I Am Not Happy In My Relationship

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    I could go on forever about my relationship

    but to make it quick....my boyfriend of 12 years has a drug addiction and has cheated and lied quite a bit in the past. There has been so much going on lately and I never know when to believe him. We separated for a few days and I went to his house Friday night and there were 2...
    deekay4 deekay4
    41-45, F
    Nov 19, 2014

    Well ... The title of my experience speaks

    for itself. 😒 that is all.
    lovexMICKEY lovexMICKEY
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    My Love!!

    I have been with this girl for about 1 year  and two months and we just recently broke up. She has always been there for me through tough times I have had and she has always sacrificed so much just to be with me and try to keep me happy. I cheated on her and i can honestly...
    carbajall10 carbajall10
    1 Response May 15, 2010


    Not sure what to say.Have been with same man for a long time and it only works when I dont say what is on my mind.Anytime I try to talk about anything other than the weather,he gets defensive or doesnt respond at all.It's not always bad,just seems we are here but not together...
    soco74 soco74
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 21, 2009

    I'm in a relationship ,

    that I don't want to be in. He's an incredible guy , does the most amazing things for me that no one ever has , but I'm just not feeling things anymore ...
    LoveandLust LoveandLust
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2014

    How My Life Sucks Right Now!!

    So 5 year's ago I met him at a club. I was 19 and he was my first boyfriend, he was 23.  Now 24 year old I have two kids, and I'm a stay at home Mother. How depressing it is that I feel my life has ended. DON'T GET ME WRONG. I love my two boys (6months and 3 years) They are NOT...
    Gemini402 Gemini402
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2010

    Just Plain Ugh.

    I do not even know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We have a four year old daughter together, and he lives with my parents, and myself. He gave up his life (which wasn't much) to come and be a family with me and his daughter. At first I...
    lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 lilmisundastoodlilgurl77
    3 Responses May 21, 2010

    What The Hell Am I Doing.

    I have been in a relationship for seven months I can count on both hands how how many time we have gone out for entertainment or had sex...I heard and old blues song that says *I Gotta find me a part time Lover* I honestly don't know why I am in this I don't want to go through a...
    albish albish
    Sep 21, 2012

    Confused On Wat To Do

    i been wit both guys an girls now im wit a girl for 16 month an engaged but the spark is gone im not happily in love anymore.talkin is suppose to help but seems to make our problems worse.i love this girl vey much an care deeply for her but i dont wanna have to make myself happy...
    redneckgurl90 redneckgurl90
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2011

    Unsure Of What To Do

         I am in my middle teens and right now I am with a really great guy, though for some reason I feel unsatisfied... He is really sweet, understanding, sincere, caring, kinda funny, and he's a gentleman in some ways. He's also fine with me being abstinent until I'm 19 even...
    Iamlost97 Iamlost97
    13-15, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2012

    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite
    26-30, M
    Feb 15, 2009

    Am I Giving Up Too Easy?

    Not sure where to start, I mean we all seem to be in somewhat of the same boat here... yet no one has an answer. I sit here everyday asking myself am I giving up too easy? Do I just throw this all away? My heart tells me stay and my mind tells me go. I've been with my...
    Sept84 Sept84
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 4, 2010

    I Pitty On Myself

    i am in a relationship with a guy from last 5 months .I love my guy like any damn thing and i just cant imagine a single day without him but he simply doesnt care abt me . always his 1st priority goes to his family , frnds , everybody on dis earth and m d last 1 in d list . he...
    needap needap
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 17, 2010

    Im Not Happy

    IM 17 and me and my girlfriend have been together 4 years nearly and got a 1 yr old son... I love her to pieces but she always moans, nags and never appreciates what i do. if i go out with my friends ten she'll moan and if i say in going out she will guilt trip me into staying in...
    jesse3stripes jesse3stripes
    22-25, M
    Sep 4, 2013

    I have been with this girl

    for about two months and i rarely hang out with her. I ask to hang out with her all the time but she always has plans or has practice for one of her three sports shes in. but she never at least tries to hang out with me cause she hangs out with her friends and sometimes in...
    LoveSebass LoveSebass
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 26, 2015

    Lets Go Back

    Everything was so perfect, so blissfull...He would come in his car, before work to see me. I'd be so excited, ive dated older guys but they've never been like him. He would take me out in his car, for a drive. Hold my hand while steering, trey songz singing to us on the radio...
    BellaVara BellaVara
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2009

