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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I am a lesbian with no sexual

    or romantic interest in men whatsoever, so please, guys, stop f*cking asking me sexual questions, starting sexual topics, and sending topless/**** pics. I have no interest, so please don't waste yours and my time. And back off with the constant harassment!
    funteengirl funteengirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2015

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    This may seem odd considering I'm a straight

    woman. I love flirting and attention but there is no one I look at and feel attracted to? I'm not sure why or what's going on in my head. I would love to be in a loving relationship but I just don't fancy people haha. I have no idea how people can bounce from person to person...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    I've been attracted to White men for a while now but just recently I've started to notice that's all I'm attracted to. I usually find myself liking middle eastern men and Hispanic...
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    I can not lie, but yes lord.....something about another woman that is attracted to me, and makes an effort to let me, makes me more attracted to her..Just knowing she wants me...
    Cuddlingsoul Cuddlingsoul 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Me too. Being a man I suppose it is a natural phenomenon although some people might dispute that that I am man because I like boys too. Strange world though because millions of...
    dannydaddy dannydaddy 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I almost always find myself more attracted to men who are at least 10 or more years older than me, than guys my own age. Aside from the aesthetically appealing qualities, to me...
    taliaroger taliaroger 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I keep asking myself why and the only answer still remains 'experienced'. My first love was a woman of 33 (if she had told me the truth after refusing to reveal her age for long...
    Tourion Tourion 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've always had a thing for White men but even so, I find it slightly uncomfortable when I'm called "black queen" or "goddess" by a white man. Idk it just feels a little excessive...
    tplum15 tplum15 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Always been attracted to them and never boys my own age. There's something so exciting about knowing they are in control and know exactly what they want from you and how to get it...
    bex4ev bex4ev 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's so hard being the only one in your group of friends that's attracted to older men they don't understand. There maturity and presence is so beautiful and everyone has a type...
    electraheartlolita electraheartlolita 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Im HIGHLY attracted to white men and always have been But but i cant find one :( lol it seems they dont like me? I work at a tv studio and i ser very sexy white men for the ages of...
    DutchLove DutchLove 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 5

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    Being polite makes me 1000x more attracted to a guy. Even just saying "excuse me" or "miss" or holding the door open. To the men that do those things; Congrats, you're amazing.
    Curlygirl228866 Curlygirl228866 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I love Asian men. They are gorgeous, smart, interesting, and did I mention gorgeous? Im really immersed into their culture, music, shows, especially Japanese and Korean. I also...
    UsagiSnow UsagiSnow 18-21, F Feb 4

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    I love Asian men. They are gorgeous, smart, interesting, and did I mention gorgeous? Im really immersed into their culture, music and shows, especially Japanese and Korean. I...
    UsagiSnow UsagiSnow 18-21, F Feb 4

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    i can' say why i am attracted to them but i guess that's how i am. i am just more very much attracted white guys and i am a black girl.
    deejaygirl deejaygirl 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    They're so sexy, pretty much all I'm attracted to right now.
    nicolerh7 nicolerh7 22-25, F Feb 3

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    Always fantasize older men. They increase my libido everytime lol.
    Alonely0987 Alonely0987 22-25, F 29 Responses Feb 2

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    Hi, yes title says it. I'm not attracted to white men but black men melt my heart
    dlaran83 dlaran83 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I've always been attracted to older men to a certain degree, even my first celebrity crush was an older man (David Bowie)! My attraction lead me into a multitude of problems though...
    spoiledsweetforever spoiledsweetforever 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    Older men are just more mature and actually don't play around with a woman's feelings. I'm 26 and when I say I like older men, I mean like 26-35 not no 50 or 60 year old men. Not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I've never been with a woman before. I've been married & dated men. But since I've hit my 40's, I can't help but want to try something different. I know women are more sensual...
    RememberSeptember RememberSeptember 46-50, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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    I have met some men in real whom I respect and like but that is based on respect and I have no intention of anything more.You may be attracted to someone but that does not mean you...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    I do not consider myself bi. Truth is I'm happily married to a man for nearly 22 years. But women. I love women. I definitely have a type. They are so beautiful and passionate. I...
    domagedangel domagedangel 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 30

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    well duh, can you be attracted to things you're not attracted to?
    hawaiinpunch hawaiinpunch 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    I find certain men attractive, and I don't mean it in a way that I get a crush on them, but it is the few things I notice about a man in the first meeting and if they prove...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    i am on the respectful and open minded side and i go for white men who go for me, yes i am very much attracted to white guys.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 28

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    That moment when you're having a really engaging conversation with someone and the more they speak the more intelligent they become in your eyes. You can't help but stare at them...
    GoldenRoses GoldenRoses 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 28

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    I am attracted to older guys, I just get along so much better with them versus guys my age. :) Perfect age range would be mid 20s to late 30s, early 40s. I probably wouldn't go any...
    ADCue44 ADCue44 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I always have since I was very young something about them hmm I just am attracted to them any olde men like younger women :) message me
    sexydaughter19 sexydaughter19 22-25, F 20 Responses Jan 28

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    I gotta be honest here, I never thought I would date an Asian man let alone consider having a future with him. Not that I wasn't attracted to Asian men, I just never knew a lot...
    SeanaO SeanaO 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 27

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    I have always been attracted to men older than me... boys my age(17) just don't excite me as men in their 40's+ do. They just have so much more confidence and experience which...
    KittyMariee KittyMariee 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Always attracted to older men idk not sure why
    ruthrylee ruthrylee 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 25

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    For my entire adult life , I have known I am not like other men. I am attracted on a biological level to androgenous and hirsute women. If a woman has no male pattern body or...
    meatoman meatoman 51-55, M Jan 24

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    I'm very upset because my boyfriend (96kg) is trying to lose weight and he's feeling down because he feels fat. I think he's very attractive. when we met he was 13 kg lighter than...
    fosterpaste fosterpaste 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    It's hard for a 18 year girl (me) to like older men and to be attracted to them. Why? Because most of your crushes are teachers or random peeps on the street. And it's even harder...
    lilacadventures lilacadventures 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    Older men are such beautiful humans. There's something just so special about them.
    electraheartlolita electraheartlolita 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 24