I Am Not Here For Cyber Sex

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    A Bunch Of Roses

    It is 4.36pm UK time. A message indicator appears in my Inbox. I have been sent a bunch of roses by a new EP member who has only recently joined. This is followed shortly after by another message indicating I have been blown a kiss. 'How sweet', I think, and promptly write a...
    DebbieDaydream DebbieDaydream
    56-60, F
    4 Responses May 30, 2012

    Don't you dare to try to start conversations

    with me if in your head is trying to get a cyber ssx from me, And I might look calm but in my head I would kill you many times I want. Got it?? So back off!
    heartandbrain heartandbrain
    26-30, F
    May 14, 2014


    I prefer my sex in real life so I am certainly not here to pick up a man or to have sex with anyone. If that is why you want to talk to me do us both a favor and move on. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    17 Responses Apr 22, 2011

    I am not here for sex

    or online dating. Real sex is thousand times better so why would I want to indulge in something so low with a random man? IF I WANT SEX AND BF I PREFER IT WITH JUST ONE MAN WHO I LOVE. I don't do online dating.Please don't bother spending energy by sending lewd pictures and...
    Susana1985 Susana1985
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    I thought I already made this clear

    but due to all the messages I've been getting lately I guess it hasn't registered. I do not want to have cyber sex. I don't want to talk to dirty. I don't need you to tell me I'm pretty. Stop.
    Remidog5 Remidog5
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2014

    I am not here to talk about what size **** I

    like or if I shave so if you're one of those people then move along and don't talk to me. I am looking for genuine caring people
    lionessstrong lionessstrong
    46-50, F
    Dec 29, 2013

    I don't really understand how it works anyway

    lol...why are people not more concerned about who they are really talking too? I'm here for friends and supporting/support not to get my kicks off which are frankly better served on youp0rn.
    InsectWarfare InsectWarfare
    31-35, M
    Feb 23, 2014
    waggler21in waggler21in
    70+, M
    Jan 17, 2014

    Just leave me alone..

    . so annoying!!! Go find an internet whorre and F OFF!!! Jeez.
    MizzyH MizzyH
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

    Cyber Sex...No Thanks.

    I am only here to learn stuff maybe make some friends if I am lucky. Connect with people in a way I cant in my current situation in such a remote location. Cant say I hate people who use the net just for cheap thrills so long as they are consenting adults and no one is hurt...
    iamacoconut iamacoconut
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2013

    Going To Have To Change My "Really Cool" Username.

    I've engaged in cyber sex today for the first time and the last time. I guess I don't quite get the whole sexual frustration of it. I'm sure 1bigcok is the problem. I'm kind of a ginormous **** at times. That's what it means. Stupid me.
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 2, 2013

    It is early here. please forgive me

    if my words do not come out the way I want them to. I do not understand why some men are that eager for this the especially online at that. I don't understand what they get out of it. From what I have seen and the stories I've read this site is full of vulnerable women and teens...
    BarbiesMan BarbiesMan
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    No Sexting

    I am new here and just want you fella's trolling for sexting to know.... I'm not interested. So if your chat turns dirty I won't play.
    ThingI ThingI
    46-50, F
    Nov 2, 2013

    Can we get a grip here?

    ?? So sick of the invitations into ppls sexual fantasies ! Wtf
    IloveLife14 IloveLife14
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    Why not it's great(; ain't

    that right ladies
    22-25, F
    Sep 2, 2014

    This Is Me

    I am new to EP so just finding my way around. So i will start with telling you a little about myself, i am 24 yrs old, tall, slim have a nice body and i work as a prostitute on the streets or from my flat. I am not proud of what i do, its just what i do to live and survive in an...
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Sep 28, 2013
    aokigahara29 aokigahara29
    18-21, F
    Jan 26, 2014

    Im Not Here For You Rediculas Needs So You Will Waste Your Time Just Move Along!

    Im not here to sadisfy your sexual needs so move along im here to chat to people who understand my stories and who can relate to them and if cant exept than I WILL FLAG YOU SO DONT WASTE MY TIME!
    TheLastJustice TheLastJustice
    31-35, F
    May 18, 2012

    Unless You're Ttvelvet....

