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I Am Not Always Nice

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    Sometimes It's Hard - I am a very giving, friendly, and overall nice person. I do my best to make everyone smile and treat people great even if they are not the same to me. I feel...
    bootzy87 bootzy87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    Since I'm not what people stereotype me to be, I often feel as though I bother them by simply existing. One of my many corks is that I always feel like I'm in someone's way. I...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 4

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    All the guys I dated I always thought were nice and the good kind. I meet men that were into church, good with their families, polite, respectful, and sweet. These men went out...
    brownbluelips26 brownbluelips26 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    My walls are always up but sometimes people manage to break them down with their nice words and sweetness. They see i have a nice heart and play with my kindness. They treat my...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    The term "Nice guys finish last" seems to be true in terms of relationships or trying to start one. I see many girls who say they want a "Nice guy" but in the end, I always see...
    TylerBlake94 TylerBlake94 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm always told that I am too damn nice. When things bother me about other people I tend to just let it be with the thought that things will get better in time. I must stop letting...
    WasteYouthWithMe WasteYouthWithMe 18-21, F Mar 28

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    And I believe you too :) Just imagine, you are travelling to a new place and all you want to search for is experience. So instead of causing people some trouble, I chose...
    Jarlie96 Jarlie96 18-21, F Apr 3

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    take a look at yourself and realise that you're not actually broken. You are strong. You are beautiful. You are sweet, kind and caring. You have such a big heart and you love with...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M 10 hrs ago

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    take a look at yourself and realise that you're not actually broken. You are strong. You are beautiful. You are sweet, kind and caring. You have such a big heart and you love with...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M 10 hrs ago

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    I always say im fine but now im in the mood where idgaf
    carlos19cv carlos19cv 18-21, M 10 hrs ago

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    I've always been that way. I have a hard time taking that compliment. I don't see what other people see.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Tribute to The Red Hot Chilli Peppers. I still keep some close friends from my school days. 2 boys where always really nice to me and they are very talented too. Musically...
    RedPeppers RedPeppers 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I grew up with an older half-sister. We were somewhat close when we were kids, but do not communicate at all anymore. Have tried to reconnect with her, but the feelings aren't...
    Bryan67 Bryan67 46-50, M Mar 23

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    My friends always advise me to be a jerk to just 'take what i want from girls' and leave. I tried it once and i didn't feel good about myself. So i'll just stay the nice guy even...
    Doove Doove 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm always confused as to why some people find me attractive! While I appreciate it, I can't help but wonder, y'know? I'm not the best looking person in the world ;/////; but it's...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It seems like such a hard thing to find... just a nice guy who treats a girl right. The problem is when I do find it they have some of the following problems : A nice guy who is...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    Slight rant, This is an incredible long topic that I'll try to sum up in a mater of paraphrases but I may miss a few sub things that **** me off. Firstly, the whole definition...
    ballorromeo1 ballorromeo1 16-17, M Mar 31

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    when people meet me, they always have it in their minds that I'm very sweet and innocent. I guess it's because I'm quiet and I have a very serene appearance. I don't like it when...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 20

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    My teachers and friends often say that i have nice voice. They always ask me to sing. Well, I think i got this singing talent genetically. My grandma, father, uncle are great...
    Skpan80 Skpan80 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Well of course i'd be shocked. I mean i'm a bit insecure and i have low self esteem. Honestly, i'm only shocked when an attractive person (guy) thinks i'm good looking. Mostly ugly...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm a genuinely nice person. I use my manners, I'm friendly, I hold doors open for everyone (even grown men), and people usually like me. I'm not a goody two shoes, or a teachers...
    genegeek16 genegeek16 13-15, F a week ago

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    My ex and I have been together two different times. The first time lasted 3 months and then 6 months later we ended up together again for a year. It's been a little over two months...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I always feel so awkward when I think how long it's been. 4 years since Xfactor and now I am here. I never thought I'd get 3 positives from the judges. It's so surreal. And when I...
    HarryEStyles HarryEStyles 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    So I been crushin in this sweet darlin who looks at me with stars in her eyes. We have a great time hangin out and I bring her trinkets and chocolates and all sorts of sweet nice...
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    People seem to feel the need to tell me just how nice my voice is, not just the way i speak but also the tone it's amazing how many people i have spoken to go on about maybe i...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Flirting is done in multiple ways. It can be displayed in a number of instance, by admiration, or by blunt verbal statements. I think my thing is when I try to be nice to women...
    babyboy1245 babyboy1245 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    but then it always end up to be sarcastic.. Duh. at least I tried
    bubblyeater bubblyeater 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    In all of the relationships I've been in, I'm the one that gets leaned on when there's stressful times. I have to always be Superman, saving Lois Lane. But when its me having a...
    skinsfan69 skinsfan69 31-35, M Mar 25

