I Am Not Happily Married

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    Unhappy Marriage

    I just recently found out that my husband of almost 20 years has a secret life. He has an online chat/sex site that he visits often. Our marriage is estranged and our sex life non-existant. He tells me that he isn't in the mood, but everyday I find him on the online sex/chat...
    Chickybaby68 Chickybaby68
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2011

    I Am Not Happily Married

    I have been married for 3 years. I met my now husband while he was still messing around with his child's mother and other females. But then we were friends. Could talk about anything, hang out and have sex. He wanted to be exclusive so I went along and then we got married...
    HonestDesire HonestDesire
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2009
    untenable untenable
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2015


    I have been wit my husband ever since I was 19, got married at 22. We always been arguing from the day I met him. He has bashed many many many times. N also cheated many times. Despite all that I still wanted to be with him. We been married for almost 4 yrs n I want a baby he...
    Singleun Singleun
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2012

    My Confusing Story

    Feb 3rd 2007 B and i got married. We had only been dating like 3months. we got married so quick because he wanted to go into the army and the recruter said it would be easier all around if we got married before he left. so we planned a wedding in 2wks. July 25 2007 B walked out...
    ttlisaof2 ttlisaof2
    31-35, F
    Dec 15, 2011

    Living In A Sexless, Touchless Marriage For Almost 6 Months

    For almost 6 months now, I have lived in a marriage without sex, without holding hands, without kissing or even without an I love you unless there's a "too" after it. We have been married almost 6 years and have 2 children. This started abruptly for me - I had no prior warning...
    AbandonedUpstairs AbandonedUpstairs
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2012

    it has been over 5 years

    that I been un happy with this.. seems like we are just room mates that argue a lot. without the benefit of make up sex.:( been over 3 years since she wanted to have any kind of sex....
    marriedguy67 marriedguy67
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 16, 2016

    18 Years...When Is Enough Enough

    I am on my 2nd marriage. We met when I was 22 and he was 36. Things were never perfect but I am one that doesn't admit they are wrong. I threw away one marriage and didn't want to admit I had made a 2nd mistake. Now we are 42 and 57. We can't stand each other most days but we say...
    whowantsoknow whowantsoknow
    1 Response Mar 28, 2013


    I am sorry that you aren't. I lived in that place for a decade and it's miserable. I hope you can find your way to a better place, whether it's with your husband, or not. Charlotte
    charlottesbed charlottesbed
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2012

    Not Happily Married

    I have been married 17 years but have been with my husband for 24 years and I am not happy.  I started dating him when i was 18 years old and we got married 7 years later.  We have 3 kids and he has been a good dad up to this point in time.  My kids are teenagers...
    wanttobehappy wanttobehappy
    5 Responses Oct 20, 2008


    My wife walked out over 4 months ago due to her own 'issues'.Without going into it, I spent our 4th anniversary alone.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2011

    What Kind Of Husband Is He??

    My so called "husband likes to be silly when were with friends by flirting with other single girls in the group. Also he jokes with his best friend about sleeping with his wife and offers me to his friend in front of him! Whenever we get together! He says he's joking but it hurts...
    gojazz gojazz
    Sep 30, 2012
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