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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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