I Am Not Attractive

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    ....I disagree! I think we're all attractive!

    Just not always to each other. If you are at school, and don't feel attractive. I'll bet you ANYTHING there's somebody in your year that fancies the pants off you!!!! They're probably too shy to just let you know it! Probably the same if you work in an environment where it's...
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 14, 2015

    Help. I got called a plain Jane my face is

    pretty but not like wow, my body is hot and my personality is a 10. Apparently I'm a 8 all together. A guy I like told me this and I looked up plain Jane and now I'm extremely upset. Should I be upset by this? Is being a plain Jane really bad? I just need answers.
    blossomingMe blossomingMe
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    Many people online tend to say you are just

    looking for attention when you say you are not attractive even on sites where there is no pictures of me but the truth is that I am not and it is really starting to get to me. Every day I sit with the thought running through my head "how could a guy possibly ever even look at...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    Some asians are super pretty

    and some asians are not so pretty. I got the raw end of the deal.
    sammichs sammichs
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 28, 2014
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2014

    I'm fat in all the wrong places,

    have no butt, awkward boobs, short dyed hair, too big lips, a long nose, small brown hazel and gold eyes, big ears, broad shoulders, lanky and tall, short and chubby fingers, and big feet. Nothing about that is attractive.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    Not One Bit

    I'm fat. Like really overweight. I will always be fat, no matter how much I exercise (2 miles a day now, but formerly 6 until I got sick) or diet (I am a strict vegetarian, avoid most dairy and floury carbs, and NO caffeine, alcohol, or fattening sauces/condiments,  and I...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Sep 26, 2010
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    Nov 18, 2015

    So back in high school,

    a girl once told me that she was out of my league and that I should stop trying to talk to girls who are "pretty" like her. I actually believed her and just stopped talking to girls because I thought I had no chance with any of them. This feeling of depression somewhat stopped...
    jonbz17 jonbz17
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    Fragility And

    I push people away because I cannot ever find complete exclusivity. Better all at a distance than to discover that I cannot ever be totally enough for another. I cannot ever have children, for fear that I will be constantly choosing between devoting myself completely to the...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2013

    I mean I can take somewhat decent pictures of

    myself, but me in person is an entirely different story. My personality is just bad and I'm very introverted and socially awkward. I tend to get looked over and ignored, but when I don't, I always end up doing or saying something weird and off putting. I'm unattractive because I...
    StrangelyWrinkledMammal StrangelyWrinkledMammal
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2014


    seriously i am not, i can't honestly understand why the hell you all think i am. my entire life i have been told so, my own parents, others my age, not to mention the mirror. though i admit i don't think i am the ugliest person in the world anymore i still don't see what you all...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass
    22-25, M
    9 Responses Feb 8, 2011

    It's Not The End Of The World, But...

    I wouldn't call myself downright ugly, even though that is in the eye of a beholder, just unattractive. Aside from my slightly higher than average weight, my features are quite normal. It's lack of effort that truly separates me from other girls my age, and thus puts me to the...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

    The Mirror Doesn't Lie.. Does It?

    I look at myself in anything I can see my reflection in, but though I must look totally vain, it's mostly to scrutinize myself. People tell me I'm super pretty, ect, but I can't see it. I don't tell them I'm not or anything because if I do that I must be looking for compliments...
    xMirrorMirrorOnTheWall xMirrorMirrorOnTheWall
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2011

    I Am Not Attractvie

    I am not attractive, I look around and see all this pretty girls, every girl beats me. They got way better style, their hair looks pretty, their makeup is perfect all the time etc. all that they manage to do so well… Then I got messy hair, my clods which never seem to work out...
    littlebirdG littlebirdG
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 30, 2011
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman
    18-21, M
    Oct 21, 2014

    One-time Okay-looking Guy, Now Not

    Back in the 80s - some of you might know this - I was in an adult film. Then I had my incident last year, and now my face is messed up a little. I color my hair to look younger and take very good care of my body (like the movie people told me long ago; habits rarely die), but I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2011

    I see a lot of beautiful girls

    and great looking guys who get all of the girls, both not so attractive and very attractive and then there's just me. even if I did lose some weight it wouldn't help really. I'm just not attractive and doomed to be ugly and alone forever....
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf
    18-21, M
    Aug 7, 2015

    All my life, I've felt not enough.

    I've always felt like the ugly duckling. I had an eating disorder in my teens. Dropped 50lbs from starving myself. Got pregnant at 17. Gave birth at 18. Her father left me. My bf cheated on me. I've been told my mother that I was ugly. I just can't seem to stop thinking ugly...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 22, 2014
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap
    22-25, F
    Oct 21, 2014
    jfosmark jfosmark
    22-25, M
    Oct 27, 2014

    Nope I'm not. Never will be.

