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I Am Not Here For Sex

I'm here to make friends. 1,918 People

    I'm a reasonably well-adjusted,

    middle-aged fella, and I did not join EP with the intent to hook-up, send/receive naughty pics, send/receive sexts, or violate anyone's boundaries. Courtesy and respect are paramount.
    ceirdyrael ceirdyrael 46-50, M Oct 11

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    I don't mind reading/talking about it

    and sharing my experience and confessing but no, I do not want to meet you for sex. Not judging those who are here for sex but I'm not here for that.
    PoutsandTears PoutsandTears 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I am not here for sex.

    So you perverts have to go hunt for some easy girl instead. If I want sex, I would actually get off the computer and start dating someone and then get to the sexy part. Isn't that much better honestly?
    Aeviternity Aeviternity 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I'm only here because it's

    where I can express my feelings without restrictions. I want to share my experiences with people and have deep conversations with them. I am not interested in dating or cyber sex or anything even remotely related to that.
    Offing Offing 18-21, F Oct 31

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    Clearly you can see by the picture I chose

    for my profile picture :)
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    Why the **** would you send me a picture of

    your penis after we've talked for 2 minutes? What is wrong with you? Seriously...
    Jennyboii Jennyboii 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I'm only here because it's

    where I can express my feelings without restrictions. I want to share my experiences with people and have deep conversations with them. I am not interested in dating or sex or anything even remotely related to that.
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    The idea of cyber sex just doesn't thrill me.

    Its like a lame imitation of the real thing; and I know I'm probably never gonna meet anyone on here in person. I kinda shot down the idea with a guy after he saw my proclamation that I'm bicurious. I don't even know if I can take pictures of myself with the computer I've got. I...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M Jun 9

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    Please, for the love of God,

    don't message me if all you're gonna do is flirt with me and/or ask for pics. That is NOT why I'm here. I'm not interested in anything except friendship and more importantly, guidance. It's to the point where I don't wanna even reply to anyone anymore because 97% of the time it...
    KaylaNicole93 KaylaNicole93 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 16

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    Gimmie A Break

    C'mon people you all know I flirt but that's all I do. I have a wonderful man in my life and I am not here for sex of any kind...If you want to cut the fool and have fun feel free but if you are after anything but good ole friendship just don't bother....I love to flirt but it is...
    vickieprince vickieprince 51-55, F 38 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    You guys who ask for naked pics,

    you do know about INTERNET **** right?!
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I decided as tempting

    as it is sometimes, I'm not gonna be Ep friends with people's who's stories are almost exclusively about sex. After all, that's not what I'm here for even though I can sometimes be quite entertained by it all. I like to think I'm at least kinda intelligent so I shouldn't have...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M Jun 4

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    Not here for flirting,

    to hook up, or sex. Only looking for friends and companions
    Lunalovexo Lunalovexo 22-25, F 3 Responses May 5

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    Is it just me or from what I've read

    so far, but near everyhing on here relates back to sex? Like yeah it's human nature and it's fun and all but can't they just find a dating site or something else to explore that avenue?
    skot690 skot690 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Am I not at all? I had to think about this.

    When sex is mentioned it seems so in broader terms. I know not all are seeking instant gratification. When I say "I am not interested in sex", I mean I don't want anyone who foists that on me. I'm not into coercion and harassment. There's a difference between finding likeminded...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 3

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    Or to hook up, no cybering,

    meeting up, going on dates. or anything besides TALKING ONLINE. nothing else. i will not be your online girlfriend to meet you eventually at a later date, do not even ask. i will probably block you if you persist and ask me for any of this more than once. especially if i get...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Practically got it written on my forehead.

    Stop hitting on me u pervy men! Mention sex to me n u will be not blocked but reported!
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 1 Response May 26

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    Its funny the new Community Guidelines on EP

    are getting pervs up in arms. How dare you that you're not allowed to flash your genitalia, send dirty emails unsolicited or try to score a booty call! Damn, guess you're just going to have to find another place that's actually designated to do so! Sad day for you.
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Jan 9

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    why guys just want to talk to girls only

    for sex ?!!! i hate this thing 😒
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I'm here to share experiences

    and make connections with people. Using this website for the purpose of getting one's rocks off is like walking into a lush garden replete with fruits and vegetables and... playing with rocks xD It offers no nourishment for your soul.
    effervescence effervescence 26-30, M Nov 23

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    Heavyheaven Heavyheaven 22-25, M Jun 4

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    But...

    I am totally here for naked pics of farm animals.
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere 41-45, M 5 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Just because I talk about it doesn't mean I

    want to do it with random strangers. Sexuality is an important part of my life and so I share about it just like any other experience, but I don't do casual sex.
    softbunny6 softbunny6 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    jaimson jaimson 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    I don't mind talking about it though.

    .. that doesn't mean I'm down for roleplaying. I haven't done that in a very long time and have lost interest in it for the most part. It has been an interesting experience getting propositioned by people here though... usually men. I'm not accustomed to that. Though I tend to...
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M May 3

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    Why is this site crawling with people merely

    wanting sex hooking up only here for perverted reasons has the human race really become that low
    UnluckyTeddy UnluckyTeddy 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    No Love Here, No Sex Here, Not Wanted Here On EP For Me.

