I Am Not Here For Dating

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10,055 People

    So please, please- anyone

    that may potentially message me... I am exclusively looking for platonic friendship here. Nothing else.
    Jaideiris Jaideiris
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015
    enchantingjade enchantingjade
    36-40
    May 1, 2015

    Why don't some people read other's profiles

    more thoroughly?? I'm so sick of being propositioned for dating/relationships. I only want to make friends. I wasn't interested in dating/relationships when I first joined EP & I sure as hell ain't interested in it now.
    nightowl2015 nightowl2015
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    I hate it when people contact me "looking

    for a girlfriend". This is Experience Project, not e-frikken-Harmony.
    CarverReturns CarverReturns
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 20

    I joined EP because it's a place I didn't know

    about it, so I thought I could have a good talk and share things. And I have met wonderful people in here, have had a good time. But I don't get when people tell me they are in love with me just after one day chatting or because they saw my picture. I'm not interested in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    No, I'm not... But l like chatting with my

    buddies on here, married or not!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    If you are wanting anything at all from me,

    just don't write. I'm not here to date anyone or for chatting about stuff that turns you on. In fact, I don't even really want to chat at all. I don't want to see your pictures. I don't want to hear about your desire. So why are you here, you ask? Here is the answer: because I...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jan 4

    I just sign up and I already had 12 people

    asking for pictures. WTF?!?
    LadyLoveLives LadyLoveLives
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 24

    In case anyone is confused,

    this is not a dating site and my profile is not for review for a potential hook up. I'm here for me. I'm here for an escape. I'm here because I have no where else to dump the turmoil that's brewing in my mind and heart. Please be respectful. Please use common sense. Please be...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    12 Responses Nov 7, 2015
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015

    Lmao thought this was funny.

    Apparently I "broke" his heart when I told him I had a boyfriend. Guess he expected me to be in love with him within the 5 minutes we knew each other. I swear some people on here...
    BeautifulSoul09 BeautifulSoul09
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2015

    here to share experiences

    and give advice where i can. that is all.
    Sbabyface Sbabyface
    26-30, F
    Dec 29, 2015

    I'm here to talk about things I can't talk

    about often with people in my "real everyday life". I'm here to share experiences. But I'm in a committed relationship 🙂.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 9

    I came to EP to get some perspective.

    ....find myself again and get oppinions from people..... I understand that most of the users on here have been bitten once or twice in their lives by dishonest individuals and I get that...I also realise that teust and underatnding is a huge problem.. .lok I dont trust...
    huckleberrybunches huckleberrybunches
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Jan 29, 2015

    Look, don't mean to be brutal,

    but don't ask me for a date or a relationship because that's not what I'm on EP for. I'm only here for friendship and that's all so don't ask me to be your girlfriend. I'm ok with being friends though. Sorry but I dont do online dating or long distant; besides I'm not in a rush...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    I ain't here for dating!

    Please stop messaging me for role play , sex chats, or even ask for naked pics. For goodness sake find a suitable website for that.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 9

    I'm involved with someone,

    and I'm happy... very happy. I do not want to send or receive naked pics. If you message me, I'm probably going to ignore you if we don't have anything in common (I will read your profile first). I don't want to come across as rude, because I'm really not, but this stuff is...
    TheGoddessB TheGoddessB
    31-35, F
    Oct 24, 2015

    "Sorry, I have a boyfriend.

    " "...But you can cheat? " *Facepalm* -5 points for humanity.
    PilotInCommand PilotInCommand
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    I'm not interested in hooking up with anyone

    here on EP. It's quite apparent that people don't even look at my profile before contacting me. I'm married, I love my husband and I'm not here for sexy talk. I'm here to connect with people intellectually. I don't judge those who are here to hook up, I believe it's best to...
    SadPanda35 SadPanda35
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Aug 13, 2015
    iReallyLoveJorgie iReallyLoveJorgie
    16-17, F
    1 Response a week ago

    But I do welcome insightful intelligent

    conversations on sensitive/private subjects with confidently smart, mature, and respectful folks who know how to contribute ideas in the public forum. (For those who are just dying to be relieved and want nothing but temporary physical satisfaction, I welcome those, too. Just...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 22, 2015
    TValentine TValentine
    56-60, M
    Mar 30

    I'm really not. I am already in a relationship.

