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I Am Not Appreciated

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    Always Wrong

    I feel like Im always at the wrong side coz my boyfriend tells me so. In everything I do, he gets mad at me.
    1 Response Jan 30, 2013

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    WHY?

    I spend time with my bro, even sometimes when I don't feel like it, but feel he needs it. Sometimes, I know he needs it. He doesn't spend much time out of the house, and well, I don't either, but we live in different house holds. I don't mind the loneliness most days, but he, on...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2007

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    What Do I Look Like, a Ready-teller?!?!?!?!

    All my life, I've busted my butt to live somewhat comfartably. I've never paid a bill late, or even returned a library book late for that matter. I don't live a lavish lifestyle by ANY means, I didn't own a car until I was 25, and since winter where I live hits 60 below zero with...
    suzer suzer 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    It hurts not to be appreciated by someone

    who you love so much. It hurts to see him appreciate other girls while he can't even have the time to see how worthy I am. I know what to do but I don't know how. All i know is that... it hurts. Big time.
    dramacloset dramacloset 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I Was Not There For You Only 1 Time...

    I am so mad.... and feel so  not appreciated.... I have a friend who lives far from me, so we mostly talk on the phone, and meet once or twice a year. Last year she was having serious depression and panic attacks. So she would call me and we would talk for hours, I...
    amy2gr amy2gr 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    Just Wane Cry

    wana run away and disapear nobody will mis me
    kittycatneedslove kittycatneedslove 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2011

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    I Sometimes Wonder...

    I often find it difficult to connect with people online. The only reason I am on the internet so much is because there are no social opportunities for me on this damn island where I live. I have tried several dating websites, social networking such as Myspace, Facebook, etc. and...
    monsterdog81 monsterdog81 31-35, M Nov 17, 2010

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    They Only See What I'M Not Doing....

    I'm know I'm not appreciated by the people I should be, but I'm not taking it any longer. I just have to say when it comes to women and my choices in them, I seem to always find the ones that never notice all of the little things I do for them, but they look at all of the things...
    needinmore needinmore 41-45 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    I feel like I am completely unappreciated.

    Time to vent. So I'm in the military, I work every day all day. The only thing I expect my wife to do is keep the house clean, no job expected. Well I am the stepfather of her three children, I have never gotten a thank you for taking on the challenge of being a stepfather...
    CorneliusJosephulaya CorneliusJosephulaya 26-30, M Jan 20

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    Doesn't Matter What I Do

    whatever it is always gets looked over. I never get a thank you, right off the bat I go straight into an argument. I never hear "Thank you so much for thinking about me and making sure I stick to everything I need to be doing to better my life" I always hear "wait so I dont get...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Just Want To Feel Appreciated

    I hate it when I am the only person to do EVERYTHING around the house when the other 4 members of the family are capable of taking care of themselves! The thing is, I don't mind doing it, but it's the feeling of being taken for granted that gets me mad! There are no "thank yous...
    earthboundangel earthboundangel 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Am I Allowed To Have Any Thing

    im staing with my inlaws, have to go to interview tomorow nobody wants to take me, so no matter what i must stay unhappy. when I cry nobody brings comford. im not allowed a pet or a decent job or even just a bit of love, veels like nobody cares
    kittycatneedslove kittycatneedslove 22-25, F Jan 25, 2011

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    One Girl's Rant

    I do so much for my family, and yet I feel as if I'm overlooked and even ignored, at times. I cook, I clean, I wash our stupid dog... Everything. Even when I'm so bloody sick I feel like the living dead, I've still got that rag in my hand and I'm cleaning up after someone else...
    MortCheval MortCheval 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    By Others.

    But I am appreciated by the Lord, because I know He appreciates me by His finished work at the cross, and what He does for me every moment. He is the Lord of my life. I appreciate His influence upon me. He's the only one I can feel love from. He's the only one I can trust. And...
    DustToAshes DustToAshes 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    Unappreciated

    My fiance is getting on my last nerve!  He was actually living with a family member and since we moved here, we rented a house.  He doesn't do ANYTHING except go to work and maybe twice a week take off the garbage.  It seems that he expects me to do everything...
    CancerCutie CancerCutie 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2007

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