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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I am attracted to older men when I was at my teen. never like guys my age nor younger than me but now a days I am getting attracted to much younger men with mature looks, act...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 2 Responses Oct 22

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    Er I was. Now that I'm 35 myself, will that change? There have been times when I have been attracted to older men too. Those were mostly celebrities or my high school teachers. If...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Nov 12

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    I have always known that I was attracted to older men... Not sure why or what it is... My biological parents are almost 20 years apart lol weird right ... Maybe it's genetics But...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    I am attracted to bald men but it also depends on the guy!
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F Oct 28

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    I was always pretty prude as a teenager, and I never had a relationship. But that doesn't mean I never had crushes here and there. 2 that I can remember, and I still feel confused...
    confuziiled confuziiled 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 5

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    I am 17 and recently i have been attracted to older men.
    aquabluelife aquabluelife 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 7

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via mutual spiritual interests. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my...
    bettecc11 bettecc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via mutual spiritual interests. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my...
    bettecc11 bettecc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    ultracc11 ultracc11 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    I'm gonna talk to you this time about my life and experience in Bournemouth I moved to Bournemouth at the end of September 2009 for the fact that it was a beautiful town and it...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F Nov 9

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    Never in my life have I been insanely attracted to someone seconds after meeting them, until today. My god... I actually had a physical reaction to this person. His eyes and smile...
    Lucca909 Lucca909 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 24

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    I am very attracted to tall guys with broad shoulders. They are my weakness. My fiancée is 6'2" tall and I am 5'8" tall. Even though we are in a age gap relationship and he's 7...
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    Yes I am. I used to deny it a lot. But I'm also attracted to men. I remember the time I kissed a girl. She was really good. We used to go around the street corners and snog all the...
    TheFoxyWolf TheFoxyWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    I am attracted to big guys that are buff you can be a big guy and workout. (I don't why but skinny that are shape guy bore me) A guy that's over 200 and has a lot of muscle (it...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 28

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    i believe that age is just a number. i am simply attracted to people i find attractive.
    nelby710 nelby710 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    i've always been attracted to "white" men...&&always will. Theres just something abt them...<3. iappreciate "white" men who love black women &&give us thee attention (respect...
    Beckah010 Beckah010 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I've always been attracted to older men ever since I was 16. I used to be so crazy over Eddie Cibrian and Laz Alonso. They look so good in their 40s!! I would definitely date an...
    xlyricbelle xlyricbelle 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    When I was a young boy I was attracted to older women (late teens and 20's). Now that I am older I am attracted to younger girls but here is the interesting part, I am still...
    kingdaddyo kingdaddyo 46-50, M a week ago

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    I prefer older men over younger, I'm thinking its got to do with maturity most are stable know what there doing in life etc. Like they say older and wiser for the most part i agree...
    SecretDesiress SecretDesiress 41-45, F Oct 21

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    I just love to be in the company of a confident man. Confidence is like happiness because when a man has it, he owns it mentally and physically. His gestures, his speech, and his...
    PricelessJourney PricelessJourney 31-35, F Oct 30

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    I'v always been attracted to big men. I try not to have a type and I wish I didn't but I find a heavy man really handsome. I can't deal with men who have low self-esteem and...
    ThinkPink21 ThinkPink21 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    What differences? Apparently, there is a such thing a femininity and masculinity. I've never really understood it. I view myself as a female bodied... person. I guess I'm both...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Nov 6

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    I am a straight girl. I am attracted to guys mostly but recently, I found out that a few butch lesbians are attracted to me, and I realized that I, too, am attracted to butch...
    lilgracie5 lilgracie5 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm very attracted to big bald men with tattoos. I don't know what it is, but the bigger they are, the cuter they are to me. I just want to snuggle up in their arms and spend hours...
    Sweetpeamaggie Sweetpeamaggie 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    Real men make your panties wet, not your eyes.
    Lucca909 Lucca909 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 26

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    am i the only one who gets weird messages from old men saying things like *hey i saw on your profile that you like old men* i got that about 5 times !!!!! lol that's sick!! :D
    hatshepsut38 hatshepsut38 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    As a guy, I've always (and still do) consider myself straight. However, fat is such a turn-on for me, regardless of gender. I just love seeing all their rolls and how they jiggle...
    ifrive1974 ifrive1974 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 1

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    I've never found myself attracted to boys my age I've always liked older men
    weigh2goAna weigh2goAna 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    I find white men spiritually and intellectually intriguing. I find myself sexually, emotionally, physically and spiritually attracted to white males. But not all white males. They...
    browntaurus browntaurus 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 7

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    I don't know why I am attracted to the men that are taken. I want to show them they are still yummy. Still attractive and sexual. Mmmmm
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Our 29 Year Age Difference! Hello, I am 21 and my boyfriend is 50. We meet on AgeMeet.com.We were friends for a couple years before we got together, we have been together 3 amazing...
    fergiecc11 fergiecc11 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Our 29 Year Age Difference! Hello, I am 21 and my boyfriend is 50. We meet on AgeMeet.com.We were friends for a couple years before we got together, we have been together 3 amazing...
    fergiecc11 fergiecc11 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I often attract all the wrong ones, and I tend to be attracted to the worst ones. I can't ever seem to get a grip on how to detect unkind people. I find myself being friends with...
    LonelyKite LonelyKite 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I only am sexually attracted to white men. but don't get me wrong, I am friends with all races.
    emgal emgal 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    hi i am actually kevin but i named varun because it is my cousin's name. first i will tell about me. i love women navel and hip.i am actually a good boy but i dont know why i am...
    varun130437 varun130437 16-17, M 5 Responses Oct 23

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    Hey ... Myself am karthika, and This is just, a little about me, Am a girl attracted to girls, I don't know exactly when I was into girls but I consider at the age of 16 I find...
    shiningbeautykarthika shiningbeautykarthika 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 25

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    I'm attracted to older guys between 25-40. I know I'm still only young but it's what I'm attracted to :) I'm actually in love with an older guy, he's my ex teacher. He's 33 and...
    Cookies1313 Cookies1313 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 27

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    I am not attracted to my husband. When we first got together I tried to be and made efforts to be, but I'm just not. We've stayed together for almost ten years now because we get...
    albertagirl84 albertagirl84 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 1

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    I have been friends with this guy for about 7 years. We have the best time together. We can talk for hours without getting bored and have the same sense of humor. We have mostly...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've never really been interested in guys my age. The only guy I've ever fallen in love with was 44 years old. I usually like guys in their 30s and I'm not even 20 yet (I'm 19). I...
    atadbitinlove atadbitinlove 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 25