I Am Not Good At Letting Go

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    And the only reason I think would be more valid

    they any others I have is. Having no one to confide in and each bad event erupting so close to each before my wounds had time to heal damaged me. And took away my coping skill ability to let go and accept it. Second thoughts?
    FreightTrainOG FreightTrainOG
    22-25, M
    Aug 15, 2015

    We can't we stop thinking about people

    that we love so much that hurt us in a way that we can't get back up?
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    Dec 4, 2013

    If you something and it comes back then it's

    yours if it doesn't it was never meant to be
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    Dec 16, 2013

    I'm not ready to let you go yet.

    ...I mean I love you I can't just leave you :....(
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    Dec 19, 2013
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    Apr 3, 2015

    ... Of People I Care About

    I am the kind of person that likes to create bonds in a friendship. I do not let go of people I care about easily. I sacrifice a lot for those I care about. I have been rejected as a friend before, but it was because they thought I was stuck up and full of myself. This is not...
    jpc87 jpc87
    26-30, M
    Aug 18, 2013

    I can't trust anyone anymore

    because of you.You knew I had trust issues in the past and now all of a sudden you want to stop talking to me. God I trusted you to the point that I would take a bullet for you any day. And now I'm here alone thinking to myself how am I going to get over this?
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    2 Responses Dec 28, 2013
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    Nov 28, 2013

    I Am The Worse...

    At letting things go. If it means letting someone go, or letting an incident go i don't know why but God it kills me to move on. If i get into an argument with someone that argument will sit with me for days, and i will still most likely be mad later. If it means letting a person...
    XcookiexbakerXx XcookiexbakerXx
    22-25, F
    Jul 19, 2013

    "When people walk away from you.

    .. Let them go.... Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn't mean they are bad people. It means that their part in your story is over."
    SxYSil SxYSil
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    I really like this girl

    but we haven't talked in months it all started freshman year where we for the second time met each other and we just started to talk and text each other all the time and we started to get each other and we both made each other laugh every single day and all of a sudden she...
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    Nov 29, 2013

    Every time I go out and try to forget about her

    there is always something that catches my eye that reminds me of you
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    Nov 30, 2013

    I wish there were words.

    I long for a way to express the things that are bouncing around in my head. Instead, they are trapped inside the cage my skull has become. The English language is not sophisticated enough yet to have shaped letters into a form that could adequately paint the images I can’t...
    ThatsSuze ThatsSuze
    26-30, F
    Oct 25, 2014

    Slipping Away

    I feel you slipping away every and each day I know it will end I can feel it my friend don't slip away I hold on tight giving all I have a big fight but your slipping away I hope I'll wake up from this night mare and hope ur still here to care
    reddemonsoul reddemonsoul
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2013

    It's hard to let of someone

    when they changed you into what you are now
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    Nov 27, 2013

    I have a lamp in my room

    that I turn on ever night to remember all the people that I cared about and have left my life. That lamp is so special I don't let people touch it.
    Alexander149 Alexander149
    18-21, M
    Apr 4, 2015
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    1 Response Apr 3, 2015

    The Family I Left Behind

    The family I left behind was an unhealthy one, since I ended up wasting much of my adult life on someone who never gave back. It was a one way relationship. I'm not good at letting go either, and wasted years on people I only thought would change, (but they never did). God...
    1Anonymous 1Anonymous
    Oct 17, 2013

    I know I let him go but it was

    for my happiness, then as time went on I saw I was no longer happy and was getting treated wrong but I want him so much to come back but to me it seems that he moved on and isn't interested in me anymore I want to ask but I know it's better not to I know he sees me try and how...
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    Jan 1, 2016

    I had a dream about the girl I like again

    but this time we was in my elementary school and she had this look on her face that she was angry and at and she was avoiding me so I tired to talk to her and she just walked away from me and my friends was guiding me towards her and when I found her i said to her "look what did...
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    Nov 29, 2013


    If there was ever a fault in me, it would be that I suck, really suck ,at letting go. It started when i was young and it wasnt with people. It was with things, leaflets I used to pick up at the supermarket, stones I used to collect in the garden. I just wanted to keep it all and...
    23kk23 23kk23
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 17, 2013

    A Rejected Goodbye..

    The response to these words I wrote was silence..nothing.. And I feel like an idiot for ever writing this. For ever sending this.. What did I really expect from him anyway? But, it was honest. What else can I say? When I fall, I fall hard. "I love you and..." I love you and...
    SweetGG SweetGG
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2013

    So my daughter told me tonight

    that she lost her virginity to her bf this week. I cried.. No. Sobbed. I don't know why. I wasn't happy I wasn't angry either it was weird. I think I was in shock it was the last thing I expected to hear I guess. I'm lucky she is a good daughter and she tells me theses things...
    origamibird origamibird
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    I can't let go of my past

    when it haunts my dreams. I can never escape this hell i live unless i end it and I have pledged to my loves that i will never go back to that place again
    dunwitdis dunwitdis
    22-25, F
    Feb 24, 2014

    Miss My Friend

    My friend from early primary school just doesn't contact me anymore and is always too busy to hang out. She always spends time with her boyfriend and now it's almost been a year :/ don't think i'll be able to see her again and it crushes me :c
    LittleAdorable LittleAdorable
    22-25, F
    Aug 21, 2013

    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72
    41-45, F
    Feb 8, 2014

    Okay I had this dream last night about this girl

    that I really like and we are holding hands and she had something written on her hand that said "my name: I love you more" I'm trying so hard to forget about this girl but all of these dreams I've been having lately is making it way to hard to move on what should I do?
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    Nov 28, 2013

    I knew this girl and she was kind of there

    for me at a very hard time I say kind of because I don't think she quite understands how much she helped during that time. Although she act's pretty heartless like nothing bothers her, she's sort of ignorant and rude and lately (not to me but to other people) she's been gettin...
    BookOfShadows BookOfShadows
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2015

    U left once. And I begged you thrice to stay.

    U left again, and I am not begging u to stay all over again because I know now that no one stays.
    tashainkakisty tashainkakisty
    18-21, F
    Oct 18, 2014

    If you love something

    and it comes back then it's yours if it doesn't it was never meant to be
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    Dec 16, 2013

    Watching stars and airplanes.

    Having trouble letting go of the past and what I thought my future would be. Realistically I know and understand this is the best ( the only way to preserve myself) but it's hard to let go of what was and what should have been.
    kitticat007 kitticat007
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    I have a relationship of 1,

    5 month and we met each others family but he has a lot of exes he had much contact with and he touches other girls boobs at parties, takes his **** out of his pants, lays girls hand on his crotch. My friends say I should let him go but he's my first and i don't want to let go...
    charlottecro charlottecro
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2015
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