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I Am Not Here For Dating

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10,152 People

    I don't want the wrong attention from people on

    here, I'm talking to the men here. I like chatting normally but not with romantic interest. It's a good social experiment actually. I put up a picture of my face and I get tons of messages from men aged 13-60 all saying stuff about how I look..... But when my profile picture...
    AlliLittle AlliLittle 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 4, 2015

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    enchantingjade enchantingjade 36-40 May 1, 2015

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    ATVgirl6934 ATVgirl6934 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 22, 2015

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    In case anyone is confused,

    this is not a dating site and my profile is not for review for a potential hook up. I'm here for me. I'm here for an escape. I'm here because I have no where else to dump the turmoil that's brewing in my mind and heart. Please be respectful. Please use common sense. Please be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Nov 7, 2015

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    Just Here To Be Me

    I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know. I also like the fact that there are other people who have the same thoughts and experiences which I thought I only had...
    2hot443 2hot443 41-45, M 8 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    For **** sake. I'm not here

    for dating or to sex chats or anything like that. I am searching for platonic friends but somehow these people keep finding me.
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2015

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    I joined EP because it's a place I didn't know

    about it, so I thought I could have a good talk and share things. And I have met wonderful people in here, have had a good time. But I don't get when people tell me they are in love with me just after one day chatting or because they saw my picture. I'm not interested in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2015

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    Ok, how are they sure I'm not some cyclope with

    tentacles with 74mouths to feed (yeah, they are just 10 babies, but each one has 7.4 mouths) I've 4 groups here to indicate this and there's still people who add me for it! I agree with friendship and all, but seriously: what the hell? If I were to look for a relationship...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    Look, don't mean to be brutal,

    but don't ask me for a date or a relationship because that's not what I'm on EP for. I'm only here for friendship and that's all so don't ask me to be your girlfriend. I'm ok with being friends though. Sorry but I dont do online dating or long distant; besides I'm not in a rush...
    PassionForCreativity PassionForCreativity 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 25, 2015

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    Qu action for men: if you ask a woman

    for a naked pic and she gives it . Does this gives thumbs up for a relationship or thumbs down . I never do and never get any reply back after . If I gave a naked pic would this draw men in at the expense of losing my privacy . These men don't care Pugh because they send me...
    uncontrollabledesire88 uncontrollabledesire88 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 4, 2015

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    Although I am flattered by your "actions",

    I do not tolerate this sort of behaviour on EP. I have a partner, as I have clearly outlined in my profile. I am neither interested in dating or flirting. The concept of an E-relationship/online girlfriend is completely ridiculous. If you continue to persist, I would have to...
    PilotInCommand PilotInCommand 18-21, M Sep 26, 2015

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    Not looking for dating

    or even looking for friends. I am very happily married to a Wonderful Woman for over twenty five years. I am boringly monogamous and I intend to stay that way. Why am I here? To learn from others and where appropriate to teach or inspire others.
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    I am here for friends only cause

    that is what i want
    sexyblueeyes420 sexyblueeyes420 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    I'm here to share stories

    and read the experiences of others. I'm not here to "hook-up" or look for romantic love.
    TheNarrowGate TheNarrowGate 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2015

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    No, I'm not... But l like chatting with my

    buddies on here, married or not!
    MistyGoddess MistyGoddess 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 22, 2015

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    So please, please- anyone

    that may potentially message me... I am exclusively looking for platonic friendship here. Nothing else.
    Jaideiris Jaideiris 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2015

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    When a guy calls you pretty,

    He's looking good at your face. When a guy calls you hot, he's looking at your body. When a guy calls you beautiful, he's looking at your heart. All 3 guys still want to **** you, though.
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Sep 1, 2015

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    Please be respectful of me.

    I already have a boyfriend and I actually do love him very much and am probably few of the many people in this world that remains faithful these days but do not go ahead and ask for pictures or to cheat or anything stupid. I am happy with the man I am with I am only on this...
    StephiiLovexo StephiiLovexo 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 28, 2015

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    But I do welcome insightful intelligent

    conversations on sensitive/private subjects with confidently smart, mature, and respectful folks who know how to contribute ideas in the public forum. (For those who are just dying to be relieved and want nothing but temporary physical satisfaction, I welcome those, too. Just...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 22, 2015

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    THINK OF SUMMERELLA .

    .............:..
    SweatxHive SweatxHive 13-15, F Sep 7, 2015

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    My psychiatrist today was flattered

    when I said he most be gods gift to earth. And I said god must be really looking after me
    shootingstar1974 shootingstar1974 41-45, F Sep 4, 2015

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    I'm sorry but I'm not.

    .. I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2014

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    Well honestly, I came across this site by

    accident and not once did it occur to me that I could ever find someone who I could get involved with. It's improbable but not impossible yet it's just not what I'm here for. I just like this site cause it so resemble a blog-like social networking site and I intend to keep it...
    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2015

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    I came to EP to get some perspective.

