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I Am Not In Love With My Husband

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    Lost

    I caught my husband once again searching on his cell phone how to get high on his meds (cough med/anti depressant) he was so out of it that he couldn't stand or walk, he fell about 5 times. I was done. He passed out in bed, I made sure he was ok enough to leave him. I left a note...
    ritycan ritycan 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Shouldn't It Be Easier?

    I've been with my husband 4yrs- married for 2 of them. We are both in out early 30s, no kids. For past 18months I've been falling out of love- He is like a bestfriend/brother to me. There is no sexual passion on my part- he on the other hand adores me, loves me, is in love with...
    Sissy13 Sissy13 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    I have been married for almost 22 years.

    I was 19 when I married my husband who is 14 years older than me. When we were first married things were fine, but about 6 months into my marriage I started finding out things that he and his family hid from me while we were dating like that he has epilepsy and that he grew up...
    Heart4coco Heart4coco 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    !confused!

    I have been with my Husband since I was 17. I am now 22 and we have been married 4 years and have a 2 year old little boy. I realized about 6 months ago that I was unhappy but here in the past month I have come to realize that I am no longer in love with my husband. Now when I...
    lostandforgetting2010 lostandforgetting2010 22-25, F Aug 25, 2012

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    I'm Not I Love With My Husband

    I have been married for 9 years on November 30th, but I have been with my husband since 1996. We have 2 beautiful children. The problem is, I am falling out of love. It's been a rocky road for quite some time. My husband likes to drink and when he does he drinks to get drunk. he...
    frenchie11 frenchie11 31-35 3 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    I'm Not Sure

    Sometimes I feel I don't love my husband because of everything he has and is putting me through. But I'm not sure, when does that feeling go away?
    OdettesRose OdettesRose 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2009

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    Feel Trapped

    Hi everyone, I'm Gemma I've been married go 8 years nearly. I have a 8 year old daughter and 4 year old twin girls. I haven't got a bad life but feel so bad it's not enough for me I have always loved my man unconditional, we have had many ups and downs that could of broke us and...
    Gemmz1988 Gemmz1988 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Great Guy No Love

    My husband is my best friend but I'm just not in love.  I don't want to kiss him or have sex with him.  He's a wonderful person but I'm just not in love.   Honestly I don't feel anything when we kiss. I've cried a lot after sex.  I'm missing someone who...
    mesosad mesosad 31-35 11 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Sick Of My Husband!

    If I won enough money to make it on my own I would not stay married to my husband.  He is an immature and insecure person.  My husband has always been jealous of my son (his step son).  From the very beginning he has always been mean and antagonistic toward my son...
    JuWoo JuWoo 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Lonely But Not Alone...

    I am 35 years old with two children and a husband.  He is good to me, doesn't hit me, argue with me or complain, he also doesn't talk to me, help around the house, know how to pay the bills or have an opinion on anything.  He is as good of a dad as he can be and the...
    Gemini7875 Gemini7875 31-35 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Y Do We Put Up With It ?

    i feel so fake and always puttin on a face!!!!i hate it used to love my husband so so much....now i love him but im not in  love and i hate it i feel sooo lonely all i want is to be told you look nice today anything will do....its hard my 3 kids adore him..and his a good dad...
    wotis wotis 36-40, F 14 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Not In Love Very Very Sad

    My husband is perfect in every way. We have two beautiful children. But I am not in love nor I am I attracted to him. In fact, I am disgusted and repulsed by him. I just gave up on love when I was young because I got my heart broken a couple of times and I am very sensitive. I...
    unhappyloser unhappyloser 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Scared

    I hav e been married since i was 17 now 50. We have 3 grown children. I really am not happy anymore. My husband never talks to me he has never supported me in or with anything. I have a male friend who moved away 15 yrs. ago and recently came back he has never been married. We...
    harvestor harvestor 46-50 3 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Never Been In Love With Him

    How do you describe a marriage that gives me security but I'm not in love with my husband? I cry over it because I want so desperately to be in love with with my husband but I am not and after ten years together, if it hasn't happened by now it will never happen.  His family...
    mujer661 mujer661 51-55 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    I Want To Be Divorced.