    I use EP to vent, or otherwise describe feelings I can't describe anywhere else. This is my outlet, kinda like how people use Tumblr for the same purpose. EP, however, has more meaning because people look at each other and what they're writing and instantly relate. That's why...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2015

    I have been here some time,

    and I have had my fair share of “EP romances”, but they have all blown up in my face. Sometimes I just want to have intelligent conversations with people. I am so tired of people befriending me for a specific person. If that is all you want, move along son. I am not...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 19

    It's sort of disheartening to receive messages

    and circle adds from people who have never even took the time to read my experiences. I'm all for having a conversation about something that pertains to what I've posted, but the random "what's up's" seem counter active to learning and understanding one another. The funny...
    mysticmissy mysticmissy
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    I am here to ask advice

    and give advice and make friends online nothing more
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015
    ATVgirl6934 ATVgirl6934
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    When a guy calls you pretty,

    He's looking good at your face. When a guy calls you hot, he's looking at your body. When a guy calls you beautiful, he's looking at your heart. All 3 guys still want to **** you, though.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    Don't email me for dating,

    relationship or sex. I'm happily married.
    Glassshoes Glassshoes
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 4

    Please be respectful of me.

    I already have a boyfriend and I actually do love him very much and am probably few of the many people in this world that remains faithful these days but do not go ahead and ask for pictures or to cheat or anything stupid. I am happy with the man I am with I am only on this...
    StephiiLovexo StephiiLovexo
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    If you want to date someone then go to a dating

    site, not a place meant for people to share their experiences and thoughts.
    Ominousity Ominousity
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher
    41-45, F
    12 Responses Mar 18, 2013

    Honestly, I use EP as a place to chat with

    open-minded people and explore things I wouldn't anywhere else. The things I discuss and the things I learn on this site are things I wouldn't be comfortable discussing anywhere else. with that being said I'm not interested in starting a relationship with anyone on here, nor am...
    Becky555 Becky555
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 1, 2015

    Ok, how are they sure I'm not some cyclope with

    tentacles with 74mouths to feed (yeah, they are just 10 babies, but each one has 7.4 mouths) I've 4 groups here to indicate this and there's still people who add me for it! I agree with friendship and all, but seriously: what the hell? If I were to look for a relationship...
    oneiric13 oneiric13
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 21, 2015

    Hmm, well yeah I wanted to meet some cool

    and good friends but no pervs. I use this as a platform to learn new things and meet kind hearted people, not creeps, pervs and fake accounts.
    iamaprincess12 iamaprincess12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 11

    I am not on here for dating.

    I am on here to make friends.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 2

    I AM NOT HERE FOR DATING OR FLIRTING OR

    FLIRTING OR DATING! THE END.
    Kornisone Kornisone
    26-30, F
    Feb 6

    I at least think this site is made

    for a reason, which isn't dating. There are plenty of other sites for that anyway. Besides, some of them are for the purpose of dating and relationships; not this one.
    JK7452 JK7452
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2015

    Ahem... please consider this my featured story.

    I love the concept of EP. I love the idea of thousands of people, gathering together to share their stories and experiences, and the fact that we're given a forum to respond to these experiences, ask questions, and relate to one another. That's what I'm here for. I'm here to...
    wtfgirl001 wtfgirl001
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    ....."no" literally means "no.

    " not "ooh yeah baby show me your pinkie sized ****." it means "NO." -.-
    kinkystapler kinkystapler
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2015
    PhinheasGage PhinheasGage
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Mar 2

    I'm not here for dating

    or anything like that I'm just here to talk and make friends end of story.
    ZingySpirit ZingySpirit
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated

    I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples' stories, which is interesting, and 90% of the people are really nice. And I'm also here to make friends from other countries (NOT american...
    whatsername whatsername
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 20, 2007
    tattoochick94 tattoochick94
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 10

    The amount of men who have contacted me on here

    supposedly interested in making me their new girlfriend is astonishing... How interested are you really when you don't even bother to look through the profile of the person you're asking for a date? You'd figure if they were serious, they would make an effort to get to know you...
    CarverReturns CarverReturns
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 17

    I am only 18 months out of a 22 year old

    marriage and 24 year old relationship. The break-up was not mutual - only he wanted it so to say the least I am still coming to terms with that. I am in no way, shape or form ready or wanting a romantic relationship at this time in my life. What can I say except that my heart...
    Alleygirltoo Alleygirltoo
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Feb 6

    I'm happily married ,

    I'm on here to meet people and make friends
    jayjay388 jayjay388
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 17

    I don't want the wrong attention from people on

    here, I'm talking to the men here. I like chatting normally but not with romantic interest. It's a good social experiment actually. I put up a picture of my face and I get tons of messages from men aged 13-60 all saying stuff about how I look..... But when my profile picture...
    AlliLittle AlliLittle
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2015

    I'm sorry but I'm not.

    .. I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2014

    For **** sake. I'm not here

    for dating or to sex chats or anything like that. I am searching for platonic friends but somehow these people keep finding me.
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 7, 2015

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