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I Am Not Happy With My Husband

unhappily married 170 People

    Husbands Past

    I fell in love with a man and was swept away. Then shortly, I found out he had married a woman that was 47 , in vegas, and was married to her for 1 1/2 years, they bought a house, vehicles etc together. He is 24, so he was roughly 22 when he married her and ive asked about that...
    Savvylady Savvylady 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    Sure

    He is just a boy. He  is  being living with his mother for  over  30 years. He is  not that mature.  We have a kid  too . He punked out.  He is in Vancouver now. Living like a bachelor. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    I Cant Go On

    people say to me you are beautiful and kind and a lovely person you,re sexy intelligent funny considerate,,,so why for years have i put up with a marriage that is a sham...he has beat me threatened me locked me in the house ,,,put me down ...hurt and humilated me....kept me away...
    needmylifeback needmylifeback 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    I know how you feel. My husband

    and I have been together 3 1/3 years and married 1 1/2 years. He use to be so affectionate and loveable and now it seems he won't even bat an eye towards me. I have to ask for any type of intimacy. Any type of affection and it has me really thinking negative thoughts in whether...
    jllefevers93 jllefevers93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 7

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    My Husband

    My husband,How can I be happy,Haven't got one,Got a partner,Who's great,Anyway,Why am I writing this,I'm a man!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 12, 2012

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    At The Breaking Point

    So my original story is below written on Nov 8 2009...and I'm shocked to come across it again. WOW life has changed SO much and I thought I should update this story. Today is June 17 2011! I gave this man every chance I could and finally kicked his *** out of our humble home...
    needoutsiderview needoutsiderview 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    My Husband Wants To Go Out With Other Women.

    In January, I told my husband I want a divorce. He is an alcoholic and a verbal abuser. I've been married for 27 years and I need out. We are still living together, but sleep in separate rooms. He came to me last night and asked me for permission to go on a date. He said he...
    Elsiet Elsiet 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    You All Need To Read This

    hi everybody,,magic is real,just believed that some weeks ago i guess,and the funny thing is i learnt it the hard way..i had been married for four years with a kid and thought everything in my marriage was perfect and extraordinary, my husband was the most loving and my whole...
    jamalmaryam jamalmaryam 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    Wrong With Me

    I know I am a mess inside. My feelings and emotions take the best of me sometimes, but somehow my husband doesn't understand I might have more needs than him at the moment. I am not selfish by any means, but I am aware of my mental problems. I know I am a functioning person with...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Wht To Do ?

    i really do love my husband, but i dnt feel the spark , love, the romance... were did it all go? his a different person his not the same man i married, we have a BEAUTIFUL baby girl together, we dnt always fight we try to keep out of each others ways and not tlk to much abt...
    mylostluv mylostluv 22-25 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    We're Screwing Up Our Daughter.

    My husband and I should have never gotten married. He's a great person; very loving. When we first met in college, he was the exact distraction I needed from the stress and depression I'd been feeling. We were so happy in our own solitude, that I was happy with the thought of...
    LelaPela14 LelaPela14 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I probably question whether I married the right

    person and wonder how I'll ever stay married to him, every day. We've been married for 8 yrs. and have a toddler. I ask myself how I could ever have married someone as opposite as I am. I'm positive, he's negative, I'm sensitive, he's a stiff, I love animals and outdoors, he...
    happiness18 happiness18 41-45, F Dec 18, 2013

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    One Day Of Satisfaction

    What goes around comes around. This goes out to the many wives who have to put up with some crap from there so-called husbands. The day before valentines day and into valentines day I put in 16 hrs at work. We were getting ready for inventory. Apon arriveing at home 3a.m. my...
    tinkerbell2067 tinkerbell2067 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    You All Need To Read This

    hi everybody,,magic is real,just believed that some weeks ago i guess,and the funny thing is i learnt it the hard way..i had been married for four years with a kid and thought everything in my marriage was perfect and extraordinary, my husband was the most loving and my whole...
    jamalmaryam jamalmaryam 31-35, F Aug 1, 2012

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    Confused And Unhappy

    I am married 31 years and no matter how hard I try I always end up feeling unhappy. whenever we have a row it ends up mostly its my fault. I suffer from depression. im unhappy with my whole life
    noolsg noolsg 56-60 3 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Confused...

    my husband and i are always fighting and makes me feel worthless, should i still stick by his side or leave him?? please help me i dont know wat to do..
    pretyeyes pretyeyes 18-21 9 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    My Husbands Best Friend

    My husband has known this guy let's call him Red. They have been friends for a very long time. Right around 15 years. I have known him for almost 12 years(same as my husband). He has been a good friend for the most part. He is out sons god father. He was best man at our...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    What Shoud I Do?

