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I Am Not Here For Dating

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    I've been wary about dating someone online.

    I mean, they could tell you whatever they want and put up pictures that may not even be of them, but it could all just be a ruse! They could be serial killers looking for a new victim. I mean, some days that does sound promising, but most days that makes me think, "No thank you...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    You don't even deserve to be called dudes,

    bros, or mates. No matter how long (yeah right.) our conversations, it's never gonna lead to anything. EVER. Quit bothering me. You know what. If you're over 40 don't even bother to send me pm's.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yes it's true. I'm not here to find a date.

    Just so you know. I have someone forever and ever until I die.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 21

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    No way. Not a chance.

    I will not reply to your private messages.
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F Aug 24

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    Seriously, I normally don't put my actual

    picture on websites like these and the one time I do I get hit on by several different people asking me for my number and saying perverted things to me. I honestly don't care, I am here to say things that I have been through and be around people that have been through similar...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I'm on here to vent simple

    as that and maybe chat with a few nice people but i'm not looking to date. I come here when i'm bored or need to get something off my chest so i guess this is sort of a secret diary to me. i will never put my real picture up because i'm on here secretly and i've overshared lol...
    Mama86 Mama86 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I am not here for dating,

    from the start my aim on here was not dating or anything like that. My aim is still the same, I want to be able to open up, express my emotions and thoughts and then be able to talk about it with people. I enjoy this site for the fact I meet people from around the world, I am...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I am not here to date

    or meet anyone....i'm just here to chit chat and have a great fun time..please be respectful of it and it doesn't mean i won't be able to have fun or talk to you or anything...thank you!
    sweetasscandy36 sweetasscandy36 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 19 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I can say nice things without it being a

    come-on. Take the other day for example. An incident happened at work, and one of the accounts ladies got all upset about a nagging customer, and said she should be more assertive, to which I replied "being assertive isn't all it's cracked up to be; you're spot on as you are...
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am already more than content in a committed

    relationship with my partner.  She (username Visola) has an account here.  I made an account on this website to read, compare, and post experiences.
    SnorkelFist SnorkelFist 18-21 1 Response Jul 29

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    I'M Not Here For Dating

    I luv my hubby very much.. Yes sometimes I talk crap when I get mad and we have gone through hell and back.. But he's the only one I want to be with that's a man.. He's my everything.. So just because I get lonely Doesn't mean I'm looking else where.. So please don't contact me...
    prettygirl1982 prettygirl1982 31-35, F Nov 14, 2013

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    Dating? Lol hell no. I dont

    even know how to make friends in Ep. Real life is so much better, sometimes. In my opinion :)))
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    Guys. Stop messaging me with your creepy

    intentions. I'm 19. If you're a 38 year old man who just says "you're pretty" or "hi" I'm not going to respond. I'm here for confessions.
    mcshort6443 mcshort6443 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Aug 4

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    I don't see EP as a dating site

    and am not looking for an online relationship anyway.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    So don't ask!! If your main reason to talk to

    me is to find someone to date or to have sex chat with then I'm the wrong person for you, I'm not here to find love, I had a bad online dating experince and I'm not willing to try it again and I'm definitely not here for sex especially if you are an OLDER MAN, I don't want to...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Is this place actually a dating site?

    Never mind the fact that about different countries and long distance do people actually meet on here? No I don't want to date. Not from here. Frustrating.
    CeeAirAHH CeeAirAHH 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Do people even do that here?

    It seems pretty pointless.
    DeadStarr DeadStarr 31-35, M Aug 3

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    I've seen more bad than good out of it.

    It's not only that you can never really know someone on line and also they can easily lie or put up a front, it's that from my experiences with guys, their flirting is all on line and not in person. I think a lot of men are addicted to what's on the internet and don't won't the...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Viewer Discretion is advised: PLEASE FOR JESUS'

    SAKE( notthatibeleiveinhimnooffensetoanyonewhodoes), I AM NOT HERE TO BE INTERESTED IN ANYONE ROMANTICALLY AND I AM NOT HERE FOR ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP OTHER THAN FRIENDSHIP. I'M JUST TRYING TO FIND SOME GOOD FRIENDS, POST/COMMENT ON EXPERIENCES. AND WHAT THE EFFING MEDUSA...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I just had the worst experience ever!

    :( This guy messaged me with a comforting word about one of the experiences I had posted, so in kind, I replied to him. I thought things were lovely. I had met a friend, and we had things in common to talk about. All of a sudden, he's talking about a future for us?? And saying...
    Alliwoo Alliwoo 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    ha! like I would date any of you crazy ******

    after reading all of your problems and mellow dramatic b.s. anyhow!
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 3 Responses Jul 30

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    This isn't a dating website.

