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I Am Not Attractive

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    Personality Tells It All

    If you look at me I'm an average male with no build because I don't exercise a lot. All things being equal I'd be a 5 out of 10. Unfortunately, my personality is too intense and I drag myself down to a 2. It's not that I'm internally mean, I'm just too intense with my ideas.
    cpgnatly cpgnatly 41-45, M 17 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    So back in high school,

    a girl once told me that she was out of my league and that I should stop trying to talk to girls who are "pretty" like her. I actually believed her and just stopped talking to girls because I thought I had no chance with any of them. This feeling of depression somewhat stopped...
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 2

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    What Says In The Tin

    I really feel ugly. I've been told that I'm not, but with a pudgy face, messy and unruly hair, wide nose, indiferent looking eyes, uneven colored skin, fat, I feel trapped And worse, whenever I compare myself to other guys, things get really worse... I lose motivation to do...
    Escaladegris Escaladegris 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    I'm Never Going To Be

    It just hit me like a truck that I'm never going to spark attraction in someone. I have been attracted to a few people in my life and it was a great feeling. But what I tried to do with them was to get them to like me. Built some form of relationship, spent time with them, hoping...
    CaptainBoomer CaptainBoomer 26-30 4 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    One-time Okay-looking Guy, Now Not

    Back in the 80s - some of you might know this - I was in an adult film. Then I had my incident last year, and now my face is messed up a little. I color my hair to look younger and take very good care of my body (like the movie people told me long ago; habits rarely die), but I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    A "taken" Mans Rant...

    What bothers me the most about feeling ugly or unattractive is the number of people that, once you tell them you're married or have a girlfriend, tell you you should stop worrying. After all, they say, SOMEONE finds you good-looking enough to want to be with. Ok, fine, but does...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Beauty Is Skin Deep...

    A liar, a thief, a fake, a creep. A lost soul, a worthless prize, a hopeless spirit, a devil in disguise. All neatly wrapped up in a pretty little package. They all look at me, and admire me, But people never look past the outer appearance. If they did, they'd run. This is a...
    keipark keipark 18-21, M Apr 3, 2013

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    -___-

    seriously i am not, i can't honestly understand why the hell you all think i am. my entire life i have been told so, my own parents, others my age, not to mention the mirror. though i admit i don't think i am the ugliest person in the world anymore i still don't see what you all...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 9 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    Is It Hopeless?

    I don't now, and I've NEVER really perceived myself to be all that attractive, although I've recently had guys tell me that they like my lips and nose.  LOL!  I've been trying for a while to find myself a relationship with a guy, or at least a friendship that has potential...
    WanderingWriter WanderingWriter 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    To Many Roomers About Me.

    the roomers about me are out of this world and has been going on since I was a kid. according to every one I do meth I do harowin I have aids. I have never see drugs like that? their have been times I to talk to a girl she accuses me of having a wife and a kid because her...
    sin3r sin3r 31-35, M Jul 2, 2012

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    I Know I Am Ugly Many People Have Told Me

    even the ones that don't you know they are thinking "gee she is ugly and looks spastic" my relatives have always treated me as if I was a vial ugly mongrel child animal they always have flaunted their success and boyfriends at me and  they have always sanctioned me in some way...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    It's Not The End Of The World, But...

    I wouldn't call myself downright ugly, even though that is in the eye of a beholder, just unattractive. Aside from my slightly higher than average weight, my features are quite normal. It's lack of effort that truly separates me from other girls my age, and thus puts me to the...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    Not One Bit

    I'm fat. Like really overweight. I will always be fat, no matter how much I exercise (2 miles a day now, but formerly 6 until I got sick) or diet (I am a strict vegetarian, avoid most dairy and floury carbs, and NO caffeine, alcohol, or fattening sauces/condiments,  and I...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    NO! No Never...

    I never have and never will be. i wish and ugly baby an ugly child and i am an ugly teenagers, so inevitably i will be an ugly adult. One good thing about not being attractive is i don't have to worry about creeps or freaks. My friend who is attractive always has creeps asking...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses May 30, 2009

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    Affirmatively Believe

    I am not attractive but I try to fit in. Everyone else does. And I affirmatively believe.Otherwise we won't be here explaining to ourselves what we want and what we do not.What we are and what we are not. What we care more and what we care less.I am not attractive but i have full...
    zephyr2005 zephyr2005 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    How I Feel

     Sure, people have stopped calling me ugly.  Actually now, people compliment me. I had a guy say I was really attractive before but I feel that I am not attractive. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    This Ain't Nothing

    Let me short this story bitter. I'm dark skinned, with black dots as eyes, my hair is extremely curly that I used to get relaxers on it for 20 or some years, my big nose is annoying, my lips are thick and dry since I don't use lip gloss. I wear a size 16 and it's kinda difficult...
    Onigiri Onigiri 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    Lost Night For Love

