I Am Not Competitive

I love to have fun but I don't do it to win. 48 People


    That's probably why I have never amounted to anything- I always tend to let others "win" during competitions, both because I want them to be happy and because I don't really believe I have what it takes to win, anyway. Even when it comes to people... I have been cheated on before...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 14, 2010

    I've never been competitive.

    ..even with cards or board games because the purpose of playing is to outsmart the opponent (s) and beat them. That's just not my thing I guess.
    OrSuze OrSuze
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

    Gets The Better Of Me

    I have had instances where it's between me and someone else, and this someone else is someone I know. I just let them win, or at least not put my best efforts to it. After that it's a mix of happiness and sadness. Happy because my friend got the job, and sad because I'm going to...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert
    26-30, M
    Sep 14, 2013

    I like to just go with the flow.

    I don't even keep score during miniature golf
    jasminesworld jasminesworld
    22-25, F
    Mar 2, 2016

    I am only in games, and much less

    than I used to. In my opinion, the need for being better than others is just a sign of dependance. I think we should just be competitive with ourselves, and in a moderate way.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 25, 2015

    Losing And Winning

    I learned that to „lose“ with a quiet soul, mind and heart, is also a pretty way (and only ours) to win. And sometimes, to glow more.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2012
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