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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I'm attracted to men 20 years my senior and older... I have a Daddy complex... Sorry guys who are in their teens and 20s. You can't really do much for me! ^-^
    ExoticXDarkness ExoticXDarkness 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F a week ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Always been attracted to guys double my age or more. I don't mean to diminish any guy around my age group or anyone within 10 years of me BUT its true I honestly am attracted to...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 24

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F Nov 19

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F Nov 19

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    ultracc11 ultracc11 26-30, F Nov 20

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    Just for clarification, "older guys" is not synonymous with old men. The attraction comes from experience, maturity, stability and security. There also has to be a physical...
    DebbieG17 DebbieG17 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I have always found myself attracted to men and women both growing up. Just recently I found out I am bisexual and I do not regret how it happened.
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 28

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    i'm 17 and attracted to older men from 20 - 30. Age is just a number :3
    vnyraissa vnyraissa 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 30

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F Dec 8

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F Dec 8

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    I'm black and my first and (sadly) only real boyfriend was white. That was a few year ago. More recently I have gotten close to another white man, but we remained friends. I'd say...
    moonlightserene moonlightserene 26-30, F Dec 11

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    im only 20, but everyone i've ever been attracted to has been at least like 5 years older than me (but usually 9-15). i don't think it's 'wrong' but there is a lot of social stigma...
    jazzyazzy jazzyazzy 18-21, F 37 Responses a week ago

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    I'm weird and funny. I've been to a club a few times and it was amazing. I danced on tabletops and bars, attracted many men who tried to flirt with me, buy me a drink, dance with...
    wodnyrak wodnyrak 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Juliecc11 Juliecc11 26-30, F Dec 1

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    I'm not attracted to very older men in general. I just wanted to put that out there. I'd date up to a 18/19 years old guy. This is just my preference.
    meli347 meli347 13-15, F Nov 27

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    Where have all the good men gone, and where are the gods?  A hero...Not this:Or that:I mean... grow up, men!
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 20 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I was looking for a group with this title, but had no success in finding it. As a sister, there's no one like a brother. He's flesh of my flesh, bone of my bones. There's something...
    SpanishRose10 SpanishRose10 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    RP Online I love dirty old men how know that women should serve them. I love when men spit on my face or in my mouth telling me Im nothing but their stupid little s.lut. I love...
    BitchAli BitchAli 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    im so scared... i recently self harmed again and my mom doesnt know.. if she finds out im sure shes gonna send me back to the mental hospital. when i was at peachford the staff was...
    mysticalgem mysticalgem 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    Ok my hubby's White but I'm incredibly attracted to Black men and I always have been. To me they have such a masculine look and attitude that I think is very sexy. So yes, I do...
    ForeverLynn ForeverLynn 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 24

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F Nov 26

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    cassiecc11 cassiecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    fergieCC12 fergieCC12 26-30, F Dec 4

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    I found that I do. Since my divorce almost 8 years ago I've only been with and dated younger men for some reason. Even now, my man is 25 and I am 34. I found when I was younger I...
    CutieWants2PleaseYou CutieWants2PleaseYou 31-35, F 23 Responses Dec 6

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    in this time of unrest between blacks and whites, interracial couples give me hope. They make me believe that there is a possibility for love between races. As much as I would love...
    4EVRANDEVR 4EVRANDEVR 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    coworker flirting or LIKES me I have been working at this new job for about 6 months and I have noticed this coworker has 'grown on me' and I am attracted to him. The thing...
    tee13gee tee13gee 41-45, F Dec 11

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    i m always attracted to those who seems distance, mysterious, hard to understand super good looking men. time to stop all that if i want my life to work for me. No matter how much...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F a week ago

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    How do i know if he's still married? I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    By older I mean guys my parents age, like 30 and above. Guys my age are okay but older men are yum! I don't know why but it really turns me on to know they want me. Sometimes I get...
    doggleboon doggleboon 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 21

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    So where are all the beautiful men?
    lemolemo lemolemo 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    I just realised that I am attracted to men with green/blue eyes. :)
    CtKate27 CtKate27 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    Have always preferred men to be 10-20 years older than me. Find them sexier and funnier and just all round better. Had a few older boyfriends and were much better relationships...
    clareg clareg 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I like it(; I like when the old men are attracted to me (;
    roughloverxoxo roughloverxoxo 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Our 29 Year Age Difference! We meet on AgeMeet.com , I am 21 and my boyfriend is 50. We were friends for a couple years before we got together, we have been together 3 amazing...
    amanda198812 amanda198812 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    Our 29 Year Age Difference! We meet on AgeMeet.com , I am 21 and my boyfriend is 50. We were friends for a couple years before we got together, we have been together 3 amazing...
    amanda198812 amanda198812 26-30, F Dec 9