    I had a moment of weakness... If you saw her.. you could not blame me... teehee :)
    Laughtereverafter Laughtereverafter
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2011

    I am not and not looking

    for ************ object Is that clear enough
    snowhitelady snowhitelady
    31-35, F
    Mar 20, 2014

    Look holmes, I am not here

    for your wrinkly wiener so get your jollies off elsewhere. Peace.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 3, 2014
    elevenohfive elevenohfive
    31-35, F
    Jun 19, 2014

    Please, just don't ask.

    I have joined the Catholic Church and while I have not abstained in the past I am now. That means no. None. Nada. Nein. Zip zip zippity zippo.
    YellowGirl225 YellowGirl225
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2014

    Seriously why is all

    that all the things I look at like the latest stories on EP or questions it's all about sex or some weird sexual desires? I think I need to find some sort of filter on EP, driving me crazy. Is that all ppl think about? Wait you know don't even answer that question.. Rather not...
    Tearystar1027 Tearystar1027
    1 Response Dec 23, 2013

    While I'm glad that you,

    who know nothing about me other than my gender, would love to jump me... I'm not interested in you, who I know nothing about other than gender.
    anxietyabounds anxietyabounds
    26-30, F
    Oct 31, 2014
    musicvideographer musicvideographer
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014

    Please Read

    It's just not a thing I'm interested in, even with a person who I AM interested in. So it doesn't mean I don't like you, but I don't cyber.
    UppityProletarian UppityProletarian
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 21, 2012

    Understanding And Respect

    I am here to be myself openly and honestly. I am here to share the parts of me that I am too uncomfortable showing to people. I am here to talk to like minded people and people that have gone through some of the same things. I am here to make friends and so that I don't feel so...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    41-45, T
    Mar 25, 2013

    I am here to meet new respectful people

    that like to chat or need advice. someone that is not dramatic and doesn't get offended easily.
    YoungHeartedSoul YoungHeartedSoul
    41-45, M
    Mar 3, 2014

    Good night folks! Got a big day ahead of me

    tomorrow; finally off from work and can spend the day with my other half. Also, payday and I got my federal tax return woohoo! I hope every one has a pleasant evening and may you all have sweet dreams! Xx
    Ellieokami Ellieokami
    22-25, F
    Apr 22, 2014

    Really, I'm Not!

    OK I'm in a relationship, a very happy one and when I want sex I have it in real life. So I am not interested in talking about it, "helping" you with your "problems", cam talk, cyber or whatever.
    Gemzaayy Gemzaayy
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 10, 2012

    Not Gonna

    For one thing, my wife considers cyber cheating the same as physical cheating, so I am not going to do either one.
    hopefullyhumble hopefullyhumble
    56-60, M
    Jan 13, 2012


    I feel as if Experience Project has an incredible potential to provide an amazing, unique, safe place for humanity to connect in many different forms. For some, it has been. However, from my perception of the site, it had not been for many users because of unwanted sexual...
    olive42 olive42
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2013

    **Posting on this experience is not a challenge

    to anyone** I realize that posting my photo and my gender is like blood in the water to the horny “sharks” on this site, but I will not be censored or silenced because you’re going to type something nasty to me. I have the “block” feature and am not afraid to use it...
    KLMKitten KLMKitten
    36-40, F
    Apr 22, 2014

    I am a sexually liberated

    and sophisticated bisexual woman who is very comfortable in her own skin. I enjoy talking to people about their fantasies, their kinks, what turns them on. I won't act them out with you on the Internet, though.
    iamcass iamcass
    36-40, F
    Feb 5, 2014

    :O Shocking, Isnt It?

    i dont know what it is with people these days, everyone seems to be into cybersex and all that crap. thats stupid, if u want it that bad, go meet somebody IN REAL LIFE who wants to have REAL SEX im not gonna sit here and ******* to some 16 year old's nudes. no thank u, i prefer...
    UniversalChaos UniversalChaos
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2013

    I'M Not

    Don't dare to talk filthy to me..
    Doravalentine Doravalentine
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 13, 2013
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