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I Am Not Great At Letting People Know Me,or At Making Friends

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    10 things I don't need in a friend. This is for those people who thinks that I am just dumb and easy to be bullied. Even though you call me your “friend”. BUT actually, no...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My past is one involving betrayals, cheating and abusive girlfriends, bullying, and being alone. I decided when I was younger that letting people get close only hurt me, so I...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We all judge people I understand that. What I hate when I say judge.. I mean.. being misunderstood. Being misjudged because of someone's assumptions & prejudice. After a long...
    Noobzz Noobzz 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    For the 1st time since I moved to Florida (2007) I am making friends, and not just a "Hey how are you" kinda thing or, chill at work kinda thing, but actual friends where we hang...
    Divergent89 Divergent89 22-25, F Sep 1

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    FAKE PEOPLE .. Ive learned so much from them .. It took me alot of years to finally understand how most of the people in my life were so fake .. I had to take a step back & cut...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    Online and Offline. I can have a conversation with someone and all goes well until I say something really stupid. At first I don't feel stupid but then I think about and it really...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Impossible It's been four months since I graduated from College yet I still don't have a job, while majority of my friends and batch mate who graduated in our university are now...
    camille18 camille18 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I am very shy at first. I have a hard time letting people in and trusting them so it can take years for me to warm up to a person but when I do I can be my goofy, hyper self...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Sep 15

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    It's rather annoying. I get adults assuming I'm stupid because of my age (and what some girls my age did last year...), I have people tell their kids not to socialize with me, that...
    CanYouHearTheSilence CanYouHearTheSilence 13-15, F Sep 15

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    There are people who think they know me and have me all figured out. I laugh inside at their overconfidence and stupidity. I have never been the one to exhibit my vulnerability and...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    Just for a day I'd like to see how other people see me. I'm pretty convinced that no one sees me for who I actually am. I care a lot more than anyone knows. I don't really know...
    Isntitironic Isntitironic 31-35, F Sep 22

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    Hi, I have read several stories but I feel that I need to say this. First, I’m shy and new here. I don’t know how to make friends. I speak with people at school, “good day...
    Accord2 Accord2 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    I really like this guy. He works at the bar across from the store I work at. I go visit him all the time and he comes over to my store and visits me. We flirt all the time and my...
    L24c L24c 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I'm quiet and only open up to my friends and to people who take the time to get know me
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 15

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    My boyfriend and I ended it a month or so ago. It's been rough but I'm getting through it. It was one of those things in life I knew in my heart I had to do. When your with someone...
    dontjudgeme1782 dontjudgeme1782 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I hate when people judge me and don't take the time to get to know me. I had to find out the hard way that people like that aren't even worth my time. People tend to judge me...
    rayray87 rayray87 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    Ok......this is my life!! I grew up in a family where my father mentally abused my sister and I. My mother physically abused me & at the age of 8 not only did I have to watch my...
    lemolemo lemolemo 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I can't stand being looked and judged on How I may act based on how im dressed. It's ridiculous! Get to know me and then judge whether you hate me or not please
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I have a 16 year old daughter that has attitude problems. She does not respect me or anyone else. She doesn't like going to school and it's not because something bad is going on...
    FatimaCam7 FatimaCam7 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    finding someone to get to know me better is kind a hard thing whether in real life situation or in the net specially on opposite sex... at first they act as if they were really...
    myleslus myleslus 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why are there so many creeps on here? I just want friends, not pervy people.
    crystalballer27 crystalballer27 22-25, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I am a bit antisocial. I'm quiet. Unless you talk to me first,I may not talk to you. Im not trying to be a snobby *****. I dont want to come off as cold or unfriendly. I am just...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Exactly how does that work ? You can add people to your circle, but then do they have to add you back? You cannot message some people because you are not their friends.
    johnsk johnsk 56-60 2 Responses Sep 11

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    As I enter Year 6, everything in my life altered. I dread my class, my so called 'friends', and the crazy events.. I can't handle it anymore! My class MOSTLY FRIENDS- Not to be...
    ihatemylife236 ihatemylife236 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I've always been a sweet heart but certain girls showed me reality and now I'm less patient with relationships. I know not all girls are the same, but it just becomes harder the...
    elementnov elementnov 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    my first name is for my great-grandfather and my middle name is for my great-grandmother; even though i'm a girl. you would think it would be flipped, right? but it makes sense...
    freakmagnet freakmagnet 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    The reason y is I talk too mush and im too emotional and it's easy making friend on ep because they don't know about me at school I'm the quite kid but if **** me off u had to do...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Sep 14

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    Yeah. Ugh. Some of the people I've talked too on here are so rude. Don't message me stupid ****. Don't talk to me if you don't understand why I chose to not send or do certain...
    LittleKandi LittleKandi 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 17

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    Sure, why not. 1: What would you name your future daughter? I don't actually want kids, but I love the name Lorien. 2: Do you miss anyone? Dead friend, living far from family...
    demimo demimo 18-21, F Sep 6

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    Sometimes I just don't know what to say to start a conversation and am afraid of rejection
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 15

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    Prove always say they'd rather have one true friend then a bunch of aqantencies I wish I had some I have one true friend been friends for 17 yrs wouldn't give her up for anything...
    unluckyiguess unluckyiguess 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 17

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    ....Challenging. I don't like "forcing" (IE. coercing) others to do what I want. IF they do not Agree WILLINGLY, I walk away "disappointed and disheartened". Thinking "they" do not...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 Sep 3

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    I hope to follow me in Instagram Gaaalyms
    gaaalyms gaaalyms 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I just started high school and I feel like no one really wants to be around me because of my birthmark. I want to be myself, I want to be able to talk to other people and have...
    Kperr14 Kperr14 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I can't feel it anymore, it's great. When a person calls me a b**** i just don't care anymore. it's beautiful to be stronger. When somone calls me one i think they're a poser or a...
    SecretWraith SecretWraith 18-21, F Sep 12

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    1: What would you name your future daughter? Claudia 2: Do you miss anyone? Yeah :o 3: What if I told you that you were attractive? I would die of surprise…then return the...
    Kyprioi Kyprioi 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    Pushing guilt and pity on someone just to talk to them doesn't get the right anything. It gets u wrong relationships whether it's a friendship or any other. It just attracts the...
    Georgievh Georgievh 16-17, F Sep 17

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    I hate the term "fake" people. Whoever created it deserves death. Now if it were "I hate people with false personalities" then we are talking the right thing.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    One of the girls I considered my friend has done me so much wrong. It all started on 9th grade...just because I was friend of the guy she liked. I believe this is an awfully stupid...
    simplyfuckit simplyfuckit 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    people always think me of a weirdo, they faking friends with me. they'll smile kindly and call my name but at the same time they'll make such an annoyed face behind me. my best...
    tika14 tika14 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    You look serious." They'll say or "You should smile more.It looks good on you." I give them half a smile and then roll my eyes. Im not sad! That's just the way I look but I try to...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    They say be yourself,but people today judge you quickly . For example, I am always called a weirdo behind my back at school because when I clap I do it like a seal or because when...
    loonylynx loonylynx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    People are like your to small to carry that giant backpack or why are you such a short nerd. Well just because im smart and short doesnt give you any damn right to judge me Excuse...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 16

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    I hate it. I can't remember when it all started. All I know is, I don't like being touched. The worst part is hugging. I hate hugs because sometimes, people hug too tight or they...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    Often times people have different sets of values or rules for themselves and quite scathing ones for others !!!!
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I can admit to being shy at first when meeting someone new. However, I do get over that. I takes me a while to warm up to most people. Every once in a while I will meet someone who...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F Sep 22

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