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I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am

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    "I Am Not Cheating and My Husband Thinks I Am" i always say my husband must see a blinking neon sigh on my forhead that says *****...*****...*****.   sometimes i actually consider doing it because he thinks i am anyway.
    tine15dbld tine15dbld 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    I've Never Even Gave Him a Reason to Think I Would Cheat On Him!!!!

    So here is how the story goes- My husband and I went to a party on Friday night, and got highly intoxicated. Somehow I forgot my camera down there. The next morning I got up and couldn't remember much. I asked my husband for my phone, he handed it to me- the screen was broke!!! I...
    whathappendtotheoldus whathappendtotheoldus 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    So he has cheated on me many times, still does..ive been hurt bad.. But now I've changed, I don't care about him anymore, I want to move on. Today he went through my facebook...
    Phairux Phairux 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I KNOW my (soon to be ex) wife of 10+ years is a "serial cheater" who didn't give a rat's a** about the swaths of devastation she was creating or enabling with her multiple...
    TheExWifeorcist TheExWifeorcist 56-60, M 1 hr ago

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    .....that Morality is the first victim of Loneliness. I still believe that. In that particular situation, she was cheating on her husband of 10 years with a younger man from...
    AngryFallenAngel AngryFallenAngel 46-50, M Oct 11

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    I HATE MY HUSBAND SO SO MUCH THAT I CRINGE HIS EVERY PRESENCE!!!!! What do I do? IM IN RAFE NOW AS I SAY I HATE MY HUSBAND WITH A PASSION!!'n help
    ruddwb ruddwb 36-40, F 1 Response 54 mins ago

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    I am overwhelmed. I am a compulsive cheater and have been with my husband for six years. There have only been small stints when I haven't had someone else on the side. I'm a...
    lucianna816 lucianna816 26-30, F 30 mins ago

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    People thinks I'm crazy about the way I see cheating. For me it starts since that person talk to someone else. They already have you,so,what are they looking for? The already have...
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I love being able to lay in bed with my husband and just joke around and watch t.v till we fall asleep....i'm so glad i found someone i can just talk with and be wrapped up in...
    JayysForever JayysForever 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    My husband and i have been together 5 years and the sex has never been great. I do love him but feel sexually unsatisfied. There is a man who I used to see who is also married that...
    kimmyh23 kimmyh23 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11

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    My husband of 27 years has not been speaking to me for the past three days. He speaks to my daughter lovingly, and he speaks to my sons (2) casually. A couple of days ago, my...
    neglected08 neglected08 46-50 a week ago

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    As i sit here and type this post I am in disbelief. I recently found out that the person I was once married to and been with for 5 years is gay or bi. I am now starting to realize...
    Distraught89 Distraught89 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    We been together for 4 years and I finally got pregnant after 2 years of trying. My husband is constantly cheating on me. I found out from this woman who he slept with that my...
    anne2387 anne2387 26-30, F 19 Responses Sep 26

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    I have been married for 34 years and during this time I have had the suspicion that my husband was unfaithful to me. We had many arguments and he denied it every time calling me a...
    entropy1 entropy1 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I have tired and tired with my husband's family. I can no longer stand them! I don't want them to be a part of my life. I have been married to my husband for almost five years and...
    tonysflame tonysflame 31-35 1 Response Oct 9

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    My husband has a cute female coworker 14 years younger than he is, whom he would receive texts from. I asked him to stop the texting and he said sure no problem. But then I found...
    heartofbliss heartofbliss 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 29

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    I am a wife, and I have cheated. Don't get me wrong I LOVE my husband, and never want to be with anyone else, but I still really enjoy getting attention from other males, and if an...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 14 Responses 5 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband over the course of two weeks because I've been desperately searching for a job. I posted an ad online that I'd be willing to f*** whoever hired me on a...
    Efangeii Efangeii 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    To me cheating Is okay when you know the guy or girl is cheating in you. If I know a guy is cheating I just cheat on them back play their game and then leave him
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    We got caught cheating in a science test today! Well it wasn't really cheating I was just checking my answer with my friend and it was right anyway. But we both had to go and see...
    EllieT01 EllieT01 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So a little over 2weeks ago, my husband said he wanted "space". Our therapist ( really his), suggested I go to a hotel. On a Friday night in the middle of the night, he woke me up...
    mariondavies mariondavies 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    I hate my husband so much. I can't divorce him because I'm afraid of what he'd do if I did. He's mentally ill but thinks it's everyone else who is the problem. He gets into...
    lm22900 lm22900 56-60, F Oct 14

