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I Am Not Here To Judge Or Hurt Anyone

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    My wish when I come to EP is

    that we could all try to be less judgmental and hurtful towards one another; that we could cultivate a sense of conviviality and make EP a place for each of us to enjoy. If I don't agree with something someone has written, I try to avoid commenting and simply move along. We're...
    onomatopoeiaCA onomatopoeiaCA 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 27

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    These days almost everyone says try don't judge

    and I say that too. But if you think about it, you judge everyone all the time even without knowing it! A lot of people are still very nice and considerate but they still judge, they just don't say it.
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M Jul 9

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    No matter what humans are going to debate

    rather it's White vs Black, Christians vs Atheists, Women vs Men, Americans vs Other Countries, Religion vs Religion, Rich vs Poor. I am tired of this. I just don't understand why is it so hard to get along? What is wrong with people? If something is wrong then it is wrong! Stop...
    xjourneyx xjourneyx 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    It amazes me how i never judge on anyone

    or do hurt in real life or at ep... But the return is to rip my heart off my chest and step on and squash repeatedly for the amuse of people i get... I think i am making my own self get hurt for being who i am and sometimes think that my mistake is ... I care too much and don't...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35 1 Response Jul 15

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    Who am I to judge. But always remember,

    the TRUTH is what HURTS❗️If you always go by the truth. Then that means you'll never be WRONG❗️ ( And that's a good feeling😃)
    WTFcumFTW WTFcumFTW 41-45, M Dec 24, 2013

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    I am not a person of any significance

    that gives me the right to judge you. Nobody really is or should think they are.
    Brettk2000 Brettk2000 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    But seriously.. I do not s*ext with 14 year olds

    and I'm a little heartbroken every time I am approached by one.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    All you're doing when you're judging someone is

    defining who you are instead of the person you're talking about.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 2 Responses May 31

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    I see it a lot, though i am

    for one not here to judge or hurt anyone. I can be weird and do things people disagree but don't tell me how to live my life if i am not telling you how to live yours. Don't think for a second you're better then me because you're not. Where i am standing we are on equal grounds...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I don't want to be judged

    or hurt, so I'd never do it to anyone else. I've lost count of how many people have judged me based on being female, or my ages, or tattoos etc. Well shock horror, I'm human and I have a brain and should be treated equally like anyone else that should be.
    squishyarmadillo squishyarmadillo 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I consider myself to be a strong,

    confident and compassionate person. I run a very busy life and a successful business, and use EP to connect in a way that allows me to help or vent anonymously. Recently I opened up a little more to a user on here by mistake, and got completely burnt in the process. I hold no...
    dafunkofamadhatter dafunkofamadhatter 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 20

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    Seriously? There are way too many people

    who are in this group and are so rude. Which shouldn't surprise me, but oh well.
    angeliqueth angeliqueth 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I state my opinions and ideas in whatever comes

    across my mind. A lot which can be a touchy subject. And my words may be harsh. But if you're too sensitive to handle it or outraged by it then you may need to just ignore me because it's hard to change my stubborn mind.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    Ashleigh3103 Ashleigh3103 18-21, F Nov 6

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    “This is what you shall do; Love the earth

    and sun and the animals, despise riches, give alms to every one that asks, stand up for the stupid and crazy, devote your income and labor to others, hate tyrants, argue not concerning God, have patience and indulgence toward the people, take off your hat to nothing known or...
    Mags40 Mags40 41-45, F Oct 18

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    Accidental Offense

    Recently, I have written a couple of things that offended people unintentionally. I just wanted to apologize. I am not big on making excuses. To me the word excuse implies there was some reason I should have done what I did that makes it acceptable. I can tell you the reason I...
    jenvice jenvice 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    I am not here to judge,

    unless you are different than me, then I will judge you. Just kidding, I mostly won't judge you. Okay, just kidding again. I won't judge you. Promise.
    enviouseyes enviouseyes 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 22

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    TreeHuggingHippie000 TreeHuggingHippie000 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    BUT, start to pick a fight

    that was not needed, or is unfair, and you will see a side of me you wish you never provoked.
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    marcosdecastro marcosdecastro 18-21, M Jul 15

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    I really think everyone should have one person

    that they can tell ANYTHING to without being embarrassed. So if anyone needs someone like that, I'm all ears :)
    hebr0 hebr0 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Passing Judgement

    Judging someone or something (an experience or activity) is like reading the back cover synopsis of a novel...you are not getting the whole story.
    MosBlccPhnix MosBlccPhnix 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    My Love Is Abundant

    I am full of Love and more than willing to share it freely with anyone who asks and many that don't. For some that might just be a simple hug when they are down or nice comment intended to illicit a smile. For my friends and loved ones that means you get my all. Whatever you...
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 15 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    I'll only tell the truth.

