I Am Not Here To Judge Or Hurt Anyone

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    I've always hurt myself trying to make everyone

    else happy. I know this time I will be happy. I'm making my dreams come true. Will it be selfish of me to move away when my brothers and sister always relay on me to help them out, or will I be doing the right thing moving away to make myself and my kids happy? I do more for...
    Amaelin Amaelin
    26-30
    May 4, 2015
    KosmicKonnection KosmicKonnection
    31-35, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    Tell me what troubles you.

    .. i have troubles too, so we've got that in common :)
    Floppyfish56 Floppyfish56
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    I don't want to be judged

    or hurt, so I'd never do it to anyone else. I've lost count of how many people have judged me based on being female, or my ages, or tattoos etc. Well shock horror, I'm human and I have a brain and should be treated equally like anyone else that should be.
    squishyarmadillo squishyarmadillo
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

    So Fitting

    A friend joined this group today and I'm glad I saw so l could join too. l want people to know this about me. l have some strong opinions about right and wrong and about other things, but l don't want to judge anyone l don't agree with. And l don't want to hurt anyone at all. l...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 1, 2013

    I do not expect you to understand the reasons

    for my actions, because I do not act in order to be understood but because I have reasons.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind
    31-35
    Jan 23

    I don't think I will ever be the type of man

    that intentionally goes out to hurt anyone, at least I hope not, and don't think it is in my character, not part of who I am.
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    Sep 29, 2015

    yea i m not here for all that,

    but if i can help anyone here in anyway, he or she is most welcome
    thehulkman thehulkman
    31-35, M
    Jun 28, 2015

    ....I'm here for an opinion to a problem

    that is too complicated. I have no idea where to start except that I'm in 14 year relationship with someone that lost who they are fighting anxiety and she now fights a tough battle with cancer. I've always been her rock and I'm ashamed to say that I feel lost, ignored...
    littlechief79 littlechief79
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015
    daisychain33 daisychain33
    31-35, F
    Jun 28, 2015

    My Love Is Abundant

    I am full of Love and more than willing to share it freely with anyone who asks and many that don't. For some that might just be a simple hug when they are down or nice comment intended to illicit a smile. For my friends and loved ones that means you get my all. Whatever you...
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77
    36-40, T
    11 Responses Nov 21, 2012

    I want to make this crystal clear.

    I am a horribly dirty person, and I will have mostly explicit experiences on my profile. I will not post explicit stories, however, nor will I harass anyone here on EP. Of course I'd love to find like minded people, but I understand boundaries and hope that you all do too.
    casualseduction casualseduction
    22-25, M
    Dec 28, 2015
    HarryOsbourne HarryOsbourne
    56-60, M
    May 30, 2015

    That's why I created an online community to

    help people share their stories, experiences, thoughts and feelings. http://live-another-day.boards.net/ Talk about anything, from suicidal thoughts to actions, to depression, mental disorders...anything!
    driftingalone driftingalone
    16-17, F
    Jan 23

    People don't want pity,

    they want understanding!
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind
    31-35
    1 Response Jan 23

    "When you judge another,

    you do not define them,you define yourself." Wayne Dyer.
    teachocolate teachocolate
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    My wish when I come to EP is

    that we could all try to be less judgmental and hurtful towards one another; that we could cultivate a sense of conviviality and make EP a place for each of us to enjoy. If I don't agree with something someone has written, I try to avoid commenting and simply move along. We're...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 27, 2014

    But seriously.. I do not s*ext with 14 year olds

    and I'm a little heartbroken every time I am approached by one.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2014
    momo335 momo335
    16-17, F
    Mar 16, 2015

    Every saint has a past,

    every sinner has a future
    aj32792 aj32792
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    Since EP is shutting down many of us will be

    left out in the cold. So, I'd like to invite you, no matter who you are to feel completely free to message me for my contact info
    PetitTrianon PetitTrianon
    16-17, M
    Mar 24

    Seriously? There are way too many people

    who are in this group and are so rude. Which shouldn't surprise me, but oh well.
    angeliqueth angeliqueth
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2014

    ...but to pour out my feelings

    and share my thoughts.gaining good friends can be a bonus!
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    41-45, F
    Nov 16, 2015

    Yes, I am not here to cause any damage,

    however, if and only if one does wrong to to I or another, I will speak loud and clear to shed light on the situation.
    INNERzen INNERzen
    18-21, M
    Oct 22, 2015

    Both on EP and in real life.

