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I Am Not Happy In My Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 103 People

    It's Just Not Meant To Be Forever.

    I love him, I do. There's absolutely nothing wrong with him... he's a perfect gentleman and he's funny and sincere... he'll make some girl extremely happy some day... But the more I'm with him I just realise that we're not at all compatible on a long term level. I feel like if...
    fauxsemblance fauxsemblance 22-25 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    What The Hell Am I Doing.

    I have been in a relationship for seven months I can count on both hands how how many time we have gone out for entertainment or had sex...I heard and old blues song that says *I Gotta find me a part time Lover* I honestly don't know why I am in this I don't want to go through a...
    albish albish 46-50 Sep 21, 2012

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    I've Been Unhappy For So Long

    Here are the facts: We have been together over three years. I fell out of love with him over two years ago. Last year we lived together, and it was the worst year of my life.  He ignored me, I was basically a live in maid, and I was so depressed I slept most of...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Unsure Of What To Do

         I am in my middle teens and right now I am with a really great guy, though for some reason I feel unsatisfied... He is really sweet, understanding, sincere, caring, kinda funny, and he's a gentleman in some ways. He's also fine with me being abstinent until I'm 19 even...
    Iamlost97 Iamlost97 13-15, F 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    All Of A Sudden

    It's a classic one. We've been together for a year but a very cautious year, more like dating and having loads of fun rather than getting closer. As we are disconnecting recently, I wanted to stop it by being more honest about my worries and feelings with him. But instead of that...
    belzebub belzebub 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    Am I Invisible??

    I have been dating my best friend for seven months now. At first it was great, he was sweet to me and really cared. Before we were dating, we were practically glued at the hip. He talked to me and really cared. When we started dating he stayed that way. Then, summer vacation came...
    Micsoccer14 Micsoccer14 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    Unhappy

    My boyfriend and I have a 6 month old son together. Honestly, I love my boyfriend soooo much. I can't even think about being with someone else, but I think about leaving almost every day. I know I am not happy. Everytime I try to talk to him about it he just says that I'm trying...
    SonjaRae SonjaRae 18-21 2 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    Im Not Happy

    IM 17 and me and my girlfriend have been together 4 years nearly and got a 1 yr old son... I love her to pieces but she always moans, nags and never appreciates what i do. if i go out with my friends ten she'll moan and if i say in going out she will guilt trip me into staying in...
    jesse3stripes jesse3stripes 18-21, M Sep 4, 2013

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    How My Life Sucks Right Now!!

    So 5 year's ago I met him at a club. I was 19 and he was my first boyfriend, he was 23.  Now 24 year old I have two kids, and I'm a stay at home Mother. How depressing it is that I feel my life has ended. DON'T GET ME WRONG. I love my two boys (6months and 3 years) They are NOT...
    Gemini402 Gemini402 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    I Pitty On Myself

    i am in a relationship with a guy from last 5 months .I love my guy like any damn thing and i just cant imagine a single day without him but he simply doesnt care abt me . always his 1st priority goes to his family , frnds , everybody on dis earth and m d last 1 in d list . he...
    needap needap 18-21, F 1 Response May 17, 2010

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    After 12 years my attraction to her has

    diminished to the point of i don't want to be a part of this relationship anymore. It sad but some things have a life span and don't last forever.
    Seemyway Seemyway 41-45, M Jul 13

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    Confused On Wat To Do

    i been wit both guys an girls now im wit a girl for 16 month an engaged but the spark is gone im not happily in love anymore.talkin is suppose to help but seems to make our problems worse.i love this girl vey much an care deeply for her but i dont wanna have to make myself happy...
    redneckgurl90 redneckgurl90 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2011

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    I could go on forever about my relationship

    but to make it quick....my boyfriend of 12 years has a drug addiction and has cheated and lied quite a bit in the past. There has been so much going on lately and I never know when to believe him. We separated for a few days and I went to his house Friday night and there were 2...
    deekay4 deekay4 41-45, F Nov 19

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M Feb 15, 2009

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    Its Exhausting!

    Hes a great guy who treats me nice. Ive been with him over 3 yrs. But he is such a closed book its like I dont really know him, and he has no idea who I am on the inside. He dorsnt discuss anything of how he or I feel. It makes me want to stray, not because I dont love him, I...
    AnnyOnimous AnnyOnimous 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Men

    Not sure what to say.Have been with same man for a long time and it only works when I dont say what is on my mind.Anytime I try to talk about anything other than the weather,he gets defensive or doesnt respond at all.It's not always bad,just seems we are here but not together...
    soco74 soco74 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    Well ... The title of my experience speaks

    for itself. 😒 that is all.
    lovexMICKEY lovexMICKEY 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    We Just Cant Seem to Get It Together

    Even looking at the title makes me think what a crock of $%#@ People get it together when they WANT to be together enough everyday!!!! I dont know who is worse me or him but whatever he relationship is a mess, its been a mess for a long time and we try try try to get it right, to...
    Lynsa Lynsa 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    Am I Giving Up Too Easy?

