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I Am Not Always a Nice Person

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    I'm Not Always An Angel....

    I have a bitchy, and mean side of me. Of course, when I feel it coming out, I usually log off EP, and just get away from everyone for a while, because I don't like people to see that side of me, but sometimes, it unavoidable, and the side comes out. it takes a LOT to **** me off...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 28, 2010

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    I Put Your Boyfriend Back In Jail.

    Phone rang. It was Robert. It was the two call in checks, he missed, that got him revoked. "No Robert, I'll pass on this one." A $2,000. dollar bond for domestic abuse. A very low bail set, the Judge must have seen the couple afew times before, She drops all charges, State...
    1Nasty1 1Nasty1 51-55, M Sep 13, 2011

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    I Warn Them

    I usually warn people that I am not a nice person. They always laugh and say "of course you are a nice person." I have an odd sense of humor and I love playing with English, and people then seem surprised if I make a comment or joke that they think is "mean...
    nevergoodenuf nevergoodenuf 51-55, F Sep 2, 2009

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    Sometimes things make me mad.

    .. then I shut down. Screw people! Grrr!
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M Apr 24

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    Not Anymore

    I've had enough. A coworker and I worked on this document last year and now it's starting to gain traction. Initially I was getting my fair share of the credit for my contribution, now that this document is being seen by upper management, the coworker gets to present it to them...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F Jul 8, 2010

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    I Am Always a Nice Person

    THE TRUTH SEEMS NOT TO BE LIKED BY THOSE THAT ARE NOT AT ALL NICE HOWEVER.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 1 Response Sep 6, 2009

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    Cute Cute Logo/avatar/picture

    yea im not always a nice person but I try to be ;) and I always catch on when im not being nice
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F Nov 28, 2010

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    I hate everything, which makes people hate me,

    which makes me hate people, which makes me hate everything. Which makes me think I'm a defective product and should be sent back to the factory.
    MariaMelon MariaMelon 16-17, F Apr 25

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    My Other Half

    There are two sides to me... There is the nice side and the not-so-nice side. Which one you get depends on how you treat me. That is all there to it. You can't treat me as if I do not have feelings and yet expect me to just smile and treat you otherwise. I am not a doormat...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Not On Purpose

    Not when I'm scared, overwhelmed or panicked. When I'm feeling any of those emotions it's as if I'm no longer in control of myself. I just freak out and I guess I can be very mean, though not on purpose. It happens a lot in public when people talk to me because I get so scared...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M Feb 22

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    If

    If I am having a bad day, I get crabby.And if you happen to say the wrong thing to me, I will let you have it without holding back.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Nope

    i am not always a nice person but i am trying to be a nice person .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 10, 2010

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    Everyone Thinks I'm Just So Nice, But. . . .

    It's really not true. Sure I can get along with people and I am pretty laid back and can compromise and go with the flow, I can often be generous and very caring and filled with empathy for your every trial, but I have this icky side too.  I think it's because I am so dang...
    waterdroplet waterdroplet 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Sometimes Nice Is The Wrong Choice.

    In general, I consider myself to be a nice person. However, frequently I am not nice at all. Three groups bring out the worst in me. Those who are trying to take advantage of me because I appeara to be nice, the rude inconsiderate people who try to impose their presence upon...
    tomt88101 tomt88101 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Blond Or Redhead?

    It's my last night in town, I gotta ride out at 6:00 am! Hmmm...whats am stand for any way? At that time in the morning it stands for Awww Mother #%@&$! Well... Here's my dilemma, I gotta Hot blond on the east side of town that wants to show me somthing. But I gotta HOT...
    1Nasty1 1Nasty1 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2011

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    Forever taking it out on other people

    when I'm in a bad mood, or just completely pushing people away
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I Can

    Take words and lash them out like whips against the one thing and/or person that hits that final nerve. It happens occasionaly but it's dangerous. It's dangerous for me to have that in my system, that inner *****, that cold hearted woman who can bring the grown to the ground with...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    Show Me Someone Who Is!

    I freely admit i am not always nice... but then who is?! I certainly havent met anyone. One of the nicest people I know still yells at me, another used to throw things at her husband, I lose my temper and become a 'not nice person' so what! As I said who doesn't, we all do things...
    Lilibuth12 Lilibuth12 18-21, F Sep 1, 2009

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    More Mean Than Nice

    I am really more mean than I am nice, to be honest. I am nasty and aggressive toward others and myself. I try to be nice, but it doesn't last long.
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    Maybe Not.

    I have bad days where i'm either in a bad mood or stressed out, and i get snappy bitchy and verbally unpleasant, and dont care about it... those are times when i'm far from being a nice person and can be as nasty as i can get, thankfully those days are few and far between.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 27, 2013

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    A Tamed Tiger

    we all have our imperfections.  i'm usually very patient but i can be really really bad.    i must be really pushed too far before i explode in violent fury.  sometimes i'm capable of doing things which i never thought possible.   
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 22 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    OMG! I think this is so funny! I feel totally justified in not being nice to this person who barged in on >my< whiteboard! faiz2001me said: add me please 1 day ago Reply by katnipkitkat Oct 14th, 2012 at 1:50AM Why? Reply by faiz2001me Oct 14th, 2012 at 1:51AM to f...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    Well,

    We all have our bad days, no? It just so happens my bad days occur once every other week. My million apologies darlings. (i still say that dude looks like Fred Savage aged about 40 yrs........and NO i didnt write the anon. just thought it was funny). Carry on
    EdieQuinnz EdieQuinnz 31-35, F Dec 20, 2010

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    I Can't Forget This...

