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I Am Not Happy In My Relationship

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    What I have with him is worth it.

    It is worth every lonely night, every tear I cry from missing him, and the pain I feel from not having him close. It is worth it because he is my one and only. When I picture myself years from now, I see only him. No matter how painful distance can be, not having him in my life...
    mckenzieexxdoee mckenzieexxdoee 18-21, F May 26

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    He Deserves Better...

    I met him sophomore year, he sat right across me to my left side in first period. I didn't really know him, until one day something just lit up and I liked him. It was around in October when we started getting to know each other, we kinda talked in school. I had him for some...
    HaleyWolf HaleyWolf 16-17, F Feb 16, 2013

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    It's Just Not Meant To Be Forever.

    I love him, I do. There's absolutely nothing wrong with him... he's a perfect gentleman and he's funny and sincere... he'll make some girl extremely happy some day... But the more I'm with him I just realise that we're not at all compatible on a long term level. I feel like if...
    fauxsemblance fauxsemblance 22-25 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    How My Life Sucks Right Now!!

    So 5 year's ago I met him at a club. I was 19 and he was my first boyfriend, he was 23.  Now 24 year old I have two kids, and I'm a stay at home Mother. How depressing it is that I feel my life has ended. DON'T GET ME WRONG. I love my two boys (6months and 3 years) They are NOT...
    Gemini402 Gemini402 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    We Just Cant Seem to Get It Together

    Even looking at the title makes me think what a crock of $%#@ People get it together when they WANT to be together enough everyday!!!! I dont know who is worse me or him but whatever he relationship is a mess, its been a mess for a long time and we try try try to get it right, to...
    Lynsa Lynsa 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    After 12 years my attraction to her has

    diminished to the point of i don't want to be a part of this relationship anymore. It sad but some things have a life span and don't last forever.
    Seemyway Seemyway 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I've Been Unhappy For So Long

    Here are the facts: We have been together over three years. I fell out of love with him over two years ago. Last year we lived together, and it was the worst year of my life.  He ignored me, I was basically a live in maid, and I was so depressed I slept most of...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Confused On Wat To Do

    i been wit both guys an girls now im wit a girl for 16 month an engaged but the spark is gone im not happily in love anymore.talkin is suppose to help but seems to make our problems worse.i love this girl vey much an care deeply for her but i dont wanna have to make myself happy...
    redneckgurl90 redneckgurl90 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2011

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    Just Plain Ugh.

    I do not even know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We have a four year old daughter together, and he lives with my parents, and myself. He gave up his life (which wasn't much) to come and be a family with me and his daughter. At first I...
    lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 18-21 3 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Unsure Of What To Do

         I am in my middle teens and right now I am with a really great guy, though for some reason I feel unsatisfied... He is really sweet, understanding, sincere, caring, kinda funny, and he's a gentleman in some ways. He's also fine with me being abstinent until I'm 19 even...
    Iamlost97 Iamlost97 13-15, F 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Am I Invisible??

    I have been dating my best friend for seven months now. At first it was great, he was sweet to me and really cared. Before we were dating, we were practically glued at the hip. He talked to me and really cared. When we started dating he stayed that way. Then, summer vacation came...
    Micsoccer14 Micsoccer14 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M Feb 15, 2009

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    What The Hell Am I Doing.

    I have been in a relationship for seven months I can count on both hands how how many time we have gone out for entertainment or had sex...I heard and old blues song that says *I Gotta find me a part time Lover* I honestly don't know why I am in this I don't want to go through a...
    albish albish 46-50 Sep 21, 2012

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    Loveless And Lonely

    he's downstairs right now making breakfast and telling jokes. they all sound so happy. my son comes and says sorry there's not gonna be enough for you. why bother? he plays mister nice guy to everyone he meets. what do i get? nothing... i been sleeping alone every night for...
    blknurse blknurse 26-30 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    My Relationship..

    Ive been with this guy for about over a year. When he went to prison recently, I stuck by him and supported him. I visited him in prison and sent him money. We wrote each other letters and he told me that he would change when he comes out and treat me better than before he went...
    srreeves srreeves 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Men

    Not sure what to say.Have been with same man for a long time and it only works when I dont say what is on my mind.Anytime I try to talk about anything other than the weather,he gets defensive or doesnt respond at all.It's not always bad,just seems we are here but not together...
    soco74 soco74 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    Its Exhausting!

