I Am Not Here For Sex

I'm here to make friends. 2,045 People

    Just because I talk about it doesn't mean I

    want to do it with random strangers. Sexuality is an important part of my life and so I share about it just like any other experience, but I don't do casual sex.
    softbunny6 softbunny6
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    Simple really. One in five women over the age

    of fifty - menopause - lose their libido, and I happen to be in that one fifth. The hormones drop and there is simply no desire. One way it manifests- a man whose traits happened to match my taste preferences could, when I was young, without a thought trigger a flood of...
    hartfire hartfire
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2016

    I appreciate comments,

    but seriously though, I'm not looking for anything. I just want to express my emotions and issues and call it a day. If I want to f#ck I got a guy in real life for that, actually. I don't need unfulfilling skype or kik s3x. Thank you, be on your way.
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    Aug 27, 2014

    Please, for the love of God,

    don't message me if all you're gonna do is flirt with me and/or ask for pics. That is NOT why I'm here. I'm not interested in anything except friendship and more importantly, guidance. It's to the point where I don't wanna even reply to anyone anymore because 97% of the time it...
    KaylaNicole93 KaylaNicole93
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    Just because I'm not getting it on in my

    marriage does not mean I want to be hit up by strange men to engage in adult talk! Lol. It's just not my thing. But if it's your thing, cool . Just please do not message me with it! I am not interested. And no, we cannot start off small and work our way up to it!
    deleted deleted
    Mar 10, 2015

    But I'm not going to lie,

    I won't say no if the topic comes up.
    BladeofSilver BladeofSilver
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    Or to hook up, no cybering,

    meeting up, going on dates. or anything besides TALKING ONLINE. nothing else. i will not be your online girlfriend to meet you eventually at a later date, do not even ask. i will probably block you if you persist and ask me for any of this more than once. especially if i get...
    violet1698 violet1698
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    I'm only here because it's

    where I can express my feelings without restrictions. I want to share my experiences with people and have deep conversations with them. I am not interested in dating or cyber sex or anything even remotely related to that.
    Offing Offing
    22-25, F
    Oct 31, 2014

    Practically got it written on my forehead.

    Stop hitting on me u pervy men! Mention sex to me n u will be not blocked but reported!
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread
    22-25, F
    May 26, 2014
    deleted deleted
    Jun 5, 2015

    There are so many thirsty people on here.

    Like 10 guys have blocked me since I became a member, which was YESTERDAY, because I wouldn't encourage them. That's pretty sad lol.
    Wallybaby Wallybaby
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 7, 2016

    I am not here for sex.

    I am here to make friends, express, myself and help people in anyway can. But if any straight or bi sexual female want to I am happy to try and oblige and probably could provided they are open-minded and patient.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus
    26-30, M
    Jun 22, 2015

    And That Is The Absolute Truth!

    EP for me, 'personally' is not a place for interacting with people in a sexual manner. I am personally not interested in 'sex talk' with any member here. For me, I am here to make friends and talk about what are to me, more important thins in life. For me, there is jut far so...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 17, 2013


    Before you even ask I am going to say no! I am not here for sex and I never will be. I got this account so I show people what I have been through and to even help them and me. DON'T EVEN BOTHER ASKING! First off I have a girlfriend, and second that stuff is BS!
    Ice95 Ice95
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

    Ok a dude sent me a pic of his junk.

    Hey dude, i don't want wanna see that. That's nasty. And it was small. So don't send me pics of that please. That's all.
    Wallybaby Wallybaby
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2016


    I am totally here for naked pics of farm animals.
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    I don't mind reading/talking about it

    and sharing my experience and confessing but no, I do not want to meet you for sex. Not judging those who are here for sex but I'm not here for that.
    PoutsandTears PoutsandTears
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2014

    Gimmie A Break

    C'mon people you all know I flirt but that's all I do. I have a wonderful man in my life and I am not here for sex of any kind...If you want to cut the fool and have fun feel free but if you are after anything but good ole friendship just don't bother....I love to flirt but it is...
    vickieprince vickieprince
    56-60, F
    33 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    Clearly you can see by the picture I chose

    for my profile picture :)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 17, 2014

    I'd really like to talk to people

    who aren't only looking for sex. How about a great conversation? How about looking at each other's profiles and talking about similar interests?
    mslannah mslannah
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 11, 2015

    Not interested in virtual bullshit.

    Don't want nudes. Don't send nudes. I'm here to talk about life experiences and to vent.
    csend csend
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2016

    If I wanted sex id go out n get it with my

    boyfriend! Why do men automatically presume that's what a woman's here for?
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 18, 2014

    Is it just me or from what I've read

    so far, but near everyhing on here relates back to sex? Like yeah it's human nature and it's fun and all but can't they just find a dating site or something else to explore that avenue?
    skot690 skot690
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 6, 2014

    Don't Add Me If This Is Your Intentions

    Do I really need to say more?
    Wurkoutgurl Wurkoutgurl
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

    I'm here to share experiences

    and make connections with people. Using this website for the purpose of getting one's rocks off is like walking into a lush garden replete with fruits and vegetables and... playing with rocks xD It offers no nourishment for your soul.
    effervescence effervescence
    26-30, M
    Nov 23, 2014

    Yes me too for sure but also wanting to meet up

    does not mean I want sex either
    purpleturtle5 purpleturtle5
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2016


    Lunadelobos Lunadelobos
    Feb 12, 2016

    I'm not here for sex

    or to get hit on . Some of you might think my pic is cute thank you but don't hit on me I'm not interested it doesn't make me feel special or anything so look for the type that wants that attention use your logic gentlemen
    Briinx Briinx
    31-35, F
    Jan 3, 2014
    DoIknowmenow DoIknowmenow
    26-30, F
    Jan 25, 2016

    I'm not here for sex.