    I try my best to see the difference between situations where I can be funny and/or sarcastic and situations where I need to be serious. Sometimes I make mistakes, and if you feel hurt or angry because of something that I say or do, please tell me and I will try to fix whatever I...
    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 23, 2015

    My occupation is not a Judge,

    so i will not judge you.
    AlexandraSandy AlexandraSandy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2015

    Is it my concern if you're here

    and married or with a partner and they have no knowledge of EP, nope it's not, nor am I interested as you're responsible for your own conscience and owning your own actions . For the record I am not here looking for anything other than good conversation..
    Avengingangel68 Avengingangel68
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    Walk In My Shoes.

    Before you judge my life, my past or my character. walk in my shoes, walk the path I have traveled, live my sorrow, my doubts, my fear, my pain and my laughter. Remember everyone has a story.
    cantescapemylove cantescapemylove
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2013

    I am here to express what's on my mind,

    learn more about myself, read interesting stories and maybe make someone's day :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 23

    I don't care who you are,

    where you're from, what you did, your past, what color you are, race, gender...etc as long as you're nice to me and respect me, I will respect you
    itsjustme11119 itsjustme11119
    18-21, F
    Nov 7, 2014

    I can relate to some people here

    who just went cold or boring after few exciting and stimulating chats. I want connection, not just sexual chats. When I learnt that the person is just for that I leave and never answer the other end. I have so much to talk about, so much to know and learn from a conversation, I...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 11

    There are so many cruel,

    jaded, cold, self absorbed, d list can go on, people in this world! Who'd Readily hurt others or pass judgement unfairly without reason. We live in a world without depth, every man for himself! What happened to Love? Human sympathy, etc. Then again I can only be responsible...
    Spparkle Spparkle
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    No one has the right to judge you,

    because no one really knows what you have been through. They might have heard the stories, but they didn't feel what you felt in your heart.
    Roseebee Roseebee
    22-25, F
    Sep 18, 2015

    BUT, start to pick a fight

    that was not needed, or is unfair, and you will see a side of me you wish you never provoked.
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    do you know how yo **** off Atheists?

    Thank God all day! LOL
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    reather we like it or not we all are judging

    and being judged it is human nature but judging injustices is necessary yet i will not judge you for because of your colour or nationally you're sexual preference or gender nor of your disabilities i wouldn't want anyone to judge me based upon any of these things especially my...
    burnner burnner
    56-60, M
    Sep 29, 2015

    There are two things I hate most in this world.

    ... people who are incompetent of other people... and the Dutch! xd
    RHINOMEGA RHINOMEGA
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 16, 2015

    I don't believe it's possible

    for anyone not to judge. The way we discern with our world is by our judgments. All people judge, but I will do what I can not to criticize, or condemn others. I will try my hardest to understand :)
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 24, 2014

    I'm just trying to deal with my own emotional

    baggage, let alone having the mental capacity to criticise and judge anyone else.
    oddpodd oddpodd
    22-25, F
    Feb 26

    I try never to judge,

    not always successfully, but I try my hardest not to impose my morals and beliefs on others, instead trying to understand other people's situation, and why they believe what they believe..........
    scottie1974 scottie1974
    41-45, M
    Jun 18, 2015

    I'm here to listen and give advice

    so I can help others.i hope to get that in return without being judged.
    hells85 hells85
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2014

    All you're doing when you're judging someone is

    defining who you are instead of the person you're talking about.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire
    18-21, M
    2 Responses May 31, 2014

    I feel I have no business judging anybody,

    I am far from perfect and don't think the way I live life is any better than the way anybody else does. But more than that, I relay don't want to hurt anybody, even if anybody here is real, I don't want anybody hurt by my thoughts or experiences. If any have been hurt, I am...
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    Sep 29, 2015
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