    Dont know where shoud I start. My husband & me always fight each other. He pointed that always the fault is mine. Because I am not talking...Yes..I am not. Because he is always make fun of what I am saying. Or if I dont agree with his idea he will get angry & shout. So I used to...
    albertjenny1984 albertjenny1984 26-30 4 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    My Husband Is Just A Jerk

    i have been trying for years to just accept things around here because i have it pretty good. but i am just not ahppy...at all. most of the time he's okay but it is really only when we don't have to make a decision, work together or spend the afternoon together. our youngest is...
    estherbabinbsky estherbabinbsky 41-45 3 Responses Sep 7, 2011

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    Touchy Touch

    My husband, like all of us, has issues. He has done a lot of work to try to become better at connecting with me emotionally. I know he is still troubled that I won't connect with him physically. I feel bad for him, but the truth is that I am scared. He knows I have many medical...
    Classicality7 Classicality7 56-60, F 13 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    He's def. not a sociopath

    but my husband is devoid of any type of genuine emotion. It's like he's learned what SHOULD be an appropriate emotion to be feeling and pretends that he is feeling it, but he's really not. Or he expresses no emotion at all to a situation where there really should be a response...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F Jul 9

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    I have asked my husband

    for years if I could go see my grandma up in Illinois. He keeps planning trips else where and its starting to **** me off. He wants to go to Colorado to go skiing. Our daughter is in preschool and he wants to pull her out for a week. I cant do that. I dont want her missing that...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    I'm a married woman contemplating an affair.

    I have to practically beg for sex or affection from my husband. It doesn't matter if I make an effort, get dressed up, plan dates. I feel like I'm not a priority in his life. There's no affection, intimacy, or spark. I can feel his resentment about my successful career (I make...
    LadyKatzy LadyKatzy 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I Cant Go On

    people say to me you are beautiful and kind and a lovely person you,re sexy intelligent funny considerate,,,so why for years have i put up with a marriage that is a sham...he has beat me threatened me locked me in the house ,,,put me down ...hurt and humilated me....kept me away...
    needmylifeback needmylifeback 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2009

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    Well we're not actually married,

    but have been together almost 12 years and have a house, pets, a toddler and another baby on the way, so we might as well be. I am so unhappy right now and just need to reach out to someone.....anyone. My partner has completely changed since our first baby has been born, I feel...
    kazerobin kazerobin 36-40 Jun 18

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    Confused!

    I would like to begin this by saying i love my husband very much, yes i do! we have been together for 13years.we were not blessed with a child.we adopted one two years ago and we love the little boy so much.i fell in love with my husband 13 years ago, i was holding my business in...
    headache12 headache12 41-45 1 Response Sep 20, 2012

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    Unhappily Married

     Wow, where do i begin? it's been 8 years now and I don't know where my life went. I don't even know who I am anymore. It's like I gave up on anything  ever getting better. I was young, vibrant and beautiful! I was very independent and successful. And now, I feel old...
    caphilbrick caphilbrick 36-40 15 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    My Husband Isn't A Terrible Person, But He's A Selfish One.

    I met my husband in college after a particularly brutal relationship. I was young, but after some soul searching I had some clue to what I wanted. It sounded so simple really: an egalitarian relationship with a man who loved me, would keep up with his half of the housework...
    Hera2011 Hera2011 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    My Husband Is Selfish

    Hi I am a 38 year old mum to four beautiful children. I got married when I just turned 17. 21 years of marriage and I've not felt happy.. First 6 months were great but now? My husband can't support me in any way . When I talk to him about my troubles he flips .. One example when...
    Chipstix Chipstix 36-40 2 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    10 Months In....

