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I Am Not Here For Dating

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    Even though I keep getting messages asking

    for cyber s3x, I respect the men who honor me telling them "No thank you, I have a boyfriend for my needs, have a good night." and proceed to stop messaging me. Getting men to stop the messages will not happen, but respecting women enough to know to stop when asked is...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    To all the creeps that add me to their circle

    sending innaprpoiate messages and asking me if I'm single .. I'm not single I'm in a relationship and even If I was I wouldn't date some random guy that I don't know . I'm not here for dating I'm on here to share my experiences not date and get weird messages please stop it's...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I am not into discussing explicit topics

    or to find "love." I do not believe in love over the internet because people are so fake and deceitful. People lie and live in a fantasy world if they believe that anyone one here is anything other than just typed words. I've been burned too many times only to find out that in...
    laylagirl1 laylagirl1 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 16

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    This statement is so true.

    If I wanted to date, the absolute LAST place I'd want to go is EP where the entire site is designed to attract and get people to talk about their issues and thoughts. Don't get me wrong, I totally like the weirdos (and am one myself), but its a pretty terrible dating pool...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 1 Response Oct 22

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    i am here to deal with my curiosity ,

    to get answers to my questions ,to share my innerself ,to know how many people in the world are like me,m i weird or normal...i am not here for dating or i m not any type relation seeker....so those who want this or those who craves physical things just stay away from my profile...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    I'm not here for dating ok.

    ... I've just gotten out of a realationship so I ain't even ready to date or be in a relationship.... And honestly i never will be ready to
    Datenshi Datenshi 16-17, F Sep 30

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    I can understand people wanting to find love

    online of course, but I am not on EP for dating myself, but just to chat and read the stories here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Alright guys.... I am NOT here to date.

    . so keep profile surfing. :)
    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    I have been married for one year

    and I absolutely adore my husband! I'm not here for dating... I have stage IV breast cancer and am looking for folks who are in a similar situation or just like-minded. I'm looking for emotional support and would like to support others. <3
    Natassa1234 Natassa1234 51-55, F 5 Responses Sep 18

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    I post that I'm in a committed relationship

    and it's like "Did I read no relationship?! No? Good enough!" Honestly, cut it out guys. Even if I rant, he's the love of my life. I wouldn't drop him for some random creep on here. It's aggravating! Oh, and then I get asked if I'm sure. YES, GET OUT OF MY FACE. I don't care...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I'm here for my own purposes,

    to find myself, converse, make friends and just have fun writing and expressing myself. I'm not here for 'hook ups', I'm not here to share pictures with strangers. Been there, done that, bought the postcard. I am more than happy with the love of my life, and I don't need...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16

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    happily ENGAGED with my CHILDRENS father.

    please only message me if you want to FRIENDLY talk. NO PERVS, CREEPS, etc -.- lol
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I truly am not. No, my marriage isn't ideal

    and you can see certain experiences on my list that may give the impression that I may be looking for something ... but I'm not here to date or flirt. I'm lonely and I need a safe outlet to share stories and make new friends. So please, as flattering as it is, I'm uncomfortable...
    RunHardEatCupcakes RunHardEatCupcakes 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    I have a bf who i love

    and adore so i'm not on here trying to hook up with anyone so please don't come at me like that. I came on here to share and express my feelings.
    mizzdimples mizzdimples 26-30, F Sep 22

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    This isn't a dating website.

    It'a a site to share experiences with others. I mean, for all I know, if I did want to date on here, I could be really talking to a 50 year old pervert rather then a person my age. Not everyone tells the truth about themselves on here. If you want to date on here, fine. But don...
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I am not here to date

    or meet anyone....i'm just here to chit chat and have a great fun time..please be respectful of it and it doesn't mean i won't be able to have fun or talk to you or anything...thank you!
    sweetasscandy36 sweetasscandy36 70+, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Seriously, I normally don't put my actual

    picture on websites like these and the one time I do I get hit on by several different people asking me for my number and saying perverted things to me. I honestly don't care, I am here to say things that I have been through and be around people that have been through similar...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I'm here for friends

    and only friends and I barely have time for that at the moment so unfortunately dating is out of the question. For me to want to date someone require a lot of trust and a strong connection and unfortunately that takes time and proximity that the internet can't offer. I know it...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 15

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    Fed Up

    I like a guy already. I have posted this group as the top group I joined on my profile so others can see. I have been sought after by one mannish boy who has admitted to wanting to do what it takes to get me to like him with no respect to the fact that I like someone else. He has...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    I Have Better Stuff To Do On Ep!

    I don't know how you guys get it this way??!!!  I don’t know why many people on EP think that I’m here for that stuff!!! From where you got that? I'm not here to date and I think this is so obvious from my attitude in here, I'm not posting all the time in any sex groups etc...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I Think Online Dating Is Scary

    for me anyways. Who the hell knows that I can be match up with a rapist, a *******, a perverted person(not all perverts are nasty). Sexual sadist is scary too. I read a book about ten toxic men. That book was an eye opener for me. So stop asking and read this story for men are...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 30 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    why Eve created from Adam's rib to be beside

    him not over him or down him and from under his shoulder to be under his protection and from near his heart to be his love
    lonelywaheed lonelywaheed 61-65, M 3 Responses Oct 17

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    Lord knows how many people have asked me to

    date them or send nudes to them on this! I'm 15 alright? Don't ask don't message me if ur intentions are dirty ! I'm on here to share thought not myself. I haven't even been asked in person ask much as here god!
    Blueberrylulu Blueberrylulu 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I'm not here for dating.

