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I Am Not Always Nice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 174 People

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    I am a very giving, friendly, and overall nice person. I do my best to make everyone smile and treat people great even if they are not the same to me. I feel like people just expect that from me because I am rarely in a bad mood. I recently have had some tough stuff to deal with...
    bootzy87 bootzy87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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