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I Am Not a Virgin

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 567 People

    No One To Tell.

    I lost my virginity last Friday night. It was such an amazing night. I love him so much, but no one even knows we are together because my parents would kill me. Now, we both agree it was an amazing night, but we had a few problems... He was very gentle and slow, but he barely...
    WatchMeFly WatchMeFly
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 20, 2009

    That's Right, I Don't Have My Virginity......

    .....but the box it came in is in good condition. - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood
    22-25, F
    Sep 21, 2007

    Not A Physical Virgin...

    I started having full penetrative sex on December 31st, 1998. It ended on January 2nd 1999, that first time lasted days on and off, but it was not fun and it was barely loving. Since then I have only had sex with two others, one to whom I was engaged for over two years. I feel...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2009

    No, Not At All

    I lost that status to an older woman when I was 16. She was in her early 20's.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 2, 2011

    4/3/13 ❤

    I was always one of those girls that vowed to never lose her virginity until marriage. I even remember standing outside in the courtyard with a few friends (girls and guys) making the pledge to save myself for marriage. Now years later I realized that I wasn't waiting for...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2013

    Showering

    I gave it away earlier this year to my best friend and long time boyfriend (about three years at the time - he can be so patient). It was in his room, and I was on my period. Needless to say neither of us quite reached completion but it was sort of pleasant otherwise. Sort of...
    Knabble Knabble
    18-21, F
    Oct 9, 2011

    Not For Over a Year...

    Actually, I think it's coming up to two years, now... I think... I can't remember the date... But I know I was home with my boyfriend and no one else was in. So he went in ;)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 21, 2008

    My Anniversary

    I looked at the calendar and realized that today is the anniversary of the day that I gave my virginity to my so handsome boyfriend back in the day. I may have to celebrate with a new vibrator or something. lol
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Aug 9, 2010

    Well I Have Two Kids

    Being married almost 6 years, I could not count how many times we have had sex. 
    DesertTruth DesertTruth
    26-30, M
    Sep 23, 2007

    My Sex Story

    I had sex with a guy i barely knew three times. it wasn't all that special. he didn't try to make it special. i was 17 at the time. well, a little under 18 and he was 19. He was not the nicest person anyways. After i had sex, i didn't want to be in any sort of relationship...
    some12trust some12trust
    18-21
    Dec 8, 2008

    Two! I Swear!

    I've only had actual intercourse with two women. I actually have LOTS of sexual experience and knowledge for such a small number, though. I've had plenty of experience with oral sex, both giving and receiving, and of course I've had other experiences like handjobs and mutual...
    VendettA12 VendettA12
    31-35, M
    3 Responses May 12, 2009

    Im only 18 but i lost mine

    when i was 17 to someone who's 2 years older than me, im still deeply in love with him now and honestly i dont regret it.
    Vixkit Vixkit
    18-21, M
    Oct 20, 2015

    You'll Be So Shocked...

    but i have "done the deed".  what a huge surprise since i'm 32 years old.  there have been a number of partners, i'm sorry to say.  i can't say i've only slept with men i loved.  some of them i haven't even liked too much, if at all.  it's...
    geenpunchbuggie geenpunchbuggie
    31-35
    1 Response Jan 27, 2009

    It Was Bound to Happen

    man i havent been a virgin since i was in elementary. the first time i had sex was in the 5th grade. i still remember it like it was yesterday. i liked it and i wanted more. but i waited a while after that cause i got scared and so did she because i poped her cherry and at the...
    AnikiMomo AnikiMomo
    18-21
    Jun 19, 2008

    And I Dont Regret It :)

    im so happy it finally happened, and with the one i planned it to be with all along :D. It happened in the woods where i've always wanted it. Nicole and I walked through the woods, just browsing the wildlife when all of the sudden we spot two white tailed dear, a mother and a...
    loverOfScience loverOfScience
    18-21, M
    Oct 4, 2011

    The First Two Times....

    According to what ive heard, we arent virgins once we have bled. But doesnt losing your virginty also include intercourse? ha! heres the story....im not sure of which one of these two times was the day I lost my virginty... I bled when i was around 15. It was my farewell and my...
    jackass jackass
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2008

    But...

    i did save something...lol
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 9, 2010

    Happy Too

    I am glad I am not a virgin because sexual expression is one of the greatest joys of my life. If I had never had sex then I would not have this glorious view of it and I wouldn't be able to express those emotions in the stories that I write. Yes, I am happy I am not a virgin.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    Oct 20, 2009

    Let Down

    My first time was a let down, for sure!
    MrsKateBrown MrsKateBrown
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2009

    I dated this girl for a while,

    and she was really a nasty freak. She just loved to get down with sex all the time. She was like, any time of day, she was like: "Yeah, let's go. I'm so nasty." And I'd be nailing her. She'd be like: "Oh, you're nailing me. Cool." She loved to dirty-talk. Totally into it. She'd...
    press1forenglish press1forenglish
    36-40, M
    Feb 13

    I Am Not a Virgin.

