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I Am Not Happy With My Husband

unhappily married 155 People

    At The Breaking Point

    So my original story is below written on Nov 8 2009...and I'm shocked to come across it again. WOW life has changed SO much and I thought I should update this story. Today is June 17 2011! I gave this man every chance I could and finally kicked his *** out of our humble home...
    needoutsiderview needoutsiderview 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    Touchy Touch

    My husband, like all of us, has issues. He has done a lot of work to try to become better at connecting with me emotionally. I know he is still troubled that I won't connect with him physically. I feel bad for him, but the truth is that I am scared. He knows I have many medical...
    Classicality7 Classicality7 56-60, F 13 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    My Husbands Best Friend

    My husband has known this guy let's call him Red. They have been friends for a very long time. Right around 15 years. I have known him for almost 12 years(same as my husband). He has been a good friend for the most part. He is out sons god father. He was best man at our...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    Husbands Past

    I fell in love with a man and was swept away. Then shortly, I found out he had married a woman that was 47 , in vegas, and was married to her for 1 1/2 years, they bought a house, vehicles etc together. He is 24, so he was roughly 22 when he married her and ive asked about that...
    Savvylady Savvylady 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    I probably question whether I married the right

    person and wonder how I'll ever stay married to him, every day. We've been married for 8 yrs. and have a toddler. I ask myself how I could ever have married someone as opposite as I am. I'm positive, he's negative, I'm sensitive, he's a stiff, I love animals and outdoors, he...
    happiness18 happiness18 41-45, F Dec 18, 2013

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    Lost And Confused

    I am still not married and I dont know if marriage is for me? I am 21 years old and have 3 boys with this man. I had them very young which I dont regret them at all. I feel like I have to be with this man now for the rest of my life. I truley do believe i love him, but I dont...
    cakes0 cakes0 22-25 Jun 8, 2012

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    Furious

    Im an Irish Traveller, and my husband and I were spending a couple months settled at a caravan site. We're supposed to be living here another 4 weeks, but the UK the settled people hate Travellers and gypsies, so much they want to run us all out. The city council, of course all...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    My Husband

    My husband,How can I be happy,Haven't got one,Got a partner,Who's great,Anyway,Why am I writing this,I'm a man!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 12, 2012

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    Leaving This Group Today...

    I am leaving this group today...I can no longer say that I am unhappy with my husband ....I am the happiest I have ever been in my life in general...when it comes to my marriage...I am no longer unhappy...it is a work in progress...so..thanks for all the support...hope I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 28, 2012

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    Just Don't Care

    After over 25 years of marriage.  Loosing myself, my wants, my dreams and happiness to a man who wants everything his way. I am to the point that it just does not matter any more.'  It has always just been easier to let him have his way then to try and fight about it...
    noxoxo noxoxo 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    Confused And Unhappy

    I am married 31 years and no matter how hard I try I always end up feeling unhappy. whenever we have a row it ends up mostly its my fault. I suffer from depression. im unhappy with my whole life
    noolsg noolsg 51-55 5 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Wrong With Me

    I know I am a mess inside. My feelings and emotions take the best of me sometimes, but somehow my husband doesn't understand I might have more needs than him at the moment. I am not selfish by any means, but I am aware of my mental problems. I know I am a functioning person with...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I have asked my husband

    for years if I could go see my grandma up in Illinois. He keeps planning trips else where and its starting to **** me off. He wants to go to Colorado to go skiing. Our daughter is in preschool and he wants to pull her out for a week. I cant do that. I dont want her missing that...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    One Day Of Satisfaction

    What goes around comes around. This goes out to the many wives who have to put up with some crap from there so-called husbands. The day before valentines day and into valentines day I put in 16 hrs at work. We were getting ready for inventory. Apon arriveing at home 3a.m. my...
    tinkerbell2067 tinkerbell2067 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Confused!

