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I Am Not Here For Dating

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    Don't even bother messaging me

    if it's to try and woo me. I can not be wooed.
    SabrinaB27 SabrinaB27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I Have Better Stuff To Do On Ep!

    I don't know how you guys get it this way??!!!  I don’t know why many people on EP think that I’m here for that stuff!!! From where you got that? I'm not here to date and I think this is so obvious from my attitude in here, I'm not posting all the time in any sex groups etc...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I am not here to date

    or meet anyone....i'm just here to chit chat and have a great fun time..please be respectful of it and it doesn't mean i won't be able to have fun or talk to you or anything...thank you!
    sweetasscandy36 sweetasscandy36 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I Am Here To Write

    I can accept that people like to write erotica, but don't be offended if I don't read it and rate it up. I really didn't come here for that. I came here to share stories that probably most people would find boring. I enjoy sitting at my table with a tea and writing. I...
    jenimichel jenimichel 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    I don't want to date right now

    and certainly not online.
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I don't wanna be mean

    but just saying!!
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F Feb 24

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    Seriously! Sometimes I feel like this is

    reminiscent of the popular message boards in the late 90s where everything started with "hey baby - a/s/l?" I'm just here to chat with interesting people not start online carousing :)
    justsleeplessme justsleeplessme 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    If you want to date, then go on Okcupid

    or Plenty of fish because Experience Project is not for dating! As for me, you should know I am NOT single so don't bother messaging me if you want a girlfriend (*´・v・)
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 1 Response May 16

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    I don't like people that want to talk to you

    only if you are single. I find that to be very close minded. If I'm single or not. What is wrong making a new friend?
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F May 29

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    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated

    I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples' stories, which is interesting, and 90% of the people are really nice. And I'm also here to make friends from other countries (NOT american...
    whatsername whatsername 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2007

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    Lord knows how many people have asked me to

    date them or send nudes to them on this! I'm 15 alright? Don't ask don't message me if ur intentions are dirty ! I'm on here to share thought not myself. I haven't even been asked in person ask much as here god!
    Blueberrylulu Blueberrylulu 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Friends are welcome but

    if you're looking for a hookup, girlfriend, wife, or any other romantic relationship, there are plenty of dating sites out there. I'm not using EP as one.
    ashley420d ashley420d 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    I just want to make this clear!

    I am in a relationship with someone and have been for about six years. I am extremely happy with him and I wouldn't change a thing! I am just on here, so I can talk to other people about my experiences and problems!
    sweetsarahxo sweetsarahxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Absolutely this! No dirty chat either.

    I have an amazing boyfriend and love him with all my heart.
    recoip recoip 16-17, F Apr 9

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    AMEN TO THIS GROUP!! I like to talk to people,

    I enjoy talking, but I'm not big on talking and dating and flirting and please just no
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Zoce Zoce 18-21, M Feb 12

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    Apparently this is when people go,

    "oh never mind her, then".
    Akurou Akurou 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    TheMorticiansDaughter TheMorticiansDaughter 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    I am not here for dating,

    from the start my aim on here was not dating or anything like that. My aim is still the same, I want to be able to open up, express my emotions and thoughts and then be able to talk about it with people. I enjoy this site for the fact I meet people from around the world, I am...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Ladies i wonder if ya'll would date a handsome

    funny and a good dressing man with crooked teeth or would ya'll reject??
    carlos19cv carlos19cv 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 3

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    Blindfolded Bliss

    This past weekend was so good, in so many ways, first off, my beautiful partner moved into my house with me, I'd like to share with you a wild and exciting experience we shared. On Friday night she came over around 8:30pm, she brought most of her clothing with her so we hung up...
    wetsec wetsec 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    ifun6 ifun6 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 24

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    Massage Magic

    This past weekend me and my partner(sorry, she still wont let me use her name in my stories and I wont use a fake name) went to the Heartland Spa & Fitness Resort, we got an early start on Saturday as the drive was almost 180 miles from our home, we got there in a little less...
    wetsec wetsec 31-35, F 11 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    PinkP0werRanger PinkP0werRanger 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I know perfectly well

    when I was born, thank you!
    ronnkron ronnkron 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5

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    Jeez!!!!

