I Am Not Everyone's Cup Of Tea

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    I Am Okay With It

    Through out my entire life I have found that most people fall into one of two different categories (the people that bother to get to know me anyways). People either seem to really like me or they can't seem to stand me. I was once told that that was because I have a strong...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    36-40, T
    Mar 25, 2013

    I'm Not Everyone's Cup Of Tea

    I'm not everyone's cup of tea.  I know this because some people have blocked me but I don't know why.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    Feb 9, 2012

    Not Everyone's

    I am not everyone's cup of Tea and that's okay!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Apr 27, 2011

    It Is Right There In The "about Me" On My Profile.

    I come with a warning, and that is that I really don't care what anyone else thinks about me. I write about what I feel whether that be about love, lust, life, or just pure hot *** sex. I make no excuses for being me, and while I try to be nice to everyone I may not be your cup...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 24, 2011

    No! If you get to know me.

    I don't think you will like me that much because I don't make any sense when I am talking because I will switch from one subject to another subject pretty quickly.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    Or Cup Of Coffee For That Matter

    But it's ok, You dont have to like me Or agree with me, Or even follow me, BUT.... You should at least give me a try, You just might like me after awhile.
    TalkN3rdy2Me TalkN3rdy2Me
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Mar 24, 2011

    I Recognise That.....

    I'm not everyone's cup of tea - or coffee, juice, beer or beverage of choice really..... but i'm fine with that, you may not be mine either...I have opinions, I am sometimes overly upbeat, cheerful, optimistic, foolhardy, moody, childish and annoying - i recognise that and...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2011

    Yes

    I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea cos some member blocked me. Oh well.. things happen. I have no control of it.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Apr 27, 2011

    I used to be really blunt.

    Almost rude. I had no filter. When people talked to me or just around me I would just comment in with my opinion, wanted or not. I'd hurt peoples feelings with my straight to the point black and white attitude. I didn't mean to but I didn't want to seem mean anymore so I figured...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 4, 2014

    Yeah I Understand That I Just Don't Care Haha

    I understand that I don't give if you don't like me then tough luck because I am not changing for you so that I am your cup of tea got it?Not everyone I come across I love to death let alone I like them.So I accept that I am not everyone's cup of tea.You reach a point in your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 2, 2012

    Being who i am, is what your stuck with im not

    planning on changing so deal with it
    tooshylove tooshylove
    18-21, T
    3 Responses Aug 9, 2014

    I'm primarily rude and sarcastic all the time

    with a hint of politeness every so often so decide for yourself if I'm your cup of tea
    caiseyi caiseyi
    22-25, F
    Apr 13, 2015

    You Knew This Already...

    Don't be offended by what say or how I act. I'm known to be "off the wall" about a lot of things. The ones who have befriended me are some bold people. No kidding...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    Apr 1, 2011

    Abit Like Marmite Lol

    you either love me or hate me, some people find me to oppinionated but that is fine, each to their own.. im ust me a normal everyday woman with her own voice and i dont make any apologies for that! so hate me all you like because i wont change for anybody :-)
    kirstylou24 kirstylou24
    26-30, F
    Feb 14, 2012

    Or coffee, if you don't like tea.

    Not everyone can handle my emotional intensity.
    lukeskywalker89 lukeskywalker89
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 10, 2015

    The Born Leader...

    It really is hard to explain. I am told, even though I can honestly say I do not see it, that people are drawn to me. My ex stated several times that other guys will get "Man Crushes" on me easily...yet, I know that a large number of people do no like me. Really do not like me...
    teamsap12 teamsap12
    26-30, M
    Mar 27, 2012

    You Knew This Already...

    Don't be offended by what say or how I act. I'm known to be "off the wall" about a lot of things. The ones who have befriended are some bold people. No kidding...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    1 Response Apr 1, 2011

    But Is Anyone Really????

    I mean no one is popular all the time with absolutely everyone... like politicians - to the crowd...you can't please them all- all the time so joyce laughs at being able to hurt me and cheat me joyce finally won and took everything from me... does it make her happy?????
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Apr 2, 2011

    I'm stubborn, hard headed,

    a pain in the ***, adventurous, an adrenaline junkie, and a metal music addict. I'm definitely not everyone's cup of tea.
    GreenEyess GreenEyess
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2015

    I certainly not......

    I am a true blue Scorpio...I speak my mind well....I am too deep for most, I have a sense of humour that is a little out there...I am quiet at times, or over talkative...depends on who engages me.....I am friendly and easy going...on the flip side I can be your worst night mare...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 27, 2014

    Silent And Hidden

    I don't enjoy talking about myself. I cringe every time i have to share a story or confession about me. I just don't enjoy talking about myself at all. Some people might not like that but that's ok. I enjoy helping people but i don't like when they thank me for it. So...
    emmanuel04 emmanuel04
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 26, 2013

    Trust me, you're gonna love me one second

    and hate me on the second second. Either than or the second day or the second month or the second year. Because change is constant and I am constantly changing regardless of you liking it or not just you I.
    PrezBel PrezBel
    18-21
    Apr 10, 2015

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