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I Am Not Happy In My Relationship

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    Unhappy

    My boyfriend and I have a 6 month old son together. Honestly, I love my boyfriend soooo much. I can't even think about being with someone else, but I think about leaving almost every day. I know I am not happy. Everytime I try to talk to him about it he just says that I'm trying...
    SonjaRae SonjaRae 18-21 2 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    How My Life Sucks Right Now!!

    So 5 year's ago I met him at a club. I was 19 and he was my first boyfriend, he was 23.  Now 24 year old I have two kids, and I'm a stay at home Mother. How depressing it is that I feel my life has ended. DON'T GET ME WRONG. I love my two boys (6months and 3 years) They are NOT...
    Gemini402 Gemini402 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M Feb 15, 2009

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    Unsure Of What To Do

         I am in my middle teens and right now I am with a really great guy, though for some reason I feel unsatisfied... He is really sweet, understanding, sincere, caring, kinda funny, and he's a gentleman in some ways. He's also fine with me being abstinent until I'm 19 even...
    Iamlost97 Iamlost97 13-15, F 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    I Wanna Go Home

     feel lonely now.There are nobody in this room expect me.I miss my mum who are far away from me .I don't wanna go out,and I don't want to do anything.I can't understand why those people have so many friends,and I always can't be a member of them.This is a raining day .My...
    acryingfish acryingfish 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2009

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    Am I Giving Up Too Easy?

    Not sure where to start, I mean we all seem to be in somewhat of the same boat here... yet no one has an answer. I sit here everyday asking myself am I giving up too easy? Do I just throw this all away? My heart tells me stay and my mind tells me go. I've been with my...
    Sept84 Sept84 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Loveless And Lonely

    he's downstairs right now making breakfast and telling jokes. they all sound so happy. my son comes and says sorry there's not gonna be enough for you. why bother? he plays mister nice guy to everyone he meets. what do i get? nothing... i been sleeping alone every night for...
    blknurse blknurse 26-30 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    Well ... The title of my experience speaks

    for itself. 😒 that is all.
    lovexMICKEY lovexMICKEY 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    He Deserves Better...

    I met him sophomore year, he sat right across me to my left side in first period. I didn't really know him, until one day something just lit up and I liked him. It was around in October when we started getting to know each other, we kinda talked in school. I had him for some...
    HaleyWolf HaleyWolf 16-17, F Feb 16, 2013

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    It's Just Not Meant To Be Forever.

    I love him, I do. There's absolutely nothing wrong with him... he's a perfect gentleman and he's funny and sincere... he'll make some girl extremely happy some day... But the more I'm with him I just realise that we're not at all compatible on a long term level. I feel like if...
    fauxsemblance fauxsemblance 22-25 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    All Of A Sudden

    It's a classic one. We've been together for a year but a very cautious year, more like dating and having loads of fun rather than getting closer. As we are disconnecting recently, I wanted to stop it by being more honest about my worries and feelings with him. But instead of that...
    belzebub belzebub 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    My Love!!

    I have been with this girl for about 1 year  and two months and we just recently broke up. She has always been there for me through tough times I have had and she has always sacrificed so much just to be with me and try to keep me happy. I cheated on her and i can honestly...
    carbajall10 carbajall10 18-21 1 Response May 15, 2010

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    I Pitty On Myself

    i am in a relationship with a guy from last 5 months .I love my guy like any damn thing and i just cant imagine a single day without him but he simply doesnt care abt me . always his 1st priority goes to his family , frnds , everybody on dis earth and m d last 1 in d list . he...
    needap needap 18-21, F 1 Response May 17, 2010

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    Its Exhausting!

    Hes a great guy who treats me nice. Ive been with him over 3 yrs. But he is such a closed book its like I dont really know him, and he has no idea who I am on the inside. He dorsnt discuss anything of how he or I feel. It makes me want to stray, not because I dont love him, I...
    AnnyOnimous AnnyOnimous 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Confused On Wat To Do

    i been wit both guys an girls now im wit a girl for 16 month an engaged but the spark is gone im not happily in love anymore.talkin is suppose to help but seems to make our problems worse.i love this girl vey much an care deeply for her but i dont wanna have to make myself happy...
    redneckgurl90 redneckgurl90 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2011

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    Am I Invisible??

    I have been dating my best friend for seven months now. At first it was great, he was sweet to me and really cared. Before we were dating, we were practically glued at the hip. He talked to me and really cared. When we started dating he stayed that way. Then, summer vacation came...
    Micsoccer14 Micsoccer14 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    I've Been Unhappy For So Long

    Here are the facts: We have been together over three years. I fell out of love with him over two years ago. Last year we lived together, and it was the worst year of my life.  He ignored me, I was basically a live in maid, and I was so depressed I slept most of...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    We Just Cant Seem to Get It Together

    Even looking at the title makes me think what a crock of $%#@ People get it together when they WANT to be together enough everyday!!!! I dont know who is worse me or him but whatever he relationship is a mess, its been a mess for a long time and we try try try to get it right, to...
    Lynsa Lynsa 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    Im Not Happy

    IM 17 and me and my girlfriend have been together 4 years nearly and got a 1 yr old son... I love her to pieces but she always moans, nags and never appreciates what i do. if i go out with my friends ten she'll moan and if i say in going out she will guilt trip me into staying in...
    jesse3stripes jesse3stripes 18-21, M Sep 4, 2013

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    Lets Go Back

    Everything was so perfect, so blissfull...He would come in his car, before work to see me. I'd be so excited, ive dated older guys but they've never been like him. He would take me out in his car, for a drive. Hold my hand while steering, trey songz singing to us on the radio...
    BellaVara BellaVara 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2009

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    I'm in a relationship ,

    that I don't want to be in. He's an incredible guy , does the most amazing things for me that no one ever has , but I'm just not feeling things anymore ...
    LoveandLust LoveandLust 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Just Plain Ugh.

