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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    i have always fantacised about meeting an older gay bottom whos had lots of men (60-90) since i was in my teens thehehe :)
    oldmanseeksteen14 oldmanseeksteen14 41-45, M 19 hrs ago

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    Well I'm an older guy attracted to young women not girls. Before anyone jumps to conclusions and thinks I'm a pervert young woman and attraction need to be defined. For me the line...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I find myself to be attracted to older men. Something about them is quite appealing(who are single of course) and I find myself to be indifferent towards men my age. It may because...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 46 Responses Jul 6

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    As I can remember I have been attracted to older men like in there 40's I have no clue why my parents are older then each other. I think it's just older men treat woman right and...
    Bianca214 Bianca214 18-21, F 25 Responses Jul 10

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    I've always been attracted to older men. 40+ does the trick ;-).
    aladyindeed aladyindeed 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 30

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    I'm attracted to white men ;)
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 7

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    I am sixteen, but for some reason I find older men attractive. Looks dont matter. I think its because they are more mature, have more experience, and know how to talk to women...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 22 Responses Jul 7

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    I also am attracted to both men and women. I am a feminine woman married to a man. Both sexes turn me on, but I LOVE lesbian ****!!!
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't know why I am attracted to older men I just am they turn me on big time. ;)
    Oldmenlover Oldmenlover 22-25, F 38 Responses Jul 14

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    I am a 15 year old girl and I always have been attracted to older men. I'm currently, talking to one, who flirts back. He is 28. It's just annoying that it is illegal, because I...
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 14

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    Older men are hot. I'm extremely attracted to them and love being around and with them.
    Creamytoppings Creamytoppings 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    Hi all. I am 23 years old and have been attracted to she males since I was about 18. This past weekend I finally got the courage to meet one and I ended up giving her head. I just...
    kd1721 kd1721 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I've always been attracted to older men ever since I was a little kid. After having experiences with younger men, I no longer have any interest in dating younger men and never will...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 29

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Here is another bit of research I have found... Men who marry younger women live longer: An interesting study by German experts revealed that men who marry younger women enhance...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I like big men too! I'm attracted to big beautiful men, fat men, tall men, and men with big hands.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 10

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    I'm sick of hot straight men who are cocky enough to think they can tease masses— women and men alike. When I say tease, I mean show off their supper hot bodies and faces and...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    White men were pretty much non existent for most of my life. They were just okay to me. I was so wrapped up in black men and interacial dating was unimaginable to me until about...
    friedplantains friedplantains 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I have no idea why this is. But nothing in this world gets me going more than an intelligent female. I guess I have rare tastes seeing how few there are in the world today. As a...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm super young but I'm attracted to guys in there 20s and early 30s. It gets frustrating. *cough* my teacher story
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Lol not love but attracted to it. What girl wouldn't be attracted to a guy with a nice body and face? They may not say it but they might think it ( in some case me lol XD)
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F Jul 10

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    I have a crazy attraction to older men (ages 40-65). I'm 25 and all the guys I have slept with have been in their 50s. I love dirty old men, they turn me on. Nobody my age...
    ilike2live0389 ilike2live0389 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    17 and a half, but very interested in older men. Preferably 25-40. I've always found that older men have better conversation and interests and are generally more well rounded...
    KirstyMack97 KirstyMack97 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    By choosing a bride 15-17 years younger, a man can cut his risk of premature death by 20 per cent. Even choosing a wife seven to nine years younger will reduce his risk of dying...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    Hello ladies. I am single 38yo man, looking to talk to new people. If you like men my age, well don't be shy and message me. Talk to you soon :)
    SexyGentleman76 SexyGentleman76 36-40, M Jun 27

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    Whiny, needy, clingy, submissive men drive me absolutely crazy! It's worse than having another child! It's a huge turnoff throughout the day, no matter how horny I am, I could not...
    Islndgirl Islndgirl 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I'm soo attracted to strong dominate men!! I don't just mean sexually but strong with his opinion his beliefs his dreams!! Oh it's sooo attractive!!! ❤❤❤
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    Thank you beautiful women for your attraction towards us Native men. It is greatly appreciated.
    AlbuquerqueJay AlbuquerqueJay 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm 5'... My taste is usually 5'10'' and under need not apply, lol. I dated a guy who was 5'3'' once before and it was just off putting. I guess I'm just attracted to taller men...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F Jul 2

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    Any older men want to chat with a 21 year old? Message me :) happy 4th everyone!
    Princessb0unty Princessb0unty 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    Look at my profile picture and please tell me. I'm h*rny most of the time. And I'm 18 year old girl and I'm attracted to old men. Please post your comments below. Thank you. Kisses...
    Lauracrease12 Lauracrease12 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I find older men so attractive
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 22 Responses Jul 7

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    I am attracted to intelligent men
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    So I don't know what it is. I like guys that are my age but I find older men so much more attractive. Maybe bc they come off more mature or the nicer looking facial hair.
    kns62 kns62 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I don't know why but I'm always attracted by white boys or men. Yes I am black, but white guys seem to be more of my type. Is that wrong?
    Crimsonblackrose Crimsonblackrose 16-17, F 11 Responses Jul 10

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    I love white guys/men but I'm persian and I feel like no white guy will like me! They all seem to like either Their own race or East Asian woman. I wish more of you were attracted...
    lifesimmer lifesimmer 22-25, F 44 Responses Jul 14

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    My weakness I love tall men especially because I'm 5'7 which is average height for a guy so anyone taller than me is great and white guys are my weakness so all in one is a package...
    SophieBabe20 SophieBabe20 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    im 13 and all way been attacted to older men
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 16

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    I like older men because. Well because I always find them to be so handsome, experienced, and confident. Older guys are hot. And plus the thought of an older guy banging gets my...
    TheLonelyPoet TheLonelyPoet 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 16

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    ya older men are great boys my age talk stupid act tough have no money they are gay
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    all i find older men from oversea lol guss there none in u.s.a gosh
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I know it's probably wrong because of the whole "love is colourblind" thing, but I find myself so much more attracted to white guys. The colour contrast is a huge turn on for me. I...
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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