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I Am Not Here For Dating So Stop Messaging Me

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    I'm Not.........

    I'm not looking for a hook-up. I'm not looking to share and nor is my partner in any way shape or form. If people were to read a persons page, list of groups, or even glance at stories a person writes, they would see that I am not interested in a hook-up or dating. They would see...
    Bubbles48509 Bubbles48509 36-40, F Jan 19, 2013

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    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F Aug 24, 2014

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    Seriously...can all guys stop messaging me!

    Not interested! Never was and never will be! And if you aren't 18 or over then please stay in school and pay attention to your classes cause messaging me won't get you anywhere in life! And if your a old pervs! Please shove your own sacks dowm your throat cause i don't want to...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F Mar 23, 2014

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    Respect.

    So I was messaged Yesterday. and it was very akward and uncomfortable to me. I will Keep the user private but I am going to share the message with you.. ..... says says: August 8th, 2008 at 09:44 PM give us what u want.   RosesOfAPoet says: August 8th, 2008 at 09:51 PM...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I do not want an online boyfriend.

    I do not want a long distance relationship. I do not have a Skype, Facebook or any other outlet like it. I will not trade pics with you. I do not care about your fantasies. And no I do not want to be friends... I take that word very seriously. I have three friends and do not use...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Not sure I didn't make

    that clear already. I'm happy right now. I'm just here for friends, writing and sharing experiences. I wish you good luck single dudes!
    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2014

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    Nah, Bro (or Sis)!

    I joined Experience Project to share my experiences with others, meet new people, and make new friends only. Sigh, I know that I'll be flamed as some insensitive, closed-minded person for saying that I don't believe in online and long-distance relationships. But whatever, just...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Dec 4, 2011

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    Im Happily Married

    No sir and no maam, I am married with 2 beautiful children and I love them and my husband dearly. So no I am not interested in an online fling. I do not want to see your dirty pictures and I definitely don't want to be your online mistress or master. Get over it and quit with the...
    silvervixen silvervixen 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Sorry

    I'm not here for dating either. Sorry..  
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    So Ive just told a guy on EP that i wasnt here for dating (he asked if i was single and ready to mingle, come on w*f) and then, he blocked me. Niceee.
    kindahipsta kindahipsta 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    Some people think EP is a dating site. Sorry to upset you but no...it's not. It a place to share stories and help others out. Stories about depression, loneliness, self harm...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I came to EP to get some perspective. ....find myself again and get oppinions from people..... I understand that most of the users on here have been bitten once or twice in their...
    huckleberrybunches huckleberrybunches 41-45, M 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Happily Married!!!??? Its easier not to put a pic up, people won't really bother you if they aren't sure you're male or female, or attractive
    kjohn91792 kjohn91792 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    as i am here for sometime dont know why still alone here.... maybe i never try to make friends or maybe i dont have enough skills to express my feelings .... ):
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I will always be here for you and will always care for you. You are just another amazing woman. You still make me smile even though your not on. I am glad that you have found...
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M Jan 5

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    I am here for anyone that needs to talk , I know what it's like to have no one to talk to or listen to you . So I am here to listen to you and help you if I can .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    I want everybody here to know that I'm here for you if you ever wanna talk about anything. And I mean anything!
    smileyryley smileyryley 13-15, F Jan 18

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    Guys, what part of NO do you not understand. Again, I am not here for your sexual entertainment. Grow up and act appropriately and not inappropriately here online. The majority...
    momlovespatriots momlovespatriots 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Here I am. Childhood trauma survivor. Depression survivor. Therapy survivor :). I can relate to the feelings you have if not the experience. I have had them all. Well, not all but...
    CultivatingPurpose CultivatingPurpose 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    As a person with depression and anxiety, I know what It feels like when you need a shoulder to cry on. I have attempted suicide twice, both times were a failure. Please don't be...
    ashley359 ashley359 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 1

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    I am just a message away & will always be here for anyone
    solost33 solost33 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Actually, I am here for my entertainment.
    YanoSiento YanoSiento 31-35, F Jan 7

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    I'm a pretty good listener :) I don't care how minuscule your problems may seem. I'm here for you.
    Lebonix Lebonix 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Im new to the app and just want to meet others to talk to whenever without judgement.. im truly here for anyone and everyone who just needs a person to hear them out. im open...
    unknownana unknownana 16-17, F Jan 7

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    If you need a friend, or just someone to talk to, i'm here for ya.
    vhh1996 vhh1996 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I may not always be the best person to talk to, and I may vent sometimes, but I'll be here for people when they need to vent or talk to somebody. Not everybody has somebody close...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Hi just recently got back on this app and I love reading other people's stories and experiences. It inspires me to influence other people or give my advice to help others. It makes...
    lexilove43012 lexilove43012 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm not here for a hookup so don't bother asking.
    laurenrp25 laurenrp25 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I'm always here for friends, if you need to talk about anything. I make a good listener.
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I am here for anybody who wants help dealing with a hard/embarassing situtation. I will never taunt or make fun of you.
    sorinmarkov1 sorinmarkov1 13-15, T Jan 20

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    As soon as I Logged into EP, I get messages about sex and asking to be added. Please stay away if you have that on your mind. I am not here for sex chats or to please you in any...
    SilverLeviathan SilverLeviathan 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    not the most interesting and coolest guy here but you can have my time and will always be here whenever is needed. giving my best shot of course.
    nonsensee nonsensee 18-21, M Jan 12

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    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I'm here to talk to if Anybody needs a friend
    anestacia anestacia 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Sitting in the hostel, at 11.30 pm, I contemplated cutting my wrist. I didn't. I survived. I've been surviving till today. That was a bad day, things have improved. And I don't...
    LoganManish LoganManish 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    Even though you're a being a jerk face and I don't know where our friendship stands right now since you're giving me the silent treatment and ignoring my snaps when really I'm the...
    LilahWolf LilahWolf 16-17, F Jan 6

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    I really wanna have good chats with people here. I like listening to people's ideas, wishes, experiences, so I can share mine with them too. And then knowing each other, we can...
    phsmorais phsmorais 18-21 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Who needs a friend? Im here 👍
    yhan023 yhan023 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Free therapy session here. Recieve therapy that actually works.
    jonnyb0y jonnyb0y 22-25, M Jan 9

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    I've always been an accepting, caring, nurturing, and comforting Im smart, strong, and truly care for my world and the ppl in it If you'd like to ask me anything at all I am here...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I know what it feels like to desperately want anyone to comfort you. So I am here if anyone wants to talk.
    MaximumAri MaximumAri 13-15, F Jan 12

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    I am here to vent not for people to send me inappriate talking if you wanna chat not freaking setting I am under the age limit dude so don't talk to me unless you are going to be...
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F Jan 14

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    Presently My heart is pumping fast, i am nervous, sacred a bit, zero intrest in living. To be honest i wanna Die. My dad is unemployed from last 11 years, we were living on some...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    Anyone with the new demo post here and let's both discuss and play monster hunter
    backhand32 backhand32 13-15, M Jan 19

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    I have had a really hard time in my life and I just want everyone to know that I am a compassionate and caring person. I am going through a lot, so if anyone ever wants to create a...
    LifeofLewis LifeofLewis 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 21

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