    I do not even know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We have a four year old daughter together, and he lives with my parents, and myself. He gave up his life (which wasn't much) to come and be a family with me and his daughter. At first I...
    lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 18-21 3 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Men

    Not sure what to say.Have been with same man for a long time and it only works when I dont say what is on my mind.Anytime I try to talk about anything other than the weather,he gets defensive or doesnt respond at all.It's not always bad,just seems we are here but not together...
    soco74 soco74 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    What The Hell Am I Doing.

    I have been in a relationship for seven months I can count on both hands how how many time we have gone out for entertainment or had sex...I heard and old blues song that says *I Gotta find me a part time Lover* I honestly don't know why I am in this I don't want to go through a...
    albish albish 46-50 Sep 21, 2012

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    I Want To..

    i recently started dating someone who is a great guy but i feel like i'm trying to make myself like him. i just came out of a long-term relationship and i am still in love with my ex. this new guy is a great person so i don't want to break up with him because i'm afraid i'll...
    Gallimaufry Gallimaufry 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    Okay, for starters let me just share with you that I've never EVER really been in a serious relationship. My longest was 4 months and I barely saw the guy. That was two years ago...
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    I'm in a relationship with my best friend.... In the beginning, everything was amazing. But now, it's a toxic, unhealthy connection between her and I. It's to the point where the...
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    But two guys I have dated ruined my trust... So now I have a hard time trusting anyone. They were abusive and told me so many horrible things and said I didn't deserve happiness...
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    There was a time when I was so deeply missing love and affection that I immediately broke down and cried when I saw a couple kissing in public. Now I am just envious. I want a...
    xcryptic xcryptic 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    "I want a divorce" are the words I spoke to my husband of 13 years......today. after 3.5 years of effort trying to save our marriage, i realised a time ago that i cannot fix it...
    Elena36 Elena36 36-40, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I found out last night that my crush likes me. For the first time in what feels like forever, I am genuinely happy. He's perfect in every way and I'm really really happy
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F Mar 30

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    And be in love. And for it to be healthy . mutually beneficial, last, and be the type that can be help me strengthen me.the kind of relationship im supposed to have. the type of...
    rosepetalsgirl rosepetalsgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I want to be in a relationship where my man loves me. where he thinks I'm special. I want a man who will tell me what he's thinking. who will be faithful to me. I want a man that...
    countryanon countryanon 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I'm happier in a relationship than single I like to pamper and love my man.
    grimesfoster grimesfoster 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    It'll never happen. I will never be happy again.
    breannainreverse breannainreverse 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    This is beautiful. To my sweet daughter, If you ever begin to wonder if he is the one, ask yourself: Does his laughter warm your body from the inside out? He knows that when you...
    MissMisunderstood1 MissMisunderstood1 16-17, F Mar 28

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    I had a dream last night that I was in love with someone. We were cuddling lots and laughing with each other. It felt wonderful. I have almost forgotten what that really feels like...
    EllisRose EllisRose 36-40, F Mar 28

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    I really think that I am in one. I love my boyfriend to bits and pieces and I love his little quirks. He spoils me so much and makes me feel wanted and loved. He makes me laugh so...
    invisiblyreal invisiblyreal 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I thought I would try at love again; bad mistake. I am miserable and think about getting out on my own. Married now; but very unhappy
    payneless01 payneless01 51-55, F Apr 6

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    I fell in love with a girl I think she could be the one...
    Mojica97 Mojica97 16-17, M Apr 7

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    81 percent of people marry their friends:) . .:)Becz dey hav gud undrstndng dat avoid problems.i sent dis 2 u,u wil get gud news on monday by d person u like.and tomrow will be the...
    sarasl sarasl 31-35, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I don't know why but lately I've felt like I really want to be in a relationship and not just any but good healthy happy relationship.
    carolinam96 carolinam96 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Seriously, I just get depressed and cry all night when I see a happy couple .. I've been in a relationship that ended badly, I was really one of the happy couples I see around, but...
    HighwayUnicornx HighwayUnicornx 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have been depressed for far to long now. I have put so much at risk to try and change that and to be happy again. So far I've lost a lot and gained very little happiness... There...
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    I'm in a relationship. Been together for 4 years and counting. Please respect the boundary, or GTFO.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    I hope to find a serious relationship here .. Someone who dont play around and likes to travel sometimes to explore different countries ..
    Crecre Crecre 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    It's a beautiful day, spring is finally here, everybody is in a great mood and I feel happy!!! Yeah!!
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    Sigh... I'm feeling so tired already. I'm glad EP is here, at least I can express what is bothering me. This is going to be long so pardon me. I dated this person but things...
    huskiesandmalamutes huskiesandmalamutes 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I think to be able to say that you are happy with someone and no one else is beautiful, me being a paranoid idiot I can never believe it 100% when someone tells me this. I also...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F Apr 4

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    My fairytale has no ending yet, because I am still living it every day, even though it's filled with drama and heartache. The Love of my Life is my best friend. I believe you have...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 30

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