Post

I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 5 People

    I've Never Even Gave Him a Reason to Think I Would Cheat On Him!!!!

    So here is how the story goes- My husband and I went to a party on Friday night, and got highly intoxicated. Somehow I forgot my camera down there. The next morning I got up and couldn't remember much. I asked my husband for my phone, he handed it to me- the screen was broke!!! I...
    whathappendtotheoldus whathappendtotheoldus 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    blinking Neon Sign

    "I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am" i always say my husband must see a blinking neon sigh on my forhead that says *****...*****...*****.   sometimes i actually consider doing it because he thinks i am anyway.
    tine15dbld tine15dbld 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I have been hurt and cheated on many times and still, here i am, staying with him and loving him. Now, other woman (he denies having any communication with her) is texting me and...
    brokenscarred brokenscarred 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am new here, but needed some support from others going through infidelity and trying to make it work out
    slee17 slee17 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I got married to a man who is good. But in bedroom, he always surprises me... He always talks about his fantasies and that involves all the girls he likes it .. And then he started...
    Manisha76 Manisha76 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been married to my husband for over 18 years (together for 20). We have a 22yr old son (his by birth, mine by adoption) and a younger teen daughter. Our son was initially...
    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm so confused and desperate mother of 4. My husband thinks he controls everything in my life like he is my god or something I hate him so much he won't buy a car for me and the...
    Lindalilly Lindalilly 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 9. We have 3 children (elementary school age) and I've been a good wife. No, a GREAT wife. By his own admission. He...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband constantly accuses me of cheating and I never have! I work long strenuous hours and when I am not at work, I am home. He knows this! I put on ALOT of weight when I had...
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband went away a couple of weeks ago to Ocean City, MD for Fireman's Convention on business. While he was away he spent his nights with a friend of ours, He has known her...
    ajls ajls 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I grew up believing my parents had the best relationship. Sure, they hurled verbal abuse at each other but they always managed to resolve their issues. They love me and my my...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I see so many post here by people cheating on their spouses or looking to do so.... Am I the only person who thinks that extramarital affairs are morally wrong? They have the...
    Z00Z00Z Z00Z00Z 36-40, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok, warning this is going to be long! I am at a loss in life. I have been married for almost 10 yrs, with him for almost 15. Things between us were always good,( not perfect of...
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 31-35, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been with my husband since 1999. He has a additive personality that he thinks he is in control of. In the last 15 yrs he has been addicted to meth, cocaine, pills, alcohol...
    2012death 2012death 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been married 38 years. I love my husband. He had a horrible childhood. There have been two incidents of my husband getting into a phone/internet relationship with another...
    fearandloathing333 fearandloathing333 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am married for more than 10 years and I have almost everything I could ever want except the sex is ok. Not often and I'm a cuddle person and my husband doesn't do much. For many...
    Ws1999 Ws1999 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My wife and I are hardly talking because of her relationship with a boyfriend she used to have 20 years ago. This boyfriend was her very first in all regards and I know is very...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The key to HATE is: Lying, cheating, deserting, 4 children in 5 years (six beautiful children in total), the *Death of one's dreams*, Not ONE discussion over how any given bill...
    sunbeam1 sunbeam1 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi all. I'm just having a really hard time today- I normally just read and read on this site and it helps me alot. I decided to speak up today. I miss my husband so much I want...
    Racquel34 Racquel34 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I post this on behalf of a friend who as we speak is on her 5th day of non-stop "discussions" with her husband of 5 years who she's told she wants to leave. She has been suffering...
    PerseveringMark PerseveringMark 31-35 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband'a family is so inconsiderate. His father is deceased so I've never met him. His mother is way too needy and is always seeking approval from the men in her life (her sons...
    lipservice22 lipservice22 31-35, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's been almost one week since my husband of 10 years fractured my nose, cheekbone, and black my eye and face. He chocked me out a little bit and I have various bruises on my arm...
    mrsmegnva mrsmegnva 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm divorcing my husband of 8 years and ending a 12-years relationship. I met him back in university he's from Europe and I'm from Asia. This is going to be long... After uni I...
    lastfeather lastfeather 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He usually texts me everyday except the weekends. I'm still waiting since Friday. I don't want to play games. I know he has a girlfriend and before this whole thing started he said...
    Ws1999 Ws1999 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Anyone that cheats, should not be in a relationship. That is a plain as day for me, that's how I feel personally. If a relationship is not going great, take a break, say something...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't understand why people cheat. I can't stand it. Do they even care that their hurting the person their cheating on. I just think cheating is so stupid and selfish!
    Jaymerz97 Jaymerz97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If you cheat, you instantly disgust me. There is literally no point in cheating. If you don't like the relationship, LEAVE! If you don't like the marriage, either wok it out or...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This was the closest "experience" I could find that I could relate to in a way. Now, I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing him of cheating...I just feel like something has...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My wife accuses me of treating her like a sex doll whenever I push the issue of us not having sex. She says she is always too tired, except those rare occasions when she isn't and...
    themyth1981 themyth1981 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Okay first of all I don't consider cheating on her I'm not that type of person. If I was ever going to cheat I would break up first. This was just the closest category I could find...
    npodsiadlo npodsiadlo 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am only 22 years old and my fiance is in jail. He has only been gone a couple of weeks, and I swear I am going insane. I have lost so much of my simple memory, I can barely even...
    Shaelynmarie Shaelynmarie 22-25, F Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We've been married 21 years, he's a good man, not abusive in any way but I have no feelings for him anymore. I've tried to explain this to him but he just ignores it & doesn't want...
    Newlife48 Newlife48 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He is so freak rude and self center he thinks that the nice things I do for him I have too. I am the best woman he has ever had and he treats me like ish.
    Missthang82 Missthang82 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've known this boy for a while now. We talked a few years back for the longest time and stopped when he got locked up. Even back then we had such a strong connection. We started...
    Emmylovely Emmylovely 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she...
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He still emails his ex. He knows I don't like it, but says he would never tell me not to talk to someone. Said it's stupid to think anything could e going on. I think he emails...
    Lin53207 Lin53207 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's more I have a problem with cheating thoughts. I am married and have a child on the way. I am so deeply in love with my wife, and even still to this day, being 9 months...
    anonnimus anonnimus 22-25 1 Response Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been on the otherside of that coin and I can honestly say that I couldn't cheat on someone i was seeing - if i wasn't happy I would hope to be man (or woman) enough to be...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Still need some advice on this cheating thing. Please don't just tell me to leave him, clearly I want to make it work if I'm asking
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The worst kind of cheating is when you're married. Why would anyone do that?
    Fortiplex Fortiplex 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can help you know for sure. If you're truly worried, and have no way to really know without ruining things, please contact me. My job is to help you feel better about what's...
    Silverflash33487 Silverflash33487 18-21 Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can help you know for sure. If you're truly worried, and have no way to really know without ruining things, please contact me. My job is to help you feel better about what's...
    Silverflash33487 Silverflash33487 18-21 2 Responses Jul 6