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I Am Not Here For Dating

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    Alright guys.... I am NOT here to date.

    . so keep profile surfing. :)
    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I am not here to date

    or meet anyone....i'm just here to chit chat and have a great fun time..please be respectful of it and it doesn't mean i won't be able to have fun or talk to you or anything...thank you!
    sweetasscandy36 sweetasscandy36 70+, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Seriously, I normally don't put my actual

    picture on websites like these and the one time I do I get hit on by several different people asking me for my number and saying perverted things to me. I honestly don't care, I am here to say things that I have been through and be around people that have been through similar...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I'm really not. I am already in a relationship.

    I use EP to vent, or otherwise describe feelings I can't describe anywhere else. This is my outlet, kinda like how people use Tumblr for the same purpose. EP, however, has more meaning because people look at each other and what they're writing and instantly relate. That's why...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Just Saying. I am already engaged

    and I am not interested in dating. I just came here to find like-minded people whom I can converse and become friends with ^^vI was part of a social community like this before but sadly, the app developer closed it down last year. I made great friends there whom some I have...
    inkspensandpapers inkspensandpapers 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Guys. Stop messaging me with your creepy

    intentions. I'm 19. If you're a 38 year old man who just says "you're pretty" or "hi" I'm not going to respond. I'm here for confessions.
    mcshort6443 mcshort6443 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    I have been married for one year

    and I absolutely adore my husband! I'm not here for dating... I have stage IV breast cancer and am looking for folks who are in a similar situation or just like-minded. I'm looking for emotional support and would like to support others. <3
    Natassa1234 Natassa1234 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2014

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    I signed up on EP to read

    and share experiences and stories. Have I missed the memo that this is actually a dating site? I've been receiving a number of messages recently that are suggestive of dating and sexual stuff. I am not interested in those things.
    thecasualdilettante thecasualdilettante 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    My parents won't let me date

    until 16, I asked and my mom said just in case if I got pregnant or something, like seriously? Do they honestly believe that I'll just go have sex with the first guy I go out with. I'm smarter than that. I really am. It kinda makes me sad to think they feel that way about me..
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    There is no reason for me to send you a pic.

    I'm not here to find some one just here to gain perspective. My heart , mind and soul just needs to mend. I need. to know who I am.
    space4rent space4rent 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    No Dating

    I am merely here for meaningless sexual advances and flirting. Yes, of course nude pictures are acceptable....but no dating! What do you think I am??
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 14 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    A guy that I dated for a short

    while 5 years ago - that ended mutually- is still contacting me with strange text messages. He knows I am now married with children and have told him not to contact me only because he,s messages were all about how he still 'loves' me. He continues to message me from time to...
    leyla29 leyla29 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    or marriage, I don't need creeps telling me

    that I am married to them or that my family gave me to them or any other crap like that
    EmoGirl286 EmoGirl286 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I have no interest in dating.

    None. So if you want to have a fun conversation about Rick and Morty, or Batman, feel free to message me. If you want to flirt, message someone else. Flirting makes me uncomfortable, and I will not hesitate to tell you to stop. And for the love of all things good in the world...
    ADawnS ADawnS 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Nah, Online Dating = Over Rated

    I am here only because I can be totally anonymous and can share stories, without people ever finding out it was me. I can read other peoples' stories, which is interesting, and 90% of the people are really nice. And I'm also here to make friends from other countries (NOT american...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2007

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    I'm here for my own purposes,

    to find myself, converse, make friends and just have fun writing and expressing myself. I'm not here for 'hook ups', I'm not here to share pictures with strangers. Been there, done that, bought the postcard. I am more than happy with the love of my life, and I don't need...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    Why are so many men messaging me asking to be

    friends? I tried giving them the benefit of the doubt but invariably it turns to questions like would you like to have sex online or can i see your pic or why are u single? This is not what I joined this group. And as an Indian woman, I have to ask -- whats with all the Indian...
    ipshi ipshi 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    ....."no" literally means "no.

