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I Am Not In a Rush to Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Not In Near Future

    I am not in a rush at all. I am enjoying my life now with my bf and I wanted to enjoy it to max. I don't know how things will change once we get married. We both agreed to stay in live in relationship for at least 3-4 more years before thinking of marriage. I feel we loose the...
    ramyahyd83 ramyahyd83 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Taking My Time

    After spending so many years pining away with my friends over finding "the one" recently I have come to the conclusion that I am not in a rush to get married. Maybe it's the fact that I had two children at a young age and my biological clock isn't ticking. Or maybe it...
    soulspin27 soulspin27 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2007

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    Maybe One Day

    Not now for sure. Marriage now will just disrupt my lifestyle now and i love it... I wanna one day but not soon...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F Nov 23, 2007

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    Eventually...

    I'd like to be married eventually...but soon?  no way.  for one, there aren't even really any prospects lol  for two...i HATE to be rushed into things b/c eventually i'll put on the brakes and be like 'wtf?' and then bail.  That's happened with my last two...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2008

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    Taking It Slowly In My Stride

    No way. Getting married, it's a big thing that should never be rushed. Many of my fellow cousins have had terrible marriages because they rushed into their vows. I will, like I do with most of my life, slowly get around to it. I need to meet a man first, step 1 is yet to be...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Nov 24, 2007

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    I just want to put it out there. I am HAPPILY married to a very loving and supportive man. He is my rock, and my best friend. I would never even think of doing anything to hurt...
    Lotusflower80 Lotusflower80 31-35, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yep been married since 07. waited till it was three days before I turned 30 and got married. She is a great mom to my kids, I have awesome kids.
    cruise77 cruise77 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 25

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    I have been married for 16 years, together 17. We married fairly young, and quickly. My husband is a good guy (overall)and there is no abuse or red flags. Though, there are...
    emk38 emk38 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    It isn't that I don't think I'll ever get married, it is that I don't think I'll ever want to get married. With divorce rates over 50% and a biased divorce court, I don't want to...
    AdArbitrium AdArbitrium 18-21, M Aug 25

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    I have been married 41 years. The first 15 were good. I stayed married for many reasons. Always the children or what I had accomplished. One thing then the other. Time went on and...
    Christmas74 Christmas74 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    its my dream also.. at my age im still single and never been married. its not too late for me to dream..hope i will find the right man for me..coz i wanna get married once and be...
    empire28 empire28 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I know many people will make judgmental comments. I don't really care. I just need to get this out. My relationships in the past have always ended with me hurt due to infidelity...
    BrittBratz BrittBratz 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    lovelyconflict lovelyconflict 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    wanderingmind86 wanderingmind86 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I would love to get married one day and have a beautiful baby. my bf said that he is open to getting married again and having more kids. maybe one day he will ask and give me his...
    LadyLyric311 LadyLyric311 22-25, F Aug 19

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    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    earsore earsore 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    angela1125 angela1125 13-15, F Aug 16

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    KHD77 KHD77 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    Paul47C Paul47C 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 15

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    I remember the first time my husband met me, there was light in his eyes, I could tell that he loved me. And I knew it was a serious relationship, as it was, we got married...
    RedrosesChris RedrosesChris 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    I am a little bi curious In N.E Ohio and would like to find a married guy or a married couple to help me with this.
    Milkman4uinOhio Milkman4uinOhio 56-60, M Aug 13

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    Wow, the past few months I've had so much stuff bottled up and just wanting to tell it to anyone but I don't even know where to start. I am some what happily married. Some what...
    Kbm1234 Kbm1234 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 12

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    legitimately get married to the person i will spend the rest of my life with. i will only marry one person my whole life. i rufuse to have any after, because the person i marry...
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    I have thought about this for years. I have a fantasy about being someone's secret wife. I want to find a married man who has a fantasy of having a second family. We would live as...
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    Married for 19 yrs to a good women. I am 54 she is 48. We have had a rocky last 10 yrs we both work hard. 2 kids. 17 &14 I caught her once with an old boy friend back when 9/11...
    Ag214 Ag214 51-55, M Aug 9

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    I like how almost all of my friends are in long term serious relationships or getting married or are married or have kids or are pregnant and I'm sitting here single, still waiting...
    Razdaman Razdaman 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I'm getting married to the most beautiful woman on earth. We picked a place to get married and dresses (mines blue hers is red) I've gotten gift from my friends. I'm can't wait, to...
    Soggysarah Soggysarah 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I can't wait to get married, me and my ex are working on things we are pretty much together but I'm still waiting for him to ask me, we have know each other for 6 years and he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 6

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    travis90 travis90 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 6

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    Sooo, i posted that question, bkus yes, im getting married next year, though ill be 19 still, i feel like im Ready. for several Reasons. 1. Ive been With my girl for 3 years by...
    vaane vaane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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