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I Am Not In Love With My Husband

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    Y Do We Put Up With It ?

    i feel so fake and always puttin on a face!!!!i hate it used to love my husband so so much....now i love him but im not in  love and i hate it i feel sooo lonely all i want is to be told you look nice today anything will do....its hard my 3 kids adore him..and his a good dad...
    wotis wotis 36-40, F 14 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Lost

    I caught my husband once again searching on his cell phone how to get high on his meds (cough med/anti depressant) he was so out of it that he couldn't stand or walk, he fell about 5 times. I was done. He passed out in bed, I made sure he was ok enough to leave him. I left a note...
    ritycan ritycan 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I'm Not I Love With My Husband

    I have been married for 9 years on November 30th, but I have been with my husband since 1996. We have 2 beautiful children. The problem is, I am falling out of love. It's been a rocky road for quite some time. My husband likes to drink and when he does he drinks to get drunk. he...
    frenchie11 frenchie11 31-35 3 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Great Guy No Love

    My husband is my best friend but I'm just not in love.  I don't want to kiss him or have sex with him.  He's a wonderful person but I'm just not in love.   Honestly I don't feel anything when we kiss. I've cried a lot after sex.  I'm missing someone who...
    mesosad mesosad 31-35 11 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Scared

    I hav e been married since i was 17 now 50. We have 3 grown children. I really am not happy anymore. My husband never talks to me he has never supported me in or with anything. I have a male friend who moved away 15 yrs. ago and recently came back he has never been married. We...
    harvestor harvestor 46-50 3 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Never Been In Love With Him

    How do you describe a marriage that gives me security but I'm not in love with my husband? I cry over it because I want so desperately to be in love with with my husband but I am not and after ten years together, if it hasn't happened by now it will never happen.  His family...
    mujer661 mujer661 51-55 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Married For Five Years, No Kids, And Debating On Leaving Him

    I feel absolutely horrible. I have been with my husband for seven years, married for five, and I am not and have never been in love with him. We both want different things, and we seem to have more of a close friendship than love. I don't even enjoy having sex with him, and have...
    mickey10186 mickey10186 26-30 4 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    !confused!

    I have been with my Husband since I was 17. I am now 22 and we have been married 4 years and have a 2 year old little boy. I realized about 6 months ago that I was unhappy but here in the past month I have come to realize that I am no longer in love with my husband. Now when I...
    lostandforgetting2010 lostandforgetting2010 22-25, F Aug 25, 2012

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    I Use To Love My Hubby Alot

    MY HUBBY CHEATED WITH AN CO-WORKER FOR ALONG TIME ALL HELL BUST OPEN WHEN I FIND OUT.BUT I DIDN'T LEAVE.NOW I THINK ABOUT ALL THE DUM THINGS HE HAS DONE TO ME.I JUST DON'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE.HE IS BORING.VALENTINE'S WAS SO AWFUL.HE HAS KNOW IDEA HOW TO TREAT ME.SO I WANT A DIVORCE...
    tamhgr tamhgr 36-40 4 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    I Want To Be Divorced.

    I am 30 years old and have 3 amazingly beautiful children. The problem is that I do not love my husband. He is a great father, provider, and over all, a good husband. I just do not love him. It makes me so unhappy and I at one point I did file for divorce. I pulled the...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 10 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    Sick Of My Husband!

    If I won enough money to make it on my own I would not stay married to my husband.  He is an immature and insecure person.  My husband has always been jealous of my son (his step son).  From the very beginning he has always been mean and antagonistic toward my son...
    JuWoo JuWoo 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Am I Crazy For Not Wanting Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    I'm Not Sure

    Sometimes I feel I don't love my husband because of everything he has and is putting me through. But I'm not sure, when does that feeling go away?
    OdettesRose OdettesRose 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2009

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    I met him when I was 16 working at a pizza

    place. We moved in together 2 months later as my dad decided to abandon me. I broke up with him twice b/c I was feeling unhappy. But he always made me feel awful and guilty enough for me to return to him. I ended up marrying him thinking that there is no one else out there that...
    hjones52885 hjones52885 26-30, F Mar 19, 2014

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    Aam I Crazy For Not Wanting To Be With Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Feel Trapped

    Hi everyone, I'm Gemma I've been married go 8 years nearly. I have a 8 year old daughter and 4 year old twin girls. I haven't got a bad life but feel so bad it's not enough for me I have always loved my man unconditional, we have had many ups and downs that could of broke us and...
    Gemmz1988 Gemmz1988 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Not In Love Very Very Sad

    My husband is perfect in every way. We have two beautiful children. But I am not in love nor I am I attracted to him. In fact, I am disgusted and repulsed by him. I just gave up on love when I was young because I got my heart broken a couple of times and I am very sensitive. I...
    unhappyloser unhappyloser 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I have been married for almost 22 years.

    I was 19 when I married my husband who is 14 years older than me. When we were first married things were fine, but about 6 months into my marriage I started finding out things that he and his family hid from me while we were dating like that he has epilepsy and that he grew up...
    Heart4coco Heart4coco 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2014

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    Lonely But Not Alone...

    I am 35 years old with two children and a husband.  He is good to me, doesn't hit me, argue with me or complain, he also doesn't talk to me, help around the house, know how to pay the bills or have an opinion on anything.  He is as good of a dad as he can be and the...
    Gemini7875 Gemini7875 31-35 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Shouldn't It Be Easier?

    I've been with my husband 4yrs- married for 2 of them. We are both in out early 30s, no kids. For past 18months I've been falling out of love- He is like a bestfriend/brother to me. There is no sexual passion on my part- he on the other hand adores me, loves me, is in love with...
    Sissy13 Sissy13 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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