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I Am Not As Fun As People Think I Am

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    Too Many People Look to Me to Make Them Feel Better About Themselves

    and the end result is that I feel oppressed, overwhelmed, and wholly inadequate.  I, like 98.9% of the world (arbitrary, made-up statistic), feel chronically insecure about something, and I like to think I'm sensitive to others needs/feelings.  However- what I end up...
    CagedKitty CagedKitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    Not As Fun

    Me fun?  LOL ... I have said it before, I am booooring.  Sometimes, it can happen I will be a little fun or funny but its not something I do or am on a constant basis.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2011

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F Dec 16, 2009

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    Why can't I just carry my own thoughts? ******* spare me other people's.
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