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I Am Not Here to Date

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 731 People

    I'm here to find some genuine emotional support

    so that my soul can begin to heal. No men please.
    hjolsh hjolsh 26-30, F May 3

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    It's natural for people to look on chat sites

    and think most people are looking to date with the unknowns. It's a fascinating thought too. Someone whom you have never met, never seen but just spoken to & had long conversations. Someone with whom you feel that you are connected very emotionally and someone whom you feel...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Not here to date guys

    but talk to them about our experiences nothing else
    thatgirlonpoint123 thatgirlonpoint123 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I love someone now. and i have no intentions to

    flirt with anyone. Please dont chat with me if you just want a chat friend, or wants to flirt or especially a perv. Go and find someone else. ;)
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Just A Friend

    I'm not on here looking for a romance or a date or some online boyfriend. Just a friend, I like to meet and talk to new people when I can but just a chat is all I'm looking for. I don't like when random guys think just because I'm a girl it's a automatic invitation to make a move...
    undecided1129 undecided1129 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    Please don't try anything,

    went through that with another site. I had to block some people because they wouldn't leave me alone and kept asking for my picture when I didn't want to give it to them.
    bluejay19 bluejay19 18-21, F Sep 23

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    I have made it perfectly clear in various groups

    that I am not here to date anyone. My heart is taken and I do not appreciate anyone else calling me their girlfriend, trying to get me to talk raunchy with them when I say no, trying to replace the man I love, etc. I was asked if I would be willing to be with another man on...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Jan 21

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    I Have A Boyfriend...

    so don't try to chat me up. Just go away. :)
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    I have a child that was murdered a horrible

    death just want to know if there someone out there Who has a big hole in their heart and does not blame God for their child's murder
    brent1919 brent1919 56-60, F Feb 22

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    Not here for that at all.

    Unfortunately some people troll through the most innocent of experiences and send totally inappropriate messages -.-
    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F Jul 26

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    There's Nothing Like Learning Something Again. Duh

        There I go again, and I need to stop beating myself up because I knew better. There were red flags, but I chose to ignore them because it felt so good.  Oh Well, What The H***
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    No

    If I want to date. I can go out in the real world. I'm here to write and comment. I try to bright up people's lives if I can. I know I have  a hard job to do. I think I can do it. Online dating scares me anyways. You know never  who you are match...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Oct 20, 2009

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    CombatBarbie CombatBarbie 18-21, F Oct 7

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    Irather Be Single Than In A Relationship

    on most websites i'm in guys ask me to datethem when they barely know me on here not realy 2 people gave me their number well onehas it on his profile the otherone only cuse' his computer is slow working but other websites the guys are stupid ad want to date me when they're like...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F Dec 28, 2011

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    I never came on this site with the intention of

    starting a relationship in the first place. No offense to any that choose to do so but I feel like any relationship on here would be disingenuous (based off of several conversations with people on here that confided in me they were lying to someone they were "dating" from ep...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Here For Friends Not To Date...

    I am not looking for a guy even offline right now... Im trying to focus on loving myself and not depending on others for my happiness, so that means staying single a while... I am flattered by some of the guys on here and how sweet they are to me! Thank you all for that! However...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 9, 2013

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    That's Not Why I Joined!

    yes, I'm single but I really don't want to date on here. I am here to post whatever strikes my fancy, not to pick up or impress men! :P Friends is more than fine, but how romantic can you be with someone who lives half way across the country or even the world. I...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I'm Not Here to Meet a Partner

    I've received unsolicited messages from parties who wish to chat with me, meet up with me, etc. I'm not here for that. Please don't contact me if that's what you're about.
    RubyTewes RubyTewes 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Taken Already

    I already have an amazingly spectacular bf and not interested in anyone else. So keep moving along.
    SkateBoardz SkateBoardz 18-21, T 1 Response Dec 1, 2013

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    I am not but that doesnt mean you are evil

    if your goal for using this site is dating Everyone have rights good or bad whatever you want , ep will always be a place for everyone so **** you people yaay <3
    Zoce Zoce 18-21, M Feb 14

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    Just To Let You Know

    Some people mix this website with a dating one, and that bothers me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    I am here to build strong connections with

    others who share my interests. I have no tolerance for pervs!
    LucretiaDivone LucretiaDivone 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Flabbergasted.

    Truthfully, I'm not totally flabbergasted, but there are precious few opportunities in my life when I have a chance to use that word, so sometimes I have to make my own moments. All fun words aside, it still shocks me any time someone makes a pass at me on here. It's like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 24, 2009

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    Not Here To Date

    No, not I, I'm  in a happy relationship, just here to have fun.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2011

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    I want to vent and listen to other people vent!

    I am not here looking to fall into the virtual arms of a stranger, online flirt, or anything like that.
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 22-25, F Jul 11

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    I am not here to meet men.

