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I Am Not Here For Dating

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    I'm engaged to be married to a wonderful man. I'm so happy.
    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Seriously, I normally don't put my actual picture on websites like these and the one time I do I get hit on by several different people asking me for my number and saying perverted...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I'm here to share experiences and use my voice. I would love to share stories and experiences with everyone but I am most definitely not here for dating. I'm in a very committed...
    blended4us blended4us 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Absolutely this! No dirty chat either. I have an amazing boyfriend and love him with all my heart.
    recoip recoip 16-17, F Apr 9

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    I'm here for lessons .& to be listen too
    Niieessha Niieessha 16-17, F Feb 24

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    I am not here for dating, from the start my aim on here was not dating or anything like that. My aim is still the same, I want to be able to open up, express my emotions and...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I am happily married and am not here for dating. I am here for friendship and writing stories. I also am here for support with my chronic health conditions. It helps knowing...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 3

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    It's true. EP community reminds each other all the time that this is not a dating site. I spend way too much time here and even managed to develop a crush on one of my friends...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 1 Response Jan 29

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    I am not using this app for dating or to meet anyone I don't believe in online dating or having online friends sorry :/ I just like to read others experiences and talk about my own...
    freochick freochick 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    No, I am not. I am happily taken, by a wonderful Dom. He allows me to use EP has an escape, but he has all my login information, and I trust him completely. So don't even bother...
    AlyAngel AlyAngel 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    My Friends Beware Of Psychopaths And Narcissists - There are alot of people here going through life changes and really need unselfish words of support kindness understanding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    At this point in my life I'm not interested in relationships. I'll be honest about what I do look for. I want intimate friendships preferably online and separate from my offline...
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    So don't ask!! If your main reason to talk to me is to find someone to date or to have sex chat with then I'm the wrong person for you, I'm not here to find love, I had a bad...
    Alitakate Alitakate 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Massage Magic - This past weekend me and my partner(sorry, she still wont let me use her name in my stories and I wont use a fake name) went to the Heartland Spa & Fitness Resort...
    wetsec wetsec 31-35, F 11 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    I Have Better Stuff To Do On Ep! - I don't know how you guys get it this way??!!!  I don’t know why many people on EP think that I’m here for that stuff!!! From where you got...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I don't want a date, a relationship or whatever around this. What I want is a friendship. If you don't here for friendship, don't talk with me please.
    WhatDontKillYou WhatDontKillYou 13-15, F Feb 9

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    AMEN TO THIS GROUP!! I like to talk to people, I enjoy talking, but I'm not big on talking and dating and flirting and please just no
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Lets be clear and draw the line !!!!
    enchantingjade enchantingjade 36-40 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Seriously! Sometimes I feel like this is reminiscent of the popular message boards in the late 90s where everything started with "hey baby - a/s/l?" I'm just here to chat with...
    justsleeplessme justsleeplessme 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I still think meeting people online makes me extremely awkward
    rachelle1972 rachelle1972 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Waking Up To Love - Last night my partner Krista came home from work, I was on the computer and was talking to people I have began to know here at EP, she came over and kissed me...
    wetsec wetsec 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    To all the creeps that add me to their circle sending innaprpoiate messages and asking me if I'm single .. I'm not single I'm in a relationship and even If I was I wouldn't date...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    No Dating - I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 21 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I don't want to date right now and certainly not online.
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Mar 16

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    Well i am **** you Blah blah blah Meh i am bored
    Zoce Zoce 18-21, M Feb 12

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    Just Here To Be Me - I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know...
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    Well i am **** you Blah blah blah Meh i am bored
    Zoce Zoce 18-21, M Feb 12

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    I am here to make some new friends that are going through what I am going through with a long distance relationship/ military relationship. I'm also here to help anyone with...
    beyourself22 beyourself22 18-21, F Jan 27

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    I Am Here To Write - I can accept that people like to write erotica, but don't be offended if I don't read it and rate it up. I really didn't come here for that. I came here to...
    jenimichel jenimichel 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Update To First Post... - Okay, Im still not here for dating. I don't have time for all that coming and going and going. No time to dress up for a guy or a girl. Just send me your...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Blindfolded Bliss - This past weekend was so good, in so many ways, first off, my beautiful partner moved into my house with me, I'd like to share with you a wild and exciting...
    wetsec wetsec 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Please.... - .....can you leave me alone. I dont mind talking to you about anything other than my private life. Please stop asking for photos. Please stop telling me how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 28, 2008

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    I'm sorry but I'm not... I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I joined this app because I wanted an open atmosphere so I could express what's been happening with me. I'm in therapy, I have friends, but somehow it's nicer to open up to...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm just here to talk to people , people that interest me really. No ; I don't want to be your BFF , I don't want to trade pics / video chat , and I sure don't want an LDR , or any...
    CrushOnPhilBrooks CrushOnPhilBrooks 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Lord knows how many people have asked me to date them or send nudes to them on this! I'm 15 alright? Don't ask don't message me if ur intentions are dirty ! I'm on here to share...
    Blueberrylulu Blueberrylulu 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Apologies To The Ladies On Here - On behalf of the guys who actualy want to help people and know that women are not instantly clamoring to be bedmates, I offer my sincere...
    popuptarget popuptarget 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Am Not Here For Dating. Seriously. Don't waste your time.
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am not here for dating,would just like to chat to people who are going through similar kind of situation as myself.So please i am asking kindly no flirting or asking for pics etc...
    Pinky1133 Pinky1133 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Guys. Stop messaging me with your creepy intentions. I'm 19. If you're a 38 year old man who just says "you're pretty" or "hi" I'm not going to respond. I'm here for confessions.
    mcshort6443 mcshort6443 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm here for escaping! 😎
    ifun6 ifun6 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Please try to be more original than "hello" if you take the time to message me. I see it as the equivalent of calling me in order to tell me you are calling. Give me something...
    pafforda pafforda 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I Think Online Dating Is Scary - for me anyways. Who the hell knows that I can be match up with a rapist, a *******, a perverted person(not all perverts are nasty). Sexual sadist...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 30 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    I'M Not Here For Dating - I luv my hubby very much.. Yes sometimes I talk crap when I get mad and we have gone through hell and back.. But he's the only one I want to be with that...
    prettygirl1982 prettygirl1982 31-35, F Nov 14, 2013

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    Jeez!!!! - I cannot stress enough to you "guys" i am NOT here for dating. I dont want to meet you, i dont want all the petty small talk leading up to you being a pervert. I just...
    bubbles899 bubbles899 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    I just want to make this clear! I am in a relationship with someone and have been for about six years. I am extremely happy with him and I wouldn't change a thing! I am just on...
    sweetsarahxo sweetsarahxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Apparently this is when people go, "oh never mind her, then".
    Akurou Akurou 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I don't wanna be mean but just saying!!
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F Feb 24

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    I am happily married and not here to romantically meet anyone! This includes sassy conversations and questions. I am simply here to meet people and make friends. If you message me...
    Collette85 Collette85 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    My first impression of EP is a place with people who can relate with your situations and would like to help brighten up one's day or be just friends. I'd like to keep it that way...
    Jojotron18 Jojotron18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated - I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples...
    whatsername whatsername 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2007