    I can't forget what I did to her... Just because they were doing it... I was in 6th grade.... They may have done a lot worse, but that's no excuse for what I did. I've been thinking a lot about this lately. How I hurt her. And how I hurt a few others. I don't understand why I did...
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F Apr 10, 2013

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    Mean Talkin' Blues

    I'm the meanest man that ever had a brain, All I scattered is aches and pains. I'm carbolic acid, in the poison face, And I stand flat-footed in favor of crime and disgrace. If I ever done a good deed -- I'm sorry of it. I'm mean in the East, mean in the West, Mean to the...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    I Try But....

    Oh, I try....but nobody can be Susie Sunshine 24/7.  To make matters worse, by instinct I notice, learn, and remember other peoples' soft spots, the ones that would hurt most if I hit them.  Usually I use this knowledge to avoid causing undue pain.... but if I...
    Geode Geode 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2009

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    The Bitchy Side

    I can get really angry, really fast..and I don't filter my thoughts when I'm like this.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2010

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    And I don't care. I don't care

    if anyone thinks I'm nice. I do what needs to be done. I say what needs to be said. I refuse to allow anyone to judge me. Nice isn't effective. Nice doesn't get the job done. Nice doesn't pay the bills. Nice doesn't protect me from more pain.
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    The Girl On This Group Pic Is Cute

    This group is not much related to my quality or the way I am. I just joined this group my the girl on the cover of this pic is so cute.I just love cute babies.
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M May 8, 2011

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    Am I Nice Or Not ???

    I Never really knew if i were nice or not , people wont say it in your face ... but i knew i am not as nice as i thought , i think it had something to do with my mood swings which meant i am not always a nice person , i always wanted things to go my way .. i...
    JustADream JustADream 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    Sometimes I Am A Biotch.

    I am generally a nice person but there are certain things that will cause me to become such a biotch that you will swear you never knew me. Cruelty to those less fortunate than ourselves is one thing that really gets me going; so what if I person doesn't have the same financial...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    No I Am Not :p

    I am sweet, lovable, adorable, cute an angel, whatever they call me, but if someone dares get me angry or upset I would start being ur worst nightmare.
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Well Not Really

    I have a pretty chilled personality until im provoked, or someone wont or don't know when to leave me be. Then im a complete *****. and careful this ***** cares a nasty bite
    notperfectforu notperfectforu 18-21, F Jan 21, 2013

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    Not Always

    I'm not always nice person because of my mood swings and i'm kind of a bipolar kind of person because when i was at a dance i would be happy one hour and two hours later i would be depressed.
    deathpreventer deathpreventer 18-21, M Jul 16, 2010

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    However, Sometimes I Seem To Give Off The Opposite Impression...

    I'm always not a very nice person, but I have my nice side too - it's just a matter of what side is being expressed at the time. I am jealous, angry, bitter, selfish, apathetic, violent, and yet also caring...erm, caring seems to cover it all. Oh, and whatever is the opposite...
    ForestSong ForestSong 18-21, F Jul 7, 2010

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    Bipolar

    "I Am Not Always a Nice Person" because I have mood changes that I can not control. They are evidence that I am Bipolar, so my doctor said. Has anyone read Sesop Fables? Do you have any medical stories you can share? To whom it may concern: This is educational...
    a1234poem a1234poem 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    I get told how nice I am all the time. If you're in my life, I want you to feel good about yourself when we part ways. Mean people usually don't like me. I probably smile too much...
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I hate how people take my niceness as a weakness
    Heyababe Heyababe 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    I want to meet someone who believes in old moral values and not in selfie-thing or calling things cool or doing stupid stuff like graffiti.
    AksharGoyal AksharGoyal 16-17, M Nov 30

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    The only people who spoke too me on the site were the people Working bashed my computers and phones This garbage is permitted too Remain on the site.... Never allowed too...
    righthere123s righthere123s 51-55, F Dec 2

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    That's what I've been told. I guess I just ooze with meanness. Except for little kids and the elderly. Why ? Haven't a clue. They both need protection. Otherwise I'm awkward. And...
    JoshM1974 JoshM1974 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'd what I is about me, but every person u text or gave hung out with eventually stops talking to me and I think I'm a nice person so idk what it is, do you?
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    My niceness gets mistaken for weakness all the time. I get called "Pushover" or "Hesitant" I never go through with something i want if I think it could hurt someone else. I'm not...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    Sometimes I sit and wonder what will happen when the cystic fibrosis finally becomes to much to fight and I'm no longer here. Will I be remembered? Have I made an impact on anyone...
    Kermit1216 Kermit1216 36-40, M 6 Responses Nov 21

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    Always nice to see the older guys getting some love
    a7xeagles a7xeagles 26-30, M 17 hrs ago

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    I had the chance today to do something nice for someone. And I was in too much of a hurry to notice until the moment had passed. Wrapped up in myself and all the things I have to...
    aurora11 aurora11 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Who doesn't?However,sometimes looking your best,isn't always easy.I requires a lot,(at least it does for me).When you are busy w/ life ,your husband ,kids ,bills,pets...the list...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    You know that if a dad did actually just turn up on Christmas Eve, there would be a shrewish woman waiting in the wings, all too ready to heap opprobrium ("Why are you so late...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    They say the honeymoon is over.. Why does it ever have to leave? If the connection is true, shouldn't passion always remain?
    LadyJunebug LadyJunebug 31-35, F 31 Responses 8 hrs ago