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I Am Not As Fun As People Think I Am

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 18 People

    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F Dec 16, 2009

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    Too Many People Look to Me to Make Them Feel Better About Themselves

    and the end result is that I feel oppressed, overwhelmed, and wholly inadequate.  I, like 98.9% of the world (arbitrary, made-up statistic), feel chronically insecure about something, and I like to think I'm sensitive to others needs/feelings.  However- what I end up...
    CagedKitty CagedKitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    Not As Fun

    Me fun?  LOL ... I have said it before, I am booooring.  Sometimes, it can happen I will be a little fun or funny but its not something I do or am on a constant basis.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2011

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    If I am not hurting anyone, I don't care what people think about me because they can't see my face. I just wish I felt the same way when talking to people in the flesh.
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    Hate when you want to say something but can't find the words. Especially if you like someone and you know you need to just be friends. So you really can't find the words that...
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M Jan 6

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    I am thinking of you my friend and wishing that you had not felt the need to block me. I always considered you a friend, and I am sorry you feel the way that you do. I just wanted...
    OneClassyLady OneClassyLady 70+, F 4 days ago

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    They say I am innocent, Have they seen my stripes? They say I am intelligent, Have they seen me bribe? They say I am independent, Have they seen me try? They say I am steady...
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    I laugh at everything from stupid jokes to funny things people do
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    Hahahah! Lmao!! He v v v funny!
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F Jan 6

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    though I usually don't get any proof that people are thinking about me but I always assume it.its not the people or the world but its my subconscious mind who is always giving a...
    perfectcancerian perfectcancerian 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Especially now when everyone is so desperate to be correct or calmly detached. I want to just loose my cool and have a good laugh with other people who feel the same!
    glowbugs glowbugs 18-21, F Jan 10

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    I no longer care what others think about me. This is who I am, I am who I am and I will NOT change for anyone. I know I am different than other people. I am in my own world. I...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Jan 15

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    Okay, so I was recently in a relationship with a girl,"Mickey" (nickname). We go to the same high school and she's two years older than me . We stayed together for about two weeks...
    CurvyFrance CurvyFrance 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    i when i do something stupidly silly i will freak out the next day and be like omg how did i do this I will ask myself lot of questions ? how will people will think about me now...
    brooke2001 brooke2001 13-15, F a week ago

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    not at all. nobody's perfect. people see image in you what they want to see. people want you stay happy gorgeous pretty innocent. that's redicurous and imposs i b l e...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    (to be honest) i care way too much about those people i am going to meet again. how do they think about me if i did something stupidly awkward i will rather die than see there...
    brooke2001 brooke2001 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    This one sound like me . I am exhibitionist and like to show off away from home where people doesn't know me. Today I put some naked picture of me with no face on computer in...
    lamihot lamihot 31-35, F 31 Responses Jan 3

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    I don't know I mean I have been told I am pretty and stuff but I think I'm ugly and I just wonder if I am attractive I've also been told I'm curvy but I think I'm fat and I just...
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F Jan 14

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    Everyone I know thinks that I'm little miss innocent and have the perfect marriage that's lasted so long. If only they knew the things that have taken place in my life. My...
    burple70 burple70 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Do they pity the orphan? Do they like the heartless, insecure girl who always picks the wrong man to trust? Do they wonder why I am not bonkers? Do they find me intelligent, or...
    astute99 astute99 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Just want an honest opinion. What do you think in general and what the hair?
    Franco20 Franco20 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I want my heart to be the most beautiful thing about me. I've noticed that too often people work on their outwardly appearance more than their heart. Inner beauty shines through. A...
    Megan2134 Megan2134 18-21, F Jan 8

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    I'm not joking. If people honestly knew what sort of messed up situations I've gotten myself into they'd probably choke on their food.
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 19 Responses Jan 17

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    my mom seems to think that I'm an 'A' student. Normally I would be. I get one 'B' in a class and suddenly she's yelling at me for poor study habits and not handing in my homework...
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    Why do we care so much about what others think about us? We are all imperfect creatures who are all beautiful. Why not just be original? The world is filled with so much wannabes...
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My whole family think I'm strange and weird just because I watch shows like supernatural and doctor who but hey if I like it, it doesn't matter what their opinion is.
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate drama, trying to focus on positive things, laugh keeps fears away
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F Jan 15

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    I lost my virginity when I was fourteen.
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    Hahahahahaha "good girls are bad girls that haven't been caught"
    nocturnalanon99 nocturnalanon99 13-15, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I may come off as an ordinary nerdy guy but I have an addiction to making sex tapes lol and I love to put them on the internet.
    nerdnasty nerdnasty 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Makes me wonder... Like really wonder...
    EmojiGirl EmojiGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    My master had me come into a dark room tonight, he blind folded me and I could feel lots and lots of hands touching me, taking off my clothes off. I then felt things in my hand and...
    lilyandjazz lilyandjazz 31-35, F 14 Responses Jan 5

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    Sometimes I wish I was someone different so my life could be easier. Sometimes I wish most of the things I have been through never happened. But those things make me who I am right...
    laurenanhyi112 laurenanhyi112 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    my whole mind revolves around it. I cant get over it it feels like it eats me away.
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    This is me all the time..........
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    One of the biggest thing on my mind when introduced to girls or just walking around and getting glanced at, could it be I'm just odd looking.
    Chrism404 Chrism404 18-21, M Jan 16

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    Rate me on a scale of 10 please. I find it very difficult to determine if i'm attractive so thats why i'm asking
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    I like the smell of my own farts
    Sadfate Sadfate 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Who wouldn't when they see a girl who can't stand up without falling :p
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Which is why from now on I'm keeping everything inside
    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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