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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    This may seem odd considering I'm a straight

    woman. I love flirting and attention but there is no one I look at and feel attracted to? I'm not sure why or what's going on in my head. I would love to be in a loving relationship but I just don't fancy people haha. I have no idea how people can bounce from person to person...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I loveeeeeeeee older men , there way more mature , and they know what they want.
    TropicalIsland TropicalIsland 13-15, F 8 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    It's true... Tall men just 'do it for me'.... Obviously there needs to be more than just height. I am going to attribute it to 'my offspring need a growing chance'.... I'm also...
    loveCT loveCT 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am 18 and I like men older than me. I wouldn't go younger than 21, and draw the line at maybe 70, I like success and formality, a dominant perhaps "daddy figure" But with a women...
    hollymayt hollymayt 18-21, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I will be able to be in a relationship with any other man besides a black man. I am not attracted to other men. I will never say never but its just everything...
    ms5271115 ms5271115 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The female form is just so precious to me. I not only adore everything about their physical essence but also their personalities. Of course there are exceptions, but women are just...
    beautifulbizarre beautifulbizarre 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    My earlier sexual experiences have all been with heavy guys, they were all more affectionate than the thinner guys, made better lovers and were all gifted, if you know what I mean...
    SassNClass37 SassNClass37 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I am attracted to older, educated men. This is all well and good, but I am nervous about trying to meet one since I am a trans man. I wonder if there are any older gay men who...
    itzhak itzhak 22-25, T 5 days ago

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    I am a married man with a huge attraction to other men
    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    yes very attracted to men and love looking at their naked bodies
    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a 42 year old Texan and there something about a woman 10 to 20 years younger, who are attracted to older men, that is so freaking hot. I usually find them to be open minded and...
    C00LDaddy C00LDaddy 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Im another one who loves black men. But saying the word "love", i doesnt mean i dated them. I never talked to even one in real life, but only online. I made many chats online with...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I have crushes on black men from internet...lol Because where i live, i almost dont see any black men. My first black guy crush was like 10 years ago. I found him online by...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    It really does depend, but I generally feel very very uncomfortable if I am in a room with men only or if a guy is near me. I am gay and am attracted to men but I am afraid of them...
    chemistry6 chemistry6 18-21, M Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    Okay, I think I need to be specific. It's not just the age that attracts me to these men, so no, I do not want messages from random old men who think I will automatically be...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    From a young age, I've always been attracted to grown men, especially teachers. Now I find myself crushing on some of my friends' dads. I loved the movie American Beauty...
    coolestdweebyahknow coolestdweebyahknow 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 15

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    I grew up around white people, and white guys were the only thing I knew. As I got older and went out into the world on my own, I finally got to be around and learn of other races...
    UpCloud UpCloud 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm dating a 59-year old. I'm 22. We've been together 7 months. Really, we get along great! I kinda wish I were more attracted to him, I really prefer hairy older men, or at least...
    PulsingUlcer PulsingUlcer 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    I have always been attracted to older men since I was about 9 or 10. They are fun to talk to and can get very naughty ;-)
    SexyBustyGirl SexyBustyGirl 31-35, F 14 Responses Aug 12

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    I love women who are attracted to big black men
    tinman980 tinman980 18-21, M Aug 12

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    I prefer an older guy over someone my age & or younger then me! An older guy would be in my opinion more experienced in a hell of a lot more things & I love that! I'm attracted...
    chy08 chy08 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 11

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    Yes personality is important. But what is so wrong with having preferences? I'm not saying my preferences are perfect. I'm not saying that they won't change, but I will also be...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I can't say I grew up in the ghetto. Just on the outskirts. Went to schools that had high concentrations of black kids. have always found black women attractive but my peers, black...
    bigmac2xk bigmac2xk 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 11

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    Yes! Why do men shave? What woman wants a clean shaven man? NOT me. I love the Duck Dynasty or Wolverine look... The least I want a man to have is a gootee... Maybe just a...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    But I wish I wasn't attracted to them. I have yet to meet an older man who actually wanted a relationship with me. Not a relationship in the shadows, but a relationship free of...
    alicornia alicornia 18-21, F 27 Responses Aug 9

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    And I'm really starting to realize it for the first time. I've lived my whole life thinking I loved women exclusively, despite feeling like that might be different if I was...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 1 Response Aug 8

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    I am in my 30`s and I am highly attracted to men aged in their 60`s and 70`s. I find them easier to talk to.
    freegirlx freegirlx 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I have noticed many who have posted to this group mentioned liking them for what they carry. I for one don't love them for that only, I love them for the connection I have with...
    lonelyproblems lonelyproblems 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alliecc11 alliecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alliecc11 alliecc11 26-30, F Aug 4

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alliecc11 alliecc11 26-30, F Aug 4

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alliecc11 alliecc11 26-30, F Aug 4

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