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I Am Not In Love With My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 104 People

    Aam I Crazy For Not Wanting To Be With Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Sick Of My Husband!

    If I won enough money to make it on my own I would not stay married to my husband.  He is an immature and insecure person.  My husband has always been jealous of my son (his step son).  From the very beginning he has always been mean and antagonistic toward my son...
    JuWoo JuWoo 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Lost

    I caught my husband once again searching on his cell phone how to get high on his meds (cough med/anti depressant) he was so out of it that he couldn't stand or walk, he fell about 5 times. I was done. He passed out in bed, I made sure he was ok enough to leave him. I left a note...
    ritycan ritycan 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Y Do We Put Up With It ?

    i feel so fake and always puttin on a face!!!!i hate it used to love my husband so so much....now i love him but im not in  love and i hate it i feel sooo lonely all i want is to be told you look nice today anything will do....its hard my 3 kids adore him..and his a good dad...
    wotis wotis 36-40, F 14 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Great Guy No Love

    My husband is my best friend but I'm just not in love.  I don't want to kiss him or have sex with him.  He's a wonderful person but I'm just not in love.   Honestly I don't feel anything when we kiss. I've cried a lot after sex.  I'm missing someone who...
    mesosad mesosad 31-35 11 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    I have been married for almost 22 years.

    I was 19 when I married my husband who is 14 years older than me. When we were first married things were fine, but about 6 months into my marriage I started finding out things that he and his family hid from me while we were dating like that he has epilepsy and that he grew up...
    Heart4coco Heart4coco 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Feel Trapped

    Hi everyone, I'm Gemma I've been married go 8 years nearly. I have a 8 year old daughter and 4 year old twin girls. I haven't got a bad life but feel so bad it's not enough for me I have always loved my man unconditional, we have had many ups and downs that could of broke us and...
    Gemmz1988 Gemmz1988 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I Use To Love My Hubby Alot

    MY HUBBY CHEATED WITH AN CO-WORKER FOR ALONG TIME ALL HELL BUST OPEN WHEN I FIND OUT.BUT I DIDN'T LEAVE.NOW I THINK ABOUT ALL THE DUM THINGS HE HAS DONE TO ME.I JUST DON'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE.HE IS BORING.VALENTINE'S WAS SO AWFUL.HE HAS KNOW IDEA HOW TO TREAT ME.SO I WANT A DIVORCE...
    tamhgr tamhgr 36-40 4 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Lonely But Not Alone...

    I am 35 years old with two children and a husband.  He is good to me, doesn't hit me, argue with me or complain, he also doesn't talk to me, help around the house, know how to pay the bills or have an opinion on anything.  He is as good of a dad as he can be and the...
    Gemini7875 Gemini7875 31-35 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Never Been In Love With Him

    How do you describe a marriage that gives me security but I'm not in love with my husband? I cry over it because I want so desperately to be in love with with my husband but I am not and after ten years together, if it hasn't happened by now it will never happen.  His family...
    mujer661 mujer661 51-55 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    I Want To Be Divorced.

    I am 30 years old and have 3 amazingly beautiful children. The problem is that I do not love my husband. He is a great father, provider, and over all, a good husband. I just do not love him. It makes me so unhappy and I at one point I did file for divorce. I pulled the...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I'm Not Sure

    Sometimes I feel I don't love my husband because of everything he has and is putting me through. But I'm not sure, when does that feeling go away?
    OdettesRose OdettesRose 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2009

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    Not In Love Very Very Sad

    My husband is perfect in every way. We have two beautiful children. But I am not in love nor I am I attracted to him. In fact, I am disgusted and repulsed by him. I just gave up on love when I was young because I got my heart broken a couple of times and I am very sensitive. I...
    unhappyloser unhappyloser 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Am I Crazy For Not Wanting Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Scared

    I hav e been married since i was 17 now 50. We have 3 grown children. I really am not happy anymore. My husband never talks to me he has never supported me in or with anything. I have a male friend who moved away 15 yrs. ago and recently came back he has never been married. We...
    harvestor harvestor 46-50 3 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Shouldn't It Be Easier?

    I've been with my husband 4yrs- married for 2 of them. We are both in out early 30s, no kids. For past 18months I've been falling out of love- He is like a bestfriend/brother to me. There is no sexual passion on my part- he on the other hand adores me, loves me, is in love with...
    Sissy13 Sissy13 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Married For Five Years, No Kids, And Debating On Leaving Him

    I feel absolutely horrible. I have been with my husband for seven years, married for five, and I am not and have never been in love with him. We both want different things, and we seem to have more of a close friendship than love. I don't even enjoy having sex with him, and have...
    mickey10186 mickey10186 26-30 4 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    I'm Not I Love With My Husband

    I have been married for 9 years on November 30th, but I have been with my husband since 1996. We have 2 beautiful children. The problem is, I am falling out of love. It's been a rocky road for quite some time. My husband likes to drink and when he does he drinks to get drunk. he...
    frenchie11 frenchie11 31-35 3 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    !confused!

