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I Am Not Here To Judge Or Hurt Anyone

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    I really think everyone should have one person

    that they can tell ANYTHING to without being embarrassed. So if anyone needs someone like that, I'm all ears :)
    hebr0 hebr0 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    So Fitting

    A friend joined this group today and I'm glad I saw so l could join too. l want people to know this about me. l have some strong opinions about right and wrong and about other things, but l don't want to judge anyone l don't agree with. And l don't want to hurt anyone at all. l...
    Simplified Simplified 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    I never felt strongly enough about anything to

    get it tattooed on my body. I have nothing against tattoos but I just don't see it in my near future.
    mwessley mwessley 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    Walk In My Shoes.

    Before you judge my life, my past or my character. walk in my shoes, walk the path I have traveled, live my sorrow, my doubts, my fear, my pain and my laughter. Remember everyone has a story.
    cantescapemylove cantescapemylove 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    My Love Is Abundant

    I am full of Love and more than willing to share it freely with anyone who asks and many that don't. For some that might just be a simple hug when they are down or nice comment intended to illicit a smile. For my friends and loved ones that means you get my all. Whatever you...
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 16 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    Anyone with question related to being lgbt

    or anything related to it can ask me questions no judgment
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F Feb 24

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    Passing Judgement

    Judging someone or something (an experience or activity) is like reading the back cover synopsis of a novel...you are not getting the whole story.
    bvoyuer1 bvoyuer1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    I'm here to listen and give advice

    so I can help others.i hope to get that in return without being judged.
    hells85 hells85 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    In 5th grade I didn't like one of my friends,

    so I excluded her. After that I've always felt guilty even though I now friends with her now. I now truly understand how she felt when I judged her. Whenever I go online someone just has to put someone else down. They really like to attack me and other people like me.
    iliketobealone iliketobealone 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Who am I to judge. But always remember,

    the TRUTH is what HURTS❗️If you always go by the truth. Then that means you'll never be WRONG❗️ ( And that's a good feeling😃)
    WTFcumFTW WTFcumFTW 41-45, M Dec 24, 2013

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    But if you want to know more about sex ,

    approach a professional.I dislike twenty somethings sending me messages asking me about sex.
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I here to comfort you,

    I want to help anyone who needs help, with anything. I love you guys and I'm here for you💞🌸👏🙊💋
    biebbrauhll biebbrauhll 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Psychology says: Most of mankind is motivated

    by self-interest, however most can exercise impulse control due to their personal core values. Narcissists on the other hand appear to be disconnected from their personal feelings, therefore lacking a personal value system. This lacking of a value system leads also to a lack of...
    rcp10 rcp10 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Is your avatar a fake

    or are you a fake? My favorite character as you can see in the avatar in one from Naruto his name is Uchiha Itachi. Now I will unravel the mystery of my favorite character. Itachi was a part of war when he was young which he was not supposed to be he saw the horrors of the war...
    AnimeLover44 AnimeLover44 13-15, M Nov 30, 2013

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    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    richierich22 richierich22 16-17, M Jan 6

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    I am here to share a message ,

    ,,not my word ,,but my Fathers you don't have to agree with me ,,but I have served my country,,,raised my kid's and paid back every penny the state ever paid out for them,,,I took care of my grandparents ,,and my parents till their deaths,,I have served in my community and...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    I don't want to be judged

    or hurt, so I'd never do it to anyone else. I've lost count of how many people have judged me based on being female, or my ages, or tattoos etc. Well shock horror, I'm human and I have a brain and should be treated equally like anyone else that should be.
    squishyarmadillo squishyarmadillo 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    Not Intentionally...

    I would never seek out someone to hurt them, but, at the same time if I express my opinion about something, and someone says something rude or smart, yea, I will let them have it. I will defend my opinion to the ground.  That's how I am, I can't help it.As far as judging, I don...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    I'm here to learn through others,

    and maybe (just maybe) allow others to learn from my experiences and hopefully make real friends.
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My friends are questioning me on

    why I'm still friends with these 3 people. One of them was my friends bf and he raped he and she tried killing herself. And I'm still friends with him. The other person I love seven though she treats me and everyone like **** I'm still friends with her and have a major crush on...
    CannibalizeTheMerciful CannibalizeTheMerciful 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    Vixen1225 Vixen1225 13-15, F Apr 4

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    Do You And Whomever Truly Click?