    The title says it all. So what else is there to say?
    Candita Candita
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 8, 2007

    Don't Tell My Parents

    Well I'm not a virgin anymore, I do have a kid, but as far as they know it was all done with test tubes and stuff. What they don't know is that for the past twelve years I have been having sex, don't know how many times now but it's gotta be close to about seven thousand times...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay
    36-40, M
    8 Responses May 14, 2008

    No I Am Not

        i am not a virgin . i lost my virginity to my finace ' alyangel. we lost it november of 2008
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 6, 2009

    Lost It On My 17th Birthday...

    A long time ago in a galaxy far far away... Personally I guess it's more an issue for girls as sometimes it can be more than just a progression of feelings, but an "owch!" sort of moment that is seared into your memory...   
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2009

    I ********** And I Am Fingered And ****** Whenever....

    There is a need! One of the girls in my dormitory at the convent school showed me how to ********** properly, and how to get an ******. I have been doing it regularly ever since! I guess that was my first lesbian experience, and I lost my virignity then! The first guy was a...
    bitchefille bitchefille
    22-25, F
    Aug 10, 2013

    I Don't Know Whether I Am a Virgin Or Not

    So... I don't know whether I'm a virgin or not, might sound crazy but here's the story...   I was sexually abused/raped or whatever you call it, a couple of years back by a family member... and I was about 7 or 8 years old. I can't remember anything about what happened...
    missinglilly missinglilly
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2009

    Virginity Lost

    It was nothing spectacular...even though we went to school together, we didn't really know each other then.  We became very good friends when we started working together at the local grocery store.  I was a cashier and he was my bag boy. We had been flirting with...
    lydialondon lydialondon
    26-30, F
    18 Responses Sep 17, 2008

    I waited until 20 and a half to lose it

    even though I could have lost it so much sooner.
    Chrossy Chrossy
    22-25, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    First Time.

    I lost my virginity last night. This morning I was thinking about it... It's not really what it's cracked up to be. I mean it was okay.. but nothing more than that.. He seemed to have enjoyed it though.
    GoingToDoIt GoingToDoIt
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2010

    Long Gone

    Mine went about 10 years ago - I don't miss it to be honest LOL! I don't regret losing it so young either. I admire people who wait until they are married but it just wasn't me. I look at it like buying a car - try before you buy. You always take a car out for a test drive...
    AWUK AWUK
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2007

    Lol I Thought I'd Forever Be Alone

    I guess not. Seriously, not long ago, I had no confidence in myself. I truly hated myself. Relationships and all that shiz was for other people, not the crazy depressed mess that was me. Okay, so I still have my problems and insecurities; of that there's no doubt haha. But...
    ForestSong ForestSong
    18-21, F
    Jul 21, 2011

    Nope

    I am not a virgin and I have not been a virgin for a very long time. I do regret the person I lost my virginity to, but I don't regret losing it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 18, 2013

    Louis Et Dede

    I have had a couple of good boyfriends, Louis and Dede, essentially, and a couple of not so good! Louis was a nice guy. He's now in the French Navy, based at Toulon, but when we were together he was still at school, with me. We first became lovers in a very public way, when on...
    bonizil bonizil
    22-25, F
    Mar 7, 2013

    Only Technically...

    officially, i have had sex 2 times. im not sure if the first one counts. i was blackout-vodka-drunk and was taken advantage of by an obese, smelly gnar-beast, while camping. the second one was totally consentual. it was with an xgf of 4 months. she was a bubbly dits. anywho...
    VomitEnema VomitEnema
    26-30, M
    3 Responses May 3, 2010

    Or Am I

    HA!! I don't think there's a part on my body that still is... LMAO
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2007

    It's been a few years

    now since I was kind of duped into having sex by a typical school player. I was fourteen. He was seventeen, and leaving school for college. I wasn't the only one that year!
    Banyousbabe Banyousbabe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 23

    I was 15 and he was 20.

    I thought he was the one. Stupid me. We only had sex 3 times. I have no regrets about it, I'm just glad I didn't get pregnant. Enough said.
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    Im Not

    had sex late in my life, 19 years old, wasnt a pleasant experience - much better now. Although i had an experience against my will at the age of 5.long story.
    Donalh Donalh
    22-25, M
    Jul 11, 2008

    Nope....

    I think that losing your virginity is something that you chose to give to someone. So in my mind, I Lost my virginity to my amazing boyfriend, who is also my current boyfriend. however, i was raped before i met him, and sexually abused, and molested before him, so in a way...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 20, 2009

    I Lost It Late

    I lost it relatively late in life. I was 22. I had always lived in a sexually active environment. My parents were very open and nudity around our house was normal. I always went with them to their island place and enjoyed the nude beaches even as a child. To me it was normal...
    LittleJade4 LittleJade4
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jun 9, 2010
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