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I Am Not Here For Dating So Stop Messaging Me

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    I do not want an online boyfriend.

    I do not want a long distance relationship. I do not have a Skype, Facebook or any other outlet like it. I will not trade pics with you. I do not care about your fantasies. And no I do not want to be friends... I take that word very seriously. I have three friends and do not use...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Guys: I am NOT here to date.

    Stop messaging me if you're looking for a girlfriend. I am okay with talking if you're having issues and want to know others with similar problems.
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F Jul 22

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    I'm Not.........

    I'm not looking for a hook-up. I'm not looking to share and nor is my partner in any way shape or form. If people were to read a persons page, list of groups, or even glance at stories a person writes, they would see that I am not interested in a hook-up or dating. They would see...
    Bubbles48509 Bubbles48509 36-40, F Jan 19, 2013

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    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F Aug 24, 2014

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    Respect.

    So I was messaged Yesterday. and it was very akward and uncomfortable to me. I will Keep the user private but I am going to share the message with you.. ..... says says: August 8th, 2008 at 09:44 PM give us what u want.   RosesOfAPoet says: August 8th, 2008 at 09:51 PM...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Nah, Bro (or Sis)!

    I joined Experience Project to share my experiences with others, meet new people, and make new friends only. Sigh, I know that I'll be flamed as some insensitive, closed-minded person for saying that I don't believe in online and long-distance relationships. But whatever, just...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Dec 4, 2011

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    I AM NOT HERE FOR YOUR SEXUAL GRATIFICATION!

    !! If you are looking for someone that will talk sex with you, look else where!!
    AnnieLouisez AnnieLouisez 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Not sure I didn't make

    that clear already. I'm happy right now. I'm just here for friends, writing and sharing experiences. I wish you good luck single dudes!
    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2014

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    Im Happily Married

    No sir and no maam, I am married with 2 beautiful children and I love them and my husband dearly. So no I am not interested in an online fling. I do not want to see your dirty pictures and I definitely don't want to be your online mistress or master. Get over it and quit with the...
    silvervixen silvervixen 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Seriously...can all guys stop messaging me!

    Not interested! Never was and never will be! And if you aren't 18 or over then please stay in school and pay attention to your classes cause messaging me won't get you anywhere in life! And if your a old pervs! Please shove your own sacks dowm your throat cause i don't want to...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F Mar 23, 2014

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    Sorry

    I'm not here for dating either. Sorry..  
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    SSxREAPERx1998 SSxREAPERx1998 16-17, M 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I admit I haven't actually been on that many dates and I admire anyone who has a date list as long as their arm, but I haven't. I've only had one serious relationship and that...
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    My 16 year old daughter is making my life hell right now because I am dating a wonderful new man. She has not met him, but she hates him already and she does everything in her...
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    i have always been bullied my whole life, for no reason. I lost the confidence everyone have in themselves. I bow down to everyone and made my life a living hell. My friends never...
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    all my life I've just been hated for bring who I wanted to be and doing my own thing. I guess after all the abuse growing up I just wish they're was someone to go to who will...
    tyguy4life tyguy4life 18-21, M 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have a soft spot in my heart for troubled souls. For I am one too. We all have our obstacles. I'm here to be a rock for anybody who needs it. ??
    Awesg Awesg 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Just putting it out there for anyone who needs it. :)
    alexandrajoliexx alexandrajoliexx 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Anyone want to talk to get something off their chests or to just tell me their problems??? In here don't worry. I won't judge :)
    mariner31 mariner31 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i am here. it is good and bad. i just went for a nice walk with baby. got a rootbeer float. but i am sad. bf has been working so much this month. on monday things are supposed to...
    kpl2014 kpl2014 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I'm here for anyone who needs someone to talk to
    Spfxartist13 Spfxartist13 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i use to hv a best friend whom id talk to about anything and now not having that person made me value how much a person needs someone to talk to so im here x
    IQXX IQXX 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't let age fool you, some teen's now a days are more responsible then their own parents. I'm here for anyone, gender, age, sexuality, race, etc doesn't matter to me. As long as...
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was with a complete scum who took advantage of me and used me then let me go so easily after 2 1/2 years together and me always attending to his needs. A selfish being I was with...
    TheSuperheroLife TheSuperheroLife 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    When guys pm me out of the blue I must admit feeling suspicious of their motives. I am not here for dating or flirting and don't want any guy to get the wrong idea. I'm not being...
    supergirl2 supergirl2 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Please tell me someone is awake and up for talking. I have just had my heart ripped out and he doesn't care. While I'm wide awake and crying he is probably sleeping like a baby...
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 12 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yup, I am here if you need anyone to talk to. I will listen to you and try my best to give you advise if you need it. Anyone is welcome to message me if you want :)
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    No...wait...sex...I'm just here for the sex. But if you happen to have a beer I'd like that too.
    flirtingjoe flirtingjoe 61-65, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Look, don't mean to be brutal, but don't ask me for a date or a relationship because that's not what I'm on EP for. I'm only here for friendship and that's all so don't ask me to...
    ArtLover24 ArtLover24 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Why don't some people read other's profiles more thoroughly?? I'm so sick of being propositioned for dating/relationships. I only want to make friends. I wasn't interested in...
    nightowl2015 nightowl2015 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I was born with Cerebral Palsy. Cerebral palsy (CP) is a disorder that affects muscle tone, movement, and motor skills (the ability to move in a coordinated and purposeful way). I...
    claythechamp claythechamp 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Hello there world, I know I know it's painful, but there's always a bright side, so don't lose hope. And if you need to vent and/or talk I'm hear to listen to whatever you have...
    lilacadventures lilacadventures 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I am here if anyone needs a friend x)
    LonAnmol LonAnmol 18-21, M Jul 21

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    Without sounding like a diva, I just want to be clear. I have a boyfriend and have no interest at all in pursuing an online relationship with any guy on here.
    Caitlyn4725 Caitlyn4725 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    In my prior accounts, I had helped many people, and was known throughout the community as the "EP Oracle." I have come back now, and while many of the people I used to counsel are...
    hallowedground hallowedground 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    been all alone for a long time so now am here to make good friends tsup me +256771889016
    highness390 highness390 26-30, M Jul 19

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    Discovered that helping people who are in trouble is one of my abilities, and it makes me feel better! So if you wanna talk...I'm here to try help you!
    edsonsantoro edsonsantoro 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    The drill sergeant making his morning announcements to a group of newcomers in a training camp, stated: "Today, gentlemen, I have some good news and some bad news. First, the good...
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Jul 19

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    Strength isn't just measured by what you can do on your own, but also the ability to ask for help when you need it. There's no shame in needing people around. That's far better...
    drwhogivesadamn drwhogivesadamn 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 18

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    I came,, asked, by another.. to interact with her here But instead, I have found myself, giving advice to the sad, Oh yeah, and I was kinda tricked by some catfish. very...
    SHypop SHypop 51-55, M Jul 17

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    I am not here for any sexual enjoyment, fulfillment, or anything else from either a male or female pervert. I do not give a damn about your age either.
    singlefemaleatlake singlefemaleatlake 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I wouldn't mind dating one of there guys on here. We just have to hang out just to see if it's something there. It take me 5 months to date someone. I have to know everything about...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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