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I Am Not In Love With My Husband

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    Married For Five Years, No Kids, And Debating On Leaving Him

    I feel absolutely horrible. I have been with my husband for seven years, married for five, and I am not and have never been in love with him. We both want different things, and we seem to have more of a close friendship than love. I don't even enjoy having sex with him, and have...
    mickey10186 mickey10186 26-30 4 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Sick Of My Husband!

    If I won enough money to make it on my own I would not stay married to my husband.  He is an immature and insecure person.  My husband has always been jealous of my son (his step son).  From the very beginning he has always been mean and antagonistic toward my son...
    JuWoo JuWoo 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Aam I Crazy For Not Wanting To Be With Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    !confused!

    I have been with my Husband since I was 17. I am now 22 and we have been married 4 years and have a 2 year old little boy. I realized about 6 months ago that I was unhappy but here in the past month I have come to realize that I am no longer in love with my husband. Now when I...
    lostandforgetting2010 lostandforgetting2010 22-25, F Aug 25, 2012

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    Scared

    I hav e been married since i was 17 now 50. We have 3 grown children. I really am not happy anymore. My husband never talks to me he has never supported me in or with anything. I have a male friend who moved away 15 yrs. ago and recently came back he has never been married. We...
    harvestor harvestor 46-50 3 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    I Want To Be Divorced.

    I am 30 years old and have 3 amazingly beautiful children. The problem is that I do not love my husband. He is a great father, provider, and over all, a good husband. I just do not love him. It makes me so unhappy and I at one point I did file for divorce. I pulled the...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I met him when I was 16 working at a pizza

    place. We moved in together 2 months later as my dad decided to abandon me. I broke up with him twice b/c I was feeling unhappy. But he always made me feel awful and guilty enough for me to return to him. I ended up marrying him thinking that there is no one else out there that...
    hjones52885 hjones52885 26-30, F Mar 19

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    I'm Not Sure

    Sometimes I feel I don't love my husband because of everything he has and is putting me through. But I'm not sure, when does that feeling go away?
    OdettesRose OdettesRose 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2009

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    Am I Crazy For Not Wanting Him Anymore

    Ive been with my husband since 2006 and we have been married for 2 years and its been a very bumpy 2 years . we have been seprated since last june but have been seeing eachother off and on trying to work things out for the kids but i just cant do it anymore im just not happy i...
    munki22 munki22 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Y Do We Put Up With It ?

    i feel so fake and always puttin on a face!!!!i hate it used to love my husband so so much....now i love him but im not in  love and i hate it i feel sooo lonely all i want is to be told you look nice today anything will do....its hard my 3 kids adore him..and his a good dad...
    wotis wotis 36-40, F 14 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Great Guy No Love

    My husband is my best friend but I'm just not in love.  I don't want to kiss him or have sex with him.  He's a wonderful person but I'm just not in love.   Honestly I don't feel anything when we kiss. I've cried a lot after sex.  I'm missing someone who...
    mesosad mesosad 31-35 11 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Lost

    I caught my husband once again searching on his cell phone how to get high on his meds (cough med/anti depressant) he was so out of it that he couldn't stand or walk, he fell about 5 times. I was done. He passed out in bed, I made sure he was ok enough to leave him. I left a note...
    ritycan ritycan 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I have been married for almost 22 years.

    I was 19 when I married my husband who is 14 years older than me. When we were first married things were fine, but about 6 months into my marriage I started finding out things that he and his family hid from me while we were dating like that he has epilepsy and that he grew up...
    Heart4coco Heart4coco 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Lonely But Not Alone...

    I am 35 years old with two children and a husband.  He is good to me, doesn't hit me, argue with me or complain, he also doesn't talk to me, help around the house, know how to pay the bills or have an opinion on anything.  He is as good of a dad as he can be and the...
    Gemini7875 Gemini7875 31-35 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Shouldn't It Be Easier?

    I've been with my husband 4yrs- married for 2 of them. We are both in out early 30s, no kids. For past 18months I've been falling out of love- He is like a bestfriend/brother to me. There is no sexual passion on my part- he on the other hand adores me, loves me, is in love with...
    Sissy13 Sissy13 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Never Been In Love With Him

    How do you describe a marriage that gives me security but I'm not in love with my husband? I cry over it because I want so desperately to be in love with with my husband but I am not and after ten years together, if it hasn't happened by now it will never happen.  His family...
    mujer661 mujer661 51-55 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Not In Love Very Very Sad

    My husband is perfect in every way. We have two beautiful children. But I am not in love nor I am I attracted to him. In fact, I am disgusted and repulsed by him. I just gave up on love when I was young because I got my heart broken a couple of times and I am very sensitive. I...
    unhappyloser unhappyloser 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I Use To Love My Hubby Alot

    MY HUBBY CHEATED WITH AN CO-WORKER FOR ALONG TIME ALL HELL BUST OPEN WHEN I FIND OUT.BUT I DIDN'T LEAVE.NOW I THINK ABOUT ALL THE DUM THINGS HE HAS DONE TO ME.I JUST DON'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE.HE IS BORING.VALENTINE'S WAS SO AWFUL.HE HAS KNOW IDEA HOW TO TREAT ME.SO I WANT A DIVORCE...
    tamhgr tamhgr 36-40 4 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    I'm Not I Love With My Husband

