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I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am

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    I've Never Even Gave Him a Reason to Think I Would Cheat On Him!!!!

    So here is how the story goes- My husband and I went to a party on Friday night, and got highly intoxicated. Somehow I forgot my camera down there. The next morning I got up and couldn't remember much. I asked my husband for my phone, he handed it to me- the screen was broke!!! I...
    whathappendtotheoldus whathappendtotheoldus 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    "I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am" i always say my husband must see a blinking neon sigh on my forhead that says *****...*****...*****.   sometimes i actually consider doing it because he thinks i am anyway.
    tine15dbld tine15dbld 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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