    . but if the right woman came along... I'd definitely be open to something more than an EP texting buddy
    throwawaychild throwawaychild 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    Guys. Stop messaging me with your creepy

    intentions. I'm 19. If you're a 38 year old man who just says "you're pretty" or "hi" I'm not going to respond. I'm here for confessions.
    mcshort6443 mcshort6443 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    A guy that I dated for a short

    while 5 years ago - that ended mutually- is still contacting me with strange text messages. He knows I am now married with children and have told him not to contact me only because he,s messages were all about how he still 'loves' me. He continues to message me from time to...
    leyla29 leyla29 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 9

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    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    i need gay people to talk to me please anyone i

    wanna talk gay girl any1 please
    sayanbondgay sayanbondgay 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It makes me mad when people ask to date you on

    this website. Like "Hey your cute will you be my girlfriend?" Like damn bruhh. Chill out! I don't really like letting people talk to because tbh I know they'll leave me soon. I know I'll end up being forgotten. Why put myself thru that pain? I gave up on people a long one ago...
    RaisedByTheWolves RaisedByTheWolves 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    Feels Strange

    Have you ever connected on a nice friendly level with someone here on Ep, and been looking forward for good jokes, laughs and shared thoughts..? And then suddenly * poff* the ep member has disappeared without saying byebye ? It's like the ep member never existed, all comments and...
    susannagg susannagg 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Apologies To The Ladies On Here

    On behalf of the guys who actualy want to help people and know that women are not instantly clamoring to be bedmates, I offer my sincere apologies.
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I'm sorry but I'm not.

    .. I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F Oct 3

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    I am not here to flirt

    or date because I am taken for now by my beautiful GF we are les and I love her so much!
    AnimeFartGirl03 AnimeFartGirl03 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Just Here To Be Me

    I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know. I also like the fact that there are other people who have the same thoughts and experiences which I thought I only had...
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 8 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    My first impression of EP is a place with people

    who can relate with your situations and would like to help brighten up one's day or be just friends. I'd like to keep it that way, please.
    Jojotron18 Jojotron18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    My parents won't let me date

    until 16, I asked and my mom said just in case if I got pregnant or something, like seriously? Do they honestly believe that I'll just go have sex with the first guy I go out with. I'm smarter than that. I really am. It kinda makes me sad to think they feel that way about me..
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 15

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    This is definitely not a dating site.

    Some people just don't get it. I am here to make friends and find people who I relate to with similar interests.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 21

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    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 19 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    Jeez!!!!

    I cannot stress enough to you "guys" i am NOT here for dating. I dont want to meet you, i dont want all the petty small talk leading up to you being a pervert. I just dont care. If you messege me and are a perv i WILL block you. It is amazing the gall some people have these days...
    bubbles899 bubbles899 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    I am not here for dating,

    from the start my aim on here was not dating or anything like that. My aim is still the same, I want to be able to open up, express my emotions and thoughts and then be able to talk about it with people. I enjoy this site for the fact I meet people from around the world, I am...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Seriously! Sometimes I feel like this is

    reminiscent of the popular message boards in the late 90s where everything started with "hey baby - a/s/l?" I'm just here to chat with interesting people not start online carousing :)
    justsleeplessme justsleeplessme 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    No thanks, I don't need a date!

    I didn't join up looking for a date or talk about sex and other trashy crap. I am sure you can find some one else for that junk.
    LilChickadee LilChickadee 22-25, F Dec 19

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    To all the jerks out there,

    do not add me to your circle without my permission. Also I am not here for dating or what I would call man's shallow understanding of love. I'm just here to share my experiences and pour my heart out and lend a helping ear to those who need it.
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    kgerykova1 kgerykova1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    someonelikeyou9 someonelikeyou9 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 22

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    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated

    I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples' stories, which is interesting, and 90% of the people are really nice. And I'm also here to make friends from other countries (NOT american...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2007

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    Not Here To Date ....

    This App is Making Me think that People On Here Just Trying To Get Some Instead Of Actually Been A Friend ..Someone Mention a to Me If i was Having this problem maybe I should take down my picture ...WHATTT WHY I REFUSE TO DO SO YOU ALL NEED TO LEARN TO RESPECT AND IF YOU WANNA...
    misslopez misslopez 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 30

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    TheDesireToDance TheDesireToDance 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I have been getting a lot of messages from

    older men, like waaaaay old. Their messages are disturbing and disgusting. I am not here to flirt or to talk d.irty with you. I already have a boyfriend.. it's been 4 years! So just to make sure everyone knows I'm not here to date.
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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