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I Am Not In a Rush to Get Married

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    Maybe One Day

    Not now for sure. Marriage now will just disrupt my lifestyle now and i love it... I wanna one day but not soon...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F Nov 23, 2007

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    Eventually...

    I'd like to be married eventually...but soon?  no way.  for one, there aren't even really any prospects lol  for two...i HATE to be rushed into things b/c eventually i'll put on the brakes and be like 'wtf?' and then bail.  That's happened with my last two...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2008

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    Taking My Time

    After spending so many years pining away with my friends over finding "the one" recently I have come to the conclusion that I am not in a rush to get married. Maybe it's the fact that I had two children at a young age and my biological clock isn't ticking. Or maybe it...
    soulspin27 soulspin27 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2007

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    Taking It Slowly In My Stride

    No way. Getting married, it's a big thing that should never be rushed. Many of my fellow cousins have had terrible marriages because they rushed into their vows. I will, like I do with most of my life, slowly get around to it. I need to meet a man first, step 1 is yet to be...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Nov 24, 2007

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    CRAZY, OBSESSIVE, PSYCHOTIC. I'm all of those and more. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, I want him with me through all that I go through. I truly love him. Being in a...
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    Okay, this page is called "I Love Rush Limbaugh" and it's here for people to discuss their fondness towards Rush, not for people to bash on him. I don't mean to sound rude, but...
    autumn506 autumn506 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I had a dream that my bf proposed. I know he wants us to be together forever and just doesn't want to rush things and I understand that. But he is in the military so it's a little...
    MarineGirlfriend0810 MarineGirlfriend0810 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    We met at school , I wasn't expecting to meet anyone .. I had kinda shut myself off from the dating world . So it came as a complete shock that someone had swept my interest the...
    Peacedout Peacedout 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    For almost two years I have been in love with someone else. The first part of my story is at: EP Link That was in Sept 2012, I also posted an update to that part of the story in...
    browneyedgirl1234 browneyedgirl1234 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
    Marieflwr1 Marieflwr1 22-25, F Mar 25

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    my mom keeps on telling me that she wants a grandchild so she told me to get married.. my best friends who's married and have kids also keep on telling me to have my own family...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I rather get married in court because just the thought of standing in front of people and saying the wrong thing or something goes wrong scares me so much, almost scares me so much...
    Silverfeather1993 Silverfeather1993 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I wish women could propose to men for marriage. Because I know if I was the man in the relationship, I would've proposed already. Have you ever just hated yourself and wondered...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Been married for 2 years, together for 6. My husband and I separated in 2012 because of his drinking problem. During our separation, a friendship between me and another man...
    jcr0610 jcr0610 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    How is it possible to be surrounded by people every day and yet feel so lonely? I got married 6 years ago and as scary and sad as it is, when I look honestly deep within myself, I...
    Lonelyskeptic Lonelyskeptic 26-30, M 13 Responses Apr 12

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    My experience started a little over a year ago...my ex left me after 21 years of marriage and so with a hurt heart and a lonely disposition, I sought out a new mate...my addict. We...
    ACKKMK ACKKMK 41-45, F Apr 12

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    I'm 24 and met my husband in college when I was 18. We got married, and we've been together for about 6 years total. I've had bad depression my whole life, and an obsessive...
    FeelsTooMuch FeelsTooMuch 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am married too. After years of feeling neglected and resentful in my marriage, I set out to have some needs met and honestly, get some attention. But I had it in my head that I...
    newvome newvome 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Wondering if anyone else here is married, has a boyfriend and their husband knows about it? My "boyfriend" is married but she don't know about me.
    confusedinSC confusedinSC 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Therapy4therapist Therapy4therapist 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am married to a functioning alcoholic. I'm 32 years old and have been married to my husband for 5 years. We have 3 kids (my son, his daughter, and our daughter). He has always...
    Jlk081981 Jlk081981 31-35 Mar 28

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    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    My whole married life has been a challenge. I've been married for over 20 years and the urges to have a connection with another woman are consuming me.
    Kamon123 Kamon123 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Lanet809 Lanet809 26-30, F Mar 31

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    sssy sssy 22-25 Apr 2

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    Ending my relationship With a married man. Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong...
    charlotte61 charlotte61 51-55, F Apr 5

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    femaleoncruiseship femaleoncruiseship 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    cheetachicklet cheetachicklet 26-30 Apr 8

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    lnvisible lnvisible 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    bunz610 bunz610 26-30, F Apr 12

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    Yes, I am married. Married to Nutella! 😂
    justingray justingray 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Technically I married my adopted cousin, but my state doesn't differentiate. As a result, we had to elope to a different state that would marry us. Our parents had a very hard time...
    ShesAVeryKinkyGirl ShesAVeryKinkyGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I have been married for 23 years this month. Through trials and tribulations lately, I have found a new lease on our marriage. I know now that the man I married is the only man I...
    AuroraDwen AuroraDwen 41-45, F 19 Responses Apr 14

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    And I don't plan on it any time soon! It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I have been married for 3 years and for the most part they have been wonderful and great. My husband is so amazing and sweet when I fell for him 6 years ago I knew he would be...
    anchoredwithher anchoredwithher 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    If I didn't get married my family would disown me, I would be put on the shelf if I am still a bachelor at the age of thirty. So in a nutshell I will be getting married.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years, we've been married for 3. We were high school sweethearts. He's a great guy, but not the most attentive... We don't share many interests or...
    oddbluebird oddbluebird 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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