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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    BiGuy4all BiGuy4all 36-40, M 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    They're just so hot! In general I've found that older men just want lots of love and affection when they're with you, and they're not afraid of showing you affection, and letting...
    BexBaby84 BexBaby84 31-35, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I've been attracted to men of different races and have mostly "hooked up" with white guys because I feel they didn't want anything more from me other than that. White guys are who...
    Rokxy Rokxy 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I am attracted to men of all ethnic/racial backgrounds, however, for some reason I am only sexually attracted to white men. I'm not completely sure why this is, but it sure is a...
    MissLynn91 MissLynn91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I'm normally only attracted to men in their late 30s and 40s. We just get along better, have more to talk about, there's more spark, etc. but lately I've been having fantasies...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 18

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    I wish I lived in the city instead of a town and didn't care about what people thought. I'm only attracted to much older men. At least 40 and up. Their intelligence , manner...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Why do men who are attracted to women stare but don't smile yet stare for awhile.. It's not a welcome but rather the opposite and I can never understand why men do that. Yesterday...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 30

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    I've always been attracted to older men since i was like 13...though a few days ago i was with my younger sister and her friends, and one of them(who is 14) made the comment "i...
    mycatisbettrthanyurs mycatisbettrthanyurs 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 30

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    Let me start off by saying that i'm not into dating older guys - but I came to ask a question to the girls who are. How old was your father when you were born? How old is he now...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I've always been attracted to girls. Never in a sexual way though. I just enjoy their beauty. And they are way better kisser then most men. Lol I've always wondered what it would...
    Kaytee120 Kaytee120 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 8

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    I've always been attracted to older men while I can appreciate a hot young stud I prefer a handsome older guy every time
    bibostonguy bibostonguy 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Are there actual women who are attracted to much older men. Why?
    WyoDoug WyoDoug 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    The reason why I am attracted to intelligent men is because I am an intelligent woman. Common sense goes a long way too. My husband is both intellectual and has common sense...
    redheadwearinglingerie redheadwearinglingerie 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I think sexism and chauvinism offends both men and women. It's obvious why women are affected by this phenomenon - objectification of women, s*xual harassments towards them...
    Gayooshit16 Gayooshit16 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Im 15 nearly 16 and my last boyfriend was 28 I love older men, they know what they want and what they're doing, some call me weird but I'm just not attracted to immature boys
    alannah16 alannah16 16-17, F 7 Responses Mar 29

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    I'm not attracted to pedophiles just older men, there's s difference
    alannah16 alannah16 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 29

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    It seems like in the past year or so I've found myself attracted to men who are 20-30 years older than me. Not sure if it has anything to do with myself becoming more mature in...
    SimpliLovely SimpliLovely 26-30, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I dated different races in the past from black, Korean, Hawaiian, Thai, Hispanic and white . But i have always favored white men. However white men are the least likely to approach...
    apolk89 apolk89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    when I was 15, I lost my virginity to a 20 year old. I'm 18 now, and since then, I've only preferred older men. I even tried having sex with a guy closer to my age, and it just...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 16-17, T 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Hi i am a female (18) who is solely attracted by older men ... Mainly men 60+... And i am looking for one in my area who is interested in a long term committed relationship with...
    biglove16 biglove16 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 3

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    Trying to figure out When I first started noticing I was attratcted to older Men to the point Where I Will only date older Men.
    beautifulbrowneyes21 beautifulbrowneyes21 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    I love older men.... They're sexy and confident and they know exactly how to get me soaked and screaming ;)
    KittyCunt KittyCunt 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm bi but I'm way more attracted to woman. It's like 90% woman, 10% men.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I'm 19 and I've always been attracted to older men. Grey hair is sexy, maturity is sexy, and I do like saying Daddy in the bedroom. Northern and Southern Ohio area.
    Beijodeabacaxi Beijodeabacaxi 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 14

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    I am a black woman who loves "Sugar" and that's always wanted to be with a white man; I'm only attracted to a few black men. But the very thought of a sexy white man's *** in my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 15

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    20 years difference.... And I'm struggling to keep my disapproving family and people's remarks from poisionin my mind. I've always liked men older since I was 16...
    Countrygirl3632 Countrygirl3632 18-21 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I guess it's something i've known but never embraced, but my attraction to white men is real.
    lintmint2000 lintmint2000 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am guy and I was once attracted to someone in my school i always try to shake that feeling off but it comes backl he was younger than me and he respected and trusted me but every...
    kofi7king kofi7king 13-15, M Apr 13

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    Attracted to people i cant have and not attracted to the people who are attracted to me :/
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love older men but sex is what they always lookin for *sighs*
    inagirl inagirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    [part 2] I woke up to an empty bed on the floor. 'Austin must have left' I said in my mind. I shrugged and began putting away the blankets, I looked at the clock. It was 9:00...
    Bandfanfic Bandfanfic 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    Thanks for being patient, folks. I would have written more, but have been under the weather for a while. There will be some good helpful posts coming., mostly to help men with...
    MWBB MWBB 61-65, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Am from algeria am attracted to ho is attracted to arab guys :p
    Teedmozbie Teedmozbie 22-25, M Mar 30

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    I often find myself attracted to younger petite Jewish lesbians. They aren't always the full combo but usually have at least two of the variables of which generally aren't...
    Xlsmoove Xlsmoove 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am attracted to people i can't have. When i find someone who i want to close to,i'm very happy. But once they literally close to me,i push them away due to fear. Fear of love...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 4 days ago

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