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I Am Not As Fun As People Think I Am

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    Too Many People Look to Me to Make Them Feel Better About Themselves

    and the end result is that I feel oppressed, overwhelmed, and wholly inadequate.  I, like 98.9% of the world (arbitrary, made-up statistic), feel chronically insecure about something, and I like to think I'm sensitive to others needs/feelings.  However- what I end up...
    CagedKitty CagedKitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    Not As Fun

    Me fun?  LOL ... I have said it before, I am booooring.  Sometimes, it can happen I will be a little fun or funny but its not something I do or am on a constant basis.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2011

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F Dec 16, 2009

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    Guess this looks like fun...I know I'm not perfect but it would be nice to see what people think out of 10..
    rainbowstorm rainbowstorm 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    People think i Look hispanic i am actually japanese people think im talkative im very shy they think im smart i am very idiotic people think im cool i think im very weird and...
    Izzy2002 Izzy2002 13-15 3 hrs ago

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    Hmmm can we say understatement. LMAO!
    Honeysuc Honeysuc 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    All my life I've been told I look so innocent and I'm such a good girl.... If they only knew the things I'm into 😈😉
    daddysprincess143 daddysprincess143 18-21, F 15 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Thought this was interesting and I wanted to share my thoughts in a forum where I don't have to worry about what people think. I have been a cross dresser all my life. I often...
    silkydrawers silkydrawers 46-50 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I have identified paranoia and ego in myself, the question is what am I going to do to resolve this issue?
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I went sunbathing today and all the time I battled with thoughts of what the people around me might think about my body. Sometimes I think I'm f**king paranoid :(
    lindamerja lindamerja 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Apparently, I am what most people describe as ... tomboy. I have huge boobs, so I can't exactly identify as androgynous! I can't pretend to be a guy, unless it's ok to be a man...
    girlinwhite girlinwhite 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm just wondering what type of people use this app cause I'm smart and everything but people think I'm Wired as **** but jokes at the same time or is this app of everyone so what...
    omarOG66 omarOG66 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    How innocent are you? =)
    serial009 serial009 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I used to think that I had social anxiety because I thought to myself everyone thinks I'm weird. Then I just realized I just have a really accurate intuition about others...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Everyone I know thinks I'm so innocent, that there so shock when I swear or talk about mature subjects. It's frustrating that I'll soon be 20 but people still think of me as a...
    BriarRose96 BriarRose96 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I wonder what goes through everyone's minds here when they read my stories or look at the groups I'm in. I wonder what first impression I give. Most people see one thing they like...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Love it when I try to ask people for help and they give me options that I can't use... such as; I have been trying to get a job for almost 4 months now but due to medical reasons I...
    MammaWolfie MammaWolfie 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate when everyone assumes just because I don't share every inappropriate thought that comes to my head that I'm some innocent little kid that people think I need to cover my...
    LockedInsideMe LockedInsideMe 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    It's not the dogs fault but are breeding them to be more muscular and aggressive
    sirnatural sirnatural 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    okay.. so this topic has been crossing my mind for ages... should I write about it?.. should I post it?... ah, **** it.. okay I have done things I'm not proud of. I have made...
    shhstayquiet shhstayquiet 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    First post, and its a long one! Sorry!!! I was out at a bar with some friends and coworkers on Friday night. At one point, a few of us were outside talking and one of the guys...
    CitraGalaxy CitraGalaxy 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    sometimes i think people think im too clingy. im shy and reserved unless i like u and we r friends. but then i feel like i bother people and then im afraid im going to push them...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My Teachers Used To Think I'm This Goodie Tooshoes When Behind Them I'm Like A Caged Dog Lol One Of My Teachers Was Surprised That I Just Said Something About Someone's Mom And...
    Jose12234 Jose12234 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I just got into a fight with one of my friends but she thought I was too nice to be capable of something I did....that really pissed me off almost as much as it hurts...ik its...
    stella2b3 stella2b3 13-15, F a week ago

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    I hate this. I really bloody hate this awareness thing. I am just to damn sensitive and it ****** me off when I become worrisome and feel that everybody is paying attention to you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 27

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    A few days ago I found out that a close friend of mine who I've known since I was a child had attempted suicide. She's lucky to be alive. I always thought she was this really...
    VolunteerMouse VolunteerMouse 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I just feel the ignorance or hypocrisy of people around me. If it's ignorance, how am I supposed to prove them wrong? I did everything to try to show the real me and they just won...
    DostoevskyForever DostoevskyForever 18-21, F Jun 25

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    The looks I get when I finally decide to speak... didn't expect it did ya? priceless.
    Aliandras Aliandras 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 24

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    When people try to act innocent and fail epically it bothers me, you think that sex isn't on your mind too when you see someone cute or sexy? Don't ***** about others being more...
    evijoste evijoste 22-25, M Jun 24

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    beacuse em very bad boy its true. or i dont like yo lie. but my face looks like an innocent.
    shairu123 shairu123 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    I like people that stand out by being different, who dare to be different. Some might say weird but a nicer term is eccentric. Most of all, I like people who always remain...
    IronicIgor IronicIgor 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    It sure as hell is not a choice. I just read a lot of judgemental a$$hole comments from people who lack factual knowledge on mood disorders. There is a reason they do cognitive...
    krazeekatie krazeekatie 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    It's freeing not worrying what others think.
    equusrider equusrider 56-60, M Jun 21

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    I wonder what people think when they look at me, I often get dirty looks from people, I get a sense that I'm being discriminated against. Sometimes people will just turn and look...
    didsome didsome 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    People think the anonymity of the internet gives them the right to be rude. I'm tired of haughty elders haunting posts with their holier than thou attitudes. I'm also tired of...
    lolitabrat lolitabrat 18-21, F 15 Responses Jun 21

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    I feel like if I tell people how depressed I am or show how sad I really am, people will think I am an attention seeker. It's not attention i want, it's understanding. Even writing...
    thissworld thissworld 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    In real life I am viewed as sweet and innocent. Most people don't know the real me. Everyone thinks that I am this happy go lucky stay at home mom of two. They don't know I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 20

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      And that is all.  ;)
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I just want to be accepted and even of I am I still don't feel I am, its an issue
    MrLazyCloud MrLazyCloud 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I barely feel conftible with my look in school. Its always like people's stares at me and I think that they are juding me.
    nemelabychtubyt nemelabychtubyt 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I wonder how people see me? Like would they think I'm pretty? Or not attractive? Do people think I'm a right ***** or really mean? Because iv never heard or been told anything bad...