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I Am Not Here To Judge Or Hurt Anyone

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    Psychology says: Most of mankind is motivated

    by self-interest, however most can exercise impulse control due to their personal core values. Narcissists on the other hand appear to be disconnected from their personal feelings, therefore lacking a personal value system. This lacking of a value system leads also to a lack of...
    rcp10 rcp10 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I don't believe it's possible

    for anyone not to judge. The way we discern with our world is by our judgments. All people judge, but I will do what I can not to criticize, or condemn others. I will try my hardest to understand :)
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    However

    If I disagree with you, I'm going to say so. If I think you're being foolish, I'm going to say so. I am sorry if anyone feels hurt over things I say, but I do try to be tactful about it...most of the time.
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    marcosdecastro marcosdecastro 18-21, M Jul 15

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    No Judgment Intended

    I sometimes state my opinion on subject. You may not agree or may. Either way I am not meaning to pass judgment. To each their own. Peace
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Although judging people is a natural human

    instinct, it is wrong. I believe beauty is only skin deep and that personality is what truly matters. Looks are an added bonus, but people are people and not things to be inspected in order to pass the 'acceptable to society' test.
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I'm here to listen and give advice

    so I can help others.i hope to get that in return without being judged.
    hells85 hells85 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Passing Judgement

    Judging someone or something (an experience or activity) is like reading the back cover synopsis of a novel...you are not getting the whole story.
    MosBlccPhnix MosBlccPhnix 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    My Love Is Abundant

    I am full of Love and more than willing to share it freely with anyone who asks and many that don't. For some that might just be a simple hug when they are down or nice comment intended to illicit a smile. For my friends and loved ones that means you get my all. Whatever you...
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 15 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    I really do believe I am a good listener,

    and sadly enough, I sometimes feel like I'm the only person left who genuinely cares and wants to help other people. There are too many bullies these days.
    Runningagainstthewind Runningagainstthewind 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm feeling so much more better.

    Just always keep in mind that time heals pain. You'll get over what you thought was the end of the world in no time. You just gotta keep on swimming on
    PrincessUniverse PrincessUniverse 16-17, F Apr 8

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    TreeHuggingHippie000 TreeHuggingHippie000 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    It amazes me how i never judge on anyone

    or do hurt in real life or at ep... But the return is to rip my heart off my chest and step on and squash repeatedly for the amuse of people i get... I think i am making my own self get hurt for being who i am and sometimes think that my mistake is ... I care too much and don't...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I believe in the below statements before you

    act listen before you react think before you spend, earn before you criticize, wait before you pray, forgive before you quit, try
    fikrisharif fikrisharif 41-45, M May 6

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    I really think everyone should have one person

    that they can tell ANYTHING to without being embarrassed. So if anyone needs someone like that, I'm all ears :)
    hebr0 hebr0 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    mtho040 mtho040 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    Is your avatar a fake

    or are you a fake? My favorite character as you can see in the avatar in one from Naruto his name is Uchiha Itachi. Now I will unravel the mystery of my favorite character. Itachi was a part of war when he was young which he was not supposed to be he saw the horrors of the war...
    AnimeLover44 AnimeLover44 13-15, M Nov 30, 2013

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    I didn't join EP years ago to be an *******.

    I didn't rejoin EP to change that mantra either. I'm just here to have some fun and write stories like I used too back in the day when I was way younger lol.
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 5

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    BUT, start to pick a fight

    that was not needed, or is unfair, and you will see a side of me you wish you never provoked.
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am here to share a message ,

    ,,not my word ,,but my Fathers you don't have to agree with me ,,but I have served my country,,,raised my kid's and paid back every penny the state ever paid out for them,,,I took care of my grandparents ,,and my parents till their deaths,,I have served in my community and...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    My wish when I come to EP is

    that we could all try to be less judgmental and hurtful towards one another; that we could cultivate a sense of conviviality and make EP a place for each of us to enjoy. If I don't agree with something someone has written, I try to avoid commenting and simply move along. We're...
    onomatopoeiaCA onomatopoeiaCA 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 27

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    "When people get hurt,

    they learn to hate When people hurt others, they become hated and racked with guilt. But knowing that pain allows people to be kind. Pain allows people to grow and how you grow is up to you." Hope everyone is having a good day!
    Demeterdreaming Demeterdreaming 18-21, F Apr 4

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    These days almost everyone says try don't judge

    and I say that too. But if you think about it, you judge everyone all the time even without knowing it! A lot of people are still very nice and considerate but they still judge, they just don't say it.
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M Jul 9

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    I see it a lot, though i am

    for one not here to judge or hurt anyone. I can be weird and do things people disagree but don't tell me how to live my life if i am not telling you how to live yours. Don't think for a second you're better then me because you're not. Where i am standing we are on equal grounds...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I'm here to learn through others,

    and maybe (just maybe) allow others to learn from my experiences and hopefully make real friends.
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    “It is easier to forgive an enemy

    than to forgive a friend.”
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 27