    Sometimes we have to experience two things in life in order to really understand others...one being humbled in some way and two, truly understanding why/the reasoning others are often quiet or why they feel as they do about a situation. The catch though seems to be experiencing...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F Jan 19, 2013

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    I see it a lot, though i am

    for one not here to judge or hurt anyone. I can be weird and do things people disagree but don't tell me how to live my life if i am not telling you how to live yours. Don't think for a second you're better then me because you're not. Where i am standing we are on equal grounds...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    "When people get hurt,

    they learn to hate When people hurt others, they become hated and racked with guilt. But knowing that pain allows people to be kind. Pain allows people to grow and how you grow is up to you." Hope everyone is having a good day!
    Demeterdreaming Demeterdreaming 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    myraaxx myraaxx 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    But if you are a San Diego chargers fan it's

    looking like the party is about to be over.
    Nevergonnagiveuup Nevergonnagiveuup 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    I'm not here to judge,

    or trying hurt you in any way... That is just not me from nature and who the **** am I to tell this or give pain...
    PompeyLd87 PompeyLd87 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Accidental Offense

    Recently, I have written a couple of things that offended people unintentionally. I just wanted to apologize. I am not big on making excuses. To me the word excuse implies there was some reason I should have done what I did that makes it acceptable. I can tell you the reason I...
    jenvice jenvice 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    However

    If I disagree with you, I'm going to say so. If I think you're being foolish, I'm going to say so. I am sorry if anyone feels hurt over things I say, but I do try to be tactful about it...most of the time.
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    I don't believe it's possible

    for anyone not to judge. The way we discern with our world is by our judgments. All people judge, but I will do what I can not to criticize, or condemn others. I will try my hardest to understand :)
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    And I would ask only

    for the same.
    anonymousfraud anonymousfraud 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Anyone who reserves the right to judge another

    person must first be satisfied with themselves: past, history and present. If they are, then I question their judgement. Most issues are made black and white only because it is easier to make ourselves comfortable in this way. It is easier to have conviction when there is a...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Why I'M Here

    I'm not here to judge. And, I'm not here to hurt anyone. I'm an individual with emotional problems who, all too often, feels alone. I'm a FTM transsexual who is gay and struggling. I have become more androgynous, possibly due to my upbringing. I'm happy with being a masculine...
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T 4 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    No Judgment Intended

    I sometimes state my opinion on subject. You may not agree or may. Either way I am not meaning to pass judgment. To each their own. Peace
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    I Wouldn'T Want To Be Judged So Why Would I Judge You?!

    I don't think anyone lives a perfect life so who are we to judge. I believe in acceptance of others for who they are! I'm not saying to be best friends but gaining a different perspective or just being open minded! :)
    kaylovelygirl kaylovelygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    I have near death experiences in my sleep.

    .. The doctors don't know what to do.... I'm acctually scared
    rosie1995 rosie1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I'm not. But some people are.

    Well, let me rephrase, they are here to find someone, sweet talk them with words, then **** them over and do the same thing to some one else. That hurts. And why can't they realize that?
    Gleek305 Gleek305 13-15, F Feb 4

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    I'm feeling so much more better.

    Just always keep in mind that time heals pain. You'll get over what you thought was the end of the world in no time. You just gotta keep on swimming on
    PrincessUniverse PrincessUniverse 16-17, F Apr 8

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    Life is just too darn short to be hating anyone,

    I understand if u came from a messed up family and got hurt a lot but u hurting others don't help the world go around, I'm all about peace and helping others, I'm a lover and not a fighter but will fight for love if need be. 😁👍
    StevensTHEname StevensTHEname 26-30, M Apr 11

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    But seriously.. I do not s*ext with 14 year olds

    and I'm a little heartbroken every time I am approached by one.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    I am not a person for judging others,

    but encourage them.If it is true my words can be rather hard sometimes,it is meant as a possitive criticism,a way to encourage the good and avoid the bad.As I am human,I may fail in many aspects too and I love to learn more everyday about how to be better.I wanna be the best...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Matthew224 Matthew224 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I am just curious! I often feel plain

    and insignificant in lots of ways, and I wonder if that is really true.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 28

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    questioner16 questioner16 13-15, F Apr 6

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    Why do people judge you easily when they don't even know you at all? Just because they didn't like my question, they reacted like as if I degrade people based on their orientation...
    MissPurple912 MissPurple912 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Oops, I thought this said, "I don't want to hurt anyone!" I need to read before clicking "Me Too," lol :P
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 28

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    I am here to help. Anyone who feels they are at a loss of where to go. My huge array of friends all come to me.. Because I hear them. And more than half seek my opinion. My opinion...
    quantumenergy quantumenergy 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    I dont know how or why we do it, but we ALWAYS hurt those we love most. Even in the past, i hurt my closest friends. Theres this guy ive been friends with for about three years...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    People should always be careful of their words because the tongue is a deadly sword. #if you're not for me you must be against me. Talking about friends is judgment, unless you can...
    TooUnbearable TooUnbearable 36-40, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I hate when people judge me even thought they don't really no me for me
    RaspberryTommyCat RaspberryTommyCat 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    you do not know me, and I do not know you, so why do you want to judge me ? till I have lived your live, I would never judge you. on EP are so many different people, feelings...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 5

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    I am not a perfect person. I've made bad choices & displayed poor behavior in my past. I've paid the price for it & I've learned from it. What really gets to me though is, other...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I dont really know if I should give up or keep looking or what. I am bisexual, and have been for about 12 years. I am far more attracted to women than I am men. But I have never...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I know what it is like to feel alone, and feel like you have no one that you can talk to. I know what it is like to feel like the whole world is against you, and you have no one to...