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I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am

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    "I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am" i always say my husband must see a blinking neon sigh on my forhead that says *****...*****...*****.   sometimes i actually consider doing it because he thinks i am anyway.
    tine15dbld tine15dbld 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    I've Never Even Gave Him a Reason to Think I Would Cheat On Him!!!!

    So here is how the story goes- My husband and I went to a party on Friday night, and got highly intoxicated. Somehow I forgot my camera down there. The next morning I got up and couldn't remember much. I asked my husband for my phone, he handed it to me- the screen was broke!!! I...
    whathappendtotheoldus whathappendtotheoldus 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F Apr 10

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    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Day by day I remember more and more. All his lies and bitter *** words. His words that just break me some how. I sit there try to think the good times we had, but there is more bad...
    Iamtryingmybest Iamtryingmybest 18-21, F Mar 21

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    Really annoyed with him today ... He thinks it's funny to point out my flaws but all he did was hurt my feelings
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    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Nope, nope, nope, NEVER..I think loyalty is extremely important, if you're not happy..then leave, don't just hurt someone else because you "aren't feeling the same" anymore..will...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I think that cheating is like the worst I mean if you stopped loving your bf or gf or you just want to go after someone else,then just break with them and go for whoever you like...
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    alexee10 alexee10 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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