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I Am Not Always a Nice Person

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    I Try But....

    Oh, I try....but nobody can be Susie Sunshine 24/7.  To make matters worse, by instinct I notice, learn, and remember other peoples' soft spots, the ones that would hurt most if I hit them.  Usually I use this knowledge to avoid causing undue pain.... but if I...
    Geode Geode 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2009

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    I'm Not Always An Angel....

    I have a bitchy, and mean side of me. Of course, when I feel it coming out, I usually log off EP, and just get away from everyone for a while, because I don't like people to see that side of me, but sometimes, it unavoidable, and the side comes out. it takes a LOT to **** me off...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 28, 2010

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    Everyone Thinks I'm Just So Nice, But. . . .

    It's really not true. Sure I can get along with people and I am pretty laid back and can compromise and go with the flow, I can often be generous and very caring and filled with empathy for your every trial, but I have this icky side too.  I think it's because I am so dang...
    waterdroplet waterdroplet 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    I Am Always a Nice Person

    THE TRUTH SEEMS NOT TO BE LIKED BY THOSE THAT ARE NOT AT ALL NICE HOWEVER.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 1 Response Sep 6, 2009

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    Sometimes Nice Is The Wrong Choice.

    In general, I consider myself to be a nice person. However, frequently I am not nice at all. Three groups bring out the worst in me. Those who are trying to take advantage of me because I appeara to be nice, the rude inconsiderate people who try to impose their presence upon...
    tomt88101 tomt88101 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    The Girl On This Group Pic Is Cute

    This group is not much related to my quality or the way I am. I just joined this group my the girl on the cover of this pic is so cute.I just love cute babies.
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M May 8, 2011

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    More Mean Than Nice

    I am really more mean than I am nice, to be honest. I am nasty and aggressive toward others and myself. I try to be nice, but it doesn't last long.
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    And I don't care. I don't care

    if anyone thinks I'm nice. I do what needs to be done. I say what needs to be said. I refuse to allow anyone to judge me. Nice isn't effective. Nice doesn't get the job done. Nice doesn't pay the bills. Nice doesn't protect me from more pain.
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Maybe Not.

    I have bad days where i'm either in a bad mood or stressed out, and i get snappy bitchy and verbally unpleasant, and dont care about it... those are times when i'm far from being a nice person and can be as nasty as i can get, thankfully those days are few and far between.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 27, 2013

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    Well Not Really

    I have a pretty chilled personality until im provoked, or someone wont or don't know when to leave me be. Then im a complete *****. and careful this ***** cares a nasty bite
    notperfectforu notperfectforu 18-21, F Jan 21, 2013

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    Nope

    i am not always a nice person but i am trying to be a nice person .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 10, 2010

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    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M Feb 22

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    Cute Cute Logo/avatar/picture

    yea im not always a nice person but I try to be ;) and I always catch on when im not being nice
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F Nov 28, 2010

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    I Can't Forget This...

    I can't forget what I did to her... Just because they were doing it... I was in 6th grade.... They may have done a lot worse, but that's no excuse for what I did. I've been thinking a lot about this lately. How I hurt her. And how I hurt a few others. I don't understand why I did...
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F Apr 10, 2013

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    Mean Talkin' Blues

    I'm the meanest man that ever had a brain, All I scattered is aches and pains. I'm carbolic acid, in the poison face, And I stand flat-footed in favor of crime and disgrace. If I ever done a good deed -- I'm sorry of it. I'm mean in the East, mean in the West, Mean to the...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    However, Sometimes I Seem To Give Off The Opposite Impression...