    It'a a site to share experiences with others. I mean, for all I know, if I did want to date on here, I could be really talking to a 50 year old pervert rather then a person my age. Not everyone tells the truth about themselves on here. If you want to date on here, fine. But don...
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I dont understand some people make this platform

    for dating and talking dirty. Some even start getting cozy and start calling you sweets when you dont even know them properly. I find such people very annoying. I am not here for dating or relationship. I am blessed with that. Some annoying people ask for chat in watsapp, some...
    TrueLoverN TrueLoverN 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I Think Online Dating Is Scary

    for me anyways. Who the hell knows that I can be match up with a rapist, a *******, a perverted person(not all perverts are nasty). Sexual sadist is scary too. I read a book about ten toxic men. That book was an eye opener for me. So stop asking and read this story for men are...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 30 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    Apologies To The Ladies On Here

    On behalf of the guys who actualy want to help people and know that women are not instantly clamoring to be bedmates, I offer my sincere apologies.
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    ☐ Single ☐ Taken ☑ Looking

    for a zombie apocalypse partner
    U1traViolet U1traViolet 26-30 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Lord knows how many people have asked me to

    date them or send nudes to them on this! I'm 15 alright? Don't ask don't message me if ur intentions are dirty ! I'm on here to share thought not myself. I haven't even been asked in person ask much as here god!
    Blueberrylulu Blueberrylulu 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I am happily married

    and am not here for dating. I am here for friendship and writing stories. I also am here for support with my chronic health conditions. It helps knowing there are others here that are struggling like I am. I love to write and this is the perfect place for that. My hubby...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 3

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    I am for sure not on this great site looking

    for a date or anything really..I just like sites like this one where I can be who I am all of the time,I do okay on the dating scene in real life even tho I am wearing diapers and plastic pants most all the time..but I would like to meet a women diaper wearer on the net that...
    mrpampers2 mrpampers2 26-30, M Sep 5

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    My Friends Beware Of Psychopaths And Narcissists

    There are alot of people here going through life changes and really need unselfish words of support kindness understanding respect someone to listen to them . Unfortunately many are coming out of troubled marriages or deciding on their futures and some have illnessess. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    enchantingjade enchantingjade 36-40 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Seriously! Sometimes I feel like this is

    reminiscent of the popular message boards in the late 90s where everything started with "hey baby - a/s/l?" I'm just here to chat with interesting people not start online carousing :)
    justsleeplessme justsleeplessme 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    For me, connection needs to happen at multiple

    levels before I fall in love, and some of that connection requires face-to-face time. I can learn a lot about a person's personality by chatting with them online, certainly enough to know whether I think I am attracted or not. However, there are a ton of things that don't come...
    Kerennya Kerennya 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Fed Up

    I like a guy already. I have posted this group as the top group I joined on my profile so others can see. I have been sought after by one mannish boy who has admitted to wanting to do what it takes to get me to like him with no respect to the fact that I like someone else. He has...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Feels Strange

    Have you ever connected on a nice friendly level with someone here on Ep, and been looking forward for good jokes, laughs and shared thoughts..? And then suddenly * poff* the ep member has disappeared without saying byebye ? It's like the ep member never existed, all comments and...
    susannagg susannagg 26-30, F 11 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    I Am Here To Write

    I can accept that people like to write erotica, but don't be offended if I don't read it and rate it up. I really didn't come here for that. I came here to share stories that probably most people would find boring. I enjoy sitting at my table with a tea and writing. I...
    jenimichel jenimichel 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    I can understand people wanting to find love

    online of course, but I am not on EP for dating myself, but just to chat and read the stories here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 2

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    My first impression of EP is a place with people

    who can relate with your situations and would like to help brighten up one's day or be just friends. I'd like to keep it that way, please.
    Jojotron18 Jojotron18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I'm here to share experiences

    and use my voice. I would love to share stories and experiences with everyone but I am most definitely not here for dating. I'm in a very committed very devoted relationship with a man I live and three kids to worry about. Love this app idea but didn't realize before signing up...
    blended4us blended4us 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    To all the creeps that add me to their circle

    sending innaprpoiate messages and asking me if I'm single .. I'm not single I'm in a relationship and even If I was I wouldn't date some random guy that I don't know . I'm not here for dating I'm on here to share my experiences not date and get weird messages please stop it's...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    Update To First Post...

    Okay, Im still not here for dating. I don't have time for all that coming and going and going. No time to dress up for a guy or a girl. Just send me your nekky pics (yes, I stole that word from you DEG) and videos are also accepted. Animals are acceptable, but they have to be...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Just Here To Be Me

    I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know. I also like the fact that there are other people who have the same thoughts and experiences which I thought I only had...
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 7 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    Don't even bother messaging me

    if it's to try and woo me. I can not be wooed.
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated

    I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples' stories, which is interesting, and 90% of the people are really nice. And I'm also here to make friends from other countries (NOT american...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2007

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    I'm just here for chats

    and making friends. 😁
    C5PiE C5PiE 13-15, F Jul 29

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    Just dont, not even worth your time

    because I will not do anything
    xJamix xJamix 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I Have Better Stuff To Do On Ep!

    I don't know how you guys get it this way??!!!  I don’t know why many people on EP think that I’m here for that stuff!!! From where you got that? I'm not here to date and I think this is so obvious from my attitude in here, I'm not posting all the time in any sex groups etc...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I don't want to pick anyone up on EP,

    nor am I looking for flings. I just want to share my thoughts and read yours.
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    Jeez!!!!

    I cannot stress enough to you "guys" i am NOT here for dating. I dont want to meet you, i dont want all the petty small talk leading up to you being a pervert. I just dont care. If you messege me and are a perv i WILL block you. It is amazing the gall some people have these days...
    bubbles899 bubbles899 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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