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I Am Not Girly, But Don't Feel Like A Tomboy Either

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    martinez93 martinez93 22-25, M Jun 11

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    The only moments when I've actually felt girly

    have been when I have to go, or I'm invited to go somewhere dressing formally. Today, for example. Those who had been awarded scholarships had to attend the award ceremony, but dressing formally. To be honest, I have a very vague idea of dolling myself up since I don't do it...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F May 18

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    I have girl crushes and I have guy crushes.

    <3 But looking at them just makes me feel so worthless...
    Athnamas Athnamas 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

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    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F May 20

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    A Sad Ending

    I have been a member of experience project for almost a month but still I wasn’t able to share any experience. I really don’t know what kind of experience will I share, about love, family, friendship, and studies it’s really hard to choose which aspect of my life will I...
    Krelaine Krelaine 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I Am Not Girly, But I Don'T See Myself As A Tomboy Either

    I guess that's why I'm bisexual. Lol
    LilMissNothing LilMissNothing 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Undecodable Undecodable 18-21, F Jun 19

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    I think the worst thing is having people

    judging what is so natural to you. To me gender has such fluidity that labels are meanless at this point.
    MsIdiosyncrasy0 MsIdiosyncrasy0 22-25, F Jun 12

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    I Dress....Like....Idk.

    ...I Dont Dress Girly....Or Like A Boy Ig I Just Have Swag Lol
    BearHugs20 BearHugs20 13-15, F May 19

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    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F May 19

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    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda 16-17, F 3 Responses May 19

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