I Am Not Here to Date

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 979 People

    It's natural for people to look on chat sites

    and think most people are looking to date with the unknowns. It's a fascinating thought too. Someone whom you have never met, never seen but just spoken to & had long conversations. Someone with whom you feel that you are connected very emotionally and someone whom you feel...
    uselessguy uselessguy
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 19, 2014

    That's Not Why I Joined!

    yes, I'm single but I really don't want to date on here. I am here to post whatever strikes my fancy, not to pick up or impress men! :P Friends is more than fine, but how romantic can you be with someone who lives half way across the country or even the world. I...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

    I love someone now. and i have no intentions to

    flirt with anyone. Please dont chat with me if you just want a chat friend, or wants to flirt or especially a perv. Go and find someone else. ;)
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2014

    I Have A Boyfriend...

    so don't try to chat me up. Just go away. :)
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2013

    I never came on this site with the intention of

    starting a relationship in the first place. No offense to any that choose to do so but I feel like any relationship on here would be disingenuous (based off of several conversations with people on here that confided in me they were lying to someone they were "dating" from ep...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2014
    uandsometimesWHY uandsometimesWHY
    41-45, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    Just To Let You Know

    Some people mix this website with a dating one, and that bothers me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 26, 2013
    mariatheresae mariatheresae
    18-21, F
    May 26, 2014

    Let's Be Clear... I'm Taken, And Very Happily So

    I'm new to Experience Project -- some of my friends suggested I join to discuss things I'm not comfortable discussing with people who know me personally. So yes, I talk about some really personal things here I might not talk about with anyone who actually knows me except my...
    CaitlynBl CaitlynBl
    26-30, F
    Dec 9, 2009

    I don't like that I'm here to vent,

    chat,and just be free. and all I get is guy request to chat. and it's for the romantic or hook up reasons. ugh
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 28, 2015

    Stop coming up to me

    and asking if I'm single. I know what you all want and I'm not giving into it.
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny
    13-15, M
    Jan 24, 2015

    1000th member of this group,

    yay! Yeah. I'm not here to date. I'm not here to flirt, especially with creepy older guys. So unless you're looking for advice or friendship, do not message me.
    cloudyjay cloudyjay
    16-17, F
    Apr 9

    please quit the flirting

    or ill start blocking
    cunningwolf cunningwolf
    16-17, M
    Nov 17, 2015

    Have you ever felt like you had no one to talk

    to and have kept all your thoughts and emotions bottled up inside? Here I am free to voice my problems, express my opinions, and seek advice without feeling judged. I am looking for conversations with individuals who understand my position and could offer guidance and friendly...
    hottmom22 hottmom22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    There's Nothing Like Learning Something Again. Duh

        There I go again, and I need to stop beating myself up because I knew better. There were red flags, but I chose to ignore them because it felt so good.  Oh Well, What The H***
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Dec 30, 2008

    I am here to build strong connections with

    others who share my interests. I have no tolerance for pervs!
    LucretiaDivone LucretiaDivone
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2014

    I have made it perfectly clear in various groups

    that I am not here to date anyone. My heart is taken and I do not appreciate anyone else calling me their girlfriend, trying to get me to talk raunchy with them when I say no, trying to replace the man I love, etc. I was asked if I would be willing to be with another man on...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti
    36-40, F
    Jan 21, 2014

    Don'T Assume

    Just because I have fantasies, and sexual fantasies, DOES not mean I'm here to meet anyone, other than friends who are going through the same thing I am. So if your a perv, please don't bother.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 5, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 20, 2015

    Just A Friend

    I'm not on here looking for a romance or a date or some online boyfriend. Just a friend, I like to meet and talk to new people when I can but just a chat is all I'm looking for. I don't like when random guys think just because I'm a girl it's a automatic invitation to make a move...
    undecided1129 undecided1129
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2013

    I have a child that was murdered a horrible

    death just want to know if there someone out there Who has a big hole in their heart and does not blame God for their child's murder
    brent1919 brent1919
    61-65, F
    Feb 22, 2014

    No Way

    Dating someone on EP is not my for me. I am only on here for friendships and nothing more.
    Lizzy2046 Lizzy2046
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Aug 14, 2010

    Please don't take offense.