    After 12 years my attraction to her has

    diminished to the point of i don't want to be a part of this relationship anymore. It sad but some things have a life span and don't last forever.
    deleted deleted
    Jul 13, 2014

    We Just Cant Seem to Get It Together

    Even looking at the title makes me think what a crock of $%#@ People get it together when they WANT to be together enough everyday!!!! I dont know who is worse me or him but whatever he relationship is a mess, its been a mess for a long time and we try try try to get it right, to...
    Lynsa Lynsa
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2009

    Arguments not understanding each other feel

    ignored my main concern is lack of sex. I am confused . Ready to walk out & give up.
    canyoufituup canyoufituup
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 24, 2015

    I Want To..

    i recently started dating someone who is a great guy but i feel like i'm trying to make myself like him. i just came out of a long-term relationship and i am still in love with my ex. this new guy is a great person so i don't want to break up with him because i'm afraid i'll...
    Gallimaufry Gallimaufry
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2009

    It's Just Not Meant To Be Forever.

    I love him, I do. There's absolutely nothing wrong with him... he's a perfect gentleman and he's funny and sincere... he'll make some girl extremely happy some day... But the more I'm with him I just realise that we're not at all compatible on a long term level. I feel like if...
    fauxsemblance fauxsemblance
    1 Response Oct 22, 2011

    I Wanna Go Home

     feel lonely now.There are nobody in this room expect me.I miss my mum who are far away from me .I don't wanna go out,and I don't want to do anything.I can't understand why those people have so many friends,and I always can't be a member of them.This is a raining day .My...
    acryingfish acryingfish
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2009

    Loveless And Lonely

    he's downstairs right now making breakfast and telling jokes. they all sound so happy. my son comes and says sorry there's not gonna be enough for you. why bother? he plays mister nice guy to everyone he meets. what do i get? nothing... i been sleeping alone every night for...
    blknurse blknurse
    Feb 3, 2013

    Am I Invisible??

    I have been dating my best friend for seven months now. At first it was great, he was sweet to me and really cared. Before we were dating, we were practically glued at the hip. He talked to me and really cared. When we started dating he stayed that way. Then, summer vacation came...
    Micsoccer14 Micsoccer14
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2013

    Its Exhausting!

    Hes a great guy who treats me nice. Ive been with him over 3 yrs. But he is such a closed book its like I dont really know him, and he has no idea who I am on the inside. He dorsnt discuss anything of how he or I feel. It makes me want to stray, not because I dont love him, I...
    AnnyOnimous AnnyOnimous
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2013

    I have been with my partner

    for almost six years.. at first he was the quintessential knight in shining armour, galloping in after two years of me being single. I had a then one yr old son so I was naturally cautious of a man coming into his life so I took my time to finally have him around full time. Then...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 5, 2015

    I just broke up with my partner of 5 years

    tonight. I knows it's the right thing to do, and I've been avoiding it for over a year. Now I'm lost, do I move out right now? Do I go to a hotel? How soon do we figure out our finances and part ways? This is the part I've been dreading. I did the hard part but now I'm lost...
    Riprovo Riprovo
    36-40, M
    Mar 6, 2015

    My Relationship..

    Ive been with this guy for about over a year. When he went to prison recently, I stuck by him and supported him. I visited him in prison and sent him money. We wrote each other letters and he told me that he would change when he comes out and treat me better than before he went...
    srreeves srreeves
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

    What I have with him is worth it.

    It is worth every lonely night, every tear I cry from missing him, and the pain I feel from not having him close. It is worth it because he is my one and only. When I picture myself years from now, I see only him. No matter how painful distance can be, not having him in my life...
    mckenzieexxdoee mckenzieexxdoee
    22-25, F
    May 26, 2014


    My boyfriend and I have a 6 month old son together. Honestly, I love my boyfriend soooo much. I can't even think about being with someone else, but I think about leaving almost every day. I know I am not happy. Everytime I try to talk to him about it he just says that I'm trying...
    SonjaRae SonjaRae
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2009
    chubbyrats chubbyrats
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 26, 2015

    I am in dire need of advice.

    I've been with my boyfriend for two years. But things between us have been changing. We have grown closer yet further apart at the same time. I started living with him a few months ago. But before that I only saw him once or twice a week. Recently, a couple of months ago, I...
    chubbyrats chubbyrats
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2015

    I've Been Unhappy For So Long

    Here are the facts: We have been together over three years. I fell out of love with him over two years ago. Last year we lived together, and it was the worst year of my life.  He ignored me, I was basically a live in maid, and I was so depressed I slept most of...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 11, 2009
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