    If we disagree and I believe the truth and you don't believe, and for sake of agreeing I joined your unbelief, we'd both be wrong.
    PrincessHeather PrincessHeather 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm One Of The Nicest People In The World And I

    Don't Care If Your Black White Tall Small Young Or Old , I Will Treat You With The Same Respect As I Would Do Anybody .. And I Never Judge Anybody Because I Don't Know What They Been Through . So If Anyone Ever Needs To Talk I'm Here
    YoungFly YoungFly 22-25, M Nov 6

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    I'm here to listen and give advice

    so I can help others.i hope to get that in return without being judged.
    hells85 hells85 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have no agenda. No standards by

    which to measure. I understand that your story is your own. Your journey is unique to you. That's what makes you interesting!!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 6

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    I am here to share a message ,

    ,,not my word ,,but my Fathers you don't have to agree with me ,,but I have served my country,,,raised my kid's and paid back every penny the state ever paid out for them,,,I took care of my grandparents ,,and my parents till their deaths,,I have served in my community and...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 15

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    So Fitting

    A friend joined this group today and I'm glad I saw so l could join too. l want people to know this about me. l have some strong opinions about right and wrong and about other things, but l don't want to judge anyone l don't agree with. And l don't want to hurt anyone at all. l...
    Simplified Simplified 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Although judging people is a natural human

    instinct, it is wrong. I believe beauty is only skin deep and that personality is what truly matters. Looks are an added bonus, but people are people and not things to be inspected in order to pass the 'acceptable to society' test.
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I really do believe I am a good listener,

    and sadly enough, I sometimes feel like I'm the only person left who genuinely cares and wants to help other people. There are too many bullies these days.
    Runningagainstthewind Runningagainstthewind 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I found this ask.fm that seems to help people

    with advice. I just thought I should tell people. www.ask.fm/StepIntoMyOffice
    Maoli Maoli 18-21, F a week ago

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    Why would I judge you .

    .. Freedoms of speech !!!
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M Nov 7

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    Is your avatar a fake

    or are you a fake? My favorite character as you can see in the avatar in one from Naruto his name is Uchiha Itachi. Now I will unravel the mystery of my favorite character. Itachi was a part of war when he was young which he was not supposed to be he saw the horrors of the war...
    AnimeLover44 AnimeLover44 13-15, M Nov 30, 2013

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    I hear from people all the time

    that "it doesn't matter if you're _________" or "I don't care if you do/like to ________" But it does. It does matter because it's important to me. The only reason I'd tell you I'm this or that is it's because I want to talk about it with you. I'm gay, it shouldn't matter but...
    justicehero justicehero 18-21, M Nov 6

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    Walk In My Shoes.

    Before you judge my life, my past or my character. walk in my shoes, walk the path I have traveled, live my sorrow, my doubts, my fear, my pain and my laughter. Remember everyone has a story.
    cantescapemylove cantescapemylove 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    We have 3 who claim not too judge.

    .we found something that Said we hack we judge Track..her
    hello51616 hello51616 51-55, F Nov 24

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    There is so much good in the worst of us,

    And so much bad in the best of us, That it hardly behooves any of us To talk about the rest of us. Edward Wallis Hoch,
    ThePinkPowerRanger ThePinkPowerRanger 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I literally never judge :) I like to keep an

    open mind about everything and try to discover the other persons point of view and wonder how I would react to the situation to help myself understand more. I am not perfect and just like every other person in the world, I have flaws so who am I to judge someone ? Sometimes...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I don't care who you are,

    where you're from, what you did, your past, what color you are, race, gender...etc as long as you're nice to me and respect me, I will respect you
    itsjustme11119 itsjustme11119 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    I am on this site to meet people

    who share opinions of mine, or people who disagree with them and are capable of having a civil debate about the topic. I am also on here to find a sister wife. My husband and I desperately want another woman in our relationship. Some of the people on here are incredibly rude...
    CountryQueen623 CountryQueen623 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6

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    No Judgment Intended

    I sometimes state my opinion on subject. You may not agree or may. Either way I am not meaning to pass judgment. To each their own. Peace
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    mtho040 mtho040 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I am not a person for judging others,

    but encourage them.If it is true my words can be rather hard sometimes,it is meant as a possitive criticism,a way to encourage the good and avoid the bad.As I am human,I may fail in many aspects too and I love to learn more everyday about how to be better.I wanna be the best...
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I'm just telling you the truth

    or questioning what the **** is up with you though
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Nov 12

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    I don't believe it's possible

    for anyone not to judge. The way we discern with our world is by our judgments. All people judge, but I will do what I can not to criticize, or condemn others. I will try my hardest to understand :)
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    "When you judge another,

    you do not define them,you define yourself." Wayne Dyer.
    teachocolate teachocolate 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I didn't join EP years ago to be an *******.

    I didn't rejoin EP to change that mantra either. I'm just here to have some fun and write stories like I used too back in the day when I was way younger lol.
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 5

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    “It is easier to forgive an enemy

    than to forgive a friend.”
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 27

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    I would never hurt someone intentionally. Sometimes I "word vomit" and I just say things that hurt people. I really don't mean to intentionally hurt anyone, it just happens.
    DaddysGirl1995 DaddysGirl1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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