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I Am Not Here For Dating So Stop Messaging Me

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    Im Happily Married

    No sir and no maam, I am married with 2 beautiful children and I love them and my husband dearly. So no I am not interested in an online fling. I do not want to see your dirty pictures and I definitely don't want to be your online mistress or master. Get over it and quit with the...
    silvervixen silvervixen 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Nah, Bro (or Sis)!

    I joined Experience Project to share my experiences with others, meet new people, and make new friends only. Sigh, I know that I'll be flamed as some insensitive, closed-minded person for saying that I don't believe in online and long-distance relationships. But whatever, just...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Dec 4, 2011

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    Respect.

    So I was messaged Yesterday. and it was very akward and uncomfortable to me. I will Keep the user private but I am going to share the message with you.. ..... says says: August 8th, 2008 at 09:44 PM give us what u want.   RosesOfAPoet says: August 8th, 2008 at 09:51 PM...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Not sure I didn't make

    that clear already. I'm happy right now. I'm just here for friends, writing and sharing experiences. I wish you good luck single dudes!
    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    Seriously...can all guys stop messaging me!

    Not interested! Never was and never will be! And if you aren't 18 or over then please stay in school and pay attention to your classes cause messaging me won't get you anywhere in life! And if your a old pervs! Please shove your own sacks dowm your throat cause i don't want to...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I'm Not.........

    I'm not looking for a hook-up. I'm not looking to share and nor is my partner in any way shape or form. If people were to read a persons page, list of groups, or even glance at stories a person writes, they would see that I am not interested in a hook-up or dating. They would see...
    Bubbles48509 Bubbles48509 36-40, F Jan 19, 2013

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    Sorry

    I'm not here for dating either. Sorry..  
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I dont understand some people make this platform for dating and talking dirty. Some even start getting cozy and start calling you sweets when you dont even know them properly. I...
    TrueLoverN TrueLoverN 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I am here for dating and possibly more. My last girlfriend was in 1994, but I never give up the search.
    peehorny peehorny 46-50, M Aug 10

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    Viewer Discretion is advised: PLEASE FOR JESUS' SAKE( notthatibeleiveinhimnooffensetoanyonewhodoes), I AM NOT HERE TO BE INTERESTED IN ANYONE ROMANTICALLY AND I AM NOT HERE FOR ANY...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I'm just here for chats and making friends. 😁
    C5PiE C5PiE 13-15, F Jul 29

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    I'm here for friendship :)
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Aug 4

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    Nope, I'm not looking for hooks up, sex chat, don't care about you sex life or lack of one, not my problem, buy a rubber doll, get a life, and don't ask!
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I've been wary about dating someone online. I mean, they could tell you whatever they want and put up pictures that may not even be of them, but it could all just be a ruse! They...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Sorry guys🙍 So stop harassing me please! Thanks!😊
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I never looked at EP as a dating website. Who wants to be friends with me? :D
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M Jul 29

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    i heard online dating is a good idea to find someone that really care . i will try it
    vatbat vatbat 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I'm on here to vent simple as that and maybe chat with a few nice people but i'm not looking to date. I come here when i'm bored or need to get something off my chest so i guess...
    Mama86 Mama86 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I don't see EP as a dating site and am not looking for an online relationship anyway.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I am already more than content in a committed relationship with my partner.  She (username Visola) has an account here.  I made an account on this website to read...
    SnorkelFist SnorkelFist 18-21 1 Response Jul 29

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    Do people even do that here? It seems pretty pointless.
    Sean881 Sean881 31-35, M Aug 3

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    Yes it's true. I'm not here to find a date. Just so you know. I have someone forever and ever until I die.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 22 hrs ago

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    ❒ Single ❒ Taken ☑ Depends on who's asking.
    PinkP0werRanger PinkP0werRanger 26-30, F Jul 22

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    Sorry but no. I just came to find friends. Sorry if I offended someone. I'm just not ready yet. Plus, I'm not allowed to date yet. Also, you never know who you're really talking to...
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    ha! like I would date any of you crazy ****** after reading all of your problems and mellow dramatic b.s. anyhow!
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I made this account so I could express myself, ask questions, and share stories I normally wouldn't with people I personally know. Later I found out that this is also a great place...
    secretgal2 secretgal2 16-17, F Aug 14

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    I dont think people are here for "anyone" who needs a friend. Perhaps theyre here for people they can relate to, or are of similar cultures, backgrounds, age groups, localities...
    beenbad beenbad 36-40, T 1 Response Jul 22

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    Hey guys. I am not here for sexual conversations or anything like that. I am simply here to meet new people and find friends. So if you add me or message me and I feel like all you...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F Jul 28

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    I am NOT here to discuss religion. I am NOT here to argue about anyone's FAITH. I AM HERE for one simple reason. Since my childhood days, I have always dreamt of having a...
    CoolDad59 CoolDad59 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't want to talk about sex I'm not here for sex I'm not here for anything about sex especially pictures so don't ask
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Jul 28

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    I'm not here for that. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful guy and would never cheat. So please don't message me thinking that anything like that will happen. I'm...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Pleeeeeeeease don't message me with **** stuff . I'm here just to write about my feelings , I'm not here for cyber sex or sex chat or any of that crap . Good friends are always...
    Selma40 Selma40 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yes. Here for anyone just pm me :)
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M Jul 26

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    I need someone I can talk to :/ also I'm here for anyone who needs someone 😊
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I see people posting all these things about cutting, and hating life and giving up, and all that, and i hate it. Like how bad do people have to treat you for you to feel like this...
    Imsobored123 Imsobored123 18-21, M Jul 31

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    Wait I take that back, I am here for that lots of that! Pervs.. I'm a perv too! Good Day!
    TxRocker TxRocker 46-50, M Aug 1

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    To everyone who needs help or someone talk to (even ask personal questions), I understand. Message me and let me know you want me to help. I am totally open to offering my...
    VeraRose VeraRose 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Thats what I'm here for, and its why I signed up !!
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Thank god this exists because I'm not here for it!
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Feel free to reach out to me and message me if you need someone to talk to! I'm here for anyone and will listen to anything you have to say. No one is alone!
    mni113013 mni113013 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    yeah i am here for whoever needs a friend..nice knowin people from different places cultures beliefs
    romell romell 36-40, M Aug 14

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    Hi! I'm Sydnee and I am here for you. Please feel free to message me. :)
    Sydpls Sydpls 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm not here to talk about sex. I'm here to make friends and talk to new people. If all you want to talk about is sex, don't bother messaging me. I think it's gross to talk about...
    Kaytee120 Kaytee120 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I joined EP for charity work and other things not to talk and date haha. I have a wonderful boyfriend and in a happy relationship no need to experience guys and dating. Love this...
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F a week ago

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    Or dating unless you have genuine advice for me or need some yourself please don't bother me. Random messages saying hi will be ignored. But if you have a serious question ask it...
    kreativebelle kreativebelle 31-35, F Jul 28

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    Please don't try. I'm only 15 and I came to find friends. If you like me, it's fine but don't ask me out please. Besides, I'm not allowed to date yet, and I don't trust online...
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F Jul 30

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    I thought I already made this clear but due to all the messages I've been getting lately I guess it hasn't registered. I do not want to have cyber sex. I don't want to talk to...
    eaarcher93 eaarcher93 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Or relationships for that matter. I just seem to always get them wrong or expect too much maybe, I just want to be valued the same way I think I do. It's stupid...............and...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 5 Responses