    I have been married for 9 years on November 30th, but I have been with my husband since 1996. We have 2 beautiful children. The problem is, I am falling out of love. It's been a rocky road for quite some time. My husband likes to drink and when he does he drinks to get drunk. he...
    frenchie11 frenchie11 31-35 3 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Feel Trapped

    Hi everyone, I'm Gemma I've been married go 8 years nearly. I have a 8 year old daughter and 4 year old twin girls. I haven't got a bad life but feel so bad it's not enough for me I have always loved my man unconditional, we have had many ups and downs that could of broke us and...
    Gemmz1988 Gemmz1988 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I met this guy two months ago and we fell head over heels in love. The only problem is that he has been married for 16 years and told me that he is getting his affairs in order...
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    I married when i was really young. I was too young and when I look back now, I married for all the wrong reasons. I married my husband to get away from all the abuse I was getting...
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    I have been married 38 years. I love my husband. He had a horrible childhood. There have been two incidents of my husband getting into a phone/internet relationship with another...
    fearandloathing333 fearandloathing333 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Love my husband. He's wonderful. Takes care of our family and works hard to provide for us. He's a quiet sorta guy but can put his foot down when he needs to, and he needs to do...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F Jul 6

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    i fell in love with someone i meant playing minecraft but i live in The USA and she lives in the Phillipeans
    Madmantas Madmantas 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    This is not infatuation, I've been infatuated before and this is completely different...I've been married 3 and 1/2 years and I love my husband though we have a rocky marriage...
    galaxyrea galaxyrea 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Well a little over 3 years ago I was skimming thru meet me and saw this guy I Thought was really cute I said hey like two or three times we finally kept in touch on and off for a...
    daddysprincess2026 daddysprincess2026 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    By choosing a bride 15-17 years younger, a man can cut his risk of premature death by 20 per cent. Even choosing a wife seven to nine years younger will reduce his risk of dying...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M Jun 25

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    Okay so I fell in love with someone that I met on plenty of fish. Biggest mistake of my life! We got married and everything changed. He turned into be the biggest ******* I have...
    kelbear kelbear 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    I believe if two people are in love with each other the rest of the world disappears when they look into each other's eyes. I want to give myself to you completely. Loving...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    It all started when i was 11 i went to Guatemala to visit my family, when i met this cute kid one year older then me, we hung out a lot since he lived next door to my grandmas...
    Siomara Siomara 18-21 Jul 7

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    I met this girl when I was 12..I was too young to understand what is love.she was 17..I remember clearly how beautiful her back was and the way she walks. I never seen anthing...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 7 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm in love with someone but I have no idea if they feel the same way, I love everything about them and have a million pictures with them. But ever since school ended it's become...
    princess105 princess105 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    There's this guy and we've been talking for almost two months now. And in those two months, we've just became friends in an instant. We talk all day and night 24/7. We tell each...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F Jun 24

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    So I haven't been on here for over a year, mostly just doing a lot of figuring myself out. I also started college last year so that took up most of my time. I started thinking I...
    StephanieEnjolras StephanieEnjolras 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    So I have a best friend. I've known him for years and fell in love with him soon after we started getting close. We go to school together, talk everyday and all that. Over the past...
    Iamevolved Iamevolved 16-17, F Jun 24

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    It's feel good knowing somewhere I can just let all my feelings out. Without embarrassing myself and thinking whether or not I should have said the things I would of said. You see...
    Ihadadream123 Ihadadream123 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Alright, okay. I really just need to get this out there, even if it is to a community of strangers. I would also like to apologize in advance for how long this may be. I am deeply...
    7Questions 7Questions 13-15, M Jun 25

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    Six Months Ago, on Christmas Day, at 7:30 PM, Unjusted and I met irl for the first time. It was an awkward meeting. We had chatted extensively online for several months in the...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 25

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    I feel in love with my best friend as he confessed to me that he fell in love with some else... A boy.
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I have a huge crush on this guy from the same club as me. We were from the same batch. However he was the secretarial head of the club while I was just a member. Reasons being, he...
    missimperfecttt missimperfecttt 18-21, F Jun 26

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    I have a huge crush on this guy from the same club as me. We were from the same batch. However he was the secretarial head of the club while I was just a member. Reasons being, he...
    missimperfecttt missimperfecttt 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Hello, I know some of you used to enjoy reading my stories so I am sorry that I don't post as often as before. Right now it is summer and I will not see him until september so you...
    Missinghim99 Missinghim99 13-15, F Jun 26

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    Well. I guess this is gonna be the hardest thing I've ever had to do, and I'm thankful that I haven't had to get through many bad things. This is by far the hardest.. Being in love...
    Ihadadream123 Ihadadream123 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I've always loved talking to online strangers. There is something about the interaction that I continually craved. The thrill of getting to know someone miles away, the thrill of...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I feel sick. I don't know how I can continue living normally if I continue to be in love with her. Everything she does makes me fall in love with her more and more, I can't stop...
    janedoe1993 janedoe1993 18-21, F Jun 28

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    YOu better choose number two. You would not have fallen in love with number two if you really loved number one....
    tsdia tsdia 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I had my first crush back in the year 2002 (omg :-) its a decade ago), she was my same neighborhood, same school and everything, it all started in the 7th standard. She...
    Anirudhbasutkar Anirudhbasutkar 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 28

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