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I Am Not Here For Cybersex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 421 People


    I have previously partaked in the act of Cybersex only out of pure curiousity, and although it can easily turn into a game of who has the most wits and verbage appeal, I do have to say that it can be a little discusting if you do not have personal relation or familiarity with the...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

    There Is A Difference

    I think there is a difference in discussing sex and sexual matters with someone you trust on here and "cybersex".  The first I have no problem with at all if I trust you and we share other things in common.  The second, I am not here for.    I am a gentleman and I am here to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 14, 2011

    Why Do People Assume I Want To Cyber?

    I know so many people on EP who want to cyber. Most of them seem to come on here to cyber within their specific fetish groups. Having a fetish myself, I became a target merely by joining the associated groups. Oddly enough, it seems that joining fetish groups also causes guys to...
    thereaverofdarkness thereaverofdarkness
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 23, 2010

    **** Off Perv

    Ive made a lot of acceptions but now its getting ******* ridiculous. If you only have stories about sex, then Im not going to add you. Point Blank. I am soooo tired of pervz that arent even in my circle sending me dirty messages about what they want to do to me. Seroiously dudes...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 31, 2010

    Not Interested, Thanks Anyway...

    I did not come on EP to cyber or find someone to play online with. I only re-joined this site to be able to write creatively... maybe make a few friends along the way. I never understood the big thrill with cyber sex... kind of pathetic in my eyes, but I suppose if one does not...
    SoulUndiscovered SoulUndiscovered
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2010

    Yes! Thank You

    Why don't they get it? I have more perv requests than friends! After saying how I feel on ny profile (irritated: quit adding me you disgusting pervs) they still don't get it! That proves to me that they didn't even take the time to look at my profile, or care about how I'm...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 17, 2010

    I Absolutly Refuse To Participate In 'cybersex'!

    By My very nature, I Am not a 'Sexual Being, I am Quite Happy in this, that is just how I am, In my point of view, There are far more Interesting things to Do In Lise, Cyberlly, and in Three dimentional Reality, than to participate in an activity that just Does Not Hold Interest...
    Balamvucub Balamvucub
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2010

    Me Either!

    i am not here for cybersex... but, as long as i am having it, i might as well enjoy it :p nah, i just do not understand cybersex. it is the real thing or nothing.
    neodeno neodeno
    1 Response Mar 4, 2011

    Despite Appearences, I Am Really Not!!

    I would like to make this clear - to everyone, yes I post pics occasionally but I am NOT here for cybersex, I am no good at it, I have no imagination and even if you look like George Clooney, Brad Pitt or David Beckham.... I still wont be any good at it and it doesn't interest...
    notahappybunny notahappybunny
    41-45, F
    Apr 29, 2010

    Go (cyber) **** Yourself

    There's nothing wrong with being interested in sex and stories of a sexual nature. But the purpose of this website is to share experiences and learn from one another. Not to treat the chat function like it's a cyber brothel. Just because I have peculiar interests does not mean...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 12, 2012


    Don't even ask me. Not gonna happen.
    staystrong11 staystrong11
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 14, 2011

    Hum...not Expressly

    I am here for companionship over all else and I'm not the sort to ASK for it, but if it's offered by the right people I would probably bite. 
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 23, 2012

    You Have Been Warned

    Don't even think about suggesting it because I will not react (except you may possibly be blocked). I am here to make excellent friends from all around the world with all different types of experiences. If you profile contains 90% of sexual experiences, I take that as a safe bet...
    Linxer Linxer
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Dec 17, 2010

    Go Away

    I am not here for cyber sex....I am not here to be told how you are going to dominate me, and I am not here to be told how you want to serve me. I am here for my friends, I am here for my writing, I am here because I enjoy being here. Do I write sexual stories on Ep? You betcha...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 28, 2013

    Not Really For Me

    I have to say that, though I try it now and then, cybersex really isn't for me. I can't get into it enough to forget that I am actually alone, typing on a keyboard--not engaged in sexual activity with another person. What makes it complicated for me is that I have a tickling...
    waynerman waynerman
    56-60, M
    Jul 2, 2011


    Cyber-sex,No thanks,Not me,Look elsewhere!
    startinover1 startinover1
    May 23, 2012

    Not Interested....

    I am not interested in Cybersex one bit. I may get back into writing erotica again one day, but for now, I am not interested at all. As for Cybersex, well I have always been against, and I always will. Ep is a place for me to have friend, family, and write. Not have an online...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 2, 2009

    No, Sir.

    I get a lot of hmm... "r rated" messages. I don't really understand. I don't post too many sex stories and I always have men as my avatars. (And, unfortunately, I do not look like Mr. Fiennes... yet.) So, I don't see my appeal. Is it because of my age range...
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 21, 2009

    For The Record!!!!