    ....find myself again and get oppinions from people..... I understand that most of the users on here have been bitten once or twice in their lives by dishonest individuals and I get that...I also realise that teust and underatnding is a huge problem.. .lok I dont trust...
    huckleberrybunches huckleberrybunches 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 29, 2015

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    I at least think this site is made

    for a reason, which isn't dating. There are plenty of other sites for that anyway. Besides, some of them are for the purpose of dating and relationships; not this one.
    JK7448 JK7448 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2015

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    Ahem... please consider this my featured story.

    I love the concept of EP. I love the idea of thousands of people, gathering together to share their stories and experiences, and the fact that we're given a forum to respond to these experiences, ask questions, and relate to one another. That's what I'm here for. I'm here to...
    wtfgirl001 wtfgirl001 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    I am here to ask advice

    and give advice and make friends online nothing more
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 28, 2015

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    I have been here some time,

    and I have had my fair share of “EP romances”, but they have all blown up in my face. Sometimes I just want to have intelligent conversations with people. I am so tired of people befriending me for a specific person. If that is all you want, move along son. I am not...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 13 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I'm not here for dating

    or anything like that I'm just here to talk and make friends end of story.
    ZingySpirit ZingySpirit 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 8, 2015

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    ....."no" literally means "no.

    " not "ooh yeah baby show me your pinkie sized ****." it means "NO." -.-
    kinkystapler kinkystapler 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2015

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    I am here to share what I think is worthy.

    I am here to socialize and communicate with. I don't send pictures. I don't date. I already have a boyfriend so wut.
    iiTetraLoh iiTetraLoh 18-21, F Nov 2, 2015

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    "Sorry, I have a boyfriend.

    " "...But you can cheat? " *Facepalm* -5 points for humanity.
    PilotInCommand PilotInCommand 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    If you want to date someone then go to a dating

    site, not a place meant for people to share their experiences and thoughts.
    Ominousity Ominousity 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2015

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    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 16, 2015

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    Honestly, I use EP as a place to chat with

    open-minded people and explore things I wouldn't anywhere else. The things I discuss and the things I learn on this site are things I wouldn't be comfortable discussing anywhere else. with that being said I'm not interested in starting a relationship with anyone on here, nor am...
    Becky555 Becky555 22-25, F 3 Responses May 1, 2015

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    here to share experiences

    and give advice where i can. that is all.
    Sbabyface Sbabyface 22-25, F Dec 29, 2015

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    I am only 18 months out of a 22 year old

    marriage and 24 year old relationship. The break-up was not mutual - only he wanted it so to say the least I am still coming to terms with that. I am in no way, shape or form ready or wanting a romantic relationship at this time in my life. What can I say except that my heart...
    Alleygirltoo Alleygirltoo 41-45, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm involved with someone,

    and I'm happy... very happy. I do not want to send or receive naked pics. If you message me, I'm probably going to ignore you if we don't have anything in common (I will read your profile first). I don't want to come across as rude, because I'm really not, but this stuff is...
    TheGoddessB TheGoddessB 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2015

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    I'm not interested in hooking up with anyone

    here on EP. It's quite apparent that people don't even look at my profile before contacting me. I'm married, I love my husband and I'm not here for sexy talk. I'm here to connect with people intellectually. I don't judge those who are here to hook up, I believe it's best to...
    SadPanda35 SadPanda35 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2015

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    When I first came on here

    and made my very first profile on here when I was 19, I don't remember anyone trying to hook up or date on EP. I had a group of wonderful friends who supported one another and could relate with the experiences that we shared with one another. Nowadays it's a cesspool of pedo's...
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2015

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    I'm really not. I am already in a relationship.

    I use EP to vent, or otherwise describe feelings I can't describe anywhere else. This is my outlet, kinda like how people use Tumblr for the same purpose. EP, however, has more meaning because people look at each other and what they're writing and instantly relate. That's why...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2015

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    It's sort of disheartening to receive messages

    and circle adds from people who have never even took the time to read my experiences. I'm all for having a conversation about something that pertains to what I've posted, but the random "what's up's" seem counter active to learning and understanding one another. The funny...
    mysticmissy mysticmissy 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2015

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    Lmao thought this was funny.

    Apparently I "broke" his heart when I told him I had a boyfriend. Guess he expected me to be in love with him within the 5 minutes we knew each other. I swear some people on here...
    BeautifulSoul09 BeautifulSoul09 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2015

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    Why don't some people read other's profiles

    more thoroughly?? I'm so sick of being propositioned for dating/relationships. I only want to make friends. I wasn't interested in dating/relationships when I first joined EP & I sure as hell ain't interested in it now.
    nightowl2015 nightowl2015 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2015

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