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I Am Not Attractive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 259 People

    Fragility And

    I push people away because I cannot ever find complete exclusivity. Better all at a distance than to discover that I cannot ever be totally enough for another. I cannot ever have children, for fear that I will be constantly choosing between devoting myself completely to the...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    Personality Tells It All

    If you look at me I'm an average male with no build because I don't exercise a lot. All things being equal I'd be a 5 out of 10. Unfortunately, my personality is too intense and I drag myself down to a 2. It's not that I'm internally mean, I'm just too intense with my ideas.
    cpgnatly cpgnatly 41-45, M 16 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    Lost Night For Love

    Tonight would be a good night to be down by the river. Who the hell cares that it's Monday? Warm night, nice breeze,, it'd be a good night for parking with my boyfriend-- if I had one, and I was in the mood for parking. Tonight its negative on both counts. So where am I...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap 18-21, F Sep 9, 2013

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    How I Feel

     Sure, people have stopped calling me ugly.  Actually now, people compliment me. I had a guy say I was really attractive before but I feel that I am not attractive. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    I Know I Am Ugly Many People Have Told Me

    even the ones that don't you know they are thinking "gee she is ugly and looks spastic" my relatives have always treated me as if I was a vial ugly mongrel child animal they always have flaunted their success and boyfriends at me and  they have always sanctioned me in some way...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    Open Mind Project

    I just started this page on facebook called "The Open Mind Project" its a page for people to share whatever they want. They can share anything from a poem to problems they are even going to or a something small like just a photo of a leaf, its a community page where you can just...
    xricky15 xricky15 18-21, M May 12, 2013

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    Nope

    i am not attractive at all, I don't feel it once bit. I feel ugly, stupid, fat, and just so damn ugly :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    It's Not The End Of The World, But...

    I wouldn't call myself downright ugly, even though that is in the eye of a beholder, just unattractive. Aside from my slightly higher than average weight, my features are quite normal. It's lack of effort that truly separates me from other girls my age, and thus puts me to the...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    Not even the least bit.

    I can't tell anyone that though, because they call me a liar, or think I'm begging for attention. But the truth is, I see nothing positive in the way I look. Nothing positive about my face, my body... Nothing.
    TheUglyBelle TheUglyBelle 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    This Ain't Nothing

    Let me short this story bitter. I'm dark skinned, with black dots as eyes, my hair is extremely curly that I used to get relaxers on it for 20 or some years, my big nose is annoying, my lips are thick and dry since I don't use lip gloss. I wear a size 16 and it's kinda difficult...
    Onigiri Onigiri 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I am really not attractive.

    Most guys say I'm homely looking some girls say I'm pretty.
    SummerLove16 SummerLove16 16-17, F 7 Responses May 7

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    -___-

    seriously i am not, i can't honestly understand why the hell you all think i am. my entire life i have been told so, my own parents, others my age, not to mention the mirror. though i admit i don't think i am the ugliest person in the world anymore i still don't see what you all...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 9 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    Not One Bit

    I'm fat. Like really overweight. I will always be fat, no matter how much I exercise (2 miles a day now, but formerly 6 until I got sick) or diet (I am a strict vegetarian, avoid most dairy and floury carbs, and NO caffeine, alcohol, or fattening sauces/condiments,  and I...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    A "taken" Mans Rant...

    What bothers me the most about feeling ugly or unattractive is the number of people that, once you tell them you're married or have a girlfriend, tell you you should stop worrying. After all, they say, SOMEONE finds you good-looking enough to want to be with. Ok, fine, but does...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Beauty Is Skin Deep...

    A liar, a thief, a fake, a creep. A lost soul, a worthless prize, a hopeless spirit, a devil in disguise. All neatly wrapped up in a pretty little package. They all look at me, and admire me, But people never look past the outer appearance. If they did, they'd run. This is a...
    keipark keipark 18-21, M Apr 3, 2013

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    Everyone In This Group Is Beautiful Inside And Out

    I really wished everyone here had self-confidence and just told themselves everyday " I am beautiful, and this is a great day" The Cultural norm in this society says that you need to look a certain way to be accepted. They are lies and just want to brainwash you into thinking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 12, 2013

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    One-time Okay-looking Guy, Now Not

    Back in the 80s - some of you might know this - I was in an adult film. Then I had my incident last year, and now my face is messed up a little. I color my hair to look younger and take very good care of my body (like the movie people told me long ago; habits rarely die), but I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    This Ain't Nothing

    Let me short this story bitter. I'm dark skinned, with black dots as eyes, my hair is extremely curly that I used to get relaxers on it for 20 or some years, my big nose is annoying, my lips are thick and dry since I don't use lip gloss. I wear a size 16 and it's kinda difficult...
    Onigiri Onigiri 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I often get asked why I'm single from my

    friends, co-workers, and family. Sometimes they even think I'm gay because they've never seen me with a woman or on a date. I dunno. I paid eight months on a dating website, match.com, sending messages to women daily and I have never gotten a reply. The only message I would...
    arekay18 arekay18 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    Affirmatively Believe

    I am not attractive but I try to fit in. Everyone else does. And I affirmatively believe.Otherwise we won't be here explaining to ourselves what we want and what we do not.What we are and what we are not. What we care more and what we care less.I am not attractive but i have full...
    zephyr2005 zephyr2005 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    I Am Not Attractvie

    I am not attractive, I look around and see all this pretty girls, every girl beats me. They got way better style, their hair looks pretty, their makeup is perfect all the time etc. all that they manage to do so well… Then I got messy hair, my clods which never seem to work out...
    littlebirdG littlebirdG 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Ugly... Ugly

    http://youtu.be/w6J4fCcD6Kc
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 1, 2011

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    Some asians are super pretty

    and some asians are not so pretty. I got the raw end of the deal.
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F 3 Responses May 28

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    I look like some garbage bag with a paper bag

    with a face. I just think of myself of some nerdy, geeky, idiot Otaku. And since I'm Asian, people think I'm not so attractive.
    baconOtaku baconOtaku 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I Am Simply Boring.