    Not sure where to start, I mean we all seem to be in somewhat of the same boat here... yet no one has an answer. I sit here everyday asking myself am I giving up too easy? Do I just throw this all away? My heart tells me stay and my mind tells me go. I've been with my...
    Sept84 Sept84 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4, 2010

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    I'm in a relationship ,

    that I don't want to be in. He's an incredible guy , does the most amazing things for me that no one ever has , but I'm just not feeling things anymore ...
    LoveandLust LoveandLust 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Loveless And Lonely

    he's downstairs right now making breakfast and telling jokes. they all sound so happy. my son comes and says sorry there's not gonna be enough for you. why bother? he plays mister nice guy to everyone he meets. what do i get? nothing... i been sleeping alone every night for...
    blknurse blknurse 26-30 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    My Relationship..

    Ive been with this guy for about over a year. When he went to prison recently, I stuck by him and supported him. I visited him in prison and sent him money. We wrote each other letters and he told me that he would change when he comes out and treat me better than before he went...
    srreeves srreeves 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    What I have with him is worth it.

    It is worth every lonely night, every tear I cry from missing him, and the pain I feel from not having him close. It is worth it because he is my one and only. When I picture myself years from now, I see only him. No matter how painful distance can be, not having him in my life...
    mckenzieexxdoee mckenzieexxdoee 18-21, F May 26

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    Just Plain Ugh.

    I do not even know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We have a four year old daughter together, and he lives with my parents, and myself. He gave up his life (which wasn't much) to come and be a family with me and his daughter. At first I...
    lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 lilmisundastoodlilgurl77 18-21 3 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Lets Go Back

    Everything was so perfect, so blissfull...He would come in his car, before work to see me. I'd be so excited, ive dated older guys but they've never been like him. He would take me out in his car, for a drive. Hold my hand while steering, trey songz singing to us on the radio...
    BellaVara BellaVara 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2009

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    My Love!!

    I have been with this girl for about 1 year  and two months and we just recently broke up. She has always been there for me through tough times I have had and she has always sacrificed so much just to be with me and try to keep me happy. I cheated on her and i can honestly...
    carbajall10 carbajall10 18-21 1 Response May 15, 2010

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    I Wanna Go Home

     feel lonely now.There are nobody in this room expect me.I miss my mum who are far away from me .I don't wanna go out,and I don't want to do anything.I can't understand why those people have so many friends,and I always can't be a member of them.This is a raining day .My...
    acryingfish acryingfish 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2009

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    I Want To..

    i recently started dating someone who is a great guy but i feel like i'm trying to make myself like him. i just came out of a long-term relationship and i am still in love with my ex. this new guy is a great person so i don't want to break up with him because i'm afraid i'll...
    Gallimaufry Gallimaufry 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    Doormat Is Better Off Than Me

    So i love this girl a lot ....lik crazy .....I loved her like mad ...2 years back too...but she broke off with me , saying she is more mature and stable in life.....now after a dead marriage ......i find her again and ..yes i still  love her .....But this time around...
    fun2nite fun2nite 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    Sometimes I'm so happy and he makes everything seem perfect then other days I just can't seem to cope. We have been together over a year, we aren't/have never been s3xually active...
    mysteryteen mysteryteen 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    i do want to be happy, i really do....today i need to get up and get clothes on...cant stay in bed forever....i need to make it to the gym to do the paperwork for the fees and use...
    turnpike1971 turnpike1971 41-45, M 8 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    my happy moments are like flash light in long dark cold night i can't be happy with my present i want feel happy even for short time
    narmer2015 narmer2015 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    I don't even know what to say honestly. But imma try my hardest to tell you what's on my mind right now in the best way possible!! I literately just faced a blunt. Now there is all...
    Casspper Casspper 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 5

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    My boyfriend lives in New England and I live in the South East. We met online and have made our long distance work for about a year and a half only seeing each other twice when I...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93 18-21, F 7 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    ill never be on a relationship and ill never be in one I'm 17 and still single and I've never had my first kiss either what is life
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do anymore. He refuses to acknowledge our relationship at work. And I have just left the work Christmas party early because he refused to talk to me. He acts...
    Jodiechristine88 Jodiechristine88 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So this is new... Something that a lot of people probably don't hear a lot and to be fair, I don't know why it is either... But here it goes... I have been in 4 relationships so...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    Happy Holidays... Enjoy it and be happy.
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 7 hrs ago

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    You know it doesn't take long to be happy. It takes less muscles to smile than it dos to frown. It would be nice if we could make just one person happy each day. So get the old...
    Thrash1 Thrash1 61-65, M 2 hrs ago

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    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F Nov 19

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    The last time I wrote here I told you all how I am moving in with my older man. He is 64 and I am 23! We have been dating for about 5.5 years and have been living together for the...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F Nov 19

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    Chiara92 Chiara92 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10