    I am in a relationship and happy.
    Themusicinmysoul Themusicinmysoul
    41-45, F
    Feb 6, 2014

    Not here to date guys

    but talk to them about our experiences nothing else
    thatgirlonpoint123 thatgirlonpoint123
    22-25, F
    Jul 11, 2014

    The Beauty Of Friendship

    Ironic maybe because most of my friends are males... I enjoy EP very much.. I have received genuine help and advice..and have enjoyed giving it.... I like to have fun..like everyone else here..and be silly at times..(ok..maybe a little more than most) ...but I am also serious...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 1, 2012

    Not here for that at all.

    Unfortunately some people troll through the most innocent of experiences and send totally inappropriate messages -.-
    threeforagirl threeforagirl
    26-30, F
    Jul 26, 2014

    That's right. Not here to date.

    I like making friends all the time. I also like being someone that people can come to with their problems. But please don't assume that I want to date. I have an account somewhere else just for that. I spend a lot of time making movies and tv shows so it's hard to find the time...
    SociallyAwkward1982 SociallyAwkward1982
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    i am trying to rebuild my confidence i think i

    need to be comfortable and happy with me first before I can date enyone no matter how much I like someone i don't want to be all over
    fanofpll fanofpll
    31-35, F
    Nov 20, 2015

    I want to vent and listen to other people vent!

    I am not here looking to fall into the virtual arms of a stranger, online flirt, or anything like that.
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84
    26-30, F
    Jul 11, 2014

    I'm Not Here to Meet a Partner

    I've received unsolicited messages from parties who wish to chat with me, meet up with me, etc. I'm not here for that. Please don't contact me if that's what you're about.
    RubyTewes RubyTewes
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2008

    I am not but that doesnt mean you are evil

    if your goal for using this site is dating Everyone have rights good or bad whatever you want , ep will always be a place for everyone so **** you people yaay <3
    Zoce Zoce
    22-25, M
    Feb 14, 2014

    Before you message me a paragraph

    or send something completely inappropriate I just want to say. I am not here to date. I am not here to hook up, I am simply here to talk and make friends. That is all.
    claratang claratang
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    Please Don't Approach Me With That In Mind...

    I have no interest in dating anyone here or anywhere on the web. I've been burnt so badly by people on the internet and I'm just here to share my experiences and thoughts with other people and make friends who are like minded. I just wanted to get that across Thanks.
    Spiritsinger Spiritsinger
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2009

    And Yet Most Of My Friends Are Women...here On Ep

    So I figure I would address this... 1. I get along better with women. 2. Most (not all) of the guys here I don't have a lot in common with. 3. Many of the guys here are creepy. 4. I admit that the selfish satisfaction of attractive women talking to me (I'm not entirely...
    1nourmindseye 1nourmindseye
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Sep 24, 2011
    CombatBarbie CombatBarbie
    18-21, F
    Oct 7, 2014

    This. Seriously. Not everyone

    and their dog are looking for their friggin soulmate through every single freakin' social site ever. This is art. This is sharing stories and experiences and the human condition. If you're looking for flirting or cyber stuff or wtfever, look somewhere else. Go to a dating site...
    NightPain NightPain
    26-30, F
    May 20, 2015

    Please don't try anything,

    went through that with another site. I had to block some people because they wouldn't leave me alone and kept asking for my picture when I didn't want to give it to them.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 23, 2014

    No

    If I want to date. I can go out in the real world. I'm here to write and comment. I try to bright up people's lives if I can. I know I have  a hard job to do. I think I can do it. Online dating scares me anyways. You know never  who you are match...
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    Oct 20, 2009

    There was a guy I gave a chance

    but I keep having a bad feeling about it. I tried getting to know him but he was so over board with the flirting and it just got annoying. I didn't even get to know him. So after he was so pushy for a pic of me when I am so ratchet after I was baby sitting, he thinks he can just...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013
    18-21, F
    Nov 23, 2014

    Not Looking For a Date, a Mate, Or a Debate!