    I get alot of requests for me to add them but 9 times out of 10 i will not. There has to really solid ground work and proof that you are not wanting to hit on me, PM me to talk private...i am not here for all of that...if you truly are in need of some support or need a friend...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F Jun 2

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    No I Am Not

    I am not here to date, Nope. I'm just here for the cyber sex, lmfao...just kidding. I'm just kidding, no need to get defensive on me now. Sheesh people of EP, calm down, take deep breath's and chillax. :p
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 6, 2012

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    No Way

    Dating someone on EP is not my for me. I am only on here for friendships and nothing more.
    Lizzy2046 Lizzy2046 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 14, 2010

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    Please don't take offense.

    I am in a relationship and happy.
    TRICH1974 TRICH1974 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Please Don't Approach Me With That In Mind...

    I have no interest in dating anyone here or anywhere on the web. I've been burnt so badly by people on the internet and I'm just here to share my experiences and thoughts with other people and make friends who are like minded. I just wanted to get that across Thanks.
    Spiritsinger Spiritsinger 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2009

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    And Yet Most Of My Friends Are Women...here On Ep

    So I figure I would address this... 1. I get along better with women. 2. Most (not all) of the guys here I don't have a lot in common with. 3. Many of the guys here are creepy. 4. I admit that the selfish satisfaction of attractive women talking to me (I'm not entirely...
    1nourmindseye 1nourmindseye 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Let's Be Clear... I'm Taken, And Very Happily So

    I'm new to Experience Project -- some of my friends suggested I join to discuss things I'm not comfortable discussing with people who know me personally. So yes, I talk about some really personal things here I might not talk about with anyone who actually knows me except my...
    CaitlynBl CaitlynBl 22-25, F Dec 9, 2009

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    mariatheresae mariatheresae 18-21, F May 26

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    Hey there has been a little confusion here.

    Some people didn't see this group so just gonna make it easier by posting a story about it. I am not here to date. Don't need a boyfriend or anything. Just trying to talk and make friends. Thanks :)
    DizzyGreenEyes DizzyGreenEyes 18-21, F Oct 16

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    Not Looking For a Date, a Mate, Or a Debate!

      I am not looking for a mate or a date and I am not here to debate that fact. I am not looking to receive a booty call in the middle of the night as I have my allotment of those already. I am not looking for casual sexual talk either. I am here to express myself and to...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 31 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    That's right. Not here to date.

    I like making friends all the time. I also like being someone that people can come to with their problems. But please don't assume that I want to date. I have an account somewhere else just for that. I spend a lot of time making movies and tv shows so it's hard to find the time...
    SociallyAwkward1982 SociallyAwkward1982 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Because............

    I am happily married and not interested in any replacements. If i want to have sex, I have hubby, and he pleases me greatly. So, no need for any men on the side either.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 24, 2011

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    Don'T Assume

    Just because I have fantasies, and sexual fantasies, DOES not mean I'm here to meet anyone, other than friends who are going through the same thing I am. So if your a perv, please don't bother.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 5, 2013

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    The Beauty Of Friendship

    Ironic maybe because most of my friends are males... I enjoy EP very much.. I have received genuine help and advice..and have enjoyed giving it.... I like to have fun..like everyone else here..and be silly at times..(ok..maybe a little more than most) ...but I am also serious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am here to share my experiences in the hopes that it will help others in need. I am here to express myself and get things off my chest. I am here to learn more about the world...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki 22-25, F Oct 21

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    I find it strange that some people on this site app whatever you want to call it get on here to try and find a girlfriend or boyfriend. I'm on here just to write and chat with...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    I just recently caught feelings for my cousin's best friend, they've been friends for about a year or so but I only met her about 3 or 4 months ago. We have been practicing for my...
    Thuganomics Thuganomics 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    This statement is so true. If I wanted to date, the absolute LAST place I'd want to go is EP where the entire site is designed to attract and get people to talk about their issues...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 1 Response Oct 22

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    So I feel like I need to say this story I've been keeping it in so long and guys/girls wonder why I can't date them it's because of this guy... I don't know how to let go...I've...
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I just did a post on my tumblr about what's okay and not okay on first date. Here is the link http://chanelconoco.tumblr.com My tumblr name is chanelconoco
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12 22-25, F Oct 15

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    I'm here to get things off my mind or chest and vent. I'm not here looking for anyone. I'm married to the love of my life and wouldn't risk that for anyone or anything in the world...
    Adpatrick Adpatrick 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    Why would I be? It's not like I'm gonna just meet you in real life and start something. If I wanna date, I'll go out in real life. The internet isn't reality.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F Oct 21

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    Yes. I'm not on this app to flirt or date or find a soulmate....so please back off...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    Maybe some other time. I am somewhat anti-social. The main reason I come to EP is to learn about people and also myself. Please don't try to date me, I will only be a...
    SinimanCheryl SinimanCheryl 41-45, T Oct 22

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    I have been getting a lot of messages from older men, like waaaaay old. Their messages are disturbing and disgusting. I am not here to flirt or to talk d.irty with you. I already...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    Not Here To Date .... This App is Making Me think that People On Here Just Trying To Get Some Instead Of Actually Been A Friend ..Someone Mention a to Me If i was Having this...
    misslopez misslopez 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    It was the worst date I ever been. He could have decline my invitation to the date if he is not interested. He came for the date, was rushing off and told me he has girl friend...
    larajean larajean 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 8