I Am Not Here For Sex Chat

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    What is with the young men of the world in my

    inbox? I'm not going to be able to participate. I'd rather have someone in my inbox who has something real to say other than hello. I can't work with hello or hi. A few times there have been some clever people send messages and I'll read and not respond. It doesn't mean I...
    Jennerrous Jennerrous
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    I have a question for all the guys here: Is it

    chatting boring if the topic is not about sexual/intimate chat? Because I noticed guys seems not interested to chat or talk if the topic is not sexual.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    I'm a fairly straightforward person.

    I make it clear, before I regularly continue to converse with users, that I am not (repeat, NOT!) looking for sexual chat, video chat, favors, pictures, etc. Why, then, do people think they can just ease their way in by becoming a "friend" and then navigating towards sex? Like...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2014

    Yep. Whenever i got msg here.

    I kinda afraid to rply it. Pervs everywhere.
    daneean daneean
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    I don't mind talking sexual

    but I enjoy talking about other things too :)
    Ashley2K14 Ashley2K14
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2014
    liveforever1 liveforever1
    22-25, F
    May 10, 2014

    Nothing more needs to be said.

    That statement pretty much explains it all. If you feel the same, leave a comment :-)
    EtherealEquinox EtherealEquinox
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2014

    It disgusts so much when someone contacts you

    for sex chats I absolutely hate such perverted people
    CastleFreak CastleFreak
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 12, 2014

    I got to thinking about what it is I actually

    want out of EP. My profile basically is made up of these two "interests" that weigh heavily on my personal life, but have always been way to embarrassing to ever let anyone find out. For the most part, I've kept these secret "interests" just that, a secret. That is until I...
    Firefighter343 Firefighter343
    26-30, M
    Jul 11, 2014

    Husband wants me to wear a *****

    for him should I worry or should I even ask
    ldyfubar ldyfubar
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

    Please don't add me if you want to sext.

    There are other websites for that, anyway.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 10, 2013

    Please don't bother me with your sexual needs .

    I'm not interested in it . Thanks
    deleted deleted
    May 20, 2015

    nope..nope...nope...sorry guy

    and gals ..please don't let my experiences fool you..because i'll let you down ever time...i'm really a super chill person and sex talk is not even on my top least favorite things too do..i don't even think about it...as my father would say its all about timing..and usually when...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl
    70+, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2015

    It seem like almost every message I get leads

    to some kind of perversion. Well I'm here now to set the record straight once and for all. I am in a relationship to which I do value. Have been for 16 years. I am only on here to either vent or obtain pure, sincere friendships. I will not accept any invitations to Skype or to...
    some1sDEZTINY some1sDEZTINY
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2014

    Leave Me Alone

    If you want to sex chat go somewhere else
    ablford36 ablford36
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Sep 26, 2012

    Hi I am here because i am facing a dark side of

    life and i need to cry my heart out. And to read other people's stories, and hope i can learn some things from them. Some of you are kind and supporting, but it is a shame that some others look for a dirty chat and or dates.. I am not here to find dates (there are plenty of...
    flyingviking flyingviking
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2014

    I'm not here to entertain talk about sex their

    are sites for that this site is for people who have issues, questions about how to make their life better, advice , or chat to all the pervs the sites you seek are called **** sites, it sickens me that their is so much **** here
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    Everything u say on ep to some people is sexual.

    4kidsplus1 4kidsplus1
    26-30, F
    Oct 25, 2014

    I have no ideal why some think

    that just because i am a member here and a female that i am for sex chat.I have been told by those making the "request" that this is an adult site and if i did want to participate then i should leave the site.I do not recall reading this and asked where this is posted so i may...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 6, 2016

    Obviously I'm a total weirdo

    but I dont use the internet for sexual gratification. I prefer real people for physical contact. I like to interact online to learn new things, discuss music, and generally see what's up. Clearly I'm completely uncool for thinking that talking about sex with strangers is LAME AS...
    sunny875 sunny875
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2014
    deleted deleted
    Sep 4, 2014

    Simple as that! I am not here

    for that so please do not inbox me with that thought on your mind. I enjoy chats & in-depth conversation & am open to any type of discussion as long as it is kept clean & appropriate. I do not hesitate to block or report those who are offensive to me. I can respect you so I...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2015


    I'm here to meet new people,use the site,make friends,write stories.
    iwanttobeafashionesigner iwanttobeafashionesigner
    26-30, F
    Aug 23, 2013

    Please don't send me dirty messages.