    Hes a great guy who treats me nice. Ive been with him over 3 yrs. But he is such a closed book its like I dont really know him, and he has no idea who I am on the inside. He dorsnt discuss anything of how he or I feel. It makes me want to stray, not because I dont love him, I...
    AnnyOnimous AnnyOnimous 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I'm in a relationship ,

    that I don't want to be in. He's an incredible guy , does the most amazing things for me that no one ever has , but I'm just not feeling things anymore ...
    LoveandLust LoveandLust 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Lets Go Back

    Everything was so perfect, so blissfull...He would come in his car, before work to see me. I'd be so excited, ive dated older guys but they've never been like him. He would take me out in his car, for a drive. Hold my hand while steering, trey songz singing to us on the radio...
    BellaVara BellaVara 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2009

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    All Of A Sudden

    It's a classic one. We've been together for a year but a very cautious year, more like dating and having loads of fun rather than getting closer. As we are disconnecting recently, I wanted to stop it by being more honest about my worries and feelings with him. But instead of that...
    belzebub belzebub 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    Unhappy

    My boyfriend and I have a 6 month old son together. Honestly, I love my boyfriend soooo much. I can't even think about being with someone else, but I think about leaving almost every day. I know I am not happy. Everytime I try to talk to him about it he just says that I'm trying...
    SonjaRae SonjaRae 18-21 2 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    I Want To..

    i recently started dating someone who is a great guy but i feel like i'm trying to make myself like him. i just came out of a long-term relationship and i am still in love with my ex. this new guy is a great person so i don't want to break up with him because i'm afraid i'll...
    Gallimaufry Gallimaufry 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    I Wanna Go Home

     feel lonely now.There are nobody in this room expect me.I miss my mum who are far away from me .I don't wanna go out,and I don't want to do anything.I can't understand why those people have so many friends,and I always can't be a member of them.This is a raining day .My...
    acryingfish acryingfish 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2009

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    Im Not Happy

    IM 17 and me and my girlfriend have been together 4 years nearly and got a 1 yr old son... I love her to pieces but she always moans, nags and never appreciates what i do. if i go out with my friends ten she'll moan and if i say in going out she will guilt trip me into staying in...
    jesse3stripes jesse3stripes 18-21, M Sep 4, 2013

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    Well ... The title of my experience speaks

    for itself. 😒 that is all.
    lovexMICKEY lovexMICKEY 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    My Love!!

    I have been with this girl for about 1 year  and two months and we just recently broke up. She has always been there for me through tough times I have had and she has always sacrificed so much just to be with me and try to keep me happy. I cheated on her and i can honestly...
    carbajall10 carbajall10 18-21 1 Response May 15, 2010

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    Am I Giving Up Too Easy?

    Not sure where to start, I mean we all seem to be in somewhat of the same boat here... yet no one has an answer. I sit here everyday asking myself am I giving up too easy? Do I just throw this all away? My heart tells me stay and my mind tells me go. I've been with my...
    Sept84 Sept84 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4, 2010

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    I Pitty On Myself

    i am in a relationship with a guy from last 5 months .I love my guy like any damn thing and i just cant imagine a single day without him but he simply doesnt care abt me . always his 1st priority goes to his family , frnds , everybody on dis earth and m d last 1 in d list . he...
    needap needap 18-21, F 1 Response May 17, 2010

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    Find 2 people who are in a stable, happy relationship which is like the one you aspire to be in. Look at why they are in a relationship. They are not in a relationship because...
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    I'm in love and have fallen for a beautiful man. It's still only early days and we have been together for 5 months. We talk openly about everything and love each other. The...
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    How can one be so happy with a person, yet so conflicted by outside perspectives? Getting hit by the hard "that is just wrong" comments and gossips of "are you really going to get...
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    Yes, I've never been in a relationship.. There are times some guys and one girl confessed to me. But I've rejected them all. I support lesbians but I'm VERY VERY straight. I don't...
    IdioticBear IdioticBear 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I pretend to be happy for everyone except ep. No one cares really, but it usually makes people happy when you're happy and smiling. That's all I want, for everyone to be happy.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    I'm in a relationship with a user from here (jack3684) he's my rock the one I can count on when I'm upset or scared <3 :* he's amazing<3
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    Whenever im in a relationship, in about 2 months or less i feel already non- exited anymore. I become more quiet and the whole magic of the flirting and laughing is gone , and then...
    mcalderon89 mcalderon89 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    I wish I wasn't always feeling like someone less than equal. I wish I was out of the relationship I am in now, and in a relationship with a person who could love me for me. When I...
    Momma1985 Momma1985 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general), always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a social introvert, but that does not mean im anti-social, but i'd rather be with close friends than loads of acquaintances, that sort of thing. But I am increasingly anxious...
    Tonydsd Tonydsd 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I know this sounds desperate, sad & depressing, maybe even stupid to some. Someone once asked me, what do you want out of a relationship? And I said... Honestly, I just want to...
    dukelostboy25 dukelostboy25 26-30, M Jun 30

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    why such things happening to me.. I am trying my best to be sincere with my love then why after every month I start thinking is he good for me or not ?? do I love him or not?? I...
    brokenangelia brokenangelia 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    I don't even know where to start. I need some serious advice and no jokes ppl please. This sounds crazy and maybe even unbelievable, but I fell in love with a 30 yr old guy and I'm...
    strixerX strixerX 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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