    Tonight would be a good night to be down by the river. Who the hell cares that it's Monday? Warm night, nice breeze,, it'd be a good night for parking with my boyfriend-- if I had one, and I was in the mood for parking. Tonight its negative on both counts. So where am I...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap 18-21, F Sep 9, 2013

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    I look like some garbage bag with a paper bag

    with a face. I just think of myself of some nerdy, geeky, idiot Otaku. And since I'm Asian, people think I'm not so attractive.
    baconOtaku baconOtaku 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    No Longer Desireable

    I used to be an okay-looking guy. I was always insecure about my appearance, so the only way I could feel better about myself was to have sex with a lot of women. I know that's a pathology. I was told I was good-looking, but I hated how I looked in the mirror. However, now there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    Nope

    i am not attractive at all, I don't feel it once bit. I feel ugly, stupid, fat, and just so damn ugly :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    I Am Simply Boring.

    Ever seen a movie? A T.V. show? Even just walked down the street? Of course you have! Well I feel like one of those people in the background that is there for filler that might have one line but has no purpose to be there what-so-ever. I am not ugly but I am no where near...
    Jonny5NeedInput Jonny5NeedInput 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    The Mirror Doesn't Lie.. Does It?

    I look at myself in anything I can see my reflection in, but though I must look totally vain, it's mostly to scrutinize myself. People tell me I'm super pretty, ect, but I can't see it. I don't tell them I'm not or anything because if I do that I must be looking for compliments...
    xMirrorMirrorOnTheWall xMirrorMirrorOnTheWall 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2011

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    Ugly... Ugly

    http://youtu.be/w6J4fCcD6Kc
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 1, 2011

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    Everyone In This Group Is Beautiful Inside And Out

    I really wished everyone here had self-confidence and just told themselves everyday " I am beautiful, and this is a great day" The Cultural norm in this society says that you need to look a certain way to be accepted. They are lies and just want to brainwash you into thinking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 12, 2013

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    This Ain't Nothing

    Let me short this story bitter. I'm dark skinned, with black dots as eyes, my hair is extremely curly that I used to get relaxers on it for 20 or some years, my big nose is annoying, my lips are thick and dry since I don't use lip gloss. I wear a size 16 and it's kinda difficult...
    Onigiri Onigiri 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    Fragility And

    I push people away because I cannot ever find complete exclusivity. Better all at a distance than to discover that I cannot ever be totally enough for another. I cannot ever have children, for fear that I will be constantly choosing between devoting myself completely to the...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    :'( Alright, Fellas, Here'S Why

    I'm a user, really. See, after a while I just Fade, Descend Into Silence, and go away. The time spent in the lethargy of the Silence may last from a week to a month, or worse. Sometimes things pick up later and its the same as before. More often its not. I'm a little darker...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    Not even the least bit.

    I can't tell anyone that though, because they call me a liar, or think I'm begging for attention. But the truth is, I see nothing positive in the way I look. Nothing positive about my face, my body... Nothing.
    TheUglyBelle TheUglyBelle 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Honestly no one aside from family had ever told me that until I was about 18. I'd been holla'd at by guys in cars, but that's not the same at all. I was a weird kid. Not...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Some peeps find me pretty damn hot, some people think I'm pretty or cute, some peeps think I'm not really that pretty, some think I'm ugly af. Friends say I'm cute, and I honestly...
    casssss casssss 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    Smiling is confidence. Not in a cocky way, a sincere way. It's very attractive. Very approachable.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I fins it attractive ^.^ Just not to the point where it's extreme. But I am like a sucker for guys with snake bites in particular.
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F Apr 4

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    Im tired of being ugly. Boys think I'm ugly... EVERYONE thinks im ugly. I look at myself in the mirror and I dont even think im attrative. Im fat too. I need to loose like 25...
    bubblegumbetch bubblegumbetch 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have always found an attraction to muscular guys. My main weakness is the chest. I dont know why but I can just suck and massage a man's pecs all day.
    BiCPP BiCPP 18-21, M Mar 24

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    Asian male here. I'm glad to know that we're not forgotten about. I'm attracted to all types but I always felt like no one was attracted to Asian men.
    GDlifestyle GDlifestyle 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    1.) a genuine air of kindness 2.) a sense of humor born from excess wit an intelligence 3.) someone UNAFRAID of communication--even the hard topics 4.) hard working 5.) Humble 6...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Mar 29

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    Im 22 open minded down to earth friendly and looking for a good looking man aged between 23-40 to chat to and maybe more :)
    missbb2014 missbb2014 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm a beard wearing man... Never felt better since growing it but struggle to see why so many Ladies love it??? What's the answer?
    johnnygolden johnnygolden 36-40, M Apr 2

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    I do not like her like that but I do think she is very pretty
    ILoveBaxter ILoveBaxter 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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