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I Am Not In a Rush to Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Taking My Time

    After spending so many years pining away with my friends over finding "the one" recently I have come to the conclusion that I am not in a rush to get married. Maybe it's the fact that I had two children at a young age and my biological clock isn't ticking. Or maybe it...
    soulspin27 soulspin27 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2007

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    Not In Near Future

    I am not in a rush at all. I am enjoying my life now with my bf and I wanted to enjoy it to max. I don't know how things will change once we get married. We both agreed to stay in live in relationship for at least 3-4 more years before thinking of marriage. I feel we loose the...
    ramyahyd83 ramyahyd83 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Eventually...

    I'd like to be married eventually...but soon?  no way.  for one, there aren't even really any prospects lol  for two...i HATE to be rushed into things b/c eventually i'll put on the brakes and be like 'wtf?' and then bail.  That's happened with my last two...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2008

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    Maybe One Day

    Not now for sure. Marriage now will just disrupt my lifestyle now and i love it... I wanna one day but not soon...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F Nov 23, 2007

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    Taking It Slowly In My Stride

    No way. Getting married, it's a big thing that should never be rushed. Many of my fellow cousins have had terrible marriages because they rushed into their vows. I will, like I do with most of my life, slowly get around to it. I need to meet a man first, step 1 is yet to be...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Nov 24, 2007

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    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm in love with him,we've been go through this hard time for the past two years,i love him more than I've ever loved a man.he's special he loved his wife,but he loves me too.we...
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    OUR STORY, PART ONE I first laid eyes on M in 1994 while working my first job after graduating college. I only saw him on occasion because he was a film supplier for the company...
    BellaLocura BellaLocura 41-45, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I get married I want to stay married and live a happy life with my wife
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M a week ago

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    I am not only married but well married. Totally monogamous over twenty five years of marriage AND we make love every day, her idea BTW. I am totally head over heels in love with...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Ok here goes....I used to be on here years ago but decided to quit because I thought I would be able to sort out my life ...but seemingly to no avail. So here is my story. I am...
    worldtravels123 worldtravels123 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    Is there any point? Do you really need to get married? If you really love someone do you really need to put on a show to prove it? I don't think I'd ever get married again...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    Well, I'm just going to spill my guts about the whole thing. I will preface this with the fact that for the past year I've felt like my husband and I have no connection at all. It...
    Rands664 Rands664 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I can honestly say I wish I had never gotten married. we had our daughter a yr ago, and she has been so lazy for the last year. she sits around and does nothing all day long when...
    idkw2 idkw2 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    The heading "....Than Unhappily Married" is an understatement. Twice during my mid-adult years, my parents pressured me to seriously consider marrying a woman. Granted, a great...
    Dreamboy12 Dreamboy12 56-60, M Jan 23

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    I live for the rush. I love speeding in my car. I love the feeling during sex. I love watching a fight or better yet being in one. It's addictive and I love it.
    pointisthis pointisthis 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Really can't wait to get married ... But at the same time I wanna wait . I don't want to rush anything I see so many marriages fail . I always thought if you fell in love you...
    reddmarie reddmarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Should I feel bad about having sex with a married woman even tho she's young and married ( 26 )
    megamalik76 megamalik76 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I am a married man, another fact would be that I am 25 and have been married since I was 18. I have 3 beautiful, smart, wonderful children. 2 are mine, and is my step daughter. My...
    hypnoticman2627 hypnoticman2627 22-25, M Jan 21

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    22 years ago I fell in love with a man I worked with. I was in my mid 20s and he was a year older than me. We started as friends and it turned to flirting. One day a coworker said...
    Freckles1969 Freckles1969 46-50, F 6 Responses Jan 20

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    I have been married since August of last year. The man I married is a good guy. He is loving and provides for the family. I have one son and so does he. However he has trust issues...
    lori04 lori04 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    When I first was introduced to my wife we had a whirlwind romance. She was exciting, and chill. I fell in love with her quickly. Mostly because I wanted to, but I also knew that...
    wjwtac78 wjwtac78 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I married at 24 and had waited until that time to first have sex; I lost my virginity to my husband on our wedding night. I was pregnant by the time our honeymoon ended so that was...
    MrsArrington MrsArrington 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I am in a long distance relationship. We live in 2 different continents and we have been dating for almost 2 years. We haven't met each other in person but he plans to visit me on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 17

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    I'm happily married Or so you say But the ones close to you See your tears, See your sadness And hug your worries away They give you the moral support They smile to give you a...
    Elsi3 Elsi3 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    Am 44 and married 13 years with 2 children. Some time ago my husband was unfaithful. This has destroyed my world beyond anything. I have a good friend who is my age that I speak to...
    Raffta Raffta 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I am married but I'm starting to feel incomplete.
    itsmeSheenaRose itsmeSheenaRose 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 17

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      I don't know who reads this or why, so as much as anything I'm just typing to put feelings to paper. I love my children more than anything in life-- I've been blessed with...
    regulardude1212 regulardude1212 36-40, M 13 Responses Jan 16

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    Ok, a friend confided in me that a married man has been asking her for a fling. His wife is gorgeous, a great woman, good mom, wonderful person. So why does he want to cheat? I'm...
    hotlatinamomma hotlatinamomma 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 16

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    Where are the NC guys at? Married or single I wont discriminate he he
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 16

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    While doing a Google search for "lesbian married to men" I found this site. After doing some reading, I am so relieved to know that I am not alone. My feelings if guilt for not...
    Adders8 Adders8 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    I am married but never thought it would happen or expected it. I was wanting it for a long time.
    Need2cupee Need2cupee 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I'm married to an absolutely amazing man:) I love him very much. He works hard for our little family, and I appreciate that. He's a good father a little tough sometimes but good.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Where are all the Carolina men at married or otherwise? Message me fellas
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 15

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    Reasons why I'm never going to get married: -50% of marriages end in divorce. -Infidelity occurs in up to 60% of relationships. - The average marriage lasts 8 years before divorce...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 15

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    My husband went to sleep early last night. Again. Does anyone else have this problem while being married to an older man? My husband is 14 years my senior. He works 6 out of 7 days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jan 15

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    I married my husband @ 17 and we have been married for 21yrs. He is absolutely amazing,although it has not always been perfect it's definitely worth the work. ❤️
    Mandie930 Mandie930 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 21YEARS TODAY !!!
    HotDangCpl HotDangCpl 46-50, M 11 Responses Jan 14

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    How did I not see it. I studied psychology in college and worked in a mental hospital. Three months into our marriage she said, "My biggest mistake in life was divorcing my first...
    BenTharB4 BenTharB4 61-65, M Jan 14

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    I am married for 13 yrs... Went through so much with him. And now he does not even want to have sex with me
    Beannie03 Beannie03 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    I have been very happily married cross dresser for over 25 years now, but as all things do change. My wife knew of my dressing long before we married so it was and is never a...
    squeekers2 squeekers2 61-65, M 1 Response