    I would like to begin this by saying i love my husband very much, yes i do! we have been together for 13years.we were not blessed with a child.we adopted one two years ago and we love the little boy so much.i fell in love with my husband 13 years ago, i was holding my business in...
    headache12 headache12 41-45 1 Response Sep 20, 2012

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    My Husband Is Just A Jerk

    i have been trying for years to just accept things around here because i have it pretty good. but i am just not ahppy...at all. most of the time he's okay but it is really only when we don't have to make a decision, work together or spend the afternoon together. our youngest is...
    estherbabinbsky estherbabinbsky 41-45 3 Responses Sep 7, 2011

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    What Shoud I Do?

    Dont know where shoud I start. My husband & me always fight each other. He pointed that always the fault is mine. Because I am not talking...Yes..I am not. Because he is always make fun of what I am saying. Or if I dont agree with his idea he will get angry & shout. So I used to...
    albertjenny1984 albertjenny1984 26-30 4 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    I Cant Go On

    people say to me you are beautiful and kind and a lovely person you,re sexy intelligent funny considerate,,,so why for years have i put up with a marriage that is a sham...he has beat me threatened me locked me in the house ,,,put me down ...hurt and humilated me....kept me away...
    needmylifeback needmylifeback 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Why Can't I Trust Him?

      My story begins unlike a lot of others. My husband and I met when I was on vacation in the Philippines. He turned out to be the person driving me around for the week. After a year of communicating over the internet, after I had gone home, I decided that I would return to...
    AloneinManila AloneinManila 22-25 Aug 29, 2012

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    He knew my Aunt has been in the hospital

    fighting cancer. I kept telling him that I want to go see her and say my goodbyes. He said that we will. Now she passed away yesterday and I told him I want to go to the funeral. He hasnt said anything on that one yet. I live in Arkansas and she lives in Illinois. I understand...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    We're Screwing Up Our Daughter.

    My husband and I should have never gotten married. He's a great person; very loving. When we first met in college, he was the exact distraction I needed from the stress and depression I'd been feeling. We were so happy in our own solitude, that I was happy with the thought of...
    LelaPela14 LelaPela14 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I Cant Go On

    people say to me you are beautiful and kind and a lovely person you,re sexy intelligent funny considerate,,,so why for years have i put up with a marriage that is a sham...he has beat me threatened me locked me in the house ,,,put me down ...hurt and humilated me....kept me away...
    needmylifeback needmylifeback 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2009

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    10 Months In....

    I am 35, my husband is 36& we have been married for 10 months now. He has 3 children from 2 previous relationships and we have one on the way. His youngest son lives with us. I have been unhappy in our marriage since the 2nd month b/c everything was falling on me. He lived with...
    Fancy117 Fancy117 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    Unhappily Married

     Wow, where do i begin? it's been 8 years now and I don't know where my life went. I don't even know who I am anymore. It's like I gave up on anything  ever getting better. I was young, vibrant and beautiful! I was very independent and successful. And now, I feel old...
    caphilbrick caphilbrick 36-40 15 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    I'm a married woman contemplating an affair.

    I have to practically beg for sex or affection from my husband. It doesn't matter if I make an effort, get dressed up, plan dates. I feel like I'm not a priority in his life. There's no affection, intimacy, or spark. I can feel his resentment about my successful career (I make...
    LadyKatzy LadyKatzy 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My Husband Is Selfish

    Hi I am a 38 year old mum to four beautiful children. I got married when I just turned 17. 21 years of marriage and I've not felt happy.. First 6 months were great but now? My husband can't support me in any way . When I talk to him about my troubles he flips .. One example when...
    Chipstix Chipstix 36-40 2 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    My Husband Isn't A Terrible Person, But He's A Selfish One.

    I met my husband in college after a particularly brutal relationship. I was young, but after some soul searching I had some clue to what I wanted. It sounded so simple really: an egalitarian relationship with a man who loved me, would keep up with his half of the housework...
    Hera2011 Hera2011 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Confused...

    my husband and i are always fighting and makes me feel worthless, should i still stick by his side or leave him?? please help me i dont know wat to do..
    pretyeyes pretyeyes 18-21 9 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Though He Was The Love Of My Life!!!

