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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    (This also applies to older women too) I'm in the same boat here. My mom and stepdad hate it as well, because they always think the ones I want to date are perverts (how is it...
    MissLangdon MissLangdon 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I'm 22 and I find older men so attractive! I am only attracted to 35+ and often fantasize an older man touching me and showing me the ropes. I've only ever dated a couple guys my...
    jlaw22 jlaw22 22-25, F 22 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Ever since I was "younger" ..... my whole life actually, I've been attracted to white men. Have you ever had a strong feeling that you couldn't exactly explain... But loved how it...
    gjm1090 gjm1090 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Into older men? Definitely.
    BrokenBabygirlx BrokenBabygirlx 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Love older men. Always have. Appreciate their maturity and experience in the bedroom.
    Bustyxox Bustyxox 26-30, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been posting in other groups but figured I'd post here too...a new fantasy apparently has awakened in me and it's older men. I wanna try :-p I'm 25...oldest I've had was 38...
    Denise048 Denise048 22-25, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just recently I discovered I have a 'fetish' for older men...I'm not sure what does it for me but I would love to be taken by someone older than me. mmm
    Denise048 Denise048 22-25, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am that guy you were too shy to talk to. Yes, I know I'm awesome (at least now I do but didn't always). No I don't accept shortchange. No, I don't just assume that you would be...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Been married for almost 5 years, never been with a woman but been thinking abt it a lot. Love my husband and don't want to cheat, but feel like I may be missing something. My...
    AdventurousM AdventurousM 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I don't know if I'm still attracted to men after all,I'm so disappointed,I feel kind of turning into a bad girl who's sick of people who don't appreciate me and using me for their...
    Jellybean88 Jellybean88 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 16 and my older man moved away :( it's so hard to find older men when ur a teen, ugh
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 21

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    hey guys. ..I kinda found this site googling my feelings. it's so nice to see I'm not alonr...i always felt wrong and like dirty for being attracted to older men. something...
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Jun 21

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    My parents don't approve of dating outside of our race. I've never been attracted to my own race. I've only ever liked Asian men, or only been attracted to them. I've always...
    kristiekat kristiekat 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    This is probably super duper cliché, and you've heard this a million times, especially on a site like this, but I'm being sincere. I enjoy older men and the company they offer...
    Apostasies Apostasies 18-21, F 17 Responses Jun 19

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    How many of you attracted to older people for relationships .... Who believes in age dosen't matter
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 18

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    I'm a 20 yo girl who loves older men but most are just too Pervy :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15

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    Ok I will say this again Cx I am attracted to older guys but no older then 35!!!! It depends though but no I'm NOT attracted to any older then that NOT 40 NOT 41 NOT 50 NO older...
    ShatteredMemory ShatteredMemory 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 15

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    I'm sexually attracted to older men. I love men double my age the oldest guy,I have the most fun with older men! I've always had infatuations with older males. I love how masterful...
    MegPeterson MegPeterson 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    I pretty much like men in general. I think I have a slight interest in older men because I've always been rejected by guys my age. I know age doesn't define maturity, so that's not...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    Remaining single and wondering whether or not: A) Take back my ex (a submissive in/out of bed) who got out of a relationship. Hot leggy blonde. B) Take back an ex out in Vegas...
    DomCA DomCA 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    I don't know why Im attracted to them so much! Yes people might think the word 'rich' is the obvious reason but it's actually not! I like powerful men and that ties in with wealth...
    chantay11 chantay11 16-17, F 53 Responses Jun 13

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    Since as early as I can remember I've attracted and been attracted too black females. I'm a country (not redneck) boy who is every bit white but I'm telln ya I only have ever had...
    Firemedic80 Firemedic80 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    I am only attracted to men with long hair but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to them all.
    Cher1977 Cher1977 36-40, F Jun 13

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    I cannot stand this life anymore. All she does is emotionally abuse me, try to turn my family against me and lie. She be-littles me constantly. She is much nicer to me now that my...
    interested0001 interested0001 31-35, F Jun 12

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    AgeMeet.com, is a dating website that has been specifically designed for those who wish to specifically date cougars or cubs. Essentially, when one visits a generalized dating...
    alizeeccaa alizeeccaa 26-30, F Jun 12

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    AgeMeet.com, is a dating website that has been specifically designed for those who wish to specifically date cougars or cubs. Essentially, when one visits a generalized dating...
    alizeeccaa alizeeccaa 26-30, F Jun 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alizeeccaa alizeeccaa 26-30, F Jun 12

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    You know I do like men with nice feet, I remember once being asked on a date and I looked down to check out his feet....they were two small so I said no! However I did not think...
    IndigoOryx IndigoOryx 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 12

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    I'm attracted to many different types of men, even dominant ones at times, but I have isolated an attraction to one type, the "male lesbian". It seems like a joke but the...
    myheaven myheaven 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    barbracc11 barbracc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    I have always liked men that were some what older than me since I can remember (cliche saying ). The first man I liked was when I was in kindergarten, and his name was Mr.Gates, I...
    101JaneDoe 101JaneDoe 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    I've always been attracted to older men. On a physical level. I haven't really had a mental connection with an older man just because I've never expressed the feeling. I'm not...
    Keeks155 Keeks155 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    Hi I'm a guy just turned 40 wondering are younger girls really attracted to older men if you are please let's chat
    study1224 study1224 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    Asian men are the most exotic to me. . I love the eyes.....!!! So deep and beautiful. Their hair is dark. Their hair is super smooth. Sigh..... I wish they stayed closer to me. I...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F Jun 9

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    LONG BUT WORTH THE READ. PLEASE PROVIDE YOUR OPINION. As stated above, I'm curious as to what your opinion is. But first, story time. It's long but I'm starting from the very...
    k0930 k0930 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    I have a thing for irish men with black hair and green/blue eyes. I've never met one in person though! I may not be attracted to many people but THIS is the kind of man I'd adore...
    GiiGi GiiGi 22-25, F 3 Responses