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I Am Not Good At Cybersex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Too Shy

    A girlfriend five thousand miles away, a late Sunday night, "I can't sleep, I'm too turned on...!" But, I couldn't do anything but clam up and panic until she barked "say something, anything." All I could do was... break the fourth wall and ask exactly what she wanted, whether...
    longdarkvoid longdarkvoid
    Dec 13, 2010

    Did It Once

    and will not do it again.  To close to actually cheating, its in your thoughts.
    coloco coloco
    66-70, M
    Jan 2, 2010


    SO SORRY! NOPE! Not here for that!
    soleilbaby soleilbaby
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Jan 10, 2010

    Yes Yes No.

    LOL Great topic. I've done it a few times and it was fun, but wierd and a bit uncomfortable. I tell you it puts my writing skills to the test!  But I'd rather wait for the real deal.  :-)  
    passionateactorxox passionateactorxox
    31-35, M
    9 Responses Nov 16, 2009

    Tried It Done That

    I'm just not good at it. I have tried it, I lose my composure and don't know what to say.   Not that i'm not willing to take lessons lol but it is HARD to MASTER. :)  
    51-55, M
    57 Responses Nov 16, 2009


    I have had many wonderful experiences here on EP and met many wonderful people. I have tried the cyber sex thing on a few occasions and i have to say i don't think i am very good at it (or real sex either for that matter LOL) but i have had the opportunity to flirt with some very...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    Jul 6, 2011


    I can say that I have done it before....but it just felt weird to me. Plus....I can't tell if the other person is into it...or laughing at me :(   NOT FOR ME
    luckypickle luckypickle
    11 Responses Nov 16, 2009


    I just don't like cyber and I suck at it (no pun intended).
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2010

    Years Ago

    I did it a few times a few years ago, but I felt weird about it because the guys always wanted to see pics and I was never comfortable with that. Plus for some reason it just seems so fake. I felt as though I had to lie to create the perfect image for the guy.
    shybbw shybbw
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2010

    Not For Me I Guess

    I've tried it a few times and I tend to lose track of what I'm saying or I say things that sound.....well below my age level LOL I start sounding like a horny 14 year old boy. I don't even do well with flirting online in a playful way.
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Nov 16, 2009
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