I Am Not Here For A Relationship Or Hookups

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,373 People

    deleted deleted
    May 22, 2015

    Dear to all my EP friends ,

    I wanted to let you know one thing that I am not here for a relationship or hookup so please don't waste your time sending me messages with that kinda of intentions, I am not the type of girl to talk to anyone , I will not be your entertainment so find something else to do. I...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2015

    I think people are misunderstanding me

    or I do not understand the purpose of this site. If I say I like something -- it doesn't mean I am looking for someone with whom I can engage in that particular behavior. I am stating what I like so I can have conversations with like minded individuals. Maybe I can find new...
    ladyjaneb ladyjaneb
    46-50, F
    May 27, 2015

    Friendships are certainly a possibility

    but I am not keen on cyber sex or flirting. Past that.
    emperornorton47 emperornorton47
    56-60, M
    Oct 21, 2015

    I'm not either but if I meet a woman

    and something happens it happens I'm not here for it but I'm not against it in either.
    sirnatural sirnatural
    41-45, M
    Dec 14, 2015

    But at least I can come here to lament on the

    fact that in a place where people supposedly meet for 'discreet fun', there are still those who seek to waste your time on bs and fakery. Just like with EP, it is the ability to demonstrate 'people skills', carrying on intelligent conversations, and showing respect for...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    46-50, F
    Jan 10, 2016

    I've met some really great people on here,

    that if given the opportunity I would definitely date, as they are/were amazing people. Despite this, I want people reading my profile to understand that dating is not why I am here. I want to meet cool and interesting people, and if it so happens that there's a little spark...
    dabram71 dabram71
    18-21, M
    Aug 31, 2015

    First of all I don't believe in online dating.

    I prefer to date someone I can see and spend time with outside, so don't ask. Peace ✌️
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 17, 2015

    I'm not the most I'd want is a friendship of

    some sort,im not really very emotionally drawn to guys either,its not impossible I guess but I'm not searching for anything like that nor do I want that.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 19, 2015

    Nope,just here to share mine

    and my kid's experiences.
    luisanapettinson luisanapettinson
    26-30, F
    Apr 4, 2015

    I'm not here for a relationship

    but if you'll like to know me better please text me
    Vswagger Vswagger
    16-17, M
    Jun 18, 2015

    this experience gives me life.

    .. I'm new to this site and that's all I've been getting is people trying to hook up in my inbox... I'm like what the f*** I'm on here to rant and scream and ***** about s*** in life that I can't f****** tell other people plain and simple!""
    lasheadilemma lasheadilemma
    31-35, F
    Jun 17, 2015
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 22, 2014

    I lost my honeybunny over two months ago to

    skin cancer. He was such a hard worker & loved me so much...I never had to question his love.
    NotperfectEver NotperfectEver
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2015

    honestly, if I see a person only adds the

    opposite sex I won't Mrs with them. shows they're obviously not looking for the same thing as me.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    Is it too hard for people to understand

    that I'm here just to make new friends and to get a different perspective on general issues??!!?
    Prissys20 Prissys20
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    Here's a story for you all,

    a user on here (I won't name names) blocked me and here's why. Since I joined here he messaged me daily oozing all over me about how "wonderful", "amazing", "talented" etc etc, I was. A load of condescending rubbish to win me over. It was nice initially but I tried to keep it...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    I am ON here to make new friendship

    and I am not here to find love! I am so very happy being by myself. I am so tired OF every man thinking that I am here to be their Surgar mom just plain leave me alone
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2015

    Lol.I'm not even here to make friends.

    Cause I have enough. Just here to read ,answer questions & talk to people sometimes... if I'm in the mood.
    legzydawly legzydawly
    Jun 18, 2015

    I am not here for a romantic relationship

    or any friends with benefits. Why is the world so oversexualized? What is it about a keyboard that makes someone totally go inappropriate.
    silvercoatedbrass silvercoatedbrass
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    I can't stand disrespectful people.

    I'm so tired of all these pervs messaging me nasty stuff or nasty pics. I'm not here for that. I just want to make friends here.
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    Men of EP. Please stop "cold" messaging females.