    I am NOT here for online sex talk, internet sex, sex games, etc, etc !!!!!! Yes, I enjoy playful bantering with my friends....... this is different. My friends are those with whom I am comfortable adding to my circle, have found a common bond with or just like and get on with...
    liguidgold liguidgold
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Apr 29, 2011

    Nope, Not For Me

    I am not into cyber sex AT ALL. It disgusts me when people I do not know try to engage in sex talk with me. Do I give off some sort of vibe that I want to? I don't mean to do that, but I think I must because of how oftenit happens.  I can't stand it. Aren't there any decent...
    marriedintx marriedintx
    31-35, F
    Sep 11, 2011

    Yea Your A Douche Cake

    OK i never understood the whole ******* meaning of this bullshit thing well most of the **** twats that still do this Cybersex ****,cause to me its nothing but fake keybored touching trying to please my pee-pee while i talk to you fun time.I mean really who wants to try and beat...
    bubbleso0o bubbleso0o
    26-30, F
    Oct 28, 2011

    Dear Cybersex People

    I'm not here for Cybersex. You can count me out.   I'm here to comment on clean STORIES. I'm going to stay away from sexual or sex stories.   I learned my lessons.    
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    Aug 21, 2009

    I Don't Want To Have Cyber Sex With You ...

    When you see my profile you will probably think I'm a total pervert... And you would be correct ! =) That doesn't mean i want to talk dirty with you, have phone sex, look at your naked pictures or **** off on a web cam with you. If i add you to friends, it's probably because i...
    HeadinAzz HeadinAzz
    31-35, M
    1 Response Dec 22, 2011

    Ejected From My Circle And Blocked !

    I have just ejected out of my circle a young idiot who posted at least thirty photographs of his Pe***. I thought that it was better than it plays all alone in its sandbox. If he is so proud of is c***, he could be present it in a fair or to play some ****** movies. I said !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Sep 3, 2011

    Would U Pick Up a Date Here?

    ME neither. I remember back in the days of IRC chat. All u could find was sex, sex, sex. And if you went in a chat room with an even somewhat female name... all out atack. Honeslty, I'm not here for sex. I perfer my sexin to be in RL with another warm body, thank you very...
    Tillaiscool Tillaiscool
    26-30, T
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2009

    I'm Making A List And Checking It Twice, But Not Going To Find Out Whether You're Naughty Or Nice

    Cyber sex isn't really that good. It's just a bunch of typing. I just don't see what enjoyment people really get out of it. I mean I understand if your husband or boyfriend is out of town, but just doing it with a bunch of random strangers, that takes man *****, or ***** to a...
    babyblueeyes0417 babyblueeyes0417
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2011

    How Silly

    What a waste of time.  You're going to tell me something dirty about you and then you want me to tell you something dirty about me.  Yawn.  Sorry, my fingers are not burning with desire to tell you some b.s. about you.  You are probably some slob that couldn't get a date if...
    Sweetertnu Sweetertnu
    41-45, F
    Sep 25, 2011

    Ep Is An Outlet

    I am not here for cybersex or to find anyone to hook up with. I am using this merely as an outlet to release all the sexual energy that i must suppress in my normal life. My job would definitely not appreciate how truly horny I am, nor would most of the people i have to...
    echelon12 echelon12
    36-40, M
    Apr 17, 2011

    No Cookies In The Chat Box For You

    I know there is many people who join this site for different reason and I respect that but if you ever come across me or my stories and why I am here don't get confused. I am not here for any type of sex, I don't do cam,msn,skype,yahoo or any of them chats I won't taking people...
    Alex1993 Alex1993
    18-21, T
    Aug 16, 2012


    For me there is a very large difference between sex and making love. I had sex in my younger days. I make love these days and I do it person to person physically, not online or over the phone or across the street.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2011

    To Each Their Own Thing

    I prefer to be clear up front, so here it is. If you are interested in what I write and like to be friends, just look at the groups I've joined, there is no invitation for cybersex or wanting someone.  The fact that I work in the 'adult industry' as a 'companion' -- I...
    BitchNextDoor BitchNextDoor
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2010

    I'm Also Not Here For Sex!

    Hi everyone,yes I post real pictures of myself but that is not invitation to have cyber sex, I'm really not into that at all, yes I like flirting with people I fancy but then again who doesn't? I'm here to have interesting conversations, meet new and interesting people and...
    T233 T233
    22-25, F
    Jun 8, 2010

    Time to Change My Ways.

    I am not here for cybersex. Yes I flirt but some people are getting rather pushy. It's come to my attention that all the pervs seem to add people from other peoples circles. Well I feel the need to delete EVERYONE that is looking for something more. Sorry guys. You're gone...
    luckypickle luckypickle
    16 Responses Aug 22, 2009


    I'm not here for cybersex. I'm really not. Just because I have 5 experiences out of 554 that I've added to my profile that are of a sexual nature, doesn't mean that's all I'm here for. Once in a while, with the right person, I might indulge. But that's very, VERY rare. Leave your...
    absolutionist absolutionist
    22-25, F
    Mar 4, 2011

    No Exceptions

    I’m sorry this disappoints you but I’m just no good at it and I’m just here to make friends and share my experiences.  I do not want to flirt with you, I do not want to talk dirty to you, and I do not want to have cybersex with you.  I’m not...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2010


    I might have posted stories and poems that may elicit eroticism but it doesn't mean I wanted to express it on cam with the "hornies" or the "perverts". I am expressive through writing. It's the way I vent out my deepest feelings. When I post words that elicit such kind, I am...
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    41-45, F
    Apr 27, 2011

    Yadda Yadda Poom Poom

    It's a shame that this group has to be created let alone have people join it. It's disheartening to make friends here and realize that it was all false after declining a cyber sex flirtation. It could be just a sexual thing for them or they can be lonely and just extending...
    ChocSwurl ChocSwurl
    26-30, F
    Aug 1, 2011
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