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I Am Not Here For Dating

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    I came to EP to get some perspective.

    ....find myself again and get oppinions from people..... I understand that most of the users on here have been bitten once or twice in their lives by dishonest individuals and I get that...I also realise that teust and underatnding is a huge problem.. .lok I dont trust...
    huckleberrybunches huckleberrybunches 36-40, M 7 Responses Jan 29

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    There is no reason for me to send you a pic.

    I'm not here to find some one just here to gain perspective. My heart , mind and soul just needs to mend. I need. to know who I am.
    space4rent space4rent 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I'm sorry but I'm not.

    .. I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2014

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    I'm really not. I am already in a relationship.

    I use EP to vent, or otherwise describe feelings I can't describe anywhere else. This is my outlet, kinda like how people use Tumblr for the same purpose. EP, however, has more meaning because people look at each other and what they're writing and instantly relate. That's why...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 23

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    I am not here for dating,

    from the start my aim on here was not dating or anything like that. My aim is still the same, I want to be able to open up, express my emotions and thoughts and then be able to talk about it with people. I enjoy this site for the fact I meet people from around the world, I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    I don't want the wrong attention from people on

    here, I'm talking to the men here. I like chatting normally but not with romantic interest. It's a good social experiment actually. I put up a picture of my face and I get tons of messages from men aged 13-60 all saying stuff about how I look..... But when my profile picture...
    AlliLittle AlliLittle 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 4

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    My Friends Beware Of Psychopaths And Narcissists

    There are alot of people here going through life changes and really need unselfish words of support kindness understanding respect someone to listen to them . Unfortunately many are coming out of troubled marriages or deciding on their futures and some have illnessess. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    And that's right. Peace,

    ✌️.
    UNDecodable UNDecodable 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Lmao thought this was funny.

    Apparently I "broke" his heart when I told him I had a boyfriend. Guess he expected me to be in love with him within the 5 minutes we knew each other. I swear some people on here...
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Guys. Stop messaging me with your creepy

    intentions. I'm 19. If you're a 38 year old man who just says "you're pretty" or "hi" I'm not going to respond. I'm here for confessions.
    mcshort6443 mcshort6443 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    And yet people keep asking me to send them

    photos and things... Sorry boys, I have a man.
    TenderBeauty TenderBeauty 26-30, F Feb 28

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    Honestly, I use EP as a place to chat with

    open-minded people and explore things I wouldn't anywhere else. The things I discuss and the things I learn on this site are things I wouldn't be comfortable discussing anywhere else. with that being said I'm not interested in starting a relationship with anyone on here, nor am...
    Becky555 Becky555 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1

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    I Think Online Dating Is Scary

    for me anyways. Who the hell knows that I can be match up with a rapist, a *******, a perverted person(not all perverts are nasty). Sexual sadist is scary too. I read a book about ten toxic men. That book was an eye opener for me. So stop asking and read this story for men are...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 30 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    I have been married for one year

    and I absolutely adore my husband! I'm not here for dating... I have stage IV breast cancer and am looking for folks who are in a similar situation or just like-minded. I'm looking for emotional support and would like to support others. <3
    Natassa1234 Natassa1234 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2014

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    enchantingjade enchantingjade 36-40 1 Response May 1

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    If you message me and get this disclaimer,

    don't be offended. I plan on sending it to everyone based on my experience on previous EP accounts.
    underlyinghonesty underlyinghonesty 22-25, F 1 Response May 2

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    Let's just get this clear.

    I am just here to share my experiences, answer questions, ask questions and make some friends maybe but NOT for a relationship.
    Anakalusmos Anakalusmos 18-21, F 3 Responses May 21

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    or marriage, I don't need creeps telling me

    that I am married to them or that my family gave me to them or any other crap like that
    EmoGirl286 EmoGirl286 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Well honestly, I came across this site by

    accident and not once did it occur to me that I could ever find someone who I could get involved with. It's improbable but not impossible yet it's just not what I'm here for. I just like this site cause it so resemble a blog-like social networking site and I intend to keep it...
    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Just Here To Be Me

    I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know. I also like the fact that there are other people who have the same thoughts and experiences which I thought I only had...
    2hot443 2hot443 41-45, M 8 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    I'm happily married and we are in love,

