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I Am Not Close With My Sibling

Sibling Rivalry 605 People

    Not Really

    My brother and I fought a lot when we were little. We didn't start getting along until I was in my late teens. I moved out when I was 18 and my brother ended up confessing to me that he missed me. We became closer after that, but still were not as close as other brothers and...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    We Are Completely Different

    Well, it's the same situation like with my father. My sister is older than me 9 years - that's enough for being different. It's known that the youngest in family are always the black sheeps, but in my case, I was the good daughter and she was the hated rebel. She has even worse...
    FadeIntoDarkness FadeIntoDarkness 18-21, F Oct 2, 2012

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    Same

    Ok so if you know me than you would know that i live with my older brother Miles and younger sister KatieI also have an older sister called Isabella i havent even made contact with her since i was like 8ishI also have another older brother named Patrick and i havent seen him...
    JessicaMarieHayze JessicaMarieHayze 13-15, F Oct 7, 2011

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    Two Worlds Apart; She Is A Stranger To Me

    My sister (strange word to use really) and I are 13 months apart and you would almost figure we should of been close growing up. She was always the one with a lot of friends who was always going out and doing different, exciting things. She seemed to always have the better life...
    beautyfulchaos beautyfulchaos 22-25, F Jul 22, 2012

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    My Brother Hated Me (His Little Sis)

    My brother is around one year older than me and would always pick on me and beat me up and make fun of me. I always loved him, idolized him even but he always resented me. He was a "rambunctious" child to say the least and in junior high and high school he became popular but not...
    georgiakd georgiakd 26-30, F Oct 16, 2013

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    My siblings are tearing my family apart!

    I have two younger siblings- a sister who is 8 and a brother who is 11. My sister acts like she's a lot younger than 8, we suspect she has ADD or something of the sort because her behavior is really abnormal for an 8 year old, she acts more like 5. My brother is a typical...
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Jan 3

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    Hello, My name is Tami

    and I work on a talk show in NYC. We're looking to talk to people who need help resolving family issues. If this is you or someone you know call me at 646.205.4213. I look forward to hearing from you! Thanks! Tami
    tamiatkyle tamiatkyle 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2011

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    Completely Different

    Me and my two sisters don't get along for anything, we have no interest in the same things, we have different groups of friends. One many occasions my sisters have voiced there opinion that they wish I were dead not to sure how many times they have said it. But they push me to...
    Shaulascorpii Shaulascorpii 18-21, F Nov 23, 2010

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    Spiteful Sister

    A couple of months ago i was in my basement, this is where we keep old books etc. I don't remember what i had gone in there for but whilst in there i spotted my old notebook. The notebook i used on my last days of high school, basically all my friends/classmates wrote in it and i...
    zeinabaddow zeinabaddow 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    What A Distance.

    I have 4 siblings.. 1 sister, 2 half brothers on my dads side, and 1 half brother on my moms side.. My sister is 20 years old and my brothers are 29, 28, and 28.. Close ages, much? But anyways... There was such a large age gap between my brothers and me that I never really got...
    Amay408 Amay408 18-21, F Feb 7, 2010

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    My Siblings

    My Siblings are messed up in the head. One day My sister Bethany was planning a vacation to Indiana and my younger sister Sam said "You're leaving me here with all these ppl that have an attitude problem." I wouldn't even talk if I was her bcz she has an attitude problem too. I...
    DeeJayKelvin DeeJayKelvin 18-21, M Jan 25, 2012

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    Some

    I am with some of them, and with the others i am not. My brother and sister who i grew up with are important to me, but the ones who are 20 years older then me i don't really know to well.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Feb 12, 2010

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    Only To The Ones That Speak To Me.

    my oldest sibling, well i dont care to speak with him. i'd rather not have any contact from him ever. my two step brothers are my world and i am super close with them. and the others that 'consider' me their sister (obviously not biological) but still we r obviously close.
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett 18-21, F Feb 13, 2010

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    Regrets..

