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I Am Not Always Nice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 176 People

    Sometimes It's Hard

    I am a very giving, friendly, and overall nice person. I do my best to make everyone smile and treat people great even if they are not the same to me. I feel like people just expect that from me because I am rarely in a bad mood. I recently have had some tough stuff to deal with...
    bootzy87 bootzy87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    Trying to be nice, something I always put forth but some people don't appreciate it and take advantage of it. Since day one, they've been taking advantage of it and have been...
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    I truly do believe in treating others like I want to be treated. So, so long as someone is nice to me I will always be nice to them.
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    In relationships, I've been told I'm too nice. It makes me boring. I have days when I'm crabby just like anybody else, but apparently I don't ***** enough or something. Always the...
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    I'm this type of person to always look at the good side of everything. We all do that thing, right? Since I am like that, it's easier to find nice guys since you can comprehend...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    I always try to be nice to people , though it's difficult when they are beyond negative . People keep putting me down or going on and on about how they'll never be loved or how...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 20

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    im so nice i always get taken advantage of. I need to tell people to **** off more often.
    MoragaroM MoragaroM 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    Is there ever such a thing as "too nice"? If there is then I am probably the epitome of that sentence. I like everyone and I never judge, I take people as I meet them. I...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M Oct 10

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    I try to be nice to everyone. Even if they get mad at me and start going all "Crazy psycho person" on me. I try to keep the conversation classy even if they throw swear words at me...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    Sometimes I hate that I'm too nice. I sometimes find it hard to say no to people. Especially when people at work ask me to cover for them all the time. I'd like to have a day off...
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Someone I spoke to on the phone said so. So nice, however my mother disagrees and says it is childish. Plain nasty I should say, there is always the better way of saying things...
    T3chmupp3t T3chmupp3t 18-21, M Oct 14

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    Even though I hate the human race I will always be nice to people. I have no problem with public speaking and will look at everyone as if I talk to them alone. I am not afraid to...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Oct 15

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    It's so hard to find s very nice people now a days . I guess not today :D !!! I been hanging out with this girl about 1 month and 4 days . When I'm with her in my head it's my...
    BomerMan BomerMan 16-17, M Oct 16

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    you know what i realllly hate , people who think that i say bad stuff about myself to attract attention ,, well ,, to those people ,, I AM FREAKIN NOT !!!! i DO believe that i am...
    TitiChocolate TitiChocolate 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 23

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    Yep it's true, I have a nice butt. And my *** loves attention lol. It hasn't always been like this tho. Growing up I had no ***, I was pretty much straight up n down, the 'skinny...
    BambiPie BambiPie 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Except I don't finish last. I finish first. Every single time. Not because I always get the girl and not because the universe sees my good deeds and gives me breaks by any means...
    arm201 arm201 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    life's better this way, it's not even that you have to "try be nice", just chill and be cool with everyone:) no point hating people
    camb1zzle camb1zzle 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I find this very weird in a way. The ones that say they like my voice, are constantly asking me to repeat what I said cause I have a soft voice. I'm not shy at all, but I also don...
    Eyedontgiveahoot Eyedontgiveahoot 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Nice guys always finish last :'/ sad but true
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    Always. I always try to maintain peace and calm. That is my motto. Obviously depending on the situation, I must be hard and unforgiving on some, but I will never be intentionally...
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    I know this for a fact because I am one. I always put others first and I'm always kind, compassionate, loyal, honest, loving and caring! I would never intentionally hurt anyone...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 20

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    Although I appear to be a nice person, normal to most, deep down I was timid, sensitive, and passive. I was never a loud, outrageous person, so my quietness was always mistaken for...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'll be nicer when you treat me with respect, and not as a maid! I'll be nicer when you are smart enough to know that I am the one who has been keeping your secrets from others...
    Nina221286 Nina221286 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    It can be very risky, even harmful in "Always trying to see the good in people." But so worth it! If I discover that a certain person isn't worth the thought.... I say... "Tell...
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    No matter what am always putting my friends first I am a pleaser... Too much of a nice person ... Do get **** in the end ... :( sad part
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    I'm a nice guy, but I really don't get anything in return. I try to please everybody, but it gets nowhere sometimes. I didn't think it was such a bad thing to be nice, but I'm...
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    I'm nice if you're nice. I am totally not nice if you're a complete *******.
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    Honestly I don't know why anyone would not want to be nice. It makes other people feel happy around you but making yourself happy also. I adore helping people all around me, I love...
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    I honestly believe that there are nice guys that still exist just as there are nice girls that still exist. My friend falls in the category of a "nice guy" but he just has to get...
    iCas92 iCas92 22-25, F Oct 21

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    Surprise! I can too! OK, what constitutes a nice bra? Does it have to have a very sexy look with sheer embroidered cups? I 'm a 48C due to gynecomastia. As a man, I want fit and...
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    I am nice people who nice to me
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    Make that "love nice people." People that have a nice personality is what I mean by that :) it doesn't matter what you look like physically as long as you have a great personality...
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    So I suppose I would just like to see if there others out there who feel similarly or can understand because there are very few around me who do and it makes me doubtful of my...
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