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I Am Not Here For Dating

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    I'm here for my own purposes,

    to find myself, converse, make friends and just have fun writing and expressing myself. I'm not here for 'hook ups', I'm not here to share pictures with strangers. Been there, done that, bought the postcard. I am more than happy with the love of my life, and I don't need...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    To all the creeps that add me to their circle

    sending innaprpoiate messages and asking me if I'm single .. I'm not single I'm in a relationship and even If I was I wouldn't date some random guy that I don't know . I'm not here for dating I'm on here to share my experiences not date and get weird messages please stop it's...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    This isn't a dating website.

    It'a a site to share experiences with others. I mean, for all I know, if I did want to date on here, I could be really talking to a 50 year old pervert rather then a person my age. Not everyone tells the truth about themselves on here. If you want to date on here, fine. But don...
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2014

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    I am not here to date

    or meet anyone....i'm just here to chit chat and have a great fun time..please be respectful of it and it doesn't mean i won't be able to have fun or talk to you or anything...thank you!
    sweetasscandy36 sweetasscandy36 70+, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    My Friends Beware Of Psychopaths And Narcissists

    There are alot of people here going through life changes and really need unselfish words of support kindness understanding respect someone to listen to them . Unfortunately many are coming out of troubled marriages or deciding on their futures and some have illnessess. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    Happily Married!!!???

    Its easier not to put a pic up, people won't really bother you if they aren't sure you're male or female, or attractive
    kjohn91792 kjohn91792 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Some people think EP is a dating site.

    Sorry to upset you but no...it's not. It a place to share stories and help others out. Stories about depression, loneliness, self harm, parenting, health issues, relationships (which can be anywhere between BF/GF, parents, teachers, best friends...etc) Armen Berjikly designed...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    Lord knows how many people have asked me to

    date them or send nudes to them on this! I'm 15 alright? Don't ask don't message me if ur intentions are dirty ! I'm on here to share thought not myself. I haven't even been asked in person ask much as here god!
    Blueberrylulu Blueberrylulu 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I can understand people wanting to find love

    online of course, but I am not on EP for dating myself, but just to chat and read the stories here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 2, 2014

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    Really, I'm not. Will I be/would I be/am I upset

    that I've connected with someone on that level? Nope.
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 2 days ago

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    Just Here To Be Me

    I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know. I also like the fact that there are other people who have the same thoughts and experiences which I thought I only had...
    2hot443 2hot443 41-45, M 8 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    happily ENGAGED with my CHILDRENS father.

    please only message me if you want to FRIENDLY talk. NO PERVS, CREEPS, etc -.- lol
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    Feels Strange

    Have you ever connected on a nice friendly level with someone here on Ep, and been looking forward for good jokes, laughs and shared thoughts..? And then suddenly * poff* the ep member has disappeared without saying byebye ? It's like the ep member never existed, all comments and...
    susannagg susannagg 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    And yet people keep asking me to send them

    photos and things... Sorry boys, I have a man.
    standingfirm standingfirm 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My first impression of EP is a place with people

    who can relate with your situations and would like to help brighten up one's day or be just friends. I'd like to keep it that way, please.
    Jojotron18 Jojotron18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Alright guys.... I am NOT here to date.

    . so keep profile surfing. :)
    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    My parents won't let me date

    until 16, I asked and my mom said just in case if I got pregnant or something, like seriously? Do they honestly believe that I'll just go have sex with the first guy I go out with. I'm smarter than that. I really am. It kinda makes me sad to think they feel that way about me..
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated

    I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples' stories, which is interesting, and 90% of the people are really nice. And I'm also here to make friends from other countries (NOT american...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2007

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    I'm here to share experiences

    and use my voice. I would love to share stories and experiences with everyone but I am most definitely not here for dating. I'm in a very committed very devoted relationship with a man I live and three kids to worry about. Love this app idea but didn't realize before signing up...
    blended4us blended4us 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    I came here to just make some friends.

    I already have a girlfriend and am very happy with her. I don't feel as if I should try and get another one haha.
    plantgoddess plantgoddess 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    A guy that I dated for a short

    while 5 years ago - that ended mutually- is still contacting me with strange text messages. He knows I am now married with children and have told him not to contact me only because he,s messages were all about how he still 'loves' me. He continues to message me from time to...
    leyla29 leyla29 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I'm not here for dating.

    . but if the right woman came along... I'd definitely be open to something more than an EP texting buddy
    AwesomeAlert AwesomeAlert 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    I am happily married.

