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I Am Not Always Nice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 175 People

    Sometimes It's Hard

    I am a very giving, friendly, and overall nice person. I do my best to make everyone smile and treat people great even if they are not the same to me. I feel like people just expect that from me because I am rarely in a bad mood. I recently have had some tough stuff to deal with...
    bootzy87 bootzy87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    I figure it's hard to be evil to people being nice to you... So I'm always nice first :)
    davidlee2014 davidlee2014 16-17, M Oct 4

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    I do love singing it helps me to express my feelings and although I don't do it to get praise it is always nice when people say they enjoy hearing me sing. I have never had any...
    00flyaway 00flyaway 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I always try to be nice to people , though it's difficult when they are beyond negative . People keep putting me down or going on and on about how they'll never be loved or how...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I know this for a fact because I am one. I always put others first and I'm always kind, compassionate, loyal, honest, loving and caring! I would never intentionally hurt anyone...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I meet a very nice person today. Someone who was able to talk to me, enjoy debating views and ideas. Sharing interests. I really liked talking to them. The person was very real...
    handsomeaquarist handsomeaquarist 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    Trying to be nice, something I always put forth but some people don't appreciate it and take advantage of it. Since day one, they've been taking advantage of it and have been...
    GeneralError GeneralError 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Everywhere you go, people are complaining, back biting, talking about someone where they seem oblivious to their own flaws.. a healthy self awareness can keep you humble ... as...
    SimplyAmorous SimplyAmorous 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I truly do believe in treating others like I want to be treated. So, so long as someone is nice to me I will always be nice to them.
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T Oct 11

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    I'd like to imagine I am a nice person... I always try to help others and care for them, I just wish some of the people were nice to me back.
    Rations Rations 18-21, F Sep 20

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    In relationships, I've been told I'm too nice. It makes me boring. I have days when I'm crabby just like anybody else, but apparently I don't ***** enough or something. Always the...
    niklb niklb 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 3

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    I'm this type of person to always look at the good side of everything. We all do that thing, right? Since I am like that, it's easier to find nice guys since you can comprehend...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    You go through your phone to call someone. No answer. You call someone else. It goes to their voice mail. You leave a message. They don't call back. You text someone to see how...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    Sometimes I think about how much my life would improve if I became more of a cold hearted b****. I often fantasize about how nice it would be to say "no" more than I did "yes...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    Singing has always been one of my passions. I'm not shy at all and people keeps telling me I'm good at singing but sometimes I think they're just being nice to me.
    Michelleeli01 Michelleeli01 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I can be a sweetie, polite etc. but I can be bitchy when someone ****** me off.. For example, someone talked sh!t about my uncle when he's behind the bar, pick on my little sister...
    FebeBab3 FebeBab3 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    It has always been 50, 50 for me XD
    Smexyshannonxo Smexyshannonxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    No matter how hard I try it just seems as though there's always someone better than me. I'm in love with my best friend but I can't make a move. We act like a couple and we're...
    fewersafe fewersafe 16-17, F Sep 30

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    Jake comes in my room to show me shoes dad got him.. I said "Hes home?" Jake said "No." I said "is he on his way?" Jake said "I dont know" I said "Text him when hes gonna be home...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F Oct 5

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    im so nice i always get taken advantage of. I need to tell people to **** off more often.
    MoragaroM MoragaroM 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    Is there ever such a thing as "too nice"? If there is then I am probably the epitome of that sentence. I like everyone and I never judge, I take people as I meet them. I...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M Oct 10

