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I Am Not Good At Cybersex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People


    I have had many wonderful experiences here on EP and met many wonderful people. I have tried the cyber sex thing on a few occasions and i have to say i don't think i am very good at it (or real sex either for that matter LOL) but i have had the opportunity to flirt with some very...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    Jul 6, 2011

    Yes Yes No.

    LOL Great topic. I've done it a few times and it was fun, but wierd and a bit uncomfortable. I tell you it puts my writing skills to the test!  But I'd rather wait for the real deal.  :-)  
    passionateactorxox passionateactorxox
    31-35, M
    9 Responses Nov 16, 2009


    I can say that I have done it before....but it just felt weird to me. Plus....I can't tell if the other person is into it...or laughing at me :(   NOT FOR ME
    luckypickle luckypickle
    11 Responses Nov 16, 2009


    I just don't like cyber and I suck at it (no pun intended).
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2010

    Tried It Done That

    I'm just not good at it. I have tried it, I lose my composure and don't know what to say.   Not that i'm not willing to take lessons lol but it is HARD to MASTER. :)  
    51-55, M
    57 Responses Nov 16, 2009

    Not For Me I Guess

    I've tried it a few times and I tend to lose track of what I'm saying or I say things that sound.....well below my age level LOL I start sounding like a horny 14 year old boy. I don't even do well with flirting online in a playful way.
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Nov 16, 2009

    Years Ago

    I did it a few times a few years ago, but I felt weird about it because the guys always wanted to see pics and I was never comfortable with that. Plus for some reason it just seems so fake. I felt as though I had to lie to create the perfect image for the guy.
    shybbw shybbw
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2010

    Too Shy

    A girlfriend five thousand miles away, a late Sunday night, "I can't sleep, I'm too turned on...!" But, I couldn't do anything but clam up and panic until she barked "say something, anything." All I could do was... break the fourth wall and ask exactly what she wanted, whether...
    longdarkvoid longdarkvoid
    Dec 13, 2010


    SO SORRY! NOPE! Not here for that!
    soleilbaby soleilbaby
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Jan 10, 2010

    Did It Once

    and will not do it again.  To close to actually cheating, its in your thoughts.
    coloco coloco
    66-70, M
    Jan 2, 2010
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