    I was not particularly close with my younger brother either.As we were growing up, my mom would force me to let him tag along with me and my friends....sometimes, even when I was hanging out with my girlfriend. I grew to resent him, and as we grew older we also grew apart...
    Shaylan Shaylan 41-45, M 9 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Today was a very important day

    for me to be at college but my sister took my car and locked me inside the room ... Her car failed to start and I had offered to take her to college at 7 00 so that she can be on time for her 7 30 class but she wouldn't get up despite my attempts to wake her up , she woke up...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    He Tried To Shoot Me In The Face

    It was July several years ago, My brother was strung out on meth and heroin, He was serving himself ice cream with a spoon and bending it so i recommended he use the actual ice cream scoop, he pulled out a 9 mil point blank in my face, which was his big mistake, I grabbed the gun...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 26, 2013

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    My Mom Drove Me And My Brother Apart.

    Even when we were kids, my brother and I were never close. We had sort of an 'uneasy truce'. Our home life was less than perfect, and we were in it together; we couldn't afford to hate each other! I accepted years ago that we'd never be good friends or anything, but I always...
    bunnybunnybunnybunny bunnybunnybunnybunny 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2011

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    I Love My Sister, But..

    She's incredibly exhausting.. I'm 21 and she's 23, she moved out at 17...for attention... and pretty much her whole life she has been pulling for attention its not as if she doesn't get it either, my parents have paid for her to get breast implants, given her and her bf two...
    headachey headachey 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2013

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    Me,my Brother And The Rest Of The Siblings

    My dad has been around for a long time and before he had ever met my mother he had 4 kids. after meeting my mom he had another 2 kids my older brother and me. by the time i was born all my half siblings were long gone out of the house already having familys of their own. As of...
    mricinc mricinc 18-21, M Mar 27, 2012

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    Grew Up In A Abusive Home And I'm The Only One That Left

    My siblings and I (I have one brother and one sister) were all abused as children: mental, physical, neglect. I left the home at 18 and never returned. My siblings stayed in our childhood home well into their twenty's. They both deny that the abuse took place. And I guess...
    larazee larazee 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2012

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    Trans Maybe Or Maybe Not

    Since the beginning of high school my brother has been experimenting I think. It started with him looking at **** and things like that. Then I found things for girls under his bed. Some of which were mine, considering I'm a girl. I then kept finding my makeup in his drawers. I...
    dontknowhowtodeal dontknowhowtodeal 18-21 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    Never Really Knew Them

    growing up i had a sister that got every thing she ask for i was never wanted or even cared about except to be yelled at or spanked as a rule for something she did of mu cousin did long story bu i moved out at the age of 12 in with my girl friend and her mother, and leanred...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 2, 2011

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    He Wishes Me Dead

    I have a brother that thinks I am the Antichrist.... Why? My only reason..... He's not me.... I don't say this being a ego manic or anything... I seriously think this is his reason... As a child, I followed him around and looked up to him. He was four years older, so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    A Stranger To Me

    I have a half sister on my dad's side of the family I haven't talked to since my dad died.  I was done dirty about the circumstanes.  The thing is I didn't know I had another sister until the night my dad had a stroke and was in the hospital.  I was so excited to hear that I...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jul 8, 2011

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    Forgotten

    My parents live 700 miles away. My brother lives in the same city as I do. He has NEVER invited me for Thanksgiving. He made a token appearance at my birthday a couple years ago. He doesn't bother to call unless he needs something. He's my ONLY sibling and I'm afraid when my...
    kristijo2000 kristijo2000 31-35, F Nov 26, 2010

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    My Brothers And Me.

    So...Im not really all that close with my brothers. Well..it started from me actually...im the oldest brother, and i was an angry kid. coming from an abusive childhood...and i was never taught to show my emotions and i kept it inside..and the person that would constantly remind...
    RedWolfGuy RedWolfGuy 22-25, M May 10, 2011

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    My brother is 4 years younger

    than me. We don't get along most of the time. We are not close at all. He is actually really close to my husband. They hang out all the time. Growing up, we didn't spend much time together because my mom had me spend a lot time of time away from home. She would send me to stay...
    Nessa612 Nessa612 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I Might As Well Be An Only Child

    Ah what to say about my sister..... hmm. that's about it. and her accomplishments.... ...well if you consider 4 children from 3 fathers an accomplishment and only having 2 of them with her, whom she barely takes care of and pawns off on the beast that is my mother which is...
    Vyx3n Vyx3n 26-30, F 1 Response May 21, 2011

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    Estranged

    I think the term is estranged. When they need something from me they come around but unless I am handing out I don't exist.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 11 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    I Don't Understand Why