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    I get asked why I'm so quiet at school but I was always told "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." So there's your answer to why I'm so quiet.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I mean, I guess not so much anymore now that I've found someone cx But before I met my guy, man, my crush would change like every couple of months or so. I'd just always find...
    TotallyWoW TotallyWoW 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    MANNERS It doesn't cost anything or hurt to say please and thank you… so why doesn't everyone have manners and say please/ thank you? I always say please and thank you as I...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F Apr 10

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    Matching underwear always looks so beautiful and elegant. A nice coordinated bra and knickers is a delightful sight :) I am off out to celebrate tonight and under my dress there...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Well ehm I'm a bit shy and yes I'm nice and all when you get to know me but if I just met you and you say something that will upset me I will give you chances to stop well I don't...
    smilelover smilelover 13-15, F Mar 21

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    I don't think i have a good voice and i crack up a lot, but a few people i know say i have a nice voice. From singing nice and soft music to having that nice soothing voice that...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Hi! What I was expecting I got it :) I went to a really nice vacation with my husband and my kid.. I shopped for it a week ago.. We went to Coorg, Ooty, and then to Tirupati.. I...
    shlproy123 shlproy123 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I've decided I'm not being nice any longer. Not only is it a waste of money, but also a waste of effort. For me to be so much younger, and kinder, than most people.. such a waste...
    majesticmaddy majesticmaddy 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today was nice and warm and pretty here, it was in 63 today after church, We came home fix lunch and we eaten outside and play a few game , and now it began to get dark here, I...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I had a girlfriend who I did everything for. we dated for a year until she told me I was "too nice" and didn't want a boyfriend. I don't get it. you're too nice, it's bad. you're...
    durstm94 durstm94 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Mrs Franks... My teacher. Last Friday I came to her class. She said "I put you way in the back away from everyone" I thought... Well that's nice. But I dont really like you.. At...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31

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    Ya, I been told I have a nice phone voice and a nice singing voice but I hate talking on the phone so I guess I will try to excel with my singing voice
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 31

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    It's a beautiful day! Nice an warm an a nice cool breeze.
    Firefighter654 Firefighter654 16-17, M Apr 1

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    I'm really nice to others and even help others with their problems. I spend my time on EP to to help others make them feel special and some I become their big brother or little...
    GuardianWarrior245 GuardianWarrior245 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Anyone else ever get tiered of be the only nice person? I am tiered of livening in a world were competition drives all things making us unpleasant, non cooperative, and un nice.
    serhaw serhaw 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I have quite often been told my voice is a nice one to listen to. I am told it's relaxing, and often quite posh, although I really don't see it. Once, within one day, I was told...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    A nice hot shower helps me collect myself, whether I have something stressful in my life or something I'm way to excited about. The beauty of water, gotta love it!
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I don't even know where to start, I just wish I could just stop thinking about my future assuming I even have one. I stay thinking about what I'm going to do with my life and what...
    Unlucky242 Unlucky242 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Today me and a bunch of friends were talking, and i said i had to go to the mall to get new clothes so i could start looking good, and one of the guys said " Well i think you're...
    MsLouise MsLouise 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Window seat's the best. I get to watch the world go by. No worries just looking. I love looking at trees most of all. The unique turns of their branches, the way they overlap and...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Mar 29

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    Honestly no one aside from family had ever told me that until I was about 18. I'd been holla'd at by guys in cars, but that's not the same at all. I was a weird kid. Not...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    So I guess I'm not good enough to have feelings for no matter how nice I am, how attractive I am or how sexy I am... why don't you just rip my heart out again and stomp on it some...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm deleting this account, it's just not for me it's nice that all of you guys want to help out and hear other people's problems but that's not me and everyone thinks it is me. I...
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