Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am Not In a Rush to Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Not In Near Future

    I am not in a rush at all. I am enjoying my life now with my bf and I wanted to enjoy it to max. I don't know how things will change once we get married. We both agreed to stay in live in relationship for at least 3-4 more years before thinking of marriage. I feel we loose the...
    ramyahyd83 ramyahyd83 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Taking My Time

    After spending so many years pining away with my friends over finding "the one" recently I have come to the conclusion that I am not in a rush to get married. Maybe it's the fact that I had two children at a young age and my biological clock isn't ticking. Or maybe it...
    soulspin27 soulspin27 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Maybe One Day

    Not now for sure. Marriage now will just disrupt my lifestyle now and i love it... I wanna one day but not soon...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F Nov 23, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Taking It Slowly In My Stride

    No way. Getting married, it's a big thing that should never be rushed. Many of my fellow cousins have had terrible marriages because they rushed into their vows. I will, like I do with most of my life, slowly get around to it. I need to meet a man first, step 1 is yet to be...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Nov 24, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Eventually...

    I'd like to be married eventually...but soon?  no way.  for one, there aren't even really any prospects lol  for two...i HATE to be rushed into things b/c eventually i'll put on the brakes and be like 'wtf?' and then bail.  That's happened with my last two...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I can't wait to get married, but a lot of my mom's co-workers & friends/our family are separating from their spouses and a lot of them have been unfaithful...would y'all still...
    amaxv amaxv 13-15, F 49 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's one of the few things I really want in life. Just be married to a nice guy and maybe have a kid or two. But right now it feels more like its never going to happen and that's...
    BellaItalia68 BellaItalia68 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So, what does a man do that is married, and yet has been alone for several years? Does he try to fix the problem? Yes, he does, he tries, go to counseling, and is promised things...
    Macitwillbe Macitwillbe 51-55, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    it's a dream of mine to be able to be married to a husband who is perfect for me. Just to be able to live and grow with another man would make me feel like the luckiest guy. It's...
    youngadult18 youngadult18 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know this looks really bad, but please don't judge me. I was 17 when I started working as a waitress in a restaurant in my hometown. One day, as I was about to leave work and...
    ironwoman45 ironwoman45 26-30, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know this looks really bad, but please don't judge me. I was 17 when I started working as a waitress in a restaurant in my hometown. One day, as I was about to leave work and...
    ironwoman45 ironwoman45 26-30, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi,i have been in a relationship with married man for almost 4 years,we work together, when meet him he was having an affair with another married woman, but after a year they after...
    myrtle67 myrtle67 26-30, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was always taught never to go to bed on a cross word. I haven't been married that long but I always tell my husband I love him and thank him for today before I go to sleep...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 24 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My wife (now ex) was/is a compulsive liar. All the time we were married I started to realise something was not quite right. I caught her lying about a number of things, some...
    Horny63 Horny63 51-55, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My wife (now ex) was/is a compulsive liar. All the time we were married I started to realise something was not quite right. I caught her lying about a number of things, some...
    Horny63 Horny63 51-55, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My wife asked me a while ago if I would've married even if my parents didn't like her. I said, "Yeah, I would. I follow my heart, not theirs." Then she said, "Okay, now ask me...
    KarlKadaver KarlKadaver 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    so I am married 4 years this coming Thursday and almost 9 years together. at first there was a connection so strong we j couldn't keep our hands off each other. he moved in day...
    LoveMeTender220 LoveMeTender220 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not married... When I was younger (before I had kids) I never wanted to get married, I had no intentions of ever getting married! To me, marriage was stupid & all it was to me...
    chy08 chy08 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm dying to get married. We've been waiting way too long. WAY TOO LONG! It's been like a year. It's time to get ******* married. God.
    NikkiWeasley NikkiWeasley 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I happy to say I'm happily married to a wonderful man. We been married for 4 months now and he can be a drama king at time but I like it lol as weird as that sounds. I love...