      I am not looking for a mate or a date and I am not here to debate that fact. I am not looking to receive a booty call in the middle of the night as I have my allotment of those already. I am not looking for casual sexual talk either. I am here to express myself and to...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    31 Responses Sep 30, 2009
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 20, 2015

    I'm here to find some genuine emotional support

    so that my soul can begin to heal. No men please.
    hjolsh hjolsh
    26-30, F
    May 3, 2014

    Hey there has been a little confusion here.

    Some people didn't see this group so just gonna make it easier by posting a story about it. I am not here to date. Don't need a boyfriend or anything. Just trying to talk and make friends. Thanks :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 16, 2014

    I am not here to meet men.

    I get alot of requests for me to add them but 9 times out of 10 i will not. There has to really solid ground work and proof that you are not wanting to hit on me, PM me to talk private...i am not here for all of that...if you truly are in need of some support or need a friend...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973
    41-45, F
    Jun 2, 2014

    Related Experiences

    I initially thought this forum was a great place to read and connect with other similar stories and simply chat with others on very specific topics (not too personal though) that...
    meaningful4u meaningful4u
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 21
    A lot of people liked this site. A lot of people even loved this site. I volunteered on this site. I signed on to be a volunteer and send out messages to new members welcoming...
    FriendlyBryan FriendlyBryan
    46-50, M
    Apr 21
    I'll probably won't be here to see it end but I have to say that I had a great time here, and made some short friendships along the way. everyone's stories and ideas are always...
    TheTofuMaster TheTofuMaster
    22-25, M
    Apr 21
    I met 4 guys in person on here..very fantastic times and experiences...i wanted to meet more...not in the cards i guess.....unless i have your email already...then maybe...anything...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 21
    I met 4 guys in person on here..very fantastic times and experiences...i wanted to meet more...not in the cards i guess.....unless i have your email already...then maybe...anything...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 21
    I just returned today here in EP, and then I saw the notice, I didn't' expect this. Cause everybtime I feel bad and want to ask something, I post here EP isn't boring for me you...
    princessmjhane princessmjhane
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    Because there's no point in keeping them blocked anymore because ep is going to block us from it soon.so I'm doing that before this site closes down.I loved every second being on...
    111rosy560 111rosy560
    13-15, F
    Apr 19
    Ep was a fun place to be,and now we are losing this precious site.I would like to thank ep a lot for helping me meet people,helping me to make friendships that meant a lot to me...
    111rosy560 111rosy560
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 19
    so i haven't gone on many dates, so i don't have a lot of experience. i realize that you actually have to put yourself out there and work to get what you want, but i also don't...
    nightchill nightchill
    22-25, M
    Apr 19
    All of a sudden we only have the last two days before this one closes... Yes, I came here to make friends. But did I really made some friends? No. "They" made friends with me...
    SparkofDecency SparkofDecency
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 19
    I am an all around open minded person so if you need to talk, please message me. I am open about LGBT+ (I am demisexual and my partner is Trans), BDSM ( NOT 50 Shades of Grey, I am...
    CalicoWoolfe CalicoWoolfe
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 18
    You came into my life in EP purely by chance. I remember the morning well. Your princess was posting and I could not stop reading about the love she felt for this special man in...
    Lee124 Lee124
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 18
    hey wats up peeps? I'm here if you need a ear.
    barczak420 barczak420
    41-45, F
    12 Responses Apr 18
    Hi is someone up for a chat?I really wanna make new friends here.even though they're closing. :( I just need some pals.
    amnotthattired amnotthattired
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Apr 18
    am new here can some wan welcome me
    Evaristus Evaristus
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Apr 18
    I wish I could jump into one of my books and live in that world, I hate it here at this house.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 17
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