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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Can't Say That I Am - I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them...
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Ehh Idk - For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off! - Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Am I Blind? - my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Dating an older guy can be flat out awesome. Something about capturing the attention of an older man just makes you feel so damn special! They’re more refined and experienced...
    GiuseppeGisriel GiuseppeGisriel 41-45, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I honestly believe that you can love both men and women but some people show it a lot more, men have this charm, funny, strong and caring side and women have this tender, loving...
    georgiecrouch georgiecrouch 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    People have their own preferences. I would never exclude someone for not having all the things I am attracted to because a person is more than their looks but these are the things...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I noticed that I started getting attracted to girls at a young age. I mean, my heart would pound when a pretty girl would smile or talk to me. As time marched on, I realized that I...
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 2 hrs ago

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    And I'm attracted to boys. And pizza. I really love pizza.
    kyliethain kyliethain 16-17, F 17 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I love tall men. I feel I am only attracted to a man that is taller than me. It must be the estrogen in my body that reacts to a taller man. I am 1.65m tall. My ex-bf was 1.95m and...
    Bluestarrr Bluestarrr 22-25, F Mar 16

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    I don't understand when older men write you are more attracted to older men because they don't want you and then forget about you like the guys in our age. They say guys our age...
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I like men who are somewhat younger and up to my age. I never have been attracted to older men.
    Hope70 Hope70 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Once you go older, you....okay I cant think of anything right now. Anyway, I have been very attracted to older men, since I was about 21. I had a secret crush on my dentist, who...
    Curvzahead Curvzahead 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I was always attracted to older men. I am 22 and I dated men who were at least 4 years older than me. But never passed 10 years apart. The maturity always mattered and I felt safe...
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I try so hard to find a good guy who is just genuinely a good person but when I do find someone I can connect to I find I'm never attracted to them, they can be extremely good...
    wonderwall12 wonderwall12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Asian male here. I'm glad to know that we're not forgotten about. I'm attracted to all types but I always felt like no one was attracted to Asian men.
    GDlifestyle GDlifestyle 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I am attracted to white men but they don't approach me
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Yes. I'm a young girl (19), and I'm attracted to older men. I've always been in love with the older actors in movies and I just find them so very sexy.
    SyddGraace SyddGraace 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 7

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    A lot of young guys dont get it, that a younger woman can be attracted to mature men...but to me there is nothing better... :p
    Swedensour Swedensour 22-25, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a black woman and am attracted to white men. I have dated, married, and have had biracial children by white husband.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is a known fact that more and more younger women are attracted to older men, but why do young girls want an older man? (older man does not mean old man, it is a relative concept...
    Nacy1990 Nacy1990 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Older Men Like Younger Women as they are more vibrant, spontaneous and full of life. A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F Mar 31

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    Junetangcc17 Junetangcc17 22-25, F Mar 20

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I do not know why I prefer to date older men, but I always seem to be more attracted to them. I never really have gone out with a guy younger than 23. Yet, 23 seemed unsatisfying...
    PlurDan PlurDan 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you. I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I absolutely love older men. My boyfriend is 44 years old and I'm only 19. I put an add on craigslist a while ago (when I was 18) for an older man and the response was amazing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Mar 28

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    I am more attracted to women than men. I'd say that I'm 85% lesbian. Only because I've never been with a woman. The farthest I've ever gotten was a make out session. Nothing other...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I'm sexually attracted to older men. I love older men! I'm 28 and love men double my age the oldest guy,I have the most fun with older men! I've always had infatuations with older...
    clairebaaby clairebaaby 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am attracted to men who are a lot older than I am. Some people like buffed and muscular men. Some people like lean and scruffy. Some people like them pudgy and no hair. Some...
    carlyistortious carlyistortious 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I am attracted to older men a lot.40s, 50s even 60s, i am just turned on by older men. I want to make friends/meet/dinner or even date with a man over 40 very badly.The thought of...
    Victorloveoldermen Victorloveoldermen 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    lauracc13 lauracc13 26-30, F Mar 31

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    In theory I'm into older men, but in practice, I end up falling for younger men every time.
    highfidelity970 highfidelity970 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    The Favorable Decision awarded Melindo Persi $21,000.The clothing retailer also lately announced Middlesbrough model Josh Crow, 19, as being the Face of Socialstore.But TOMS Pop...
    mnb1314 mnb1314 26-30, M 16 hrs ago

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    Yes I do, even as a gay male I find them to be very interesting. I've never had a problem making friends with some of them, straight or gay. I think they find me non threatening...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    Best Younger Women Older Men Dating Site - AgeMeet.com. Are you a young woman looking for an older man? You will be made welcome within our community – thousands of older men are...
    vicckycc18 vicckycc18 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I date black men because no other race has ever payed me any attention and as well I am attracted to black men
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I Didn't Give Up on Black Men, Black Men Gave Up on Me.#ilovewhitemen
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    The last man I went to bed with was one of the hottest experiences I've had, sexually, since I've started sleeping with older men. If you saw this guy, you would think he was a...
    MsMaryAnn MsMaryAnn 18-21, F 18 Responses Mar 17

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    I have never really liked or been into white guys. I was rap ed by an older white relative as a child so I guess I just feel more safe with Black guys. At least my psyche thinks so...
    WanabeBuxom WanabeBuxom 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    Men, answer this for me. My guy thinks I'm a tease. However it's not that I'm really doing anything. I can put on my jeans and a tshirt and I'll walk in the room and he acts like I...
    SECgirl SECgirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    The ONLY way men and women can just be friends is if they are not at all attracted to each other. Instinct always wins.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 21

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    Call me strange, but I always have found Asian guys (Japanese in particular) more attractive than other guys. Not that I couldn't be attracted to men of another race, of course...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 23