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I Am Not In a Rush to Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    Eventually...

    I'd like to be married eventually...but soon?  no way.  for one, there aren't even really any prospects lol  for two...i HATE to be rushed into things b/c eventually i'll put on the brakes and be like 'wtf?' and then bail.  That's happened with my last two...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2008

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    Maybe One Day

    Not now for sure. Marriage now will just disrupt my lifestyle now and i love it... I wanna one day but not soon...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F Nov 23, 2007

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    Taking It Slowly In My Stride

    No way. Getting married, it's a big thing that should never be rushed. Many of my fellow cousins have had terrible marriages because they rushed into their vows. I will, like I do with most of my life, slowly get around to it. I need to meet a man first, step 1 is yet to be...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Nov 24, 2007

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    Taking My Time

    After spending so many years pining away with my friends over finding "the one" recently I have come to the conclusion that I am not in a rush to get married. Maybe it's the fact that I had two children at a young age and my biological clock isn't ticking. Or maybe it...
    soulspin27 soulspin27 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2007

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    Not In Near Future

    I am not in a rush at all. I am enjoying my life now with my bf and I wanted to enjoy it to max. I don't know how things will change once we get married. We both agreed to stay in live in relationship for at least 3-4 more years before thinking of marriage. I feel we loose the...
    ramyahyd83 ramyahyd83 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Many of them are online....as in I have never even met them in person. I have a pretty strong connection with a couple of them, but nothing I would consider inappropriate. One is...
    TornSoul13 TornSoul13 36-40, M 10 hrs ago

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    i think my husband hates me..he said to me that he regret married with me everytime we argue..n this time is the 3rd time..i knew this is going to happen the day before we married...
    nothimanymore nothimanymore 26-30, F 20 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I’m in no rush but everything seems like it is speeding up. It feels like yesterday that I was sitting in my grandma’s kitchen on the floor (we liked to do that) eating...
    DreamCloud17 DreamCloud17 18-21, F Mar 13

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    I met my best friend when I was 14 and he was 12. There was an instant connection and I fell head over heels for him. Everyone asked if we were a couple and we both said no...but...
    zippy80 zippy80 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    Now I'm not rushing it or anything, but that is a long term goal. What man doesn't want to wake up to a beautiful wife and kids everyday? Or even a beautiful husband? Family is...
    NotAKenDoll NotAKenDoll 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I just started posting here and I do have to say, the negativity on here in this category is mind blowing. I want to share my experience about how I met my husband. When we met, he...
    Lil5 Lil5 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    I know this must sound fake but I married a man 49 years ago that I never really loved. I have never told anyone this. I kept making excuses that he was a good husband a good...
    blufftongal546 blufftongal546 66-70, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Ok so as some of you ep friends who have followed my story. And to those who haven't. I want to run something by you all and get your thoughts. As you may or may not know my...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 34 Responses Feb 28

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    I am 24, and got married at 23 and my husband is 6 years older than me and have only been married just over a year and well, I thought I had it all to start off with. We got on...
    Starwolf22 Starwolf22 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    First off let me start by saying I Love Sex. I was always under the impression Men loved Sex too. So how is it I married the only man in the world who doesn't want sex??? We have...
    Frisco99 Frisco99 36-40, F Mar 6

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    I've been married 8 years and feel like I am wasting time every day that goes by. I guess I made the wrong decision in marrying my wife but two kids later I feel like I'm stuck in...
    Stimulatingconvoplz Stimulatingconvoplz 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I just can't seem to come to my senses when it comes to him he's so good looking, just a simple glance at him can put me in a good mood. the only downside to this is that he's...
    dolly98 dolly98 18-21, F Mar 13