    You don't read her experiences or have a true reason to want to connect to her, other than she has "female" marked on her profile. If you do choose to message a female: 1. Read her experiences and figure out if she is similar to you or has anything in common. Do your homework...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    Same here. Friendship

    and new experiences / discussions are one thing, but I'm not looking to get together with anyone from this site. :)
    deleted deleted
    Feb 5, 2015

    I am only here for a new friendships

    conversation to help another... to gain insight...I am NOT here for a hookup! I'm in a 10 year strong relationship and I'm not giving up the love of my life not for anybody online so if that's why you're messaging me DON'T PLEASE! THANK YOU
    Shai75 Shai75
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2015

    Just blocked another idiot on here.

    I told him repeatedly that I have a boyfriend but he wanted me to send pics. when I said no, he asked if we could cuddle. People like this really get on my nerves. No means no so stop thinking that you have a chance with me because you don't.
    BeautifulSoul09 BeautifulSoul09
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 28, 2015

    I'm not her a relationship

    because I have a fiancé in the real world, I have a great friendship with some people on here and that's great but I have my fiancé for anything personal.
    wolfy299 wolfy299
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jun 27, 2015

    I need to make it clear to everyone

    and those constantly adding me to there circle. I'm not here for any type of relationship or bond. I'm not here to have any sex chat or exchange pics. It's best you find someone else who's willing to carry out those type of activities. I am fully content in my relationship. I...
    Babybf Babybf
    36-40, F
    Dec 23, 2015

    seriously, I have a girlfriend

    so no dirty pics please. it gets gross after the first little thing I seen. the second one might as well held that thing with tweezers
    survivorsince1995 survivorsince1995
    22-25, F
    Sep 15, 2015

    Ehh why does everyone keep on searching

    for luuurve on the net haha seriously it's fun but I don't see the point of being so desperate about it huh maybe there are people who find love or whatsoever here but it's not a guarantee k just stop trying to hookup with everyone who has a vagina pls hahaha
    medicine102 medicine102
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2015

    I'm married and monogamous

    so why would you imagine I'd be looking for anybody else? Next time, try checking whether someone is involved first otherwise you're being disrespectful not only to me but to my husband.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty
    36-40, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Before you think about messaging me "hey

    beautiful" or trying to get involved with me in anyway that could be more than a friendship. Realize now that I'm not here to hook up with you, and I have no intentions of being sexual with you or flirty. None of those things. I'm in a happy committed relationship that I have no...
    Whathi Whathi
    18-21, F
    Feb 10, 2015

    Dear all, Lets be very clear.

    You are all nice and I love you all. But apart from Ep i live a life. I am not here for a relationship neither hookups. I am here for fun. I will reveal my assetts for you. I will love to know your desires and longings for me. But do not send any of your pics. I am not...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    I'm just here to vent

    and share experiences and whatever. I don't care for your d*ck.
    blackberries blackberries
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 6, 2016

    I am not on here for a relationship.

    I am on here to make friends, and to share and be there for each other that's it.
    deleted deleted
    May 28, 2015

    i am not here for any new friendship

    or for dating or for any hook up ... i am here for learning people's experience in life to make mind broader
    preciosaanjo preciosaanjo
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I am here not for creating any serious

    relationship. My purpose is to share what I know about life and learn from others.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2015
    kinkystapler kinkystapler
    18-21, F
    Apr 3, 2015

    I had a profile pic of a drawing to start with,

    I change it to an actual pic of myself and my messages start blowing up. No, you aren't going to have sex with me, EVER!
    motorhoney motorhoney
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    I have my relations. A loving family

    and a bf too. I am here only to know your experiences and share my own. I respect the way you are. So RESPECT me the way i am. I am not here for Hookups or Relationship. So please don't send me picture requests. Neither send me your pics of any manner. When i want to see you...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015
    urlaame urlaame
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2014

    Just did a post about hookups on tumblr check

    out the video. chanelconoco.tumblr.com
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    I hope this is will be clear

    for some people when they message me. I just want to make friends and share my experience.
    imasurvivor92 imasurvivor92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2016

    I enjoy a good conversation

    and I'm open to talking to anyone. The only thing I ask is that you keep it respectful :)
    JM2014 JM2014
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    Just chatting and maybe some naughty talk

    and pics but nothing more.
    stlguy45 stlguy45
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2015
More Stories