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    I try to be nice to everyone. Even if they get mad at me and start going all "Crazy psycho person" on me. I try to keep the conversation classy even if they throw swear words at me...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    Sometimes I hate that I'm too nice. I sometimes find it hard to say no to people. Especially when people at work ask me to cover for them all the time. I'd like to have a day off...
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Someone I spoke to on the phone said so. So nice, however my mother disagrees and says it is childish. Plain nasty I should say, there is always the better way of saying things...
    T3chmupp3t T3chmupp3t 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Even though I hate the human race I will always be nice to people. I have no problem with public speaking and will look at everyone as if I talk to them alone. I am not afraid to...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    It's so hard to find s very nice people now a days . I guess not today :D !!! I been hanging out with this girl about 1 month and 4 days . When I'm with her in my head it's my...
    BomerMan BomerMan 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Always. I always try to maintain peace and calm. That is my motto. Obviously depending on the situation, I must be hard and unforgiving on some, but I will never be intentionally...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M Oct 4

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    Whenever I'm not smiling people always think I'm sad or mad when in reality in just chilling and the nicest person you will ever meet. I don't see why I would walk around smiling...
    Kmillr Kmillr 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Today I was at my kids field trip to the fire department and I always seemed to find myself alone, and I would just want to leave and not communicate with anyone even though I have...
    Tiffany772 Tiffany772 31-35 1 Response Sep 30

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    It can be very risky, even harmful in "Always trying to see the good in people." But so worth it! If I discover that a certain person isn't worth the thought.... I say... "Tell...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a nice guy, but I really don't get anything in return. I try to please everybody, but it gets nowhere sometimes. I didn't think it was such a bad thing to be nice, but I'm...
    HisDaysAreNumbered HisDaysAreNumbered 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I'm nice if you're nice. I am totally not nice if you're a complete *******.
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Honestly I don't know why anyone would not want to be nice. It makes other people feel happy around you but making yourself happy also. I adore helping people all around me, I love...
    AndyL567 AndyL567 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yesterday evening. Mask ball. People were fun and were dancing but i was just sitting there, doing nothing. I was afraid of inviting anyone to dance. Felt i am not a good enough...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M Sep 20

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    No hidden agendas with me. I am not what you would describe as an exciting, cool and confident woman but I am genuine, kind and loving. I do my best to be a good person and to be...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Sep 20

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    Last couple of months I stopped shaving and grew all the body hair back. Not really on purpose, but there was a lot going on and it fell by the way side... This weekend I got the...
    Aussiemerk Aussiemerk 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 20

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    Not so much for singing, but just as a speaking voice. I recently began announcing for my teenage son's high school marching band. I was a little nervous at first, but now I get...
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    I can be nice, only if your nice to me... But I'm usually a ***** to most ppl 😂 if your offended pls don't take me seriously! Coz I'm probably just joking 😊
    XXburnttoastXX XXburnttoastXX 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Always keep it completely smooth for when my GF is grinding on top. Feels so much better and it looks loads better too
    Dazzer2K Dazzer2K 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I'm not saying you have to be "Mr.Nice" but open a door, carry a bag/book/coffee/etc. Be helpful. Chivalry is not dead but he's definitely ill. Revive him.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Sep 24

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    There is nothing that turns me on more than a perfect gentleman. The nice guy defeats the arrogant a$$hole hands down in every situation.
    bossvixen bossvixen 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    It's a hard thing to do improving yourself. I try to be a very open minded person. I think that's why I'm easy to get along with most of the time. I do have my faults though. I'm...
    Plungeintoadream Plungeintoadream 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27

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    Only if your a ***** and I have a reason but me and my friend Hannah do it to each other anyway, not because we push each other's buttons but she always tickles me in PE and...
    Smexyshannonxo Smexyshannonxo 13-15, F Sep 28

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    well, I'm so heart broken, idk why some people keep saying lies and bullshits on here, i was about to leave, but i still see some people here who makes the staying motivation in me...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    I'm nice, don't get me wrong - but I'm nicer to strangers than family and close friends. In that way, envy, impatience, and estrangement are acts of love.  
    bluetiful bluetiful 22-25, M Oct 3

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    Make that "love nice people." People that have a nice personality is what I mean by that :) it doesn't matter what you look like physically as long as you have a great personality...
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17 3 Responses Oct 8

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    A girl I was dating in high school told me that I was a gentleman. That's something I'll always be proud of being.
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 8