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I Am Not Girly, But Don't Feel Like A Tomboy Either

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    I have girl crushes and I have guy crushes.

    <3 But looking at them just makes me feel so worthless...
    Athnamas Athnamas 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

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    A Sad Ending

    I have been a member of experience project for almost a month but still I wasn’t able to share any experience. I really don’t know what kind of experience will I share, about love, family, friendship, and studies it’s really hard to choose which aspect of my life will I...
    Krelaine Krelaine 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I Dress....Like....Idk.

    ...I Dont Dress Girly....Or Like A Boy Ig I Just Have Swag Lol
    BearHugs20 BearHugs20 13-15, F May 19

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    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F May 19

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    I Am Not Girly, But I Don'T See Myself As A Tomboy Either

    I guess that's why I'm bisexual. Lol
    LilMissNothing LilMissNothing 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    martinez93 martinez93 22-25, M Jun 11

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    I think the worst thing is having people

    judging what is so natural to you. To me gender has such fluidity that labels are meanless at this point.
    MsIdiosyncrasy0 MsIdiosyncrasy0 22-25, F Jun 12

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    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 Jun 19

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    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F May 20

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    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda 16-17, F 3 Responses May 19

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    The only moments when I've actually felt girly

    have been when I have to go, or I'm invited to go somewhere dressing formally. Today, for example. Those who had been awarded scholarships had to attend the award ceremony, but dressing formally. To be honest, I have a very vague idea of dolling myself up since I don't do it...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F May 18

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    I kinda don't like the fact that I get asked the question, especially when online with my picture on the display, if I'm a guy or a girl. I don't want to be! I'm a woman. I have a...
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I told my mom, but she just laughs and calls it ridiculous. My friends care, my Google+ friends care, and I care. I have always wanted to be a male, and I feel like being a guy...
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    Hey guys! How are y'all? Hope you're doing good :) Anyways there's this pageant that I joined. Like other pageants, it has segments like casual, long gown, etc. There's this...
    beautifulmistake17 beautifulmistake17 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    when I was 14 my older sister would when our parents weren't home dress me up as her little sister. She would get a wig and put it on me, and pick out a really girly outfit. I...
    Sexyrachel1406 Sexyrachel1406 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I miss having a best friend so much. I miss those sleepovers, calling each other in the middle of the night, cuddling and so on. I love my boyfriend very much, but I miss a girly...
    blxckbutterfly blxckbutterfly 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I am becoming more and more feminine every day and i love it! I came out about 8 years ago now and I have always been feminine and girly inside but after coming "out" I stopped...
    sissyboy843 sissyboy843 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    I'm single for so many reasons. The number one reason is because I'm petrified of the bad that some relationships can cause. Another reason is because I know I'm young and that...
    Outline Outline 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    When I was a young boy I often heard sentences like "You look so cute, like a girl", "You have such a neat face, very girlish" or "Your eye lashes are so beautiful. You would be a...
    ToShareStories ToShareStories 22-25, T 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a straight woman, but don't look it. I'm not sexy or beautiful. I'm not a girly girl, quite unfeminine. However, I'm a damn decent person and would make anyone a good friend...
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi I am a boy that wants a girl to give me a girly makeover, I don't understand why I just have always been like that💄 msg me
    girlyboy100 girlyboy100 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Who likes my new top it's a bit too showy Ik :( sorry but it's pink and has lace at bottom so I couldn't resist <3
    katexxcostello katexxcostello 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I remember when I first started wearing boys clothes, I love wearing them I mean girly girl clothes just don't feel right,but as soon as a but on a t-shirt and shorts I feel fine...
    TomboyAllTheWay TomboyAllTheWay 13-15 a week ago

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    I remember when I first started wearing boys clothes, I love wearing them I mean girly girl clothes just don't feel right,but as soon as a but on a t-shirt and shorts I feel fine...
    TomboyAllTheWay TomboyAllTheWay 13-15 a week ago

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    There are some girls out there who are very tomboyish and act like they would rather be boys than girls, but not me. I have always enjoyed being a girl and doing girl things. I am...
    brianna747 brianna747 13-15, F a week ago

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    I can't say I'm a total tomboy but I'm not a girly girl. I hate dresses, I would never wear them to anything even in weddings. I do wear nail polish often but in certain colours...
    weirdo2003 weirdo2003 13-15, F a week ago

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    My family was leaving for dinner and I didn't wanna go, right when they left I rushed to my sisters room and I had this all planned out. I put on a thong and sports bra. Put in...
    CaitlynJennerIsAQueen CaitlynJennerIsAQueen 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    Growing up with two older sister I guess I would turn out this way. When I was in middle school I knew I was different than other guys. I would wear my sisters jeans and gender...
    Kamryn83 Kamryn83 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm a girl, I don't hate girls. I'm not super girly but I do enjoy shopping and make up & those types of things to a certain degree but For as long as I can remember I have always...
    YslcXO YslcXO 22-25, F Jul 20

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    Not me, I am quite girly but not too much! My idea of a perfect first date is having a laugh, going to the beach or for a walk, having a smoke and a giggle - it's the best way to...
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I'd like to say that I've already figured it out, not that this is a cognitive problem. From what I understand about myself I'm about 99% attracted to women and 1% attracted to men...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Hi. I am new to this, I have just posted about my normal home life & what I have been through with 5 babies under the age of 5, but I would love to tell you a story that happen...
    Florence1994 Florence1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I love the feeling the right man can ignite in me of not only being feminine but being a girly girl. Few men have done that to me but the ones that do are very special. Most can...
    amandatrane1 amandatrane1 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 19

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    Hello everyone. Myself Tejas. I am 20 year old now and living my life as a girl since I was 15. It all started 5 year ago. I was in home with my sister. As normally we have a...
    Tejasjha Tejasjha 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    I am from India always liked long hair so I started growing it but I had too many restrictions in India long hair Is strictly for women as per religion so I started wearing beanie...
    lovemykariz lovemykariz 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    But I'm "afraid" of what people would say. Like, "Wooa, what´s going on? Are you becoming a girl?" Stuff like that. I know we always say "Don't care about what people think or say...
    Naockey Naockey 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I absolutely love to play basketball and I also enjoy several other sports as well, but basketball has always been my favorite :) Even though I like to play sports this doesn't...
    fastrunninggirl fastrunninggirl 13-15, F Jul 16

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    I have often seen those girls out there who act like boys and dress like boys and I just don't understand why those particular girls don't appreciate the fact that they're girls...
    brianna747 brianna747 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    aylinacc11 aylinacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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    I have been mistaken as a tomboy a lot of times which is getting kind of annoying and frustrating for I actually am not. I guess I'm not girly enough for them.
    dumbhumanlikeyou dumbhumanlikeyou 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    No I don't hate men. No I don't hate girly girls. No i'm not mad at men. It's not their fault that it has been rooted in their brains since they were a child that they have to be...
    AlwaysRestless AlwaysRestless 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    No I don't hate men. No I don't hate girly girls. No i'm not mad at men. It's not their fault that it has been rooted in their brains since they were a child that they have to be...
    AlwaysRestless AlwaysRestless 18-21, F Jul 15

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