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    I hate my husband sometimes specially when he leaves me for his friends. We got married in August and yes I do think I should of waited because I clearly see his mind isn't where...
    chanel0408 chanel0408 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Am I cheating? There's this gorgeous guy at work, and I feel myself falling more and more for him every time I see him. At this stage we haven't had sex, but we talk about it...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 28

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    It started as an open relationship but I wasn't suppose to fall in love. It happened way too fast and now I'm stuck between two amazing men that both claim to love me and want to...
    notverywise notverywise 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 1

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    Cheating is something I can't even begin to understand why anybody would do. If you aren't happy in your relationship then you shouldn't be in one. If you'd rather mess around with...
    mads225 mads225 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 7

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    This is the first time I'm telling this story. I don't want sympathy and I'm sure a lot of you will think I'm stupid. I have a boyfriend. His name is, let's call him, Stephen. I've...
    thatgirl0926 thatgirl0926 18-21, F Oct 11

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    I was never one for cheating but as the saying goes: "never say never". Boyfriend left for school in NYC and left me in Miami and we were together for 4 years already so what's 2-3...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 22-25, F Oct 13

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    Something I need to see: I feel sorry for any of these women or men who get cheated on. I see people on here talking about how they had several affairs and they don't regret...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 1 Response a week ago

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    He didn't take it well, which i can understand. But we talked about it, he said he wont mind me cutting my hair and dressing like a man, but if i start taking the hormones he wont...
    sarahrudolph44 sarahrudolph44 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Today is our 20 year anniversary. It's amazing how two people who have been together this long can be on such different pages. While yes, he's made an effort recently to show...
    Gotthegottagoes Gotthegottagoes 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    Ok. Short story. Aren't they all. Married for 20 years to college sweetheart. He tells me he doesn't love me and he thinks he never did. (All of this realization happens on the...
    canirunaway canirunaway 46-50, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    cheating is not okay. it hurts the other person. if you love them then you shouldnt cheat. there is no reason for it. even if you got drunk and had sex. thats no reason you should...
    picofire picofire 22-25, M Oct 4

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    I don't think cheating is acceptable in a relationship because for me if I am in a relationship, that person has my up most respect even if we are going through a hard time we can...
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F Oct 6

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    It don't count as cheating if you wear a condom or you don't nut
    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 10

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    I don't necessarily think he's cheating on me.... Like I know he loves me but I think he still likes this girl he use to talk to & I'm not sure what to do about it...my question...
    isalis37 isalis37 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    My wife's 59 but looks about 49. Recently she started displaying disrespect for me verbally and some incongruous behavior. I found it odd that she's constantly checking on her...
    TrentT TrentT 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    I think my girlfriend is cheating, bad times :(
    Moogy88 Moogy88 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I love my boyfriend more than anything, but I don't know if I'd walk away from a situation that would lead to cheating, and that scares me.
    Odessa0310 Odessa0310 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok I don't know where to start. Pretty much my sex life sucks and has for the last few months. I'm not really the cheating kind but I guess when my needs are not getting met I can...
    Kayloves060814 Kayloves060814 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I dreamt about my boyfriend cheating with a bob hairstyle girl and that girl was giving ******** for him and he was so enjoying it that I was looking at them and he just ignored me...
    badromance96 badromance96 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    me to If you are not happy then move on ! love is a serious and special thing that must not be abused but ye I really can't stand people cheating its very wrong
    Rossthayer Rossthayer 22-25, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    What on earth is the point in cheating? You're dating someone and you meet someone else and you want to date them but you cheat on your partner...... JUST BRAKE UP WITH THEM AND...
    Matthews14 Matthews14 13-15, M 7 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Three weeks ago I walked into a room and saw my husband almost kiss a friend of the family. It broke my heart in a million pieces. We have been together for 20 years, married for...
    Nancy73 Nancy73 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am so lucky! my boyfriend prefers that I don't wear makeup because he thinks I am pretty without it. Plus he knows it will just get all over his clothes and hands because he is...
    wiccanwoman1994 wiccanwoman1994 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 26