I Am Not a Very Sexual Person

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    My Life

    as you seen on my profile says i am 16 and i have a boyfriend now and i all was told myself that if i have a boyfriend that i was going to wait to i got married to you know, and the other day i stop being a virgin and i am soooo lost now i and i am soooo mad at myself and that i...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 14, 2011

    The fire just won't light.

    I want to feel a sense of desire for someone to the point where I'd get intimate with them. But it's just not there. I'm 30 and a virgin. Paradoxically, I adore platonic and romantic affection, but there's something about sexual stuff that I find deeply unsettling. Every near...
    PurplePhoenix6 PurplePhoenix6
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 17, 2015

    Just How I Am

    I'm not a very sexual person, to be honest. I don't know why. I mean, I've had sex before, and it was kind of fun but it left me rather unimpressed. I also have a bit of a chemical imbalance in my brain. I don't like things that aren't exact, and by that I mean things that cannot...
    CinnamonKnight CinnamonKnight
    22-25, F
    33 Responses Mar 4, 2013

    Don't Know Why, But I'm Not

     I really don't know why I'm not a very sexual person. I'm not sheltered or anything, but I've never had sex, never had a boyfriend, and though I know this is TMI, I barely ever **********. I'm talking once a year. I just don't feel the need to. I'm on medication that can...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2008

    Ok so idk how else to explain this.

    But normally, I'm not a sexual person. My everyday persona is that I am very very kind, people say I'm like a little girl at heart, I have a lot of energy and I love to do innocent things...like roll down a hill or jump over all the cracks even if I'm I'm a dress and sneakers...
    calishewolf calishewolf
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 20, 2015

    Sexual Person

    I would not mind being a little more sexual, however having been married and not getting it but once in about the last 3 years, I may not remember how.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow
    56-60, M
    1 Response Sep 25, 2011

    Seriously. Just because I'm a guy it doesn't

    make me a sex fiend. And I don't see how that means I have to be some sex pervert either. Matter of fact I'm not. I'm not very sexual, I'm not looking for sex, I don't want sex, I just want someone as a friend, and I do have respect for girls as people. I hate people who assume...
    Affright Affright
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 4, 2014

    Sorry I Have To Ask As I Do Not Understand

    i see many groups where people complane about lack of sex like sexless marrage to me sex is just an act 2 people do with each other while making love is stuff 2 people do to make each other feel good and bring pleassure to the other i includes many more things the just sex it...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Jun 28, 2011

    Never been. Never had a gf never

    even had a real kiss. Also I never ********** and I don't even feel the need to. Also talking about sex makes me uncomfortable. I have wondered am I the only one. But more to the story I want to have a gf I want to dance with her,play games,go to the pool,hold hands, kiss even...
    hitgod hitgod
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 19, 2014

    Am I Weird?

    am i better for not being so sexual? i see every or at least most of their statuses that refers to something sexual about them. i wonder if there is something wrong with me...i mean its like i feel i can't amount to that like ill never have anyone to be sexual with. i feel like...
    kurokineko kurokineko
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2011

    At 16, I still haven't had my first kiss.

    The only people I hug is my family. I've never done anything sexual or even though about it. Does that make me a child? I don't think so.
    lgbtpridepost lgbtpridepost
    18-21, T
    1 Response Apr 23, 2015

    I Am Sexy However I Am Not Sexual..

    Ive been told on numerous occasions that I am sexy, however, I am not very sexual. Im attracted to men but I dont lust after them or long to be sexual with them.I am not a virgin either. Im very weird. (I think)  It takes an extremely good lookin, muscular man to interest me...
    caramelLova1 caramelLova1
    36-40, F
    20 Responses Mar 12, 2011

    Not Really...

    I'm not a virgin. I've tried sex a few times with a few people and it still makes me feel weird and ackward. I'm not comfortable talking about sex, it still grosses me out in a way. I don't even feel human because of this. I'd rather look at a cute face and like their mind than...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    Apr 26, 2011
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