    I'm always not a very nice person, but I have my nice side too - it's just a matter of what side is being expressed at the time. I am jealous, angry, bitter, selfish, apathetic, violent, and yet also caring...erm, caring seems to cover it all. Oh, and whatever is the opposite...
    ForestSong ForestSong 18-21, F Jul 7, 2010

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    I Warn Them

    I usually warn people that I am not a nice person. They always laugh and say "of course you are a nice person." I have an odd sense of humor and I love playing with English, and people then seem surprised if I make a comment or joke that they think is "mean...
    nevergoodenuf nevergoodenuf 51-55, F Sep 2, 2009

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    Not Anymore

    I've had enough. A coworker and I worked on this document last year and now it's starting to gain traction. Initially I was getting my fair share of the credit for my contribution, now that this document is being seen by upper management, the coworker gets to present it to them...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F Jul 8, 2010

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    A Tamed Tiger

    we all have our imperfections.  i'm usually very patient but i can be really really bad.    i must be really pushed too far before i explode in violent fury.  sometimes i'm capable of doing things which i never thought possible.   
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 22 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    I Put Your Boyfriend Back In Jail.

    Phone rang. It was Robert. It was the two call in checks, he missed, that got him revoked. "No Robert, I'll pass on this one." A $2,000. dollar bond for domestic abuse. A very low bail set, the Judge must have seen the couple afew times before, She drops all charges, State...
    1Nasty1 1Nasty1 51-55, M Sep 13, 2011

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    Am I Nice Or Not ???

    I Never really knew if i were nice or not , people wont say it in your face ... but i knew i am not as nice as i thought , i think it had something to do with my mood swings which meant i am not always a nice person , i always wanted things to go my way .. i...
    JustADream JustADream 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    Not Always

    I'm not always nice person because of my mood swings and i'm kind of a bipolar kind of person because when i was at a dance i would be happy one hour and two hours later i would be depressed.
    deathpreventer deathpreventer 18-21, M Jul 16, 2010

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    Bipolar

    "I Am Not Always a Nice Person" because I have mood changes that I can not control. They are evidence that I am Bipolar, so my doctor said. Has anyone read Sesop Fables? Do you have any medical stories you can share? To whom it may concern: This is educational...
    a1234poem a1234poem 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Not On Purpose

    Not when I'm scared, overwhelmed or panicked. When I'm feeling any of those emotions it's as if I'm no longer in control of myself. I just freak out and I guess I can be very mean, though not on purpose. It happens a lot in public when people talk to me because I get so scared...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    I Can

    Take words and lash them out like whips against the one thing and/or person that hits that final nerve. It happens occasionaly but it's dangerous. It's dangerous for me to have that in my system, that inner *****, that cold hearted woman who can bring the grown to the ground with...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    My Other Half

    There are two sides to me... There is the nice side and the not-so-nice side. Which one you get depends on how you treat me. That is all there to it. You can't treat me as if I do not have feelings and yet expect me to just smile and treat you otherwise. I am not a doormat...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    The Bitchy Side

    I can get really angry, really fast..and I don't filter my thoughts when I'm like this.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2010

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    If

    If I am having a bad day, I get crabby.And if you happen to say the wrong thing to me, I will let you have it without holding back.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Blond Or Redhead?

    It's my last night in town, I gotta ride out at 6:00 am! Hmmm...whats am stand for any way? At that time in the morning it stands for Awww Mother #%@&$! Well... Here's my dilemma, I gotta Hot blond on the east side of town that wants to show me somthing. But I gotta HOT...
    1Nasty1 1Nasty1 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2011

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    Sometimes I Am A Biotch.

    I am generally a nice person but there are certain things that will cause me to become such a biotch that you will swear you never knew me. Cruelty to those less fortunate than ourselves is one thing that really gets me going; so what if I person doesn't have the same financial...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    OMG! I think this is so funny! I feel totally justified in not being nice to this person who barged in on >my< whiteboard! faiz2001me said: add me please 1 day ago Reply by katnipkitkat Oct 14th, 2012 at 1:50AM Why? Reply by faiz2001me Oct 14th, 2012 at 1:51AM to f...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Flirting is done in multiple ways. It can be displayed in a number of instance, by admiration, or by blunt verbal statements. I think my thing is when I try to be nice to women...
    babyboy1245 babyboy1245 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    And Ive learned to love it :) I seldom see many people be nice anymore and it kinda breaks my heart.. I already suffer a bit deep down inside so it just doesn't fit in my head to...
    KaramelHearts KaramelHearts 18-21, F Apr 7

