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I Am Not As Fun As People Think I Am

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F Dec 16, 2009

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    Not As Fun

    Me fun?  LOL ... I have said it before, I am booooring.  Sometimes, it can happen I will be a little fun or funny but its not something I do or am on a constant basis.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2011

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    I Wish I Was!

    I have worked hard at projecting a public image as a fun, party type girl who is just a bimbo and doesn't take anything seriously.    People who only know me in the public arena are shocked to find out I am a lawyer.  That takes brains and...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    Too Many People Look to Me to Make Them Feel Better About Themselves

    and the end result is that I feel oppressed, overwhelmed, and wholly inadequate.  I, like 98.9% of the world (arbitrary, made-up statistic), feel chronically insecure about something, and I like to think I'm sensitive to others needs/feelings.  However- what I end up...
    CagedKitty CagedKitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    Hanging out with them makes me forget all my problems in life. Who are funny people here? Haha. :))
    Daldalita Daldalita 16-17, F Sep 24

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    People in this house people at school....they see me walk, but never hear me talk....they assume they know me and think they know what im thinking and they know whats going on in...
    EmoNekoNiki EmoNekoNiki 18-21, F Sep 23

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    I do care what people think of me. If people don't like my colored lipstick I remove it. Or eyeshadow look. I remove that off my face. I don't want to be talked about. I used to...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    I'm GREAT at pretending to not care what people think. But inside I am very fluid. It is important for me to realize that I am easy to influence because if I don't, then what...
    pinkcyclopsowl pinkcyclopsowl 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    people all my life have thought that i am totally innocent. well it is not true! now i have to say i haven't done a ton of bad stuff but i am just tired of being treated like a...
    Zdbace Zdbace 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I've even reached a point in my life where no one really thinks I'm all that innocent, and still, I'm not as innocent as people think.
    Nakeddave61 Nakeddave61 51-55, M Oct 8

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    I've learned the psychological skills of how to converse with others and have them enjoy my company. I can simply target people who I want respect from, and usually succeed within...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I'm not on this earth to please anyone. The only person I aim to please is myself and not act in a way that people think I should.
    eezybeezy eezybeezy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I am straight but I like girly things but I was raised by my mom and I only live with my mom and sis. I know I'm not gay but people think I'm because I like girly things and the...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Oct 4

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    Dirty Thoughts Behind a Sweet Smile- i always like to hear someone judge me on my looks. its funny how surprised some people are when they get to know me. at first glance ive been...
    snelletrail snelletrail 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    watching knock out hahahahaha watching people fall over is pretty funny :O
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F a week ago

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    I had my first REAL party. It was just five of us. We all drank, we smoked some kush. This was my first time being under the influence, and I loved it. We all had so much fun. We...
    Maleahpage Maleahpage 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 20

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    My older sister gives nicknames to everyone but funniest once is my dad's she calls him 'wrinkled butt'. Because my dad has a wrinkles on his face :p
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Omg I just saw something so fuggin funny so I was walking with my friends right & Adriana was walking her dog & it had a cons on its head & it started to go crazy & run around the...
    ThaQueen2 ThaQueen2 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am the stereotypical naughty accountant and ex catholic school girl. People look at me and think one thing but once they get to know me they get a completely new perception - I...
    Kathryn2093 Kathryn2093 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 21

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    Whenever I'm not smiling people always think I'm sad or mad when in reality in just chilling and the nicest person you will ever meet. I don't see why I would walk around smiling...
    Kmillr Kmillr 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I used to think I'm innocent but then again I'm not. I needed to write about this because I feel I've been so judgmental and cruel and also mean to others who's the other woman. I...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    I don't exactly know why. I guess it's because I'm a very sensitive person. I'm fragile and my feelings hurt easily. I always wanted to be one of those people who didn't care what...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I go to a Christian private school, where I'm considered an "outcast," and everybody views me as one of the most virginous, innocent girls in the school. But Iv done more than half...
    broadwaygirl3583 broadwaygirl3583 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 7

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    People whom know me in person have no idea what goes in my mind... EP members whom read my post know what I mean.
    DildoSlut DildoSlut 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 24

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    I really don't care.. You can say the truth.. That's what I'm among for.. The truth. I don't want you all to go "10/10" or "you're pretty" Because if you all say it it's not the...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 25

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    Think what you wanna think but after you know me well the true me comes out some of my girlfriends know what I'm talking about lol
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    I'm mostly called the "GG" or goody-goody, but deep down I don't know who I am. I mean I have perfect grades (not bragging), smart friends, and obsessive parents, but sometimes I...
    musicmelody17 musicmelody17 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    Actually I don't care one bit unless they have significant value to me. Other than that, screw them we are all going to die one day so why bother caring what they think.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 24

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    I'm honestly not quite sure, but I think I may be a nymphomaniac.
    Maleahpage Maleahpage 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 27

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    I'm not the type whose like hurrr Durrr haters... I just simply don't care what others think of me. My friends, family, and girlfriend love me and have no problem and neither...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Oct 3

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    I always like to make my friends think that I'm younger than them. I am 15 though I made up a complicated story and said that I'm 13. They believe it, though I don't know why I...
    Yi15922 Yi15922 13-15, M Oct 6

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    Went to Instagram and saw my friend posting this on Instagram.. I bust out laughing. She's the easiest female that iknow . Lol #icant with the lies
    kaikae kaikae 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    From relatable post #448 (This is so true). All of my trust issues lead back to those raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip cookies.
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I give that nice, sweet girl impression but if you really get to know me you know that I have that little bad side. I'm not horrible, just a little bit less then innocent. An ex...
    ThisIsMe83 ThisIsMe83 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 20

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    i bited my teacher's hand to run away from kindergarten when i was 4 years old!
    1golenaz 1golenaz 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    I am a sweetie pie I'm a goody goody and a softy but that's only my appearance I curse a lot and if I ever did get in a fight I would scratch since I have long nails and I mean not...
    FlyingAwayAndFallingApart FlyingAwayAndFallingApart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    When the opportunity comes around, I live a double life. My real one is somewhat lonely, sad and a little depressing, whereas my real one is more confident, sneaky and controlling...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 20

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    At my age I doubt there is any innocence left!!! :)
    bjcf1102 bjcf1102 66-70, M 1 Response Sep 20

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    Not really. Can you imagine, though? That's naaasty. No where to go but up from here, folks.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    I work in fast food and I can't deal with it anymore, I made the worst mistake in my life to quit my other job for fast food, The customers are the worst its like they want you to...
    BeYouStayTru BeYouStayTru 18-21, F Sep 21

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    I'm often called "the most innocent" out of the group. This is because I have high morals at school and don't swear often and I behave. If u looked at my profile you would know, I...
    minimuscle minimuscle 13-15, M Sep 22

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    Everyone wants acceptance and approval. I worry too much about what others perceive me as that I get self-conscious about anything that I do. It's hard to obtain a careless...
    anitamigna anitamigna 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I dunno, I've always thought like that lol
    HisDaysAreNumbered HisDaysAreNumbered 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 24

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    I dont care about physical comments but if someone talk about my 'life'(job, relationships etc.) it makes me so angry.
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I do know about inappropriate things. I've read books, Watched movies and even on the internet I can't avoid seeing or reading something I don't need to.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 25

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    I'd love to have a tougher skin, and shrug things off, but I can't.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    You can say what ever u want, I'm not listening.. Coz tbh.. I only do what I wanna do.. Pretend much in my real life why should I do that in here.. F tat ****.. I'm just gonna be...
    leohobs leohobs 26-30, F Oct 3

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