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I Am Not Happy In My Relationship

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    Loveless And Lonely

    he's downstairs right now making breakfast and telling jokes. they all sound so happy. my son comes and says sorry there's not gonna be enough for you. why bother? he plays mister nice guy to everyone he meets. what do i get? nothing... i been sleeping alone every night for...
    blknurse blknurse 26-30 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    I Wanna Go Home

     feel lonely now.There are nobody in this room expect me.I miss my mum who are far away from me .I don't wanna go out,and I don't want to do anything.I can't understand why those people have so many friends,and I always can't be a member of them.This is a raining day .My...
    acryingfish acryingfish 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2009

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    After 12 years my attraction to her has

    diminished to the point of i don't want to be a part of this relationship anymore. It sad but some things have a life span and don't last forever.
    Seemyway Seemyway 41-45, M Jul 13

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    I Want To..

    i recently started dating someone who is a great guy but i feel like i'm trying to make myself like him. i just came out of a long-term relationship and i am still in love with my ex. this new guy is a great person so i don't want to break up with him because i'm afraid i'll...
    Gallimaufry Gallimaufry 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    What The Hell Am I Doing.

    I have been in a relationship for seven months I can count on both hands how how many time we have gone out for entertainment or had sex...I heard and old blues song that says *I Gotta find me a part time Lover* I honestly don't know why I am in this I don't want to go through a...
    albish albish 46-50 Sep 21, 2012

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M Feb 15, 2009

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    Unhappy

    My boyfriend and I have a 6 month old son together. Honestly, I love my boyfriend soooo much. I can't even think about being with someone else, but I think about leaving almost every day. I know I am not happy. Everytime I try to talk to him about it he just says that I'm trying...
    SonjaRae SonjaRae 18-21 2 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    How My Life Sucks Right Now!!

    So 5 year's ago I met him at a club. I was 19 and he was my first boyfriend, he was 23.  Now 24 year old I have two kids, and I'm a stay at home Mother. How depressing it is that I feel my life has ended. DON'T GET ME WRONG. I love my two boys (6months and 3 years) They are NOT...
    Gemini402 Gemini402 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Lets Go Back

    Everything was so perfect, so blissfull...He would come in his car, before work to see me. I'd be so excited, ive dated older guys but they've never been like him. He would take me out in his car, for a drive. Hold my hand while steering, trey songz singing to us on the radio...
    BellaVara BellaVara 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2009

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    We Just Cant Seem to Get It Together

    Even looking at the title makes me think what a crock of $%#@ People get it together when they WANT to be together enough everyday!!!! I dont know who is worse me or him but whatever he relationship is a mess, its been a mess for a long time and we try try try to get it right, to...
    Lynsa Lynsa 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    Am I Giving Up Too Easy?

    Not sure where to start, I mean we all seem to be in somewhat of the same boat here... yet no one has an answer. I sit here everyday asking myself am I giving up too easy? Do I just throw this all away? My heart tells me stay and my mind tells me go. I've been with my...
    Sept84 Sept84 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4, 2010

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    What I have with him is worth it.

    It is worth every lonely night, every tear I cry from missing him, and the pain I feel from not having him close. It is worth it because he is my one and only. When I picture myself years from now, I see only him. No matter how painful distance can be, not having him in my life...
    mckenzieexxdoee mckenzieexxdoee 18-21, F May 26

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    Just Plain Ugh.

    I do not even know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We have a four year old daughter together, and he lives with my parents, and myself. He gave up his life (which wasn't much) to come and be a family with me and his daughter. At first I...
    lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 18-21 3 Responses May 21, 2010

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    All Of A Sudden

    It's a classic one. We've been together for a year but a very cautious year, more like dating and having loads of fun rather than getting closer. As we are disconnecting recently, I wanted to stop it by being more honest about my worries and feelings with him. But instead of that...
    belzebub belzebub 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    Im Not Happy

    IM 17 and me and my girlfriend have been together 4 years nearly and got a 1 yr old son... I love her to pieces but she always moans, nags and never appreciates what i do. if i go out with my friends ten she'll moan and if i say in going out she will guilt trip me into staying in...
    jesse3stripes jesse3stripes 18-21, M Sep 4, 2013

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    I Pitty On Myself

    i am in a relationship with a guy from last 5 months .I love my guy like any damn thing and i just cant imagine a single day without him but he simply doesnt care abt me . always his 1st priority goes to his family , frnds , everybody on dis earth and m d last 1 in d list . he...
    needap needap 18-21, F 1 Response May 17, 2010

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    It's Just Not Meant To Be Forever.

    I love him, I do. There's absolutely nothing wrong with him... he's a perfect gentleman and he's funny and sincere... he'll make some girl extremely happy some day... But the more I'm with him I just realise that we're not at all compatible on a long term level. I feel like if...
    fauxsemblance fauxsemblance 22-25 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    Men

    Not sure what to say.Have been with same man for a long time and it only works when I dont say what is on my mind.Anytime I try to talk about anything other than the weather,he gets defensive or doesnt respond at all.It's not always bad,just seems we are here but not together...
    soco74 soco74 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    Confused On Wat To Do

    i been wit both guys an girls now im wit a girl for 16 month an engaged but the spark is gone im not happily in love anymore.talkin is suppose to help but seems to make our problems worse.i love this girl vey much an care deeply for her but i dont wanna have to make myself happy...
    redneckgurl90 redneckgurl90 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2011

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    I'm in a relationship ,

    that I don't want to be in. He's an incredible guy , does the most amazing things for me that no one ever has , but I'm just not feeling things anymore ...
    LoveandLust LoveandLust 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I've Been Unhappy For So Long

    Here are the facts: We have been together over three years. I fell out of love with him over two years ago. Last year we lived together, and it was the worst year of my life.  He ignored me, I was basically a live in maid, and I was so depressed I slept most of...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    My Relationship..