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    It's hard for me not to hold grudges and talk badly about people but I am trying. I am so driven by anger but I'd like to know the peace of letting go and forgiving others, even...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F Apr 7

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    But nobody thinks I am I just want to sit alone for the rest of my life with just my bands...
    bandssavedme bandssavedme 13-15, F Apr 9

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    Since I'm not what people stereotype me to be, I often feel as though I bother them by simply existing. One of my many corks is that I always feel like I'm in someone's way. I...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I'm a genuinely nice person. I use my manners, I'm friendly, I hold doors open for everyone (even grown men), and people usually like me. I'm not a goody two shoes, or a teachers...
    genegeek16 genegeek16 13-15, F Apr 10

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    Anyone else ever get tiered of be the only nice person? I am tiered of livening in a world were competition drives all things making us unpleasant, non cooperative, and un nice.
    serhaw serhaw 26-30, M Apr 13

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    I always believe personality is so much more important compared to looks. Image doesn't last forever but personality does. Everyone likes a great hearted person whether ugly or...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    For weeks or rather months I've got so many problems in My life got bullied, left alone, was held outside from everyone and problems at home. There were always one person who...
    TheOutsidersPower TheOutsidersPower 13-15, M Apr 5

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    Good friends are like stars you do not always see them but you know that they are always there.....
    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    All the guys I dated I always thought were nice and the good kind. I meet men that were into church, good with their families, polite, respectful, and sweet. These men went out...
    brownbluelips26 brownbluelips26 18-21, F Apr 14

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    How do you annoy an old person? Like to throw a dictator? This Team Leader of our small company is a big pain in the ***, he is really arrogant, bigheaded, perfectionist, rude and...
    trishhh04 trishhh04 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm always confused as to why some people find me attractive! While I appreciate it, I can't help but wonder, y'know? I'm not the best looking person in the world ;/////; but it's...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm always told that I am too damn nice. When things bother me about other people I tend to just let it be with the thought that things will get better in time. I must stop letting...
    WasteYouthWithMe WasteYouthWithMe 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    My ex and I have been together two different times. The first time lasted 3 months and then 6 months later we ended up together again for a year. It's been a little over two months...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F Apr 12

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    It's no mystery, I've always been like this but I'm used to it. I have no desire to be around people who are always happy. I don't feel that way and I never will. However I do have...
    blessedstate blessedstate 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Being a decent person.. hmm what does it take to be a decent person?. I am certainly someone who has done things classed as bad or well.. not good anyway!. I think being a decent...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ever since I was little, I've always felt like I didn't fit in. No matter how nice I am or how hard I try, it's never enough. I always think I have friends but I never actually...
    RoniXOX RoniXOX 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    It seems like such a hard thing to find... just a nice guy who treats a girl right. The problem is when I do find it they have some of the following problems : A nice guy who is...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    Slight rant, This is an incredible long topic that I'll try to sum up in a mater of paraphrases but I may miss a few sub things that **** me off. Firstly, the whole definition...
    ballorromeo1 ballorromeo1 16-17, M Mar 31

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    Well of course i'd be shocked. I mean i'm a bit insecure and i have low self esteem. Honestly, i'm only shocked when an attractive person (guy) thinks i'm good looking. Mostly ugly...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Starting at a young age I felt alone, empty, and misunderstood. It was such a normal feeling I almost didn't realize it wasn't "normal". What was wrong with me? ADD? Depression...
    certzjbd23 certzjbd23 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I always thought that i was a normal person but i have found out that i am not. I convinced myself of that not because I got enough smart to know it but because sooner or later...
    Verrycocktail Verrycocktail 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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