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I Am Not Here to Win a Popularity Contest

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 337 People

    So I'm experiencing the decrease

    or the fall of this so called "popularity." It probably sucks but I don't really mind since it won't do any better to me. People have been ignoring me in real life and unfollowing me online. It doesn't really matter to me, until the individuals I've considered as "friends" are...
    AnimeShugosha AnimeShugosha 18-21, F Jul 5

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    I Have Found Myself On Here.

    On here i can be completely truthful and i dont batter an eyelid, dont get me wrong i do find some of the stuff i tell to be hurtfull but so many others gives so much support and my friends make sence and make me see things in way i might not be able to. Popularity is not quest...
    trulysad trulysad 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    Honestly...

    For the most part, I joined this group because of the funny little gnome avatar! I've never mooned anyone myself, but it makes me giggle! I'm really not here to win any popularity contests though. I'm just here to be me, vent, meet people, do what I can to help others and make...
    cherryxblossom cherryxblossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    Most people will never

    even know I'm here, but I don't want to be friends with most people, so I don't care. I prefer to keep a small and tight knit circle of decent, like-minded people with whom I can form real bonds. I'm not a number collector, and I don't want number collectors in my circle...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 16

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    Couldn't Care Less

    I see the popular peeps on EP everywhere, the ones with a thousand groups dedicated to them, etc. That's all well and good, and I say let them keep that spotlight, Baby!!I prefer it in the shadows.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    I Hate Competition

    I despise it. I play sports for recreation and fun, I don't enter competitions to test my skills and put them up against others. I play my music privately, because I don't want to enter the competition game of being compared to others, or having others compared to me. I try to...
    Jiemusu Jiemusu 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2010

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    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 Mar 9, 2011

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    I Really Don't Care...

    I am not an attention seeker or a drama queen. I do not feel the need to write a blog or story every time I have a thought or a bodily function. I do not aim to be on every body's friends list, and I keep my list down to my real friends. Numbers do not bother me nor does having...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 19, 2009

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    Why I Joined Ep

    It wasn't about how many people I could add to my circle. It wasn't about how many people I could get to admire my pics. I am here because I am a serious writer and I have had many many interested experiences over the years. Some will have people saying that couldn't have...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 21, 2011

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    Umm, Not Today Thanks - I'm Full

    Well spank my arse and call me Charlie, could have fooled me.. I really am learning not to give a flying fat rats whether you like me, approve of me, or even speak to me. I am learning that I come first, and therefore - I mean more than some popularity contest. Bring on the...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2010

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    No...

    I am not here to win a damn popularity contest. I am here to be me, at least that is why I joined Ep, was to be me, and to be accepted. I am more me, now than I ever was. I am here to find friends that I will keep forever. I Love my friends, and I will do anything for them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    Popular Was Never My Thing

    I'm not here to win any contest. Least of all when it comes to popularity. I really couldn't care less whether I had 100 or 67 or 5 friends on here. I'd rather have 5 people that actually mean something to me and that I care about rather than 500 strangers and 99.9% of them don't...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2012

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    Never Liked Being Popular

    In real life; I just want to be left alone. But in EP, it's different.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    Real Deal

    To me, everyone is a star to themselves, their family and friends. Hollywood and popular cliques don't have to raise you up. It's actually a good thing if Hollywood paparazzi and media does not know who you are, if what makes the news is any indication. Getting your picture...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Oct 21, 2012

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    I Am Not Here To ...

    I was never the type who liked being popular in my real life and certaintly not online either.  I have deleted quite a few people and nothing intentionally, just want a smaller circle, so therefore, I am not here to win a popularity contest.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 19, 2011

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    Wings Clipped, Sharpish

    I am not here to win a popularity contest. I am no angel yet I am mannerly to all those with whom I am lucky enough to contact.  I don't expect much, but manners is one of my key requirements.  Don't assume you have right of access to my profile circle just because it may "cost...
    2wiceasnice 2wiceasnice 41-45, F 2 Responses May 15, 2013

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    Nice to see so many people, happy to just be themselves, and not worry about being judged. It's refreshing to see! I mean........how boring would life and people be if we all...
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