I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

    This may seem odd considering I'm a straight

    woman. I love flirting and attention but there is no one I look at and feel attracted to? I'm not sure why or what's going on in my head. I would love to be in a loving relationship but I just don't fancy people haha. I have no idea how people can bounce from person to person...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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