    Isn't everyone here a hot lesbian looking for hookups with other hot lesbians? Or is it for diaper wearing Mr. Pee's His Pants looking for someone to share pictures of his fake ****, or real ****, no matter, I see too many dicks on here. (double meaning intended). Too each their...
    ALLEVERWNTD ALLEVERWNTD 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Keep It In Your Pants.

    I am not here to satisfy your animalistic urges, my friends. You are wasting your time if you think greeting me with carnal flattery will inspire interest or earn you a moment of my attention. I do not want to hear of your sexual fantasies and I will not offer myself up as Muse...
    WillowedLady WillowedLady 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    And That Is The Absolute Truth!

    EP for me, 'personally' is not a place for interacting with people in a sexual manner. I am personally not interested in 'sex talk' with any member here. For me, I am here to make friends and talk about what are to me, more important thins in life. For me, there is jut far so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    If I wanted sex id go out n get it with my

    boyfriend! Why do men automatically presume that's what a woman's here for?
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 18

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    I'm not here for sex

    or to get hit on . Some of you might think my pic is cute thank you but don't hit on me I'm not interested it doesn't make me feel special or anything so look for the type that wants that attention use your logic gentlemen
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F Jan 3

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    suddenly, i realized that,

    if i were to open an online dating site, i would earn millions. And all those people be ******* off day and night, faces looking like they are having a spasm.
    TJLK TJLK 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    NO I AM NOT!... Let me clear this up i am fed

    up now of people assuming because i love to write about s.e.x i am some kind of s.e.x.u.a.l obsesses woman whom they can message in hopes to evoke some naughty s.e.x.u.a.l reaction from me. It takes more than a pic of someone's private parts or some smutty remark for me to...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 9 Responses May 1

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    I an Not on this site

    for sex or even for chatting. I only joined to anonymously share some thoughts. Anyone considering approaching me for sexual interest should save their efforts for someone else who will welcome it.
    laletson laletson 31-35, F 3 Responses May 12

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    PersianPeasant PersianPeasant 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Got alot of messages by pervs wanting sex,

    just to clear it up im only here to share experiences.
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F Dec 4

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    So all of you who are asking me questions bout

    your private parts and if I want to see it I DONT . First of all respect please we haven't evan chatted and your asking and I'm not here for dirty stuff and all just go elsewhere to some app that will require your needs not here. Thank you
    Freeyourself3 Freeyourself3 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    I don't think this is a place

    for sex. People just have to try to turn every website into a place to hook up with each other. -.-
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 3 Responses May 27

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    I joke about it. All the time.

    But that doesn't mean that I'm here to hook-up. Also, guys? Get some better material. Quite a few of you have the same-old schtick. It doesn't offend me (I tend to laugh), but I get bored easily.
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F Jun 4

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    Every now and then, I find it interesting to

    come on here when I've got some time to myself. A debate or some advice sharing can be a good way to relax sometimes But that's all I come on for. I don't come here to Hook up, swap email addresses, Skype addresses, pictures, or anything else. I'm not meaning to be rude, but...
    PepperF PepperF 22-25, F Oct 26

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    If I'm not here for sex,

    why do people after sex keep messaging me? Or those who have all sexual experiences and have usernames like "slaveforyou" etc? Who butter me up with friendly starting messages like "talk to me" "I want to be your friend" and ****. Argh, leave me alone!
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Oct 11

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    If you're on this website looking

    for hanky panky , leave me alone ! . I'm married and unhappy but that doesn't mean i'm going to jump in bed with some random guy , i'm not easy .
    CBOGGS69 CBOGGS69 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Don't Add Me If This Is Your Intentions

    Do I really need to say more?
    Wurkoutgurl Wurkoutgurl 36-40, F 20 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Seriously?!

    Before you even ask I am going to say no! I am not here for sex and I never will be. I got this account so I show people what I have been through and to even help them and me. DON'T EVEN BOTHER ASKING! First off I have a girlfriend, and second that stuff is BS!
    Ice95 Ice95 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Lol definitely not here

    for that ... I'm still a virgin hahaha I'm super dork to the rescue ! :3
    Ale93 Ale93 18-21, M 2 Responses May 3

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    Ok, I know I have some naughty experiences on

    my list, but that doesn't mean I want anyone to message me about hooking up, you being horny, what you want to do to me, or wanting to get me pregnant. I like to talk about naughty things, just what kind of experience you have and just swapping stories. Having some random person...
    bribri590 bribri590 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I appreciate comments,

    but seriously though, I'm not looking for anything. I just want to express my emotions and issues and call it a day. If I want to f#ck I got a guy in real life for that, actually. I don't need unfulfilling skype or kik s3x. Thank you, be on your way.
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 27

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    I don't really understand why

    so many, mhm, "sexually active people" want to be friends with me. I'm mostly asexual, not entirely. There's a sense of chemistry, attraction, when talking to others, but when it comes to bedtime behavior, I'm actually quite turned off. I'm open about it, but then again I kind...
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher 22-25 2 Responses Oct 10

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