    Ever seen a movie? A T.V. show? Even just walked down the street? Of course you have! Well I feel like one of those people in the background that is there for filler that might have one line but has no purpose to be there what-so-ever. I am not ugly but I am no where near...
    Jonny5NeedInput Jonny5NeedInput 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    To Many Roomers About Me.

    the roomers about me are out of this world and has been going on since I was a kid. according to every one I do meth I do harowin I have aids. I have never see drugs like that? their have been times I to talk to a girl she accuses me of having a wife and a kid because her...
    sin3r sin3r 31-35, M Jul 2, 2012

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    :'( Alright, Fellas, Here'S Why

    I'm a user, really. See, after a while I just Fade, Descend Into Silence, and go away. The time spent in the lethargy of the Silence may last from a week to a month, or worse. Sometimes things pick up later and its the same as before. More often its not. I'm a little darker...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    Is It Hopeless?

    I don't now, and I've NEVER really perceived myself to be all that attractive, although I've recently had guys tell me that they like my lips and nose.  LOL!  I've been trying for a while to find myself a relationship with a guy, or at least a friendship that has potential...
    WanderingWriter WanderingWriter 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    Want to Go Into Hiding

    i always have people in my school coming up to me and telling me i'm ugly. i wish i could just lock myself in a closet and never hear that agian. i've burn all my pictures of me.
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    absten1 absten1 16-17, F 3 Responses May 11

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    No Longer Desireable

    I used to be an okay-looking guy. I was always insecure about my appearance, so the only way I could feel better about myself was to have sex with a lot of women. I know that's a pathology. I was told I was good-looking, but I hated how I looked in the mirror. However, now there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    NO! No Never...

    I never have and never will be. i wish and ugly baby an ugly child and i am an ugly teenagers, so inevitably i will be an ugly adult. One good thing about not being attractive is i don't have to worry about creeps or freaks. My friend who is attractive always has creeps asking...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses May 30, 2009

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    The Mirror Doesn't Lie.. Does It?

    I look at myself in anything I can see my reflection in, but though I must look totally vain, it's mostly to scrutinize myself. People tell me I'm super pretty, ect, but I can't see it. I don't tell them I'm not or anything because if I do that I must be looking for compliments...
    xMirrorMirrorOnTheWall xMirrorMirrorOnTheWall 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2011

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    So back in high school,

    a girl once told me that she was out of my league and that I should stop trying to talk to girls who are "pretty" like her. I actually believed her and just stopped talking to girls because I thought I had no chance with any of them. This feeling of depression somewhat stopped...
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 2

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    What Says In The Tin

    I really feel ugly. I've been told that I'm not, but with a pudgy face, messy and unruly hair, wide nose, indiferent looking eyes, uneven colored skin, fat, I feel trapped And worse, whenever I compare myself to other guys, things get really worse... I lose motivation to do...
    Escaladegris Escaladegris 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    How attractive am I? 1-10 please be honest.
    SexyEric1 SexyEric1 13-15, M 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I'm wondering if I am attractive...
    PrincessAbigail89 PrincessAbigail89 22-25, F 8 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm new and I keep seeing posts like this, by both men and women. I'll click on the post, and often it will be someone that I do think is attractive, sometimes it's someone that I...
    Varof Varof 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Jesus f-ucking Joseph and Mary, you're attractive already! Stop fishing for compliments and attention. You know you're attractive. Stop! It's annoying! It's even more attractive if...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Who doesn't want to know the answer to this question. You must admit that you've longed to post on this subject; you've seen this topic and you've wondered who will find you...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Lately I've been obsessed with men's hands. Really everything on an attractive guy is going to be attractive.
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Who think I'm attractive any girls think I'm attractive or nahhhh
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I think this is a fun group to join.Like many, I have a healthy appreciation for beauty too, and no....nothing freaky like being celebrity obsessed...or being superficial in liking...
    LittleMinxx LittleMinxx 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was abused by my mother and in care homes. Never had a reason to think I am attractive. No I'm not supermodel but many find my sense of humour attractive. I think it's more I'm...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I know I'm an attractive person but it seems like no guys in my school like me, but when I visit other schools they r all over me??
    cathygramaticu cathygramaticu 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    What actually makes a person physically attractive?
    chellemxo chellemxo 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 26

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    The only people that seem to think I'm attractive are creepy online men who are in their 30's :'(
    kico4 kico4 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    It honestly is so much more appealing than looks. Being with an intelligent man or woman(or anything in between, whatever you fancy!) is such a learning experience. I'm such a...
    ariella7 ariella7 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Yea it just hit me. The way I look is the way I look. I can't change it, and I don't want to. It's a part of me, and even though it's not exactly attractive, or pretty. It doesn't...
    DistantNews DistantNews 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Simple, subtle........but very attractive.......;))) xx
    SexyBlackBrit SexyBlackBrit 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 6

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