    I here to feel safe expressing myself and to make friends with like minded or open- minded people, and if I can to help peolpe.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 24, 2015

    I am happy to chat about our sex life with like

    minded people but I don't need the internet for hook ups.
    tomishere2 tomishere2
    41-45, M
    Apr 11, 2015

    I am not here for sex.

    So you perverts have to go hunt for some easy girl instead. If I want sex, I would actually get off the computer and start dating someone and then get to the sexy part. Isn't that much better honestly?
    Aeviternity Aeviternity
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    So all of you who are asking me questions bout

    your private parts and if I want to see it I DONT . First of all respect please we haven't evan chatted and your asking and I'm not here for dirty stuff and all just go elsewhere to some app that will require your needs not here. Thank you
    Freeyourself3 Freeyourself3
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2014
    Fatherofthedaughter Fatherofthedaughter
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    Not here for flirting,

    to hook up, or sex. Only looking for friends and companions
    Lunalovexo Lunalovexo
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 5, 2014

    I must admit being a man

    and somewhat in his physical prime has challenges and along with those challenges come the sexual desires. However I do have the fear of God and when I say fear I mean fear in reference to Him.Sex is something sacred that is synonymous with marriage. It really doesn't matter how...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed
    31-35, M
    Feb 10, 2015

    But I can be talked into it

    if you are female and really nice. :-)
    Fatherofthedaughter Fatherofthedaughter
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    I'm a reasonably well-adjusted,

    middle-aged fella, and I did not join EP with the intent to hook-up, send/receive naughty pics, send/receive sexts, or violate anyone's boundaries. Courtesy and respect are paramount.
    ceirdyrael ceirdyrael
    46-50, M
    Oct 11, 2014

    Got alot of messages by pervs wanting sex,

    just to clear it up im only here to share experiences.
    Tessa3 Tessa3
    26-30, F
    Dec 4, 2014

    I'm not here for sex,

    not because I don't like it, but because I know my limits and I like to behave on public media just like the rest of you, even when my male hormones rise, I still remain calm. :)
    jouryhiyou jouryhiyou
    31-35, M
    Apr 9, 2016

    Why is this site crawling with people merely

    wanting sex hooking up only here for perverted reasons has the human race really become that low
    UnluckyTeddy UnluckyTeddy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 9, 2014

    I'm only here because it's

    where I can express my feelings without restrictions. I want to share my experiences with people and have deep conversations with them. I am not interested in dating or sex or anything even remotely related to that.
    Offing Offing
    22-25, F
    Oct 31, 2014

    I don't really understand why

    so many, mhm, "sexually active people" want to be friends with me. I'm mostly asexual, not entirely. There's a sense of chemistry, attraction, when talking to others, but when it comes to bedtime behavior, I'm actually quite turned off. I'm open about it, but then again I kind...
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

    Please read and believe this

    before you attempt to message me!
    Islamujer Islamujer
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    Its funny the new Community Guidelines on EP

    are getting pervs up in arms. How dare you that you're not allowed to flash your genitalia, send dirty emails unsolicited or try to score a booty call! Damn, guess you're just going to have to find another place that's actually designated to do so! Sad day for you.
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    Jan 9, 2014

    what is wrong with these people?

    so because i have a couple posts about sexual experiences on my page means that i want to talk about sex all day everyday? foh with that please
    evasweet evasweet
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    You guys who ask for naked pics,

    you do know about INTERNET **** right?!
    StellaNoir StellaNoir
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 31, 2014

    I am not here for that!

    Don't try don't ask or I will block you!
    deleted deleted
    Dec 27, 2015

    I don't think this is a place

    for sex. People just have to try to turn every website into a place to hook up with each other. -.-
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2014

    why guys just want to talk to girls only

    for sex ?!!! i hate this thing 😒
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    Why the **** would you send me a picture of

    your penis after we've talked for 2 minutes? What is wrong with you? Seriously...
    Jennyboii Jennyboii
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2014

    LMAO!! And even if I was,

    where is the hole. Lol.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 19, 2016

    I am not here for anyone else's convenience.

    I am nto here to make anyone else happy. I do not owe strangers my attention just because they want it. And I sure as hell don't owe them sexual gratification. These things are not open for negotiation. There is no argument that will change my mind. I am a person, not a thing...
    JennieBiscuit JennieBiscuit
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    I joke about it. All the time.

    But that doesn't mean that I'm here to hook-up. Also, guys? Get some better material. Quite a few of you have the same-old schtick. It doesn't offend me (I tend to laugh), but I get bored easily.
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 4, 2014
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