    I have been with my Husband since I was 17. I am now 22 and we have been married 4 years and have a 2 year old little boy. I realized about 6 months ago that I was unhappy but here in the past month I have come to realize that I am no longer in love with my husband. Now when I...
    lostandforgetting2010 lostandforgetting2010 22-25, F Aug 25, 2012

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    I met him when I was 16 working at a pizza

    place. We moved in together 2 months later as my dad decided to abandon me. I broke up with him twice b/c I was feeling unhappy. But he always made me feel awful and guilty enough for me to return to him. I ended up marrying him thinking that there is no one else out there that...
    hjones52885 hjones52885 26-30, F Mar 19

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    I had been married for 23 years when I fell in love with another man. I had felt disconnected from my husband for a lot of years but thought I was doing the right thing by staying...
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    I suppose this is equally a question as it is an experience. I need to have the experience to express in detail what happened, and what has resulted -what I've become. I need...
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    I love him. There has been many times over our twenty four years of marriage that I have cried for him, yearned for his attention, even cursed him in every way. None of that...
    Mendmyheart Mendmyheart 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 8

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    I love my husband. He is my life, my lifesaver, my lover, friend, my everything
    4in1bodywife 4in1bodywife 36-40, F Dec 11

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    I love my husband so much I am willing to take on any pain for him.
    leaf90McC leaf90McC 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I have been with my kids father for over 14 years and I have been in love with Another man for over ten years. My husband found out and did a 360 to Try to make our Relationship...
    Rosebella14 Rosebella14 36-40 Dec 16

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    I love my husband, we have a daughter togather, we adore each even more with her in our life. And i love my ex, we are still in touch, we know each other so well that we just cant...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F Dec 12

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    I love my husband he works his *** off. I try to do what I can to help. I'm back in school to make a new career. I have been in situations where I have falling in love also with...
    kavett kavett 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    I met this really great guy over the summer. I had known him for a while actually but I never really thought about talking to him. One day he messaged me on Facebook and after a...
    pleasedonthugme pleasedonthugme 13-15, F Nov 28

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    very long post ahead. i have been in love with sonny moore/skrillex for more than 3 years. i think about him every single day. i want him to be happy more than anything. he is my...
    sonnyday5 sonnyday5 16-17 1 Response Nov 30

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    I'm seeing him for the first time a good two to three weeks. Oh how i've longed to feel his soft embrace and shrink into his chest. I long too feel him tighten his arms around me...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F Nov 30

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    Okay so I need some good advice if you can give any i'm open to suggestions.. Okay so I don't know what I am, but I do know that my best friend is all I can think about. I can hear...
    coolblue14 coolblue14 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M Dec 7

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm 24 years old and I'm just now experience what it's like to fall in love for the first time. I've never been the type of girl to just say that I love someone for the sake of...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    I am normally a sensible and practical woman. I'm working towards getting my associates degree in computer science and I have a boyfriend that I've been with off and on for a few...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I feel like everyone has this ideal person that they would fall in love with, the perfect combination of good looks, intelligence, and humor. That person is physically attractive...
    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F Dec 14

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    I'm in love with a fictional character. Only him, and for more than 10 years now. It's not the love of a fan girl for a celebrities - I'm a fan of quite a number of celebrities so...
    sannnnnn sannnnnn 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    It's an incredible feeling to have warmth inside you. To know that it's not always cold out there. I love to love and I'm in love with it. Love on every level and whenever possible...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    I wrote a story not too long ago about my love for Benedict Cumberbatch. I just want to say that I'm over my predicament and just want to impart some words of wisdom to any one who...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F Dec 18

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    We just sat down in my apartment and I told her thanks for being my friend, for being so generous with your time, and...you light up my life. Then I dropped the bomb on her when I...
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Eleven months since I met someone online who I fell in love with. It's 4 am and I'm wide awake after another 1000 mile apart argument. He always says that if we were together we...
    Gingersnapped Gingersnapped 51-55, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I think that you fall in love with different songs at different points in your life. As you change and grow, some songs stay with you and some don't. Some songs are nostalgic and...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I just realized I am in love with a guy who doesn't love me. We have been talking for months and just recently he has been talking to me less and I am realizing how much it is...
    thirdsense thirdsense 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I met my amazing boyfriend on here over a year ago and we started off as friends and later we started to date in April and I've been in love with him for a while even before we...
    mclovin31321 mclovin31321 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I'm in love with my cousin. Things haven't gone as I thought they would. But I'm grateful I have someone like her In my life. I know in a few months, things will get better. I see...
    mateo213 mateo213 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 29

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    He fell in love with me fast. Way too fast. It was crazy. We're best friends- we would talk to each other all the time. I hated that he was in love with me. Why? I didn't get it...
    AerynAVA AerynAVA 18-21, F Nov 29

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    When i saw him I was interested in his personality and looks, and the way he just made me feel with his seductive voice that sounded like the song you can never forget and loved so...
    ummmheyyy ummmheyyy 22-25, F 2 Responses