    I'm not interested in talking to you about my panties or any other weird subjects you come up with. I don't want to talk about sex, fetishes, fantasies etc. thank you
    guideme2truth guideme2truth
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2014
    deleted deleted
    May 26, 2015

    My Husband Is A Liar

    My husband secretly created an account on here and put that he wasn't interested in sex chat but he has fallen in love with someone that he has been emailing for 6 months and they have been having intimate chats. I have now lost my husband to this woman as I just can't fight...
    shysecret2012 shysecret2012
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 15, 2013

    Anyone else on EP just to make new friends?

    I won't send or receive body pics! I'm not on here for that crap!
    PurdyHeart PurdyHeart
    31-35, F
    Jun 25, 2015

    After when you guys are done with commenting on

    my pics, and Q/A ... I would like you to read this for sure.. Thanks ;)
    donotfollowme donotfollowme
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    I have been on this site

    for about six months. Maybe three times a week, I get a friend invite from a lady between 19 and 25. Saying how alone they are and they were hurt in the past. They have never been married etc. I usually just delete. However a couple times I played along. In chat saying wow...
    Dlgadlga Dlgadlga
    56-60, M
    Jul 17, 2014

    Please do not message me asking

    for pictures, my measurements, or anything sexually inviting. However, I am willing to give relationship/sex advice if it is asked in a respectable and mature manner.
    imallnat imallnat
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 19, 2014

    Wouldn't It Be Nice If ...

    Wouldn't it be nice if there was a website like this one where people gathered to talk, share ideas, stories, and experiences, and nobody thought you were here to find someone to have sex with? I'm certain that sites exist on the web devoted to only THAT! Dating sites, sex sites...
    kiansi kiansi
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

    No *Smacks Hand*

    That is very bad. NO Sex Talk. NO U:< I don't cyber or skype cam sex or any of that sh*t so If you want it, just leave. -_- I don't mind some perversion and fun chatting but I don't want your 1 inch peen in my virtual goodies. o-o Kay.
    AreYouMadCool AreYouMadCool
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jun 17, 2013

    If you wanna have a nice chat hit me up.

    If you wanna send me unclothed pics, don't bother.
    h4ll h4ll
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2014

    Nothing At All

    I'm here to meet new people, to read new experiences, so don't even think about those thing with me. The end !
    Moondance77 Moondance77
    26-30, F
    Nov 2, 2013

    I am not on this site

    for anything sexual - I am here to talk to people and share experiences - nothing more and I would like people to respect that please :)
    dreamwithme55 dreamwithme55
    22-25, F
    Apr 28, 2014
    Yyntnt80 Yyntnt80
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2014

    Haven't have sex while my life ?

    I want to try !! I'm 18 years old
    frsrs frsrs
    22-25, M
    Apr 24, 2014

    So this one day i was using EP then came this

    message that said " hey i love young gurls n wanna chat" fortunately i was bored so i told myself theirs no harm replying then i replied " oh yea so u married ? " he said yes. Then i replied again n said " then go n **** ur wife " hahahahaha n OMG he still replied n said " yea i...
    ziiizaaa ziiizaaa
    22-25, F
    Dec 1, 2013

    Yes and you got no right to bore me with your

    "hi dear,are you feeling lonely?" kinda stupid pick up lines!!!! I am not here to have sex chats if I need it I will go to a **** site and I advise you to do the same!! :)
    lonelysoulPam lonelysoulPam
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2014
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014

    Not that I don't do it.

    ....It's fun for me but it's not the only reason I joined. I love chatting and relating with people on different topics. Everything in moderation. So don't discount me if you see some sexy stuff on my profile. I'm also a daughter, a sister, a wife and a mother.
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 29, 2014
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