I Am Not Girly, But Don't Feel Like A Tomboy Either

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    I have girl crushes and I have guy crushes.

    <3 But looking at them just makes me feel so worthless...
    Athnamas Athnamas
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    The only moments when I've actually felt girly

    have been when I have to go, or I'm invited to go somewhere dressing formally. Today, for example. Those who had been awarded scholarships had to attend the award ceremony, but dressing formally. To be honest, I have a very vague idea of dolling myself up since I don't do it...
    Sil833 Sil833
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2015
    Aeril Aeril
    18-21, F
    May 20, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 19, 2015

    A Sad Ending

    I have been a member of experience project for almost a month but still I wasn’t able to share any experience. I really don’t know what kind of experience will I share, about love, family, friendship, and studies it’s really hard to choose which aspect of my life will I...
    Krelaine Krelaine
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

    I am just me.. I wear what I want

    when I want it's usually a mixture of girly things and tomboy things. When I was little I was super girly but when I was like 9-12 I was a complete tomboy lol. Now I am a mixture of both
    LittleBallOfFire LittleBallOfFire
    13-15, F
    Aug 11, 2015
    martinez93 martinez93
    22-25, M
    Jun 11, 2015

    Men that I've met in past(they were boys,

    to be honest) didn't let me feel like I'm a real woman,I still feel insecure about it,I still don't feel like a real woman and I can't enjoy it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    I Dress....Like....Idk.

    ...I Dont Dress Girly....Or Like A Boy Ig I Just Have Swag Lol
    BearHugs20 BearHugs20
    13-15, F
    May 19, 2015

    Im far from Girly Girley.

    Granted I wear lingerie under clothes, im not one to be played with when comes to family or Sig other.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 17, 2015

    T-shirts, jeans and the all important Chucks.

    No matter the destination, this is me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 23, 2015
    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 19, 2015

    I think the worst thing is having people

    judging what is so natural to you. To me gender has such fluidity that labels are meanless at this point.
    MsIdiosyncrasy0 MsIdiosyncrasy0
    22-25, F
    Jun 12, 2015

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