    I am 35, my husband is 36& we have been married for 10 months now. He has 3 children from 2 previous relationships and we have one on the way. His youngest son lives with us. I have been unhappy in our marriage since the 2nd month b/c everything was falling on me. He lived with...
    Fancy117 Fancy117 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    Just Don't Care

    After over 25 years of marriage.  Loosing myself, my wants, my dreams and happiness to a man who wants everything his way. I am to the point that it just does not matter any more.'  It has always just been easier to let him have his way then to try and fight about it...
    noxoxo noxoxo 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    He knew my Aunt has been in the hospital

    fighting cancer. I kept telling him that I want to go see her and say my goodbyes. He said that we will. Now she passed away yesterday and I told him I want to go to the funeral. He hasnt said anything on that one yet. I live in Arkansas and she lives in Illinois. I understand...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Lost And Confused

    I am still not married and I dont know if marriage is for me? I am 21 years old and have 3 boys with this man. I had them very young which I dont regret them at all. I feel like I have to be with this man now for the rest of my life. I truley do believe i love him, but I dont...
    cakes0 cakes0 22-25 Jun 8, 2012

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    Leaving This Group Today...

    I am leaving this group today...I can no longer say that I am unhappy with my husband ....I am the happiest I have ever been in my life in general...when it comes to my marriage...I am no longer unhappy...it is a work in progress...so..thanks for all the support...hope I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 28, 2012

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    Why Can't I Trust Him?

      My story begins unlike a lot of others. My husband and I met when I was on vacation in the Philippines. He turned out to be the person driving me around for the week. After a year of communicating over the internet, after I had gone home, I decided that I would return to...
    AloneinManila AloneinManila 22-25 Aug 29, 2012

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    Furious

    Im an Irish Traveller, and my husband and I were spending a couple months settled at a caravan site. We're supposed to be living here another 4 weeks, but the UK the settled people hate Travellers and gypsies, so much they want to run us all out. The city council, of course all...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    Though He Was The Love Of My Life!!!

    I should be greatful with my Husbands very rare to find. First of all he never laid his hands on me or verbally abuse me.Been together for 6 years I was happy at first we will do things without using money. Not we have a awesome apartment with nokids which should do alot of...
    sporttyblue sporttyblue 22-25 4 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    Just Wanna Affair

    sorry to hear your stories ladies. best release is having an affair.
    asianguy39 asianguy39 36-40, M Oct 27, 2012

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    It's been rough but somehow I made it this far and I'm not about to give up that easily,For 14 years I hated my life, I wanted to die so badly but there was always someone that...
    AriaDream AriaDream 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I am extremely happy with the way my life is looking right now. I have a really great boyfriend who I've been dating for a year and a half, I got a best friend that I can pretty...
    Lipsofanangel976 Lipsofanangel976 16-17, F a week ago

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    I 'd Be Happy With You And Nothing Else I love you for who you are, not what your not, I love you for the good and the bad, inside and out, you are truly perfect and beautiful just...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M Jul 31

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 3 days ago

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    I know that's right lol.....no woman should have to ever depend on a man or guy just to be happy.....its more to life than just finding someone to be with. Just be happy, live your...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F Aug 6

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    sweet dream holding me with soft cloud arms, its grip so tight i can't move…but its alright. i can't breathe…but its ok. I'm floating…and my body is numb…but this is where...
    ADRASTEIA ADRASTEIA 26-30, F Jul 21

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    More and more I find myself wondering why I can't stand the thought of ME. It's a very hard thing to come to grips with.
    theluckyduck theluckyduck 26-30, M Jul 24

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    Hmmm. Yup with only one exception. My daughters.
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    Guys, recently came out... To me :) its kinda liberating to finally accept :D- came out to close close friends gladly accepted me and some even said "so, ur still the awesome dude...
    MarGre97 MarGre97 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Good reminder for the day - revel In life's small pleasures regularly to feed your soul. For me today it was singing show tunes in my car during a drive. I am an awesome singer in...
    mmjfrank mmjfrank 41-45, F Jul 20

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    I have chronic back pain. Currently due to retrolisthesis above my L5,4,S1 fusion
    merrym637 merrym637 51-55, F Jul 20

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    Im always looking tying to find the right person for me.
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Jul 25

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    Dear ... I know I am not what you want right now but I have heard you say many times that no one loves you like I do. I just want you to know forever is a long long time. I am not...
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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