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I Am Not Girly, But Don't Feel Like A Tomboy Either

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    I Am Not Girly, But I Don'T See Myself As A Tomboy Either

    I guess that's why I'm bisexual. Lol
    LilMissNothing LilMissNothing 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I Dress....Like....Idk.

    ...I Dont Dress Girly....Or Like A Boy Ig I Just Have Swag Lol
    BearHugs20 BearHugs20 13-15, F May 19

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    Men that I've met in past(they were boys,

    to be honest) didn't let me feel like I'm a real woman,I still feel insecure about it,I still don't feel like a real woman and I can't enjoy it
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11

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    The only moments when I've actually felt girly

    have been when I have to go, or I'm invited to go somewhere dressing formally. Today, for example. Those who had been awarded scholarships had to attend the award ceremony, but dressing formally. To be honest, I have a very vague idea of dolling myself up since I don't do it...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F May 18

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    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F May 20

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    I think the worst thing is having people

    judging what is so natural to you. To me gender has such fluidity that labels are meanless at this point.
    MsIdiosyncrasy0 MsIdiosyncrasy0 22-25, F Jun 12

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    martinez93 martinez93 22-25, M Jun 11

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    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F May 19

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    I have girl crushes and I have guy crushes.

    <3 But looking at them just makes me feel so worthless...
    Athnamas Athnamas 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

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    I am just me.. I wear what I want

    when I want it's usually a mixture of girly things and tomboy things. When I was little I was super girly but when I was like 9-12 I was a complete tomboy lol. Now I am a mixture of both
    LittleBallOfFire LittleBallOfFire 13-15, F Aug 11

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    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda 16-17, F 3 Responses May 19

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    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 Jun 19

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    Im far from Girly Girley.

    Granted I wear lingerie under clothes, im not one to be played with when comes to family or Sig other.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M Aug 17

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    A Sad Ending

    I have been a member of experience project for almost a month but still I wasn’t able to share any experience. I really don’t know what kind of experience will I share, about love, family, friendship, and studies it’s really hard to choose which aspect of my life will I...
    Krelaine Krelaine 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    this is so me, hahaha I am like this until now. When I was with my ex husband, I was the masculine one.
    Asereht Asereht 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I've never been like the other girls since I noticed they didn't play basketball at lunch with the boys like I did everyday throughout elementary and junior high. I love sports and...
    marie2324 marie2324 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I always think of how wonderful I would feel dressed always in feminine clothes, and do "girly" things like hair make-up and nails I want to shop with girls have a "girls day out...
    Sissycindysue Sissycindysue 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes...You can't get everything in life, but that doesn't need to stop you from dreaming, and mine isn't impossible to make a reality..I'm starting my...
    all2livefor all2livefor 22-25, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I go to an all girls school. Not just any all girls school, it's also a private catholic school. I purposely don't get into detail about that part with people. Why? Not because I...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am tired with my family not accepting me as a gamer, an atheist and a feminist. They keep criticizing me for not living in the real world, say games are for kids and teenagers...
    EV97 EV97 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Okay. So there is this guy that I've had a crush on like forever. He is the total opposite of me though. I'm girly and innocent while he's a tough guy who has done some bad things...
    Hannahchristie Hannahchristie 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hello! I am Alex but now Alexa.I was a boy earlier but now I am a girl for almost 4 years.I want to share my embarrassing transformation with you. This is how it all started. I...
    Alexa910120702 Alexa910120702 13-15, T 2 Responses a week ago

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    guys please tell me if I'm crazy okay? because I would like to know since I haven't met anyone who thinks like me but this is going to be a long story. So here's the thing. My...
    Hayden23 Hayden23 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Met this girl the second time yesterday. She's half American half British. We went out for lunch first and shopping. Then we met again at night to watch the movie paper town. I...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I love shopping, sometimes by myself , sometimes with friends. My boyfriend hates coming with me but he enjoys seeing me in the clothes I try on. Once he tried to come in the...
    KuriousKyah KuriousKyah 26-30, F Aug 21

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    I absolutely love wearing makeup. I don't wear tons but i wear a good amount lol i feel like it can give you so much confidence and well, also hide your flaws 💁🏻 tho we will...
    reversethetime reversethetime 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Sitting here asking myself how I could not see this in the beginning, but it was right there plain as the nose on my face. I just choose to pretend it wasn't there. I mean how long...
    mm104127 mm104127 41-45, M Aug 20

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    Part 3 My parents friend and her sister and my sister and their friends have tricked me into living as a girl after they recorded me saying "I wish I was a girl" The thing is...
    Sexyrachel1406 Sexyrachel1406 22-25, M Aug 20

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    Well APPARENTLY. I don't think I have but last night I was forced to drink coffee with a bunch of "girly" yummy mummy women and the game was you to had list your top ten famous...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 19

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    The Babysitter Murders Chapter Forty-Six Although I liked Ellen immensely, it was a relief to know Mommy trusted me enough to go with her and my brother and sister shopping. I...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Aug 18

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    Don't you feel so free and wild? Shake it like no one is watching!
    22Nm 22Nm 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    I being a guy have a big butt. I'm really thankful that I have a big butt because it's makes me so girly. To all the guys out there. Please don't feel ashamed having a huge butt. I...
    Pinkygir Pinkygir 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Lol this is so me. Well, I grew up tomboyish and didn't start girling up until my sophomore year in high school. Now I'm 22 years old and I am still a bit of both. :)
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    1. What is your middle name? - That's too much information. 2. How old are you? - Sixteen. 3. When is your birthday? - November. 4. What is your zodiac sign? - Scorpio. 5...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I used to take all sorts of dance lessons; jazz, tap, ballet, hip-hop, and contemporary. My mom wanted that cute little "girly girl" daughter so she put me in all those classes. I...
    waywardgirl98 waywardgirl98 16-17, F Aug 17

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    I'm obsessed with them... but they don't usually show their true girliness with most people, which is a shame.
    astro00 astro00 22-25, M Aug 17

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    I don't see anything wrong with a girl wanting to be girly. In fact I think that most girls should be girly. Not that there is anything wrong with girls who play sports. I believe...
    natalie218 natalie218 13-15, F Aug 16

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    It makes me happy when I meet people and they don't find me wearing makeup "weird" or "girly", but the fact that they see me for my character, not my appearance. I'm glad there are...
    Ruinsky Ruinsky 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    1. I love corny tourist attractions 2. I love the tilt a whirl ride 3. I remember when rainbows were just rainbows 4. I was scared the first time I rode the sky train 5. I've...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Well here goes... I collect balloons. Yeah... It's turned into a serious hobby. Series even inflatables too. And girly ones with princesses or whatever are harder for me to get...
    srgamesalot srgamesalot 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I am such a girly girl. I love to shave my legs, then select the most shiniest pair of pantyhose, maybe lacy panties but maybe not, bare butt under hose feels good. Then slip on my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Aug 15

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