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    Life is just too darn short to be hating anyone,

    I understand if u came from a messed up family and got hurt a lot but u hurting others don't help the world go around, I'm all about peace and helping others, I'm a lover and not a fighter but will fight for love if need be. 😁👍
    StevensTHEname StevensTHEname 26-30, M Apr 11

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    Vixen1225 Vixen1225 13-15, F Apr 4

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    Who am I to judge. But always remember,

    the TRUTH is what HURTS❗️If you always go by the truth. Then that means you'll never be WRONG❗️ ( And that's a good feeling😃)
    WTFcumFTW WTFcumFTW 41-45, M Dec 24, 2013

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    Accidental Offense

    Recently, I have written a couple of things that offended people unintentionally. I just wanted to apologize. I am not big on making excuses. To me the word excuse implies there was some reason I should have done what I did that makes it acceptable. I can tell you the reason I...
    jenvice jenvice 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    Walk In My Shoes.

    Before you judge my life, my past or my character. walk in my shoes, walk the path I have traveled, live my sorrow, my doubts, my fear, my pain and my laughter. Remember everyone has a story.
    cantescapemylove cantescapemylove 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    I literally never judge :) I like to keep an

    open mind about everything and try to discover the other persons point of view and wonder how I would react to the situation to help myself understand more. I am not perfect and just like every other person in the world, I have flaws so who am I to judge someone ? Sometimes...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    "Before you judge someone,

    get more information."
    Paradoxalintent Paradoxalintent 36-40, F 6 Responses May 30

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    So Fitting

    A friend joined this group today and I'm glad I saw so l could join too. l want people to know this about me. l have some strong opinions about right and wrong and about other things, but l don't want to judge anyone l don't agree with. And l don't want to hurt anyone at all. l...
    Simplified Simplified 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Seriously? There are way too many people

    who are in this group and are so rude. Which shouldn't surprise me, but oh well.
    angeliqueth angeliqueth 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    But seriously.. I do not s*ext with 14 year olds

    and I'm a little heartbroken every time I am approached by one.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    "When you judge another,

    you do not define them,you define yourself." Wayne Dyer.
    teachocolate teachocolate 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I'll only tell the truth.

    If we disagree and I believe the truth and you don't believe, and for sake of agreeing I joined your unbelief, we'd both be wrong.
    PrincessHeather PrincessHeather 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    All you're doing when you're judging someone is

    defining who you are instead of the person you're talking about.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 2 Responses May 31

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    I don't want to be judged

    or hurt, so I'd never do it to anyone else. I've lost count of how many people have judged me based on being female, or my ages, or tattoos etc. Well shock horror, I'm human and I have a brain and should be treated equally like anyone else that should be.
    squishyarmadillo squishyarmadillo 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Not Intentionally...

    I would never seek out someone to hurt them, but, at the same time if I express my opinion about something, and someone says something rude or smart, yea, I will let them have it. I will defend my opinion to the ground.  That's how I am, I can't help it.As far as judging, I don...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    I consider myself to be a strong,

    confident and compassionate person. I run a very busy life and a successful business, and use EP to connect in a way that allows me to help or vent anonymously. Recently I opened up a little more to a user on here by mistake, and got completely burnt in the process. I hold no...
    dafunkofamadhatter dafunkofamadhatter 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Related Experiences

    It's too true! If I can tell that something I said has emotionally effected someone in a negative way. I want to die. I want to go back in time kill myself before I hurt that...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I'd just like to put it out there that I am here for absolutely anyone. If I haven't been through the same things you have and vice versa, I don't care. Just message me and I'll...
    amysfc95 amysfc95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    i m here to be real ,i know ..i am not perfect ,i tried so much to be perfect in all way but now i accepted i can't be .. i am here to describe about myself and what kind of person...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M Aug 28

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    I hate being judged by pathetic nasty people who have **** all better to do than be nasty and horrible to me and call me a creep etc for no ******* reason Just because I actually...
    caringcutie caringcutie 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F Aug 25

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    I know I should have left, but I couldn't. I'm going through hell. My kids are important, but I can't even function now. I stayed against everyone's advice, but it's really hard to...
    ihatethisplanet ihatethisplanet 46-50, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Awww, I am not the only one here .. Ya I miss him, whenever I wake up in the middle of the night wishing I will see his message. And when I don't see any of his text I will get...
    VolatileMe VolatileMe 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    DONT JUDGE ME.. I DONT JUDGE YOU.. I have problems .. Like all of you have problems.. And we come on here with hopes.. In finding a person.. or someone who has experienced what...
    LittleMIssUnderst00d LittleMIssUnderst00d 26-30, F Aug 30

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    Guess I've just discovered that I'm an introvert. I'm actually enjoying my new found label, because it explains so much! I googled "introvert" read a bunch of comments that...
    PhotoB PhotoB 31-35, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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