. You can never judge someone because there's always a different side.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 19, 2016

    I'm not a tomboy and I also don't like to wear

    as much makeup. I am a very humble person. I'm not materialistic and definitely not girly. I'm just me I can look attractive and sexy when I want to but I don't feel like I have to everyday. I feel I shouldn't have to wear high heels just because I'm a woman. I don't like them...
    Morenita79 Morenita79
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2014

    I wear black skinny jeans

    and a band shirt with skater shoes.
    Jenacide1228 Jenacide1228
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    I don't wear skirts(except

    for my school uniform), sleveless, fit blouse, short shorts, heels, sandals, make ups, jewelries. I prefer jeans, t shirts, and sneakers. I don't want a guy to give way for me and say "ladies first" I prefer male company. Girls just don't fail to make me feel out of place. I am...
    hummingtree hummingtree
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015
    Bonhommeg Bonhommeg
    22-25, F
    Oct 1, 2015

    I do what I want and I am

    who I am... which is random :D
    2JustBe 2JustBe
    26-30, F
    Dec 30, 2015

    I'm a mix of both. I have spent a large portion

    of my time watching gaming channels on Youtube but I love when I get the chance to try on pretty, puffy prom dresses :3
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5
    18-21, F
    Jul 21, 2014

    This definitely describes me.

    I don't think that I am one or the other. >.< I can be both at different times, hell even the same time if that makes any sense
    XxSimplyMexX XxSimplyMexX
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2015

    I've never been like the other girls

    since I noticed they didn't play basketball at lunch with the boys like I did everyday throughout elementary and junior high. I love sports and prided myself on being the best among boys and girls. Everyone knew who I was even throughout high school. But, I was always made fun...
    marie2324 marie2324
    26-30, F
    Aug 30, 2015
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