    My brother and I are about eight years apart in age. Ever since I was a little girl, I always looked up to him. He usually would just ignore me and not care about my existence but that wouldn't stop me from wanting to be close with him. Anytime, he offered to let me in his room...
    HCTS HCTS 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    Or My Family

    i am not close with any of my family at all .  we just are not like each other at all .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9, 2010

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    The Sick Games Mothers Play

    For me sometimes writing is cathartic, not sure if this is going to be much help but I have been wanting to write this since four thirty this morning. I woke up to many thoughts, the one preeminent thought was that I do not really belong to this family. I thought that perhaps...
    jmac42 jmac42 41-45 2 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Not Us

    I have two older brothers, one I never see/speak to. I can't remember the last time. It has been years. No real reason for it. My other brother I see a few times a year.. family holidays and what not. Other than that we are incommunicado.  Sometimes I wish we were all...
    marriedintx marriedintx 31-35, F Mar 21, 2010

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    Estranged

    My sister and I never speak and if we do, it's very seldom. We both live such totally different lifestyles. I am poor and single, she is wealthy, married, and parenting 3 kids. I believe she is ashamed of me and I will admit that I am jealous of her. I am disabled and she...
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    I Hate My Elder Brothers

    I am the youngest of 5, and I guess anybody who is the youngest in the family knows what kind of hell your elder siblings can give you, I just hate my brothers I am 20 now and they still treat me like a kid I hate it so much, but what the heck can I do about it, I hate to fight...
    LoneDovahKiin LoneDovahKiin 22-25, M Sep 12, 2011

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    Perfect Sister

    I was 14 at the time and my sister was 12.  Were both athletic and pretty but shes really smart.  I couldnt care less about school so my parents like her more.  We both dislike each other.  We both take karate and tjitsu (sorry on spelling) so we decided to have a fight.  I...
    kates1 kates1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    My boyfriend is out camping with his family. I'm beyond jealous to the point it hurts. My family isn't close with eachother and I'm not close with them. My friends don't understand...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I talk to no one in my family other than everyone i live with. Its really upsetting but I'm trying to get along with my boyfriends family so i could get close with them, and at...
    Nroses77 Nroses77 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    One Day I'll Dance On His Grave-Was abusive the 16 years he lived with me,my mother,and younger siblings. Then turned out to have a wife back in Ukraine too. When I was 15 we let...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M Jul 16

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    I don't associate with my family they don't associate with me.
    explorer102012 explorer102012 31-35, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Not very close? Try not close at all. I have no relationship with my family. There is so much negativity and tension that it's almost painful being at home. I guess being adopted...
    GabriellaChristine GabriellaChristine 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've always felt like a stranger in my family, from as young as I can remember. I am nothing like either of my parents, my brother, half-sister from my mother or half- brother from...
    Ilybob Ilybob 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I joined this because nobody every listens to me. They just act like they don't care. I just hope people don't get annoyed by me posting so much. But I wish me and my mom was...
    BrainsBeautyBrianna BrainsBeautyBrianna 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    And don't care to be. He made dumb decisions which led him to be in prison for most of my life. Thus leaving me with a psychopathic excuse for a Mother. I don't care if it wasn't...
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Jul 5

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    I have bad memories associated with my uncle so I rarely visit them, even though they want me to go golfing or something. I just can't. I may not be able to remember much about my...
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Suck it up puddin'! I just can't deal with the poor poor pitiful me syndrome that seems to run in my family (mother's and father's). It is so annoying when every single time you...
    jlestep jlestep 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Once about a week ago, my mom took me to my friends house. So, I asked her why. She immediately responded, we are better off without you. And left.
    jacithegarza jacithegarza 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I find this really sad but I don't get on with my family at all. They don't understand me and I am tired of trying with them and never being good enough. Trying to accept that some...
    StoneWall77 StoneWall77 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't see them really, but on my dad's side: (I hate racism in general, but my bf is a different race than me, so I have to hide that. My dad's side also hates how I'm part...
    girlinNJ girlinNJ 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My father was always an alcoholic and a drug addict. My parents divorced when I was 2 and he missed my birth bcuz he was partying. He used to take me to the parties with him every...
    snoopysmom snoopysmom 31-35, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I am the sole caregiver of my mother in a nursing home. She's been there since 2011. My sisters wrote me off over a year ago and they had my dad join their "camp" in May. That is...
    5cubby08 5cubby08 51-55, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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