    I am trying EP to find others with similar experiences.
    splntrd splntrd 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    I Think Online Dating Is Scary

    for me anyways. Who the hell knows that I can be match up with a rapist, a *******, a perverted person(not all perverts are nasty). Sexual sadist is scary too. I read a book about ten toxic men. That book was an eye opener for me. So stop asking and read this story for men are...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 30 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    So Ive just told a guy on EP

    that i wasnt here for dating (he asked if i was single and ready to mingle, come on w*f) and then, he blocked me. Niceee.
    MissPeruvian MissPeruvian 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    I've been single for awhile,

    and I have to say it's going very well... Like it's working out... I think I'm the one!!!
    AwesomeAlert AwesomeAlert 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I signed up on EP to read

    and share experiences and stories. Have I missed the memo that this is actually a dating site? I've been receiving a number of messages recently that are suggestive of dating and sexual stuff. I am not interested in those things.
    thecasualdilettante thecasualdilettante 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 19 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    To all the jerks out there,

    do not add me to your circle without my permission. Also I am not here for dating or what I would call man's shallow understanding of love. I'm just here to share my experiences and pour my heart out and lend a helping ear to those who need it.
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Seriously! Sometimes I feel like this is

    reminiscent of the popular message boards in the late 90s where everything started with "hey baby - a/s/l?" I'm just here to chat with interesting people not start online carousing :)
    justsleeplessme justsleeplessme 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 14, 2014

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    I have no interest in dating.

    None. So if you want to have a fun conversation about Rick and Morty, or Batman, feel free to message me. If you want to flirt, message someone else. Flirting makes me uncomfortable, and I will not hesitate to tell you to stop. And for the love of all things good in the world...
    ADawnS ADawnS 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I'M Not Here For Dating

    I luv my hubby very much.. Yes sometimes I talk crap when I get mad and we have gone through hell and back.. But he's the only one I want to be with that's a man.. He's my everything.. So just because I get lonely Doesn't mean I'm looking else where.. So please don't contact me...
    prettygirl1982 prettygirl1982 31-35, F Nov 14, 2013

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    I came to EP to get some perspective.

    ....find myself again and get oppinions from people..... I understand that most of the users on here have been bitten once or twice in their lives by dishonest individuals and I get that...I also realise that teust and underatnding is a huge problem.. .lok I dont trust...
    huckleberrybunches huckleberrybunches 36-40, M 6 Responses Jan 29

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    Not Here To Date ....

    This App is Making Me think that People On Here Just Trying To Get Some Instead Of Actually Been A Friend ..Someone Mention a to Me If i was Having this problem maybe I should take down my picture ...WHATTT WHY I REFUSE TO DO SO YOU ALL NEED TO LEARN TO RESPECT AND IF YOU WANNA...
    misslopez misslopez 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I post that I'm in a committed relationship

    and it's like "Did I read no relationship?! No? Good enough!" Honestly, cut it out guys. Even if I rant, he's the love of my life. I wouldn't drop him for some random creep on here. It's aggravating! Oh, and then I get asked if I'm sure. YES, GET OUT OF MY FACE. I don't care...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2014

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    someonelikeyou9 someonelikeyou9 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I'm sorry but I'm not.

    .. I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2014

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    This statement is so true.

    If I wanted to date, the absolute LAST place I'd want to go is EP where the entire site is designed to attract and get people to talk about their issues and thoughts. Don't get me wrong, I totally like the weirdos (and am one myself), but its a pretty terrible dating pool...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    I truly am not. No, my marriage isn't ideal

    and you can see certain experiences on my list that may give the impression that I may be looking for something ... but I'm not here to date or flirt. I'm lonely and I need a safe outlet to share stories and make new friends. So please, as flattering as it is, I'm uncomfortable...
    RunHardEatCupcakes RunHardEatCupcakes 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    Guys. Stop messaging me with your creepy

    intentions. I'm 19. If you're a 38 year old man who just says "you're pretty" or "hi" I'm not going to respond. I'm here for confessions.
    mcshort6443 mcshort6443 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    It makes me mad when people ask to date you on

    this website. Like "Hey your cute will you be my girlfriend?" Like damn bruhh. Chill out! I don't really like letting people talk to because tbh I know they'll leave me soon. I know I'll end up being forgotten. Why put myself thru that pain? I gave up on people a long one ago...
    RaisedByTheWolves RaisedByTheWolves 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    Just Saying. I am already engaged

    and I am not interested in dating. I just came here to find like-minded people whom I can converse and become friends with ^^vI was part of a social community like this before but sadly, the app developer closed it down last year. I made great friends there whom some I have...
    inkspensandpapers inkspensandpapers 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    TheDesireToDance TheDesireToDance 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    I don't want the wrong attention from people on

    here, I'm talking to the men here. I like chatting normally but not with romantic interest. It's a good social experiment actually. I put up a picture of my face and I get tons of messages from men aged 13-60 all saying stuff about how I look..... But when my profile picture...
    AlliLittle AlliLittle 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 4

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