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I Am Not Attracted to Men

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    Ehh Idk

    For me I can say "Oh hes good looking" but I cannot go any further then that.  I think my past experiences with "boys" have had an impact on me.  Honestly I am not attracted to guys. Everything about them is a complete turnoff. I mean I have plently...
    Slimx0 Slimx0 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Really Good Looking Men Turn Me Off!

    Those stupid Calvin Klein models, insanely buff guys, movie stars, etc.......they irritate the hell out of me. I just don't find traditionally "attractive" men attractive AT ALL. Most the time, they are so vain about the way they look, that's all they care about and...
    FireNice FireNice 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Can't Say That I Am

    I never was attracted to them and I guess I'll never will be. I don't care what they look like and how nice they are, I don't want anything to do with them. Sorry boys your S.O.L.
    FoxyLana FoxyLana 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Am I Blind?

    my friends point out the "hott guys" at the mall and i just have to nod and smile. but i don't see it. i don't see anything thats hot about them... my friends drool over the kid sitting in front of them but i'm lookin at his girlfriend. why was i born a girl if my...
    EmmaKelsey EmmaKelsey 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Okay, so I'm not so young... and I am not even into older men... I'm not really concerned about a person's age at all. I was just watching "Dr. Drew", and he had a segment about...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 28 Responses Sep 11

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    I just adore older men. When i was 13-14 i was attracted to men who were 22-25 and now that i'm 20 i'm attracted to guys who are 30-35. They are so down to earth and respectful...
    StellaFlower StellaFlower 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 9

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    When I was 14, my taste in men tended to be those older than me. 17 - 25 was the age range for me with men right up until I was 19.... Most times I've been with guys 8-10 years...
    pebbles7 pebbles7 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I've been raped several times and mentally mind ****** by men since I can remember. I am way more attracted to women. I knew I liked girls when I was 8 before I like guys. I have...
    oliviatee oliviatee 16-17, F Sep 1

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    I am not sure I would call myself a girl anymore but I am a young women who has always been attracted to people of the opposite sex that are older than me. I have on rare occasion...
    DemonFeyLove DemonFeyLove 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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    If you were given a chance to be with a confident guy would you? The kind of guy that wants to cherish you, keep you safe, make you a better version of you, gives respect and...
    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I've always been attracted to older men, if you're that handsome older man then message me. ;)
    AlaskanBeautyQueen AlaskanBeautyQueen 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 21

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    I love older men that are sugar daddy potential. Money can make an older man much more attractive. In addition, it's a turn on how sexually experienced they are...Im attracted to a...
    kushbabe420 kushbabe420 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    I am not a young girl. I am not a girl at all. I am the older man attracted to younger girls. As I was growing up, people told me how girls mature before boys do. O.K. I believe...
    Adamtheone Adamtheone 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    Not "huge" but I like 5'11 180ib big bone structure inverted triangle. It's very hard to find anyone like that in my age range! That's why I'm attracted to older men, but I don't...
    SadLover1456 SadLover1456 13-15, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not really attracted to dumb people. I am not the smartest woman but I also love to learn. I think that is why I am attracted to the more nerdy men and women. Nothing sexier...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    YoungerWomenlikeOlderMen.com is a brand new dating service focusing on older men younger women, providing a great service to mature singles looking for love, romance and friendship...
    youngerlikeoldermen youngerlikeoldermen 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I'm obssessed with white guys,especially with the ones with green,grey or blue eyes.I've nothing against black men being a black girl.But I'm just attracted to that and can't help...
    mel2030 mel2030 18-21 1 Response Aug 28

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    Hello so first of all I'm a lesbian i have always found myself being more attracted to intelligent women than those who are not. I love holding deep conversations about life and...
    NightsEternalShadow NightsEternalShadow 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    Have always been attracted to the maturity and experience of older men. 30-55 is a perfect range for me.
    bisexualleah bisexualleah 18-21, F 24 Responses Sep 10

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    In some ways it's more that I like the idea that they are attracted to me. The idea he would risk getting in trouble to be with me is exciting. And the thought of being with...
    ambermayxx ambermayxx 13-15, F 14 Responses Sep 10