    I am 30 years old and have 3 amazingly beautiful children. The problem is that I do not love my husband. He is a great father, provider, and over all, a good husband. I just do not love him. It makes me so unhappy and I at one point I did file for divorce. I pulled the...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    Married For Five Years, No Kids, And Debating On Leaving Him

    I feel absolutely horrible. I have been with my husband for seven years, married for five, and I am not and have never been in love with him. We both want different things, and we seem to have more of a close friendship than love. I don't even enjoy having sex with him, and have...
    mickey10186 mickey10186 26-30 4 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Aam I Crazy For Not Wanting To Be With Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    I Use To Love My Hubby Alot

    MY HUBBY CHEATED WITH AN CO-WORKER FOR ALONG TIME ALL HELL BUST OPEN WHEN I FIND OUT.BUT I DIDN'T LEAVE.NOW I THINK ABOUT ALL THE DUM THINGS HE HAS DONE TO ME.I JUST DON'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE.HE IS BORING.VALENTINE'S WAS SO AWFUL.HE HAS KNOW IDEA HOW TO TREAT ME.SO I WANT A DIVORCE...
    tamhgr tamhgr 36-40 4 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    I met him when I was 16 working at a pizza

    place. We moved in together 2 months later as my dad decided to abandon me. I broke up with him twice b/c I was feeling unhappy. But he always made me feel awful and guilty enough for me to return to him. I ended up marrying him thinking that there is no one else out there that...
    hjones52885 hjones52885 26-30, F Mar 19

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    Am I Crazy For Not Wanting Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Hi, I am new here and just needed to talk with people who would understand what I'm feeling! I love my husband, he is my true soulmate and greatest love, I never ever want to be...
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    I love my husband but he's not romantic. I know he loves me but I wish he wanted to do things for me without anything in it for him. Sometimes I just feel like his maid, cook, womb...
    marriedtomrunromantic marriedtomrunromantic 26-30 Sep 18

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    Ok I need to get this off my chest... I love my husband but there's one thing that hasn't changed or gotten better over the past 6 years! Yes sex.. I thought we would get pass the...
    ladybugluck09 ladybugluck09 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I found my husband when I was so broken and so NOT looking. For two years he was my best friend and listened to me and encouraged me. He helped me believe in myself and asked for...
    scnpctk143 scnpctk143 41-45, F Sep 16

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    That feeling when you fell in love with your best friend and he's in love with you too, everybody knows but the two of you can't admit that to each other.
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    Fell in love for the first time 20 yrs ago with a man who thought I was much older than I was. I lied about my age. I really liked him but we only saw each other off and on for a...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    I am so in love with my boyfriend of the last year and some but I have had to alienate myself from my family and friends in order to make it work.. :( I wish I could make everyone...
    Nancy1boo Nancy1boo 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I fell in love with my one of my childhood friends and he's straight. He knows I am gay and was totally supportive of me. When I told him how I felt he kinda got creeped out. After...
    lexybear32 lexybear32 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My friend is married with kids. But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    My story begins in May of 2014. I had a small circle of friends online with which I hanged out with regularly, like every single day, even if it was to talk about our daily life...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 8

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    I know this is really strange, and you'll all probably think I'm a freak haha .but I met a guy in my dreams and his name was David. It's a fun fact that you can't make up people in...
    Awkwardandsad Awkwardandsad 16-17, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I met the most awesome guy,,we became great friends, then I realized I was so much in love with him,,he's so sweet, kind,,sexy,,he's my everything,darling you mean the world to me...
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    laurenbraun10 laurenbraun10 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    GOD bless all of you. Be in love with GOD because he is in love with you. GOD is the creator of all.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F Sep 2

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    i really don't want to tell the story because i was such an idiot. this is just a warning to people, male or female. do not let a bad man or woman keep u from finding someone who...
    Chulazon Chulazon 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    Its a few days before school starts and I've been praying every night that i get my history teacher from last year again. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. i get...
    bellabee25 bellabee25 13-15, F Sep 3

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 46-50, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    This has been killing me for ages. I fall for fictional characters and I have dreams about me with them. Only girls though. I just love fictional characters. Like I read this one...
    minyoungismine minyoungismine 18-21, F Sep 4

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    I have fallen in love with my 2nd cousin and my 2nd cousin has also fallen in love with me too. At first I ignored him and my feelings, thinking they would go away. I was disgusted...
    TheMannGirl48 TheMannGirl48 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 4

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    ... I really shouldn't he goes to my school and we talk a lot we always hang out and he's like my best friend. My school went on an all day hike yesterday and I have breathing...
    Karianne6614 Karianne6614 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Last night, for the first time in over 7 years, I cried over him. Deep, heart wrenching sobs. I'm not sure why I was crying. I had done the stupid thing of reading my old diaries...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    So after reading several experiences on this site that somehow involve a TC I have seen remarkable similarities in the responses people receive for posting stories about their TC's...
    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Sorry guys I'm posting so much today! But I was digging through my email and I still have some of the emails that me (And my now former teacher!) Exchanged while we were both still...
    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I fell in love with you so quickly. You were an open book to me and i just kept reading. You told me anything I wanted to know and you didnt care that i was a complete stranger...
    wannaloveyou wannaloveyou 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    So long story short , after a divorce , and moving , I have re fallen in love with my first love . He is my best friend . He is my comfort . He is the only man who will not judge...
    kstu1 kstu1 18-21, F Sep 8

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