    We enjoy each other. Sex is over rated it's not the centre of our world just a part of it and need to be enjoyed and not become a slave to it. Life is good
    avachat avachat 51-55, M Apr 17

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    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated

    I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples' stories, which is interesting, and 90% of the people are really nice. And I'm also here to make friends from other countries (NOT american...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2007

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    Seriously, I normally don't put my actual

    picture on websites like these and the one time I do I get hit on by several different people asking me for my number and saying perverted things to me. I honestly don't care, I am here to say things that I have been through and be around people that have been through similar...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Why are so many men messaging me asking to be

    friends? I tried giving them the benefit of the doubt but invariably it turns to questions like would you like to have sex online or can i see your pic or why are u single? This is not what I joined this group. And as an Indian woman, I have to ask -- whats with all the Indian...
    ipshi ipshi 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm ok with people telling themselves in fake

    if it gets them to leave me alone with their continuous requests for what I've already deemed inappropriate.
    underlyinghonesty underlyinghonesty 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    Ya I'm not so stop it's starting to get dumb

    and no I don't give pics im 15! I know it says 18 but that's my fault. STOP
    Kingcow1234 Kingcow1234 18-21, M May 1

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    Well I just finished going through heartache

    with two members on here. I initially came on here just for friends and to vent but they wanted more. And because I wasn't ready things got messy. I'm just really upset now. And I plan on sticking with being completely platonic with everyone I encounter on this site for now on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Apr 12

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    I'm open for friendship,

    platonic friendships.
    MzOnceUponAtime MzOnceUponAtime 26-30, F 1 Response May 7

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    I am happily married.

    I am trying EP to find others with similar experiences.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 19

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    I signed up on EP to read

    and share experiences and stories. Have I missed the memo that this is actually a dating site? I've been receiving a number of messages recently that are suggestive of dating and sexual stuff. I am not interested in those things.
    thecasualdilettante thecasualdilettante 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Stop flirting with me.

    I don't understand why men think they'll get some from a girl they've met two minutes ago online.
    harhailija harhailija 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    miartsy miartsy 36-40, F 1 Response May 13

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    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    I am here to meet honest

    and wonderful new friends.
    InquiringMrW InquiringMrW 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Really, I'm not. Will I be/would I be/am I upset

    that I've connected with someone on that level? Nope.
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 Feb 28

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    Nope I'm already in a very happy

    and healthy relationship of almost 8 months. Only here when I need a friend to talk to and help others. I will not flirt, I will not send pics, and I will not give out any personal information. If I like talking to you as a friend, then I may give out my kik. But I'm not...
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F May 2

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    My first impression of EP is a place with people

    who can relate with your situations and would like to help brighten up one's day or be just friends. I'd like to keep it that way, please.
    Jojotron18 Jojotron18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Absolutely not ! Just random EP-ING good chat,

    giggles & learning, reading ...
    joophomme joophomme 46-50, M Apr 17

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    I am not here to date

    or meet anyone....i'm just here to chit chat and have a great fun time..please be respectful of it and it doesn't mean i won't be able to have fun or talk to you or anything...thank you!
    sweetasscandy36 sweetasscandy36 70+, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    ....."no" literally means "no.

    " not "ooh yeah baby show me your pinkie sized ****." it means "NO." -.-
    kinkystapler kinkystapler 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    It's not gonna happen.

    It really isn't. Le let it go. Le leave me Le lone :/
    MadNocturnes MadNocturnes 18-21, F Apr 20

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    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 14 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    This is definitely not a dating site.

    Some people just don't get it. I am here to make friends and find people who I relate to with similar interests.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I joined EP because it's a place I didn't know

    about it, so I thought I could have a good talk and share things. And I have met wonderful people in here, have had a good time. But I don't get when people tell me they are in love with me just after one day chatting or because they saw my picture. I'm not interested in...
    fabivalo fabivalo 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Feels Strange

    Have you ever connected on a nice friendly level with someone here on Ep, and been looking forward for good jokes, laughs and shared thoughts..? And then suddenly * poff* the ep member has disappeared without saying byebye ? It's like the ep member never existed, all comments and...
    susannagg susannagg 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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