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I Am Not Always Nice

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    Sometimes It's Hard

    I am a very giving, friendly, and overall nice person. I do my best to make everyone smile and treat people great even if they are not the same to me. I feel like people just expect that from me because I am rarely in a bad mood. I recently have had some tough stuff to deal with...
    bootzy87 bootzy87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    So to some people, ill always be an ******** and they'll always be dumb. Dont get me wrong, im nice to nice dumb people. But the dumb dickheads, I will happily destroy.
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    hard to think of being nice without thinking about patrick swayze in roadhouse. be nice, no matter what be nice, until it's time to not be nice, lol
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's nice to be nice to the nice
    rubysmom rubysmom 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Men always complain about nice guys losing out to a$$holes, well..nice women lose out to b*tches just as much. I think with both sexes we suffer from "superhero complex", where we...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 4

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    Nice Is Kind. Kindness Works! Nice Is Kind. Kindness Works!
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I always let people walk over me or I give people way too many chances. Most of the time I don't tell people how I feel because I don't want to hurt their feelings or make them sad...
    Starkillera Starkillera 22-25, F Jul 22

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    Of course I try to be nice to everyone, but I honestly think it's a mutual thing. If you respect me and are kind to me, I'll gladly do the same with you. If you treat me like a dog...
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I try being nice to people that absolutely hate me & have called me a ***** even though I had said nothing to them or interacted with them. I am proud of myself in a way though...
    kennalynn67 kennalynn67 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I wish I could "me too" this but its very hard for me to always be nice.
    bigbacon12 bigbacon12 26-30, M Aug 5

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    YUP!! I took a break and lived with a very clean nerdy nice guy mechanical engineer. My heart felt rather kaput. But I left him (nice guy really did finish last because he stalled...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I am too nice that is why I always get hurt!
    scarlet35holloway scarlet35holloway 16-17, F Aug 10

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    Its so hard to be nice, to someone who treats you badly!
    scarlet35holloway scarlet35holloway 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There's nothing like a nice hot shower get all soapy and clean and then jump into a nice clean fresh bed. It has to be the best feeling outside of sex...
    Wheels64 Wheels64 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So today I need to write about something that makes me laugh. I used to laugh on the inside, however, now I let out a nice audible laugh whenever I hear people tell me it. It...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M Aug 10

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    No. Seriously. I am way too nice. I'm nice to every single person I meet. I'm even nice to the people who have wronged me, and they don't even deserve an ounce of niceness. I've...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F Jul 25

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    I'm terrible. A male student has just started on my ward and I didn't think much of him at first until we walked home together the other day and he took his top off to put a new...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Ohk well more like I have a "woman's voice". I'm not sure if the person meant it or not because at the time they were trying to make my sister upset by saying that she had a little...
    pixiestar100 pixiestar100 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Well my mom always said if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
    marilynnrox marilynnrox 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I love a guy who is nice to me and too others. I hate it when people say 'nice guys finish last'. I love a guy who is nice but can also stick up for himself and not be pushed...
    Shizuka000 Shizuka000 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I always wanted a big family... Everybody in my family have up to 8to 9 kids.... When I graduate from college I want to get married in have a nice career And I plan on have 6 kids
    Purplequeen21 Purplequeen21 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This time, Chailly's stading at the rear of Pereira. Lissner is not -- the current intendant does not Perform nicely with Pereira and will likely be absent from your press...
    Mary1062y Mary1062y 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I know they do, all women ever say is 'oh i want a nice guy' what they REALLY mean is 'so i can make hi my friend while i go for ******** and then ***** about them to him' Or "so i...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Nice guys do really finish last the only ones that get girls are asshloes, players, jerks. I mean I'm a nice guys and nice guys never get girlfriends unless it's a miracle
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    if your nice to me I'll be nice to you
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have come to realize that I am too nice which is not a bad thing. But, when people hurt you and not have enough respect for you because you are too nice then it starts to work...
    ConfidentSpeaker ConfidentSpeaker 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    ya know, I love nice people. I got done work and ran to the store to get some stuff and the sunset was beautiful so I paused and took a picture. A guy saw me and smiled and held...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F Jul 24

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    I have been told I have a nice voice, I was walking about the town with my mum and I guess my mum had known this woman, I said "How do you do, I'm Maryah." And she then said "You...
    Maryahsings Maryahsings 16-17, F Jul 24

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    I'm always up late and nobody decent is up late either
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Jul 27

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    People have asked me why I'm so nice to people who have been mean to me. Honestly I'm nice to people because in cases they're hurting inside and want others to feel their pain...
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M Jul 28

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    I've been told this many times but u don't like it I've always wanted jet black hair think ill just die it when I'm older so I don't ruin my hair
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F Jul 28

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    I'm with you. In many situations I had to be the one who initiated conversations and keep them going. This is an exhausting task since I'm a listener not a talker. And most times I...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    That's what I've been most complimented on. I used to work at a call center and customers I'd talk to would say stuff like "you have wonderful diction and speak so clearly." Or the...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M Jul 28

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    Just little things like making a video with my best friend, I went downstairs to grab something and left her to talk to the camera. When I watched the video later on that day, she...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F Jul 28

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    I am gay and I am so shy it is unreal. I'm too scared to date anyone... Heh like I could get anyone. I'd love to meet a nice guy who I could share stuff with and be my complete...
    holyflapjacks holyflapjacks 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    God would be nice to have a girlfriend like that. When I'm having my days she comforts me like a memory foam pillow and I comfort her just the same when she needs it....
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M Jul 28

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    A nice hot shower and a night cap - is just lovely.. feeling refreshed and relaxed!
    Jaidori Jaidori 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I tip 15% almost all the time. You treat me.nice I tip 25% if the service is great and higher if you are outstanding
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I am in search for a nice guy. Not somebody to be with, but just somebody to talk to. As a friend. Im married, and i just need someone to text to get me going again. Make me happy...
    mirandatinsley mirandatinsley 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I had a panic attack today, while planning the wedding with my mom and sister, my sister brought my nephews and in the middle of them destroying my living room I started gathering...
    Baileykayw2 Baileykayw2 22-25, F Aug 7

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    You know that feeling when you just like to say F it but there's that something or someone that pushes you either way. You're sitting there with the fence between your legs and you...
    JimD911 JimD911 36-40, M Aug 7

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    Yeah, I'm usually like this person is just being nice.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Today I realized that I'm too nice. Like I knew that I was a super nice person, but now I see that it is a true weakness. This makes me really, really sad and angry. I didn't know...
    RoyalTeee RoyalTeee 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Generous, Ungenerous In Return I'm generous to everyone, but I think I'm too generous because I always get ****** over or something goes wrong.
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I hate always finishing last and being used I guess it's my own fault cuz I can't say no or be mean I can be honest but I can't be the complete jerk who takes advantage of whoever...
    Waqasauce01 Waqasauce01 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yes I get really hyper when I'm bored and then I start coming out with some crazy **** lol and doing crazy stupid stuff .I have always been a hyper person I was constantly getting...
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You can get a nice juicy fine in my state and I don't want to give the state any more of my money than I have too. Strange how some folks love giving up their hard earned money...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 1 day ago