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I Am Not As Fun As People Think I Am

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    Not As Fun

    Me fun?  LOL ... I have said it before, I am booooring.  Sometimes, it can happen I will be a little fun or funny but its not something I do or am on a constant basis.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2011

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    Too Many People Look to Me to Make Them Feel Better About Themselves

    and the end result is that I feel oppressed, overwhelmed, and wholly inadequate.  I, like 98.9% of the world (arbitrary, made-up statistic), feel chronically insecure about something, and I like to think I'm sensitive to others needs/feelings.  However- what I end up...
    CagedKitty CagedKitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F Dec 16, 2009

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    i really do ,i think its very sad here that some funny people here see other funny people as competition and are therefore mean and offish towards them .....why can't we all just...
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    At school I know everyone sees me like the good innocent harmless girl. I thought I was that girl as well. I thought I had to be that girl, you know, just like the others from my...
    Claire212 Claire212 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I tend to surround myself around funny people, I don't like stuck up or boring people.
    pricilagudi pricilagudi 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been told that it is none of my business what people think of me, but I have this burning desire to know how I am viewed by the people in my life. Positive or negative, I...
    goldenbeginning goldenbeginning 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm not as smart or in control of my life as people think I am. I mean I have a lot of cool accomplishments that make me seem like I have my life together. I'm only 17 and I've...
    iciwu28 iciwu28 16-17, F Aug 19

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    I'm done caring what other people think or if they like me or not, because no matter what they're still going to have their opinion about me and if it's a negative one I'm not even...
    becarae becarae 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    The trouble is I do get good grades but not because I'm clever, it's because I try. But the worst thing is people think I think that I am smart. I don't think I'm smart at all. I'm...
    Emzi001 Emzi001 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I was homeschooled, sure, but I didn't grow up in a barn. I know a LOT more about sex and/or taboo matters than most people think. The looks on peoples faces sometimes when I make...
    mhenson144 mhenson144 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    I think it's hilarious when you don't want to talk with someone anymore, they block you. Where they do that at?
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Perhaps it's the way I act or the way I dress. The funny thing is I have many BFFs whom seems to be very pure but already lost their virginity while I'm the one that is real virgin...
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F Aug 30

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    I love nothing more than humor. If someone can make me laugh, we'd be instant friends. I also like trying to make others laugh as well. The negativity that circles around someone...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    i dont know ... all my life i have been alone ... i like being on my own ... crowds and people make me uncomfortable .. its not because i'm shy or i dont know how to stand up for...
    curiousmoi curiousmoi 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It get on my nerves when people call me a crack baby and act condescending towards me like a child. Why do they keep blaming my parents because the way I dress and act differently...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I recently had a fight with a close friend and now she hates me and all the people I knew that knew here hate me now. I am often alone and now my friends who don't even know her...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 16-17 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I grew up where right was wrong and wrong was right. I have no idea if I am smart like people say I am. I mean I make good grades but when I'm alone, I have thoughts saying that I...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Too many people say they have depression. But really they are just sad or lonely. If they had it a Dr. would prescribe them a treatment (like I am on. I have to take an...
    Ravenbrook Ravenbrook 18-21, M Sep 2

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    I'm one of those people that I look like a clean person who has never touched alcohol, cigarettes, or drugs for that matter. That's because even with all 3 off those addictions, I...
    cyanidemaxwell cyanidemaxwell 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Nope :/. I love anything sexual and ********** constantly and love to show people my body and am always having naughty sexual thoughts
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 30

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    Hmm. I thought I was mostly over that. Well, now I know my next step. I was originally supposed to have the weekend off, which is rare, since evidently I'm the only person they...
    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    All I want is a man who can make me laugh every time, Laughter can cure almost anything. make me trust him and be as adventurous as I am. Someone who can skateboard, play guitar...
    callixtine callixtine 18-21, F Aug 26

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    I'm having a bad day at work today and my mood is horrible. Anyone got a good joke to cheer me up?
    Brok3nSoul Brok3nSoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Fluffy, Robin Williams, Chris Rock, etc.
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M Aug 30

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    The weirdo at school that always hugs me and follows me. Lmao ily
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    I could be happy marrying someone like Seth Rogan or Jack Black. If you can crack a smile out of me, or get a genuine gut busting fit of laughter going, I could care less about...
    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F Sep 8

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    Thanks Mom, for the "Fruit of the Loom" granny panties...they sure are sexy.
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Reminder : a degree and high marks is not a measure of intelligence. It is a measure if how well you navigated the system.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I realize it's exhausting and draining and I'm preventing my self from living the life I truly want. I find it very hard to develop thick skin and not be so sensitive on others...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Yep Don't judge me or hurt me Or I will hunt u Down Even if it takes forever When I find u... Lol kidding or am I 😉
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    my face is so calm and kind.no one can imagine what i do when im angry!! im not kind at all.
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Looks cover the inside .. ^^
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    So a while back i went out to eat with a couple of friends i hadnt seen in about a year. And we started talking...anyways as soon as i shares a few expirences they looked at me and...
    Rosatt Rosatt 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    When they see me....I don't particularly care, just curious.
    MsInked511 MsInked511 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I've just taken on a smokin hot 23 ur old as a lover/fwb Why is it the things I'm not supposed to do are the most amazing and hot?!?!?
    Inversion68 Inversion68 46-50, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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                               The recent death by suicide of Robin Williams really hit me pretty hard...
    dannygirl89 dannygirl89 22-25, F Aug 18

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    No, it's not about that we all do some bad things in our lives. I think people in general are naturally evil. All those little things we say affect someone, but most people just...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Whoever made this experience is a total nimrod. First of all... and this is directed to Einstein over here who made this experience, first of all the only thing that has problems...
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    1 year ago: I look at her. She stares right back at me. Who are you? I want to ask, but I already know the answer. Her skinny legs look like twigs as she struts towards me. Her...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 29

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    Over the course of the last few years I have opened my eyes to how this world works and how it doesn't work. I have had my fair share of.struggles to overcome and that kept me...
    njflyer njflyer 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    Some young people think doing wrong is fun and entertaining while adults who do wrong feel embarrassed and disgraced.
    Staycreativesailor Staycreativesailor 13-15, F 6 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    MT. VERNON, TEXAS . ********** SUES LOCAL CHURCH OVER LIGHTNING STRIKE Diamond D's brothel began construction on an expansion of their building to increase their ever-growing...
    Kalena09 Kalena09 51-55, F 1 Response a week ago

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    it is very hard to accept people as who they are because for one thing, there are a lot of different kinds of people in the world. the concept of good and evil varies from...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I just don't care any more, I am exhausted in caring what other people think if me.... I have spent calf my life pleasing people...they want me to be this way and not that way...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    We live in a world full of hate and deceit. Many of us just stand aside and ignore what happens around us. What if, even for just one day, we really stopped to look? How many lives...
    SpecialKind SpecialKind 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 7

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