    woman24 woman24 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok so I will acknowledge that this is way weird, but here it goes. I met a guy here on ep who turned my world upside down. He pursued me after seeing a few of my experience posts...
    bellyluv3478 bellyluv3478 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel I was happier before I got married. I had a great 16 month gap from my now husband. We got married almost five years ago. We currently have 3 children. It just seems like...
    LonelyHoneyEyes003 LonelyHoneyEyes003 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am just sitting here, drinking wine and crying. I've had enough. I am a very attractive woman not considered attractive enough to have sex with by my husband. He is a liar...
    cheshca cheshca 26-30, F 44 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's funny where life takes you sometimes. You can meet one person who can change the entire course of your life. Would you be willing to give up your future goals, give up seeing...
    Milesaway3 Milesaway3 26-30, F 5 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Very happily married! It's amazing how well we go together. We're both a little nuts in our own way. I'm a hothead and he tolerates me somehow. He's even helped me become a better...
    kRypt0lite kRypt0lite 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a 58 year old woman who is married to a, ah, how do I describe him. Nice guy when you meet him in a bar, where he spends most of his time if he doesn't find a 'jack of all...
    Debneedshelp Debneedshelp 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why do I stay, when I feel this way?! Why do I hold the importance of my faith and my commitment higher than I hold myself? Is this how it is supposed to be? I have been struggling...
    momnga momnga 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a 65 year old retired UK guy who has been married for almost 40 years and with two great sons. I only realised that I was attracted to men when I was in my 40s but I should...
    Ruffekim1 Ruffekim1 61-65, M Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Listen what´s happened to me: I was married to a man, who always left me immediately after marraige for months, then he came back for some weeks and left me again. AFTER my...
    Loretta78 Loretta78 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am married, I am married. I AM MARRIED. Time to take few steps back and get my head straight.
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Are there any pretty women out there (age irrelevant) who'd like to meet an erudite, highly-educated, (very) well-preserved guy (58) with a wicked sense of humor? The man to whom...
    JimmyLonesome JimmyLonesome 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was in denial about being a lesbian. I married my best friend, I think a lot of the reason, I was subconsciously trying to find a "normal family." 2 months after getting married...
    michellebella46 michellebella46 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not married so I don't want to be with a married man!
    snowgracefulbunny snowgracefulbunny 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Nope, I'm not married. BUT, I hope to get married to a man that truly loves me, and I truly love him. I also want both of us to be happy most of the time and be able to talk. I...
    hugsnotughs hugsnotughs 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We got married last year. I met him when we were 15. Best friends for 3 years, then i became pregnant and the father ran. My best friend stepped up to take care of me. We lived...
    UkuladyPDX UkuladyPDX 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am officially a married woman!! Feels good to say that. I got married on July 11, 2015 at 12:00pm. I cant tell you how happy I am that it was sunny.We came back from our...
    Outofeden Outofeden 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Let's get this straight, I'm not in the "I'm Married" group just because I can be. I happen to actually be married and happily so! When I post anything it is NOT an invitation for...
    PassionsRoar PassionsRoar 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Married now, married previously too, I take it u are both young, and as we all know boys develop later than girls. At this point, if u are u a strong woman, u need to weigh ur...
    Rosswallin Rosswallin 31-35, F Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How long have you been married post disclosure? How old are you and your wife? How long have you been married? Do you have children? We were married 6 years post disclosure before...
    newlyout newlyout 31-35 1 Response Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been married to my beautiful wife for twenty years. She stole my heart a long time ago. We grew up as kids in the same small town. I really noticed her for the first time at...
    jjohnnyboy jjohnnyboy 41-45, M 5 Responses Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I married a wonderful man 2 years ago. We have been together for 5. At the beginning of our relationship I had been seeing a married man but stopped. I was never able to forget the...
    Queenbee1960 Queenbee1960 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This QUESTION is ONLY for married men over the age of 25. .. You've been married several years & you're been neglecting your wife, she tells you that she's lonely & you pretty...
    dandylion7 dandylion7 41-45, F 20 Responses Jul 15