    " not "ooh yeah baby show me your pinkie sized ****." it means "NO." -.-
    kinkystapler kinkystapler 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    Lord knows how many people have asked me to

    date them or send nudes to them on this! I'm 15 alright? Don't ask don't message me if ur intentions are dirty ! I'm on here to share thought not myself. I haven't even been asked in person ask much as here god!
    Blueberrylulu Blueberrylulu 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I Think Online Dating Is Scary

    for me anyways. Who the hell knows that I can be match up with a rapist, a *******, a perverted person(not all perverts are nasty). Sexual sadist is scary too. I read a book about ten toxic men. That book was an eye opener for me. So stop asking and read this story for men are...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 30 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    I'm happily married and we are in love,

    We enjoy each other. Sex is over rated it's not the centre of our world just a part of it and need to be enjoyed and not become a slave to it. Life is good
    avachat avachat 51-55, M Apr 17

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    I've been single for awhile,

    and I have to say it's going very well... Like it's working out... I think I'm the one!!!
    AwesomeAlert AwesomeAlert 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Really, I'm not. Will I be/would I be/am I upset

    that I've connected with someone on that level? Nope.
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 Feb 28

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    So Ive just told a guy on EP

    that i wasnt here for dating (he asked if i was single and ready to mingle, come on w*f) and then, he blocked me. Niceee.
    UNDecodable UNDecodable 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Some people think EP is a dating site.

    Sorry to upset you but no...it's not. It a place to share stories and help others out. Stories about depression, loneliness, self harm, parenting, health issues, relationships (which can be anywhere between BF/GF, parents, teachers, best friends...etc) Armen Berjikly designed...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M Jan 10

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    And that's right. Peace,

    ✌️.
    UNDecodable UNDecodable 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Happily Married!!!???

    Its easier not to put a pic up, people won't really bother you if they aren't sure you're male or female, or attractive
    kjohn91792 kjohn91792 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    My Friends Beware Of Psychopaths And Narcissists

    There are alot of people here going through life changes and really need unselfish words of support kindness understanding respect someone to listen to them . Unfortunately many are coming out of troubled marriages or deciding on their futures and some have illnessess. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I'm here to share experiences

    and use my voice. I would love to share stories and experiences with everyone but I am most definitely not here for dating. I'm in a very committed very devoted relationship with a man I live and three kids to worry about. Love this app idea but didn't realize before signing up...
    blended4us blended4us 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    Absolutely not ! Just random EP-ING good chat,

    giggles & learning, reading ...
    joophomme joophomme 46-50, M Apr 17

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    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    My first impression of EP is a place with people

    who can relate with your situations and would like to help brighten up one's day or be just friends. I'd like to keep it that way, please.
    Jojotron18 Jojotron18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    I am here to meet honest

    and wonderful new friends.
    InquiringMrW InquiringMrW 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Well I just finished going through heartache

    with two members on here. I initially came on here just for friends and to vent but they wanted more. And because I wasn't ready things got messy. I'm just really upset now. And I plan on sticking with being completely platonic with everyone I encounter on this site for now on...
    niceintrovertedwoman niceintrovertedwoman 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 12

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    rheahead rheahead 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    Feels Strange

    Have you ever connected on a nice friendly level with someone here on Ep, and been looking forward for good jokes, laughs and shared thoughts..? And then suddenly * poff* the ep member has disappeared without saying byebye ? It's like the ep member never existed, all comments and...
    susannagg susannagg 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Lmao thought this was funny.

    Apparently I "broke" his heart when I told him I had a boyfriend. Guess he expected me to be in love with him within the 5 minutes we knew each other. I swear some people on here...
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    This is definitely not a dating site.

    Some people just don't get it. I am here to make friends and find people who I relate to with similar interests.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I came to EP to get some perspective.

    ....find myself again and get oppinions from people..... I understand that most of the users on here have been bitten once or twice in their lives by dishonest individuals and I get that...I also realise that teust and underatnding is a huge problem.. .lok I dont trust...
    huckleberrybunches huckleberrybunches 36-40, M 7 Responses Jan 29

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    Just Here To Be Me

    I am not here to meet people either. you really don't know who you are talking too. I came here to be able to express myself the way I can't with people I know. I also like the fact that there are other people who have the same thoughts and experiences which I thought I only had...
    2hot443 2hot443 41-45, M 8 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    I am happily married.

    I am trying EP to find others with similar experiences.
    splntrd splntrd 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    I came here to just make some friends.

    I already have a girlfriend and am very happy with her. I don't feel as if I should try and get another one haha.
    plantgoddess plantgoddess 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I'm sorry but I'm not.

    .. I just want to meet people, not send nudie pics or have dirty conversation. There are **** sites for you perves
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2014

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    It's not gonna happen.

    It really isn't. Le let it go. Le leave me Le lone :/
    MadNocturnes MadNocturnes 18-21, F a week ago

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    I'M Not Here For Dating

    I luv my hubby very much.. Yes sometimes I talk crap when I get mad and we have gone through hell and back.. But he's the only one I want to be with that's a man.. He's my everything.. So just because I get lonely Doesn't mean I'm looking else where.. So please don't contact me...
    prettygirl1982 prettygirl1982 31-35, F Nov 14, 2013

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