    That's how i know people lie with their compliments. They know I'm ugly just like I know I'm ugly.
    Theguy0298 Theguy0298
    18-21, M
    Jul 15, 2015

    :'( Alright, Fellas, Here'S Why

    I'm a user, really. See, after a while I just Fade, Descend Into Silence, and go away. The time spent in the lethargy of the Silence may last from a week to a month, or worse. Sometimes things pick up later and its the same as before. More often its not. I'm a little darker...
    reachmygoalasap reachmygoalasap
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2013

    Yes ... I'm a pervert .

    .. I'm a perv coz none considered me ... I was ignored ... I regret a lot for I'm born... I'm feeling down ...
    hariprashanth92 hariprashanth92
    22-25, M
    Mar 18, 2015

    I always get picked up at .

    . My mom and sister bully me .. My friends in school call me ugly tho they're supposed to be my best friends ... People care about looks forget about instagram ****
    nonorawi nonorawi
    13-15, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2014

    A "taken" Mans Rant...

    What bothers me the most about feeling ugly or unattractive is the number of people that, once you tell them you're married or have a girlfriend, tell you you should stop worrying. After all, they say, SOMEONE finds you good-looking enough to want to be with. Ok, fine, but does...
    Tuva Tuva
    31-35, M
    6 Responses Jun 30, 2011

    But it's okay. At least I know I'm ugly.

    I'm self aware. An I don't give a rats *** right now. I will later. But right now I don't.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2014

    I look like some garbage bag with a paper bag

    with a face. I just think of myself of some nerdy, geeky, idiot Otaku. And since I'm Asian, people think I'm not so attractive.
    baconOtaku baconOtaku
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2014

    Never called attractive

    until the invention of selfies and filters. o-o #imfakeaf
    AyeTheGoodLife AyeTheGoodLife
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2014

    people say I am but I really don't see it

    there's nothing attractive about me
    RedNekoPrincess RedNekoPrincess
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    I really don't feel it I look in the mirror

    and I see nothing worth looking at Will u guys tell me what u think
    jrej16 jrej16
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    I am always being told no

    when I ask people out and getting treated if I try. so it's got me thinking and I now know I'm unattractive
    songwriterandsinger songwriterandsinger
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2015

    I don't find myself ugly

    or attractive, I'm nothing special. Just average.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333
    18-21, F
    Oct 22, 2014

    I'm hideous on my period I'm short clumsy

    and awkward and I have a Bermuda triangle going on on my forehead as well as breaking out on my jawline. No one is interested in me or compliments me. I'm just a wallflower.
    moonmaiden1 moonmaiden1
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2015
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog
    70+, F
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    This Ain't Nothing

    Let me short this story bitter. I'm dark skinned, with black dots as eyes, my hair is extremely curly that I used to get relaxers on it for 20 or some years, my big nose is annoying, my lips are thick and dry since I don't use lip gloss. I wear a size 16 and it's kinda difficult...
    Onigiri Onigiri
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Feb 23, 2011
    buzzking buzzking
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    Nope, not physically attractive.

    I dont wear matching clothes, my hair stayes a mess, a have bad posture, i guess my only attractive feature would be that im super skinny if ur into that kinda thing lol. But idc that i look like crap. I smell good thats the important thing haha. And also i just wasn't blessed...
    coffeelover123 coffeelover123
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2014
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    Personality Tells It All

    If you look at me I'm an average male with no build because I don't exercise a lot. All things being equal I'd be a 5 out of 10. Unfortunately, my personality is too intense and I drag myself down to a 2. It's not that I'm internally mean, I'm just too intense with my ideas.
    cpgnatly cpgnatly
    41-45, M
    12 Responses Apr 2, 2013
    vaitatiana34 vaitatiana34
    13-15, F
    Jul 3, 2015

    Being cheated on and told no time

    after time got me to thinking. Then I realized no women flirt with me. Then I took a long look at myself in the mirror and took a deep breath. I didn't want to accept it. There's no denying it like it or not I'm unattractive.
    solojo solojo
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 13, 2015
    absten1 absten1
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 11, 2014

    I Am Simply Boring.

    Ever seen a movie? A T.V. show? Even just walked down the street? Of course you have! Well I feel like one of those people in the background that is there for filler that might have one line but has no purpose to be there what-so-ever. I am not ugly but I am no where near...
    Jonny5NeedInput Jonny5NeedInput
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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