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    My co worker and I have been working together for close to a year and he is married and he asked me out today. He always flirts but never actually came out and said anything. I...
    mnc13085 mnc13085 26-30, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been married for 18 years. I have like the attention of both men and women; however, I have never been with a women. I hope to make a friend or two of other married Bicurious...
    Jai72 Jai72 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    I'm the sheep that got away from the herd before being beheaded.. haha! Most of my friends are married and some even have kids but I can't even imagine living that life just yet...
    nick030 nick030 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    So my husband and I. We've been together for 12 years, married for 8. We have 2 kids together. We met when we were both abroad, and he pretty much moved to a different continent...
    quira00 quira00 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    First and foremost let me apologize, of the skills I possess my writing happens to be the weakest of them and has always left me feeling at somewhat of a disadvantage when trying...
    nustalja nustalja 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 1

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    I am happily married with a pile of kids. I love my wife now more than when we got married. But, I sure don't know how she puts up with me! lol
    NaturalinMS NaturalinMS 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 2

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    It's this guy I work with likes me and I have a little for him too. This has been going on for a while now but haven't completely gave in because he is married. Last weekend he...
    sweetbee221 sweetbee221 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I didn't find a right group, so posting here. I am married but I found a woman who struck chords. She is single though! I want to date her or at least be friends. what's the best...
    philophil philophil 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    I've been married a long time now with my high school sweetheart. Although people may think I'm a jerk for longing to be with someone else, it is I that has always worked to keep...
    philip5488 philip5488 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I am very happily married. In fact after years of not paying enough attention to my wife, God cleansed my soul and I suddenly became closer to her. I fell in love with her all over...
    AquaVelva AquaVelva 41-45, M Mar 7

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    It's been an exhausting two weeks. We were in court on Monday. All day. He was off the scale ridiculous. Desperate to control me and have as much power as he can through...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I am laying in my bed in my big rig and I would just love to have a woman here with me to snuggle and talk with and yes, make love to. I hate what I do to make a living. My wife...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 11

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    When I married this man I was completely unaware of the true nature of this man. I am the kind of person that must admire and look up to the man I am with. I wasn't married for...
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I am happily married, but have the need to be intimate with a woman, even if it is just kissing and touching, and I wish I could find someone who feels the same, and also is...
    Butterflywings1 Butterflywings1 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 11

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    I too love a married man; he doesn't feel the same as I.25 yrs he finally let his hatred of me be known to the world. He moved to a different state ran away from me, left our 3...
    bNangela4u bNangela4u 41-45, F Mar 11

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    I met my husband five years ago and married him a year ago. We worked together and when we first met I was instantly attracted but was in a relationship at the time as was he. A...
    chrissy0516 chrissy0516 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 12

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    Feminism and the Maiden Name There are three names allowed in this jurisdiction a married woman may use. First, she can keep her first name and change her last name into that of...
    mareliberum mareliberum 26-30 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Any lonely married women out there who want to console a lonely married guy?? Times get so unbearable at times
    MarriedandShy MarriedandShy 31-35, M Mar 13

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    Please try not to judge me too harshly. I already am mean enough to myself about this. I have been with my boyfriend for over four years now. We have a 3 year old daughter and I'm...
    smallworld14 smallworld14 22-25, F Mar 13

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    I am a very happily married wife and mom. I have been married for 23 years and to two men and not at the same time. I have three teenagers at home to deal with. I have 2 sons...
    olderfemalesunbathing olderfemalesunbathing 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I want to get married and have children. If the cards are right, I wouldn't mind being a house wife. Cooking and cleaning, taking care of the children, making sure whomever I'm...
    imateenagewasteland imateenagewasteland 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    Most people are Just Married even after 20 years! That's right - just married; not in love!
    BUalways BUalways 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 14

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    Is it really so hard for someone to believe that you can be a happily married (and completely faithful) person and be on EP?? I mean, seriously, are we that far gone? If I had a...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 15

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    hello out there world...so I have been married before...and now I have been with my fiance for almost 3 years now. And all I want to do is get married but he says, "when it happens...
    jellyko2004 jellyko2004 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    We met 15 yrs ago, fell madly in love, right from the gate! He was married, I was in a serious relationship. He left her, I left my bf..life struggles, bad timing, different paths...
    assholemagnet assholemagnet 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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