    I cannot stress enough to you "guys" i am NOT here for dating. I dont want to meet you, i dont want all the petty small talk leading up to you being a pervert. I just dont care. If you messege me and are a perv i WILL block you. It is amazing the gall some people have these days...
    bubbles899 bubbles899 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    I am happily married

    and am not here for dating. I am here for friendship and writing stories. I also am here for support with my chronic health conditions. It helps knowing there are others here that are struggling like I am. I love to write and this is the perfect place for that. My hubby...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 3

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    I Think Online Dating Is Scary

    for me anyways. Who the hell knows that I can be match up with a rapist, a *******, a perverted person(not all perverts are nasty). Sexual sadist is scary too. I read a book about ten toxic men. That book was an eye opener for me. So stop asking and read this story for men are...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 30 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 22

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    My Friends Beware Of Psychopaths And Narcissists

    There are alot of people here going through life changes and really need unselfish words of support kindness understanding respect someone to listen to them . Unfortunately many are coming out of troubled marriages or deciding on their futures and some have illnessess. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I'm here to share experiences

    and use my voice. I would love to share stories and experiences with everyone but I am most definitely not here for dating. I'm in a very committed very devoted relationship with a man I live and three kids to worry about. Love this app idea but didn't realize before signing up...
    blended4us blended4us 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    My first impression of EP is a place with people

    who can relate with your situations and would like to help brighten up one's day or be just friends. I'd like to keep it that way, please.
    Jojotron18 Jojotron18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Please try to be more original

    than "hello" if you take the time to message me. I see it as the equivalent of calling me in order to tell me you are calling. Give me something interesting to which I may respond if you're going to IM me :) have a great day!
    pafforda pafforda 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Fun With Fruit

    This past weekend, me and my partner went to a health spa, (there is a featured story posted now, Massage Magic, that happened the day before this one). We woke up on Sunday morning, our bodies naked under the covers, we kissed and said good morning to each other, now today was...
    wetsec wetsec 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    So don't ask!! If your main reason to talk to

    me is to find someone to date or to have sex chat with then I'm the wrong person for you, I'm not here to find love, I had a bad online dating experince and I'm not willing to try it again and I'm definitely not here for sex especially if you are an OLDER MAN, I don't want to...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Feels Strange

    Have you ever connected on a nice friendly level with someone here on Ep, and been looking forward for good jokes, laughs and shared thoughts..? And then suddenly * poff* the ep member has disappeared without saying byebye ? It's like the ep member never existed, all comments and...
    susannagg susannagg 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    I've encountered this same problem with my

    previous experience project account. I write personal stories on EP and even romantic related experiences. This doesn't mean I want to be flirted with though! I have old men hit me up, I am always respectful, but it's really disgusting to be honest. Why would I want to date...
    LibraAndAries LibraAndAries 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 5

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    i am here to deal with my curiosity ,

    to get answers to my questions ,to share my innerself ,to know how many people in the world are like me,m i weird or normal...i am not here for dating or i m not any type relation seeker....so those who want this or those who craves physical things just stay away from my profile...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    Guys. Stop messaging me with your creepy

    intentions. I'm 19. If you're a 38 year old man who just says "you're pretty" or "hi" I'm not going to respond. I'm here for confessions.
    mcshort6443 mcshort6443 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    To all the creeps that add me to their circle

    sending innaprpoiate messages and asking me if I'm single .. I'm not single I'm in a relationship and even If I was I wouldn't date some random guy that I don't know . I'm not here for dating I'm on here to share my experiences not date and get weird messages please stop it's...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I'm here for lessons .

    & to be listen too
    Niieessha Niieessha 16-17, F Feb 24

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    Seriously, I normally don't put my actual

    picture on websites like these and the one time I do I get hit on by several different people asking me for my number and saying perverted things to me. I honestly don't care, I am here to say things that I have been through and be around people that have been through similar...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Just dont, not even worth your time

    because I will not do anything
    xJamix xJamix 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Just Here To Be Me

    I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know. I also like the fact that there are other people who have the same thoughts and experiences which I thought I only had...
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 7 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    This isn't a dating website.

    It'a a site to share experiences with others. I mean, for all I know, if I did want to date on here, I could be really talking to a 50 year old pervert rather then a person my age. Not everyone tells the truth about themselves on here. If you want to date on here, fine. But don...
    Mikaylaxo Mikaylaxo 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I can understand people wanting to find love

    online of course, but I am not on EP for dating myself, but just to chat and read the stories here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I'm sorry but I'm not.

    .. I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 20 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I am here for just Time Pass :)

    and there is no serious reason behind this. :)
    raoudupi raoudupi 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    Waking Up To Love

    Last night my partner Krista came home from work, I was on the computer and was talking to people I have began to know here at EP, she came over and kissed me and went into the kitchen to have her supper that I had made earlier, when she was done eating she pulled over a chair...
    wetsec wetsec 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I'm not here for sex

    or anything of the sort. Just here to talk
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    No, I am not. I am happily taken,

    by a wonderful Dom. He allows me to use EP has an escape, but he has all my login information, and I trust him completely. So don't even bother wasting your time :) I am not here to date. I am not here to cheat on him, or do anything behind his back, so if that is what you are...
    AlyAngel AlyAngel 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 25

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