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I Am Not Girly, But Don't Feel Like A Tomboy Either

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    I have girl crushes and I have guy crushes.

    <3 But looking at them just makes me feel so worthless...
    Athnamas Athnamas 18-21, F 1 Response May 20, 2015

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    A Sad Ending

    I have been a member of experience project for almost a month but still I wasn’t able to share any experience. I really don’t know what kind of experience will I share, about love, family, friendship, and studies it’s really hard to choose which aspect of my life will I...
    Krelaine Krelaine 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I like testing my "bushcraft" skills.

    I like hiking, and roughing it, and the great outdoors.. I enjoy working with my hands. I like breaking a sweat, and getting dusty, and having dirt under my nails. I would rather get a farmer's tan than lay out in the sun.. I push through thick brush, get my feet wet, and set...
    bronzeeyedblonette bronzeeyedblonette 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2015

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    T-shirts, jeans and the all important Chucks.

    No matter the destination, this is me.
    JeweledGypsy JeweledGypsy 41-45, F Sep 23, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 19, 2015

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    You will almost always catch me in jeans

    and a blouse of some sort. But then again I will also almost always be wearing fabulously girly shoes. I do love a good shoe … Who doesn't!?
    ctstranger ctstranger 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F May 20, 2015

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    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda 16-17, F 3 Responses May 19, 2015

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    I am just me.. I wear what I want

    when I want it's usually a mixture of girly things and tomboy things. When I was little I was super girly but when I was like 9-12 I was a complete tomboy lol. Now I am a mixture of both
    LittleBallOfFire LittleBallOfFire 13-15, F Aug 11, 2015

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    martinez93 martinez93 22-25, M Jun 11, 2015

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    I Am Not Girly, But I Don'T See Myself As A Tomboy Either

    I guess that's why I'm bisexual. Lol
    LilMissNothing LilMissNothing 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I Dress....Like....Idk.

    ...I Dont Dress Girly....Or Like A Boy Ig I Just Have Swag Lol
    BearHugs20 BearHugs20 13-15, F May 19, 2015

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    The only moments when I've actually felt girly

    have been when I have to go, or I'm invited to go somewhere dressing formally. Today, for example. Those who had been awarded scholarships had to attend the award ceremony, but dressing formally. To be honest, I have a very vague idea of dolling myself up since I don't do it...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F May 18, 2015

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    Men that I've met in past(they were boys,

    to be honest) didn't let me feel like I'm a real woman,I still feel insecure about it,I still don't feel like a real woman and I can't enjoy it
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11, 2015

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    I think the worst thing is having people

    judging what is so natural to you. To me gender has such fluidity that labels are meanless at this point.
    MsIdiosyncrasy0 MsIdiosyncrasy0 22-25, F Jun 12, 2015

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    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 Jun 19, 2015

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    Im far from Girly Girley.

    Granted I wear lingerie under clothes, im not one to be played with when comes to family or Sig other.
    Michelle41011 Michelle41011 41-45, T Aug 17, 2015

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