    I should be greatful with my Husbands very rare to find. First of all he never laid his hands on me or verbally abuse me.Been together for 6 years I was happy at first we will do things without using money. Not we have a awesome apartment with nokids which should do alot of...
    sporttyblue sporttyblue 22-25 4 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    Wht To Do ?

    i really do love my husband, but i dnt feel the spark , love, the romance... were did it all go? his a different person his not the same man i married, we have a BEAUTIFUL baby girl together, we dnt always fight we try to keep out of each others ways and not tlk to much abt...
    mylostluv mylostluv 22-25 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    Sure

    He is just a boy. He  is  being living with his mother for  over  30 years. He is  not that mature.  We have a kid  too . He punked out.  He is in Vancouver now. Living like a bachelor. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    My Husband Wants To Go Out With Other Women.

    In January, I told my husband I want a divorce. He is an alcoholic and a verbal abuser. I've been married for 27 years and I need out. We are still living together, but sleep in separate rooms. He came to me last night and asked me for permission to go on a date. He said he...
    Elsiet Elsiet 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    i will be happy with you and i dont need anything else i just want you to love me.I dont need money or luxury i just want you to smile and that will make my day i want you to stay...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Apr 2

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    I think to be able to say that you are happy with someone and no one else is beautiful, me being a paranoid idiot I can never believe it 100% when someone tells me this. I also...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I love to listen my most important thing to me are my children I love to give it makes me happy to see some one else happy but the sad thing is even having my children and my...
    kathy4104 kathy4104 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    There are so many things i would love to do,somtimes it just feels like those things i want to do are so far away. i have such a long way to go.each time i try to do things right...
    cutealex21 cutealex21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    You left me and i am still happy
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I'm not gonna lie, just the thought of you makes me happy right now ^////^
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 30

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    Just something I ran across on twitter. Telling someone they cant be sad because others have it worse is like saying someone cant be happy because others have it better. I've been...
    nhammoud nhammoud 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    Well I'm 19 and going to college and I'm messing up really bad.. I am smart but I don't apply myself or go to class because it all just seems..so pointless. My life is crashing...
    SupremeMo SupremeMo 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Family, friends, acquaintances, none of it matters. If given the choice between them or you, I'd choose you every time. You know who you are.. When you read this I want you to know...
    DiosesOscuros DiosesOscuros 22-25, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I had to go upstairs to get a flashlight and my torso was bare. my sisters new bf looked at me and said 'Woah you need to put on a shirt' making fun of my weight... I already have...
    scottazard scottazard 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I love to have sex with older woman its a major turn on for me
    malelover253 malelover253 18-21, M Apr 8

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    My cousin move to my town that I live in.She made my life miserable.She told my other friends that I hurt her,I made her cry and that I did a lot of rude things to her which I didn...
    1Dimples 1Dimples 13-15, F Apr 8

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    Well, I can't exist without God, so the "Nothing Else" is definitely out... But if I had to choose one person, and only one person, to go anywhere with me, it'd be you, love. You...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    This afternoon I watched The Great Gatsby, following the story line I paralleled it with my life. We often try too hard to make things happen when in reality, things do have a way...
    Runningforlife Runningforlife 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    i m looking my true love. & i m waiting a girl
    h007k h007k 26-30, M Mar 30

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    Sometimes this really puzzles me. But every morning when I wake up I can't help but think how lucky I am.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I know I'm not the only one but that doesn't help....
    lillibella lillibella 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Lots of people tell me I've lost a lot of weight recently; my friends say my figure is slimmer, and I really have lost about 8 kilos. Plus, some of my clothes are looser, and I'm...
    Mousetronaut Mousetronaut 16-17, F Apr 8

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    if you only knew how much I believed this...... I felt connected to you from the start.. let's find each other again?
    scribblesinamargin scribblesinamargin 70+, M 3 Responses Apr 12

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    your mother 
didn’t spend 
9 months 
forming your body 
inside of her 
just so you could 
hate and destroy it
    Giia Giia 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Been in love with him since i was 12 years old and i cannot get him outta my blood. Never stopped loving him. I love my husband too. I am so confused. We use to talk occasionally...
    amazonwoman1 amazonwoman1 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I've been married for almost 10 years, we have three beautiful children, and a charmed life. I'm not always happy with my life, bit its a good life. My husband is a wonderful man...
    Stellabrate Stellabrate 41-45, F Apr 8

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