I Am Not Going to Let People Walk All Over Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 457 People

    I Want to Stop...

    I dont know why but i always let my boyfriend walk all over me.  I am not going to say he is a bad guy and doesnt treat me good because he does.  But sometimes i feel like i give and give and dont recieve much in return.  Sometimes i think i might be overreacting...
    scampbell scampbell
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2008

    I used to take lots of crap from everyone.

    No more. Either you treat me right, or I don't need you in my life.
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2015
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    1 Response Jun 4, 2015

    Not Anymore!

    I have let to many people walk all over me. Especially men that are supposed to love me. Not anymore. Either you respect me or you need to leave. It's a new me! I am starting to respect myself and others shoud too!
    marinewife24 marinewife24
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2007

    No More!

    i have for the last 3 months since i found out that my husband cheated on me let him walk all over me and tonight i finally stood up for myself and said no more and im very proud of myself.
    kdmaxwell0619 kdmaxwell0619
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2012

    Never Again.........

    when i was younger i thought that by giving to pple i would make friends........now i realise that pple will only be with me if i give them something..........enough....i am tired of been the local bank...i feel like i am the machine and pple stick their card into my mouth and...
    eastrandkisses eastrandkisses
    36-40, F
    Feb 24, 2008
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    Jun 4, 2015

    I've never been that type of person

    that would just take stuff lying down. I would speak my mind. I would voice my opinion, and if they didn't like it I essentially told them too bad.
    deleted deleted
    Jul 23, 2015

    Put In My Place.

    When I was younger, I got put in "my place" a lot. While I wouldn't take crap from people outside my home, to the point I was pretty aggressive, I was very much under the thumb at home. It came mostly from me watching my mother submit to my Grandmother, even though Grandma was...
    TheLetterR TheLetterR
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2010

    I refuse to be the quiet girl

    that just lets people say **** about her. Yes, I have a backbone. I'm proud of it!
    MeganeChan MeganeChan
    16-17, F
    Jun 5, 2015

    Not me or my daughter!

    Idc wat ur name is even if it is dad
    theresajanelle theresajanelle
    18-21, F
    Oct 18, 2015

    Not Anymore, Anyways

    I have let it happen most of my life. My wife has done it for 4 years, and when I quit being her doormat, she left me. That tells you just how serious I am about this.
    VincentValentine VincentValentine
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 30, 2009
    MisunderstoodGirl69 MisunderstoodGirl69
    16-17, F
    Jun 4, 2015

    I Really Can't Stop

    I was raised to as an only child living in a peaceful sheltered life from the ugly face of the social relm. I was lucky to have very nice accomodating parents which in turn molded me to be the same way. In all relationships I have no backbone and I'm walked over and I don't...
    Amorvincentomnia Amorvincentomnia
    1 Response Apr 1, 2010


    I work in a popular Mid-North Eastern retail Dept store in PA. I work with a lot of people who have dominating personalities, and I always feel inferior to them, and various other people. Most of my customers try to pull off the "intimidation" mark on me as well. I've been...
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    Apr 3, 2012
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