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    It's just something about them.... I've always be attracted to older men I love the fact that they know who they are what they want and how to get it they also really know how to...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 2

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    I don't know how I did it but I somehow managed to not write any stories over the summer. It was hard to fight the urge because I'm a bit of writer and when ideas come I just want...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I like men who are mature. And older men can be really sexy.
    cutegirl42 cutegirl42 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 3

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    Older men are way sexier then guys my age. Ive been with many older men and they all seem to appreciate me more then younger guys, even if it is only for a couple hours ;) I just...
    LilPrincessPia LilPrincessPia 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 7

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    Sure I like guys my age but older men get me going. They're a lot more mature then young men. Yes I know I'm 16 but I'm turning 17 soon. The oldest I've dated was 24 years old.
    lunamaple lunamaple 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 7

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    Often I get these guys that keep trying to impress me and sometimes also do things to annoy/upset, like a boy teasing a girl in school. If I say I like something, these guys will...
    JaneG8 JaneG8 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I love older men. I'm 26 and I was with a man who was 54. He had such a firm touch and soft skin. It turned me on so much that he wanted me. I felt so comforted by him being so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 22 Responses Aug 20

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    You know, forget when i say i like older men. I learned age doesnt matter stupidity can comes in all shapes. For example; guys that cant read because they dont understand when i...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 22

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    can any girl give me some advice? When I say I like older men, I'm talking about guys who are older than me.. But not over 30. My boyfriend and I hve been 'dating' for a bit over...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    Yeah, white men are pretty much my preference. I can't help what I am attracted to. I want to state this on dating sites without sounding like a racist. Plus, I just feel like I...
    NeelraDorianGray NeelraDorianGray 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 23

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    I love older men I'm a cute young nurse
    nurse332 nurse332 18-21, F 35 Responses Aug 24

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    Hi I've been treated bad by younger men. I love older gentlemen
    lilmay123 lilmay123 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I keep having these dreams about older men! I'm 21...and the guys I keep dreaming about are 31 and 41...what the heck?? Sometimes they're sexual, but mostly I'm just being held by...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 28

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    Married 10 years now ,got two kids after being on this site I am finding that I am attracted to men .is my denied gay side finally coming to light ?
    SexyLexiMX81 SexyLexiMX81 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 31

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    Well older men are usually emotionally and financially secure have more life experience, are comfortable with their sexuality and can enjoy exploring fantasies with young women who...
    Teacher237 Teacher237 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    I'm 18 and I looove older men. I've never been in a relationship, never had a boyfriend, never really found boys my age attractive, which is a bit weird I suppose. I'm just...
    Bethanycares Bethanycares 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 4

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    I have always been attracted to older men, even as a child. Something about them renders me weak. The knowledge, experience, intelligence. I can't help myself.
    missdevilina missdevilina 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 8

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    I've felt like this for as long as I can remember. I'm not sure, but I think it has to do with brother issues.. Causing me to be attracted to slightly older guys, who has a...
    MissClueless MissClueless 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    I've always been attracted to older men, even when i was a child. When I was very young my mother said there was this firefighter who came to our apt to check the smoke/alarm...
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    Yeah older white men don't even look my way twice, or I don't notice. Ive always been really attracted to them.
    xlovepink xlovepink 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'm looking for a younger women that likes older men. I have always been attracted to younger women and it's only gotten stronger over the years. I'm open minded, non-judgemental...
    Jaraky Jaraky 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    Before you judge me, that does not necessarily mean over 80 lol. But i like mature men. Not everyones cup of tea, but it works for me lol
    SwedeNsour SwedeNsour 18-21, F 25 Responses 4 days ago

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    Always been attracted to men about ages 20-45
    JustMeAsMyself JustMeAsMyself 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yup...it's odd too some people. But I just like an experienced man who can pleasure me like unlike younger men ;)
    Shizuka000 Shizuka000 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    As my last relationship started self-destructing I saw a person I thought I knew turn into a vapid clone of everything I hate about MTV and E! We seem to idolize that mentality...
    LestatdeLioncourt LestatdeLioncourt 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Debating about cutting off all men under the age of 28
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I guess we all like different things, and i like dating men older than me. Works for me. :p
    SwedeNsour SwedeNsour 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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