    Ive been with this guy for about over a year. When he went to prison recently, I stuck by him and supported him. I visited him in prison and sent him money. We wrote each other letters and he told me that he would change when he comes out and treat me better than before he went...
    srreeves srreeves 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Unsure Of What To Do

         I am in my middle teens and right now I am with a really great guy, though for some reason I feel unsatisfied... He is really sweet, understanding, sincere, caring, kinda funny, and he's a gentleman in some ways. He's also fine with me being abstinent until I'm 19 even...
    Iamlost97 Iamlost97 13-15, F 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Am I Invisible??

    I have been dating my best friend for seven months now. At first it was great, he was sweet to me and really cared. Before we were dating, we were practically glued at the hip. He talked to me and really cared. When we started dating he stayed that way. Then, summer vacation came...
    Micsoccer14 Micsoccer14 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    Well ... The title of my experience speaks

    for itself. 😒 that is all.
    lovexMICKEY lovexMICKEY 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    Its Exhausting!

    Hes a great guy who treats me nice. Ive been with him over 3 yrs. But he is such a closed book its like I dont really know him, and he has no idea who I am on the inside. He dorsnt discuss anything of how he or I feel. It makes me want to stray, not because I dont love him, I...
    AnnyOnimous AnnyOnimous 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    My Love!!

    I have been with this girl for about 1 year  and two months and we just recently broke up. She has always been there for me through tough times I have had and she has always sacrificed so much just to be with me and try to keep me happy. I cheated on her and i can honestly...
    carbajall10 carbajall10 18-21 1 Response May 15, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Happy and serious relationship. No more flings. No more dramas. Be matured enough. ;)
    amjss amjss 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I can never seem to find a relationship that works. Whether they're a friend or an enemy, whether they're close or distant, whether they're kind or hateful it just never works. It...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I hope. But i don't think i'd ever be in a relationship again.
    Manhater013 Manhater013 22-25, F Aug 28

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    I've been talking to a man online for 6 yrs Off and on He made me think he had deep feelings for me I never chase men or try to change them We always had deep conversations...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    I want a partner in life. I want to look into his eyes and see the reflection of the look in mine, and know that he loves me as completely as I love him. I'm so tired if drama...
    ComplexNotComplicated1 ComplexNotComplicated1 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I was in an extremely abusive relationship, I ran from TN to NC, and was single for a year then I met HIM. He was patient, kind, understanding, he helped me to fix myself, he made...
    LilMzSweetness LilMzSweetness 22-25 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I've only known this guy for a few weeks but I'm falling for him so fast, he is so cute and makes me feel special, I don't no what it is about him but when I think about him or...
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I made a post the other day talking about a really close friend and how he kisses me for the first time and I was so happy except... Now I feel like things have changed, he called...
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I've been dating this guy for almost a year now and it's long distance. It's working really well for us besides a few fights here and there, I am in love with him and always...
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    That would be nice. Sitting across the room watching your other half do something mundane. Then to just catch her eye. See a broad smile beam across her face.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Aug 26

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    I created a MOOD BOOSTER! For £5 you can PDF of 10 interesting ways to boost your mood in under 3 mins each! With 3 BONUS Meditations! www.personaldevelopmentguru.weebly.com/my...
    LOAcoach LOAcoach 26-30, F Aug 30

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    I want a guy had one and now he is a jerk
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I am loss and at my age, after 30yrs of marriage, my husband acts as though I do not exist. I work full-time and he chose early retirement. Just had to get that out.
    kpraylan kpraylan 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Parents who deliberately starve children of love face jail under new Cinderella Law
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Oh Mr Right when will i meet you? Lol
    Manhater013 Manhater013 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I do, so bad , but I'm still not over my ex. He was abusive and didn't deserve me, and the guys I have been seeing are so sweet. I'm still in love with my ex :/
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I have this thought in my head that I keep fighting with and want to get rid of... But is getting stronger everyday and is haunting me everywhere I go messing me up ...... I don't...
    chanty001 chanty001 31-35, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know how to be truly happy in my life, work, and raising my kids on my own, But I do not know how it feels to be in a truly loving and happy relationship with a woman! I want...
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Sep 5

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    My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago, after ten months. His reasoning was that he needed to think about things, and that he was stressed with school, and he felt like he wasn't...
    sidneyf23 sidneyf23 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    What is "happy" anyway? I think of "happy" being when you're a kid and you have no worries, no fears, you feel that your parents will always be there to protect you, that...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Soooooo happyyy... I just cant describe it. I want to share this happy feeling to everybody. I cant help but smile all the time. I hope this bubble im in right now wont burst.
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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