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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    This may seem odd considering I'm a straight

    woman. I love flirting and attention but there is no one I look at and feel attracted to? I'm not sure why or what's going on in my head. I would love to be in a loving relationship but I just don't fancy people haha. I have no idea how people can bounce from person to person...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    I've noticed I like men afew years older than me because responsible independent guys turn me on. I also find older guys know how to treat a man and take care of me in a...
    youngadult18 youngadult18 18-21, M 23 mins ago

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    i have a few thing for white men idk whaat it is but my ex said i was jus too inlive i would literally just lay in bed and lookvat him sleep and stuff hes so sexy i miss him
    silentaboutit silentaboutit 18-21 42 mins ago

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    Black men are Kings of the world, the chosen ones and lawd I love the brotha's. Have you even seen a creature so fine? Their Melanin rich skin, kinky hair, and body frame similar...
    QueenMulan QueenMulan 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    doesn't take much, I find the conversations with most has to be related to sex in some way or form, there's very few men I've deemed worth talking to and its kinda sad that I can...
    Azureal Azureal 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    People ask why I don't talk to men here is your answer creeps
    Maggiepepper34 Maggiepepper34 22-25, F 8 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    its so bad, i mean when i was 17 dating a man almost 8 years older than me... i loved it! now im 18 and i still love men older than me. i wish i could like guys my age but i dont...
    cottencandykitten cottencandykitten 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    I've just always been attracted to white guys. That contrast is soooo sexy but also just gotten along better with them and they've always treated me so so good :)
    Tomikka Tomikka 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok first, do not judge me... I have always been attracted to older men, ever since I began experience arousing thoughts. I was very sheltered but still always fantasize about...
    naughtyprincessbaby naughtyprincessbaby 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If gender roles are important to you, you won't find me very interesting. I am not attracted to hyper masculine OR hyper feminine men. I am attracted to intelligent, well spoken...
    PollyAmoreMMF PollyAmoreMMF 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love older men! They know what they like, they are comfortable with themselves, the mature look... Gray hair... The wisdom. I have had several relationships with older married...
    Jennaco Jennaco 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I've just found out from my sister that during the time me and my ex were together, he tried coming on to my sister telling her that he was attracted to her yet he was telling...
    stephanie29 stephanie29 31-35, F 27 Responses 4 days ago

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    Minji0504 Minji0504 26-30, F a week ago

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    Minji0504 Minji0504 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Minji0504 Minji0504 26-30, F a week ago

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    How to attract younger men for older women? We live in societies where older women younger men relationships are common and one can often see older women looking for younger...
    Ben60 Ben60 26-30, M a week ago

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    I didn't choose the "I am a young girl and attracted to older men" experience, because that sounds wrong. I'm not a young girl. I'm almost 22. I am young, but I don't want to be...
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 13 Responses a week ago

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    I always wished there was someone or somewhere to actually learn about these types of relationship dynamics without feeling like you're doing something wrong or shameful. For...
    lolitabrat lolitabrat 18-21, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    I wish I was in a relationship that is intellectually inclined. Most of the men I meet can't hold a conversation. It becomes frustrating. I need mental stimulation.
    firstjewelofthenile firstjewelofthenile 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    astrudcc11 astrudcc11 26-30, F Jul 27

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    As a Black woman there is no other man for me than a White man. I'm not attracted to Black men but I am oh so attracted to White men. Nothing against Black men. It's just what my...
    misslala0510 misslala0510 41-45 Jul 26

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    I'm straight, I know I am, but I'm comfortable enough in my own sexuality to admit when I am attracted to a woman. Some people have an issue with that. There really isn't a need to...
    cairah cairah 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I guess I'm into older men because my dad abused me too...when I think about it, sometimes it makes me sick and other times it turns me on, which makes me feel so weird and...
    PandemicFox PandemicFox 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 23

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    I've been abused by my stepdad almost my whole life. I think that's why I am attracted to men much older than i am. I wish I could find a man who would take care of me.
    redlipscandy redlipscandy 18-21, F 32 Responses Jul 22

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    Am I any older guy's type? I've only been with my step dad. I've never had the opportunity to date, or see what's out there- or if anybody would even like me!! Do you think older...
    redlipscandy redlipscandy 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm 21 but I love men much older than me! I fantasize about having sex with one. I just feel like the sex would be amazing
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm 23 I'm not that young, but I find myself really attracted to older man. I love their maturity (I know not all older men are mature) but the ones I have met have been wonderful...
    AmorTiana AmorTiana 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    So the other night my dads best friend came over because my dad had to go somewhere overnight for business, me and him don't really get along only because he's a doctor and hes...
    kayzuzz kayzuzz 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I love white men so much. Ever since I was "young" I've been attracted to them. And it's only intensified as I've gotten older. The facial hair, skin contrast, and overall sweet...
    AllyBaby13 AllyBaby13 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 19